DIVORCE COURT Full Episode: Earl vs Embry

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  • čas přidán 7. 09. 2024
  • Amelia and Corey married at a young age, but it's Corey unwillingness to keep a job that's hurting their marriage.
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Komentáře • 567

  • @kaylaeve1739
    @kaylaeve1739 Před 7 lety +294

    How is she a house wife and he's unemployed...ya'll are housePARTNERS.

  • @daniellecarruth1955
    @daniellecarruth1955 Před 7 lety +296

    she quit her job for someone who can't keep one smh lol

    • @dorrettp1339
      @dorrettp1339 Před 7 lety +19

      Danielle Carruth i think the judge went into her chambers and cried after this case...

    • @wordplay1415
      @wordplay1415 Před 2 lety +3

      I couldn’t get past the work “seldomly”

    • @undertalea2638
      @undertalea2638 Před 2 lety

      She wanted to quit it wasn't because of him.

    • @troy028
      @troy028 Před rokem

      That what some black women do. Look how these black women choose these kids dads. Then these women don't know how to raise a son.

  • @cdnicholson01
    @cdnicholson01 Před 7 lety +385

    He's not holding her back. She's holding herself back.

    • @RedestBlaze
      @RedestBlaze Před 6 lety +6

      Cheryl Nicholson if she is holding onto THAT she needs help BIGTIME.

    • @4656superman
      @4656superman Před 5 lety +4

      yep

    • @oluremiabayomi5924
      @oluremiabayomi5924 Před 5 lety +1

      Cheryl Nicholson Fact!

    • @coriesmith2633
      @coriesmith2633 Před 4 lety +3

      More woman than you’ll ever get.... and you ain’t even working

    • @bettyhill8182
      @bettyhill8182 Před 4 lety

      IF SHE'S HOLDING EVERYTHING DOWN SHE NEEDS TO LET HIM GO HE'S LOOKING FOR SOMEONE TO TAKE CARE HIS ASS 😂😂

  • @MrMusickid23
    @MrMusickid23 Před 7 lety +381

    I noticed the young lady was at the brink of breaking down throughout the episode. She seemed so sad but yet she didn't want to let him go. I hope she gets out of her own way and gets back on track.

    • @fdmg
      @fdmg Před 7 lety +10

      naw.. she'll be on the stroll in a couple years.. What kind of women falls in love with pimps?..

    • @MrMusickid23
      @MrMusickid23 Před 7 lety +37

      J. Jnz Someone who is insecure and doesn't know their worth.

    • @sirpaidalot19
      @sirpaidalot19 Před 7 lety +24

      Ummm HOPEFULLY she's NOT on the stroll in a couple of years. WTF.?

    • @dorrettp1339
      @dorrettp1339 Před 7 lety +2

      what did her mom say in the letter?

    • @cuddleybear9612
      @cuddleybear9612 Před 6 lety

      Johfatima lol

  • @royalone5251
    @royalone5251 Před 7 lety +328

    This is what happens when you think you can change someone. They are who they are.

  • @MeekMeowz
    @MeekMeowz Před 7 lety +260

    That ending got me. He admitted he couldn't be the man for her. That her Cue to leave.

  • @TheNAUGHTYNOOK2
    @TheNAUGHTYNOOK2 Před 7 lety +228

    This young lady needs to get away from him ,get some therapy, go back to school ,& concentrate on herself first ,before she starts another relationship

    • @rrayeclart7716
      @rrayeclart7716 Před 7 lety +16

      more likely they will have a baby and she will stay just for the sake of the child smh

    • @MochaMadness74
      @MochaMadness74 Před 4 lety +1

      She will stay and use the age old excuse she staying for the child...

  • @goodyo716
    @goodyo716 Před 7 lety +163

    i actually cried for her. She was broken all through. It was evident she was aware there was nothing else left to save in the relationship. She just didn't want to face and accept it.
    I hope she finds the strength to leave him. She can always rebuild herself, go back to school, get a job etc.
    She's just 24. She got time.
    I'm going to be 30 and i still think i can do and be anything i want.

    • @lkcjr58
      @lkcjr58 Před 7 lety

      Bonita Porsche I fell bad too ! Hope she's leaves Him !

    • @monijenee
      @monijenee Před 5 lety +4

      I feel so sorry for her. U can tell she knows its not right but it was probably the first love like that she has felt

    • @mz.williams7368
      @mz.williams7368 Před 4 lety +1

      I'm standing in agreement with you and keeping this young lady in prayer as well. Amen.... @it is never too late to start over unless you're dead..
      Be Blessed;)...

