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I noticed the young lady was at the brink of breaking down throughout the episode. She seemed so sad but yet she didn't want to let him go. I hope she gets out of her own way and gets back on track.
This young lady needs to get away from him ,get some therapy, go back to school ,& concentrate on herself first ,before she starts another relationship
i actually cried for her. She was broken all through. It was evident she was aware there was nothing else left to save in the relationship. She just didn't want to face and accept it. I hope she finds the strength to leave him. She can always rebuild herself, go back to school, get a job etc. She's just 24. She got time. I'm going to be 30 and i still think i can do and be anything i want.
I'm standing in agreement with you and keeping this young lady in prayer as well. Amen.... @it is never too late to start over unless you're dead.. Be Blessed;)...
Why feel bad for her choices she made in her life? O right women can't take accountability in thier own actions because they repeatedly choose the same guy over n over. New face but same type of guy.
@ Bloombaby99- GTFOH with that fatalistic attitude. It's a self-fulfilling prophecy! If you want something that you've never had, you have to do something you've never done. Insanity is doing the same thing, over and over, and expecting different results. I'm a Black man who has been married to a Black woman for 17 years! Believe, we do NOT participate is the fuckery that all too many of us participate in.
The judge reminds me of the women in my family... the women in my family are wise and strong and taught me all the values of being a real woman... I am so blessed...
IDK how he has the gall to say he doesn't like to work. That must mean he doesn't like money, food, a place to live, clothes, shoes, cable. electricity, etc. And then has the nerve to encourage her to be a housewife? Foolishness.
She's afraid of letting him down like everyone else has in his life. She feels like she has to be what are you didn't have because she loves him but sometimes you have to love someone from a distance
Please MOM rent a truck and get her out of there.!!!! Pleeeease MOM. Please MOM, Amelia needs your help. please MOM Amelia is stuck and needs your help., PLEASE!!! PLEASE!!! PLEASE!!!!!!
deeper into the episode i was asking myself where are their parents?? this is one of the best episodes of this season I've seen yet and the advice from Judge Lynn is absolutely spot on. And many many young girls fall into this with a guy and still want to ride with him to nowhere. Very deep this.
Right parents kept him around her at her home, then asked them to become a couple. But they had to know he was not on the right track in life. People families sometimes be their own downfall. People will set you up with people they would never date.
There is a level of simple mindedness, codependency, and denial that I just can't fathom. These people seem like they're clinically depressed to the point that they just can't function. I think they both need medication and therapy. neither one of them strike me as bad people, just extremely and severely broken.
I don't think either is broken. The guy has never learned what most of us take for granted. Imagine having more money than you've ever had and then going to work for minimum wage and barely surviving. It's like look at it through his eyes. With her, I think she absolutely loves him with everything he's endured and what she doesn't realize is that for her to survive, she has to take care of herself first and foremost.
She's desperate for love and she doesn't know herself or her self worth. This is really sad....she has a void that she's trying to fill with him. He doesn't want her anymore, but she's so naive and she really wants a fairytale ending.
I really want to give her a hug. Definitely have been there. Experience is a great teacher. After you have no more tears left to cry, and you have learned the lesson, the whole world will open up. It all starts with one step.
You can tell deep down she's smart. It sucks to leave someone you love, but this is not the man for her. She's smart and is capable of so much.. you can just see it in her demeanor. Sad story when you look at it with firm, non judgmental eyes..
Danielle Carruth she just finish medical school and he is in college. all truth he is a smart man. life just got the best of him growing up. I should know cause I am his auntie and trust he was not raised like that. he is working and doing better
Soooooo....she knows this man doesn't like to work and still marries him? This is a hot funky mess! He has no solutions to anything, his words. They're too young mentally. Sorry for their loss, but thank God that baby went back to heaven cuz they would've been setting the child up for a lifetime of foolishness!
She's such a beautiful girl and you can tell she's a good girl with a bright future if she leaves him and learns to love herself. It is a shame that one day she will look back and see all the time she wasted and realize that so called love she thought she had wasn't worth it.
This is just sad , young woman who goes straight listening to a guy w/o doing her own thing , she's too submissive and that is her downfall , she's young and has time to build her life up , leave him and upgrade yourself
Corey is not just unwilling to keep a job, he's unwilling to be a mature adult. Amelia is too insecure to bounce for some reason - you give up college and a job for a guy who has nothing to give you in return? That's a self-esteem issue there. The judge tells you to roll, your own mother sees the problem, and finally he says he doesn't have a solution to the relationship... all that adds up to "Mom, it's Amelia - rent a truck and come pick me up." Hopefully, she makes that phone call.
