"Living in your purest natural authenticity is medicine for everyone"
Yes!
Do you think you would/could ever make a video talking about how you healed your relationship with your parents and came to a place of forgiveness and acceptance? I am dealing with this currently and it feels impossible to do, even though I want to get there SO badly.
Thinking out loud: maybe it helps to see how they are raised by their parents, do some family dynamic system work, and see the similarities. Often parents give you what they have gotten from their parents. And of course it's sad that they didn't change bad patterns. Some parents try to give you the best of their ability, even if it didn't work. Other parents might leave or do bad things (I don't know your situation), and about that I will say: you can choose your own new family. Forgiving means letting go for yourself. You don't have to accept/right the behaviour that happened, but you are worth it to find people you feel supported by and focus your energy on that
I also think sometimes you can't heal it. It depends on the amount of trauma. For me healing can also be stepping out of it. I don't have to forgive or love them.
I love that you talk about not being excited in the same way other are, I'm very "chill" and I always worry that people perceive me as boring or unexcitable, but its just who I am.
my two kids have aided tremendously in my growth and consciousness journey. one day while raising my voice to my then-2 year old, I realized that my voice was my parents, not my own. I saw how i was repeating generational trauma and from that point on i've healed SO much and learned things that I wish my inner child got to learn. Im so thankful that I can integrate these lessons to my children since I never had the chance. how beautiful healing can be for ourselves and the collective!! thank you for sharing your lessons and wisdom for others
Right there with you, mama! It is so challenging but so rewarding to do this work within ourselves and for our kids! ❤️❤️
As a mother to a 1 and 3 year old ❤ I love hearing other parents heal this and NOT pass it to next generation. It's hard work but our children and us deserve it.
literally crying cas of how much I love this human giving me the comfort I didn’t even know I needed
I feel so lucky and DEEPLY blessed that the people who actually see me and understand me ARE my parents ❤
randomly started sobbing when you discussed feeling embarrassed after social interactions. i'm so grateful for your realness.
You’re really needed Hitomi. I’m so thankful for the light you bring into my life. Thank you for making me feel more normal about feeling my feelings and being my true self.
There's just something about you and your channel that always brings me back for more! You create magic out of every video and you inspire all of us, well done beautiful soul! Much love always! Keep on spreading your light on us!
The way you navigate expectations and reality touches the primal concerns of how we grow up. Your energy is so self assured that it's an energy goal for others.
"living in your purest natural authenticity is medicine for everyone" love this so much
I have watched you since I was 16 when I got my first really deep depression, and ever since then you have helped me accepting myself, I am 23 now, love from sweden ❤️
I can say that the part of having to match peoples energy and living with roommates and not wanting to be social straight away Is Me. I’m also very chill and my tone of voice is more on the mellow side. It’s something that I have to learn how to do and just be my authentic self without having to pretend to be something else.
Dude. I’m so happy I’ve found you. Not only can I look within my 37 year old self & heal old wounds, but I can take these pieces of info for my 12 year old son so that he doesn’t have to have as much pain around such topics. Thank you for sharing. You’re incredible!! 💕
I realized lately that my mother has borderline personality disorder. I still have a lot of emotional trauma from growing up and finally I can accept it and believe myself. I am fully concentrating on healing right now and you are a big Inspiration for me!:)
I can relate to having a mother who has a mental health disorder. I have no relationship with her, my father, and the rest of my family in California and my native Italy. So I can definitely relate to what you went through.
I needed this so bad. I honestly started crying because my voice in my head can be so mean and I really need to work on unconditional acceptance
I am so beyond grateful for you, when you mentioned the part about matching others energy I have NEVER related to anything so much, I am also the type that is very calm just nod my head and I am not always energetic and giddy but that does not mean I am not happy or excited and I used to feel so bad for it and journal about it but I know that its okay to be that way you are such an inspiration to me its beyond words thank you for your existence in this universe, to share it with you and experience you is a blessing ( even if its through the screen energy speaks volumes ) x
Thank you for uploading this,I'm 18 yo black girl in Italy and I've been feeling lost lately, I just realized that I needed to hear this.
