I am an Indian But my family has always loved pakistani dramas because they had specific storylines, logical stories, less drama, bgm and more reality And if we go back a little to the times of drama humsafar, zindagi gulzaar hai and dur e sehwar they had such a raw feel. The actresses didn't even had much makeup on, just beautiful beautiful writing and outstanding performances. But now pakistani dramas have started becoming more like Indian tv serials. Please don't do this. We love pakistani dramas the way they used to be...
I follow Pakistani dramas very closely and really fell in love with Murtesim... Actually I didn't understand the last scene. Only after watching this video of yours I could sense that such a thing happened. Its very sad that such content is being aired....it can have negative repercussions on the youth who try to mimic their favourite characters. Looking forward to another story like Zindagi Gulzar Hai.......lots of love from Kolkata
With a heavy heart ,I M saying alvida to tere bin . From last 5 months there was not a single day that I did not watch Meerab murtasim. But I can not bear further trauma. I expected some moments of meerasim but what we found is beyond anything. Congratulations tere bin team for giving that much pain towards audience.
Thank you for being so honest about everything we've been feeling over the past week. And honestly I'm glad you used such strong words because this isn't to be taken lightly, so thank you for speaking up for all of us!
Perfect! Excellently described how hurt we are. Nooran is a TRP driven writer, the story should not be a slave to TRP. Sad that pakistani dramas are loosing their charm, logic and realistic attributes.
Terey bin already had billions of views why use cheap tactics to gain more TRP .What ever they are showing in promo is not gullible at all .we all are so traumatized
You completely described my feelings. Its so sad for the audience. They have ruined the drama. This will forever be known as the biggest heartbreak for the audience.😢
Life is not perfect and defected life hi iis anaz may dkihana ke log Pasand karain is art of writers and directors . Perfect 👍 happy life wala apni Pasand se khod ✍️ write and direct ker lo , ab tak Tu sirf paisa kamane ko jahelon ki terha tankidi contant per views lene ke liye vlogs bana rahi ho Jo ap ke iis se pehlay ke Kam per mitti dal de ga . You should better change your content .
Ma'am you earned my utmost respect! It just seems you snatched my words from my mouth. You are so brave. God bless you dear ❤️. Lots of love to you. You are the ideal for those other women, in this new generation who can voice for things going wrong around us. Kudos to you.🎉
You described my sadness about what happened perfectly! Stories hold so much power and especially when you give us a good man like they showed Murtasim to be and gave hope in a patriarchal society like Pakistan and then show him to commit something horrible like this, is so so so horrifying!
Hello Rabia! Whatever happened that was expected. Bcz when I had listened Murtasim dialogue about "Qayamat" as Nimrah's reader I expected that would be happened. But if writer really wanted to do so then she had to bring Murtasim's character according to this scene.
I am glad i am not the only one who felt this way after the drama. I seriously couldn't figure out why i was so upset after the show but you have just described it perfectly. Well done
I wish Nooran watch this review and understand that getting millions of views isn't enough. You have a responsibility too. You have to earn respect. You have to inspire young girls and boys by logical content
Yes. Exactly!! It felt like a personal loss which came came so suddenly that it left us in a state of shock. No creative team should be allowed to play with the sentiments of the viewers in this way. Why weren’t they checked before this episode was telecast?
After watching that specific scene, my whole body started shivering, and my blood pressure almost dropped. I don't know what the writer was thinking while writing it.
I actually couldn't sleep properly on Thursday night at all. Couldn't get the ending of the episode out of my head. Just completely in shock at the turn they have taken.
I m from India, i truly appreciate you, there is some positive vibes in u. Your views r matching mine about tere bin. I loved this story so much even though I noticed lot of silly flaws. But kept watching only for the fabulous performance by wahaj... Please tell him, how much he is been adored from a place far away from Pakistan..that's from Bangalore..
You are right Rabia, it has been 4 days since the 46th episode was telecast and since then I am engrossed in a kind of sadness which I am unable to explain. It is really not sinking in. The character of Murtasim had so much of respect in my heart, but after watching the promo of ep 47, it just got shattered. As far as I have watched Wahaj, he has always played roles in which he has respect for women. I have watched his interviews as well, he has always been a gentleman. Really wonder how he agreed to play such an act. Meerab too wants to become a lawyer. How has the writer portrayed the character of a lawyer. She did not investigate about Mariyam's lover, but she had complete faith on that rogue. And Murtasim, whom she knows so well and she has checked on his activities following him and have found him to be an epitome of goodness and decency, suddenly comes to the conclusion that he is characterless. On top of that, Murtasim has confessed Meerab about his passion and love and has said that he cannot lose his second love, who is Meerab, and won her confidence. Is this the way an aspiring lawyer would behave. Does she not know what sort of a person Haya is. Does she still not trust Murtasim. I watch Pakistani dramas for the VIRGIN ROMANCE they portray. I have watched many and still watch and I just love them for that. Here all of a sudden a respectable hero both in real and reel life has suddenly been portrayed as a 'SEXUAL PERPETRATOR' makes me feel so gloomy. Even in 'Dil Na Umeed to Nahi', where they could have shown such a scene, as it had a social message, where both Wahaj and Yumna were portrayed very decently. Why in this family drama, such an atrocity has been filmed, it is just ridiculous. How can a person of Murtasim's stature fall to the stature of Mallik Zubair, can't believe. Despite the many flaws, I watch this drama for the great chemistry that Wahaj and Yumna share. They could have refused for such an unwanted or rather unwarranted twist in the story. I was expecting that at least by now Meerab would realise her errors and apologise to Murtasim. Instead there was an unnecessary slap and spit on Murtasim which did not go well with me at all. I am so disappointed with the writer. Now, even if they try to bring back romance, I think it would never gel and would rather look awkward. Wahaj is my favourite and is such a brilliant actor, not able to digest him being painted like this by the writer. I am a dismayed and heartbroken fan from India. PS: Wahaj, please do not play such type of roles where your character is assassinated. You are a brilliant actor and wonderful human being and you do not deserve such a backlash.
Every word you said is so on point, as a Tere Bin Fan I resonated with every word you said. Since the start of the drama, I had ZERO expectations from the writer, but it's Yumna and Wahaj that I am highly disappointed with. By agreeing to do something like this they have regrettably disappointed their fans. The downfall of Murtasim's character has left fans so disappointed, heartbroken, and disheartened.
Rabia, your reaction after watching the episode and the promo is natural and completely understandable. Trust me, like you, many of us were shocked and disturbed by what we saw. When we are this invested in a story and a likeable character, and suddenly his image is tarnished in this manner, it really saddens us as viewers. They ruined TB for us!!!
Rabia, like you I was shocked and totlly shattered for the entire week and still feel very sad. Totally understandable of how you feel. Take care. I really feel so low to know such a lovely soft romance came to a brutal end. Everything has been ruined, the actors who worked hard and created such fabulous characters has all gone in vain just because of the huge error, which could have been stopped . I hope and pray we get a good drama which will spring us back Insha allah! Take care Rabia ❤
@@numanbutt1819 bahi sorry but aaj aap ko jawab dy rahin hun .....as a lady we all know the rights of husband over his woman in Islam .........as a lady we are not throughing tantrums over Murtasiam (a Muslim male) but plz see the story he already signed and gave his such rights away .......... No such hadis ,no such ayah,no such comendment in Islam show that what we had signed away suddenly we become owner of that "right" back....... We are not talking about man ....we are talking about "marital rape" that is being shown now in our dramas 1: it is not halaal 2:it's not permissible in Islam 3: if u r accepting a lady with signing those rights away ......u got no such right (it's simply is Islam) ,4: if u in ur mind is not giving ur rights away but signing that contract just to show how much a man u r ,what ego u got.......then u r abiding against the Islamic rules .......if u can't do what u are contracting then such Marriage contract (in Islam) is void and yes then a male had done a "Rape" n actually a "Marital Rape" which is also prohibited in Islam ......As a male u are allowed to divorce her ....or do as is said in Hadith.....but still No Marital Rape is allowed .......U r Just to leave her ....As is said in Islam.........,5 last but not the least(from society perspective) .......such dramas can create chaos in our society plus it can get mistrust among female for male ......phr shadi Kahan Sy kro gy bahi aap log jb hum apny males pr hy trust Nahi kr Sakin gy .........kahany ko toh aur bhi hy but I wrote it ..just to make u understand ....not to put tantrum on u or any other good male in society (Now see in this perspective how rubbish ur comment was......aur aap jaisy kissi bhi bandy ka aisa comment ho ga ) Sirf society ka 5-6% bandoon ki kissi negativity ko show krny ki liye 90% of population ko badnaam krty Hain aisy writers, directors n producers plus actors and actresses should have to b sensible enough to act .....
