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The parents still haven’t learn the lesson. Be grateful your child is alive, thriving, and happy. Embrace the love and accept the relationship your child has.
Your daughter is destroyed mentally, emotionally, etc. But y'all should be glad she is still alive because if it was the weaker mind person, you guys won't see her again. Some people will die for love, or depression will lead to suicide! She is full of resentment, and the least you guys can do is support her before she cuts y'all off her life forever. You og are so old fashion, smh. Y'all supposed to adapt as life goes. Be very open minded, that's what a great leader is.
I’m not like the older GENERATION! I’m just going to be honest. The truth is y’all OG’s need to stop interfering with your kids relationship. I get it that you’re trying to protect them but you need to let them make mistakes themselves. I’m sure these OG’s who don’t want their kids talking to others who don’t have a big NAME in the community made MISTAKES in their lives. You can’t stop LOVE. LOVE is powerful!
👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼I applaud the daughter! Good for you!! I love what you did and are doing! Be happy! Be alive! Be YOU!!!! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
Wow u did this to your own kid. Honestly just love her now, be a better parent. Just be glad your daughter is alive.
Cia lawv xaiv tus lawv nyiam lawv thiaj li xav hlub os mog 😭😭
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Tsis yog yus cia lawv xaiv lawv es thaum kawg yus thiaj li zoo nyos hais tias nyuam qhuav hauv tsis mloog yus hais os.
Cia rau lawv xaiv kom yus zoo nyos hais tias nyuam qhuav hauv nws.
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@@FieryJunipercov niam txiv xav li koj es twb npaj qhov xav phem ua ntej ces lwm hnub laus tsis muaj tus tu los ma. yuav tau hloov pauv raws teb raws chaw
As parents, we need to understand that we raise our kids to be independent and decent citizen. Their relationship choices and or their partner choices shouldn't be our decision to make. Hmong OG cannot swallow their pride. Ua tiag thaum menyuam tsis hlub tsi txhob tu siab thiab foom menyuam vim yus tsis txawj ua niam ua txiv.
Tsis tsimnyog menyuam yuav hlub cov niag tsov tom laus no ntxiv lawm. Cov niag ntsejmuag laus no phem dhau lawm ciali muab lawb kiag pov tom tsev laus xwb thiaj yog.
All I have to say is that we need to accept our kids for whatever they want. You live your life and let your kids live their own life.
You go first
Boy is boy
Girl is girl
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Agreed.
Don’t worry to much. Just worry about your health. It’s not only your child. There’s a lot of kids these days like that. Just accept them as they are
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You need to change yourself to fit reality. You are still thinking like "75". It's your fault for your daughter mistake. Your daughter is right that you have too high of an ego for yourself as your clan's leader, but you can't even lead your own family. Accept reality, or you'll have stoke and heart attack by yourself.
Do you know the reason why your kids not listening to you . because you not spend time with them you focus on other more than your kids than don’t expect them better than that
Thaub laus thiab pog laus aw hmong tus thawj coj ces quav dev rau peb tiam tshiab xwb o thawj coj yog thawj noj quav hmong o pog laus aw
Koj hais yog
yall mess your self up. yall broke them up but still attend the ex bf's wedding and ceremony. now she no straight. pab tsis tau.
What a sad story, especially for your daughter. Best of luck to her. Your job as parents is to love your kids unconditionally. I hope you guys come around and truly accept your daughter and her spouse.
Txawm yog neb ua niam ua txiv zoo li neb es neb tus me ntxhais thiaj li mus yuav poj niam lawm ntag.
All u can do is support ur children's happiness & dreams. The more u restrict them, the more they will hate u. Ur discrimination of her boyfriend's family is wrong. Leprosy was rampant back in the old day, but modern medicine has rid the disease.
I’d always choose my children over my pride & reputation and standing up for them against people that look down on them.
Humiliation is a gift. Do not pride nor judge yourself or your children. Do not let peers define how you live or who you are. They don’t pay your bills, love you, or love your children.
As parents, we should love our kids unconditionally regardless of what they become or choose to be their partners in life.
Thank you for sharing your story. This will help a lot of parents be a little more flexible with their kids.