Again a classic case of "I'm gonna Change him into what I want him to be" He was in the streets pimping ,she knew he was lousy but had to have him. I see too many women do this & mess themselves up over this. Thank God they didn't have any kids.
Because of his background, he is telling the truth about his feeling of lack of belief about love. Being a pimp at the age of 13 is very telling; he has no idea about morality & the value of a good woman or man. They both need to separate & get some serious psychological counseling & then begin to follow their dreams.
The nerve to cry like that and claim love at only 24 for a man who made you give up your independence. I hope reality hits her hard and soon. I wish her the best.
If she seriously stands there and tells the Judge that she's not going to leave him. SHE GETS EXACTLY WHAT SHE DESERVES!!! I don't feel sorry for her. She's being PIMPED and doesn't even know it. She went to him and basically said she will pay for him, she gives him money, she pays all the bills, and he sits home. He doesn't need whores anymore because he has her. I would kick my daughters ASS. I thank GOD DAILY for allowing me to instill some kind of sense of worth in my girls. I don't think I'll ever have to worry about getting a call like this one. I hope she makes the right decision and find love for herself. She needs to love HERSELF like she loves this man....if she did, she would be much better off, as for the tears, CRY ME A RIVER DARLING, you're the only reason for your pain, I'm not going to blame him one bit because she has the power to leave!
FortyFitandFine But where does TV get its information from but real life? I've talked to too many sistas of all different backgrounds who agree with me.
Wow... These comments about this young man are pitiful. I don't know what y'all see, but I think that he has great potential. First, he's extremely honest. Second, he doesn't have any children. Finally, he needs therapy, and a mentor. Now for the young lady, maybe she should move back with her parents while she get herself together.
Thrusha S he is a good young man. I should know cause I am his auntie and was raised right. if you know his story then you would see why but he is in college and working. she just finished medical school. you can't help who you love and it is not that fake love. they been though it all together but the love is real
I just saw this episode. I looked at that young woman and my heart understood her heart. She is trying to help him save his life. The last advice my grandfather gave me while dying was, "You must learn self preservation." This woman like me needs to learn that. She has a such a bright future. Wow. I read some of the comments below, one stating where were the parents? My answer, they were there telling her to wait. I can tell by the mother's letter to the judge. Remember when you were young and old enough to do what you wanted to do. Young and strong willed thinking love will solved all things in a relationship until you find it really takes someone to love you as much as he or she loves themselves. That young man never knew how to love himself the way she loves so. Not saying he does not love her he just does not know how. I hope they both realize what is best.
This young man shows me how important it is to plan & be ready for parenthood! He was cheated out of who he could have become. Can he recover? Maybe, but it won't be easy. Meanwhile, look at the ripple effects 1 injured soul has on the world.
Say what you will about his past, his present speaks for himself. He owned up to not being perfect, he owned up for screwing up, and he owned up for why he sucks at getting a job. He was up front with everything, but the poor girl kept her fingers in her ears singing la-la-la, while he was being up front to her. Rock on to improving yourself, dude, and rock on for trying to do more, girl, but never hide from the truth. It only hurts more.
she's more the man than he is and she's more a woman that he'll ever be. stay on birth control like your life depends on ot- cause it does... i pray she takes the advice. I feel so sad for the state of the black community. poor judge...this is painful!
Despite judge Lynn's advice, i can bet she is not going to leave him, she is so immature, girl , like judge Lynn always says, never let a man tells you he doesn't want you more than once
I hope he leaves her because it is clear as day that she is not strongh enough to finish this dysfunctional relationship. How do they even support themselves when neither is working?
Why do so many young women today in our society, set their standards so low? Why don't these young women have any aspirations or educational goals for themselves? Why arent they aspiring for a career the way that my momma taught me, and the way my husband and I are raising my daughter's? Why would this beautiful young woman marry this lazy bum instead of pursuing her own dreams and goals? Instead, she is defering to this man, and just living her life for him, and he isn't even working?! Young lady, walk away from this young man, attend college and pursue a career. Every woman needs to pursue her own dreams and have her own goals in life. Always be able to count on yourself and take care of yourself, with and without a husband.