I totally agree with your sentiments Rabia ! I never expected this in a Pakistani serial, I am from india and I only watch pakistani serials , just because their stories are so real , logical and even if I find some very conservative dialogue , I don’t judge them knowing that they are at the same time also provoking the society to see that it’s time to change ourselves. But I really wanted to see meerab to fall in love with murtasam, realising that how good a human being he is. But as you said I can’t imagine her to fall in love with him . Even her action of slapping and spitting is unacceptable. No where it has been brought out how haya knew everything and kept it to herself. There are sooooo many flaws in the writing. No one corrected it . Very sad … 😒
Hey Rabia, Everything you have stated here resonates so deeply with my own feelings, I thank you for putting words to my thought process. A beautiful story was butchered just to create sensationalism. Rape is rape, even if the perpetrator is victim's husband. Tere Bin show creators have drastically undermined the mental health aspect of people who go through such horrendous events in their lives. The trauma is not just physical, it is also psychological and often an etiological factor contributing to mental disorders in victims. Trivializing the impact of rape is irresponsible and reckless. Lack of sensibility on this sensitive subject exhibited by a reputable organization like Geo TV only astounds me. If they really wanted to depict it in the show, they should have addressed it in a better manner. First and foremost, the perpetrator should not have been portrayed as the 'hero'. I signed up for this show solely because of Yumna and Wahaaj and hold them accountable for the distress they have caused me.
Thankyou for speaking our minds. And being so straight and clear. I was shivers and couldn't sleep for 2 days. Seriously in shock. But lots of love and respect for you.
I think you are right. We have never felt this way before. Manipulated cheated shocked.i don't know what the right word is. But some acknowledgement from the team that something went wrong might help a lot of people come out of the trauma we felt and soothe our broken hearts. You are absolutely right I was only watching the drama because of Wahaj and he has all the credit for making us fall in love with Murtasim and must share the blame for doing this role.
Thank god.. someone actually pointed out meerub's unreasonable actions.. her slap and split was completely wrong.. other journalist and reviewer on CZcams ( I won't name them) are literally defending her slap🥺
I don’t think they’re defending it, I watched the other two reviewing channels as well. And watched a new one as well, to see what they might think, and two out of the three were bashing meerub to no end. her spitting in my opinion was all in all wrong. Like that’s the lowest you could go. But then they had to add another low, lower than the lowest we could imagine. And thus that’s being talked about more, and justifiably so. Like she slapped you, just push her, or slap in return, and go your own separate ways. Like you’ve already presented trash, might as well add in a little bit more, and end it the way it should end now, to then make an example out of this drama, as to what should never be presented again.
@@leeme474 heyy! The one I'm talking about they literally said that "meerub should slapped murtasim and she did which was right.." they even said that people in comments are asking us to put frwd few words on meerub but we are defending it.. i was so much in shock!
@@Saadi_Gamer I think they weren’t that serious in the Saturday review, like I thought they would be. I didn’t remember her saying this particularly, but in the one that was uploaded today they did talk about how grave the whole situation is. In my opinion, the makers are in the wrong here, giving audiences spitting/slapping and rape, and being like, which is more worse, who do you think is more in the wrong. obviously (and rightfully so) people would go with the latter. Like that’s a whole act you’re performing, it’s not like you have no moment to think or stop yourself. that’s just disgusting on the makers’ part.
This is my first time commenting and I would like to Applaud you Rabia you covered all the phases that the Audience is going through. We are Intelligent viewers we expect to be treated logically and Intelligently. How can the makers Justify MR and portray it. What kind of impact it would have on our society where women are already oppressed and treated like second citizen. How much trauma it would bring to the victims who are going through it and are stuck with this bitter reality. What it says about the makers who had the responsibility to change the stereotypes of our society but they are corrupting it to a next level. What impact will it bring on our society if our dramas show that its alright for men to do anything just because of a poor excuse that the women raised their voice at them😢. Literally Broke my heart....The books you reviewed I have read them all and I am a fan of such strong writers. You were absolutely right when you said that when we talk about those characters they brought goosebumps because that's the power of strong writing. It a rollercoaster ride that makes you feel, cry, laugh. Iam extremely disappointed I cannot watch this illogical , inhumane series anymore. Iam afraid what else will come to our screens in future. Hoping for the Best🤞
Thank you for being honest saying whatever is going on everyone's mind. It’s not about murtasim a man in real life who has characteristics as murtasim like being patient with his loved ones at tough moments which was shown previously ,he cannot do that for a slap or split. He would just leave the place and be sad or heartbroken
Thank you so much rabia for being so honest and brave enought to speak about all this... We all felt the same shock and despair after watching the latest episodes.. we are intelligent audience and we can not see characters falling from grace ... Totally heartbroken.. 🥺🥺
O rabiaa!! I m in love with u i watched ur review for the first time how pure person u r jitniii tameeez or straight forwardness sy ap ny bola kisi ny naiiiì sab dil ki bateinnnn
👏 Rabia, well said. The turn of events were so illogical and ridiculous, and made my stomach churn. So much better to have shown a positive development, especially at episode 46! Am glad for the public outrage, hope production houses have noted it..... These days good storytelling is such a rare gem!
Rabia so so so proud of you!! You spoke from your heart! You were brave you were honest!! Great that you won’t review TB anymore as a matter of principle!! 👍🏽 And I am glad you specifically pointed out that Nooran Maqdoom is a new writer. It’s the content teams that sit in these big channels and production houses that need to shoulder the responsibility for this mess. You are a powerful voice in shaping the fabric of our society more power to you!!💕💕
i think murtasim kuch galat nahi karga meerab k sath jis tarah meerab na contract sign karwaya tha ab murtasim bhi cotract sign karwaye ga pehle jese murtism tarsa tha meerab k pyar k lye ab meerab tarsy gi murtasim k pyar k lye
I can feel your sadness, even i couldn't sleep after watching that.. and you are right no woman can recover from that trauma, and now if the writer keeps the fantasy of Murtasim's character as same as it was before, then there will be no more senseless thing than this. And now i actually feel bad for Wahaj... He struggled so hard for this success, and he deserved that love Murtasim was getting. But writer just spoiled everything!!
Yes Rabia, I literally cried for so long didn’t expect this from both Meerub and Murtasim. If there is really MR, then literally Murtasim is dead for many of the fans. We can’t even go back and see old Meerasim cute moments. Writer has really sick mind. How can she twist the character just like that.
Nobody should be spitting on any body's face. Even if you are so angry. She should be angry with Haya not towards her husband. Completely agree with you Rabia. Violence on any level is wrong whether towards husband or wife. This Drama was not a lesson learning drama. it was a light hearted romantic drama and it should have been like that.
This action by Meerub made no logical sense given all she knows about Haya’s past shenanigans, and also what Haya confessed to Meerub two episodes before which lead to Murtasim leaving Meerub at her mothers home,why did she think Murtasim invited Haya to his bedroom, he even begged her to trust him in such a gentle Murtasim manner? is Meerub just a low IQ female? She made no sense! If s should have been the true reconciliation story, as both missed each other and Meerub finally realising she loves him,and learns from Maa a Begum that Murtasim is lost without his Meerub! They should have used this scene to be together and also expose Haya’s antics so she finally pays for all she had done to drive a wedge between Murtasim and Meerub! I wonder if the silly writer and production house wanted to drag the drama ( due to its high ratings) by this twisted gut wrenching storyline which made us all utterly disgusted and personally I think this has backfired! The people cannot be taken for fools by an incompetent writer whose drama only got to this dizzy heights through the acting of all the cast, but particularly the two lead stellar performers Wahaj and Yumna! So she and the production house decided to make Meerub spit and slap Murtasim, to justify Murtasim becoming a rapist! sorry Im not buying this! They have destroyed our enjoyment and instead triggered millions of women, who are so afraid of Marital a rape and all of us do no find M rape anything to get a happy ending by the toxic male getting redemption!
