Trans Guy 10 Years of Transitioning

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  • čas přidán 8. 09. 2024
  • I’ve been transiting for a little over 10 years. Testosterone, top surgery, and lower surgery

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  • @user-es7ui5mc1m
    @user-es7ui5mc1m Před 2 lety +12132

    this just made me realize that when you're trans, it's very likely that people from school won't recognize you a couple years down the line if you happen to run into them which seems like a very pleasant side effect of transition

    • @caleavenant6015
      @caleavenant6015 Před 2 lety +79

      People from highschool wont recoqnize you anyway bc noone cares about anyone else than themselves :)

    • @graysonevans4222
      @graysonevans4222 Před 2 lety +563

      As a trans person I can say I've avoiding alot of awkward interactions in my hometown stores with ppl I use to know in high-school since most ppl don't recognize me, at least not immediately. It's great

    • @oddperson5726
      @oddperson5726 Před 2 lety +68

      Yes! It’s very hilarious

    • @user-es7ui5mc1m
      @user-es7ui5mc1m Před 2 lety +58

      @@caleavenant6015 yeah no not the people in my small hometown, especially the ones that still live there. whenever someone is back in town/is getting married/something happens, everyone talks about it

    • @gamefreak8503
      @gamefreak8503 Před 2 lety

      I have a doubt on this thing . Who is ( she /he who ever it is ) going to bang .

  • @Cesaryeyo
    @Cesaryeyo Před 2 lety +4260

    I'm a cis guy. I love being a man so so SO much. I love expressing my true self and showing it to the world. It makes me so happy to see guys like you who couldn't do that for so long and now can.

    • @cebbi1313
      @cebbi1313 Před 2 lety +1355

      YES! I'm a cis woman and feel the same way. It's weird when people say they don't understand trans people because they can't imagine wanting to be a different gender and I'm like "uh...yeah exactly, that's like the whole point. You'd hate having to live as a gender that doesn't reflect who you are"
      I wish everybody gender euphoria

    • @certifiednerd542
      @certifiednerd542 Před 2 lety +128

      @@cebbi1313 👑❤️❤️❤️

    • @Cesaryeyo
      @Cesaryeyo Před 2 lety +398

      @@cebbi1313 I read that the defining feature of the trans experience is not the gender dysphoria they experience when in the closet, and in fact many trans people don't feel it. It's more relevant the euphoria when they express and perform their actual gender. And YES, gender euphoria is AMAZING let's not gatekeep it from anybody!!!

    • @tinytransfem
      @tinytransfem Před 2 lety +296

      @@Cesaryeyo Hey, that's me! I have almost zero gender dysphoria, and never really minded living as a guy - it actually took me 19 years to realize that men don't usually wish they were women, and another 2 years before it clicked that I'm actually trans. I never thought it would even be an option for me since I never felt depressed or whatever since I just didn't have gender dysphoria, so it took really long to make that connection.
      But I have so much gender euphoria for doing "womanly" things now, it's unreal!

    • @qewdascz1839
      @qewdascz1839 Před 2 lety +100

      @@Cesaryeyo
      I think it can be about either 😅 I usually have really bad dysphoria, and sometimes I do get euphoria but not often and when someone uses “he” for me it just feels normal instead of when they say “she” and it makes me dysphoric

  • @CatherineKimport
    @CatherineKimport Před 2 lety +3965

    As a trans woman it's always so weird to watch trans men go through their transition because everything that horrified me when it happened to my body is something that they are earnestly ecstatic about and vice versa

    • @FoxofNothing
      @FoxofNothing Před 2 lety +592

      Its so sad that people not just can trade bodies :/

    • @cat-jz7sj
      @cat-jz7sj Před 2 lety +415

      I feel the same about trans women lmao (I'm ftm)

    • @sallyenki4440
      @sallyenki4440 Před rokem +105

      ​@@cat-jz7sj i feel the same for trans women and im a cis woman 🤣

    • @aced2728
      @aced2728 Před rokem +135

      I feel the same way lol (I'm ftm)
      It's funny how we're so similar in a way but also very different. I often find myself connecting very deeply with my mtf friends, it's like we have the same problem but with a different set of rules yk?

    • @irocemrockett1118
      @irocemrockett1118 Před rokem +10

      This comment is extremely homophobic and transphobic! Not mention colorist!

  • @mzthorn
    @mzthorn Před rokem +861

    The thing I love most about trans glowups is the moment when your eyes come back to life.

    • @geraldstonks5116
      @geraldstonks5116 Před rokem +15

      The thing I love is not being a gay person

    • @PhysicallyAwake
      @PhysicallyAwake Před rokem +123

      @@geraldstonks5116 said every closeted gay person ever >

    • @MonkIsBestScug
      @MonkIsBestScug Před rokem +26

      It always gives me the happy squeaks:) Always so nice when you see just how happy the person is with their transition results just by looking at their eyes:D

    • @angiethompson5648
      @angiethompson5648 Před rokem +5

      Yes! I see that too.

    • @marsparty
      @marsparty Před rokem +5

      @@PhysicallyAwakelove this reply

  • @london2518
    @london2518 Před 2 lety +3013

    i find all of the transphobic people in the comments purposely misgendering him so funny because we all know if they saw him in person they’d have no idea he’s trans ☠️
    8 months after i made this comment my phone is still blowing up with replies of people disagreeing with me. if you disagree that’s okay, but what’s disheartening is so many people seeing someone as lesser than for simply being different than them. compassion goes a long way guys, it’s free to be kind.

    • @seven7775
      @seven7775 Před rokem +39

      If she talk then I'll know that she's not man although the only thing that looks soo natural its that goddamn Beard if she doesn't have that you'd be able tell easily

    • @larissapienaar2436
      @larissapienaar2436 Před rokem +440

      @@seven7775 Have you heard him speak?

    • @seven7775
      @seven7775 Před rokem +14

      @@larissapienaar2436 yes

    • @wedgedlemon4424
      @wedgedlemon4424 Před rokem +6

      Fr

    • @larissapienaar2436
      @larissapienaar2436 Před rokem +356

      @@seven7775 Then you definitely know you would not be able to tell he’s trans by his voice lol

  • @NosebleeddeGroselha
    @NosebleeddeGroselha Před 2 lety +2254

    My brain is so used to Jammi, I see his old pics and all I can see is “Jammi wearing wig”

  • @riverbed7257
    @riverbed7257 Před 2 lety +1702

    I’m so used to seeing current Jamie that pre-transition Jamie honestly just looks like him with long hair :|

    • @Dr.OuKKer
      @Dr.OuKKer Před 2 lety +24

      Yep.

    • @eileensnow6153
      @eileensnow6153 Před 2 lety +188

      Yeah, it makes me vaguely uncomfortable? Probably because I know that he was uncomfortable in all those photos. Honestly the bravery is tangible ❤️

    • @ghastlycandle
      @ghastlycandle Před 2 lety +70

      For me it’s like I’m seeing a twin sister of Jamie or something

    • @anonr.4862
      @anonr.4862 Před 2 lety +8

      Yeah cause thats what he is

    • @HatZ.PetoriaZero
      @HatZ.PetoriaZero Před 2 lety +24

      And without a beard (very good beard)

  • @phantomforever309
    @phantomforever309 Před rokem +1344

    Whenever I see trans men/masc women in older photos wearing dresses it never looks right and then they slap the suit on and BANG instant drip

    • @MrLibtard
      @MrLibtard Před rokem +15

      Clothing choice makes you transgender, gotcha

    • @phantomforever309
      @phantomforever309 Před rokem

      @@MrLibtard not the vibes I was going for chief

    • @MrLibtard
      @MrLibtard Před rokem +3

      @@phantomforever309
      That's what you said

    • @zooom-rk2vy
      @zooom-rk2vy Před rokem +69

      @@MrLibtard bro what

    • @zooom-rk2vy
      @zooom-rk2vy Před rokem +70

      Op was talking abt style and what looks good on certain people

  • @mintystellar4268
    @mintystellar4268 Před 2 lety +924

    Me, looking at the first pic: "oop, the signs were definitely there"

