How to start your fitness journey, FULL workout in the gym, gym anxiety + weight training for women

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  • čas přidán 25. 09. 2022
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    STARTING YOUR FITNESS JOURNEY
    I remember what it felt like when I started; the anxiety, the nerves, not knowing what to do or where to start and never setting foot in the weights section! It’s been a journey! And I can’t wait to help anyone that’s just starting out! ❤️
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Komentáře • 217

  • @pourdrug
    @pourdrug Před rokem +928

    To whoever’s reading this I promise things are going to be fine it takes time, enjoy every minute of your life I wish you a good week ahead , good luck with everything you face this week !✅❤️🍀

  • @_.iridescencija._
    @_.iridescencija._ Před rokem +447

    I am thinking of trying this so don't mind this comment haha-
    3:30 Treadmill Warm Up
    5:09 Another Warm up
    9:14 Exercise 1
    13:05 Exercise 2
    18:24 Exercise 3
    20:06 Exercise 4
    22:36 Exercise 5
    23:31 Exercise 6

    • @maryjacob8873
      @maryjacob8873 Před 2 měsíci +3

      We don't mind at all, it will be helpful to others too. So thank you on their behalf!!

    • @cheeny4
      @cheeny4 Před měsícem

      So glad I came across this video. I’m fairly new to the gym and have been trying to find exercises that I can do to gain some muscle. Thanks so much I want to be consistent and try this

  • @MOMM4
    @MOMM4 Před 8 dny +2

    🙏🏾if you’re reading this…EVERY movement counts! Keep going.. you got this!

  • @destinyvarnedoe4104
    @destinyvarnedoe4104 Před 11 měsíci +51

    Just wanted to say, as an autistic person it’s really helpful to have super detailed step by step instructions. Like the locker room step by step felt so reassuring to me. Thanks for putting this out there

  • @ShayyButter
    @ShayyButter Před rokem +408

    as someone who struggles with anxiety and depression, thank you so much for covering this!
    ive been going to the gym for years and I STILL get anxiety every time I walk in

    • @bongegumede
      @bongegumede  Před rokem +15

      Gotchuuu❤️❤️

    • @Hannah-sr9tr
      @Hannah-sr9tr Před rokem +10

      Im glad I’m not the only one. I haven’t been diagnosed for anxiety but I’m pretty sure I have some kind of anxiety. And I get so anxious walking into the gym. I have no clue what to do with myself while walking to the changing room as I feel like everyone’s staring at me

    • @bubba283
      @bubba283 Před rokem

      @@bongegumede I wonder if this would work on me being a guy , I want a bubble butt , I know my boyfriend would like it for sure

  • @dorothyjames7033
    @dorothyjames7033 Před rokem +228

    planning your workout is so important, I used to go to the gym without a plan and honestly I saw no results. great tips

    • @bongegumede
      @bongegumede  Před rokem +7

      Yes ma’am! ❤️

    • @cynthiacynthia2390
      @cynthiacynthia2390 Před rokem +4

      Can you specify plan? I go to the gym and hit “legs” or something else’s, do I need more specific plan?

    • @cheeny4
      @cheeny4 Před měsícem

      I can so relate I’m new the gym so coupled with nerves and feeling intimidated I have never really had a proper plan and I am so glad I came across this video

  • @zoebugsie
    @zoebugsie Před rokem +75

    don’t mind me

    • @zoebugsie
      @zoebugsie Před rokem +1

      personal additional…
      seventh exercise
      - hip thrusts with weights 3x12 then hold until failure.
      eighth exercise
      - cable kickbacks 3x12

    • @zoebugsie
      @zoebugsie Před rokem +1

      for extra!!
      ninth workout
      - 15 mins. on treadmill, lunges.