    • @beverlyhall4578
      @beverlyhall4578 Před 2 lety +1

      You can. Educate yourself, career orient yourself equals financial security.

    • @troy028
      @troy028 Před rokem

      Why feel bad for her choices she made in her life? O right women can't take accountability in thier own actions because they repeatedly choose the same guy over n over. New face but same type of guy.

  • @ashkatnoy3420
    @ashkatnoy3420 Před 7 lety +307

    Him : I don't like to work
    Me: Walks away*
    Him: where you going
    Me: my Uber's downstairs I'm leaving

    • @ashlinluvsaries
      @ashlinluvsaries Před 7 lety +5

      Shaska Frazer THIS!!!! 😂😂😂😂😂🙌🏾

    • @leggs4113
      @leggs4113 Před 7 lety +13

      Shaska Frazer she says he didn't have a job when they met so what the hell did she find attractive in him?

    • @RedestBlaze
      @RedestBlaze Před 6 lety +4

      Good for you ... same here,

    • @jesusislord3668
      @jesusislord3668 Před 6 lety +4

      Shaska Frazer 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 ooohhh gal ur right

    • @shannab8015
      @shannab8015 Před 5 lety +2

      Period

  • @cryospiral
    @cryospiral Před 7 lety +287

    although I hate they had a miscarriage they should thank God they don't have any children and both of them can walk away with no strings attached.

    • @Bloombaby99
      @Bloombaby99 Před 7 lety +6

      cryospiral Exactly!!!!

    • @cryospiral
      @cryospiral Před 7 lety +2

      Bloombaby99 yea, it doesn't happen too often

    • @October3074
      @October3074 Před 7 lety +6

      I hope God keeps them sterile.

    • @Bloombaby99
      @Bloombaby99 Před 7 lety +23

      The answer is no. This is the reality for black women: settle or be alone.

    • @RooseveltAliWashingtonX
      @RooseveltAliWashingtonX Před 7 lety +11

      @ Bloombaby99- GTFOH with that fatalistic attitude. It's a self-fulfilling prophecy! If you want something that you've never had, you have to do something you've never done. Insanity is doing the same thing, over and over, and expecting different results. I'm a Black man who has been married to a Black woman for 17 years! Believe, we do NOT participate is the fuckery that all too many of us participate in.

  • @JaNequaDesiree
    @JaNequaDesiree Před 7 lety +64

    When he said he didn't like to work I KNEW this episode would be stupid.

  • @thankuwelcome2153
    @thankuwelcome2153 Před 7 lety +67

    so she quit school and her job to get dumped on national TV.SMH

  • @onamissontootakebackwhatth1025

    A MAN don't work HE don't eat

  • @jaycolby7005
    @jaycolby7005 Před 7 lety +46

    Anyone whoever wanted to get married should watch this. PSA You can't change someone no matter how hard you try.

    • @NellieKAdaba
      @NellieKAdaba Před 7 lety

      True

    • @DrNikkiCole-Davis
      @DrNikkiCole-Davis Před 2 lety +1

      No lies detected in your statement. I just kept Smdh the entire episode.

    • @beverlyhall4578
      @beverlyhall4578 Před 2 lety +1

      That hurt person has to want.to change.

    • @beverlyhall4578
      @beverlyhall4578 Před měsícem

      Anytime a person has mommy issues you will never have a decent male or female relationships.

  • @redlotusqueen
    @redlotusqueen Před 7 lety +176

    relationships these days are sad af.. smh

  • @PrettyGirlCrochetBraidz
    @PrettyGirlCrochetBraidz Před 7 lety +27

    The judge reminds me of the women in my family... the women in my family are wise and strong and taught me all the values of being a real woman... I am so blessed...

  • @kelleyeharvey6593
    @kelleyeharvey6593 Před 7 lety +193

    I was gone from he said he don't like work

    • @SimplyFitwithJay
      @SimplyFitwithJay Před 7 lety +6

      Kelleye Harvey yessssss!!!!!!!

    • @NDB82
      @NDB82 Před 7 lety +18

      IDK how he has the gall to say he doesn't like to work. That must mean he doesn't like money, food, a place to live, clothes, shoes, cable. electricity, etc. And then has the nerve to encourage her to be a housewife? Foolishness.

