4 Surprising things I learnt being a First Time Mum

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  • čas přidán 4. 03. 2019
  • Hi guys, this will be my last MummyRochelle Vlog before the new baby arrives so I thought this would be a good opportunity to discuss some of the surprising things I didn't expect being a FTM. Below are some useful links if you want more info on the topics I talk about.
    1. Colostrum, baby's first milk & Building up your milk supply: www.nhs.uk/conditions/pregnan...
    2. Nursing Aversion: www.breastfeedingaversion.com...
    3. What is Mum Guilt? www.marieclaire.co.uk/life/wh...
    4. Young kids learning development: www.cdc.gov/ncbddd/childdevel...
    - Feel free to send me a comment, telling me what surprising things you learnt being a first-time parent.
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Komentáře • 171

  • @MayaRochelleandFamily
    @MayaRochelleandFamily  Před 5 lety +2

    There's so many things I haven't covered in this vlog (The video would be too long lol).
    I'd be interested to hear from you guys - What surprising things did you learn being a first-time mum/parent? :)

    • @DanAnderson_TheMaddestShredder
      @DanAnderson_TheMaddestShredder Před 5 lety

      BabyRochelle kids are just biting to get hooks. But it does take a long time to get it happenings god bless you sweetheart

  • @madampango
    @madampango Před 5 lety +1

    I don't have any kids, but I do salute to all the moms there like you.

  • @christinermns3747
    @christinermns3747 Před 5 lety +1

    the baby is so adorable. This was a cool live. So many bells going off at a time I hope to catch yours soon.

  • @heprovides5604
    @heprovides5604 Před 5 lety +1

    Our youngest is now 23. And the learning has never stopped.

  • @DeaconsUniverse
    @DeaconsUniverse Před 5 lety +1

    Hi :) Nice meeting you in NDSA's stream

  • @Wonderfulkidsworld
    @Wonderfulkidsworld Před 5 lety +1

    good to see guys your new friends here

  • @KINGDOMANIMATION4D
    @KINGDOMANIMATION4D Před 5 lety +1

    Breastfeeding can be a struggle, but our hearts are in the right place. You do what you have to do in the beginning.

    • @MayaRochelleandFamily
      @MayaRochelleandFamily  Před 5 lety +2

      Yeah, this is true. You naturally want to do all you can to make sure your bubs stays healthy. We're lucky in the UK we have a lot of Breastfeeding support. It'll be great if all countries could provide this support xx

  • @AS-bj9cn
    @AS-bj9cn Před 5 lety +2

    Hi friend!! I agree breastfeeding is not easy!! So hard!! I did it with twins!! Not so easy, but a wonderful experience . Definitely recommend!!!

    • @MayaRochelleandFamily
      @MayaRochelleandFamily  Před 5 lety +1

      Hi dear friend! Wow that's great and you breastfed twins!! BF really is the best for them and you have to be strong and committed to go the distance. Right now I'm trying to decide if I should/could co-nurse once the baby is born. I hope after the birth that my nursing aversion goes. Fingers crossed xx

  • @AnnetteTheEncourager
    @AnnetteTheEncourager Před 5 lety +1

    There are many things to learn and experience for sure my friend. Your daughter so Beautiful. Have a wonderful Day

    • @MayaRochelleandFamily
      @MayaRochelleandFamily  Před 5 lety +1

      Indeed> Everyday we learning new things and gaining lots of experience. Loving it!! Thanks for joining our family!!

  • @Samuelandhistoys786
    @Samuelandhistoys786 Před 5 lety +1

    Great informational video thanks for sharing this video my friend 👍 ❤ ❤ ❤ ❤

    • @MayaRochelleandFamily
      @MayaRochelleandFamily  Před 5 lety +1

      Thanks, I'm glad you enjoyed it. Being a parent is amazing but is very complex and a shock to the system when you become a parent first time. I'm letting parents know they are not alone xx

  • @ArjanvsTheWorld
    @ArjanvsTheWorld Před 5 lety +1

    Your learning video is marvellous Rochelle.