I agree. I mean, what is the writer doing? Here we thought Meetab has finally started caring for her husband . How can you spit on the face of the man you love? No matter how angry they are, both their reactions are totally unjustified.
The spit was added so that people could justify the SA. Which is exactly what is happening. More people are concerned about the fact that meerab spit in his face vs her being raped by him.
A bunch of nobodies took us for a ride. I learnt my lesson- never give so much power to someone over me. I have decided to stop watching dramas. I have to take responsibility for my actions and how I spend my time and my mental well being. The dramas currently, are so degrading. It makes me sick. I don’t have control over the writers. They are free to do what they want. I can only control myself. And for me, logically, that means no more dramas
exactly..i was and am so much traumatized. People are saying why to give so much heart to projects.. it’s just a drama watch it in that lens but I can’t help but get attached with fictional character, one cannot tell viewers to watch it as just drama after giving us such expectations.
I was a non drama watcher - for the last 15 years. And this will certainly be my last. It has really irritated me - there was lots of potential and they just messed it up so bad. I cannot believe a team of so many people together let this happen. Not one person had the sense to call out this rubbish and say what are we doing here- these characters don’t make sense? The only character which made sense so far is Murtasim and trust me all the views came in because of that and only that. Now they’ll mess up that also next week it looks like🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
Same here! I’m disgusted in myself that I’m letting this affect my well being and happiness. I used to love the earlier episodes of this show. I am new married and I used to always think that I would never be like Meerab to my husband and after watching some unfairness in this show I would shower my husband with a lot of love (who btw is the greenest flag guy ever) but this episode and promo was traumatizing and I have decided to not watch any pal dramas ever again
sorry to say but thr r many good dramas out thr which ppl ignore bec they want masala and romance . thr r dramas like kuch ankhai and yunhi which have such pure writing and no toxicity but ppl just want cringe they hype something with so much absurdity and when they get wakeup call its disappointing.
Thank you Rabia. You voiced the viewers sentiments and emotions so perfectly. I found it so disturbing to watch some of the videos floating around where the writer says it was the demand of the script and if the audience does not understand it, then it is their problem. She stands by her script. If those videos are true, then the writer’s response is so condescending and irresponsible. Besides if the production house, producers, director and all the actors knew that the story is leading towards violence and rape, then it is even more disturbing. I loved Yumna and Wahaj so much. Now I am finding it difficult to respect them as artists and even as responsible human beings. Why did they not raise their voice or choose to get out of the show if the production house was not ready to amend the script. They all made money, name and fame out of this series, so being socially responsible comes default with it. Now if Tere Bin team is saying watch till the end, the end is going to be happy ending, then they are justifying and normalizing violent acts and horrendous crime as rape. Violence is not acceptable whether it is acted out by a man or a woman. Crime is a crime. No amount of reasoning can justify the violent and criminal act. if you can reason and justify one rape, then why do laws exist to punish such crimes? Doesn’t every person who commits a crime has some or the other reason behind it. So, does the reason justify the criminal act? Does being remorseful after the crime, make it alright to forgive the crime? This is so disturbing. I am not going to watch any more episodes of Tere Bin nor am I going to watch any shows from this production house or any of the actors. Whether in the drama rape took place or not, they showed violence and implied rape to create sensationalism and gain views. So not acceptable.
Exactly yumna and Wahaj have lost all the respect and love they had earned in years. Specially when you see the bts of these scenes where they are all smiling and chatting it hurts more
I would say this drama and murtasim character doesn’t deserve this marital rape thing at all. And even meerab character didn’t deserved such an insane reaction towards murtasim. Writer is just doing anything for climax and hype. And end also she can do anything. At 46th episode she changed characters as though they are some different people.
@@FarhaanBaig-pg1ou 1. Critic hasan and amna already assured tht in this drama there were so many slapping scene which was not dne by wahaj ali they removed those scene if they added those scenes then it would be justified tht murtasim character wasnot like as we see. He was a toxic character. But for removing those scenes all this mass created think if meerab got so many slapped it was logical tht she didnt have trust on murtasim and thts why she did all those thing and also never clearly said no to rohail 2. It will going to be a sad ending definitely bcz we also watched some clipps of the team celebrating lasy day of tere bin where haya and murtasim dressed up but yumna weared casual dress tht means sonething fishy would be going to happen and they will be lived separetely and its a sad ending story 3.ost cleared the story at last they will spending alone thts why its name is tere bin and maybe meerab will get marry to someone else it would be possible. 4. I think actors shouldnot sign to this project instead of doing this they deny to do some scene its a bad choice.. The drama was hit just because of the lead actor and actress if they wouldnt sign this project it would be a great trash
@@wannatopnotch they have removed slaps but it’s no where that they have removed slaps of murtasim on meerab or meerab on murtasim and also they haven’t changed the storyline. It’s evident and true that murtasim loves so much to meerab and even writer tells that he is non toxic and has anger since he is non toxic as per character they would have removed at some other scenes. Even Yumna had told in an interview that murtasim is the only positive character in this drama. So a non toxic Deep lover and a good man who cares and loves his wife would never do this. He is so humanitarian too. He will vent out his anger in some other way as she pushed him to extent and he is like what is he getting in return of all his love and care. it’s actually destroying murtasim character which was the only character making sense in this drama till now. Writers mind is such crap that good man would do it in anger or else it’s just done to create hype and climax. It’s so illogical and senseless that I still can’t believe it until I see the episode.
@@FarhaanBaig-pg1ou Actually a true and good writer always think about stories, logics, craft etc.On the other hand a greedy writer just think about trp and popularity and nooran makhdoom is one of them. To be honest she has the ability to create sensitization a story but she dont know how to write a well, logical and good story. Moreover, she should not have any intention to create something which give a good message in society. Bcz if she thought like this she would able to maintain the flow of each and every character, she wrote this drama about thinking how it got more and more trp even if the writing makes sense or not she dont care about it.She said its script demand what the hell "script never demand spitting on husband or forcing wife there are many story line which would justified the character but she just picked the bad one
I strongly agree with you, the only reason that I started watching Pakistani dramas was because of their realness, the connection with society and reality and the teachings that they conduct. But sadly, I observe this changing, not only Tere Bin but many others completely illogical, I see pakistani dramas are loosing their authenticity, which is sad and really bothers me
Honestly you can still find dramas that have the authenticity of a pak drama like kuch ankahi nowadays. Unfortunately those dramas don’t get views and ratings so every year less of them are made
I completely agree with you on every point Rabia. Well said 👏 👌 👍 I was mentally disturbed after watching episode 46 and teaser 47. Like many others even I stayed awake on Thursday night. I just couldn't sleep. Meerab's dreadful crying face was haunting me. I'll hold the writer accountable for this mess. This is simply UNACCEPTABLE. Why did they portray Murtasim in good limelight if end of the day they wanted to turn him into a RAPIST! I'M BEYOND DISGUSTED
I absolutely agree with you. I have been watching from India and hooked to it. What rubbish they showed? I legit couldn’t sleep that night, just like you and still enraged. Got anxiety too. True story. It now feels like a waste of time, emotions, and having a breach of faith in Pakistani dramas. Indian dramas are a shit show but this is downright ridiculous. A reason why British, American and Korean series are flourishing is because of their stories, the characters, the reasoning, etc. the list is endless.
@@asadmalick5176 jahilon islam seekho pehle. Nothing justifies rape. in islam the husband should divorce such a wife rather than forcing him on her. It's a sin and a crime. But your gandi tarbiyat won't let you accept this fact
I totally agree with you Rabia 😔😔 We as audience were attached with the story of Tere Bin. The writer has ruined everything, don't know who to blame. But the end point is we are deeply hurt with climax of this drama, it was not supposed to end like this 💔💔
Uff Rabia this is what I was waiting for.. your reaction so on point as always, and you just quoted my words and I think of so many that "I'm an intelligent viewer, and treat me like an intelligent viewer" PERIOD
I love your detailed analysis and description about this drama...I am 70 plus woman fond of reading , writing and watching good dramas you know in our time there were many ....So I started to watch this drama after every episode I gave margin to the writer thinking story will start after this....episodes are ending....what she did I can't forget and never forgive the writer for w wasting my time....
