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- čas přidán 7. 10. 2019
- There layers to this question but I believe they're are some common denominators.
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You don’t have to chase kings. You do have to chase dogs. Sir!!!!
That was so good right there.
Queens dont run after people. We wont let our crowns fall while falling and damaging ourselves 2 satan's tools. #stopit
OMG! That last line was a lightbulb moment in and of itself
🤯... Man that is a powerful line!!👏👏
How do you NOT allow the feelings to form? How do you actually guard your heart with all diligence and not vault it?
*"Carnal Men will leave you Confused. Kingdom Men will provide you with Clarity."* 🖐🎙💥 mic drop right there.
kay77764 hello somebody
Kay 77764 Major Mic Drop and Bullhorn shout oh and dont forget the billboard keychain and bumper sticker for this Great statement People Wake up.
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I felt that slappppp👁️👄👁️🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
@Kay77764..those were bars tho 😆🙌
Whew... Just because he's trying to marry you doesn't mean God sent him!
WHEW!!!
Exactly
Yassss... so true !!!👏🏽👏🏽
PREACH
rightt!! so deep!
That part!
1. He will provide you with a destination.
2. He gives you clarity.
3. He is consistent.
You're welcome.
Consistency is one of the #1 things that makes a Man attractive
Yesssssss!
Truth!!!!!!!
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Facts!!!Amen!
This man drags me EVERYYYYY time. 😭
A carnal man will leave you confuse and lead you to a king size bed but a kingdom man will give you clarity and get you closer to the KIng"
LetgoandletGod 😩🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾👏🏾
Amen my brother....... I need ma husband
Sis👏👏🥰
Amen to that!
The enemy is intelligent, the closer you are to God, the more of a prize your soul is to the devil!
Serious men know who they are, what they want, and how important YOU are in their life.
Serious men want to support you, develop you, and put the Queens crown on your brow.
Luke
Amen
Luke, I see you 👏🏿
Praise God for wisdom. Luke, your discernment is on point
You got that right
This comment alone is a whole message
“This ain’t Bae, this is bait” if that’s not a word idk what is 😂🙌🏾
Yes!!
Yes👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
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Ryt!!!! Yo this line hit my soul
The devil's work right there sis.
If he ain't serious, he ain't from the Lord.
"No message is a message!"
Carnal men will leave you confused but kingdom men will give you clearity. Yesss this is so true
Never chase man “ a man can promise u the whole world n yet leave u for other woman who he adores n love more than you” never give ur full heart to a man” never chase a man n never trust a man no matter how much love u got for him!!! remember man comes with fairly tale poems n sweet juice 🥤 I love you I wanna be with you n all that n later tells u he no more into you! Give ur heart to God but not to human cuz man can never promise u tomorrow!!
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“One day they love Jesus the next day who is Jesus” Lol
Wow, and you have Never lied. I have noticed that saved men do not act the same as saved women...nor do they tend to be as serious as women about their relationship with the Lord. They can sin, and jump up and run into the church like it's nothing. Smh. They, not all are actors...saved from the waist up.... This is so sad.
Very interesting
E. Adrianna Patterson you ain’t never lied!!!
@@keturah1980 Yep, smh. I'm going to need for a man meant to be with me to be sold-out to the Lord as I am sold-out. Meaning serious about the relationship.
Plantain chips 😂😂
“You have to chase dogs, not kings” somebody pass the collection plate!! God bless you and your channel it blessed me often!!
Amen!
I just subscribed lol
@@JasmineStaceyy I really like this channel
Sissss 👏👏👏
Idk = means your “leader” is a walking question mark...
... NOT TODAY SATAN!!!
😂😂😂
James 1:8 KJV
A double minded man is unstable in all his ways.
Ladies I use to think all men were the same, till I had a “real one” step up and show me differently. Pastor Jerry is so right, CONSISTENCY is the acid test. Anyone can do anything for a little while, but to consistently do something is character. And listen when I tell you, the interaction is just so easy and smooth. Literally whatever he ask, I am quick to say yes, because I know his actions follows his words.