A lot of people are looking for love in the wrong places because of insecurities and not feeling love. That's why they seek validation in someone else instead of having self love.
Wat a GREAT lesson of the day.... "If a man says "I CAN'T FIX IT!!" its not I only the truth in his mind... but he is ALSO UNWILLING to even LEARN a new way. Wat a pity. 😔😔 I hope she find the strength to leave. Becuz I believe she has wayyyy more ambition and Self love to get her to be the woman she was created to be.
Its jus soooooo sad to see a lot more ppl in the world a comfortable being mediocre.... than wanting to BETTER themselves and have GREAT RELATIONSHIPS. 💔💔💔😢😩😔😔😪
I feel some kinda way about this one. Yes she should run for the hills BUT he needs help. You can’t fault him for not knowing how to lead and grow if he raised himself. I hope the show offered him some support bc change is difficult. Grit and tenacity are internal for some but can be taught. He needs a pathway with lots of support.
*She needs to leave him and go back to school. That girl has so much potential, and she can't allow him to control her. A man who tries to control a woman, is an insecure male.*
This was heartbreaking; the one time a PERSON has been a complete waste on this show and actually LIVES in their truth - - You CAN'T be mad at him. The responsibility is all on her now. Poor thing.
This poor child... I hope she listens carefully to see that he's not mature enough to say I'm willing to try and make things work. The response he gave was so selfish and self centered. Hunny stop trying to find a DIY project in fixing a man. Let him work on himself and if he was truly in love he'd better himself for you. As of this moment RUN!!!! These young girls and grown women need to stop playing with their lives and stop trying to fix a man, this is not workshop 101.
I feel so bad for them both. Neither of them really know what to do. He don't know what to do and i don't blame him for what he don't know. at least he was able to verbally say it where as others won't.
Despite his past pimp'in I think these are decent people and they need a lot of support. They need a life coach, counseling on finances and communication and they need to find an opportunity for both of them to go back to school if that's what they want. If that means going on social assistance then so be it. I think there's a good amount potential with these two. The young man wants to like his job. I think he also wants to make good money so it's tempting to him or at least frustrating to him that pimp'in was so easy and made him such good money. I can understand the draw to a young person in bad circumstances no matter how a-moral it is.
The young man was smarter and needed the advice from the judge more. He’s started his journey to become a better man and this in itself needs to be applauded. He needs support from somewhere to learn not to not take steps backwards but keep moving forward. I hope he’s doing well for himself and found someone who could direct him
Her soul and heart were crying throughout the show. Maybe he filled a need that she lacked. Because she quit school ,stuck to him, even gave him money to stop pimping. Oil and water don't mix. He was honest. She married him young to belong and have love. Hopefully she wakes up.
A pimp at 13,wow and girls he pimped might been street girls,runaways become throwaways. open to all kinds abuse.I was out there ,approached by a pimp wanted to teach me how to be what he needed.I was so tired and scare d I ran back home to momma!!!even though it was rough there.
Classic case of good girl thinking bad boy will change just because she enters his life. I know someone like this. That young man was honest throughout the case so I know he’s probably been saying the same thing to her throughout the relationship. SHE didn’t want to let go and still doesn’t. He even resorted to treating her badly with the hopes she would leave on her own and to no avail. Until she heals what’s broken inside of her, she’ll get another one, possibly worse than this one. Hope she gets the help she needs.
I feel sorry for this couple. For once, I don't believe Judge Lynne got it right. They need help; plenty of help. If they love each other, like I think they do, they need advice. He needs schooling and they both need counselling. She needs to continue her education and he needs a entire change of mindset. Judge Lynne should have opened their eyes more to the possibilities of bettering themselves, instead of asking her to walk away
I would never ever drop out of school or leave a job for a man that would put me in a even worser situation,cause he cant keep a job..an bad enough,he doesn't even like working🤦♀️🤨..these 2 is better off apart,they have no idea what marriage is about..
At least he was man enough to tell her he cant take care of her not b/c he dont want to but b/c he dont know how... Now you got to respect that. She gonna stay and end of taking care of him but its selfish b/c he needs to learn to be a man and he cant if she does everything for him all caz she loves him.... Love him enough to leave him along and let him grow
I could be not seeing what you guys are seeing. But I think he's honest, and I appreciate that. I think she is not being realistic. They both have to do better.
How is she a house wife and he's unemployed...ya'll are housePARTNERS.
lol
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lol
Lol!