Yes Rabia, I was gripped by intense sadness.I did not expect that a well-educated urban girl would turn out to be a scumbag, nor did I expect that a decent and dignified man like Murtsam, who had forgiven Meerab's insolence hundred times, would suddenly commit an immoral act. It might happens somewhere but when you show all this to the new generation on their TV screens, you can't imagine the terrible effect it will have on their mindset. Then we complain why the immorality is increasing in our society? Unfortunately, we are becoming accustomed to suffering evil. Such content should be discouraged so that in future no writer, no director, production house or actor dares to be a part of any immoral story. Our society already had their quota of aggression please don't stuff it with more hatred and violence. Stop this
The way Rabia described her feelings in the start (of after watching the episode) literally was how I felt. I just had a silence and couldn’t comprehend what had just happened. The writing was really poor and the characters did things that were completely out of their normal personality. It just felt so unusual to see that side of Murtasim especially, from the man who would take a stand for his wife and tape up a ripped contract, to a man who is now going to SA his wife. Meerab has been straight and upfront from day one but we’ve never seen this side of her. We’ve never seen her be so ‘disrespectful’ and that too to a person who’s been there for her after everything that life has thrown at her. Even to haya, who always tries to rile her up, she’s always spoken to in a calm manner. The writer genuinely thinks we’re dumb - Maryam literally warned Meerab that Haya will do everything to ruin their relationship and everything that Haya’s done so far, still nothing to question her? Yes, Murtasim has been in compromising situations with Haya but Meerab should know that he loves her. He’s told her many times and even shown her: by standing up for her at several occasions and doing everything possible in his power. The main reason why many people enjoyed this show was due to the ML breaking stereotypes but now that’s the exact thing that’s putting people off. I feel like regardless of what happens in the next episode the damage is done! Even if they don’t show it or they show it - by insinuating that they’ve already caused a very big problem. If they show reconciliation after SA they’re showing the masses that that’s okay and if it happens you should try to move on with your husband (the perpetrator). It’s so illogical like you said, the trauma that someone with SA goes through why would they even want to see that person’s face again, let alone live with them? Bottom line is: I don’t know if I can continue watching the show, it’s way too toxic and illogical. The only reason I was watching it after episode 23 was due to Meerasim but now it’s just too much. I haven’t been able to think straight since Wednesday, it’s definitely really affected me.
Writing ka qatal hogya character ka bhi qatal ho gaya rabia bilkul aapka sad ,honest review sanjeeda viewers ki feelings ki awaz h aise hi dukh ko hamne isi trah feel kiya thanku dil ki bat aapke lafzon me dhal gai aapki qabiliyat ki mei dil se qayal hun from india
Personally I think they have tarnished Wahaj who was so invested in performing the Murtasim character, even to a level which I think enabled the rating to achieve such phenomenal high and was trending in many countries! I’m sad that both Yumna and Wahaj has been let down by the writer and content writer from the production house! They are reprehensible!
Thank you so much mam for saying this on behalf of all of us. We can't approve rape under any circumstances. Rape is a rape...doesn't matter if its happening in Pakistani drama or indian drama or somewhere else. Wrong is wrong. I know its a drama but still couldn't get out of this shock.
Rabia I absolutely understand the way you feel. This is exactly how I felt. Traumatized and betrayed as audience. This is soo soo sad. I wish our writers and producers understood the responsibility the have and the impact they have on the minds of youth.
Kudos to you 👏👏👏👏 please never stop being emotional or speaking about the cheap content that is shoved in our faces again & again. Utterly shocked at the writer!!!!
I was in shock too. My heart is wrenched. I have started believing this type of fantasy love and characters exist. Reality looks far more accurate I felt in this promo, what society is taught us.
Murtasim’s character is a lost opportunity. Reason he was so cherished by the audience was because even though he had a tough side that he showed to others, to his wife, he was soft and considerate of her wishes. His character could have helped drive home the fact consent is consent that a man with a patriarchal mindset can respect woman’s wishes.
Thank you so much, Rabia for always speaking against unjust presentations that consider the audience to be dim-wits who would accept everything offered to them and would be willing to absolve the characters of whatever illls they commit simply because of their earlier positive presentation. Tere bin definitely has been a thoroughly misogynistic play from the start and unfortunately, NM has shattered all hopes of the world still having some gentlemen who think using their heads. The promo of episode 47 has left all of us shaken to the core! I had to take a lexotanil to sleep because it was a nerve-wracking experience that left me feeling choked. Moreover, if the play proceeds as insinuated in the promo, Yumna and Wahaj should be considered as responsible for the degeneration of not just dramas but in turn, societal values because there are 2 billion people watching, absorbing, and then perhaps normalizng what they see, especially when their favourite actors don't comsider it inappropriate. Where is the "responsible capitalism" Wahaj keeps mentioning in all his interviews? Is it just a term used to impress or does he really believe in it? Hoping against hope that Tere bin will not go down the drain after all the love that it's received, but definitely praying for better content to appear on TV screens soon. Do keep up the good work 👏
The fact that it has been discussed almost after a week of the episode, shows that how much it has affected our mental health. I was numb for sometime after watching episode 46...I couldn’t process it. I was in state of shock. I know It's just a drama but I've never felt this way.
In the world of Tere Bin: If Murtasim has crossed his limits then Meerab is equally responsible for whatever happened. She has proved so many times that she is arrogant, impulsive, short tempered and what not but this time she has also crossed all her limits. Her thappar to Murtasim is still I can say OK, that was her reaction because that how she is. But spitting on someone’s face and not someone, the one who was with all her thicks and thins. Unfortunately that assault was the heat of the moment where both are equally responsible because both are equally egoistic. I have a strong feeling that there will not be happy ending which should not be. As title says TERE BIN and the lyrics of OST clearly showing its a the painful love story which is definitely not because we have only witnessed Murtasim’ love to Meerab not Meerab’ single act which can show us her love to Murtasim.
To be honest, 1st 3 days I was literally in depression after seeing that episode & the promo totally destroyed me from inside. But I had to accept that reality to move on, So I can feel you..💔
the way you described how you felt watching it, believe me we all felt exactly the same deafening silence all around, also the writer saying its just a drama, well that drama is being watched by 40 million people weekly. time to read the room and understand art also imitates life
I completely agree with you. I was devastated to see the couple displaying so much hatred at this stage of the drama. They should be reconciling now. How come they both accepted to play this part? Very disappointed. Very sad to see. Did not expect this at all. 😢
You are absolutely on the point Rabia. After a very long time, had started to watch a drama, and was super excited to see a solid matured kind and patient man(husband) in Murtasim. the writer just ruined his character. Meerab's actions were really stupid. there has been several instances in the drama where Murtasim has confessed that he has no feelings to Haya and Meerab knows it. yet she acted in a stupid way. the illogical twist was written to garner more TRPs & sensationalize the proceedings. In today's complicated world, where Genzs and millenials are losing faith in the institution of marriage, this added more fuel to it. I am really appalled at the writer who defended her screenplay. a golden opportunity to create a benchmark of the drama and build a lasting legacy is lost. The serial ends for me at 46.
I think you’re doing a great job reviewing this drama then the people in “ Kya drama hay” episode. You are pointing out the right details in a much more detailed manner as compared to the three people I saw today in “ Kya drama gay” episode. Thanks for sharing your opinion here. I am glad to see somebody sees what I am seeing. Thank you.
As someone who’s resonated with Meerab’s character since day one, as many women have - what’s been implied to have happened with Meerab is TRULY disturbing, because it feels as though as a viewer I’ve bared the burden of her pain alongside her. Trivializing a topic like marital r@pe in such a callus, irresponsible, and offensive way feels like an attack on the audience. Y’all are really questioning our intelligence in the most disrespectful way. I have no faith that what the viewership as a collective is thinking won’t happen, rather we are being gaslit into believing that the writer will provide a resolution!? But how do you come back from SA. Pls, spare us.
How can you justify the evil and ego driven act of your so called ideal meerub? How can you justify her cruelty that she slapped n even spat on murtasim without any legit fault of his.. as an audience even I can't get over that silly despicable act of hers.
I resonate with your thoughts. I loved Merub from Day 1 until the last episode. No matter what anyone said, I always saw strength in that character. But her reaction in the last episode was so illogical and crude. And then Murtasim's reaction to her aggression is just out of bounds. I'm now more disappointed by the choices of the actors in playing these roles.