    • @JanieBee
      @JanieBee Před 2 lety +114

      Right haha. Is it just me or when looking at trans people's pre transitioned pics you can just see who they really are in their eyes and just the massive discomfort(compared to photos after their gender was affirmed)

    • @EDuGoIHuvvet
      @EDuGoIHuvvet Před 2 lety +60

      @@JanieBee Right?
      Like, in most I've seen pre transition, I've actually been able to see that they actually look like they belong in the other gender.
      Can't really explain it and it may sound so weird, but sometimes you just see that something didn't go as planned as a fetus, and that they were really supposed to be the opposite, or non binary.
      (This may be long, so I apologize 😅
      And if I word anything wrong, I also apologize. Absolutely do not want to offend anyone)
      For example, watching a season of Ru Paul's drag race, there was this queen (I think her stage name was peppermint?) that just gave such a strong happy and free feeling while in drag, in a way the others weren't. And she truly looked like a cis woman.
      Even out of drag "he" felt like a woman to me. "He" was just so beautiful and feminine, in a very natural way.
      The first time I saw "him" out of drag, I said "I bet everything that 'he' is really a woman. And a damn beautiful one at that."
      And lo and behold, at the last episode where they all met again and talked over the show, she did come out to them as a trans woman.
      It just makes me so happy to see people find their true self. Seeing someone finally happy and comfortable in themselves and their own bodies is one of the most beautiful things ever. And the new light in their eyes are just priceless! 🥰

    • @Anna-fh8eh
      @Anna-fh8eh Před 2 lety +16

      @@JanieBee Yes!!!!! The new light that comes into their eyes.

    • @jelatinosa
      @jelatinosa Před 2 lety +20

      He looked like a boy in that photo of him as a kid, because he was! He always had more of a masculine edge than most women, even when he was still presenting as a girl/woman.

    • @Anika9691
      @Anika9691 Před 2 lety +1

      Y'all making shit up to validate your point

  • @ahhh4117
    @ahhh4117 Před 2 lety +764

    Logic brain: oh yes back before Jamie figured out he was trans
    Idiot brain: why little boy wear wig?

  • @hotcocoandart
    @hotcocoandart Před rokem +727

    Every trans guy had that phase where we were like 'SHORT AS POSSIBLE' with our hair and we all looked like lil ragamuffins.

    • @pluto0raire502
      @pluto0raire502 Před rokem +29

      I didn't Im kinda happy I didn't 😅 I like my fluffy boy hair

    • @IGotEatenByTheAutismCreature
      @IGotEatenByTheAutismCreature Před rokem +18

      ​@@pluto0raire502 same! My gender euphoria after I got it dyed blue was just "stonks"

    • @hotcocoandart
      @hotcocoandart Před rokem +12

      ​@@pluto0raire502 Growing my hair out a bit was honestly one of the best decisions I could have made honestly, I look way better with fluffy hair

    • @hoathanatos6179
      @hoathanatos6179 Před rokem +18

      And then you have NOAHFINNCE
      who is a perpetual ragamuffin with his floofy hair.

    • @Bloody_Corpses
      @Bloody_Corpses Před rokem +1

      My hair has been short and it's been a buzz cut for awhile but because I'm still dysphoric with my face 8 years later I don't see any changes so it's not a phase for me

  • @AshDiAngelo
    @AshDiAngelo Před 2 dny +5

    Respectfully, you are the most attractive man ive ever seen

  • @marsyoutube
    @marsyoutube Před 2 lety +1881

    The old pics seem uncomfortable, it's so clear that you were in the wrong body

    • @summeryoung1026
      @summeryoung1026 Před 2 lety +123

      I mean he's still in the same body, just expressing himself differently and gender validated by good health care.

    • @lewis7515
      @lewis7515 Před 2 lety +37

      By that token of broad and wild assumption, every single teenager that ever was, was in the wrong body....
      Who _isn't_ uncomfortable?.. There must 10 people per generation who don't spend most of their time feeling and being awkward in their own skin and wondering if they missed a memo.

    • @marsyoutube
      @marsyoutube Před 2 lety +56

      @@lewis7515 that's probably true, I wouldn't know cause I'm trans and I know from my own experience that being trans feels like being in the wrong body. I don't know what cis teenagers feel, but from what I heard it's mostly being uncomfortable with your body which is different from being in the wrong body.

    • @lewis7515
      @lewis7515 Před 2 lety +10

      @@marsyoutube The fact remains: practically no teenager is at peace in their own skin - and you can't say whether the inner discomfort felt on one declared basis, actually feels any materially different than the inner discomfort someone else feels on a different declared basis. You're not in any position to say with certainty, "it is different" - you don't speak for them: how could you possibly know?..
      Where that leaves us is that it's really not possible to say that a teenager is specifically signalling their gender-anxiety, based only on their obvious personal discomfort. In the circumstances, it's ridiculous.

    • @elliefuller3667
      @elliefuller3667 Před 2 lety +78

      @@lewis7515 Cis woman here, I struggled deeply with insecurity about my body as a teen, I had extremely low self esteem when it came to physical appearance. I felt uncomfortable with my physical body. I NEVER once felt like I would be better off as a different gender. I never felt like how trans folks describe their experience with being literally trapped in the wrong body. I always felt like my body was MY body, I just wasn’t comfortable with how it looked. Cis and trans teens experience entirely different situations, even cis teens who have issues with their body/appearance.

  • @AirborneAshes
    @AirborneAshes Před 2 lety +1013

    so often when i see other trans people's before & afters i get this wave of "oh there he is!", the level of comfort really makes all the difference. feeling that kind of pride even for people i don't know personally brings me a really particular kind of joy

    • @steadychasingmoneybands6213
      @steadychasingmoneybands6213 Před 2 lety +6

      Yeah then they kill themselves because they can’t go back…

    • @wickedwonderland9831
      @wickedwonderland9831 Před 2 lety +50

      @@steadychasingmoneybands6213 Jesus Christ dude, why does everyone on the internet have theories about things they know shit about

    • @thekuba9352
      @thekuba9352 Před 2 lety

      I feel nothing towards anyone

    • @themazesystem5392
      @themazesystem5392 Před 2 lety +10

      @@thekuba9352 Thats called sociopathy

    • @thekuba9352
      @thekuba9352 Před 2 lety

      @@themazesystem5392 i do feel things about my family, but if a childhood friend, that i grow up with died, i wouldn't be as sad. I would probably get over it in 1h, and feel guilt about not giving enough shit.

  • @wrmwithinternetaccess414
    @wrmwithinternetaccess414 Před rokem +682

    Many people in this comment section need to shut up.
    It’s his life
    It doesn’t affect you

  • @gamewhipess
    @gamewhipess Před 7 měsíci +23

    Cis Hetero man here. Glad you found yourself. Looking good dude!

  • @nimishanarayan7048
    @nimishanarayan7048 Před 2 lety +207

    I've seen quite a few transition videos by now and almost always I feel like trans people's "before" version somehow always looks a little "odd", like there's something quite not right but you can't put your finger on it and then you see how they are after transition and boom, you can see just from a picture that this what they were meant to be all along

    • @robokill387
      @robokill387 Před 2 lety +31

      Mostly, there's a subtle discomfort in them, even when they seem happy, that goes away after transition.

    • @randomuploads8471
      @randomuploads8471 Před 2 lety +25

      @Rino Di because that's dueto extrrnal factors outside of transitioning. 80% is also rather inflated.... Suicide risk in those who transition actually goes down 60-80%

    • @big_tyler_m
      @big_tyler_m Před 2 lety +8

      @Rino Di 80% is just not accurate at all

    • @big_tyler_m
      @big_tyler_m Před 2 lety +17

      @Rino Di the statistics you saw were that 80% have considered suicide, and 42% have attempted. This is among transgender youths who have either not begun or are in the early stages of transition. There are studies that show that suicide rates drastically decrease after gender affirming care is provided to transgender individuals, whether that be hrt or top/bottom surgery. Gender affirming care is actually something that majorly helps transgender people to get over their gender dysphoria. Suicidal thoughts and actions stem from the stigma of being trans, not from being trans. Research has shown that there is a 60% decrease in moderate and severe depression in trans individuals who recieve gender affirming care. Additionally, there is a 73% decrease in suicidality in transgender youth who receive gender affirming care such as hormone replacement therapy. The high suicidality rate of transgender people isn't because of the transition, it's a multitude of other things, Including fear of retaliation, low employment rates for transgender individuals, barriers to appropriate healthcare, and transphobia (which I might add is not the fear of transgender people, but is instead a prejudice or disdain for them which is an extremely common thing in the united states). Transgender Individuals who have been the victims of harassment or discriminatory behavior have been seen to have a 30% increase in self injury behavior. The suicidality problem isn't a problem with them being trans, its a problem of them feeling like they're not going to be able to live happily the way they want to, be that because of regional laws, transphobic family or friends, being discriminated against, or even in some cases beaten and murdered, like is the case with the 50 transgender people who were killed as victims of hate crimes last year and the 20+ trans people who have been murdered this year.

