I made a terrible decision and hurt the one I love the most. This song is my anthem to be better because being a loving husband and father is all I ever wanted and I lost sight of my true priorities. Never again.
First step in bettering yourself/growing is admitting your mistakes/flaws or wrongdoing and not making the same errors over again. Idk you but I’m proud of you for being able admit where u went wrong at and wanting to make things right.. not just for yourself but for your family as well. I pray everything works out for you and your family. I pray they’re able to move forward with forgiveness. ❤ all love & happiness!
*This comment has nothing to do with autism!!* You folks need to find some other way to identify besides "I'm autistic". My son is autistic but his life doesn't revolve around his diagnosis. You're holding yourself a back if you can't see anything within yourselves beyond your diagnosis. My son is also a forester. He is a strong, smart, reliable, trustworthy, hard-working man. He is a good financial planner who has invested thousands into his retirement even though he's not even 25 yet. Are you anything *besides* autistic?! Or is that your whole identity?!....
I know it hits hard guess my heads just not in the right place right now and things are getting hard but i mean I woke up realizing the decade has gone by and I just really want more time
What y'all talking about this guy selling out arenas an stage show, his music goes very far, the media don't publicize him much but he's perfect where he at with his music
The sad part is that my family was the first people to teach me that if I wanted love I would have to go through the pain. So that's why I still listen to this.
Because his songs don’t promote hate and violence, which in the end is what they want. Happiness and true love will always trump any amount of money or power. They know if we would all come together and love each other their power over us would crumble in their hands right before their eyes.
Check my 2 songs out from my album on my channel that I will be finally releasing in january. You won't be disappointed I don't curse either with my rhythm and Poetry.
Besides 'How could you leave us', I have never cried so hard listening to any of his other songs. I grew up in a single parent household, and my mum gave me everything, she was my caretaker, as well as the families - she made a lot of sacrifices for that to happen. The part where the father is walking his daughter down the aisle really got me - I will never have that. Instead I have my mum. This video demonstrates the true circle of life, from birth to death. No one wants to bury their loved ones. No one should, but that is not how life goes. It's never easy, but it goes on, "if you want love." NF is a true artist, and an inspiration to us all. One of my many goals this year is to see him live. His fame is seriously under appreciated.
Cardi b is famous than nf cuz people dont like the real stuff they just want sex and other things related to it which given to them by those singers.Only some people have the real ability the message behind each and every song of NF . In other words you can say half of earth's population is dumb so dont bother let them be it
NBA Toenail You’re right, that is a simple answer. Here’s the real reason: Cardi B and other mumble rappers appeal to the world; there’s more of them then us (being unbelievers and believers respectively) but as long as we live in this sinful world, it will always be this way. I don’t like it, but it is the truth.
Cardi b or like the entire Kardashian family get surgery to have guys give them money or buy there shit, but unnatural, many rappers fit in to make money and spend on useless shit, real artists are just greatful to spread a message with there fans
Benthejoe No, you want the real reason? It's because not everyone cares about lyrics. Personally I don't. I just want music that makes me bob my head to that shit and that's how most people feel. If you're depressed, you need help. Listening to music about depression isn't gonna help with shit besides making you more depressed
Played this song about 5,000 times during my girl's pregnancy, and it's the first song my daughter started moving too, she passed away at 12 days old , on Easter Sunday in 2019, me and her mother aren't speaking right now, and it's absolutely killing me yo, and this is the only song that's keeping me alive at this point man....
Hey man, no matter what you are here and you are here for a reason. I think lot of people need to hear this but you definitely need to hear this, you matter man! Life is hard but you can't stop fighting 💪. Your baby is looking down and watching you. Make her proud and show her your strength! I know it doesn't make sense at times, I've almost givin up myself. I'm now 45 and I still don't have a clue but I find things to continue to live for. Keep going you never know what is in store for you. Hit me up if you need someone to talk to.
I'm glad I seen these comments today. I can't tell you how close I was too giving up this week, smh Monday I went too collect all of my belongings and get my truck from our house I got for us, and this woman already got a dude living with her already, that shit almost broke me, it took every fiber in me too get back in my pickup and just leave ... idk why gods putting me through these things the last 5 years , but I'm not happy about it the slightest bit.
This song taught me that if the love is worth it, then it's worth working through whatever that may be. Pain, trauma, loss, hatred, insurmountable odds, setbacks, things that could make you want to lose hope and give everything up. The love is always worth it and can heal all these things in time.
Damn man. Found this song after I went through my...issues. It took a lot to get through it. I saw many doctors, talked to many therapist, and one thing I'll always regret is what I put my mom through. She loved me so much and I paid her back with worry, neglect, selfishness, and hurt. I was angry. I was depressed. I was sometimes angry AND depressed. To this day she worries about me if I don't call her for a few days and I'm 21 years old. I think it took me a long time to figure out that my pain was temporary, and that it too shall pass. I hope nobody has to go through what I did. But I know people do and if that's you, if you feel helpless, I want you to reach out. Tell somebody you trust. It doesn't have to be a doctor or a therapist. Your mom, your dad, your brother, your sister, your best friend, a close family member, your girlfriend, your boyfriend. And they will make sure you are safe. I love you
Jerry and Tom died from ligma Challenge I love NF too but eminem is 10x better. Most people don't even think Eminem is a lyrical genius because his lyrics go over their heads lol... that how good he is.
The first time I heard this song I burst into tears because it cut right to the core of me--I'm too guarded, I keep everyone at arm's length. And it's lonely and isolating. But...if you want love, you really do have to go through the pain. I have to learn to take the risk of getting hurt if I ever want to have the attachments I crave. I had already been working on that aspect of myself, but the lyrics hit me like a damn truck
I’m exactly like you. I crave intimacy, but I have a really big fear of vulnerability. I’m also currently working on that in therapy. I hope everything works out for you!