  • @ASMRSouthernBell
    @ASMRSouthernBell Před 5 lety +1

    Being a Mom is a hard job, but it looks like your a Great Mom!!! 💖💖💖

    • @MayaRochelleandFamily
      @MayaRochelleandFamily  Před 5 lety +1

      Aww thanks hun!! Yeah being a mom is hard but it is a blessing even when you have your low moments 😘

    • @MayaRochelleandFamily
      @MayaRochelleandFamily  Před 5 lety

      Was it a shock to the system when you had your first? xx

  • @mehzabinpinky
    @mehzabinpinky Před 5 lety +1

    Been a mum is not easy hun I have 3 n I know all about it just subscribed thumbs up keep posting

    • @MayaRochelleandFamily
      @MayaRochelleandFamily  Před 5 lety +1

      Thanks for leaving your comment Mehzabin. I'm mentally preparing for our fam of 3 to become fam of 4 lol. I'm glad you liked what I had to say... I think some of these topics are a bit taboo. Not many mums feel comfortable openly talking about these things but hopefully (through this vid) mums will know they are not alone. We will stop by sometime today and show our love. Take care hun and continue staying strong xx

  • @funthingswithjustin8972
    @funthingswithjustin8972 Před 5 lety +1

    Very informative! I wish I saw this before I had my 2 boys.. I thought the process was 1,2,3 and it became so frustrating for me I just resorted to pumping. Thanks for sharing your tips!! New sub here

  • @poonamskitchen5
    @poonamskitchen5 Před 5 lety +1

    Thanks for sharing..

  • @PakistanimominAmerica
    @PakistanimominAmerica Před 5 lety +1

    Nice share dear sister

  • @ladyttv4275
    @ladyttv4275 Před 5 lety +1

    Wow love your Little Angle.

  • @selinesrecipes
    @selinesrecipes Před 5 lety

    Hi dear nice baby stay connected 👍 always 🤗

  • @slaklay
    @slaklay Před 5 lety +1

    Hello my friend 🌷🌷😊😊

  • @missyelle2749
    @missyelle2749 Před 5 lety +3

    Our children were spaced out, so no nursing aversion experienced

  • @NguoiRungDakLak
    @NguoiRungDakLak Před 5 lety +2

    HÉLO VERY NICE VIDEO THANK YOU.. CHÚC BẠN VÀ GIA ĐÌNH NGÀY MỚI VUI VẺ VÀ HẠNH PHÚC

  • @TokunboLatonaTV
    @TokunboLatonaTV Před 5 lety +1

    Aww you're so beautiful... I'm clued to your channel. Xx

    • @MayaRochelleandFamily
      @MayaRochelleandFamily  Před 5 lety +1

      Awww thanks Tokunbo Latona TV, you're so sweet! We have watched some of your vids - very good and professional looking. Keep up the good work! 😘

  • @pintobean1
    @pintobean1 Před 5 lety +1

    Great video!!! Stopping by to show some love

  • @MountainGirlFrenchAlps
    @MountainGirlFrenchAlps Před 5 lety +1

    Interesting! Liked with full watch :)

    • @MayaRochelleandFamily
      @MayaRochelleandFamily  Před 5 lety +1

      Aww, I'm glad you enjoyed this topic. There's so much I could talk about but I wanted to discuss nursing aversion and mum guilt in particular as it affects so much of us and is a bit of a taboo subject. At least mums/parents can know that they are not alone. xx

  • @JulietRobin
    @JulietRobin Před 5 lety +1

    Awwwww....beautiful. Thanks for sharing. My girlfriend just had a baby so i'm gonna be her teacher. LOL!

  • @playwithtinu1198
    @playwithtinu1198 Před 5 lety +1

    Sweet ..

  • @Fridayss
    @Fridayss Před 5 lety +1

    this was so interesting to watch, very well put together! Xx

    • @MayaRochelleandFamily
      @MayaRochelleandFamily  Před 5 lety +1

      Thanks hun! I had some technical issues lol but where there's a will, there's a way 😄

  • @ButterflyJewels
    @ButterflyJewels Před 5 lety +1

    Beautiful baby.