    • @b.graham
      @b.graham Před 6 lety

      Kelleye Harvey lol

    • @kingjay830
      @kingjay830 Před 6 lety +6

      Kelleye Harvey nobody likes to work only a fool likes to work we all work because we need the money

    • @denisemanfre9542
      @denisemanfre9542 Před 5 lety

      Kelleye Harvey he was a pimp at age 13-22 dear lawd

  • @tiasway
    @tiasway Před 5 lety +23

    She's afraid of letting him down like everyone else has in his life. She feels like she has to be what are you didn't have because she loves him but sometimes you have to love someone from a distance

  • @ginglesgiant8866
    @ginglesgiant8866 Před 7 lety +62

    Please MOM rent a truck and get her out of there.!!!! Pleeeease MOM. Please MOM, Amelia needs your help. please MOM Amelia is stuck and needs your help., PLEASE!!!
    PLEASE!!!
    PLEASE!!!!!!

  • @sexymama1966
    @sexymama1966 Před 7 lety +49

    Sista...leave that man alone..He don't want to work..Abandon Ship!

  • @mrsdickerson2018
    @mrsdickerson2018 Před 7 lety +29

    Leave her! If you know you'll never be the man she needs, leave her. It's the best decision and gift you could ever give her.

  • @rrayeclart7716
    @rrayeclart7716 Před 7 lety +139

    deeper into the episode i was asking myself where are their parents?? this is one of the best episodes of this season I've seen yet and the advice from Judge Lynn is absolutely spot on. And many many young girls fall into this with a guy and still want to ride with him to nowhere. Very deep this.

    • @dorrettp1339
      @dorrettp1339 Před 7 lety +2

      RR Clart god it sad

    • @jojooscar2884
      @jojooscar2884 Před 6 lety +3

      Wow!!! Women with low esteem always I mean "ALWAYS" are going to get hurt because they fall for the guy who depends on them..

    • @brishaberries0101
      @brishaberries0101 Před 5 lety +1

      Right parents kept him around her at her home, then asked them to become a couple. But they had to know he was not on the right track in life. People families sometimes be their own downfall. People will set you up with people they would never date.

  • @LadyLime100
    @LadyLime100 Před 7 lety +71

    There is a level of simple mindedness, codependency, and denial that I just can't fathom. These people seem like they're clinically depressed to the point that they just can't function. I think they both need medication and therapy. neither one of them strike me as bad people, just extremely and severely broken.

    • @Limerick502
      @Limerick502 Před 6 lety +7

      I don't think either is broken. The guy has never learned what most of us take for granted. Imagine having more money than you've ever had and then going to work for minimum wage and barely surviving. It's like look at it through his eyes. With her, I think she absolutely loves him with everything he's endured and what she doesn't realize is that for her to survive, she has to take care of herself first and foremost.

    • @chayegr
      @chayegr Před 6 lety +4

      Yes I agree there are much deeper issues at play here. They need to get themselves together BEFORE thinking about a relationship

  • @adri1alicia
    @adri1alicia Před 7 lety +43

    She's desperate for love and she doesn't know herself or her self worth. This is really sad....she has a void that she's trying to fill with him. He doesn't want her anymore, but she's so naive and she really wants a fairytale ending.

    • @kingtutakhamon
      @kingtutakhamon Před 6 lety

      Her mama needs to beat her behind...physically!

  • @nkule2493
    @nkule2493 Před 4 lety +9

    'I don't like to work'
    'I quit school to hang out with him because I fell hard for him'
    'He made me quit my job' [he can't keep a job]
    Wow.

  • @justjiving
    @justjiving Před 7 lety +105

    I can just look at him and tell he ain't shit.

    • @TheQuranExplainsItself
      @TheQuranExplainsItself Před 7 lety +3

      Naturally 4C lol

    • @Zhane-ce7nj
      @Zhane-ce7nj Před 7 lety +15

      Damn, I thought I was the only one. I saw the thumbnail, and I just KNEW he was a fuckboy.

    • @dorrettp1339
      @dorrettp1339 Před 7 lety +8

      Naturally 4C showing all that teeth..

    • @tonysnow2993
      @tonysnow2993 Před 7 lety +1

      lmao

    • @shyajav5527
      @shyajav5527 Před 7 lety

      I agree. He look like a mini version of my ex. So I knew right away he ant shit.