I cried the first few times I heard this song, too, but it hit close to home for a reason opposite to yours. I love a lot and care a lot. I did this for my partners, and my love was never reciprocated. Instead, they shared that love with one another and isolated me themselves. It was so lonely seeing someone you loved for 6 years change in all the wrong ways and lose love for me right before my eyes. Even the trust I put in them was broken. Love is scary, but there are some good people out there. I hope you find a person who can take good care of you and make you not want to isolate. Stay strong! ♡
@@helloimchan6751 thank you, you as well 💜 the reason I've become so guarded was childhood abuse, so in a way I'm also dealing with having trusted and loved the wrong people and being terribly hurt by it. I wish us both healing and love!
Here i am thinking 40 is kinda old but it really aint, tom brady is older than u and still playing with the pros, dang my dad is just about 40,but yeah try listening to How could you leave us by nf, or let you down, how could you leave us is the saddest one for me because i relate
My first dog just passed. She never left my side from 21-30 years old. Letting go of that, cuts extremely deep. The deeper the love, the deeper the pain when its gone.
My sweet boy has been gone 2 years in March. We had 12 years with him. It still hurts every day but it has gotten easier . He was an old boy and in a lot of pain so it is comforting knowing he isn’t hurting anymore . But I don’t ever want another dog . Not bc I’m scared or the hurt of another dog dying , just bc I don’t think I could ever love another dog like I loved him.
This guy can sing, raps real stuff, doesn't cuss, doesn't mumble, what else can you ask for? and still he is underrated...I hate this world, I seriously do
100 subs? 9 million monthly listeners on Spotify alone.. Yeah sure "underrated" buddy. I hate people like you that throw underrated around even though they're clearly not. You probably call drake underrated ffs
Crazy how this song is hitting me so hard right now. I’ve just found these beautiful lyrics. I’m 3 years late, but in another 3 years, I’ll look back and this song will become a memory. Life is hard.
Life is very hard. I come to hear it from time to time. Right now I'm struggling with some things. And it seems to ease the feelings. Keep your head up. The hard times do not last forever.
I felt this in my fucking soul....no one told me either. I guess that's what happens when you grow up without role models....My life is so fucked up when it comes to love. I've hurt everyone I've ever loved and it just fucking sucks. I'm trying to hold on but it's just so hard..I wish the lord would just answer my prayers.
Most rappers usually talk about sex and drugs but NF keeps it real talking about situations that surrounded his life making his connection with his fans feel closer to him that’s why I prefer NF over all the rappers in the industry of rap and music overall
Don't forget, he's a christian rapper after all, his label is a christian rap label. It would be weird if he would rap about sex and drugs all the time
I just need some time, I'm tryna think straight I just need a moment in my own space Ask me how I'm doin', I'll say "okay, " yeah But ain't that what we all say? Sometimes I think back to the old days In the pointless conversations with the old me Yeah, back when my momma used to hold me I wish somebody woulda told me If you want love, you gon' have to go through the pain If you want love, you gon' have to learn how to change If you want trust, you gon' have to give some away If you want love, if you want love Yeah, as a kid I used to think life Is moving so slow, I watch it go by Look out the window on my bus ride I thought the world was so small, through my closed eyes I've always tried to control things In the end that's what controls me Maybe that's why I'm controllin' I wish somebody woulda told me If you want love, you gon' have to go through the pain If you want love, you gon' have to learn how to change If you want trust, you gon' have to give some away If you want love, if you want love The older I get, I feel like I'm always tryna save time Talkin' to the voices in my head, they make me think twice Tellin' me it doesn't mean it's wrong because it feels right I'm scared that one day I wake up and wonder where the time go Talk about the past like it's the present while I rock slow I'll sit in the living room and laugh with kids of my own And tell 'em If you want love, you gon' have to go through the pain I wish you woulda told me If you want love, you gon' have to learn how to change I wish somebody woulda told me If you want trust, you gon' have to give some away You gon' have to give If you want love, if you want love If you want love, if you want love
Found out my biological father passed away last night, and I'm finding it real hard to care. I grew up in the children's home because of that man but now I have to deal with the aftermath of his short life. And I'm not sure how to feel about it. Angry because I have to now clean out his apartment, of which I don't even know the location of. Sad that the person that contributed to my being on this planet is gone. Or indifferent because he was never a part of my life....... Either way this song is speaking to me right now.
I learned how to change, if you want love. You must love yourself first. I had to lose myself to find myself. 11 Months 8 Days Clean from Heroin. - Age 24.
@@PCerdos In time, Bro. I basically gave up and surrendered my love life to Him. And then He blessed me with an amazing woman. In time, Bro. And I'm 26, lol
His music hits hard specially when you understand mental illness. This life it has been so tough. It is crazy where I'm at and now things keep bad happening. I've been trying so hard. And I love this song so real. I look at my daughter knowing she will keep growing up. Blessing of my life
Man I’m crying because my mom is sick very sick I’m worried something bad will happen I pray to god that he helps her because he’s our only savior and he loves us may god be with us in our daily lives amen UPDATE: She is finally healed she ended up needing surgery but finally healed thanks to you all for praying for her 🙏🏼😀😀❤️❤️
Simply Free thanks man I can’t stop crying my parents are in bed asleep but my mom is super sick I hear her coughing and in pain I’m only 14 I’m scared but I pray to god she’s been sick for 1 week now hasn’t got out of bed either.
A lot of people are frustrated with NF not getting the recognition he deserves. I feel like we should be happy because look at the people they do recognize! 😳
Then again, this is 2019. Leave your Grandma alone, she's stuck in the past where everything happens so fast it's not even 'real'. This is a real deal, so keep on doing it! And it's much harder to actually sing and rap in some of his songs :P lol Also, I know it's a joke but huehue, what if that's an actual case?