@@jas0204 No one is justifying that. She said it clearly that we've idealised Merub coz of her pain and her show of strength. But we are shocked, troubled and disgusted at her illogical act and then the response that followed.
THANK YOU RABIA! I really appreciated your thoughts and feelings! I kept saying SAME. You beautifully articulated what I felt. Please keep speaking your truth! You have an amazing platform! Please keep at it!
Writer n TB team would not understand what have they done but they should know that they really hurt all of us very badly. Thanks Rabia and all viewers , your comments have given some comfort at least. 🙏
"Writing ka qatal ho gaya hai" is spot on. Love you rabia and thank you for being the voice of the audience
I am an Indian
But my family has always loved pakistani dramas because they had specific storylines, logical stories, less drama, bgm and more reality
And if we go back a little to the times of drama humsafar, zindagi gulzaar hai and dur e sehwar they had such a raw feel. The actresses didn't even had much makeup on, just beautiful beautiful writing and outstanding performances.
But now pakistani dramas have started becoming more like Indian tv serials. Please don't do this. We love pakistani dramas the way they used to be...
Same with me ..and same request ❤
Exactly
Pls see yunhi and kuch ankahee they are beautiful 😊
Traitor!! You speaking bad about India in Pakistan comment sections!!
I follow Pakistani dramas very closely and really fell in love with Murtesim... Actually I didn't understand the last scene. Only after watching this video of yours I could sense that such a thing happened. Its very sad that such content is being aired....it can have negative repercussions on the youth who try to mimic their favourite characters. Looking forward to another story like Zindagi Gulzar Hai.......lots of love from Kolkata
With a heavy heart ,I M saying alvida to tere bin .
From last 5 months there was not a single day that I did not watch Meerab murtasim.
But I can not bear further trauma. I expected some moments of meerasim but what we found is beyond anything.
Congratulations tere bin team for giving that much pain towards audience.
Thank you for being so honest about everything we've been feeling over the past week. And honestly I'm glad you used such strong words because this isn't to be taken lightly, so thank you for speaking up for all of us!
Perfect! Excellently described how hurt we are. Nooran is a TRP driven writer, the story should not be a slave to TRP. Sad that pakistani dramas are loosing their charm, logic and realistic attributes.
Terey bin already had billions of views why use cheap tactics to gain more TRP .What ever they are showing in promo is not gullible at all .we all are so traumatized
but tere bin was shot long back.
Mirab thapad nai marna tha
Fully agree
Very upsetting.. just threw me off😢
You can see the pain in her voice. She spoke for all of us 👏
Iam supporting you fullhearted
So true 😢😢
Ask her to write scripts. It's easy to criticize
Right
Bilkul sahi
Such an honest review Rabia. So proud to see someone speaking the heart out without any filters or sugar coating. True review with true feelings!
You completely described my feelings. Its so sad for the audience. They have ruined the drama. This will forever be known as the biggest heartbreak for the audience.😢
“The pen is mightier than the sword.” The writers of such popular dramas can use this power to change a highly patriarchal society!
But what if they themselves support patriarchy??😅
Mmm
Life is not perfect and defected life hi iis anaz may dkihana ke log Pasand karain is art of writers and directors . Perfect 👍 happy life wala apni Pasand se khod ✍️ write and direct ker lo , ab tak Tu sirf paisa kamane ko jahelon ki terha tankidi contant per views lene ke liye vlogs bana rahi ho Jo ap ke iis se pehlay ke Kam per mitti dal de ga . You should better change your content .
I can feel what you felt. I was numb and traumatized too when I watched the last scene!!! Still in denial
Ma'am you earned my utmost respect! It just seems you snatched my words from my mouth. You are so brave. God bless you dear ❤️. Lots of love to you. You are the ideal for those other women, in this new generation who can voice for things going wrong around us. Kudos to you.🎉
Thank you SO MUCH for this Rabia!!! You said EVERYTHING that I have been thinking! ❤
You described my sadness about what happened perfectly! Stories hold so much power and especially when you give us a good man like they showed Murtasim to be and gave hope in a patriarchal society like Pakistan and then show him to commit something horrible like this, is so so so horrifying!
Ditto what i felt ...
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Rabia your feelings and my feelings are the same about "Tere bin"😢
That's his wife! Why is it horrible??
Hello Rabia!
Whatever happened that was expected. Bcz when I had listened Murtasim dialogue about "Qayamat" as Nimrah's reader I expected that would be happened. But if writer really wanted to do so then she had to bring Murtasim's character according to this scene.
I am glad i am not the only one who felt this way after the drama. I seriously couldn't figure out why i was so upset after the show but you have just described it perfectly. Well done
I had the same reaction. I’m not the same since that episode. It has hurt me on a different level. My murtasim and meerub changed so much for me.
Yep I agree Aab e Hayat , Namal , Haalim ….
These are the characters!! And really we get goosebumps whenever we hear their mames !!
I wish Nooran watch this review and understand that getting millions of views isn't enough. You have a responsibility too. You have to earn respect. You have to inspire young girls and boys by logical content
She doesn’t care. Have you seen her interviews? She’s truly unhinged.
@@KS-nf6sb yes agreed
Nooran Makhdoom is too dumb to understand logic
Yes agree she feel so high five
@@KS-nf6sb exactly, and her views are extremely problematic
I have watched and read so many distrubing stories but NOTHING has ever traumatized me to the extent that TB has. The betrayal feels personal somehow.
You are not the only one
Same 😢
Oh totally 😢
💯 true…we felt it that night it was like real nd raw..someone had put a knife through us 😢killed our expectations
Yes. Exactly!! It felt like a personal loss which came came so suddenly that it left us in a state of shock. No creative team should be allowed to play with the sentiments of the viewers in this way. Why weren’t they checked before this episode was telecast?
After watching that specific scene, my whole body started shivering, and my blood pressure almost dropped. I don't know what the writer was thinking while writing it.
Thank you so much Rabia…..each and every word is on point. Thank you !
I actually couldn't sleep properly on Thursday night at all. Couldn't get the ending of the episode out of my head. Just completely in shock at the turn they have taken.
Finally somebody who really understood audience grief
Agree
I m from India, i truly appreciate you, there is some positive vibes in u. Your views r matching mine about tere bin. I loved this story so much even though I noticed lot of silly flaws. But kept watching only for the fabulous performance by wahaj... Please tell him, how much he is been adored from a place far away from Pakistan..that's from Bangalore..
This is what all of us wanted to say... You said all this on our behalf we are very thankful that you shared our feelings our thoughts too❤
You are right Rabia, it has been 4 days since the 46th episode was telecast and since then I am engrossed in a kind of sadness which I am unable to explain. It is really not sinking in. The character of Murtasim had so much of respect in my heart, but after watching the promo of ep 47, it just got shattered. As far as I have watched Wahaj, he has always played roles in which he has respect for women. I have watched his interviews as well, he has always been a gentleman. Really wonder how he agreed to play such an act. Meerab too wants to become a lawyer. How has the writer portrayed the character of a lawyer. She did not investigate about Mariyam's lover, but she had complete faith on that rogue. And Murtasim, whom she knows so well and she has checked on his activities following him and have found him to be an epitome of goodness and decency, suddenly comes to the conclusion that he is characterless. On top of that, Murtasim has confessed Meerab about his passion and love and has said that he cannot lose his second love, who is Meerab, and won her confidence. Is this the way an aspiring lawyer would behave. Does she not know what sort of a person Haya is. Does she still not trust Murtasim. I watch Pakistani dramas for the VIRGIN ROMANCE they portray. I have watched many and still watch and I just love them for that. Here all of a sudden a respectable hero both in real and reel life has suddenly been portrayed as a 'SEXUAL PERPETRATOR' makes me feel so gloomy. Even in 'Dil Na Umeed to Nahi', where they could have shown such a scene, as it had a social message, where both Wahaj and Yumna were portrayed very decently. Why in this family drama, such an atrocity has been filmed, it is just ridiculous. How can a person of Murtasim's stature fall to the stature of Mallik Zubair, can't believe.