  • @ashleyayeisha2504
    @ashleyayeisha2504 Před 6 lety +13

    I really want to give her a hug. Definitely have been there. Experience is a great teacher. After you have no more tears left to cry, and you have learned the lesson, the whole world will open up. It all starts with one step.

  • @ndombologique
    @ndombologique Před 7 lety +47

    She's so pretty and she has such a calm and pure demeanor.

  • @itsangelahey
    @itsangelahey Před 7 lety +30

    You can tell deep down she's smart. It sucks to leave someone you love, but this is not the man for her. She's smart and is capable of so much.. you can just see it in her demeanor. Sad story when you look at it with firm, non judgmental eyes..

  • @OhSo805
    @OhSo805 Před 7 lety +71

    Lawd that was deep! Hopefully she opens her eyes and realizes he doesn't feel he has any hope. Smh

  • @daniellecarruth1955
    @daniellecarruth1955 Před 7 lety +35

    she shouldn't had quit her job or dropped out of school for him smh!

    • @lukettawilliamd4091
      @lukettawilliamd4091 Před 7 lety

      Danielle Carruth she just finish medical school and he is in college. all truth he is a smart man. life just got the best of him growing up. I should know cause I am his auntie and trust he was not raised like that. he is working and doing better

    • @brishaberries0101
      @brishaberries0101 Před 5 lety

      How about her parents never should have suggested them becoming a couple. They're the ones to blame. They knew he was a bum from the beginning.

    • @panama_jack120
      @panama_jack120 Před 5 lety

      She didn't my sister graduated already she stop going to med school for this bum ass nigga

  • @sisteryaya24
    @sisteryaya24 Před 7 lety +27

    How in the world do you expect a man with a pimp mentality to respect you as a woman. Not going to happen. Raise your standards!

  • @pookienempooky9339
    @pookienempooky9339 Před 7 lety +40

    I think her life would be better without him. Her life is going to be hell with him.

    • @pookienempooky9339
      @pookienempooky9339 Před 7 lety +12

      He doesn't want to work. He'll who does? I don't want to work. My sistah you are going to ruin your life.

  • @luvmifro1003lovesfamily
    @luvmifro1003lovesfamily Před 7 lety +31

    Soooooo....she knows this man doesn't like to work and still marries him? This is a hot funky mess! He has no solutions to anything, his words. They're too young mentally. Sorry for their loss, but thank God that baby went back to heaven cuz they would've been setting the child up for a lifetime of foolishness!

  • @MP-nj1qy
    @MP-nj1qy Před 4 lety +7

    When a man says something of that nature, you better believe him.

  • @shortydowop5002
    @shortydowop5002 Před 7 lety +15

    She's such a beautiful girl and you can tell she's a good girl with a bright future if she leaves him and learns to love herself. It is a shame that one day she will look back and see all the time she wasted and realize that so called love she thought she had wasn't worth it.

  • @kaywilkerson4937
    @kaywilkerson4937 Před 7 lety +18

    Gurl...You better run, and never look back, always look forward.

  • @NunpuiiHauzel
    @NunpuiiHauzel Před 6 lety +6

    Him: I dont like to work
    Me: walks away.. No run as fast as I can

  • @donaldneil2020
    @donaldneil2020 Před 7 lety +28

    This is just sad , young woman who goes straight listening to a guy w/o doing her own thing , she's too submissive and that is her downfall , she's young and has time to build her life up , leave him and upgrade yourself

  • @loonietunes22
    @loonietunes22 Před 4 lety +7

    How is she a housewife when he’s unemployed?

    • @dlove032002
      @dlove032002 Před 3 lety

      She’s a homeowner/renter. He’s a squatter!

  • @sweettanner6752
    @sweettanner6752 Před 7 lety +73

    I think the judge is so pretty! For a 50 something, she looks damn good!

    • @malachinumba1
      @malachinumba1 Před 7 lety +19

      Journally Dentiesiv I'm always in awe at how pretty she I totally agree with you 👏👐😆

    • @tessagenieve8176
      @tessagenieve8176 Před 7 lety +3

      Journally Dentiesiv yup and way nicer than judge judy

    • @gptach
      @gptach Před 4 lety +3

      I am a 58 year old white woman i could only dream to have her beautiful complexion. Black women are blessed in many cases with beautiful skin.

  • @mathismathis2351
    @mathismathis2351 Před 7 lety +17

    Listen and don't let him have to tell you more than once your not worth him changing!!