AMIT KASHYAP nobody want ur love just fuck off and take all creep 1320 millions and leave the universe.... don’t tryna act white when ur not .. god bless white rappers
Pablo of SB19 brought me here. He's such a huge fan of NF. Now, I understand. Their group is also underrated. I hope real artists get the respect they deserve. Props to you all.
Watching this after becoming a parent. This song hits differently. NF this is just a masterpiece. Video is so layered and speaks a thousand words in itself. Thank you for this.
Cameron Slagell I thought it was a song about how relationships can be hard, but it’s actually about how relationships could be hard at times but they’re worth it in the end :)
NF is one of few rappers that I manged to find at the right time in my life.. His Music was a message of hope when I thought I would never make it out. It wasn't until the start of year that everything changed. NF inspired me to take my pain and put it into my own songs to spread a message the same way he does. No matter what you are going through - you are always capable of doing so much more than you ever know. Don't let anyone make you feel like you are worthless! Use your pain as fuel to move forward and better yourself as a person. Everything will be fine as long as you don't give up.
Omg just stop already... You comment that under every single video of almost every famous musician. It's ridiculous how you try to pretend to like the music and how you "found them at the right time" just fuck off... I'm sorry but that's mad annoying.
Aidan VanZile sometimes it’s overthinking, sometimes it’s standing there feeling nothing, sometimes it’s feeling everything, and honestly, it’s comforting just listening the music and letting everything overcome you and coming out of it feeling lighter, happier. Nothing’s wrong with you, we all need moments to do nothing, just sit/stand there. It’s normal, but we all deal with stuff in different ways, some people let it out on an object, or a human, others bottle it up and let it out, others, they bottle it up, and keep it inside. Places like the shower and rain make me calmer, because as the water is an outlet for me, I can cry, I can stand there doing nothing. Stay strong- you are not alone 💗💕
@@samiyarehman7742 Bro its an nf song. Its I'll Keep On. But no i get what your saying i have been obsessing over nf for the last 3 years. If it wasn't for him I wouldn't be here. Nf was my therapy, he helped me through so much shit. Same i love the rain,the rain is so calming , how it washes over you. Check out dreams i dig that song so much
This is the song I always come to whenever I have a bad day and leave with a motivation to do better. Much love NF. You helped millions with your music and your music always inspire me to do better for myself and for my beloved ones.
Yea too bad nf sucks balls compared to eminem. Not to mention nf totally bit off eminems style in the beginning(in other words he is a copycat). Em even called him out on his new album
@@thomasbeemer912 look at the billboard top hip hop hits. you are right but nas and jay-z and outkast dont really make albums anymore. but almost all the rappers for the last 10+ years have really terrible morals in their hits. its a pity.
people say i wish i was loved, but what is love? is it happiness? is it joy? or pain? because once you start having feelings for someone their ain’t telling what you will end up feeling love is a waste of time
Love is comfort, trust, peace, safety, vulnerability, respect, honesty, belonging, strength, hope, and many other things, all at once and without conditions. I never actually realized how hard it was to define until I just tried to do it..
Stay Christian MS never turn away from God and end up like Eminem Just Another Eminem wannabe you're better than that you're better than Eminem your rap bin for Christians please keep it that way my friend God bless you NF
@@hotopics877 you do know he said himself he isn't a Christian rapper and you can't say He's better than Em because NF Has put out only 3 three studio Albums compared to Em's Body of work, He's also Influenced more and has even put a word in the dictionary and has 3 Albums Dimond
"The only thing that stays the same is that everything changes." The people in your life shouldn't want and expect you to change things about yourself. But in order to love other people, you need to want to change for them, and they should want to change for you. The point of maturity is knowing what you shouldn't change, and what you can. Real love requires sacrifice, and that's a scary thing, but it is worth it in the end.
Isn’t it funny how day by day nothing changes, but when you look back everything is different
Man, hit so hard. It's so fucking true!!
Like fr :c
Damn. Why do you have to do that to me....but you are right...
Follower agreed
felt that..
Unfamiliar people: "is NF a rapper or a singer?"
NF fans: "yes"
Both
Fun Trip he is both❤️
@@motherhoodsbeauty9279 that's what the yes insinuates
lol
Both
Who is here 2024
We all need love ❤️ 😍 💖 ❣️ 💕 💘
We all need love ❤️ 😍 💖 ❣️ 💕 💘
Always
@@chadhennon3340yes sir
me brody
I made a terrible decision and hurt the one I love the most. This song is my anthem to be better because being a loving husband and father is all I ever wanted and I lost sight of my true priorities. Never again.
👍👍
Corn
Corn
Keep fightin brother!
First step in bettering yourself/growing is admitting your mistakes/flaws or wrongdoing and not making the same errors over again. Idk you but I’m proud of you for being able admit where u went wrong at and wanting to make things right.. not just for yourself but for your family as well.
I pray everything works out for you and your family. I pray they’re able to move forward with forgiveness. ❤ all love & happiness!
“Love your Parents. We are so busy growing up, we often forget they are also growing old.”
Fr
That hard me so hard I'm literally shaking
💯
Facts
Truth
NF is probably one of the most underrated rappers
True
Vincent Freeman how about both? 👍🙏🙏
@@p4sma421 mumble
He is by far the most underrated rapper
Checkout EKOH , Bazanji , ollie 👍
It 2023 and all this time this song still touches right to soul.
Thank you NF
Fr but it's now 2024
@@lexishaw14it February 2nd now 😊
Literally !! Five years later and this song still touches me just right 🥰
2024 it still does brother!
To this day I listen to it
"I've always tried to control things
In the end that's what controls me
Maybe that's why I'm controllin'"
I felt that.
Same 😢I'm autistic so I like to control what I can cuz everything in life is unpredictable
@@jemmawild9965
Life also has inevitable outcomes which are difficult to control .