You rather have her die than to lose face??? Wow!!!! Nes mas hlub nes tus ntxhaid tiag tiag li os yom? Yog li ces kam ntsis qlaas hluav mus dais tuag los mas nes nas.
I understand May’s answers to the mom in the beginning. Its a nicer way of saying “just accept it and move on” …. Lol
Dang, "Tuag Mus!" is such a selfish demand from these parents. I can tell they are very "nkhaus nkhaus" from this story. Their daughter became the "man" she lost and could never have. 😢
She was born to love her kind just a matter of time even when she was young and dated a man. There is nothing you can do. I strongly believe that even you let her marry her boyfriend at 16, she would divorce him and look for her kind later in life.
Everyone is born their own way. Love is love. Something narrow minded parents will never understand or accept.
You didn’t let her marry the one she loved. Now you have to live with the consequences.
Neb ib niam txiv ces niam qhuav ntxim xwb txoj kev saib tsis taus neeg txom nyem os
Keep doing that and you’ll loose your child forever. And then other story from you, the parents, will be coming out. GL
I have four boys......I support their happiness NoT Mines......they all graduated with masters....I'm blessed
Pab tu siab kawg os😢😢😢😢
Txaus neb siab kawg mi ntxhais ua pauj kev chim siab xwb ,
Yuav txiv neej neb tsis kheev yuav poj niam kiag tsis muaj neeg txwv tau ! Mi ntxhais ua yog lawd
Phem22 nyuam qhuav haum xb os
Be happy that your daughter is still alive!!!
I am a mother myself, and I rather do what makes my daughter happy. We need to leave what’s the past to the past!
Sister, embrace your daughter. Love her as she is. Do not turn your back on her. She needs you to love her and support her
Us as mothers should stand up for our daughters when our husbands are strict and still think like it’s 1975. I always tell my husband “when push comes to shove” I (the Mom) will give in because I love my daughters.
Yog lawm! Hmoob ruam, the world is changing and evolving every which way. Accept the changes and the differences that is everywhere.
When you try to control your kids...
koj tus ntxhais hais yog lawm. nws ua txhua yam uas koj xav tau.
tam sim no, nws xaiv leej twg nws hlub. cia nws zoo siab.
koj xav kom koj zoo siab? los yog, koj tus ntxhais yuav zoo siab?
Is she living for you or living for herself? Be proud of her. Love her.
Most Hmong parents (boomers) want their kids to live for them. They want their kids to do things that they can brag to their relatives about. It’s never about their kids’ happiness, but bragging rights. 🙄
Cov ntxhais hmoob kws kawm ntawv siab cov coob yuav lwm haiv neeg vim (1) Cov txiv neej hmoob kws kawm ntawv siab li nws muaj tsawg ces pojniam li pojniam tsis kam yuav tus ruam los pluag tshaj pojniam (2) College muaj lwm haiv neeg coob heev, hluas loj siab thiab zoo nraug heev (3) Txiv neej hmoob nyiam cov ntxhais mos ab, ntxhais mos ab los nyiam cov thaub laus kws muaj nyiaj... ua niam yau los kam hlo li.
You only care about your fame, you don’t care about anything else.
That’s no one’s fault but yours. It’s the new age nowadays, you have to accept the new days. Although I don’t have any children yet but I used to be a person who date only females. So I can relate to your daughter. And my parents was the same way, and now I am with my man but he’s not Hmong. Sadly, they don’t accept him but it’s for my own happiness. So it is what it is. My parents are regretting just like this story.
Tus me viv ncaus aw nyob lub teb chaws no ces kuv pom tias peb cov me nyuam zoo li koj tus kom ces peb muaj yuav luag txhua xeem li lawm tsis txhob nyuaj siab txog lawm take care neb ib niam txiv xwb os.
Neb Tsi Yog thawj coj os neb Yog cov Ua lawv hai tia ruam tsab ntse pluag tsab muaj ce Yog neb ntag ma tau Ua yam twg ce khoo kom tuag nti zoo li ruam tua tsov ce Yog neb os Lwm tu hai ce Tsi ri siab ce zaum no yu ghia yu ma txo hwj chim ceev kawg yom
2 tus no tsis yog thawj coj nkawv yog thawj noj xwb thiaj tsis tau vauv
Vim neb mloog neb tus muam los sis niam ntxawm cov lus thaum hauv paus.