Despite the many flaws, I watch this drama for the great chemistry that Wahaj and Yumna share. They could have refused for such an unwanted or rather unwarranted twist in the story. I was expecting that at least by now Meerab would realise her errors and apologise to Murtasim. Instead there was an unnecessary slap and spit on Murtasim which did not go well with me at all. I am so disappointed with the writer. Now, even if they try to bring back romance, I think it would never gel and would rather look awkward. Wahaj is my favourite and is such a brilliant actor, not able to digest him being painted like this by the writer.
I am a dismayed and heartbroken fan from India.
PS: Wahaj, please do not play such type of roles where your character is assassinated. You are a brilliant actor and wonderful human being and you do not deserve such a backlash.
Every word you said is so on point, as a Tere Bin Fan I resonated with every word you said. Since the start of the drama, I had ZERO expectations from the writer, but it's Yumna and Wahaj that I am highly disappointed with. By agreeing to do something like this they have regrettably disappointed their fans. The downfall of Murtasim's character has left fans so disappointed, heartbroken, and disheartened.
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Spot on! I just jumped on the TB bandwagon n binge watched my way to the current episodes and the last scene n upcoming promos really did kill it!
Rabia, your reaction after watching the episode and the promo is natural and completely understandable. Trust me, like you, many of us were shocked and disturbed by what we saw. When we are this invested in a story and a likeable character, and suddenly his image is tarnished in this manner, it really saddens us as viewers. They ruined TB for us!!!
You’re absolutely correct. I felt like crying after watching this episode. It was like a tight slap on the face that came totally unexpectedly.
You are absolutely right madam Rabia
Ja baji pehly uorat k Haqooq k Sath faraiz bhi prhh poch len ta k apki preshanin km ho saky.
Rabia, like you I was shocked and totlly shattered for the entire week and still feel very sad. Totally understandable of how you feel. Take care. I really feel so low to know such a lovely soft romance came to a brutal end. Everything has been ruined, the actors who worked hard and created such fabulous characters has all gone in vain just because of the huge error, which could have been stopped . I hope and pray we get a good drama which will spring us back Insha allah! Take care Rabia ❤
@@numanbutt1819 bahi sorry but aaj aap ko jawab dy rahin hun .....as a lady we all know the rights of husband over his woman in Islam .........as a lady we are not throughing tantrums over Murtasiam (a Muslim male) but plz see the story he already signed and gave his such rights away .......... No such hadis ,no such ayah,no such comendment in Islam show that what we had signed away suddenly we become owner of that "right" back....... We are not talking about man ....we are talking about "marital rape" that is being shown now in our dramas 1: it is not halaal 2:it's not permissible in Islam 3: if u r accepting a lady with signing those rights away ......u got no such right (it's simply is Islam) ,4: if u in ur mind is not giving ur rights away but signing that contract just to show how much a man u r ,what ego u got.......then u r abiding against the Islamic rules .......if u can't do what u are contracting then such Marriage contract (in Islam) is void and yes then a male had done a "Rape" n actually a "Marital Rape" which is also prohibited in Islam ......As a male u are allowed to divorce her ....or do as is said in Hadith.....but still No Marital Rape is allowed .......U r Just to leave her ....As is said in Islam.........,5 last but not the least(from society perspective) .......such dramas can create chaos in our society plus it can get mistrust among female for male ......phr shadi Kahan Sy kro gy bahi aap log jb hum apny males pr hy trust Nahi kr Sakin gy .........kahany ko toh aur bhi hy but I wrote it ..just to make u understand ....not to put tantrum on u or any other good male in society (Now see in this perspective how rubbish ur comment was......aur aap jaisy kissi bhi bandy ka aisa comment ho ga )
Sirf society ka 5-6% bandoon ki kissi negativity ko show krny ki liye 90% of population ko badnaam krty Hain aisy writers, directors n producers plus actors and actresses should have to b sensible enough to act .....
I totally agree with your sentiments Rabia ! I never expected this in a Pakistani serial, I am from india and I only watch pakistani serials , just because their stories are so real , logical and even if I find some very conservative dialogue , I don’t judge them knowing that they are at the same time also provoking the society to see that it’s time to change ourselves. But I really wanted to see meerab to fall in love with murtasam, realising that how good a human being he is. But as you said I can’t imagine her to fall in love with him . Even her action of slapping and spitting is unacceptable. No where it has been brought out how haya knew everything and kept it to herself. There are sooooo many flaws in the writing. No one corrected it .
Very sad … 😒
Agreed
Love from Pakistan
👍🏻👍🏻True
Hey Rabia, Everything you have stated here resonates so deeply with my own feelings, I thank you for putting words to my thought process. A beautiful story was butchered just to create sensationalism.
Rape is rape, even if the perpetrator is victim's husband. Tere Bin show creators have drastically undermined the mental health aspect of people who go through such horrendous events in their lives. The trauma is not just physical, it is also psychological and often an etiological factor contributing to mental disorders in victims. Trivializing the impact of rape is irresponsible and reckless. Lack of sensibility on this sensitive subject exhibited by a reputable organization like Geo TV only astounds me.
If they really wanted to depict it in the show, they should have addressed it in a better manner. First and foremost, the perpetrator should not have been portrayed as the 'hero'.
I signed up for this show solely because of Yumna and Wahaaj and hold them accountable for the distress they have caused me.
that was not rape. pls listen what meerab said before leaving the house
How beautiful and very well explained. Love each and every word been told here.
Thankyou for speaking our minds. And being so straight and clear. I was shivers and couldn't sleep for 2 days. Seriously in shock. But lots of love and respect for you.
True
Can't tolerate this track and i cant sleep still
True. I was in shock too
Same here can't get over it
I think you are right. We have never felt this way before. Manipulated cheated shocked.i don't know what the right word is. But some acknowledgement from the team that something went wrong might help a lot of people come out of the trauma we felt and soothe our broken hearts. You are absolutely right I was only watching the drama because of Wahaj and he has all the credit for making us fall in love with Murtasim and must share the blame for doing this role.
Thank god.. someone actually pointed out meerub's unreasonable actions.. her slap and split was completely wrong.. other journalist and reviewer on CZcams ( I won't name them) are literally defending her slap🥺
I don’t think they’re defending it, I watched the other two reviewing channels as well. And watched a new one as well, to see what they might think, and two out of the three were bashing meerub to no end.
her spitting in my opinion was all in all wrong. Like that’s the lowest you could go. But then they had to add another low, lower than the lowest we could imagine. And thus that’s being talked about more, and justifiably so. Like she slapped you, just push her, or slap in return, and go your own separate ways. Like you’ve already presented trash, might as well add in a little bit more, and end it the way it should end now, to then make an example out of this drama, as to what should never be presented again.
@@leeme474exactly ❤❤
@@leeme474 heyy! The one I'm talking about they literally said that "meerub should slapped murtasim and she did which was right.." they even said that people in comments are asking us to put frwd few words on meerub but we are defending it.. i was so much in shock!
@@hafsaashraf2233 that’s disturbing! I might have not come across that one then. is it the one with all the actor’s sitting as reviewers?
@@Saadi_Gamer I think they weren’t that serious in the Saturday review, like I thought they would be. I didn’t remember her saying this particularly, but in the one that was uploaded today they did talk about how grave the whole situation is. In my opinion, the makers are in the wrong here, giving audiences spitting/slapping and rape, and being like, which is more worse, who do you think is more in the wrong. obviously (and rightfully so) people would go with the latter. Like that’s a whole act you’re performing, it’s not like you have no moment to think or stop yourself. that’s just disgusting on the makers’ part.
thankyou rabia for making this video, i felt the same,
This is my first time commenting and I would like to Applaud you Rabia you covered all the phases that the Audience is going through. We are Intelligent viewers we expect to be treated logically and Intelligently. How can the makers Justify MR and portray it. What kind of impact it would have on our society where women are already oppressed and treated like second citizen. How much trauma it would bring to the victims who are going through it and are stuck with this bitter reality. What it says about the makers who had the responsibility to change the stereotypes of our society but they are corrupting it to a next level. What impact will it bring on our society if our dramas show that its alright for men to do anything just because of a poor excuse that the women raised their voice at them😢.
Literally Broke my heart....The books you reviewed I have read them all and I am a fan of such strong writers. You were absolutely right when you said that when we talk about those characters they brought goosebumps because that's the power of strong writing. It a rollercoaster ride that makes you feel, cry, laugh. Iam extremely disappointed I cannot watch this illogical , inhumane series anymore. Iam afraid what else will come to our screens in future.