I'm autistic to bro and I understand
*This comment has nothing to do with autism!!*
You folks need to find some other way to identify besides "I'm autistic". My son is autistic but his life doesn't revolve around his diagnosis. You're holding yourself a back if you can't see anything within yourselves beyond your diagnosis.
My son is also a forester. He is a strong, smart, reliable, trustworthy, hard-working man. He is a good financial planner who has invested thousands into his retirement even though he's not even 25 yet.
Are you anything *besides* autistic?! Or is that your whole identity?!....
"I'm scared that one day I wake up and wonder where the time go" i felt that
no doubt
I know it hits hard guess my heads just not in the right place right now and things are getting hard but i mean I woke up realizing the decade has gone by and I just really want more time
Same man, same
The past is the past only change is now
Let‘s be honest guys „who want to live forever?“ Queen
Why the most talented singers are also the most underrated?
The Vibe Guide I know right
Apparently people like music that talks about money, girls and meaningless things, and mumble rappers 😂
1.6m views... totally underrated.
Cause he’s a Christian rapper. Most people don’t listen to Christian music anymore
What y'all talking about this guy selling out arenas an stage show, his music goes very far, the media don't publicize him much but he's perfect where he at with his music
The sad part is that my family was the first people to teach me that if I wanted love I would have to go through the pain. So that's why I still listen to this.
I feel this…😢
❤
Stop asking who's still listening in 2024, we never left
💯
The pain never seems to end so back to safety right
Other rappers: Can’t make a song without cussing
NF: Makes better songs then other rappers without cussing
every time
Agreed
Than*
@@michaelrohrer332 wassup dude
@@michaelrohrer332 just got the notifacation
Okay but how does Cardi B get grammy award and NF doesn't?
Ikr it seems like cardi just says random words and mumbles but NF actually sings and raps his music makes sense
@@introvert_ash2342Looks like Grammys are messed up.
Coz media has brain washed humanity to be backwards.
I totally agree with you man! It makes no sense at all! Cardi B is trash..
that because he's real
How has this man not won a Grammy??
I know right
Bc some ppl have bad taste
Because his songs don’t promote hate and violence, which in the end is what they want. Happiness and true love will always trump any amount of money or power. They know if we would all come together and love each other their power over us would crumble in their hands right before their eyes.
Check my 2 songs out from my album on my channel that I will be finally releasing in january. You won't be disappointed I don't curse either with my rhythm and Poetry.
Cardi b won over mac miller of course he wont be there
Suffer with real bad depression and anxiety and this song gets me through everyday ❤️
Nf helps alot when i have rough days
Me to for real 💯
You're not alone.. Never. Stay strong
I'm commeting on my husband's you tube. But this song helps me so much with my...depression and anxiety. I still listen to this daily 💕
@@Quickyz Aww thankyou ❤️❤️
The pain in his voice
@Aydan Croney I have already listen ...
I hear it im 9 and this was the last song I enjoyed with my brother...then he went to jail
@@emyfrua377 why????
“Pain”
I feel pain when I sing this song
NF is more than a rapper.
yeah
An artist ✊🏼
@@alejandroa.a4625 LOL
Agreed
alex bronger this dude is so mf talented
Besides 'How could you leave us', I have never cried so hard listening to any of his other songs. I grew up in a single parent household, and my mum gave me everything, she was my caretaker, as well as the families - she made a lot of sacrifices for that to happen.
The part where the father is walking his daughter down the aisle really got me - I will never have that. Instead I have my mum.
This video demonstrates the true circle of life, from birth to death. No one wants to bury their loved ones. No one should, but that is not how life goes. It's never easy, but it goes on, "if you want love."
NF is a true artist, and an inspiration to us all. One of my many goals this year is to see him live. His fame is seriously under appreciated.
❤
Tomorrow will mark 4 years and I’ll be here for the 5,6, and 7th ❤️
ME TOO
Same
Same
Same guy
Why is Cardi B. more popular than NF? It’s so upsetting honestly
Hailey Trifan I see people asking why "mumble rap" is more popular than this, simple answer; they're way more consistent with their music
Cardi b is famous than nf cuz people dont like the real stuff they just want sex and other things related to it which given to them by those singers.Only some people have the real ability the message behind each and every song of NF . In other words you can say half of earth's population is dumb so dont bother let them be it
NBA Toenail You’re right, that is a simple answer. Here’s the real reason: Cardi B and other mumble rappers appeal to the world; there’s more of them then us (being unbelievers and believers respectively) but as long as we live in this sinful world, it will always be this way. I don’t like it, but it is the truth.
Cardi b or like the entire Kardashian family get surgery to have guys give them money or buy there shit, but unnatural, many rappers fit in to make money and spend on useless shit, real artists are just greatful to spread a message with there fans
Benthejoe No, you want the real reason? It's because not everyone cares about lyrics. Personally I don't. I just want music that makes me bob my head to that shit and that's how most people feel. If you're depressed, you need help. Listening to music about depression isn't gonna help with shit besides making you more depressed
Who here is an original NF fan? all the way back to moments.
All the way back to his debut of singing the hook on Flame's "Start Over!" Never heard of Moments though until I did my research.
i am!
All I Have and Notepad
Yup until i die
lol FEELS LIKE MY LIFE IS ONE BIG CIRCLE TRYNA GO FORWARD BUT IM IN REVERSE STILL
..." ask me how I'm doin - I say "okay" yeah
but ain't that what we all say? "...
thats hitting me hard in my current situation.
Same here
💯
Same.
It’s been four years since this song came out and I will listen to this song every year
FR I WAS HERE SENCE DAY ONE
You mean every week, right? Right lol
To the 1% of people who see this, I hope you have a wonderful life filled with happiness and love, and a happy new year.