  • @mdniteeagl1647
    @mdniteeagl1647 Před 7 lety +41

    Corey is not just unwilling to keep a job, he's unwilling to be a mature adult. Amelia is too insecure to bounce for some reason - you give up college and a job for a guy who has nothing to give you in return? That's a self-esteem issue there. The judge tells you to roll, your own mother sees the problem, and finally he says he doesn't have a solution to the relationship... all that adds up to "Mom, it's Amelia - rent a truck and come pick me up." Hopefully, she makes that phone call.

  • @kennethbarnes8630
    @kennethbarnes8630 Před 7 lety +11

    Again a classic case of "I'm gonna Change him into what I want him to be" He was in the streets pimping ,she knew he was lousy but had to have him. I see too many women do this & mess themselves up over this. Thank God they didn't have any kids.

  • @shannontrent3702
    @shannontrent3702 Před 3 lety +5

    This one broke my heart. If he wants to change, he can learn to be in a marriage. I hope she's doing well.

  • @stephenbrown5768
    @stephenbrown5768 Před 7 lety +11

    Because of his background, he is telling the truth about his feeling of lack of belief about love. Being a pimp at the age of 13 is very telling; he has no idea about morality & the value of a good woman or man. They both need to separate & get some serious psychological counseling & then begin to follow their dreams.

  • @shawtyjay26
    @shawtyjay26 Před 7 lety +10

    The nerve to cry like that and claim love at only 24 for a man who made you give up your independence. I hope reality hits her hard and soon. I wish her the best.

  • @tellnolies8530
    @tellnolies8530 Před 5 lety +8

    NOTHING changes when you get MARRIED, if he broke with no job... that don't change! gurl bye

  • @fortieslocdandfine3134
    @fortieslocdandfine3134 Před 7 lety +67

    If she seriously stands there and tells the Judge that she's not going to leave him. SHE GETS EXACTLY WHAT SHE DESERVES!!! I don't feel sorry for her. She's being PIMPED and doesn't even know it. She went to him and basically said she will pay for him, she gives him money, she pays all the bills, and he sits home. He doesn't need whores anymore because he has her. I would kick my daughters ASS. I thank GOD DAILY for allowing me to instill some kind of sense of worth in my girls. I don't think I'll ever have to worry about getting a call like this one. I hope she makes the right decision and find love for herself. She needs to love HERSELF like she loves this man....if she did, she would be much better off, as for the tears, CRY ME A RIVER DARLING, you're the only reason for your pain, I'm not going to blame him one bit because she has the power to leave!

    • @pookienempooky9339
      @pookienempooky9339 Před 7 lety +4

      Yeap she is his full time trick.

    • @Bloombaby99
      @Bloombaby99 Před 7 lety +8

      FortyFitandFine This is the reality for all if not most black women: settle for less or be alone.

    • @rrayeclart7716
      @rrayeclart7716 Před 7 lety +4

      Bloombaby99 👏🏽 yep and its very very sad

    • @fortieslocdandfine3134
      @fortieslocdandfine3134 Před 7 lety +15

      Bloombaby99 it's definitely NOT THE REALITY FOR ALL BLACK WOMEN...
      that's what the media wants ppl to believe, that's why they keep putting it on TV.

    • @Bloombaby99
      @Bloombaby99 Před 7 lety +4

      FortyFitandFine But where does TV get its information from but real life? I've talked to too many sistas of all different backgrounds who agree with me.

  • @Janeduh27
    @Janeduh27 Před 7 lety +6

    Wow... These comments about this young man are pitiful. I don't know what y'all see, but I think that he has great potential. First, he's extremely honest. Second, he doesn't have any children. Finally, he needs therapy, and a mentor. Now for the young lady, maybe she should move back with her parents while she get herself together.

    • @lukettawilliamd4091
      @lukettawilliamd4091 Před 7 lety +4

      Thrusha S he is a good young man. I should know cause I am his auntie and was raised right. if you know his story then you would see why but he is in college and working. she just finished medical school. you can't help who you love and it is not that fake love. they been though it all together but the love is real

    • @Janeduh27
      @Janeduh27 Před 7 lety

      @ Luketta That's Great, even though I don't know any of them personally, I wish them nothing but the best.

    • @faithaikaeli8973
      @faithaikaeli8973 Před 6 lety

      Luketta Williamd Good for them, am happy it turned out well....