    • @big_tyler_m
      @big_tyler_m Před 2 lety +12

      @Rino Di Also, regarding what you said about "mutilating organs that control hormones," that actually isn't an issue at all, bottom surgery does remove the testicles for transgender females, which does drastically decrease the bodies production of testosterone, however, this doesnt really matter as all trans individuals who undergo bottom surgery are required to undergo at least one year of hormone replacement therapy before the surgery can take place, meaning that a trans male would have to be on testosterone for at least one year, and a trans female would have to be on estrogen (and also progesterone if they so choose as well) for at least one year. So after the bottom surgery, there really is not any noticeable change within hormones, as long as one sex hormone, be it estrogen/progesterone or testosterone over powers another, there should be no drastic changes in hormones after bottom surgery. Also, not every trans individual has access to bottom surgery, and many who do, choose not to get it. There are actually vastly more individuals who don't get the surgery as opposed to those who do. About only 7-13% of transgender females end up getting bottom surgery, so they are actually a very small minority in the grand scheme of things. Most transgender individuals only go as far as to begin hormone replacement therapy, which is seen to actually drastically reduce suicide rates among transgender individuals.

  • @YogurtNight_
    @YogurtNight_ Před 2 lety +152

    I'm a trans guy and I don't know if anyone will care, but I recently got a binder. :) your channel has given me the confidence to be myself

    • @silentmaggot3696
      @silentmaggot3696 Před 2 lety +14

      congrats! I got mine a few weeks ago :)

    • @YogurtNight_
      @YogurtNight_ Před 2 lety +11

      @@silentmaggot3696 That's great :)! Good luck!

    • @OfficiallyOcean_old
      @OfficiallyOcean_old Před 2 lety +9

      Congrats dude! if you don’t mind me asking, where did you get it? I want to look into getting one

    • @roadkillerino3868
      @roadkillerino3868 Před 2 lety +7

      That's awesome man! I'd like to get one but I'm still too afraid to come out to my parents

    • @YogurtNight_
      @YogurtNight_ Před 2 lety +4

      @@OfficiallyOcean_old There’s actually some pretty affordable ones on Amazon

  • @EverTheFractal
    @EverTheFractal Před 2 lety +1169

    I got the call that my consultation for chest surgery is in December, months before I thought they'd message me. I found this channel at the start of my confusion about myself and now I'm taking a massive step towards fitting in my own skin. Keep being inspirational, you being this fun and positive source of information and laughter is saving lives!

  • @Idiot_TaylorsVersion
    @Idiot_TaylorsVersion Před rokem +133

    It’s painful to see how subtly unhappy he was before he transitioned. I’m so glad that he’s happy and fulfilled ( or seems that way) now.

    • @AmmoAnchor
      @AmmoAnchor Před 5 měsíci

      He is brainwashed into a lie, it's not right

    • @user-tw7fw4qh5b
      @user-tw7fw4qh5b Před 3 měsíci +1

      She*

    • @Idiot_TaylorsVersion
      @Idiot_TaylorsVersion Před 3 měsíci

      @@user-tw7fw4qh5b **he** he is a trans man, he was a man even before he transitioned

    • @Lily-us6vd
      @Lily-us6vd Před 3 měsíci +1

      He looks way happier now 😊

    • @AmmoAnchor
      @AmmoAnchor Před 3 měsíci

      @@Lily-us6vd looks can be deceiving

  • @Human_Being584
    @Human_Being584 Před 2 lety +408

    Stuff like this makes me feel happier about being trans.

  • @redadavis634
    @redadavis634 Před 2 lety +203

    His eyes seem to sparkle more after transitioning. I have been considering starting hormones lately, and I am unsure if I should. I am afab and I am sure it's not who I am. I do enjoy girly things and I do have a boyfriend, so I am scared about how things will go forward for me. I do want to be the fullest me I can be, but I don't want to lose everything in my life that I value. I said briefly to my best friend in the world that I was considering it, and she did not have a visible response. I do t want to be afraid to be myself.

    • @legendsneverdie1961
      @legendsneverdie1961 Před 2 lety +52

      you can still do girly things! who says their girly anyway? you might loose ypur boyfriend (depending on his sexuality and ability to adapt to this) but loosing someone is worth it to find yourself! and you guys could still be best friends

    • @andrecorreia3389
      @andrecorreia3389 Před 2 lety +29

      Experiment, DO.NOT.LABEL.YOURSELF
      Try some clothes, ask him to call you other pronouns and see how it goes and how you feel, just try things and good luck! :D

    • @kuromistan645
      @kuromistan645 Před 2 lety +28

      @@andrecorreia3389 I mean there is nothing wrong with labelling yourself just don't be obsessive about it or overthink it, labels aren't necessary although they can be helpful

    • @meowmeow8307
      @meowmeow8307 Před rokem +15

      @@kuromistan645 labelling myself made me even more confused because none of the labels really fit so i think to anyone struggling with their gender identity that it might be best nog to put any labels on anything at the start

    • @B-free7
      @B-free7 Před rokem +3

      Please don't transition if you're not sure who you are, it's not a game men don't get pregnant just not cool and really making trans people look bad and confused

  • @iamalumberjackandimok
    @iamalumberjackandimok Před 2 lety +298

    It feels weird seeing you presenting as a girl… it looks like a really well photoshopped face swap lol you look amazing

    • @jimjones1130
      @jimjones1130 Před rokem

      presenting? lol smh 😂

    • @iamalumberjackandimok
      @iamalumberjackandimok Před rokem +4

      @@jimjones1130 wdym

    • @jimjones1130
      @jimjones1130 Před rokem

      @@iamalumberjackandimok wdyt I mean?

    • @iamalumberjackandimok
      @iamalumberjackandimok Před rokem +2

      @@jimjones1130 bro if I knew I would have asked lol you just repeated a word from my comment and then put laughing emojis, idk how to interpret that

  • @FelixM_saxy
    @FelixM_saxy Před rokem +35

    As a young trans kid (ftm) this makes me so happy to see you and how far you've come

    • @graphics12
      @graphics12 Před rokem +1

      What made you want to be trans?

    • @Queerio_lol
      @Queerio_lol Před rokem +3

      @@graphics12probably just feeling like a dude

    • @peachyarts386
      @peachyarts386 Před rokem +2

      @@graphics12uh- it’s not about wanting, it’s just about feeling that you are… you don’t decide your gender identity my dude… or gal idk- if you could nobody would choose to be trans, because their rights are being taken away day by day..

    • @DepressedTransTherian
      @DepressedTransTherian Před 8 měsíci +3

      I'm a young ftm trans kid too :0

    • @-Tomarrystan-
      @-Tomarrystan- Před 5 měsíci +1

      @@peachyarts386well, that depends, some people choose gender identity, cuz its uh, you know, identity, 😭 but agree that people shoundt be treating 'trans' like an object. (THIS IS NOT COMING FROM A TRANSPHOBIC POINT OF VIEW!! THIS IS COMING FROM A GENDERFLUID PERSONS POINT OF VIEW, AKA SOMEONE WHOS GENDER CHANGES, *I* CAN CHOOSE MY GENDER, NOT SAYING THIS APPLYS TO EVERYBODY)

  • @itsatomiccc
    @itsatomiccc Před 2 lety +59

    dude your transition is amazing, so glad you’re more comfortable with yourself now!!