Nflames REAL put a smile to my face man :)
Good vibes bro
Thank you even though its not Christmas anymore
@@kaylalucas1842 but it was 6 days ago. ;)
Yo to
*_I can smell the talent..._*
I do he is my idol
Em'
Nflames REAL cant compare
NF is good too but Em is goat
EMINEM BOIII (I also liked)
March 2024 in👇
🤔🙄🤮🫵
May you be treated the same way!
This song made me realize that love is harder than in the movies,
"Ask me how i'm doin i say okay, Yeah, But ain't that what we all say?"
Relatable
Very weird how I read that when NF sung that line
@@gollishh lmao that is weird and kinda cool
that one hit hard
@@Yikeowsky ikr
I can relate so much
I swear NF has some of the best and most emotional raps out of all rappers.
VibroidMoss191 +1
VibroidMoss191 u should listen to my new song “bye, I’m alone” 💔 czcams.com/video/Cbw6VrRYldQ/video.html
VibroidMoss191 I know he and cardi b bring me to tears
frogaliciouss duhamel Cardi B? That better be a joke.
@@frogalicioussduhamel4449 Cardi B?
He doesn’t get enough love ❤️ ❤️❤️❤️
it is ture
Played this song about 5,000 times during my girl's pregnancy, and it's the first song my daughter started moving too, she passed away at 12 days old , on Easter Sunday in 2019, me and her mother aren't speaking right now, and it's absolutely killing me yo, and this is the only song that's keeping me alive at this point man....
I’m so sorry Man😢❤
Hey man, no matter what you are here and you are here for a reason. I think lot of people need to hear this but you definitely need to hear this, you matter man! Life is hard but you can't stop fighting 💪. Your baby is looking down and watching you. Make her proud and show her your strength! I know it doesn't make sense at times, I've almost givin up myself. I'm now 45 and I still don't have a clue but I find things to continue to live for. Keep going you never know what is in store for you. Hit me up if you need someone to talk to.
I'm glad I seen these comments today. I can't tell you how close I was too giving up this week, smh Monday I went too collect all of my belongings and get my truck from our house I got for us, and this woman already got a dude living with her already, that shit almost broke me, it took every fiber in me too get back in my pickup and just leave ... idk why gods putting me through these things the last 5 years , but I'm not happy about it the slightest bit.
@@MFG-mg7zl hey sir, I hope you're doing better. Have a nice day 🖤
I hope you see better days 🥺🫶🏾 god bless you and good luck with everything
The fact that 69 is known and respected more than NF is just sad.
The fact that 69 is respected is sad
Because his music is catchy and he is funny. NF is cringe
@@user-gw6pv2ry5c excuse me? Did you just voice an opinion as if it were fact
@@user-gw6pv2ry5c I have no words for you
@@ZeusAdvocate ok
At least, a rapper talking about a more serious problem than having money, women or drugs
Χρήστος Ευαγγελίδης You don’t listen to any good rappers I guess
@@muhammadshaikh9484 I don't know what's happening bro
Συμφωνώ ρε φίλε
@@alexandrost.1768 Να είσαι καλά αδερφέ
this song is about a girl though.
This song taught me that if the love is worth it, then it's worth working through whatever that may be. Pain, trauma, loss, hatred, insurmountable odds, setbacks, things that could make you want to lose hope and give everything up. The love is always worth it and can heal all these things in time.
Most beautiful comment here ❤️
Damn man. Found this song after I went through my...issues. It took a lot to get through it. I saw many doctors, talked to many therapist, and one thing I'll always regret is what I put my mom through. She loved me so much and I paid her back with worry, neglect, selfishness, and hurt. I was angry. I was depressed. I was sometimes angry AND depressed. To this day she worries about me if I don't call her for a few days and I'm 21 years old. I think it took me a long time to figure out that my pain was temporary, and that it too shall pass. I hope nobody has to go through what I did. But I know people do and if that's you, if you feel helpless, I want you to reach out. Tell somebody you trust. It doesn't have to be a doctor or a therapist. Your mom, your dad, your brother, your sister, your best friend, a close family member, your girlfriend, your boyfriend. And they will make sure you are safe. I love you
I'm so sorry you went through that
Felt this
Am I the only one that thinks nf is the greatest rapper to ever live well at least lyrically
I love NF, but artists like Eminem, Kendrick, e.g. have lyricism on another level.
No not at all, he is good but not even close to the best......people these days don't understand hip hop and expand there artist list
U high huh
He got potential doe
Jerry and Tom died from ligma Challenge I love NF too but eminem is 10x better. Most people don't even think Eminem is a lyrical genius because his lyrics go over their heads lol... that how good he is.
NF never disappoints
Nf= never fails
Your Name facts
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Fact
Never Fucking disappoints*
The first time I heard this song I burst into tears because it cut right to the core of me--I'm too guarded, I keep everyone at arm's length. And it's lonely and isolating. But...if you want love, you really do have to go through the pain. I have to learn to take the risk of getting hurt if I ever want to have the attachments I crave. I had already been working on that aspect of myself, but the lyrics hit me like a damn truck
I’m exactly like you. I crave intimacy, but I have a really big fear of vulnerability. I’m also currently working on that in therapy. I hope everything works out for you!
I cried the first few times I heard this song, too, but it hit close to home for a reason opposite to yours. I love a lot and care a lot. I did this for my partners, and my love was never reciprocated. Instead, they shared that love with one another and isolated me themselves. It was so lonely seeing someone you loved for 6 years change in all the wrong ways and lose love for me right before my eyes. Even the trust I put in them was broken. Love is scary, but there are some good people out there. I hope you find a person who can take good care of you and make you not want to isolate. Stay strong! ♡
@@helloimchan6751 thank you, you as well 💜 the reason I've become so guarded was childhood abuse, so in a way I'm also dealing with having trusted and loved the wrong people and being terribly hurt by it. I wish us both healing and love!
Me to i get it
I don't understand why he's so underrated. He deserves Better😟
An old song with a new music video
it was his last album?