  • @KayR35
    @KayR35 Před 7 lety +28

    These two are young and clueless

  • @charmainemorton3146
    @charmainemorton3146 Před 6 lety +4

    I just saw this episode. I looked at that young woman and my heart understood her heart. She is trying to help him save his life. The last advice my grandfather gave me while dying was, "You must learn self preservation." This woman like me needs to learn that. She has a such a bright future. Wow. I read some of the comments below, one stating where were the parents? My answer, they were there telling her to wait. I can tell by the mother's letter to the judge. Remember when you were young and old enough to do what you wanted to do. Young and strong willed thinking love will solved all things in a relationship until you find it really takes someone to love you as much as he or she loves themselves. That young man never knew how to love himself the way she loves so. Not saying he does not love her he just does not know how. I hope they both realize what is best.

  • @Tristum1970
    @Tristum1970 Před 3 lety +2

    Saddest case ever. At least he is self aware and honest enough to say he’s done

  • @lavonnehill-williams1555
    @lavonnehill-williams1555 Před 6 lety +5

    This young man shows me how important it is to plan & be ready for parenthood! He was cheated out of who he could have become. Can he recover? Maybe, but it won't be easy. Meanwhile, look at the ripple effects 1 injured soul has on the world.

  • @vijo461
    @vijo461 Před 4 lety +3

    low self esteem makes one dumb do things for love...

  • @tshiruh5
    @tshiruh5 Před 7 lety +5

    His coat sleeves are womanly though😂😂😩😩

  • @jasminekim9987
    @jasminekim9987 Před 7 lety +31

    That damn "mustache" is struggling hard as hell. I can't stand to look... why?!?! This beautiful girl could do so much better for herself.

  • @AskFootsy
    @AskFootsy Před 7 lety +3

    Say what you will about his past, his present speaks for himself. He owned up to not being perfect, he owned up for screwing up, and he owned up for why he sucks at getting a job. He was up front with everything, but the poor girl kept her fingers in her ears singing la-la-la, while he was being up front to her. Rock on to improving yourself, dude, and rock on for trying to do more, girl, but never hide from the truth. It only hurts more.

  • @jibdifiedjib9763
    @jibdifiedjib9763 Před 7 lety +4

    I have been very touched by this episode, it clearly shows that people don't marry because they are just in love, there is alot involved first

  • @dorrettp1339
    @dorrettp1339 Před 7 lety +11

    she's more the man than he is and she's more a woman that he'll ever be.
    stay on birth control like your life depends on ot- cause it does...
    i pray she takes the advice.
    I feel so sad for the state of the black community.
    poor judge...this is painful!

  • @adrianbeal7202
    @adrianbeal7202 Před 7 lety +13

    she ain't going no where

  • @ginglesgiant8866
    @ginglesgiant8866 Před 7 lety +11

    BAD INFLUENCE. Classic case of BAD INFLUENCE.

  • @Bloombaby99
    @Bloombaby99 Před 7 lety +12

    This is the problem with our black people: too many men are looking for second mamas and women are too eager and desperate to play that role.

  • @liliroro1963
    @liliroro1963 Před 7 lety +10

    Despite judge Lynn's advice, i can bet she is not going to leave him, she is so immature, girl , like judge Lynn always says, never let a man tells you he doesn't want you more than once

    • @denisemanfre9542
      @denisemanfre9542 Před 5 lety

      Lili Roro Why did they bother come in the show they’re not going to change just a complete waste of time

  • @ayshajohn2439
    @ayshajohn2439 Před 7 lety +6

    I hope he leaves her because it is clear as day that she is not strongh enough to finish this dysfunctional relationship. How do they even support themselves when neither is working?

  • @TheDebgirl12000
    @TheDebgirl12000 Před 7 lety +5

    Why do so many young women today in our society, set their standards so low? Why don't these young women have any aspirations or educational goals for themselves? Why arent they aspiring for a career the way that my momma taught me, and the way my husband and I are raising my daughter's? Why would this beautiful young woman marry this lazy bum instead of pursuing her own dreams and goals? Instead, she is defering to this man, and just living her life for him, and he isn't even working?! Young lady, walk away from this young man, attend college and pursue a career. Every woman needs to pursue her own dreams and have her own goals in life. Always be able to count on yourself and take care of yourself, with and without a husband.

    • @jaycolby7005
      @jaycolby7005 Před 7 lety +1

      A lot of people are looking for love in the wrong places because of insecurities and not feeling love. That's why they seek validation in someone else instead of having self love.