  • @inflatablesoup1084
    @inflatablesoup1084 Před 2 lety +424

    This is maybe offensive but Jamie pre transition low key looks like a cis dude in a wig to me lol

    • @rupaIii
      @rupaIii Před rokem +184

      i think it’s the energy he gives, he doesn’t look comfortable in that dress

    • @nadaxx_
      @nadaxx_ Před rokem +78

      its cus we are so used to seeing jamie after transitioning so we see the same thing just with different hair

    • @rissa4963
      @rissa4963 Před rokem +12

      You're right that is a guy the big wide shoulders before transitioning with a wig on.

    • @gooblikeboob
      @gooblikeboob Před rokem +3

      @@nadaxx_ i dont even guy this guy i looked up trans mtf so i was confused when he got hotter

    • @kateoconnor1307
      @kateoconnor1307 Před rokem +1

      And by cis you mean real??? We have the word real no need to make up new words

  • @cacao_0000
    @cacao_0000 Před 2 lety +186

    jamie looked so damn uncomfortable as a "girl" and so damn happy as who he was all along

    • @cjlite0210
      @cjlite0210 Před 2 lety +28

      ⚠️ John Dough has set a trap, don't trigger it ⚠️

    • @gavinwilson5895
      @gavinwilson5895 Před 2 lety +9

      @John Dough so you'd rather value biology and God over happiness?

    • @adraxas13
      @adraxas13 Před 2 lety +20

      @@cjlite0210 this comment gives the same aura as "Bomb has been planted"

    • @blahaaj
      @blahaaj Před 2 lety +9

      @John Dough Biology does actually care about feelings.
      Though, you wouldnt know that because I'm going to guess the only biology you ever learn was when you were a ween lil child.

    • @thatboy7401
      @thatboy7401 Před 2 lety

      @@blahaaj But, bro just said that in reality the dude is still technically a girl
      Is that bad??
      Damn, you really though I was gonna say more
      Nah man

  • @joleengold0796
    @joleengold0796 Před 9 měsíci +14

    What I find so interesting about videos like this, is that the person looks so sad before transitioning. You can just tell from the photos that they are not really the person they're supposed to be. And that in the photos after transitioning you can just see them look more and more happier with each picture.
    How the transphobes here can't see that is beyond me. Really shows their lack of empathy.

  • @No.U
    @No.U Před 2 lety +275

    That was a real TRANSformation

  • @Naomi_best_
    @Naomi_best_ Před 2 lety +299

    He is so cute. The beard compliments his face so well.

    • @Anika9691
      @Anika9691 Před 2 lety +9

      Imo he ruined his body and it looks gross now

    • @Naomi_best_
      @Naomi_best_ Před 2 lety +34

      @@Anika9691 he ruined his body by growing a beard? Thats a bit drastic... you myst really not like beards

    • @Naomi_best_
      @Naomi_best_ Před 2 lety +6

      @@dustyganillla4960 Wtf... what kind of question is that, leave him alone.
      This is exactly why people with a comprable backround to his, ofthen don't feel comfortable enough to become creators... this is whats wrong with the internet, whoever migth be reading this : don't be part of the problem. Support your fellow humans.

    • @Naomi_best_
      @Naomi_best_ Před 2 lety +17

      @youtubecantsaveallthesnowflakes
      *He

    • @dank980
      @dank980 Před 2 lety +14

      @youtubecantsaveallthesnowflakes he*

  • @marcocappelli2236
    @marcocappelli2236 Před rokem +61

    I may be straight, but you definitely look way more handsome and confident after transitioning. And I'm a bit jealous about the handsome part.

  • @lucas8141
    @lucas8141 Před rokem +47

    I've seen so much transphobia online that I got done being on yt. I'm glad I can see at least one happy person

    • @carlycasper7884
      @carlycasper7884 Před rokem +11

      CZcams comments are some to worst shit I’ve seen. I try to educate and talk to people be but it’s like a brick wall.

    • @lesom06
      @lesom06 Před rokem +6

      Yeah, in just this past week I jumped into a hole full of transphobia. It's been really depressing to see, but we can at least hang on to the idea that transphobes are just part of a very loud minority.
      So Jamie says.
      I hope he's right.

    • @azurimoonnn
      @azurimoonnn Před rokem +3

      ​@@carlycasper7884 yeah I agree. It's just painful to how hard they try to make our lives worse by spewing hate and bs everywhere. I'm hoping that one day in the future people will be more accepting and respectful not just to the LGBTQ+ community but to everyone 🤞🤞🤞

    • @cheapshot2842
      @cheapshot2842 Před 10 měsíci +1

      Try and remember that like 70% of comments are just bots.

    • @Chuckiebeenkinky91
      @Chuckiebeenkinky91 Před 10 měsíci

      youre weak

  • @melissabarrett9750
    @melissabarrett9750 Před rokem +55

    This video is absolute proof that being born into a sex doesn't condemn anyone to being stuck there if it feels psychologically and physically uncomfortable.

    • @DannyfMartin
      @DannyfMartin Před 4 měsíci +1

      I painted my truck but the engine light stayed on. Someone help

  • @anavitoriafarion2621
    @anavitoriafarion2621 Před 2 lety +561

    Of course Jamie had an emo phase. I guess we all had, to be honest

    • @eethvamp
      @eethvamp Před 2 lety +33

      I'm still in the goth stage and I'm no longer in school. lol.

    • @globalwyrm2334
      @globalwyrm2334 Před 2 lety +11

      I hate to be that guy, but it’s phase.

    • @silvercandra4275
      @silvercandra4275 Před 2 lety +18

      Haha... I didn't. I'm just prepetually stuck in a goth phase and I do not intend on leaving.

    • @existenz_1
      @existenz_1 Před 2 lety +8

      I'm an adult now and I'm still low key emo

    • @anavitoriafarion2621
      @anavitoriafarion2621 Před 2 lety +7

      @@globalwyrm2334 my bad. English's "phase" and portuguese's "fase" sound similar and my brain forgot to translate it lmao

  • @Alphaismyname
    @Alphaismyname Před 10 měsíci +33

    Sorry for all the transphobia in your comments, Jamie. Those people just don’t know better and still think it’s like the cavemen era.

  • @lamoskgr
    @lamoskgr Před 2 měsíci +7

    Even as a child you could tell that he had the energy of a man. I don't know how to explain it

  • @berkleypearl2363
    @berkleypearl2363 Před 2 lety +440

    I hope this won’t come across as weird sounding , but Jamie looks much better now as a man than when he was struggling with being a girl. He’s just so handsome and confident now! I’m so so proud of him and how far he’s come

    • @marissam3176
      @marissam3176 Před 2 lety +34

      It’s probably a mixture of confidence and just growing up in general. Most people look awkward when they are younger.

    • @astridviollet6211
      @astridviollet6211 Před 2 lety +4

      @@marissam3176 ye tru and you shouldn’t think you have to change yourself cuz your amazing just the way you were created

    • @marissam3176
      @marissam3176 Před 2 lety +17

      @@astridviollet6211 That’s not what I meant.

    • @macy8269
      @macy8269 Před 2 lety +6

      She’s still a girl what do you mean

    • @spaceunicorn8137
      @spaceunicorn8137 Před 2 lety +29

      @@macy8269 Kid, do some research. He's a man, you clearly don't know anything about science.

  • @Aroace-Anomaly
    @Aroace-Anomaly Před 3 měsíci +9

    You can SEE his confidence increase. Trans ppl pre-transition always look so awkward and uncomfortable.

  • @booterfly6367
    @booterfly6367 Před rokem +60

    you were the type of little emo boy i would have had a crush on in middle school

  • @Nosoyyo7
    @Nosoyyo7 Před rokem +21

    I'm SO happy whenever I see a post of Jamie. He has such a lovely way to treat others, and he is so gorgeous !

  • @kingboobs20
    @kingboobs20 Před 2 lety +182

    Notice how none of the transphobic comments have any likes because they're all hit and run trollbots.