Thank you so much💜
Her videos are so healing. I always watch them alone because they speak to my highest truth and I have to be in my own presence to be honest with myself.
I just turned 13 and my parents are not people to look up to but I just accepted that I am on my own path either with my family or not i still love them.💗
literally just spent the past little while binging your content to try to help me with a bit of a tougher day, and then you post! so perfect, thank you.
Needed to hear this today! Practicing just being present more and not getting so caught up in who I am going to be and that all parts of me are always existing 💜 Love your videos!
You’re such an inspiration Hitomi, always reminding us to be the authentic version of ourselves, which is so difficult in todays society ❤️
Thank you so much for this video, you're helping me and so much more people, so I hope you feel proud of yourself because you’re a kind and good person / ilyy
Ive never been this early! I love you Hitomi, thank you for creating such a ethereal portal on the internet and beyond. Much gratitude to you❤️
This resonated SO much. Thank you for making me feel not so alone
I've been watching you for years, Hitomi. Thank you so much for always providing us with the most honest, raw, authentic advice. it really is priceless. sending you so much love xxxx
The compassion you show yourself is so genuine that in turn, I can feel it for myself 💖 thank you for your kind words!
:) this was such a beautiful message to hear, it felt like a warm hug and confirmation from god that i need to keep going with my intentional healing💗
This video actually helped me so much! I always feel so guilty with what I say or if I act too mellow in social situations but this made me realise that it‘s alright not to adapt to others!! Thank you xx
This was beautiful, I really resonate with what you are saying. The subtle deepening of lessons learned earlier in life, its beautiful 🥰
Hitomi, thank you so much for existing with us
Hi Hitomi! Thank you so much for all the videos. I was able to say NO to strengthen my YES thanks to you. My whole life has changed and I am more than thankful for discovering you!
You have no idea how happy I get when you upload!!!It literally makes my year 👑👑👑
This was so freakin on point and validating Hitomi 😫 thank you for sharing ❤️🥹
I LOVE YOU, i relate to you so much, im happy that youre speaking about things i wish so many people know about
It is truly a gift to be able to listen to Hitomi's words of wisdom, helping so many souls ❤❤
this video addressed exactly what i’ve been struggling with, thank you for sharing hitomi💕
Wow, thank you! What you said about boundaries really stuck with me. THANK YOU!😊
I love all the points you made in this video. Thank you for all the thoughts you shared and also for your guidance on my spiritual journey✨💛
Every videos you made are so precious, healing and full of magic and love... I don't know how to express it more clearly but I feel home when I listen to your videos ❤
I don’t know what it is today, I’ve been very emotional. Seeing and hearing the first 20 seconds of your video I just cried. Because i see a lot of myself in you. Seeing you thrive has opened my eyes up that I can be myself. I can forgive myself. I too can thrive. You always help bring me to a sense of elevation Hitomi. Thank you for sharing your energy and your journey as always. It is felt on so many levels.
oh my goodness, I appreciate you existing so much. the feelings and thoughts you share always make me feel so validated and seen.
You can put words on my inner thought and on the way I deeply feel about life, it's soooo good to hear this from outside ❤️ And thank you so much for the courage you have to share this on CZcams
thank you so much💚💚💚it’s always so healing to hear your honesty-you make me feel seen🙏🏼💫
I think sometimes people just show up or a video like this to guide us to thread better in our life. It is reassuring the feelings, people and the fear in our lives are real and we need to own it up and move through these feelings with little bit of self love. Thanks for the wisdom Hitomi :)
Over months I follow you I see your growth, and I'm growing with you. Thank you.
I have grown up with you as a person in last couple of years and just listening to your voice sends signals to my brain that it's a safe space. I m going to play this video in the background as affirmations whenever I will have dissociations and doubts.