  • @patiencen8920
    @patiencen8920 Před rokem +145

    I don’t know whether to kiss you or kill you 😂 just finished the workout and although and I feel like death, I struggled but safe to say I found my leg day routine and I’ll keep pushing. Thank you so much for this and your vibe is so unmatched. Never stop being you sis 😘

    • @bongegumede
      @bongegumede  Před rokem +31

      😂😂 but when we see those gaaaaains? You’ll love me even more babe 😂 thank you so much for using the workout mama❤️

  • @Ani_Does_It_All
    @Ani_Does_It_All Před rokem +113

    Love the tips you give, the little motivational talks and the fact that you not only show us the workout but how to use the machines. This was very helpful and insightful 👏 👌.

  • @raquelpetus225
    @raquelpetus225 Před rokem +26

    Glute Workout
    Split Squat 13:56
    Goblet Squat 15:24
    DB split Squat
    Glute Bridge 20:14

  • @Itsmargaretta
    @Itsmargaretta Před rokem +17

    This is so helpful! Found you a few weeks ago and it was just meant to be. Starting a healthier lifestyle and really want to commit to working on myself and was looking for direction and your channel is so helpful.

  • @BeepBopyoureaHeepHop
    @BeepBopyoureaHeepHop Před rokem +10

    muscle to mind connection is something i really struggle with bc i workout to cope with whatever i’m going through from that week. plus my mind runs a mile a second so today i’m going to practice muscle to mind!

  • @tyrabriggs6677
    @tyrabriggs6677 Před 9 měsíci

    I’m so happy I found you! You have explained everything so easily to me and compared to other CZcams channels they didn’t explain it properly the way how it would easy for me to have a better understanding on tips and techniques in the gym and I appreciate you for that!!

  • @angeliinascarlett
    @angeliinascarlett Před rokem +3

    Thank you so so much for this video , I’ve been wanting to go to the gym for so long and just never knew where to start. This gave me an idea of where to begin!!!

  • @tiffanysquire3838
    @tiffanysquire3838 Před rokem +6

    Thank you for this video. I just started going to the gym and trying to tone my body but wasn’t too sure what type of exercises to do. This helped a lot. Had already been doing some of these exercises but will add in the other ones as well.

  • @lucillewiid5476
    @lucillewiid5476 Před 9 měsíci

    Bonge, love your channel girl!! Your comments is like so funny and spot-on and I can hear you in my head while working out! This is excellent, thank you and keep going ❤‍🔥

  • @maryjacob8873
    @maryjacob8873 Před 2 měsíci

    I thoroughly enjoyed this video for its depth, and the aesthetic, and the truth in everything. I have been on and off for a very long time, but I think I have settled on what I will be working on whether upper or lower body, its the discipline I have to find again, and a schedule that I can stick with. Your video has definitely motivated me. so thank you for the upload.

  • @cheya2338
    @cheya2338 Před rokem +17

    Since my legs started shaking every time I squat, I was only able to complete the workout till 13:49. I'll have to try again another day because it aches so severely. As a beginner, I'm still unsure of the type of exercise I should do or anything about my diet, but one thing I did know was that this would be a long and difficult journey given my unhealthy weight for my age. This was a rollercoaster of feelings, but I'm glad I tried since I know it's better for my health, and I definitely won't give up just yet because I want my dream body.

  • @rye1221
    @rye1221 Před rokem +1

    hey, thank you so much for this video! im so confident to start in the gym again

  • @lifewithlaniDUH
    @lifewithlaniDUH Před rokem +1

    Headed to the gym right now! Thank you for thissssss!

