Should You Worry About the “Work Wife” (and Other Platonic Friends)? | Ep. 313
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- čas přidán 24. 08. 2024
- We’re talking about opposite sex friends when you’re in a relationship - if/when you’re justified in being suspicious, couples having the rule of “no one-on-one hangs,” the controversial “work wife,” changing your behavior when your close guy friend gets into a relationship, and more. We’re also dissecting two listener emails that got us heated. Before we dive in, we’re breaking down the recent Andrew Huberman scandal and sharing a hilarious laser hair removal story that involves both of us, plus why Rayna is the fun one on IG and the popular food Ashley hates. Enjoy!
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I’m team no for the work wife/husband.
As an anecdote, I also think it’s a red flag when someone comes home “disliking” someone they work with too much. I’ve caught a few guys “hating” girls they work with, when in reality they are into them. Literally manipulating you into thinking they hate them, but talking about them all the time, thinking you have nothing to worry about but you do - iykyk.
I love this take, they use it as an excuse to talk about them because they are always on their mind
"what happened to people that they just threw their loaf in there" IM DEAD - the way Rayna calls it a "forest" when it's a small park in LA has me
lol I love this discussion about matcha! Just FYI, about 95% of places I go burn the matcha which makes it taste so horribly and dirty. If you get the right matcha and prepare it correctly it’s delicious and light and floral.
Started on spotify, came for the loaf pics 🤣🍞
Nursing student here! our professors do recommend that we practice our assessments on our friends and our practicums are usually performed on our classmates.
Just saying I don’t think I’d like of my boyfriend practiced a vaginal exam on one of his cohorts at their house…that seems like something that professors wouldn’t recommend but I guess I don’t know since I haven’t been in school for something medical related
They aren't practicing vaginal assesments on each other. Where did you even get that? There are manakins for practice and real assessments in hospital rotations. @shbecks2354
@@shbecks2354when did it say vaginal exam?
Nurse here 🙋🏻♀️ true
The lighting is looking ON POINT 👌🏻
ahahaha “you know what i don’t like”
rayna: “wHaAt”
made me chuckle 😂
I once Brazilian waxed Miranda Ker, she’s beautiful… didn’t stop talking about it
Straight up matcha does taste like dirt, but you have sweeten it with vanilla. I make myself a matcha latte every morning with oat milk, a splash of sugar free vanilla syrup, and collagen protein powder. Blend with a frother. ✨chef's kiss✨
new studio is gorg! also this had me busting out laughing from 2 mins on. love you guys
On Andrew Huberman, thanks for talking about this! After all, it is a dating podcast, and he has been interviewed by you. I loved him, love how he brought science to us common people, but it was disappointing to read the article. And to your point, even though he doesn't talk super openly about his personal life, he HAS done it many times talking about his upbringing very openly (and almost bashing his parents), many people that helped him (previous supervisors etc), and girlfriends along the way (without naming them ofc).
Also, he is very often making remarks to his personal life and many times about previous partners in his podcast, to make himself more relatable I believe.
I still deeply respect his work and will continue to listen to his podcast for MY benefit (not his success), but the most disappointing is that he didn't address the article as of now, and it's been weeks, which I feel a bit disrespected as a fan/listener. He is a public figure at this point (by his choice), and if he wants to be seen as a good person (which it always seemed that he wants to) and with respectable character, he should say something. Being patronizing with his audience by ignoring it and almost playing with his Instagram followers, I feel like he's almost calling us dumb is our faces. "You'll forget about it". Sad.
I think if you are genuinely platonic friends with someone you work with then you can just call them your friend, the work wife thing is unnecessary
This was actually really helpful, my husband has a female best bud at work and I have had mixed feelings about it but… I’m involved in the friendship, we literally have a group text chat and they do not hang out socially without mean he is always talking me up to everyone at work including her, so even tho I’m semi uncomfy because… men… I’m allowing the benefit of the doubt and letting the friendship continue. The checklist you gave made me feel better.
Not me not realizing the joke email I created to use his YT music account was listing me as Henrysboothang… byeeeee 😂😂😂 we’ve been married 5 years 😂
you should do a tour giveaway with like two tickets or something for any show
R- you say duplicitous a lot - make a reel of it from each episode- that would be hilarious 😂
Just booked my Philly tix, first live show 😭😭 so excited
the comparison of the clip titles sent me 😂
Loved that Rayna stood up for herself
living in a city and walking a big dog is literally a scavenger hunt- he has found whole italian subs, hotdogs still in the bun, an entire fucking ham, etc. if you’re wondering, yes he wears a muzzle now
I LOVE MATCHA
I love matcha! It’s like coffee… different taste and less harsh I would say. Try making your own recipe and see how it goes
I loooooove the episodes with just you two! 🥰🥰🥰🥰
I love their pants!!!!❤
The camera quality is 💯👌🎉
Matcha-what kinda milk and are you adding some sweetener or vanilla etc?! A must. I think it might be like how to some ppl cilantro tastes like soap-matcha tastes like dirt to you but to us it’s refreshing and a barely there flavor. i feel like where you went might be more authentic and strong vs coffee shops😂
I need the dinner receipts. This man is crazy. I need to know how much he spent at dinner.
For us European girlies I wish this was uploaded on YT 7 hours ago 😭😭😭 so hard to wait this long to watch it!! I already listened to most of it on Spotify and now I have to watch it all again 😂🥲
"Buzz Buzz, it's me bitch" 😂
Ok so Ashley said she doesn’t like matcha because it takes like chalk buttttt here me out try it with oat milk mix up with with some honey or lavender and it taste so good. like same think can be said for a plain black coffee it’s just bitter asf no one drinks it because it tastes good.
apropo Andrew Huberman - you guys should check out who the main antagonist in the NYM article works for (pharma)... (andrew schuilz and joe rogan discussed it briefly on their last JRE episode)
Work wife and husband is not the same as a friend theres usually something sexual going on. But overall yeah you can be friends why not
Hydrojug traveler... no spills!
Matcha doesn’t taste like dirt at all unless you don’t know how to make it/you order it from a place where they don’t know how to make it lol if you get it with coconut milk, it tastes a lot better than regular latte to me
Gah- my suggested studio layout tweak didn’t come to fruition. Going to just go back to listening on Spotify, I can’t take it 😅. Legit though, the laptop screens are even more distracting this week! Y’all you do though! I’ll just be over here worrying! 😂
I agree I do not like the change