Hitomi this video is so beautiful, you continue to elevate in yourself and how you spread your learnings to others🌙
we cherish you too! thank you for this Hitomi!!
Hitomi you are inspiring. Thank you so much!😊 You remind me to always be grateful in my life and to love myself more. Everyday I feel blessed.
I sincerely thank you for releasing such videos that help guide me when I don’t even have the strength to move on. Your videos help me a lot to get back into my authenticity when I often fall out of it. The feeling when so much negativity accumulates inside and so many unnecessary thoughts, energy (I don’t even know what to call it). It is at these stages that you allow me to wake up. I don’t know how it works, but after watching, awareness of many situations comes and inner peace appears. As if the fog disappears and clarity comes. Saved me once again! Thank you! My question is, what channels/pages do you follow that help you in your spirituality?
Your words really touched my soul. I love how you are able to put so much gratitude and love into words that inspire :)
We love the ramble too Hitomi 💖 you always remind me to be on the present moment ✨💖
I literally just wrote a song about just wanting to create a safe space for the people I love. I love watching your videos because it feels like hanging out with a friend who gets me and who’s thinking about what I’m thinking about. Very small but very impactful in this rather lonely season. Much love to you, Hitomi! And thanks for sharing your wisdom and co-regulating with us! Have a lovely evening :)
i have chills, amazingly spoken thank you sunshine ❤️ loads of love to you
this is so beautiful hitomi. bowing down to your grace and sweet knowing heart, i thank you and wish you sweetness in your days 🤍🙇♀️
im so grateful for you, the end of this video specifically touched me, so beautiful.
I love this so much. Especially the part about dressing for the male gaze and just being comfortable in the clothing you already own ! THANK YOU FOR THIS MEDICINE
thats a precious talk, I even took notes.. I just love the vibe, so calming. thank you precious ✨
I love the part about being comfortable with not always matching with people’s energy. I have people in my life.. who I love dearly, who want me to show up for them in this exciting, energetic person but at times I just want to celebrate them through smiling or just being calm up but still celebrating them. Like I don’t want them to think that I don’t care or that I’m jealous or something negative, it’s just I’m not in that energetic field right now to show up like that, but I’m still proud of their successes… and I’m glad You brought that up hitomi bc I always felt like I was the odd one out or would be scared to get deemed as a “bitchy” or less exciting friend who’s probably jealous 😂😭.
i wish i could like this video more than once. i'll definitely be returning to rewatch. thank you so much hitomi ♡
Hi hitomi!! Your present energetic embodiment and speaking of truth moved me so much on such a deep and profound level 🥺 i have been with you through out your beautiful journey from the beginning up till today, i resonate in the loving and compassionate awareness you are in and i love you and honor your presence eternally! You are my number one earth angel i appreciate you so much i hope you notice this ✨😘 much much love from the philippines ☺️
thank you so much Hitomi, you're like a big sister to me 💕
This video is almost triggering because I relate so much to these experiences and lessons mentioned. This one's a gem, thank you for sharing x
Thank you for sharing what you have learned that can also be applied and resonate with what is going on in our lives ❤️
I wanted to take this moment to say how empowering this video was - I admire your courage to speak your truth, to share your journey and choose to be vulnerable. It inspired me to strive to speak my truth as well, and for that, I am truly grateful.
just had an amazing 20th bearthday celebration and now your new video came out! thank you for this gift! 💚 love your energy. it's such an inspiration 🧡
That was amazing to watch and more importantly to me, it was incredible to feel all of that with you!
Thank you for another wonderful video Hitomi 💕
You have been a big inspiration for me to start creating my own videos and it has been such a freeing creative experience
By healing and showing up as your most authentic self you allow others to do the same and that is beautiful.
This is probably the most important content ever created. You make the universe a better place with everything you do...thank you for being.