When I saw that, I was like 🤔
Now I've definitely heard it all 🤣🤣🤣
she quit her job for someone who can't keep one smh lol
Danielle Carruth i think the judge went into her chambers and cried after this case...
I couldn’t get past the work “seldomly”
She wanted to quit it wasn't because of him.
That what some black women do. Look how these black women choose these kids dads. Then these women don't know how to raise a son.
He's not holding her back. She's holding herself back.
Cheryl Nicholson if she is holding onto THAT she needs help BIGTIME.
yep
Cheryl Nicholson Fact!
More woman than you’ll ever get.... and you ain’t even working
IF SHE'S HOLDING EVERYTHING DOWN SHE NEEDS TO LET HIM GO HE'S LOOKING FOR SOMEONE TO TAKE CARE HIS ASS 😂😂
I noticed the young lady was at the brink of breaking down throughout the episode. She seemed so sad but yet she didn't want to let him go. I hope she gets out of her own way and gets back on track.
naw.. she'll be on the stroll in a couple years.. What kind of women falls in love with pimps?..
J. Jnz Someone who is insecure and doesn't know their worth.
Ummm HOPEFULLY she's NOT on the stroll in a couple of years. WTF.?
what did her mom say in the letter?
Johfatima lol
This is what happens when you think you can change someone. They are who they are.
Royal One Right.. it's either you take them as they are or you don't.
Royal One 😀😬
That ending got me. He admitted he couldn't be the man for her. That her Cue to leave.
It was something that he just didn't want to do. She was shocked..
Easy money:
This young lady needs to get away from him ,get some therapy, go back to school ,& concentrate on herself first ,before she starts another relationship
more likely they will have a baby and she will stay just for the sake of the child smh
She will stay and use the age old excuse she staying for the child...
i actually cried for her. She was broken all through. It was evident she was aware there was nothing else left to save in the relationship. She just didn't want to face and accept it.
I hope she finds the strength to leave him. She can always rebuild herself, go back to school, get a job etc.
She's just 24. She got time.
I'm going to be 30 and i still think i can do and be anything i want.
Bonita Porsche I fell bad too ! Hope she's leaves Him !
I feel so sorry for her. U can tell she knows its not right but it was probably the first love like that she has felt
I'm standing in agreement with you and keeping this young lady in prayer as well. Amen.... @it is never too late to start over unless you're dead..
Be Blessed;)...
You can. Educate yourself, career orient yourself equals financial security.
Why feel bad for her choices she made in her life? O right women can't take accountability in thier own actions because they repeatedly choose the same guy over n over. New face but same type of guy.
Him : I don't like to work
Me: Walks away*
Him: where you going
Me: my Uber's downstairs I'm leaving
Shaska Frazer THIS!!!! 😂😂😂😂😂🙌🏾
Shaska Frazer she says he didn't have a job when they met so what the hell did she find attractive in him?
Good for you ... same here,
Shaska Frazer 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 ooohhh gal ur right
Period
although I hate they had a miscarriage they should thank God they don't have any children and both of them can walk away with no strings attached.
cryospiral Exactly!!!!
Bloombaby99 yea, it doesn't happen too often
I hope God keeps them sterile.
The answer is no. This is the reality for black women: settle or be alone.
@ Bloombaby99- GTFOH with that fatalistic attitude. It's a self-fulfilling prophecy! If you want something that you've never had, you have to do something you've never done. Insanity is doing the same thing, over and over, and expecting different results. I'm a Black man who has been married to a Black woman for 17 years! Believe, we do NOT participate is the fuckery that all too many of us participate in.
When he said he didn't like to work I KNEW this episode would be stupid.
so she quit school and her job to get dumped on national TV.SMH
Wow when you put like that 😭
Lmao
A MAN don't work HE don't eat
Bible!!!
Preach
Anyone whoever wanted to get married should watch this. PSA You can't change someone no matter how hard you try.
True
No lies detected in your statement. I just kept Smdh the entire episode.
That hurt person has to want.to change.
Anytime a person has mommy issues you will never have a decent male or female relationships.
relationships these days are sad af.. smh
indeed
i rather Stay Single
It's what you make it.
There full of desperate ppl who will put up with anything just to not be alone...
The judge reminds me of the women in my family... the women in my family are wise and strong and taught me all the values of being a real woman... I am so blessed...
You are.