Tab Tom haum neb kawg yom pog laus thiab laus aw neb ces tuag mus lau yog nej tsis tso tseg nej kev phem ntawm ko o tab Tom haum ua tsaug Cia nws ua Kom neb tuag mus los mas
Neb 2 niam txiv tsab ntse dhau lawm nes kav tsij mus ua tus coj xwb txhob tu siab rau leej twg mas lo
Txog thaum kawg - ob niag niam txiv tsuas tseem care txog nkawv lub nyuag koob npe.
After all, these parents only care about their reputation and image, but they claim they did because they love and care about their children.
I applaud your daughter for being strong. As for you guys, u got what u deserve. Maybe people can judge u guys the way u judge others. Karmas a B!!
Wow! Your daughter taught you n your husband a good life lesson! She has a good point, you refused her boyfriend then n now you refuse her partner. Wth
Nwg has yog lawm. Meb laam ua thawj coj xwb meb tsis paub coj le meb tug ntxhais has lawm.
Kawg kav liam tsuav yus tus mi nyuam tseem muaj txoj sia nyob rau ntawd os mog
txhob tu2 siab yeej tim neb thiab yeej tim neb tus ntxhais thiab txhob khuv xim neb tus ntxhais lawm neb tus ntxhais los yeej yog neeg guy
To the mother in this story: I cried with you during the story. As a mother, we all want the best for our children. We love them so much that we feel like making choices for their lives is love. We forget that they are individuals and want to make their own choices, just like us. We love them, we shelter them, we protect them to the point of choosing what’s best for us, thinking it’s best for them. We forget that it’s their happiness that we want, not our happiness. Sometimes we have to let them fall and learn from their mistakes. It is always wise to give them guidance and share our thoughts and experiences with them, but letting them choose their own path is the best way to show them that they are individuals. I feel for you… but don’t hurt yourself any longer. Don’t drown yourself. The best way to heal is to forgive her, and forgive yourself. Thank you for sharing your story with us. Good luck to you. ❤
Leej twg los yeej xav kom me nyuam lub neej zoo tab sis peb yuav ua tsis tau li peb nyiam, peb tsuas qhuab qhia thiab pab kom me nyuam lub neej zoo xwb; txoj kev mus ua neej zoo muaj ntau txoj rau yus xaiv, tsis txhob xaiv ua neeg siab phem xwb. Neb tus ntxhais txawm yuav ib tus poj niam thiab los yog tus nws xaiv, nws nyiam thiab twb tsis yog tias nws lub siab phem. Cia nws mus raws li nws nyiam es kav tsij sib2 hlub neb thiaj yuav tsis plam neb tus ntxhais os
OMG....funny and nrog neb tu thiab os. Tab sis tus uas tu siab tshaj plaws ces ntshe yog neb tus me ntxhais lawm. A lesson to learn.
This is why our generation is different from our parents it's not that we are all living in the life of 1975 anymore we have to listen to our parents for a better life. Mental abuse in a child is more suicide back than, then now.
Yog neb tsi zoo siab no ces neb 2 niam txiv tuag zoo dua lawm os vim yog Tim neb lawm ne
Neb hai yog tshaj plaw lawm os mog
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Karma to the parents! ❤️🥰
Cas... ruam tas los ruam tsis paub kawg li os. Txoj kev ywjpheej no tsis yog tim leejtwg os. Yog tus neeg txoj kev xaiv xwb. Nws txawm yuav kiag txiv los... Nyob2 dhuav thiab ras los, yuav tig nyiam poj niam txiv neej tsis nyiam leejtwg hlo nyiam txhua nhro los yeej yuav tig. Koj kiag nws kiag yeej pab tsis tau os. Ntiaj teb hloov yuav tau xyaum hloov lub paj hlwb.
Yog kawg, tim neb cuab ntse dhau, khav neb lub npe, saib tsis lwm tus. Neb xav tias neb yuav yeej txhuayam tag tiam no, thaum kawg rov npam neb xwb.