Thank you for this video Hitomi. I’ve been struggling with my acne these past couple months. Sometimes it’s hard for me to even look at myself in the mirror. I’m really working on trying to be ok with this part of myself but it isn’t easy. Your videos like these really help me with this journey I’m on of learning to love myself fully. Thank you and sending so much love 💕
I so agree with being your authentic self! ❤️
Thank you for sharing the spiritual plateau. I’m currently experiencing too, it helps me to think that, “It’s normal and ok. I’m still on the right path.” ☺️
I’ve love to see you make a video on how to help others heal from their trauma, especially if they don’t talk about it a lot or are less spiritually tuned in
Thank you so much for sharing so much comfort, growth, wisdom, and love to us through your videos and presence. Its so beautiful and pure to see all those living in their purest authentic selves through healing and bc of that offering healing to those around as well. Much love to all those healing or struggling, life is a journey and you too are valid and filled with so much light and pure energy, we just have to find it within ourselves, stay true to you and surround yourself with the people and things that fill your soul with joy and peace 💓
i cherish you thankyou for being your self and vulnerable w us i really appreciate it💗
I feel like whenever you head towards your journey and real self you kind of naturally become the most beautiful version of yourself and it's clearly visible, you can somehow feel it inside out...
And thank you for sharing your lovely wisdom with the world🤗
Sending loads of love and good vibes 💞
thank you for being such a divine inspiration and mirror. so much power in this video !
i relate to you a lot and your words bring me a lot of comfort. it feels good to know that i can simply be me, thank you
this is actually the best video ever. thank u so much for putting my feelings into words
Your videos are like a breath of fresh air 🌬. Thank you and keep being your most authentic, healthy self 🧡!
your reflection resonate perfectly with mine right now... that's crazy. I feel you so much, you seem to be my subconscience talking to me!
This video spoke to me on so many different levels. I am almost 28 and feel more lost now then I did when I was in my teenage years. Thanks for your insight Hotomi it helps me realize I am not inadequate, i am not alone, that I am valid and I am just human. I often feel love for strangers and you’re one of them. I really want to sit with you under a tree and talk for hours, then laugh form our bellies. I just love who you are! ❤️✨
Your channel makes me feel so validated. Thank you really! Growing up in a country like Nigeria, my younger self needed to hear all these truths.
Soo helpful! Thank you Hitomi, this is exactly what I needed right now
This has been tremendously helpful, thank you. 🙏♥️🥰
I've been binge watching your videos for 3 days now they r soo good and helpful ♡♡♡
Very raw and real , per usual, love your mind and aura ❤️
Thank you. I'm a new viewer, struggling with self-acceptance, feelings of belonging, and a general sense of purpose. Your videos speak to the quiet, unseen parts of myself that needed a hug. I am forever grateful for your willingness to teach in ways that affirm and give life.
Beautiful video! I was struggling today and had saved this to watch.. so helpful! Thank you Hitomi, sending you a big hug ❤
ILYSM 🤍 thank you for being you Hitomi my inner child & light are so grateful for you 🙏🏼
You literally validate my existence, listening to you I always resonate deeply and that normalises my experiences/thoughts. Thank you 💖
I get excited when I see you've posted. Its getting a dose of ethereal magic.
my love for you & your teachings are forever expanding
I resonate with you very much! Thank you for sharing and being able to express all those thoughts with such eloquence.
I haven’t watched your videos in a while, and I’ve been going through a lot of mental health issues and disconnect from my spirituality due to it. I came back and watched this today and I really think God led me here for a reason. I really needed to hear this especially today. Thank you ❤
hey, I wanna say thank you deeply for this video. I'm such a strong scorpio baby and so many things you've said hit so close to home, and there is so many things you shared that I'm just learning right now. so thank you ❤️
Hitomi needs her own podcast. I would be a faithful listener 🙏🏽🔮✨
Yees that’s an excellent idea 🙌🏻
SAMEEEE her voice is so comforting & she is so insightful & eloquent💚✨
I know, I thought that a while back to. I’m here for it!!!
Her visuals are so comforting though
Would love this!