So?
All your breaths smell like shit dont talk and just listen.
Im not crying, you crying
not really an "old" song, but ok.
Grown ass 40 year old man sitting here bawling.... I wasn't ready for this when I clicked play..... Outstanding song.
Here i am thinking 40 is kinda old but it really aint, tom brady is older than u and still playing with the pros, dang my dad is just about 40,but yeah try listening to How could you leave us by nf, or let you down, how could you leave us is the saddest one for me because i relate
@@kcchiefsproductions8687 Tom Brady 😍😳
Me too...me too
It doesn't matter the age you are, we can all experience the sadness.
43 year old man
this makes me think what love truly is
sammmmmmeeeee
bro spitting fax
@@richardhiggins7008 love has a strong meaning love can be powerful
My first dog just passed. She never left my side from 21-30 years old. Letting go of that, cuts extremely deep. The deeper the love, the deeper the pain when its gone.
I'm sorry for your loss. The love we have for our animals lasts forever. Stay strong! 💜
I understand the pain of losing a loved animal friend we had a pug named sassy that passed away, she was my girl
My sweet boy has been gone 2 years in March. We had 12 years with him. It still hurts every day but it has gotten easier . He was an old boy and in a lot of pain so it is comforting knowing he isn’t hurting anymore . But I don’t ever want another dog . Not bc I’m scared or the hurt of another dog dying , just bc I don’t think I could ever love another dog like I loved him.
No mom I’m not crying I just got dust in my eyes
Same fam same
I'm that dust particle and I can tell you they are tears.
Same
No mom, I’m not crying I just have sadness in my eyes
N Chill same
This guy can sing, raps real stuff, doesn't cuss, doesn't mumble, what else can you ask for? and still he is underrated...I hate this world, I seriously do
100 subs? 9 million monthly listeners on Spotify alone.. Yeah sure "underrated" buddy. I hate people like you that throw underrated around even though they're clearly not. You probably call drake underrated ffs
so true
NBA Toenail fuck you drake
@@qae What the hell is ur problem like chill
Don't worry he'll soon become popular live happy don't be sad live your life whilst you can
Crazy how this song is hitting me so hard right now. I’ve just found these beautiful lyrics. I’m 3 years late, but in another 3 years, I’ll look back and this song will become a memory. Life is hard.
Life is very hard. I come to hear it from time to time. Right now I'm struggling with some things. And it seems to ease the feelings. Keep your head up. The hard times do not last forever.
To be honest… no one told me… was going to be this hard to get some real love … I don’t understand how I haven’t lost faith…
I felt this in my fucking soul....no one told me either. I guess that's what happens when you grow up without role models....My life is so fucked up when it comes to love. I've hurt everyone I've ever loved and it just fucking sucks. I'm trying to hold on but it's just so hard..I wish the lord would just answer my prayers.
This isn't "fire". this is hurt, sadness, pain weighing down on Nate's shoulders
ImJustAFiretruck fam, im sure it aint that serious. this is a beautiful visual that shows the cycle of life. aka FIRE
ImJustAFiretruck fire
Most rappers usually talk about sex and drugs but NF keeps it real talking about situations that surrounded his life making his connection with his fans feel closer to him that’s why I prefer NF over all the rappers in the industry of rap and music overall
Geme nah
Same. Well, I prefer both him and Eminem more than any other rapper.
Don't forget, he's a christian rapper after all, his label is a christian rap label. It would be weird if he would rap about sex and drugs all the time
Teni Alind he doesn’t want him to be labeled as a Christian rapper
Thanks for pointing out the obvious.
@@tenialind3480 He's not a Christian rapper and he has made that clear. He just raps about things apart from your general drugs, gangs and women.
I just need some time, I'm tryna think straight
I just need a moment in my own space
Ask me how I'm doin', I'll say "okay, " yeah
But ain't that what we all say?
Sometimes I think back to the old days
In the pointless conversations with the old me
Yeah, back when my momma used to hold me
I wish somebody woulda told me
If you want love, you gon' have to go through the pain
If you want love, you gon' have to learn how to change
If you want trust, you gon' have to give some away
If you want love, if you want love
Yeah, as a kid I used to think life
Is moving so slow, I watch it go by
Look out the window on my bus ride
I thought the world was so small, through my closed eyes
I've always tried to control things
In the end that's what controls me
Maybe that's why I'm controllin'
I wish somebody woulda told me
If you want love, you gon' have to go through the pain
If you want love, you gon' have to learn how to change
If you want trust, you gon' have to give some away
If you want love, if you want love
The older I get, I feel like I'm always tryna save time
Talkin' to the voices in my head, they make me think twice
Tellin' me it doesn't mean it's wrong because it feels right
I'm scared that one day I wake up and wonder where the time go
Talk about the past like it's the present while I rock slow
I'll sit in the living room and laugh with kids of my own
And tell 'em
If you want love, you gon' have to go through the pain
I wish you woulda told me
If you want love, you gon' have to learn how to change
I wish somebody woulda told me
If you want trust, you gon' have to give some away
You gon' have to give
If you want love, if you want love
If you want love, if you want love
Found out my biological father passed away last night, and I'm finding it real hard to care. I grew up in the children's home because of that man but now I have to deal with the aftermath of his short life. And I'm not sure how to feel about it. Angry because I have to now clean out his apartment, of which I don't even know the location of. Sad that the person that contributed to my being on this planet is gone. Or indifferent because he was never a part of my life....... Either way this song is speaking to me right now.
I learned how to change, if you want love.
You must love yourself first. I had to lose myself to find myself.
11 Months 8 Days Clean from Heroin. - Age 24.
Cory Peters props man, I’m 24 too and wish I had a girl. Sadly I’m single and still searching.