  • @precisionanglingYT
    @precisionanglingYT Před 5 lety

    First time checking in. I learned a lot as a first time parent as well

  • @OmShaanti1111
    @OmShaanti1111 Před 5 lety +1

    Very interesting upload and definitely resonate with the breast-feeding, I thought it would be so natural and I struggled for a while (with a 10lb hungry baby) but we got there in the end! Thanks for great content 🌸🙏

    • @MayaRochelleandFamily
      @MayaRochelleandFamily  Před 5 lety

      Hi, thanks we're happy that you enjoyed this video! Awwww, I'm glad you stayed strong and tried to do what was best for your baby. BF really isn't that easy and sometimes there can be pressure to supplement with formula if BF isn't going as well in the beginning. Have a lovely weekend hun 😘

  • @marisolvillavicencio1491
    @marisolvillavicencio1491 Před 5 lety +1

    Hi hun New from the live stream let's stay connected 💕💕💕have a blessed day

  • @ButterflyJewels
    @ButterflyJewels Před 5 lety

    Oh my goodness. Thank you for giving me a name for it. Mommie Guilt. I do this sometimes.

  • @COJ.Island
    @COJ.Island Před 5 lety +1

    Hi! Hru? Thanks for sharing your wonderful experience as FTM.👍💚👍

  • @Pozeproductions1
    @Pozeproductions1 Před 5 lety +1

    Very nice video

  • @Pinkstonfamily123
    @Pinkstonfamily123 Před 5 lety

    Wow really beautiful baby girl thank you so much for sharing have a great day

    • @MayaRochelleandFamily
      @MayaRochelleandFamily  Před 5 lety

      Thanks Jamaicagirl! We're glad you enjoyed our video, thanks for watching. We hope you have a lovely weekend!

  • @ButterflyJewels
    @ButterflyJewels Před 5 lety

    New here. Really enjoyed myself and I'm sticking around love. 🦋

  • @citizenztv4667
    @citizenztv4667 Před 5 lety

    Yes the formula can be little time consuming but it subject sometimes can take longer friend for life

  • @thedailydee
    @thedailydee Před 5 lety

    Met you on G-Mama's live and came over to check you out. I really like what I see. I will be here permanently.

  • @AbandonedCityCamoCrewExplorers

    Nice to meet you london? sounds like it hope your well .see you again soon

    • @MayaRochelleandFamily
      @MayaRochelleandFamily  Před 5 lety +1

      Hi, how are you guys doing? Thanks for watching - it's nice that our male subscribers also watch and enjoy this video. Hope you have a good day :)

  • @missyelle2749
    @missyelle2749 Před 5 lety +2

    I breasted all 5 of our children and wouldn’t trade it for anything. I too had to learn how to get baby to latch on after delivery and learn how to make sure the baby latched on.

    • @MayaRochelleandFamily
      @MayaRochelleandFamily  Před 5 lety +2

      That's great to hear, an achievement to breastfeed all your babies as breastfeeding can be challenging and you really have to be self-disciplined to go the distance. I hope this video helps many mums who struggle as well as pregnant/or first time mums who might not know how complex breastfeeding can be. I'm glad you didn't suffer nursing aversion. It's not pleasant. BabyRochelle is still attached to my boobs so I might try and co breastfeed when newborn gets here. Not sure yet - a bit conflicted. Thanks for your message. Blessings to you and your family xx

    • @missyelle2749
      @missyelle2749 Před 5 lety +1

      BabyRochelle I had a friend successfully co breastfeed and both babies are thriving. Glad to see other Moms talking about this subject it can be overwhelming at times.
      When you’ve got a few mins ,I’d love for you to my. Handel and check it out you

  • @SatisfyingASMR4u
    @SatisfyingASMR4u Před 5 lety +1

    Congratulations!!