I was gone from he said he don't like work
Kelleye Harvey yessssss!!!!!!!
IDK how he has the gall to say he doesn't like to work. That must mean he doesn't like money, food, a place to live, clothes, shoes, cable. electricity, etc. And then has the nerve to encourage her to be a housewife? Foolishness.
Kelleye Harvey lol
Kelleye Harvey nobody likes to work only a fool likes to work we all work because we need the money
Kelleye Harvey he was a pimp at age 13-22 dear lawd
She's afraid of letting him down like everyone else has in his life. She feels like she has to be what are you didn't have because she loves him but sometimes you have to love someone from a distance
Please MOM rent a truck and get her out of there.!!!! Pleeeease MOM. Please MOM, Amelia needs your help. please MOM Amelia is stuck and needs your help., PLEASE!!!
PLEASE!!!
PLEASE!!!!!!
Sista...leave that man alone..He don't want to work..Abandon Ship!
Leave her! If you know you'll never be the man she needs, leave her. It's the best decision and gift you could ever give her.
deeper into the episode i was asking myself where are their parents?? this is one of the best episodes of this season I've seen yet and the advice from Judge Lynn is absolutely spot on. And many many young girls fall into this with a guy and still want to ride with him to nowhere. Very deep this.
RR Clart god it sad
Wow!!! Women with low esteem always I mean "ALWAYS" are going to get hurt because they fall for the guy who depends on them..
Right parents kept him around her at her home, then asked them to become a couple. But they had to know he was not on the right track in life. People families sometimes be their own downfall. People will set you up with people they would never date.
There is a level of simple mindedness, codependency, and denial that I just can't fathom. These people seem like they're clinically depressed to the point that they just can't function. I think they both need medication and therapy. neither one of them strike me as bad people, just extremely and severely broken.
I don't think either is broken. The guy has never learned what most of us take for granted. Imagine having more money than you've ever had and then going to work for minimum wage and barely surviving. It's like look at it through his eyes. With her, I think she absolutely loves him with everything he's endured and what she doesn't realize is that for her to survive, she has to take care of herself first and foremost.
Yes I agree there are much deeper issues at play here. They need to get themselves together BEFORE thinking about a relationship
She's desperate for love and she doesn't know herself or her self worth. This is really sad....she has a void that she's trying to fill with him. He doesn't want her anymore, but she's so naive and she really wants a fairytale ending.
Her mama needs to beat her behind...physically!
'I don't like to work'
'I quit school to hang out with him because I fell hard for him'
'He made me quit my job' [he can't keep a job]
Wow.
I can just look at him and tell he ain't shit.
Naturally 4C lol
Damn, I thought I was the only one. I saw the thumbnail, and I just KNEW he was a fuckboy.
Naturally 4C showing all that teeth..
lmao
I agree. He look like a mini version of my ex. So I knew right away he ant shit.
I really want to give her a hug. Definitely have been there. Experience is a great teacher. After you have no more tears left to cry, and you have learned the lesson, the whole world will open up. It all starts with one step.
That step is to leave his ugly Azzzzz
She's so pretty and she has such a calm and pure demeanor.
You can tell deep down she's smart. It sucks to leave someone you love, but this is not the man for her. She's smart and is capable of so much.. you can just see it in her demeanor. Sad story when you look at it with firm, non judgmental eyes..
Lawd that was deep! Hopefully she opens her eyes and realizes he doesn't feel he has any hope. Smh
she shouldn't had quit her job or dropped out of school for him smh!
Danielle Carruth she just finish medical school and he is in college. all truth he is a smart man. life just got the best of him growing up. I should know cause I am his auntie and trust he was not raised like that. he is working and doing better
How about her parents never should have suggested them becoming a couple. They're the ones to blame. They knew he was a bum from the beginning.
She didn't my sister graduated already she stop going to med school for this bum ass nigga
How in the world do you expect a man with a pimp mentality to respect you as a woman. Not going to happen. Raise your standards!
Amen
I think her life would be better without him. Her life is going to be hell with him.
He doesn't want to work. He'll who does? I don't want to work. My sistah you are going to ruin your life.
Soooooo....she knows this man doesn't like to work and still marries him? This is a hot funky mess! He has no solutions to anything, his words. They're too young mentally. Sorry for their loss, but thank God that baby went back to heaven cuz they would've been setting the child up for a lifetime of foolishness!
luvmifro1003 JESUS
When a man says something of that nature, you better believe him.