  • @unako.mjekula
    @unako.mjekula Před 6 měsíci +2

    I'm watching this a year later and I want to say THANK YOU!!!! 😩😩🙌🏽🙌🏽❤️❤️ I've been having anxiety with having my first day at gym, I've been trying to go for three days 😂 and after watching this I feel more confident, more sure of what I'll do when I get there. Thank you so much! ❤
    **edit/update**
    I finished the workout! that hamstring exercise at the end?! yho! 😭 it was great though, I felt great after the workout, THANK YOU!!! 🥺🥺❤️❤️

  • @ABIGAILAMANOR-
    @ABIGAILAMANOR- Před 7 měsíci

    Thank you sis I’ve never been to a gym before I see you showing me how to make without background people I’m so happy with your ideas and I’ll show the visit the gym to stick to my size I have a big upper body and my lower body is very smart thank you for sharing your idea I just saw your video today and I’m interested and I’m very happy to meet

  • @timothyespinoza5051
    @timothyespinoza5051 Před rokem +1

    When I can't cause time or something's come up 95% I will drop n do a few minute workout right where I stand! And again before bed! Before I miss a day I wasn't trying to miss lol
    I been at the hospital with my mom 48hours n already workout 3times here!
    Just because I'm not home or at gym don't mean I can't get it in anywhere anytime!
    A while back i would workout through work when things r going slow and a lil bit on lunch! Cause it's always on my mind!
    Loved this video ✨💋🤌🏾🔥😤👑👑👑

  • @rileykennedy4273
    @rileykennedy4273 Před rokem +39

    I want to start going to the gym so bad but I’m nervous about looking stupid not knowing how any equipment works so hopefully this helps!

    • @kyadillon175
      @kyadillon175 Před rokem +9

      Same I’ve gotten a gym membership but the anxiety keeps me trapped in my house

    • @aishadavina4426
      @aishadavina4426 Před 10 měsíci +1

      Just hire a trainer that works for me

    • @shanettabloomfield4721
      @shanettabloomfield4721 Před 2 měsíci

      My first day and am going by myself

    • @marie-louiseb
      @marie-louiseb Před 2 měsíci

      Just ask questions. There are some cool people there

  • @Lushaax
    @Lushaax Před 4 měsíci +2

    I walked out the gym trembling THANK YOUU 💐💐

  • @TwapunikwaNdikwetepo
    @TwapunikwaNdikwetepo Před rokem +12

    Bettering lives, one body at a time. WOW.

  • @liyemaka-siphiwo1266
    @liyemaka-siphiwo1266 Před rokem

    Thank you so much Bonge for this. Your tiktok and youtube videos really inspire me to keep pushing. ❤

  • @hrosikhrosik9306
    @hrosikhrosik9306 Před 11 měsíci

    This is the first video that really helped me!

  • @brittinihamilton8846
    @brittinihamilton8846 Před 8 měsíci

    So easy to follow and affective!! Thank you!

  • @delilahkidane7494
    @delilahkidane7494 Před 6 měsíci

    you the shit gurl!! I love your channel obvi, but let me say why, number 1 your personality is top tier easy to follow and you give gems every other sentence :) thank you for helping grow my muscles the correct way and empowering me through knowledge its quiet frankly the best gift to receive ever!

  • @tebogomabuela1753
    @tebogomabuela1753 Před 11 měsíci

    Thank you so much just started gym ❤this will help me

  • @HabibaCarter
    @HabibaCarter Před rokem +3

    Your videos are God sent thanks for sharing your knowledge /experience 🙏🏾

  • @SunsetsNIceream
    @SunsetsNIceream Před rokem +1

    Thank you for this . 🌸

  • @neish9520
    @neish9520 Před rokem +1

    Greetings!👋🏾Great video. While I don’t have issues w/ depression or anxiety, I do deal with laterally torn meniscus in both knees from military service. This makes jump jacks, squats, etc not a feasible option-at least not right now. I say “not right now” ‘cuz I’ve been intentional about ‘mending’ them and getting them stronger and more supportive, as best I can with independent research, a keen mindset and doing certain exercises AND dry skin brushing! I need to feel supported!😂 Anyway, I mention all that to say, please consider creating a video for those of us with knee or lower back issues, please. Thank you lovely.🥰

  • @marshmallowbby
    @marshmallowbby Před 8 měsíci

    I used to have so much fun with my old workout buddy. I met her at the gym and we always worked out together. I moved and we lost touch,
    I feel so anxious and alone in my new gym. This video helped me rebuild some of my courage 🫶

  • @nickimattews3469
    @nickimattews3469 Před rokem +2

    Love that your background music included migos❤️ R.I.P Takeoff💓🕊

  • @mslailamay
    @mslailamay Před rokem +1

    I kept refreshing CZcams every time waiting on you to post😭 yesssss!