If you really love your child, then love her as who she is. You're too obsess about controlling to the point your daughter thinks becoming a man was the only way to control her own life. Shame on you
Ab tim neb ua niam ua txiv a thaum tham txiv neej neb txwv ne neb ntseeg tug ub tug no hais ce tsam no thiaj tau vauv poj niam ntag neb heev dhau lawm os
Txhob tus siab tsis yog tim neb o tim lub ntuj tiam no yeej yuav zoo li no mus o nawb
Sister…. Don’t worry about your child now a day most people man become women, woman become man, marriage same forest let them be. Just support them one day they get old they will realize everything already too late. Take care you n your husband health the most important thing for now…. except whatever in the front of you, pray for them more n harder….. that’s all might hurt you so bad but you’re not ganna die easy too.
Tej zaum koj yeej xav Kom koj tus ntxhais rov yuav poj niam ne es koj thiaj li txwv tsis pub yuav txiv neej.
Tus me viv ncaus, txhob tu siab os mog. Ua ib leej niam ib leej txiv los yeej tsis yooj yim li. Yus tsuas yug tau lub cev xwb yug tsis tau lub siab. Yus menyuam yus yug ces yeej mob yus siab. Xav tiv thaiv npaum li cas los tam sim no, lawv tiav lawv niam lawv txiv ces yus yeej cheem tsis tau lawv lawm ces ua ib siab mog. Yog yus lees tau ces yeej meem lees nkawd yus thiaj li ib nyuag kaj siab os mog.
Another lesson learned…Hmong parents.
Cas neb ob niam txiv koj ua thawj coj es ua li neb xwb puas tsim nyog ua thawj coj vim neb xav tau ntsej muag thaum kawg neb thiaj tau taug txoj kev tnawm koj ne neb lub hlwb tseem qub dhau lawm os av tsij kho neb tus kheej xwb zoo dua
Kuv mloog ce ho xav luag thia txho chim sia nrg neb thia o❤
Ob niam txiv no xav tau ntsej muag xwb twb tsis hlub nkawd tej ntxhais tej tub li. Ib qhov ob qhov los xav kom menyuam ua kom nkawd tau ntsej muag xwb, menyuam kev zoo siab ces tsis tseem ceeb li. Ntuj aws....cov niam thiab txiv zoo li no mas muab lawb xwb.
Tseem muaj ntsej muag mus koom lawv thiab twb txwv2 lawv ne.
Hmong tus coj ces coj dev dev twb tsis yuav ob nyiag niam txiv laus kav tsij mus tuag o neb na tuag kom neb menyuaj thiaj tsis nyuaj siab nawb.
Parents always want the best for their children but children today are no longer like children 20 30 years ago. This is exactly why Americans kick their children out of the house after age 18. Now we know why. Let them go and decide on their lives. Good or bad it’s their problems, not yours. Do not stress your health. Love yourself! If they don’t care, why should you care!
What your daughter saying is the true about being a true leader!!! You two have to accept who is and going to be with. Just have to glad that she is happyy, healthy, and still contacting you two. It is you two`s fault that hafe destroyed her unhappiness and mentalities. No parent's should control their children's lives. Let them make their own mistakes.
At least the parents finally understand it's their fault. Like I said to my mom when I was still dating my husband. It's not you it's me and my choice if you think you choosing my husband for me will make me a better person well think twice if your parents do that to you would you like it of course not.
Let them choose their own partners
Teb chaws no luag twb muaj tshuaj kho cov neeg mob ruas ntawv lawm es neb tseem coj lub siab 75 thiab ces tim neb xwb mas. Tsis tas chin li os. Tsis xum cia yuav nwsvtus hluas nraug tsam no mus yuav poj niam lawm ces zoo neb siab lawm po.
The parents need to change their mentality and love their children for who they are, regardless of gender identity. Understand that you did not, and cannot, change your daughter's sexual orientation. She may have always been gay but didn't come out until later in life. Who knows what would have happened if she married her childhood sweetheart.
Learn to love your children unconditionally. Teach them the way and allow them to choose. Be there to support their decision.