Proud of you, Cory! Keep at it and stay strong 😁
@@PCerdos In time, Bro. I basically gave up and surrendered my love life to Him. And then He blessed me with an amazing woman. In time, Bro. And I'm 26, lol
God Bless Bro remember that the enemy will throw things your way even if it is tempting but remember you need to stay strong
Cory Peters Proud of you man. You won’t even know how fast you’ll be at 22 months. Keep on going...
I feel like whenever NF releases a music video after the song is already out, it gives the song a whole new perspective
Indeed 👌
That's why he does it...
It really does. I feel like the verses of the song match up with the time jumps in the video. This video was very well put together.
or should we say *perception*
I apologize for the pun but you know I had to do it
He is on a whole other level with this one ❤
His music hits hard specially when you understand mental illness. This life it has been so tough. It is crazy where I'm at and now things keep bad happening. I've been trying so hard. And I love this song so real. I look at my daughter knowing she will keep growing up. Blessing of my life
Man I’m crying because my mom is sick very sick I’m worried something bad will happen I pray to god that he helps her because he’s our only savior and he loves us may god be with us in our daily lives amen
UPDATE: She is finally healed she ended up needing surgery but finally healed thanks to you all for praying for her 🙏🏼😀😀❤️❤️
God bless. prayers for you and your mom
Simply Free thanks man I can’t stop crying my parents are in bed asleep but my mom is super sick I hear her coughing and in pain I’m only 14 I’m scared but I pray to god she’s been sick for 1 week now hasn’t got out of bed either.
God is with you ill pray for you and your mom
thank you 🙏🏼May god bless you and your family too
Have faith in God and everything will be ok🙏
I used to think that the worst thing in life was to end up alone. It's not. The worst thing in life is to end up with people who make you feel alone
Yes👏🏼 say it again,
Just reading this made me cry. I'm so messed up and NFs music cuts so deep in me. This is the realest thing I've read.
I feel so just because my friends make me feel alone
🧠💯❣️😓
Amen, I think about suicide a lot
anyone here in 2024
I'm here
Here❤
Amen
Stacey here
Here.
A lot of people are frustrated with NF not getting the recognition he deserves. I feel like we should be happy because look at the people they do recognize! 😳
billie eilish: i make sad songs
Nf: hold my tears
yep
@@zeroinfinity5864 billie is cancer
@@f0il3d_gg65 tf is wrong with u?
The beginning always makes me cry and then the whole song makes me cry (I'm crying rn)
There's no need to put another singer down to put on up
My Grandma: I hate this song
Me: No you hate my horrible voice singing over it
Me too lol
Lol same with me
Then again, this is 2019. Leave your Grandma alone, she's stuck in the past where everything happens so fast it's not even 'real'. This is a real deal, so keep on doing it! And it's much harder to actually sing and rap in some of his songs :P lol
Also, I know it's a joke but huehue, what if that's an actual case?
@@TheRedPandax2 This is sorta offensive. If you know he's joking then please delete this. You know some of us don't even have grandmother!
@@jjjohnson1389 I lost my grandmother 4days ago and Im not offended bro
This song is helping me change my old habits and being a better person and a father an a partner, we all need to change
Very talented, should have won a Grammy. This gives me the chills
All the stupid rappers caught in dissing war. But here is NF making such wonderful songs. Which can touch everyone's heart. Love from India.
AMIT KASHYAP nobody want ur love just fuck off and take all creep 1320 millions and leave the universe.... don’t tryna act white when ur not .. god bless white rappers
@Amit I totally agree!
Asexual party Hardest he wasn’t tryna “act white” and stop starting shit for no reason.
Asexual party Hardest stop being racist fuck
Asexual party Hardest bro there ain’t nothing wrong w tryna spread some positivity, the world needs it
I saw this and I said “NF no. You ain’t getting me to cry tonight.” I was wrong.
Fr tho
AT5 Air same dude.
😭😭😭😭 he got me too
AT5 Air same tho
''"Damn it Nf" 😭😭😭
Pablo of SB19 brought me here. He's such a huge fan of NF. Now, I understand. Their group is also underrated. I hope real artists get the respect they deserve. Props to you all.
Going through a breakup right now and this song gave me the perspective I need to not unalive.
How are you now?
This guy changes lives through his music.
saves lives too
#RealMusic
Simply Free only Jesus can save
Chris Gagnon that’s where your wrong, God’s in us all, you just gotta look for it.
James Gardner huh? Where did I say any of that ? What does your reply have to do with anything I said ?
If u want love, listen to NF. You'll love him.
facts
This is such an amazing song. Being a Dad is the best thing that ever happened to me and this song incapsulates the emotions perfectly.
Watching this after becoming a parent. This song hits differently. NF this is just a masterpiece. Video is so layered and speaks a thousand words in itself. Thank you for this.
As always, the music video provides an interpretation of the song that I had never thought of
Cameron Slagell I thought it was a song about how relationships can be hard, but it’s actually about how relationships could be hard at times but they’re worth it in the end :)
@@johncena5834 exactly, me too
Same
Same
NF is one of few rappers that I manged to find at the right time in my life.. His Music was a message of hope when I thought I would never make it out. It wasn't until the start of year that everything changed. NF inspired me to take my pain and put it into my own songs to spread a message the same way he does. No matter what you are going through - you are always capable of doing so much more than you ever know. Don't let anyone make you feel like you are worthless! Use your pain as fuel to move forward and better yourself as a person. Everything will be fine as long as you don't give up.
That is all life about. 💪👍
Thank you
Omg just stop already... You comment that under every single video of almost every famous musician. It's ridiculous how you try to pretend to like the music and how you "found them at the right time" just fuck off... I'm sorry but that's mad annoying.
Yessssssssss
The Animal what's the problem hes sending a message so if you dont want him here and call him names then mabye u should leave you fake fan
If you want love you have to learn how to change
Every time I feel sad, I come here, listen to my favorite song that just calms my heart...