  • @BeautyByV
    @BeautyByV Před 8 měsíci

    Ty for sharing your knowledge with us

  • @emiliieemi
    @emiliieemi Před 3 dny

    it was my first day today and it was great!!

  • @Victoria-Vixen
    @Victoria-Vixen Před rokem +8

    You had me whip around back to the gym because of this. Also those GAINS, sheesh 🔥🔥👏🏼

  • @alwandenawa948
    @alwandenawa948 Před rokem +16

    I'm so shocked that a girl like you would have gym anxiety. I would've assumed that this was your place. You have no idea how much you are helping girls like me. 💖

    • @bongegumede
      @bongegumede  Před rokem +6

      Oh babe, it be like that sometimes! And it’s super normal. We just have to throw ourselves in the deep end and get that work ❤️❤️

  • @littlemissbookfeen
    @littlemissbookfeen Před rokem

    MY NEW WORK OUT VID I LOVE YOUUU

  • @rayshellekeyes7974
    @rayshellekeyes7974 Před rokem

    I’m starting the gym really soon and I wanted to know is this a beginner friendly workout? Also I love how informative and inspirational it is❤️👏🏽

  • @ndabasibanda
    @ndabasibanda Před rokem

    Wow! Wonderful tips . Well-explained and well-executed. Keep it up!!

  • @NurseBabe98
    @NurseBabe98 Před rokem +6

    the way you’ve easy slid your way into my top fav youtubers/fitness influencers 🥳

  • @ZannieKakesz
    @ZannieKakesz Před rokem

    Your music choices are always 🔥🔥 & I love your videos. Glad I came across your channel

  • @abigailtendo8927
    @abigailtendo8927 Před rokem +4

    Excciitteeddd ! Been waiting all day 😊

    • @bongegumede
      @bongegumede  Před rokem +1

      Thank you for being patient 🫶🏾🫶🏾❤️

  • @layfitcoach
    @layfitcoach Před rokem +1

    loved it ! I subscribed to your channel. Thanks for your tips.

  • @FlourishGold-nb7qf
    @FlourishGold-nb7qf Před 3 měsíci

    I looooove your videos😣♥️

  • @lebogangpheto
    @lebogangpheto Před rokem +36

    I loved this Bonge. I am beginner at gym. I have been working out at home for years so this definitely helps. I am going to try this workout tomorrow morning at gym. Please keep the gym workouts coming even if it's 30 to 40min long. Love you 😘

  • @chriszeldabooysen9426

    Definitely a new subscriber ❤️😊

  • @andysilver9642
    @andysilver9642 Před rokem

    Gym gives me so much anxiety that i joined for months but went just twice😢😅
    Im trying to push myself, thanks for the video!

  • @Itsmargaretta
    @Itsmargaretta Před rokem

    Ooooo omgggoshh lol just got back from the gym and did this workout! LOVED IT!!!

  • @Deletedded
    @Deletedded Před rokem +8

    Literally excited asf when you post you’re helping me get a fatty!!!

    • @bongegumede
      @bongegumede  Před rokem +2

      We’re getting thiiiick by all means mama!! ❤️

    • @Deletedded
      @Deletedded Před rokem

      @@bongegumede ❤

  • @raghadassim6621
    @raghadassim6621 Před 11 měsíci

    Am crying ur so nice i love u and thank you for this cute and perfect video..ur sooo nice and pretty luv uuuuu

  • @chideraaejikeme2762
    @chideraaejikeme2762 Před rokem +1

    Thanks a lot for this video. I learnt a lot, please can you make a video for exercises to do when you are trying to lose weight and also gain muscle

  • @nondumisokhanyile600
    @nondumisokhanyile600 Před rokem +2

    Thank you Bonge ❤

  • @tshiamolekotoko
    @tshiamolekotoko Před rokem +3

    the coolest human being evaaa 😮‍💨🔥!