Hoping for the Best🤞
You got it soooo right 100000000%. Your words reflect exactly what we all are feeling and thinking. Feel so sad Rabia. I’m still hopeful somehow 😢
I was traumatized after watching the episode,it just hurt us and even after 4 days of telecasting this episode,still i couldnt come out of it
Thank you for being honest saying whatever is going on everyone's mind. It’s not about murtasim a man in real life who has characteristics as murtasim like being patient with his loved ones at tough moments which was shown previously ,he cannot do that for a slap or split. He would just leave the place and be sad or heartbroken
Thank you Rabia for putting this so appropriately 👏
Well done ma'am you are the only speaker who logically highlight this issue
The writer has completely destroyed Murtasims character! 💔
Yes it is said that one should not test man's patience
Thank you so much rabia for being so honest and brave enought to speak about all this... We all felt the same shock and despair after watching the latest episodes.. we are intelligent audience and we can not see characters falling from grace ... Totally heartbroken.. 🥺🥺
O rabiaa!! I m in love with u i watched ur review for the first time how pure person u r jitniii tameeez or straight forwardness sy ap ny bola kisi ny naiiiì sab dil ki bateinnnn
You literally described how we’re feeling and you have done in a most respectful way. Thank you!!
👏 Rabia, well said. The turn of events were so illogical and ridiculous, and made my stomach churn. So much better to have shown a positive development, especially at episode 46! Am glad for the public outrage, hope production houses have noted it..... These days good storytelling is such a rare gem!
Bat to jab h jab ap ap ab serial na Dekho
Seriously mam...ur every word is valueable for women power ❤️ love from india
So proud of you for speaking up from the audience.
Rabia so so so proud of you!! You spoke from your heart! You were brave you were honest!! Great that you won’t review TB anymore as a matter of principle!! 👍🏽 And I am glad you specifically pointed out that Nooran Maqdoom is a new writer. It’s the content teams that sit in these big channels and production houses that need to shoulder the responsibility for this mess. You are a powerful voice in shaping the fabric of our society more power to you!!💕💕
Exactly
Rabia.. i really appreciate how you describe my feelings. I also feel sad what really they had shown
i think murtasim kuch galat nahi karga meerab k sath jis tarah meerab na contract sign karwaya tha ab murtasim bhi cotract sign karwaye ga pehle jese murtism tarsa tha meerab k pyar k lye ab meerab tarsy gi murtasim k pyar k lye
I can feel your sadness, even i couldn't sleep after watching that.. and you are right no woman can recover from that trauma, and now if the writer keeps the fantasy of Murtasim's character as same as it was before, then there will be no more senseless thing than this.
And now i actually feel bad for Wahaj... He struggled so hard for this success, and he deserved that love Murtasim was getting. But writer just spoiled everything!!
Absolutely.... She is saying my words exactly 🥺I felt this🥺
you spoke my heart ❤️ thank you
Yes Rabia, I literally cried for so long didn’t expect this from both Meerub and Murtasim. If there is really MR, then literally Murtasim is dead for many of the fans. We can’t even go back and see old Meerasim cute moments. Writer has really sick mind. How can she twist the character just like that.
You are so right I can't go back n watching their cute little fights any more
Nobody should be spitting on any body's face. Even if you are so angry. She should be angry with Haya not towards her husband. Completely agree with you Rabia. Violence on any level is wrong whether towards husband or wife. This Drama was not a lesson learning drama. it was a light hearted romantic drama and it should have been like that.
thank god you took it right
This action by Meerub made no logical sense given all she knows about Haya’s past shenanigans, and also what Haya confessed to Meerub two episodes before which lead to Murtasim leaving Meerub at her mothers home,why did she think Murtasim invited Haya to his bedroom, he even begged her to trust him in such a gentle Murtasim manner? is Meerub just a low IQ female? She made no sense! If s should have been the true reconciliation story, as both missed each other and Meerub finally realising she loves him,and learns from Maa a Begum that Murtasim is lost without his Meerub! They should have used this scene to be together and also expose Haya’s antics so she finally pays for all she had done to drive a wedge between Murtasim and Meerub! I wonder if the silly writer and production house wanted to drag the drama ( due to its high ratings) by this twisted gut wrenching storyline which made us all utterly disgusted and personally I think this has backfired! The people cannot be taken for fools by an incompetent writer whose drama only got to this dizzy heights through the acting of all the cast, but particularly the two lead stellar performers Wahaj and Yumna! So she and the production house decided to make Meerub spit and slap Murtasim, to justify Murtasim becoming a rapist! sorry Im not buying this! They have destroyed our enjoyment and instead triggered millions of women, who are so afraid of Marital a rape and all of us do no find M rape anything to get a happy ending by the toxic male getting redemption!
You are right .The writer doesn’t make any sense
I agree. I mean, what is the writer doing? Here we thought Meetab has finally started caring for her husband . How can you spit on the face of the man you love? No matter how angry they are, both their reactions are totally unjustified.
The spit was added so that people could justify the SA. Which is exactly what is happening. More people are concerned about the fact that meerab spit in his face vs her being raped by him.
You are absolutely right
Well said . Everyone can resonate with your feelings I Believe. Its good to have someone speak out loud against such odd stuff.
A bunch of nobodies took us for a ride. I learnt my lesson- never give so much power to someone over me. I have decided to stop watching dramas. I have to take responsibility for my actions and how I spend my time and my mental well being. The dramas currently, are so degrading. It makes me sick. I don’t have control over the writers. They are free to do what they want. I can only control myself. And for me, logically, that means no more dramas
exactly..i was and am so much traumatized. People are saying why to give so much heart to projects.. it’s just a drama watch it in that lens but I can’t help but get attached with fictional character, one cannot tell viewers to watch it as just drama after giving us such expectations.
Same here....I myself is responsible for this trauma....
I choose this pain myself
I was a non drama watcher - for the last 15 years. And this will certainly be my last. It has really irritated me - there was lots of potential and they just messed it up so bad. I cannot believe a team of so many people together let this happen. Not one person had the sense to call out this rubbish and say what are we doing here- these characters don’t make sense? The only character which made sense so far is Murtasim and trust me all the views came in because of that and only that. Now they’ll mess up that also next week it looks like🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
Same here! I’m disgusted in myself that I’m letting this affect my well being and happiness. I used to love the earlier episodes of this show. I am new married and I used to always think that I would never be like Meerab to my husband and after watching some unfairness in this show I would shower my husband with a lot of love (who btw is the greenest flag guy ever) but this episode and promo was traumatizing and I have decided to not watch any pal dramas ever again
sorry to say but thr r many good dramas out thr which ppl ignore bec they want masala and romance . thr r dramas like kuch ankhai and yunhi which have such pure writing and no toxicity but ppl just want cringe they hype something with so much absurdity and when they get wakeup call its disappointing.
Thank you Rabia. You voiced the viewers sentiments and emotions so perfectly. I found it so disturbing to watch some of the videos floating around where the writer says it was the demand of the script and if the audience does not understand it, then it is their problem. She stands by her script. If those videos are true, then the writer’s response is so condescending and irresponsible.
Besides if the production house, producers, director and all the actors knew that the story is leading towards violence and rape, then it is even more disturbing. I loved Yumna and Wahaj so much. Now I am finding it difficult to respect them as artists and even as responsible human beings. Why did they not raise their voice or choose to get out of the show if the production house was not ready to amend the script. They all made money, name and fame out of this series, so being socially responsible comes default with it.
Now if Tere Bin team is saying watch till the end, the end is going to be happy ending, then they are justifying and normalizing violent acts and horrendous crime as rape. Violence is not acceptable whether it is acted out by a man or a woman. Crime is a crime. No amount of reasoning can justify the violent and criminal act. if you can reason and justify one rape, then why do laws exist to punish such crimes? Doesn’t every person who commits a crime has some or the other reason behind it. So, does the reason justify the criminal act? Does being remorseful after the crime, make it alright to forgive the crime?
This is so disturbing. I am not going to watch any more episodes of Tere Bin nor am I going to watch any shows from this production house or any of the actors.
Whether in the drama rape took place or not, they showed violence and implied rape to create sensationalism and gain views. So not acceptable.