Sky Dream You gotta be led by The Holy Spirit because with that comes wisdom & discernment. Seek The Creator first in all that you do and He will show you what you must look out for when it comes to meeting the right one.
Sky Dream consistency needs Time. The guy I am referring to has been consistent for at least a year. It’s hard to maintain that for a whole year. Also the general rule of thumb with Narcs is they can’t maintain the fakery for more then 5 months. Usually by the 5th month there mask are fallen or have completely come off, and you see the “real “ them.
KRM Has he given you any reason to doubt his character ever since you started seeing him - any red flags?
Yahuah Is My Everything so this is the thing, we are not dating. We are just friends. I had a really bad marriage to a narcissist. So I am Not hardly rushing to be anyone’s anything. Also tbh I had started to develop a hate towards men, and I literally never had a relationship with a godly man, and I mean friendship/ and or relationship. So just the way he treats me in friendship, shows me how he will be in a relationship. If you remain friends with someone they will definitely show you exactly how they operate in relationships. And trust me it’s truth. I have had pretty much just males as friends my whole life. Most of them were not great friends, and because I saw them in relationships it really carried to there relationships. They were horrible boyfriends. However this man has a vow to remain pure, he is still a virgin. He honors God with his life, and yes he is attractive. He in the beginning tested me in friendship, and to be honest, I think all men test girls to see if they are official. That was only like month number 1. I set him straight and that was it. Smooth sailing since then, and I don’t mean with anything inappropriate. Having that said there is no perfect person, so does he have things that irritate me Yes, but they aren’t germane. It’s little baby things. Also anytime there is something I don’t like, I call him out on it, and he literally changes from the moment I say what it is. It’s not like most men, you have to ask repeatedly to stop doing things.
KRM Ok, from you being his friend, getting to know him and spending time with him - has he ever expressed interest in you or are you the one that’s interested in him and you want to be in a relationship although you are not in a rush date, like you mentioned?
“It’s not hard to follow a man that is going somewhere. The difficulty becomes in following a man that doesn’t know where he’s going himself.” SPEAK THAT TRUTH!!!
“He will provide you with destination.”
“Consistency should be attracted to you.”
“Don’t be with a walking question mark.” Love that! It brings confusion.
amen to this!!!!
Real kings provide, protect and pursue their woman. Queens only have to be present to the worthy who meets those standards. Stay in your throne ladies. You are the prize. Best dusty repellant is high standards and being high maintenance.
I’ve been so distracted lately, and completely in the dark with my ex fiancé. He wasn’t a man of god, completely lacked consistency and didn’t have a vision for our destination. I had to end it. You and your wife’s videos have been a godsend to me. Exactly what I needed to hear and affirmed how I’ve been feeling I should be behaving. The enemy is one hell of a puppeteer that I’ve been on the strings of for so long. But no more. I’m with god and I trust he has my king waiting for me.
I am with you 🙏🏾
You don’t have to chase 👑 Kings but you do have to chase 🐶 Dogs!!!
I love this line..."You don't have to chase King's but you do have to chase dog's"..... #staywoke
Come on confirmation! My man is serious about me! 🙌🏽
Audrey and Jerian Congrats!
Amen
So beautiful!
Consistency builds trust, vision develops discipline,
Yes
Wow
Find me that kind of man for me! I has been with my boyfriend for 10 years and he still not ready! I decided to leave him.
I hope you left him because he is not going to be ready
Jamie Fit Yes! I did left him for 7 months now! I am tired of him being lied and excuses, cheated! Ty! I am good now where I at..
@@meerubyvue1148kudos for leaving him. I hope you find the love of your life
@@justfit71 Thank you... Yes, I will....
Bad move. Really bad move
The importance of a prayer life!😢😢👐🔥
Yess
Young man God is speaking through you ..everything you're saying is so true . When I was a young girl I wish I would have consulted God firs.t I would have saved myself from a lot of heartbreaks may God continue to use you to enlighten our young ladies
AMEN!!! 1. DESTINATION
2. CLARITY
3. CONSISTENCY
"NO MESSAGE IS A MESSAGE,
YOU DON'T HAVE TO CHASE KINGS
YOU DO HAVE TO CHASE DOGS!"