    • @CXRT-OT
      @CXRT-OT Před 2 lety +19

      It’s because it’s not worth it. Even the bots know that

    • @kingboobs20
      @kingboobs20 Před 2 lety +4

      @@andurion8908 Oh look I got one.
      Who says we did?

    • @-elliott-averagedragonenjo1812
      @-elliott-averagedragonenjo1812 Před 2 lety +7

      @@Anika9691 “being racist should be acceptable!” “I should be allowed to harass people of different skin colours because I’m BETTER THAN THEM GODDAMNIT!!!”
      That’s you, that’s what you sound like

    • @squeaktheswan2007
      @squeaktheswan2007 Před 2 lety

      Wait, so they don't even like their own comments? Or do people really make bots for no other purpose than to spam crap and leave?

    • @squeaktheswan2007
      @squeaktheswan2007 Před 2 lety

      @@CXRT-OT You do know what a bot is, right?

  • @blake6247
    @blake6247 Před 2 lety +183

    It's the fact that Jamie went through a stage where he looked like a lesbian mom and now looks like a stay at home dad. (meant to be light hearted and funny, don't come for me)

    • @victornolan1583
      @victornolan1583 Před 2 lety +17

      Couldn't describe it any better lol. He switched parent roles!

    • @justzephan2267
      @justzephan2267 Před 2 lety

      Ok someone give this person the best comment award 🥇

    • @bigk4632
      @bigk4632 Před 2 lety

      @@trippykay you need help :)

    • @Alexx_the_coolest
      @Alexx_the_coolest Před 2 lety

      @DrunkenPenguin Why does he need help?

  • @marshistired
    @marshistired Před 11 měsíci +33

    the last 2 photos really show you how much transitioning made him happier :,)

    • @TheKingOfPizza349
      @TheKingOfPizza349 Před 10 měsíci +3

      Grammer and words correction bot 2000 here to fix your sh*tty comment that doesn’t make sense at all:
      What you said: the last 2 photos really show much much transitioning made him happier :,)
      What you meant to say: The last 2 photos really show how much transitioning made her sadder… :’(

    • @marshistired
      @marshistired Před 10 měsíci +5

      @@TheKingOfPizza349 grammar*

    • @TheKingOfPizza349
      @TheKingOfPizza349 Před 10 měsíci +1

      @@marshistired Damn I really am quite dumb for not noticing that small spelling mistake…
      I still fixed your grammar and words tho at least… :)

    • @omegagamer5830
      @omegagamer5830 Před 10 měsíci +2

      ​@@TheKingOfPizza349um you didn't fix any grammar... all you did was misgender someone, Jamie uses he him pronouns, and if you disagree, you can leave this chat, and get an actual life.

    • @_str4wb_
      @_str4wb_ Před 8 měsíci

      ​@@TheKingOfPizza349you didn't fix anything?

  • @HorrorShowism
    @HorrorShowism Před 10 měsíci +16

    A sad girl..
    Into a happy man. Love the content, Jamie.

    • @AmmoAnchor
      @AmmoAnchor Před 5 měsíci

      Into a girl with a futile penis, no change

  • @s4br1nni3
    @s4br1nni3 Před 9 měsíci +17

    How 'bout we all say "aegh" to all the transphobic comments

  • @toebeans31
    @toebeans31 Před 3 měsíci +7

    As a transgender ftm myself? I watch these videos and xan't wait to transition like they were able to. Body dysmorphia hits hard changng clothes, in the shower, looking in the mirror & when you period hits. I am so uncomfortable right nkw. But videos like this give me hope

  • @Stockman4626
    @Stockman4626 Před 2 lety +330

    this just is amazing love to everyone having to go trough 10 years and more of not fully being yourself

  • @136-rats-in-a-trenchcoat
    @136-rats-in-a-trenchcoat Před rokem +50

    This makes my trans heart sing 🏳️‍⚧️ 🏳️‍⚧️

    • @mapolo9500
      @mapolo9500 Před rokem

      Shut up

    • @136-rats-in-a-trenchcoat
      @136-rats-in-a-trenchcoat Před rokem +1

      @@mapolo9500 Me: ‘I’m happy for this man, and the fact that he is living a good life inspires me to do the same!’
      Some random internet person: ‘Shut up’
      Like, honestly, you’d think the transphobes would back up there transphobia with evidence as to why they’re right- until you realize there is none.

    • @mapolo9500
      @mapolo9500 Před rokem

      @@136-rats-in-a-trenchcoat hey… shut up

    • @136-rats-in-a-trenchcoat
      @136-rats-in-a-trenchcoat Před rokem

      @@mapolo9500 Why; I was simply saying how happy I was in the comments of a pleasant video when you, a random person behind the veil of the internet, got- what, annoyed? Angry? Irrationally upset, I’ll say, that I was feeling good about myself. That I was inspired by a man’s story so similar to what my own may be, once I have access to the resources I require. I see no reason why I should shut up.

    • @mapolo9500
      @mapolo9500 Před rokem

      @@136-rats-in-a-trenchcoat why u gay?

  • @stacyb2649
    @stacyb2649 Před 2 lety +85

    You are so adorable. I hope my son is able to live his true self. It's a journey that I'm going to be with him every step of the way. You are an inspiration.

    • @pathevermore3683
      @pathevermore3683 Před 2 lety +11

      Thanks for being there. YOU are the inspiration.

    • @pathevermore3683
      @pathevermore3683 Před 2 lety +21

      @Odboys doctors are also involved in transitioning.

    • @pathevermore3683
      @pathevermore3683 Před 2 lety +28

      @Odboys there is a
      Trans man on this video. I can see him. He is right there. How are you going to tell me he does not exist?

    • @clovercritter
      @clovercritter Před 2 lety +19

      @Odboys because its not impossible, medical transitioning literally exists and is recognized by medical experts lmfao
      you're acting none of that exists or are denying that those methods work. or are you saying you know more than actual researchers and scientists?

    • @clovercritter
      @clovercritter Před 2 lety +16

      @Odboys "okay furry" bro is stuck in 2016 cringe culture died years ago

  • @moss_Muncher
    @moss_Muncher Před 2 lety +172

    I am always so weirded out at the thought that Jamie used to present as a girl. It just feels off, like seeing a parent when they were younger. Still, it’s very inspiring to know that even if I don’t look very masculine right now, that can definitely change in the future :) thanks Jamie!

    • @bronwynknox3605
      @bronwynknox3605 Před 2 lety +28

      Yes it’s like seeing a teacher in public hahaha

    • @Am3lia77
      @Am3lia77 Před 2 lety +10

      Yes, sometimes I forget he's trans
      Edit: also, good luck with your transition

    • @sunnirae1900
      @sunnirae1900 Před 2 lety +9

      And he's SO HOT. Shabba is a lucky woman.

    • @3.14applepi
      @3.14applepi Před 2 lety +10

      he never "used to be a girl", tho. he was always a man, just used to present as a woman.

    • @moss_Muncher
      @moss_Muncher Před 2 lety +10

      @@3.14applepi hey actually thanks for putting that into words!! I was struggling with how to properly phrase it, so thanks :)

  • @espressonotdepresso
    @espressonotdepresso Před 2 lety +139

    You deserve all the happiness in the world Jamie, thank you for being such an amazing inspiration for all of us!

  • @SicilianGaming-e5c
    @SicilianGaming-e5c Před 24 dny +5

    I barley ever see any trans guy out their and it really discourages me being one but seeing this really motivated me to

    • @Friendly-Neighborhood-Asexual
      @Friendly-Neighborhood-Asexual Před 22 dny +2

      You're valid ❤

    • @argumentator08
      @argumentator08 Před 11 dny

      “barley”
      Hey, I’m a cisgender guy, but always like to tell trans people that they’re valid, and deserve the exact same as the rest of us. Because you *are* the rest of us. Just, a little different.

  • @lilqu33n
    @lilqu33n Před 2 lety +66

    I’m not trans but your videos inspire me so much to be my true self without fear. Thank you jamie for being you! So happy to see how much you have found in life :)

  • @nocoho1
    @nocoho1 Před 2 lety +40

    So weird to see you before your transition. You look so much more confident and relaxed as yourself today!! You’ve come so far

  • @Ded_Xed
    @Ded_Xed Před 2 lety +129

    The picture of you in a dress looks exactly like how I feel when I put on a dress.