Mob kawg puas yog. U ua niam ua txiv ces u yug ntau lub cev yug tsis natu u siab os nawb. Just be happy for them. Even if u can’t win her heart back. As long as u see her smiling and living life happy. Dnt think too much. Now u and your husband is old. U two should think about your happiness and how to be there for the other grandchildren. Make good memories and enjoy life. Take many pictures and spend a happy moment with your husband. B4 life is over. Ok. They are making their life and their memories. Dnt think about what the Hmong clan or ppl. As a Hmong person we will always be judge. No life is perfect life. Good luck and stay healthy
ความรู้สึกและความรักของลูก พ่อแม่ก็มีสิทธิ์ที่เป็นห่วงแต่ชีวิตเป็นของโลกให้เขาเลือกเองเค้าจะไม่เสียใจเท่าพ่อแม่อยู่ห่างห่างมองดูเขาห่างห่างดีกว่า
Txawm ua li ca lo yeej tseem yog yus me nyuam txai yam lawv xaiv kom lawv hlub yus xwb lo ma
Kuv tsi nyiaj siab txog tej zoo li no li vim kuv twb muaj ib tug tub nws rov nyiam tub lawm thiab kuv tus txiv tsi Pom zoo kiag li thiab os hos nyob li ntawm kuv ces nws nyiam leej twg los kav Liam xwb os
Confused kids... invest in wine stocks because There is going to be alot of old single ladies with no kids but a bunch of cats and pets in 30 years drinking wine...
Kuv xav tau ib tug txiv neej ib yam thiab pua muaj tu lo pom kuv e kam tham nrog kuv os hmoob😢😢
Kav tsij txais tos qhov tseeb tswm sim nawb, xaj maim tshiab lawm xyoog raws lub ntiaj teb.
Yus rov nrhiav kev nyuaj siab rau yus ces li no
It's ok she happy
Support your daughter and worry about your health
Neb mas lub paj hlwb ruam dhau lawm. Tseem mloog tej niag lus ruam thaum ub thaum i. Yog Tim neb xwb.
That’s what y’all get for not letter her marry that dude hahahahahaha😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Tus me niam tsev peb cov niam cov txiv txhua tus yeej ntshaw ib yam tab sis cov tub ntxhais niam no txawv lawm ces cia lawv ua tus xaiv nawb mog yog lawv lub neej lawm es neb ob niam txiv ua siab loj txob chim heev2 thiab tsam yus ob tug laus ho muaj mob .mog
Cas nej cov laus no nej tsuas xam pom nej zoo xwb o yuav tsis xav rau tej me nyuam lio neb cov laus kom ma tsis paub hais lawm o❤❤
Txhob tus siab o vim yg yus xav2 kom tej me nyuam tau neej zoo e thiaj pheej hais tas npauv o
😢😢😢😭😭😭pab koj Tus me ntshais tu siab mus tag tiam neej no os mog😢 vem Tsi Tus neeg yug hlub es ua ib siab mus yuav ib Tus poj niam Le yug los ua yug khub os 😢xim neej no kuv mas ntsub cov niag niam tsiv ua phem2 Le neb ib niam tsiv no xwb os
Kavliam os ntiaj teb no yeej muaj cov neeg zoo li ntawd coob coob os mog… tsis hais neb tus Ntxhais mus ua tus tub os twb muaj cov mi tub mus ua Ntxhais thiab os es Tseem mus tham mus yuav lwm hauv neeg lawm thiab es kavliam lees txais tej uas tshwm sim kom lawv Txhob tuag lawm xwb os mog.
Hmong "leaders" need to get off their high horses. While all this gender mess makes my head hurt so much, I don't sympathized these parents.
Kids nowadays you think koj yuav ua kom koj yeej lawm no, you die you.😅😅😅😅😅
They don’t care, you die, you be lucky if they faus you.
Oyo pab tsi tau os, niam qhuav ntxim!!!!! Txoj kev txim txim txiaj, ua thaj saib tsi taus luag lwm tu. Nco ntsoov qhia rau tej tub tej ntxhai mu ua neej txhob saib tsi taus luag lwm leej lwm tu. Thaj no ces yog neb tu ntxhais ntse mu kawm win siab los qhia neb xwb os
Place accept the way she is now before, so she did something bad to herself . She already hurt enough