Matthew 6:33 " BUT SEEK YE FIRST
THE KINGDOM OF GOD, AND HIS
RIGHTEOUSNESS " 🙏💙😇
“Walking question mark” 😂😅😮😩
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I have been there once. I thank God I walked away.
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Absolutely! Spiritual discernment is crucial because relationships determine our destiny.
I pray I have decrement because I tend to fall for the fakery but now I’m am scared to even let someone in if I don’t like a certain thing about them. I still be cordial but know for a fact that it will not be nothing long term.
"You don't want to be with a walking question mark"
THIS!
That wowed me too!!
“You don’t have to chase kings but you do have to chase dogs though”😂😂😂
I love that he said that when you really want something you are consistent in seeking and getting it and this is how I want to be in my relationship with God Almighty. Amen.
Yes!!
Yes Jesus send me a consistent man !
“Don’t let feelings form without first seeing if God formed this” 😬😬 Well about that Pastor I been doing the opposite, glad I ease dropped on yours & Stacey’s conversation 🙈💃🏽
rightttt!!!!!
You dropped the 🎤 mic on that last statement !! Powerful!! Your Ministry is truly a blessing. . 🙏🏾 Thank you for sharing you Gift !! God Bless !!
Your ministry has made such an impact in my life! Thank you for your advice!
23 yrs of a gentleman that makes me feel like the only woman he sees ... yeah baby he's the one!
consistency clarity respect wisdom and knows and loves the Lord, a man who doesn't play games, awesome video thank you
When he doesn’t know where he’s going. ⚠️ That man is not ready to LEAD. And self control so important! Aman aman.
3:24 "The enemy is our preference, the enemy is everything we like, everything we want. We can even be compatible, but you could be compatible with a devil"
Wow 😳 exactly how I felt about my ex!
I've known this man(my man) for five years and it's been a year of us dating and the only thing about him is he has been consistent and a constant throughout my life like no one else. He's been through all ups and downs in my life. He takes care of me, pushes me to be strong and motivated. He made me a beautiful person inside out. He's my friend, my best friend, my boyfriend at the moment and I want this man to be my husband without a doubt in my mind. ❤ He's my definition of perfect.
You don’t have to chase kings, you do have to chase dogs though. Wow. Deep. Thanks for your honesty 💯
You Don't have to chase Kings but you do chase Dogs! FACTS
Thank you MAN OF GOD
BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY IN JESUS NAME AMEN 🙏🏽
It's not hard to follow a man who's going somewhere! Preach!
Some men need to get married for a living arrangement or meal 🥘 ticket 🎫. Stay woke ladies
Amen!!! I should be Bae.... Not! Bait. I Pray so I can’t be Preyed upon. I need to see consistency and your fruit. He must have a destination, clarity and consistency.... I don’t chase dogs..... Ladies he will find you. Be in position in the Lord. Make that relationship PRIORITY!!!! Come on now Ruth, Esther. Don’t be desperate for anything more than God!!! If seek his Kingdom first He promises to add the other desires according to..... his will. Thank you and your Lovely wife for the Ministry you have it is truly a blessing. This is real talk!!! God Bless. Be strong in the Lord my Sisters and brothers and the power of his Might. ❤️🙏🏽
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My bro💪🏾 “You don’t have to chase Kings, but you do have to chase dogs” Mannnn.....
“You don’t have to chase Kings”🔥 👊🏾🎤
Great quote, You don't have to chase Kings but you do chase dogs.🤔 Words to remember.
Wheeeeew just because he is trying doesnt mean he is sent from God! That was good!
Yasss.... “ NO MESSAGE IS A MESSAGE” ! Come on somebody... #Message
Yesssssss God🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 This right here.....”You don’t have to chase Kings, but you do have to chase dogs👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
"I don't know I don't know I don't know" yeah you know. It's just not me.