    • @jean-charlesroy
      @jean-charlesroy Před 2 lety

      Ok la, dans l' fond si les robes n'existaient pas
      j' en conclu que vous non plus.
      Vapeur, sombre voile de votre convoitise et de votre orgueil...
      Fumée noire , vecteurs de faussetés Les regards qu' on posent sur vous sont motivations et pourtant dans un avenir pas si lointain seront votre perte et votre triste robe sera votre linceul de néant et de larmes !

    • @ronygomezi8480
      @ronygomezi8480 Před 2 lety

      Ew...

    • @spaceunicorn8137
      @spaceunicorn8137 Před 2 lety +8

      @@ronygomezi8480 Did you look in a mirror?

    • @ninicoh
      @ninicoh Před 2 lety +1

      exactly dude

    • @ronygomezi8480
      @ronygomezi8480 Před 2 lety +1

      @@spaceunicorn8137
      Yeah, I look handsome af. But you, it breaks everytime.

  • @BillyBob-pp8np
    @BillyBob-pp8np Před 29 dny +6

    Imma straight guy and imma say you look amazing as a man.

    • @suspected.boy.a
      @suspected.boy.a Před 25 dny +6

      Being straight doesn't mean you can't see when another dude is attractive, so to me you just have a good eye

    • @BillyBob-pp8np
      @BillyBob-pp8np Před 23 dny +2

      @@suspected.boy.a or the fact that he was handsome all this time and he just didn’t accept it at that time

    • @BillyBob-pp8np
      @BillyBob-pp8np Před 23 dny +2

      @@suspected.boy.a I like women

    • @ethanstoltzman8421
      @ethanstoltzman8421 Před 21 dnem +1

      ​@@BillyBob-pp8npit's fine to call dudes handsome, it's just like girls calling eachother pretty

    • @BillyBob-pp8np
      @BillyBob-pp8np Před 20 dny +1

      @@ethanstoltzman8421 but if a dude’s gonna dress like a girl
      … it’s neither pretty nor handsome
      … it’s an abomination

  • @galaxymew5138
    @galaxymew5138 Před 2 lety +71

    Seeing people be truly happy after transitioning, makes my heart all warm and fuzzy

    • @EDuGoIHuvvet
      @EDuGoIHuvvet Před 2 lety +2

      Same! It's one of the most beautiful things ever, and It makes me so happy for them 🥰

    • @Mai_mna
      @Mai_mna Před 2 lety +3

      It makes me so excited I can't wait to transition ✨✨✨

    • @EDuGoIHuvvet
      @EDuGoIHuvvet Před 2 lety +1

      @@Mai_mna That's awesome!
      I hope you get to start your transformation soon! ✨️ 🐛🦋🥰

    • @Anika9691
      @Anika9691 Před 2 lety +2

      What a sad life you are living

    • @Mai_mna
      @Mai_mna Před 2 lety +5

      @@Anika9691 gee. Transphobic and in the genshin impact fandom? This is why I left 🗿

  • @Cerowoba
    @Cerowoba Před 2 lety +139

    I think my favorite part of this is how you slowly become less uncomfortable as you transition more and more (or at least look like that)

    • @wormonstring5381
      @wormonstring5381 Před 2 lety +8

      I noticed that too. He looked so uncomfortable in the first pics. I see that in a lot of transition timeline videos. Hell, i even see it in old pictures of myself and im not that far into my transition yet.
      also, love your pogging isaac pfp lmao. i wish i played on pc so i could use that mod.

  • @bbbessaboss1598
    @bbbessaboss1598 Před 2 lety +43

    I normally do not comment but I'm really proud of you, looking fabulous and confident
    There might be a ton of transphobes but a lot of people support you 💖

    • @carrit8501
      @carrit8501 Před 2 lety +4

      yeah, don’t read through sorted newest first on this comment section, it isnt worth it

  • @AbsolutelyAri1
    @AbsolutelyAri1 Před rokem +32

    Bro I didn't even notice you were trans 😭
    Nice transition 👌

    • @LENNARD2ns
      @LENNARD2ns Před rokem

      Oh my god?? Ytarie located in the wild??

    • @yami-no-kami3586
      @yami-no-kami3586 Před rokem

      Same here. When I saw a video from him in my feed I was like "what a gorgeous man, so freaking handsome." and I was seriously surprised when he said he is a transman. I never would have guessed he was once in a female body.

    • @AbsolutelyAri1
      @AbsolutelyAri1 Před rokem

      @@LENNARD2ns EBBIE WHERE DA FRIGG U CAME FROM

    • @LENNARD2ns
      @LENNARD2ns Před rokem

      @@AbsolutelyAri1 canada

  • @TheKewlPerson
    @TheKewlPerson Před rokem +21

    Despite the fact being trans is a big part of Jammi's brand I always forget he used to be a girl, it feel so weird and almost like an alternate timeline with seeing him in the dress. It's like a different person or like his sister or something.

    • @formulaonefan389
      @formulaonefan389 Před rokem +5

      i didn’t even know he was trans until he mentioned it

    • @TheKewlPerson
      @TheKewlPerson Před rokem

      @@formulaonefan389 I guess it makes sense if you found him through his other non-trans related videos

  • @johnchurch2632
    @johnchurch2632 Před 2 lety +85

    Handsome young man, whoever is in his heart is blessed.

    • @treeclown3628
      @treeclown3628 Před 2 lety +8

      @@oldluke7653 Well, fortunately he has just that.

    • @treeclown3628
      @treeclown3628 Před 2 lety +9

      @@oldluke7653 He's had bottom surgery, bucko.

    • @treeclown3628
      @treeclown3628 Před 2 lety +11

      @@oldluke7653 Right back at ya 👉👉

    • @grell5108
      @grell5108 Před 2 lety +1

      I think that would be his fiancée, Shaaba. She has a CZcams channel as well

    • @Shtriga_34
      @Shtriga_34 Před 2 lety

      @@treeclown3628 what is bottom surgery? Doesn't sound like what kim k got.

  • @aroad2788
    @aroad2788 Před rokem +15

    The confidence change between the photos is all you really need to know. Living your true self is so important.

    • @happicogabriel8610
      @happicogabriel8610 Před rokem

      OMG this is it, the stupid comment I've seen on CZcams so far

    • @bareq99
      @bareq99 Před rokem +3

      ​@@happicogabriel8610 you good?

  • @Meloncee
    @Meloncee Před rokem +31

    You just look so much happier

    • @beeboop2175
      @beeboop2175 Před rokem +7

      And yet some people call it a delusion. Even if it was why would it matter since hes happy

    • @Meloncee
      @Meloncee Před rokem +4

      @@beeboop2175 ikr

    • @manashmahanta77
      @manashmahanta77 Před rokem +2

      Her things down there don't look so good.

    • @Meloncee
      @Meloncee Před rokem +5

      @@manashmahanta77 I’m sure yours don’t either, “manash”

    • @beeboop2175
      @beeboop2175 Před rokem +6

      @@manashmahanta77 his down there is none of your business to begin with

  • @selinebre
    @selinebre Před 2 lety +12

    I could never understand what trans/gay or lez people think or go through but I’ll always support tf out of them for being so strong and allowing people to hear their stories, experience and journey. 🙏🏽❤️ no one should be hated for their likes, perspective in life or love interest. W.e makes you happy should be enough. Keep on shining ☀️.

  • @davidellis4084
    @davidellis4084 Před 3 měsíci +4

    As long as you are happier, that is all that matters.

  • @honeymilk4398
    @honeymilk4398 Před 2 lety +31

    I can't wait to get that really masculine look. Right now I like in a transphobic household and my body type really isn't the best for a trans man. I still try my best to look the way I want to though

    • @ahmdjoiya
      @ahmdjoiya Před 2 lety +5

      You will get through this one day homie. Wish you the best on becoming a Masculine Chad one day

    • @biothehaz4rd
      @biothehaz4rd Před 2 lety +5

      can’t wait for you to become a giga chad

    • @goaway9923
      @goaway9923 Před 2 lety +2

      @@307living3 all animals have the same muscles. Learned this in my cooking class.