  • @pvlnan0000
    @pvlnan0000 Před rokem +3

    i love you u are the best this motivates me so much

  • @Coffee.and.antibiotics
    @Coffee.and.antibiotics Před rokem +7

    Sis I LOVE you and this channel. I would be pretty complete if we were workout buddies❤️

  • @jadanelson4355
    @jadanelson4355 Před rokem +3

    Hi I’m new to your channel! I was looking for workouts to help me at the gym and came across your page and these videos are so helpful! I just wanted to ask how heavy are your weights in this video?

  • @Ofentse.P
    @Ofentse.P Před 3 dny

    Thank you❤

  • @Finding_Kourtni
    @Finding_Kourtni Před rokem

    Fav! ❤️

  • @Jurnee2me
    @Jurnee2me Před rokem +1

    New subbie, I love your content 😊

  • @sarahortes434
    @sarahortes434 Před rokem +5

    i just started working out and i’ve been binge watching your channel lol, thank you for doing what you do ! 🤎

    • @bongegumede
      @bongegumede  Před rokem

      So proud of your for starting mama!!❤️

  • @tatyana6483
    @tatyana6483 Před rokem +1

    Where can I find your workout playlist? I LOVE IT!!

  • @Masneee
    @Masneee Před 8 měsíci

    Been watching your videos and I'm so happy to have found your channel 😊 thanks for sharing your knowledge with us Bonge❤

  • @timothyespinoza5051
    @timothyespinoza5051 Před rokem

    Woohoo HAMSTRINGS!!!😤🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥💋🤌🏾✨🌝😎😄😄😁😁😁

  • @gogginsmillicent6
    @gogginsmillicent6 Před rokem +1

    Thank you for these tips! What headphones do you have???

  • @thandiwendwandwe6542
    @thandiwendwandwe6542 Před rokem

    Thank you love

  • @kerrydennis104
    @kerrydennis104 Před rokem

    Wow! Just found you and I'm impressed! Do you have an upper body training session 💪🏼

  • @sethuurasana7661
    @sethuurasana7661 Před rokem

    Just recently came across your channel, subscribed within a second!! love your content,❤❤

  • @larissajohnson5307
    @larissajohnson5307 Před rokem +1

    I really like listening to music but now I will be needing assistance because it’s my first day at the gym. Imagine coming in as a boss, with headsets on and then every after some minutes your requesting for assistance 😂

  • @lekeshapoole3284
    @lekeshapoole3284 Před rokem

    Awwwww shit this music hitting hard..... I absolutely love these beats 🙏❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @theresachigaga9722
    @theresachigaga9722 Před rokem +19

    Loving the content, Bonge! Please, do a real time work out where we can follow along with you. Even just a 30 minute workout would be nice!!!

    • @bongegumede
      @bongegumede  Před rokem +4

      I’ll definitely do one soon 🤞🏾

  • @karimahmahdiyyah5231
    @karimahmahdiyyah5231 Před rokem

    Love your headphones, may you please drop the link? Thank you 🙏🏾

  • @spongefun
    @spongefun Před rokem

    Everybody is different. I’m 5 ft so with my short stubby legs and unhealthiness atm 4.0 is a regular jog while speed 5.0 is a run almost a sprint. I put it on 3.5 and incline a little and I’m forced to lightly jog already at that point so 4.0 or 5.0 is halfway sprinting for me.

  • @nomthadube8571
    @nomthadube8571 Před rokem

    Thank you, learning
    Question why do you increase your pace during your air squats

  • @paigequeenb8257
    @paigequeenb8257 Před rokem

    Here I was told that zoning out others in the gym was a bad idea because you can't hear how loud your slamming things. That is disturbs everyone's work out and was bad gym etiquette... I am new but that made sense to me.