  • @kristinb7450
    @kristinb7450 Před 5 lety

    Great video showing you love and support ❤️❤️❤️

  • @lasithrocks1246
    @lasithrocks1246 Před 5 lety

    Wow- interesting

  • @missyelle2749
    @missyelle2749 Před 5 lety +1

    I had Mommy guilt with our last child because she was an emergency c-section and it was not something I thought I would ever experience

    • @MayaRochelleandFamily
      @MayaRochelleandFamily  Před 5 lety +1

      Sorry to hear this, it wasn't your fault hun. I hope everything is going better for you xx

  • @LifeWithMike85
    @LifeWithMike85 Před 5 lety

    Hello! Nice show!😊

  • @LyndasDiamonds
    @LyndasDiamonds Před 5 lety

    What a great video. I relate even though I was a first time mom almost 23 years ago. I could not breast feed either one of my children. I just did not produce enough. I think a lot think it is just a natural easy thing. Congrats on your family! I'm excited to get to know you and your channel. What a beautiful baby.

    • @MayaRochelleandFamily
      @MayaRochelleandFamily  Před 5 lety

      Hi Linda, thanks for your message. I'm glad this video could relate to you and your experience. Sorry to hear about your struggles with breastfeeding. We know we as mothers get a lot of pressure to breastfeed, when some mums have a hard time bf or choose not to. Thanks for the congrats hun! Much appreciated. All the best to you, your family and your channel. Goodnight and we will be sure to show you our support xx

  • @albusjim6823
    @albusjim6823 Před 5 lety

    Beautiful family.Love your videos!!!

  • @Th3Goodn3rdsFamily
    @Th3Goodn3rdsFamily Před 5 lety +2

    Breast feeding is really really painful and its difficult for baby and mom if the baby don't latch. I remember those days. love you hun.

    • @MayaRochelleandFamily
      @MayaRochelleandFamily  Před 5 lety +1

      Thnaks for your message... yeah it's really hard decision cos sometimes you feel uncomfortable/pain but at the same time you want your baby to have the nutrition they need. I bet you're glad those BF days are over lol. I can't drink for another 2 years 😄 but it's worth it xx

  • @itsyagirlsheena8494
    @itsyagirlsheena8494 Před 5 lety

    I wanna great feed my next child ❤️ congrats on 1k🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @DanAnderson_TheMaddestShredder

    Hurts they say. not like that sweetheart!!! She’s sooo adorable god bless you sweetheart. Mad Respect. God bless you sweetheart

  • @liiamsromphouse1166
    @liiamsromphouse1166 Před 5 lety +1

    Stay connected new friend...cute little girl great video👏👍🙏❤

  • @LegendsOfArt_production
    @LegendsOfArt_production Před 5 lety +1

    I love your content 😍

  • @RollingwiththeReids
    @RollingwiththeReids Před 5 lety

    hello new from Ndisa, beautiful family !

  • @ToysAda
    @ToysAda Před 5 lety +2

    Hi Mum 😍 awesome video , super like from new friend 🥰👍🏻👍🏻💜💚🧡💙🔔

  • @PaintingtheRosesRed
    @PaintingtheRosesRed Před 5 lety +1

    Being a mom is a hard job!

    • @MayaRochelleandFamily
      @MayaRochelleandFamily  Před 5 lety +1

      Yeah it is lol. You hear people say this so much but until you go through it personally, you won't truly understand. It's a blessing to be a parent and our babies are worth the hard work xx

    • @PaintingtheRosesRed
      @PaintingtheRosesRed Před 5 lety +1

      @@MayaRochelleandFamily amen sister, you're absolutely right!

  • @MasonsFunDay
    @MasonsFunDay Před 5 lety +2

    Hi first here 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻💚💚💚

    • @MayaRochelleandFamily
      @MayaRochelleandFamily  Před 5 lety +2

      Hi Mason and fam. Thanks for watching xx

    • @MasonsFunDay
      @MasonsFunDay Před 5 lety +1

      BabyRochelle hi my dear friend 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻💚💚💚💚

  • @LeBainSoap
    @LeBainSoap Před 5 lety

    What an awesome share, so informative for new moms! I never had to pump, thank God! I was always around and when in public, i just threw a blanket over myself lol. Things were different back in my day though. The teeth thing, lord lord, that could be painful, i remember! HahahA! Great big LIKE sweety! Have a blessed weekend!