    • @shely_D7vil
      @shely_D7vil Před 2 lety +2

      @@307living3 who pissed on your cereal?

    • @jellyrock9963
      @jellyrock9963 Před 2 lety +3

      Good luck king!!! You will achieve the look that makes you happy one day and I'm so excited for you!! 🧡

  • @PfEMP
    @PfEMP Před 2 lety +41

    The early pics are like "Why is Jamie dressed like a girl?". You'll never be a girl Jamie!!! 😄😂❤️

    • @juanagallegososorio6097
      @juanagallegososorio6097 Před 2 lety

      Waaat iss men o wuoman

    • @ArtedaZeia
      @ArtedaZeia Před 2 lety +6

      @@juanagallegososorio6097 ( *Dracula voice* ) a miserable little pile of secrets

    • @Wardo2121
      @Wardo2121 Před 2 lety +1

      @@ArtedaZeia can u explain to me whats a woman

    • @jamesfranklin4816
      @jamesfranklin4816 Před 2 lety

      He's a man in a dress (bad joke) 😂

    • @Wardo2121
      @Wardo2121 Před 2 lety

      @@jamesfranklin4816 truth 😀

  • @thenekoromancer7024
    @thenekoromancer7024 Před 2 lety +84

    damn he became a absolute chad.

  • @thebrownharsha6670
    @thebrownharsha6670 Před 2 lety +133

    I always used to have this internalised transphobic notion that whenever I saw trans people for a flash second I used to catogarise them in a binary based of bodily features, even though i myself am trans and struggle with other people doing that to me. I just saw your video and I saw those pre op pictures my mind did the same transphobic thing, but in reverse- "yeah,he's a man" was what I thought when I saw those pics, which made me realise that this is just a human fallacy that I can slowly train away from. You're an amazing man who has done amazing things for us. Keep up the good work ❤️

    • @samb.3948
      @samb.3948 Před 2 lety +32

      Hey, just know you're not alone in that. I've been slowly training the transphobia out of my brain too, but every now and then I still slip up. As long as you notice what you're doing and make an effort to try to correct it then you're taking a step in the right direction.

    • @victoriahoffman4626
      @victoriahoffman4626 Před 2 lety +27

      I've been struggling with that too, sadly, but I'm getting better every day and I'm very happy now because learning more has helped me see people for who they really are inside instead of just judging their looks. I am very happy when I see a person in public and I just think "That person seems cool" instead of "she looks cool" or "he looks cool"

    • @ha8ler761
      @ha8ler761 Před 2 lety +5

      Wholesome self aware thread ✨

    • @masonthejar8890
      @masonthejar8890 Před 2 lety +1

      yes and to get more into the habit of not gendering people before I know their gender I assign some of my plants they/them pronouns when I talk to them 😂 if you’re a crazy plant person like me maybe it’ll help

    • @marcosantos903
      @marcosantos903 Před 2 lety

      So this means before you ask somebody their name you need to ask what their gender is???
      This world is going to s**t.

  • @brigaydes949
    @brigaydes949 Před 8 měsíci +3

    this makes me realize how much men and women look similar bc his face didn't change much

  • @not_sponge
    @not_sponge Před 2 lety +20

    I love how much more comfortable he looks expressing his true self

    • @cyber1ifeconnor
      @cyber1ifeconnor Před 2 lety

      She was a teenager... Every teenager is awkward and uncomfortable... Stfu with this bs it's so damn cringy and makes me concerned for when y'all have kids your gonna be projecting all this bullshit on them 🤣

    • @Anika9691
      @Anika9691 Před 2 lety

      Idk , it looks same

    • @ExternalAffairsHoustonTxRegion
      @ExternalAffairsHoustonTxRegion Před 2 lety

      Herself. It's a woman dressing as a man

    • @kasshill2034
      @kasshill2034 Před rokem +1

      Before he transitioned he was a boy who is forced to be a girl, You can tell he was uncomfortable and depressed and he’s also talked about his struggle with depression and suicide because of his transness. Really he was a man dressing as a woman and pretending to be a woman. Would you rather him of stayed as a woman (pretending), And I’ve been so depressed he killed himself? Would that make YOU feel better? Have some fucking empathy. 60% of trans people Consider suicide before transitioning, 42% of them kill them selves. That goes down by 80% when they transition. I hope you find an outlet for your anger so that you don’t have to go on random peoples pages and hurt their feelings so that you feel better. I also hope that you can learn to love yourself so that you can learn to love others and have a empathy.

    • @ineophobe
      @ineophobe Před 14 dny

      @@ExternalAffairsHoustonTxRegion you're being blind on purpose, look at the dude and explain to me how that's somehow a woman

  • @GL00MY_0M0R1
    @GL00MY_0M0R1 Před 2 lety +59

    GO JAMIE GO JAMIE GO JAMIE GO JAMIE
    omg u look so cool now

  • @betheydocrimes9868
    @betheydocrimes9868 Před 2 lety +90

    You were born a man and will always be a man. You'll never be able to change that
    This was intention ally

    • @betheydocrimes9868
      @betheydocrimes9868 Před 2 lety +9

      @Darth Sidious Haha, how long did it take you to pick that out of the 5 jokes y'all have?

    • @buzzly2040
      @buzzly2040 Před 2 lety +2

      Side note, love your username!

    • @reasonrestored9116
      @reasonrestored9116 Před 2 lety

      Not true. And I believe all people should be respected, and be able to live as they want.

    • @the1nf3r10rone
      @the1nf3r10rone Před 2 lety +7

      @@reasonrestored9116 uh...did you read the entire comment?? 😶

    • @beng197833
      @beng197833 Před 2 lety

      @@reasonrestored9116 and I believe that people respectfully can disagree and will always see a man born a man is a man and the same with the opposite sex

  • @TheDiamondCore
    @TheDiamondCore Před 5 měsíci +5

    all you 9 year olds in the comments calling him a “she” as if you would be able to tell he was originally a woman when out in public lmfao

  • @LoveLee_Dreamer
    @LoveLee_Dreamer Před 2 lety +86

    Is it just me, or did Jamie always kind of look like a guy to begin with? Maybe it's because I just can't see him any other way.

    • @Anika9691
      @Anika9691 Před 2 lety +2

      It's only you

    • @QuantumKatana
      @QuantumKatana Před 2 lety +8

      I thought that too

    • @ninicoh
      @ninicoh Před 2 lety +4

      i have this impression with every trans person!!

    • @winstonsmith1585
      @winstonsmith1585 Před 2 lety

      it's amazing what surgery and a life of drugs can do isn't it and here they are grooming the next generation.

    • @woo6855
      @woo6855 Před 2 lety

      Yo I thought that too

  • @nocturnalexecutive3107
    @nocturnalexecutive3107 Před 2 lety +27

    Beard suits you so well. Gives you this comfortable vibe doubled with the warm gaze.

    • @alicecain4851
      @alicecain4851 Před 2 lety

      Yes! I think Jamie has such wonderful eyes!

  • @yellowstalk6653
    @yellowstalk6653 Před 2 lety +38

    Got this in my recs, didn't even see who it was posted by, so it was quite the plot twist by the end! Inspiring transformation.

  • @alycewonderland5824
    @alycewonderland5824 Před 4 měsíci +3

    I hope you don't mind me saying that you are absolutely gorgeous, either way, and as long as you're happy and feel like this is the right thing for you, and that now you are how you feel you should have been all along? Absolutely fantastic!! You are so good at doing you, boo!! Keep it up ❤

    • @alycewonderland5824
      @alycewonderland5824 Před 4 měsíci

      Oh, and by the way, David Bowie is my all-time favorite performer!!! ❤

  • @SelinaCat
    @SelinaCat Před rokem +27

    I feel like in those pictures you can tell. There is just, the eyes....you look like your real self now

  • @vasama3
    @vasama3 Před 2 lety +34

    Is it just me or did Jamie never even look feminine, like even in a dress he just looks like a guy in a dress

  • @carlton2341
    @carlton2341 Před 2 lety +36

    Can someone pls explain to me how I’m supposed to cope with life as a 13 year old with gender dysphoria with a transphobic mother-

    • @betheydocrimes9868
      @betheydocrimes9868 Před 2 lety +13

      Just try to keep your head up. Talk to people like you and connect with others (:

    • @phyllfisher7539
      @phyllfisher7539 Před 2 lety +7

      I made this secret email so I could have this account and I follow a bunch of surportive and lovely people like Jamie and ot

    • @mockingjay478
      @mockingjay478 Před 2 lety +12

      Trust that this is temporary. You'll be able to leave home in a few years. I know that feels like forever away but it's not. You'll get there.