She's such a beautiful girl and you can tell she's a good girl with a bright future if she leaves him and learns to love herself. It is a shame that one day she will look back and see all the time she wasted and realize that so called love she thought she had wasn't worth it.
Gurl...You better run, and never look back, always look forward.
Him: I dont like to work
Me: walks away.. No run as fast as I can
This is just sad , young woman who goes straight listening to a guy w/o doing her own thing , she's too submissive and that is her downfall , she's young and has time to build her life up , leave him and upgrade yourself
How is she a housewife when he’s unemployed?
She’s a homeowner/renter. He’s a squatter!
I think the judge is so pretty! For a 50 something, she looks damn good!
Journally Dentiesiv I'm always in awe at how pretty she I totally agree with you 👏👐😆
Journally Dentiesiv yup and way nicer than judge judy
I am a 58 year old white woman i could only dream to have her beautiful complexion. Black women are blessed in many cases with beautiful skin.
Listen and don't let him have to tell you more than once your not worth him changing!!
Corey is not just unwilling to keep a job, he's unwilling to be a mature adult. Amelia is too insecure to bounce for some reason - you give up college and a job for a guy who has nothing to give you in return? That's a self-esteem issue there. The judge tells you to roll, your own mother sees the problem, and finally he says he doesn't have a solution to the relationship... all that adds up to "Mom, it's Amelia - rent a truck and come pick me up." Hopefully, she makes that phone call.
+Sosa Charles lol in you know this I am Corey
MdniteEagl He will probably go back to pimping
Again a classic case of "I'm gonna Change him into what I want him to be" He was in the streets pimping ,she knew he was lousy but had to have him. I see too many women do this & mess themselves up over this. Thank God they didn't have any kids.
This one broke my heart. If he wants to change, he can learn to be in a marriage. I hope she's doing well.
Because of his background, he is telling the truth about his feeling of lack of belief about love. Being a pimp at the age of 13 is very telling; he has no idea about morality & the value of a good woman or man. They both need to separate & get some serious psychological counseling & then begin to follow their dreams.
The nerve to cry like that and claim love at only 24 for a man who made you give up your independence. I hope reality hits her hard and soon. I wish her the best.
NOTHING changes when you get MARRIED, if he broke with no job... that don't change! gurl bye
If she seriously stands there and tells the Judge that she's not going to leave him. SHE GETS EXACTLY WHAT SHE DESERVES!!! I don't feel sorry for her. She's being PIMPED and doesn't even know it. She went to him and basically said she will pay for him, she gives him money, she pays all the bills, and he sits home. He doesn't need whores anymore because he has her. I would kick my daughters ASS. I thank GOD DAILY for allowing me to instill some kind of sense of worth in my girls. I don't think I'll ever have to worry about getting a call like this one. I hope she makes the right decision and find love for herself. She needs to love HERSELF like she loves this man....if she did, she would be much better off, as for the tears, CRY ME A RIVER DARLING, you're the only reason for your pain, I'm not going to blame him one bit because she has the power to leave!
Yeap she is his full time trick.
FortyFitandFine This is the reality for all if not most black women: settle for less or be alone.
Bloombaby99 👏🏽 yep and its very very sad
Bloombaby99 it's definitely NOT THE REALITY FOR ALL BLACK WOMEN...
that's what the media wants ppl to believe, that's why they keep putting it on TV.
FortyFitandFine But where does TV get its information from but real life? I've talked to too many sistas of all different backgrounds who agree with me.
Wow... These comments about this young man are pitiful. I don't know what y'all see, but I think that he has great potential. First, he's extremely honest. Second, he doesn't have any children. Finally, he needs therapy, and a mentor. Now for the young lady, maybe she should move back with her parents while she get herself together.
Thrusha S he is a good young man. I should know cause I am his auntie and was raised right. if you know his story then you would see why but he is in college and working. she just finished medical school. you can't help who you love and it is not that fake love. they been though it all together but the love is real
@ Luketta That's Great, even though I don't know any of them personally, I wish them nothing but the best.
Luketta Williamd Good for them, am happy it turned out well....