    • @MayaRochelleandFamily
      @MayaRochelleandFamily  Před 5 lety

      Hi Le Bain. I'm glad you enjoyed our video. Yeah the things we need to do as mums lol! Yeah, I used to carry around a nursing top to breastfeed since don't want public attention and it helps with milk let down cos I wasn't as self-conscious breastfeeding using it. I'm glad your breastfeeding journey wasn't too challenging. Yeah the teeth, so scary to try BF at first lol! I wish you the same too, have a blessed weekend hun! xx

  • @NickyTheRealest
    @NickyTheRealest Před 5 lety

    New friend here..came to support you ❤️

  • @PositiveQueen
    @PositiveQueen Před 5 lety +1

    Hiya Beautiful family love your accent good afternoon new friend here let's stay in touch Big 👍up Great video she is such a cutie pie

  • @NorthWestGhostAdventures
    @NorthWestGhostAdventures Před 5 lety +1

    Love your channel

    • @MayaRochelleandFamily
      @MayaRochelleandFamily  Před 5 lety +1

      Thanks SPIRIT ENCOUNTERS ITC! We appreciate it. We'll stop by and show some love some time today 😀

  • @interestingstories4521

    nice video))

  • @ButterflyJewels
    @ButterflyJewels Před 5 lety

    Oh wow. I've never heard of nursing aversion.

  • @gunz00
    @gunz00 Před 5 lety +2

    Almost at 1k 😊🔝💯

    • @MayaRochelleandFamily
      @MayaRochelleandFamily  Před 5 lety +2

      Hi SUNDY, what's good? Thanks for watching - I can almost taste the 1k lol 😄

    • @gunz00
      @gunz00 Před 5 lety +1

      @@MayaRochelleandFamily no problem my freind all the best I'm good wbu?😊😊

  • @paperfreek7808
    @paperfreek7808 Před 5 lety +2

    Nice video!!!🔔👍*^^* I really enjoyed watching😊✨ !! Dear friend💕💕 !!!!! Like 81

  • @ButterflyJewels
    @ButterflyJewels Před 5 lety

    Breastfeeding got me too. Lol I thought it would be all rainbows and butterflies.

  • @twocutestthings6894
    @twocutestthings6894 Před 5 lety

    I have stay connected.. My friend...very cute baby.

  • @sandrashauls5840
    @sandrashauls5840 Před 5 lety +1

    Great video I subscribed back to your channel enjoyed watching stay connected!!!👍👍

    • @MayaRochelleandFamily
      @MayaRochelleandFamily  Před 5 lety +1

      Hi Sandra, we're glad you enjoyed the video! Thanks for returning the love. 😀👍

  • @trueatsasmr
    @trueatsasmr Před 5 lety

    Hey love new friend here, hit that bell as well, love your video hope to see more soon. Lets stay connected.

  • @Ysai0813
    @Ysai0813 Před 5 lety +1

    its hard to breastfeed at firstimer mom,,, i also experienced breasfeeding my 3 kids

    • @MayaRochelleandFamily
      @MayaRochelleandFamily  Před 5 lety +1

      Marisa Avila - Waiting for my 2nd baby next week then my life will be more interesting. Loving being a mum!! Thanks for joining to our family!!

  • @playwithtinu1198
    @playwithtinu1198 Před 5 lety +1

    Lovely daughter....

  • @mariannecanoofficial
    @mariannecanoofficial Před 5 lety +1

    the napping time was different already.. changing of diapers and many more

  • @ChrissySxo4
    @ChrissySxo4 Před 5 lety

    You're so gorgeous! 😍 & TFS i wanna become a mom some day! Thanks for your insight on this! Feeding sounds like fun but i agree that does sound complicated!

    • @MayaRochelleandFamily
      @MayaRochelleandFamily  Před 5 lety

      Hi Chrissy, I'm glad you enjoyed the video. The aim of this video was to bring awareness to these (especially breastfeeding and mum guilt) so new parents don't get caught off guard... not many people talk about these, it's like taboo subject or something lol. That's lovely that you hope to become a mum some day, all the best to you. It is a blessing that should'nt be taken for granted and life isn't the same again after this. I hope you have a lovely weekend hun. 😘

  • @BeingTanisha
    @BeingTanisha Před 5 lety

    Hey girl!!! I don't have any kids so thatis is very helpful!!! I swear there are thigs they do't tell you before you have kids!!! Beautiful!!!