    • @Mai_mna
      @Mai_mna Před 2 lety +5

      Sorry you had to go through that

    • @Mai_mna
      @Mai_mna Před 2 lety +1

      @Phyl Newbold tyyy have a wonderful day/night! :D

  • @Bunny_Bill
    @Bunny_Bill Před rokem +8

    This is honestly so inspiring. As a young transmasc myself, this is exactly how I want to feel when I get older. Happy in my body.

  • @SketchPaige
    @SketchPaige Před 2 lety +18

    Jamie's community is so sweet and supportive of one another, I love it. For all of you working towards your transition, I wish you the best of luck! For all of you who can't transition yet, I hope there comes a day where you get to live as your true self, make sure to be kind to your body even if it isn't your ideal one yet. And to all of you who never want to medically transition, you all are so valid no matter what anyone says. I support each and every one of you, and no matter how you'd like to present your gender, I hope you're able to reach that eventually, and if you already have reached it, I'm so proud of you for all you may have gone through to get to this point.

  • @nut4663
    @nut4663 Před 2 lety +125

    Testosterone is fucking magical

    • @Anika9691
      @Anika9691 Před 2 lety +4

      It makes you bald

    • @victornolan1583
      @victornolan1583 Před 2 lety +12

      @@Anika9691 It really doesn't, that only happens if you have those genetics in your family

    • @-elliott-averagedragonenjo1812
      @-elliott-averagedragonenjo1812 Před 2 lety +6

      @@Anika9691 and??? You’re saying Harry hill isn’t a king???

    • @bonniematthews4941
      @bonniematthews4941 Před 2 lety +4

      Until it kills you. There are serious health risks so it better be worth those risks

    • @bonniematthews4941
      @bonniematthews4941 Před 2 lety +4

      Blood clots high blood pressure cardiac issues yeah I want some of that

  • @_letstartariot
    @_letstartariot Před 2 lety +12

    It’s wonderful that you are happy in your skin. You look so happy. I have not met many trans people in my life (that I am aware of anyway). So through content creators like yourself, I get to enjoy learning new things as well as getting access to the thoughts and opinions of trans folk. Thank you!

  • @zataiyo6738
    @zataiyo6738 Před rokem +13

    My boyfriends HRT starts in a few months!
    I'm so happy that we made it happen

  • @theycanseeme
    @theycanseeme Před 2 lety +42

    As a trans man myself, I am so proud of you. You came out, and always were, a handsome man. Since I'm 13 I have a hard time at school since people always say I'm still a girl and it's honestly upsetting.

    • @laraprobst6945
      @laraprobst6945 Před 2 lety +12

      I think your a nice man ;) don't let them get you down

    • @DivineLightPaladin
      @DivineLightPaladin Před 2 lety +10

      You're gonna make it lil bro! It gets better, I promise. I transitioned when I was around 23 (so it's never too late)

    • @charlotte87x
      @charlotte87x Před 2 lety +4

      Words are just words. Don't let them get you down. Sounds complicated, but it's really not. Once you know who you are, and you're happy within yourself, let those words fly by.

    • @biothehaz4rd
      @biothehaz4rd Před 2 lety +2

      Whatever you identify as, you are. I don’t see anything wrong with being who you are

    • @angelolagrutta4679
      @angelolagrutta4679 Před 2 lety

      @@biothehaz4rd so if people identify as trans species is that ok

  • @casikon3394
    @casikon3394 Před 2 lety +33

    God I wish I could at least afford to start transitioning, one day tho just gotta wait. I moved out 2 weeks ago from my lgbt-phobic and toxic parents, barely got money for food but its better now and gonna be even better when I'll stabilize myself financially

    • @Randomusernamehandle
      @Randomusernamehandle Před 2 lety +8

      Best of luck to you!!!

    • @gnocchidokey
      @gnocchidokey Před 2 lety +7

      That sounds incredibly hard

    • @11_JUJU_11
      @11_JUJU_11 Před 2 lety

      Man support no matter what. respect to the parents

    • @themisfitowl2595
      @themisfitowl2595 Před 2 lety

      Good luck to you friend! Got kicked out by my Mom a year ago and it's still a struggle. We will make it through someday. Just gotta stay strong.

    • @alicecain4851
      @alicecain4851 Před 2 lety

      Please look for support groups in your area!

  • @emilyflavell1658
    @emilyflavell1658 Před 2 lety +11

    You look so much happier in the photos where you're presenting male, I'm so glad you're able to live like that all the time now

  • @moonbanggi
    @moonbanggi Před 9 měsíci +7

    Crazy how some souls are born with the wrong body

    • @CalebNewbery
      @CalebNewbery Před 8 měsíci +4

      If only souls could trade bodies if they wanted to, so many people would be so much happier.

  • @devitaromlah2866
    @devitaromlah2866 Před 2 lety +43

    You are a beautiful human being .

    • @soupsaurus
      @soupsaurus Před 2 lety +10

      Yes he is

    • @anomniscientduck6356
      @anomniscientduck6356 Před rokem

      Indeed ❤❤

    • @jvniper.v
      @jvniper.v Před rokem

      So is your father in bed♥️/j

    • @nunya8701
      @nunya8701 Před rokem +3

      she is offense to God

    • @vowoxel
      @vowoxel Před rokem +3

      @@nunya8701 Atheist here, but I have to ask: What happened to "Love thy neighbor"? What did they ever do to you to warrant your rejection?
      (And who are you to decide what your god approves of?)

  • @jademarmalade3792
    @jademarmalade3792 Před 2 lety +28

    I can’t imagine how it must feel to be born a gender that doesn’t match your mind and soul. It’s incredible to see this transition. You look great.

    • @felixt808
      @felixt808 Před 2 lety +1

      @@loveandpeace_totheworld uhh...

    • @Anika9691
      @Anika9691 Před 2 lety

      Imagine having gender dysphoria 🤡

    • @MCMLNJ
      @MCMLNJ Před 2 lety

      @@felixt808 Seriously. How do you know that you’re more fitted to be a women when you’ve never been one.

  • @shaunmccomish8572
    @shaunmccomish8572 Před 2 lety +53

    Good for you! Here's to hoping more people getting to live their best lives in the coming years.

  • @siennafancher6728
    @siennafancher6728 Před 7 měsíci +5

    He looks so awkward pre-transition

  • @CRAYONZYUMZ
    @CRAYONZYUMZ Před 2 lety +21

    Y’all please, don’t hit newest first, there r so many negative comments

    • @Mai_mna
      @Mai_mna Před 2 lety

      Sorry you shouldn't have said that cause now I'm gonna do it 😂👩🏾‍🎤

  • @MochaStoneheart
    @MochaStoneheart Před 2 lety +21

    "female" jamie is kinda cursed not gonna lie

  • @anklesucker14
    @anklesucker14 Před 2 lety +9

    God this comment section is filled with people too scared to realize that this is an amazing *Man*

    • @liamevans9479
      @liamevans9479 Před 2 lety

      She is biologically a *female*

    • @glorpri
      @glorpri Před 8 měsíci +2

      ​@@liamevans9479pretty sure that's a man

  • @bozartspianoarchive3546
    @bozartspianoarchive3546 Před 8 měsíci +6

    Nah bro was supposed to be a guy in the first place he didn’t look right when he was a woman

  • @barandigemini
    @barandigemini Před rokem +7

    You were a pretty girl, but did not seem comfortable in your skin. Now as a handsome young man, you radiate being confident and content. Good for you!