These two are young and clueless
I just saw this episode. I looked at that young woman and my heart understood her heart. She is trying to help him save his life. The last advice my grandfather gave me while dying was, "You must learn self preservation." This woman like me needs to learn that. She has a such a bright future. Wow. I read some of the comments below, one stating where were the parents? My answer, they were there telling her to wait. I can tell by the mother's letter to the judge. Remember when you were young and old enough to do what you wanted to do. Young and strong willed thinking love will solved all things in a relationship until you find it really takes someone to love you as much as he or she loves themselves. That young man never knew how to love himself the way she loves so. Not saying he does not love her he just does not know how. I hope they both realize what is best.
Saddest case ever. At least he is self aware and honest enough to say he’s done
This young man shows me how important it is to plan & be ready for parenthood! He was cheated out of who he could have become. Can he recover? Maybe, but it won't be easy. Meanwhile, look at the ripple effects 1 injured soul has on the world.
low self esteem makes one dumb do things for love...
His coat sleeves are womanly though😂😂😩😩
That damn "mustache" is struggling hard as hell. I can't stand to look... why?!?! This beautiful girl could do so much better for herself.
Say what you will about his past, his present speaks for himself. He owned up to not being perfect, he owned up for screwing up, and he owned up for why he sucks at getting a job. He was up front with everything, but the poor girl kept her fingers in her ears singing la-la-la, while he was being up front to her. Rock on to improving yourself, dude, and rock on for trying to do more, girl, but never hide from the truth. It only hurts more.
I have been very touched by this episode, it clearly shows that people don't marry because they are just in love, there is alot involved first
she's more the man than he is and she's more a woman that he'll ever be.
stay on birth control like your life depends on ot- cause it does...
i pray she takes the advice.
I feel so sad for the state of the black community.
poor judge...this is painful!
That quote is from that silly movie "Car Wash"
she ain't going no where
BAD INFLUENCE. Classic case of BAD INFLUENCE.
Baaaaddddd influence.
I agree....her mother's heart must be aching!
This is the problem with our black people: too many men are looking for second mamas and women are too eager and desperate to play that role.
Bloombaby99 So true. Smh
Despite judge Lynn's advice, i can bet she is not going to leave him, she is so immature, girl , like judge Lynn always says, never let a man tells you he doesn't want you more than once
Lili Roro Why did they bother come in the show they’re not going to change just a complete waste of time
I hope he leaves her because it is clear as day that she is not strongh enough to finish this dysfunctional relationship. How do they even support themselves when neither is working?
Why do so many young women today in our society, set their standards so low? Why don't these young women have any aspirations or educational goals for themselves? Why arent they aspiring for a career the way that my momma taught me, and the way my husband and I are raising my daughter's? Why would this beautiful young woman marry this lazy bum instead of pursuing her own dreams and goals? Instead, she is defering to this man, and just living her life for him, and he isn't even working?! Young lady, walk away from this young man, attend college and pursue a career. Every woman needs to pursue her own dreams and have her own goals in life. Always be able to count on yourself and take care of yourself, with and without a husband.
A lot of people are looking for love in the wrong places because of insecurities and not feeling love. That's why they seek validation in someone else instead of having self love.
This was really sad to me. I wish them both the best.
Lovieshea Ogunleye they are doing good. she just finish medical school, he is working and going to college
Wat a GREAT lesson of the day....
"If a man says
"I CAN'T FIX IT!!" its not I only the truth in his mind... but he is ALSO UNWILLING to even LEARN a new way.
Wat a pity. 😔😔
I hope she find the strength to leave. Becuz I believe she has wayyyy more ambition and Self love to get her to be the woman she was created to be.
Its jus soooooo sad to see a lot more ppl in the world a comfortable being mediocre.... than wanting to BETTER themselves and have GREAT RELATIONSHIPS.
💔💔💔😢😩😔😔😪
What happened to this couple? I wanna know
a good girl chasing a bad boy. its crazy
I feel some kinda way about this one. Yes she should run for the hills BUT he needs help. You can’t fault him for not knowing how to lead and grow if he raised himself. I hope the show offered him some support bc change is difficult. Grit and tenacity are internal for some but can be taught. He needs a pathway with lots of support.
I need a girl who will love me like this girl!
Geoff Jasper I hope it's works out for you !
Judge Lynn is highly intelligent! God bless u ma
He's getting on my nerves and the show hasn't started yet.
God dang home boy's lips are on pout..haha
They are very kissable. I like them.
His lips I mean. not him.
Kayla Everett ...really? I hate them! I wanna slap them, silly! lol
He was a “pimp” they don’t have any respect for women.......