Yeeeesssss! You betta preeeeeach! Consistency, decisive, strong relationship with God, attractive, abstinent till marriage, hard working, who doesn't mind chasing me, wants to take me to the alter, is the type of man I want.
This was a whole word in less than 7 minutes. Very powerful.
I sent this video to a man that left & came back & he still didn’t have answers to all these points made in this video. Confusion is his middle name. Tonight I decided to walk & close his chapter.
Well, this pretty much answers my question about this guy I was wondering about. It's a NO.
Good, you're no longer ignoring the red flags.
Better Things girl same lol but we live to learn the truth hurts
Girl, once you start "wondering", it's usually a no.
BluDrop5 haha😂 fr ? 😭
@@ysmithriley Just now seeing this but yep - you're right!
"Don't let feelings form without first seeing if God formed this!" Yessss!!!! Seek God first!!!
“You don’t have to chase kings” 🔥🔥🔥
Ya'll be careful out there. Had a man pursue me to 'court' for 4 months...seemed and did all the right things- met family, knew the word etc etc- but then was like IM NOT READY- and tried to manage down my expectations- and became VERY worldly. Counterfeit. If someone rushes things run run run run run!
Exactly. It’s always okay to not know a certain path to take and to need guidance, but it needs to be acknowledged and, again, prayed about. When we don’t know, give it to God....don’t just let it be.
C'mon somebody!! #IfItAintKingdomIDontWantIt
Destination, clarity, consistency!👏 yes and don't have to chase kings! A true man of God will pursue you ladies! Amen
Wow, “you’re chasing him.. you chase dogs, not kings’- thank you sir 🙏🏾
PS: Yes, and Amen: "If it ain't Kingdom, I don't want it!!🙌🏾✝🙏🏾
He had a plan, then Jezebel popped up and he all of a sudden he became a idk, he was consistent and then 🤷♀️ so I’m exploring other options.
If he wasn't looking for Jezebel he wouldn't have gone after Jezebel n all her sisters(options). He had a plan coz you were that type of girl but he wasn't that type of guy. When push comes to shove the real him shows.
Diana Steven I agree I am a proverbs 31 woman turns out he was a counterfeit. He played the nice Christian guy role . But turns out he was really into drugs, alcohol, and prostitutes. He assumed I was too boring for him And I’m adventurous but, not demonic.
Well I found out yesterday that the guy I was dating was not for me and I am fine with that... I have grown so much that I refuse to be second in any aspect..
I am in the same situation but i dont have exactly the same mind set as u .....i have grown too but part of me doesn’t refuse to be second ...like i hate it but...its hard ... i wish it was as easy for me as it is for u ...but even tho its hard i still know my worth and i have people around me who do too and family who push me where i need to be ...so
The 7 signs a man might be right man really touched me and I will look out for these qualities in who ever I come across my way
"You don't have to chase kings, but you do have to chase dogs." Deep.....
HE EITHER SERIOUSLY LOVING OR HATING YOU. HE EITHER SERIOUSLY TREATING YOU WELL OR SERIOUSLY WRONGING YOU. EITHER WAY HE SERIOUS ABOUT, WHY OR NOT, AND WHEN HE DOES THOSE THINGS TO YOU.
This couple and their ministry has been such a huge blessing. “ You don’t have to chase kings, but you do have to chase dogs.” 💯
I chase no one !!!!Jesus is all I need Amen
"A man will always make time for what he values" - as a man that is trying to find himself and is really struggling. this stood out, I just really liked that. not just for a future woman, but with the things i need to do. I've been down and depressed because of a break up which i was being everything positive EXCEPT being too scared to give her some Jesus. It's been a harsh pill to swallow and the reality is like your sermon on "cuffing season" I changed and grew into a butterfly and she just stayed a moth. It just hurts that I wasn't the problem and in reality it was when I was getting closer to God that she wanted to get further away. "she's my type, she's compatible" 100% she was both of these things. I just wish she could've went into a butterfly too, but God has other plans for me. I'm just praying I find my purpose.