  • @loviesheaogunleye698
    @loviesheaogunleye698 Před 7 lety +4

    This was really sad to me. I wish them both the best.

    • @lukettawilliamd4091
      @lukettawilliamd4091 Před 7 lety +1

      Lovieshea Ogunleye they are doing good. she just finish medical school, he is working and going to college

  • @kimya_speaks
    @kimya_speaks Před 7 lety +6

    Wat a GREAT lesson of the day....
    "If a man says
    "I CAN'T FIX IT!!" its not I only the truth in his mind... but he is ALSO UNWILLING to even LEARN a new way.
    Wat a pity. 😔😔
    I hope she find the strength to leave. Becuz I believe she has wayyyy more ambition and Self love to get her to be the woman she was created to be.

    • @kimya_speaks
      @kimya_speaks Před 7 lety

      Its jus soooooo sad to see a lot more ppl in the world a comfortable being mediocre.... than wanting to BETTER themselves and have GREAT RELATIONSHIPS.
      💔💔💔😢😩😔😔😪

  • @mel-mel6492
    @mel-mel6492 Před 5 lety +3

    What happened to this couple? I wanna know

  • @itzsoviewtuful
    @itzsoviewtuful Před 7 lety +6

    a good girl chasing a bad boy. its crazy

  • @Solmom03
    @Solmom03 Před 5 lety +2

    I feel some kinda way about this one. Yes she should run for the hills BUT he needs help. You can’t fault him for not knowing how to lead and grow if he raised himself. I hope the show offered him some support bc change is difficult. Grit and tenacity are internal for some but can be taught. He needs a pathway with lots of support.

  • @geoffjasper2755
    @geoffjasper2755 Před 7 lety +10

    I need a girl who will love me like this girl!

    • @lkcjr58
      @lkcjr58 Před 7 lety +1

      Geoff Jasper I hope it's works out for you !

  • @bamidelekoledoye1161
    @bamidelekoledoye1161 Před 7 lety +3

    Judge Lynn is highly intelligent! God bless u ma

  • @Th3lite
    @Th3lite Před 7 lety +8

    He's getting on my nerves and the show hasn't started yet.

  • @kaylaeve1739
    @kaylaeve1739 Před 7 lety +15

    God dang home boy's lips are on pout..haha

  • @janashockley8263
    @janashockley8263 Před 6 lety +9

    He was a “pimp” they don’t have any respect for women.......

  • @wordplay1415
    @wordplay1415 Před 2 lety +1

    You know I appreciate the fact that he was honest about being a bum

  • @Weeeewriter
    @Weeeewriter Před 2 lety +2

    *She needs to leave him and go back to school. That girl has so much potential, and she can't allow him to control her. A man who tries to control a woman, is an insecure male.*

  • @Silkendrum
    @Silkendrum Před 7 lety +5

    Cooking the chicken at 225? That's how to dry it out, not how to cook it!

  • @eyejusskant
    @eyejusskant Před 7 lety +3

    This was heartbreaking; the one time a PERSON has been a complete waste on this show and actually LIVES in their truth - - You CAN'T be mad at him. The responsibility is all on her now. Poor thing.

  • @deena3003
    @deena3003 Před 7 lety +2

    He didn't want to be married. Period, Point, Blank.

  • @NattiJay
    @NattiJay Před 7 lety +5

    This poor child... I hope she listens carefully to see that he's not mature enough to say I'm willing to try and make things work. The response he gave was so selfish and self centered. Hunny stop trying to find a DIY project in fixing a man. Let him work on himself and if he was truly in love he'd better himself for you. As of this moment RUN!!!! These young girls and grown women need to stop playing with their lives and stop trying to fix a man, this is not workshop 101.

  • @bigshawn1972
    @bigshawn1972 Před 7 lety +2

    They are both just young. She will bounce back with no problem and he is making the manliest move he could make at this point.

  • @akstylez_ak5037
    @akstylez_ak5037 Před 7 lety +2

    I feel so bad for them both. Neither of them really know what to do. He don't know what to do and i don't blame him for what he don't know. at least he was able to verbally say it where as others won't.

  • @maryCCFarm
    @maryCCFarm Před 4 lety +4

    this was years ago.. I wonder where they are now? They are a cute couple and I wish them both well..