  • @rain7266
    @rain7266 Před rokem

    3:15 warmup
    9:36 legs
    12:00 legs
    15:00 legs
    19:17 legs
    20:20 legs
    22:46 legs
    24:00 ?

  • @September7bride
    @September7bride Před rokem +3

    Sis, my whole workout goes left if I don't have my music. That gym is nice!!!

  • @christalyu635
    @christalyu635 Před rokem +1

    Thank you girl!! This is the video I needed!! I haven’t even watched it yet but I’m ready lol

  • @sanusimotunrayo8958
    @sanusimotunrayo8958 Před rokem

    That's a great workout.
    Do you repeat this whole workout 3 times a week?

  • @indiadavis5154
    @indiadavis5154 Před rokem +1

  • @rosalis2010
    @rosalis2010 Před rokem +1

    How do I create a workout plan/program for myself? I’m 5’1, 125 lbs. I’ve been working out in my living room but I’m ready to get those gains in the gym. 🍑 Obsessed with your channel!

  • @AndileMM608
    @AndileMM608 Před 2 měsíci

    I’ve been contemplating starting gym but I have an anxiety of giving up and not know where to start 😢😢😂

  • @niainspiredxo
    @niainspiredxo Před rokem

    Love the tips great video but what mix is that playing @19:37

  • @embiw4994
    @embiw4994 Před rokem +3

    how frequently are you supposed to up the intensity?? do you do more reps every few weeks or add heavier weights or both? Kind of Confued on that part. I love your vidoes by the way ❤

  • @littlemisswatchesyt
    @littlemisswatchesyt Před rokem +4

    i neeeded this, i was thinking of going to the gym tonight! .. even tho i’m eating chips and drinking coke LMAO

  • @anesumhike6785
    @anesumhike6785 Před 9 měsíci

    Hey. If you don’t mind me asking what size weights were you using for the goblet squats

  • @ads2q1
    @ads2q1 Před rokem

    Very nice.

  • @amandapatton404
    @amandapatton404 Před rokem +7

    do you have a spotify playlist you workout to? love the music you have playing over your vids if it's anything similar to that!

    • @bongegumede
      @bongegumede  Před rokem +4

      I will put it all together and share the playlist 💕

    • @amandapatton404
      @amandapatton404 Před rokem

      Thank youuuu❤ love your content, you’ve simplified an overwhelming /intimidating place so so grateful

  • @TrudyTalee
    @TrudyTalee Před 9 měsíci

    In interested in knowing why you didn’t stretch first then warm up ?

  • @tiffyb364
    @tiffyb364 Před rokem

    Watching this while at the gym with my husband he know WTF he’s doing and Im pretending like your my gym sis rn 😭😭😭

  • @loisieland
    @loisieland Před rokem

    Bonge the last time i used the hamstring curl machine i got muscle pull😭. Is that normal??

  • @MotiA.
    @MotiA. Před rokem +1

    Hi! Love your videos! Question- do you do serious cardio, like HIIT, Tabata, or just have cardio days in general? Might have missed the video, but I noticed a lot of your workouts were anaerobic/strength. Just curious. Thanks!

    • @bongegumede
      @bongegumede  Před rokem

      I do have a video on that on the channel ❤️

  • @albaimussa
    @albaimussa Před rokem +1

    My knees hurt while doing some of these exercises that deal with squat, do I have bad knees 😢

  • @gracier2718
    @gracier2718 Před rokem

    I love your accent!

  • @SisBettina
    @SisBettina Před rokem

    1:19 I don’t ever need water unless running, I don’t know why tho nd I barely sweat even when the workouts tough 😭

  • @Royalmango22276
    @Royalmango22276 Před 3 měsíci

    Will this workout work for the whole body including the abs?