Jerry: “Imma set this one right here...” [🚶🏾♂️exit left]
This came for my life! And when it first came out, I didn't watch it. I wouldnt have been able to recieve the message as I was freshly broken up with a man whom I thought was the one for me. I was devastated but oh this message made it all to clear as he is trying to keep a connection but not intentionally showing interest, or a plan in terms of us. Woooo chillllllle, pray
Clarity is so important.
Ambiguousness is a NO go.
I love everything what you said👏👏 it's this modern style of living and many of us women think that modern woman should act like a man and pursue men🤦♀️ NO!!!
i wish there was a love button so i can love this video a thousand times👏🏾
I wish I would have seen this 5 years ago, chasing a dog who called himself a king. Bloop.
I got it now. 😁
There are so many dogs out here nowadays calling themselves Kings! Knowing nothing of the responsibilities.
This is awesome...”destination...clarity...consistency”! “You don’t have to chase kings but you do have to chase dogs”....Jesus!!! I love when brothers of Christ provide insight for us. Thank you for this post. 💃🏾🙏🏾💜
My days of allowing men to playing peak a boo with me are over...This was a bottomline message, if you still giving up the prize without marriage and the go ahead from God to allow the men to pursue you. You want to be played!!! You hear 👂 me!
Yeah, you're ASKING to be played.
Rebecca-Joy Henson exactly!
@@daughterofelohim1454 if he truly honoured you, trust me, he can be patient, he can wait. Women give up the prize SO easy and get into these toxic marriages and THEN complain they're with a man that does not love them.
That's damn right because why would he ?
You didnt evaluate him before you gave him your most prized possession - your body.
Once a man , ANY man, gets access to a womans body ( outside of covenant ), the relationship is shaky and does not have God's blessings. The man will stop pursuing you because he knows you're attached and he knows YOU ain't going nowhere. He will then take full control of you and " discipline " you to accommodate his needs. All because YOU acted like you had none.
Do it God's way. It is the only way if you want a chance at happiness.
Rebecca-Joy Henson Yep 👏🏾In a nutshell
Rebecca-Joy Henson So true
Soon as the notification hit!! I'm on it baby! Lol
Yasss
Me too
Me three lol
Me 4!!!
Yesssss lol!!! I dun ALREADY made a FB post about it! 😂😂😂
“Take me to the King 👑 “
This is fantastic however I've never ever found a man like this. I've been in the church good churches my entire life and it's hard for me to believe there is anyone out there like this.
Whoooooooo " Godsends and counterfeits come in the same season." I had to pause on that cuz I almost threw my phone 😓😓😓 My God!!!🙌🙌🙌
Man I wish I could have watched this video 12 years ago. This video was on POINT!
Lord!!!! You hit the nail on the head with this ONE ☝️
A man will always makes time for what he values.
Destination, consistency, and clarity.
The Godly man is looking for attributes. For wisdom in you, for growth in you.
Have a prayer life. Pray pray pray. Seek God and His Kingdom. Don’t let feelings form until He confirms it.
When a man tells you I don’t know, means he is very unclear. Don’t waste your heart on him.
Don’t ever chase a man. If you do, you are chasing a dog.
This video makes you say WOW.... This is clarity...
this was a tough message to listen to but I am glad I have heard it until the end... now I know he wasn't serious... God bless you and your ministry ...
You don't have to chase Kings.
But you chase dogs. Oh My Powerful words. Wow!! 🙌🙌🙌
I was preaching this to my mom and thank God I bumped into you bro. watching right now from Zambia Africa with a huge smile, waziba ka
Seeking the kingdom of God and all his righteous is all that matters to me nothing else is worth it than that.
I want me a king that's sent from God 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
It's when you said, he's always saying "I don't know." that I realised how I betrayed myself.
Tell that! If a brother ain't following God, no way can I follow him.... I am so burnt out on inconsistency! My Criteria has changed drastically! Thank you
Heavy on the consistency‼️I hate inconsistency😭. I know a lot of us young girls think inconsistency means try harder but it means let the ship sink and don’t try hard especially if he doesn’t put in a lot of effort because you will only get hurt more