  • @onegreenenvy
    @onegreenenvy Před 5 lety +1

    He’s abusing her mentally/emotionally. She’s broken down that’s why she can’t leave. I have been this girl.

  • @Promiseland2024
    @Promiseland2024 Před 3 lety +1

    Girl c’mon! You gotta observe, assess and make the right decision. You just cant quit your job!
    😱

  • @fromama2011
    @fromama2011 Před 6 lety +3

    I have no sympathy for someone who marries a pimp.

  • @KnottyCeltic
    @KnottyCeltic Před 5 lety +2

    Despite his past pimp'in I think these are decent people and they need a lot of support. They need a life coach, counseling on finances and communication and they need to find an opportunity for both of them to go back to school if that's what they want. If that means going on social assistance then so be it. I think there's a good amount potential with these two. The young man wants to like his job. I think he also wants to make good money so it's tempting to him or at least frustrating to him that pimp'in was so easy and made him such good money. I can understand the draw to a young person in bad circumstances no matter how a-moral it is.

  • @alexanderbemar2637
    @alexanderbemar2637 Před 5 lety +2

    Mr. Embry needs counseling with Dr. Phil

  • @sadieo9594
    @sadieo9594 Před 3 lety

    The young man was smarter and needed the advice from the judge more. He’s started his journey to become a better man and this in itself needs to be applauded. He needs support from somewhere to learn not to not take steps backwards but keep moving forward.
    I hope he’s doing well for himself and found someone who could direct him

  • @tinalawson5110
    @tinalawson5110 Před 5 lety +2

    Her soul and heart were crying throughout the show. Maybe he filled a need that she lacked. Because she quit school ,stuck to him, even gave him money to stop pimping. Oil and water don't mix. He was honest. She married him young to belong and have love. Hopefully she wakes up.

    • @katherineleslie5855
      @katherineleslie5855 Před 3 lety +1

      A pimp at 13,wow and girls he pimped might been street girls,runaways become throwaways. open to all kinds abuse.I was out there ,approached by a pimp wanted to teach me how to be what he needed.I was so tired and scare d I ran back home to momma!!!even though it was rough there.

  • @LIBBEL
    @LIBBEL Před 4 lety +1

    Love made her throw away her goals and aspirations? So stupid, you never lose your tomorrow for anyone.

  • @be_you_til_fulljourney2033

    Classic case of good girl thinking bad boy will change just because she enters his life. I know someone like this. That young man was honest throughout the case so I know he’s probably been saying the same thing to her throughout the relationship. SHE didn’t want to let go and still doesn’t. He even resorted to treating her badly with the hopes she would leave on her own and to no avail. Until she heals what’s broken inside of her, she’ll get another one, possibly worse than this one. Hope she gets the help she needs.

  • @grazzellian
    @grazzellian Před 5 lety +1

    I feel sorry for this couple. For once, I don't believe Judge Lynne got it right. They need help; plenty of help. If they love each other, like I think they do, they need advice. He needs schooling and they both need counselling. She needs to continue her education and he needs a entire change of mindset. Judge Lynne should have opened their eyes more to the possibilities of bettering themselves, instead of asking her to walk away

  • @brownskin4684
    @brownskin4684 Před 4 lety +1

    I would never ever drop out of school or leave a job for a man that would put me in a even worser situation,cause he cant keep a job..an bad enough,he doesn't even like working🤦‍♀️🤨..these 2 is better off apart,they have no idea what marriage is about..

  • @codysmith3853
    @codysmith3853 Před 6 lety +2

    NO MAN IS WORTH GIVING UP SCHOOL!!!! IF U KNEW IT WAS STUPID WHY DID U DO IT OH MY GODDDDDD IM GONNA SCREAM

  • @anquentinwilliams2764
    @anquentinwilliams2764 Před 5 lety

    This case was clean, cut, and dry. He does not want to work and does not want her because she complains about it. Thank god no kids are involved.

  • @slovett41
    @slovett41 Před 7 lety +3

    At least he was man enough to tell her he cant take care of her not b/c he dont want to but b/c he dont know how... Now you got to respect that. She gonna stay and end of taking care of him but its selfish b/c he needs to learn to be a man and he cant if she does everything for him all caz she loves him.... Love him enough to leave him along and let him grow

  • @jamiex6072
    @jamiex6072 Před rokem

    I could be not seeing what you guys are seeing. But I think he's honest, and I appreciate that. I think she is not being realistic. They both have to do better.