  • @jewelzofthasea
    @jewelzofthasea Před 5 lety +1

    Heyy new friend thanks for sharing these things with us! Im happy to be apart of ur fam🎉 we are friends stay connected love🌸

  • @ImaaniBeauty
    @ImaaniBeauty Před 5 lety

    Nice video enjoyed watching 👌 here to support hope to stay connected 💯

  • @NicoleKayeB
    @NicoleKayeB Před 5 lety

    Such a cool video, thanks for sharing:) here from a live to show some permanent love!!:)

  • @stuwilliams1130
    @stuwilliams1130 Před 5 lety

    New to channel. Found your channel at Ndisa's world.

  • @shaunsim6013
    @shaunsim6013 Před 5 lety

    great video

  • @ButterflyJewels
    @ButterflyJewels Před 5 lety +1

    I learned I was wrong about my mom.

  • @aqillaghanniya6281
    @aqillaghanniya6281 Před 5 lety +1

    Hello my name is aqilla from Indonesian 😉

  • @ASMRR3N33
    @ASMRR3N33 Před 5 lety

    Got you from the live stream let's stay in touch I'm permanent

  • @vinimalheirogamer3249
    @vinimalheirogamer3249 Před 5 lety +1

    Nice video :)

  • @LegendsOfArt_production
    @LegendsOfArt_production Před 5 lety +1

    Hello I am new to your channel showing some love 😍😘...stay connected we grow together 🤗🔔🔔

  • @saybo95
    @saybo95 Před 5 lety

    New to the channel 🤗

  • @laura.isabell
    @laura.isabell Před 5 lety

    👍❤️

  • @Filipinoreaction
    @Filipinoreaction Před 5 lety

    rochelle my friend my clasmate whats up

  • @drewnationtv-vlogs1141

    Hey, Hey, discovered your channel in a stream. Nice to meet you. Cool video. All the misleading things we believe prior to becoming a parent quickly unfolds once our little ones come along. The experience is great though and just like anything else once you stick to it it gets better. I am happy you stuck with it. Thanks for sharing this awesome vid. Exploring your channel more. This was a well put together video. You are invited to stop by our house to say hi and become one of our family members! BELLS On! Made a friend for life here!

    • @MayaRochelleandFamily
      @MayaRochelleandFamily  Před 5 lety

      Hi Drew, thanks for your message. Yeah, I'm hoping this video will help new parents/soon to be parents so these things won't be a major shock to the system. It's weird that things like nursing aversion and mum guilt can be a bit of a taboo subject... like parents are uncomfortable talking about it but these things do happen to some of us. Thanks for your support! We're glad you enjoyed this video. We're happy to join your family and we hope to see you any new videos you upload in the future xx

    • @DrewsClues
      @DrewsClues Před 5 lety

      @@MayaRochelleandFamily Hey there, I just realized today that my original comment came from our out account which does not have videos. I have responded today from the correct account. we have hit the button and bell from the correct account as well. Thanks

  • @SportsLiveInTheAtl
    @SportsLiveInTheAtl Před 5 lety +1

    I wasn't breast fed. Nope.😀

    • @MayaRochelleandFamily
      @MayaRochelleandFamily  Před 5 lety +1

      Lol! Breastfeeding isn't for everyone. Different strokes for different folks. Thank our lucky stars that in this day and age we have a lot more options (incl formula) to choose from :)

  •  Před 5 lety +1

    Xin chào 2 mẹ con

  • @ButterflyJewels
    @ButterflyJewels Před 5 lety

    You're beautiful. 😍

  • @HashInfo
    @HashInfo Před 5 lety

    hi there gorgeous how u doin

  • @MikesComputerTips
    @MikesComputerTips Před 5 lety

    Great video I like your accent your channel is nice stay in touch I'm going to check out your videos check out mine