NF has always been my comfort. Glad u feel dat way too
You and me both 💯
How many times have I listened to this on my bed crying ..
Same bro 😭💔
Same this song is just sad
What I'm doing right now
Same..
Love ya
Ask me how I’m doing
I say ok.
But ain’t that what we all say?
It's like I'm standing in the rain and you offer me a raincoat
But I would rather stand there being wet than take the handout
What's wrong with me?…
Aidan VanZile sometimes it’s overthinking, sometimes it’s standing there feeling nothing, sometimes it’s feeling everything, and honestly, it’s comforting just listening the music and letting everything overcome you and coming out of it feeling lighter, happier. Nothing’s wrong with you, we all need moments to do nothing, just sit/stand there. It’s normal, but we all deal with stuff in different ways, some people let it out on an object, or a human, others bottle it up and let it out, others, they bottle it up, and keep it inside. Places like the shower and rain make me calmer, because as the water is an outlet for me, I can cry, I can stand there doing nothing. Stay strong- you are not alone 💗💕
@@samiyarehman7742 Bro its an nf song. Its I'll Keep On. But no i get what your saying i have been obsessing over nf for the last 3 years. If it wasn't for him I wouldn't be here. Nf was my therapy, he helped me through so much shit. Same i love the rain,the rain is so calming , how it washes over you. Check out dreams i dig that song so much
Aug 1st 23 i had my daughter. The sleepless nights, the physical pain and exhaustion is so worth it.
This is the song I always come to whenever I have a bad day and leave with a motivation to do better. Much love NF. You helped millions with your music and your music always inspire me to do better for myself and for my beloved ones.
Here before this is on every radio station
N Chill it’s just a music video for an old song
I've been listening to this since it dropped with the album. NF is and will always be one of my favorite rappers
Bandwagon lol
Lie just popped up on the radio recently and that song is old
Superfluity it’s been out for over a year
Stopped what I was doing just for NF
Same!
Always will.
Same dude
Erik Munoz Same here. Couldn't click fast enough.
Yaasss dude! Anytime anywhere!
the more you love the more it hurt 🤕 in all that I love I loved alone. love has left me in more pain than I can handle.💙💚
Still coming back. This makes me cry ngl
Nf soul is one of a kind...we will never have another nf...big facts...........
Agreed
real talk ngl
Idk if there has to be another one it's Matthew Tuck
Oh Yeah Yeah dont like his voice
Why does that even matter? Just enjoy his music.
Omg i didn't expect a music video today
Same
Me too!!
Rihanna Navy me neither
The difference of listening to this song from 16 to now smiling at 24 years old it's just insane what this journey has been with you NF
Feeling this hard right now in 2024 I'll always be there waiting for her to get to her best self.❤ 💔
_If you want love, you gon have to learn how change_
Point...
His lyrics always hits you in a way that makes you think about it
I agree
Fr
@@dunnmusiccovers4719 what?
@@jimineepabonojams567 fr= for real
@@jairofthecosmos5022 oh, thank u
This song will always bring back all the pain ♥️ lovely memories something that was real and now lost
Your comments is exactly how I feel right now. Its never gonna be the same without her anymore. I miss her so much 😞
This is life . Why am I crying now
*Stop comparing Eminem and Nf, they both are lit in their own way*
nowadays, im starting to wonder if eminem isnt nf lite and not the other way around
GetThatBase czcams.com/video/Cbw6VrRYldQ/video.html must listen !
Thank you! We all know NF is better than Eminem!!
Yea too bad nf sucks balls compared to eminem. Not to mention nf totally bit off eminems style in the beginning(in other words he is a copycat). Em even called him out on his new album
@@quaidnichols5883 you're fkn delusional
A rapper showing traditional family values... Take my like.
💥🙏🏾💥
Lmao what a buzz word nowadays
We need more people like NF in our world
Yeah. That kind of tradition still happens here in Philippines. NF is a gift to the world.
@@thomasbeemer912 look at the billboard top hip hop hits. you are right but nas and jay-z and outkast dont really make albums anymore. but almost all the rappers for the last 10+ years have really terrible morals in their hits. its a pity.
I just recently lost my dad unexpectedly Last year. and my first born came into the world 8 months ago. My father taught me so much
people say i wish i was loved, but what is love? is it happiness? is it joy? or pain? because once you start having feelings for someone their ain’t telling what you will end up feeling love is a waste of time
Love is comfort, trust, peace, safety, vulnerability, respect, honesty, belonging, strength, hope, and many other things, all at once and without conditions. I never actually realized how hard it was to define until I just tried to do it..
NF is a lyrical genius and inspires me in my own work. I wish the best for him and his career. Stay real fam!
And i thought it was NF in your pfp XD
Stay Christian MS never turn away from God and end up like Eminem Just Another Eminem wannabe you're better than that you're better than Eminem your rap bin for Christians please keep it that way my friend God bless you NF
@@hotopics877 you do know he said himself he isn't a Christian rapper and you can't say He's better than Em because NF Has put out only 3 three studio Albums compared to Em's Body of work, He's also Influenced more and has even put a word in the dictionary and has 3 Albums Dimond
wish you the best
Stay lit fam
I'm not crying I just have dust in my eyes yeah totally
sameee
I wish people could love me how I am without asking me to change😅
Someone does my friend just keep being yourself if someone asks you to change then they are not right for you.
Exactly I’ve been trying so hard it’s hurting my mental health and I’m getting very tired of it😢
"The only thing that stays the same is that everything changes."
The people in your life shouldn't want and expect you to change things about yourself. But in order to love other people, you need to want to change for them, and they should want to change for you. The point of maturity is knowing what you shouldn't change, and what you can.
Real love requires sacrifice, and that's a scary thing, but it is worth it in the end.
We all need some change. Don't believe the lie.
nothings permanent except change.
if you want love, you gon' have to go through the pain