You know I appreciate the fact that he was honest about being a bum
*She needs to leave him and go back to school. That girl has so much potential, and she can't allow him to control her. A man who tries to control a woman, is an insecure male.*
Cooking the chicken at 225? That's how to dry it out, not how to cook it!
This was heartbreaking; the one time a PERSON has been a complete waste on this show and actually LIVES in their truth - - You CAN'T be mad at him. The responsibility is all on her now. Poor thing.
He didn't want to be married. Period, Point, Blank.
This poor child... I hope she listens carefully to see that he's not mature enough to say I'm willing to try and make things work. The response he gave was so selfish and self centered. Hunny stop trying to find a DIY project in fixing a man. Let him work on himself and if he was truly in love he'd better himself for you. As of this moment RUN!!!! These young girls and grown women need to stop playing with their lives and stop trying to fix a man, this is not workshop 101.
They are both just young. She will bounce back with no problem and he is making the manliest move he could make at this point.
I feel so bad for them both. Neither of them really know what to do. He don't know what to do and i don't blame him for what he don't know. at least he was able to verbally say it where as others won't.
this was years ago.. I wonder where they are now? They are a cute couple and I wish them both well..
He’s abusing her mentally/emotionally. She’s broken down that’s why she can’t leave. I have been this girl.
Girl c’mon! You gotta observe, assess and make the right decision. You just cant quit your job!
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I have no sympathy for someone who marries a pimp.
Despite his past pimp'in I think these are decent people and they need a lot of support. They need a life coach, counseling on finances and communication and they need to find an opportunity for both of them to go back to school if that's what they want. If that means going on social assistance then so be it. I think there's a good amount potential with these two. The young man wants to like his job. I think he also wants to make good money so it's tempting to him or at least frustrating to him that pimp'in was so easy and made him such good money. I can understand the draw to a young person in bad circumstances no matter how a-moral it is.
Mr. Embry needs counseling with Dr. Phil
The young man was smarter and needed the advice from the judge more. He’s started his journey to become a better man and this in itself needs to be applauded. He needs support from somewhere to learn not to not take steps backwards but keep moving forward.
I hope he’s doing well for himself and found someone who could direct him
Her soul and heart were crying throughout the show. Maybe he filled a need that she lacked. Because she quit school ,stuck to him, even gave him money to stop pimping. Oil and water don't mix. He was honest. She married him young to belong and have love. Hopefully she wakes up.
A pimp at 13,wow and girls he pimped might been street girls,runaways become throwaways. open to all kinds abuse.I was out there ,approached by a pimp wanted to teach me how to be what he needed.I was so tired and scare d I ran back home to momma!!!even though it was rough there.
Love made her throw away her goals and aspirations? So stupid, you never lose your tomorrow for anyone.
Classic case of good girl thinking bad boy will change just because she enters his life. I know someone like this. That young man was honest throughout the case so I know he’s probably been saying the same thing to her throughout the relationship. SHE didn’t want to let go and still doesn’t. He even resorted to treating her badly with the hopes she would leave on her own and to no avail. Until she heals what’s broken inside of her, she’ll get another one, possibly worse than this one. Hope she gets the help she needs.
I feel sorry for this couple. For once, I don't believe Judge Lynne got it right. They need help; plenty of help. If they love each other, like I think they do, they need advice. He needs schooling and they both need counselling. She needs to continue her education and he needs a entire change of mindset. Judge Lynne should have opened their eyes more to the possibilities of bettering themselves, instead of asking her to walk away
I would never ever drop out of school or leave a job for a man that would put me in a even worser situation,cause he cant keep a job..an bad enough,he doesn't even like working🤦♀️🤨..these 2 is better off apart,they have no idea what marriage is about..
Sew rrc
NO MAN IS WORTH GIVING UP SCHOOL!!!! IF U KNEW IT WAS STUPID WHY DID U DO IT OH MY GODDDDDD IM GONNA SCREAM
This case was clean, cut, and dry. He does not want to work and does not want her because she complains about it. Thank god no kids are involved.
At least he was man enough to tell her he cant take care of her not b/c he dont want to but b/c he dont know how... Now you got to respect that. She gonna stay and end of taking care of him but its selfish b/c he needs to learn to be a man and he cant if she does everything for him all caz she loves him.... Love him enough to leave him along and let him grow
I could be not seeing what you guys are seeing. But I think he's honest, and I appreciate that. I think she is not being realistic. They both have to do better.