Exactly yumna and Wahaj have lost all the respect and love they had earned in years. Specially when you see the bts of these scenes where they are all smiling and chatting it hurts more
Yes the actors should have refused to 5hid illogical twist n stupid turn.
My favorite drama tere bin 🥰
you are voice of audience👏I respect you🇮🇳🙌
You really have translated our emotions..
The writer must hear to this to be a sensible woman
Writer and sensible woman in the same sentence are u kidding me
This drama doesn’t deserve happy ending now ….
Please don’t make viewers fool.
I would say this drama and murtasim character doesn’t deserve this marital rape thing at all. And even meerab character didn’t deserved such an insane reaction towards murtasim. Writer is just doing anything for climax and hype. And end also she can do anything. At 46th episode she changed characters as though they are some different people.
@@FarhaanBaig-pg1ou well said 👏
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1. Critic hasan and amna already assured tht in this drama there were so many slapping scene which was not dne by wahaj ali they removed those scene if they added those scenes then it would be justified tht murtasim character wasnot like as we see. He was a toxic character. But for removing those scenes all this mass created think if meerab got so many slapped it was logical tht she didnt have trust on murtasim and thts why she did all those thing and also never clearly said no to rohail
2. It will going to be a sad ending definitely bcz we also watched some clipps of the team celebrating lasy day of tere bin where haya and murtasim dressed up but yumna weared casual dress tht means sonething fishy would be going to happen and they will be lived separetely and its a sad ending story
3.ost cleared the story at last they will spending alone thts why its name is tere bin and maybe meerab will get marry to someone else it would be possible.
4. I think actors shouldnot sign to this project instead of doing this they deny to do some scene its a bad choice.. The drama was hit just because of the lead actor and actress if they wouldnt sign this project it would be a great trash
@@wannatopnotch they have removed slaps but it’s no where that they have removed slaps of murtasim on meerab or meerab on murtasim and also they haven’t changed the storyline. It’s evident and true that murtasim loves so much to meerab and even writer tells that he is non toxic and has anger since he is non toxic as per character they would have removed at some other scenes. Even Yumna had told in an interview that murtasim is the only positive character in this drama. So a non toxic Deep lover and a good man who cares and loves his wife would never do this. He is so humanitarian too. He will vent out his anger in some other way as she pushed him to extent and he is like what is he getting in return of all his love and care. it’s actually destroying murtasim character which was the only character making sense in this drama till now. Writers mind is such crap that good man would do it in anger or else it’s just done to create hype and climax. It’s so illogical and senseless that I still can’t believe it until I see the episode.
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Actually a true and good writer always think about stories, logics, craft etc.On the other hand a greedy writer just think about trp and popularity and nooran makhdoom is one of them. To be honest she has the ability to create sensitization a story but she dont know how to write a well, logical and good story. Moreover, she should not have any intention to create something which give a good message in society. Bcz if she thought like this she would able to maintain the flow of each and every character, she wrote this drama about thinking how it got more and more trp even if the writing makes sense or not she dont care about it.She said its script demand what the hell "script never demand spitting on husband or forcing wife there are many story line which would justified the character but she just picked the bad one
Thx, Rabia I'm glad you have the balls to say that u will not watch it anymore unlike other platforms. 👏👏👏👏👏
Seriously it's really my own review. Its really really viewer's voice. Hats off to Rabia 👌👌👌
Superb review! Kamaal👌
I strongly agree with you, the only reason that I started watching Pakistani dramas was because of their realness, the connection with society and reality and the teachings that they conduct. But sadly, I observe this changing, not only Tere Bin but many others completely illogical, I see pakistani dramas are loosing their authenticity, which is sad and really bothers me
Honestly you can still find dramas that have the authenticity of a pak drama like kuch ankahi nowadays. Unfortunately those dramas don’t get views and ratings so every year less of them are made
I completely agree with you on every point Rabia. Well said 👏 👌 👍
I was mentally disturbed after watching episode 46 and teaser 47. Like many others even I stayed awake on Thursday night. I just couldn't sleep. Meerab's dreadful crying face was haunting me.
I'll hold the writer accountable for this mess. This is simply UNACCEPTABLE.
Why did they portray Murtasim in good limelight if end of the day they wanted to turn him into a RAPIST!
I'M BEYOND DISGUSTED
I absolutely agree with you. I have been watching from India and hooked to it. What rubbish they showed? I legit couldn’t sleep that night, just like you and still enraged. Got anxiety too. True story. It now feels like a waste of time, emotions, and having a breach of faith in Pakistani dramas. Indian dramas are a shit show but this is downright ridiculous. A reason why British, American and Korean series are flourishing is because of their stories, the characters, the reasoning, etc. the list is endless.
He was her husband. It was his right.. There is nothing like marital rape in islam. So get your knowledge checked please.. Refusing husband is a SIN..
exactly meerab's condition is still haunting me till now😭she was in trauma
U just read my mind
@@asadmalick5176 jahilon islam seekho pehle. Nothing justifies rape. in islam the husband should divorce such a wife rather than forcing him on her. It's a sin and a crime. But your gandi tarbiyat won't let you accept this fact
you are absolutely right. We are speechless.
We also need such voices like you rabia to speak about such stories ....well said rabia you took my words ❤
I totally agree with you Rabia 😔😔
We as audience were attached with the story of Tere Bin.
The writer has ruined everything, don't know who to blame. But the end point is we are deeply hurt with climax of this drama, it was not supposed to end like this 💔💔
Uff Rabia this is what I was waiting for.. your reaction so on point as always, and you just quoted my words and I think of so many that "I'm an intelligent viewer, and treat me like an intelligent viewer" PERIOD
Absolutely right 💯💯💯 Rabia 👏👏 ek ek word apka jaise aap nai hamare Dil ki BAAT bol de
I love your detailed analysis and description about this drama...I am 70 plus woman fond of reading , writing and watching good dramas you know in our time there were many ....So I started to watch this drama after every episode I gave margin to the writer thinking story will start after this....episodes are ending....what she did I can't forget and never forgive the writer for w wasting my time....
Yes Rabia, I was gripped by intense sadness.I did not expect that a well-educated urban girl would turn out to be a scumbag, nor did I expect that a decent and dignified man like Murtsam, who had forgiven Meerab's insolence hundred times, would suddenly commit an immoral act.
It might happens somewhere but when you show all this to the new generation on their TV screens, you can't imagine the terrible effect it will have on their mindset. Then we complain why the immorality is increasing in our society? Unfortunately, we are becoming accustomed to suffering evil.
Such content should be discouraged so that in future no writer, no director, production house or actor dares to be a part of any immoral story.
Our society already had their quota of aggression please don't stuff it with more hatred and violence. Stop this
The way Rabia described her feelings in the start (of after watching the episode) literally was how I felt. I just had a silence and couldn’t comprehend what had just happened. The writing was really poor and the characters did things that were completely out of their normal personality. It just felt so unusual to see that side of Murtasim especially, from the man who would take a stand for his wife and tape up a ripped contract, to a man who is now going to SA his wife. Meerab has been straight and upfront from day one but we’ve never seen this side of her. We’ve never seen her be so ‘disrespectful’ and that too to a person who’s been there for her after everything that life has thrown at her. Even to haya, who always tries to rile her up, she’s always spoken to in a calm manner.
The writer genuinely thinks we’re dumb - Maryam literally warned Meerab that Haya will do everything to ruin their relationship and everything that Haya’s done so far, still nothing to question her?
Yes, Murtasim has been in compromising situations with Haya but Meerab should know that he loves her. He’s told her many times and even shown her: by standing up for her at several occasions and doing everything possible in his power.
The main reason why many people enjoyed this show was due to the ML breaking stereotypes but now that’s the exact thing that’s putting people off.
I feel like regardless of what happens in the next episode the damage is done! Even if they don’t show it or they show it - by insinuating that they’ve already caused a very big problem. If they show reconciliation after SA they’re showing the masses that that’s okay and if it happens you should try to move on with your husband (the perpetrator). It’s so illogical like you said, the trauma that someone with SA goes through why would they even want to see that person’s face again, let alone live with them?
Bottom line is: I don’t know if I can continue watching the show, it’s way too toxic and illogical. The only reason I was watching it after episode 23 was due to Meerasim but now it’s just too much. I haven’t been able to think straight since Wednesday, it’s definitely really affected me.
U r absolutely right 👍
Writing ka qatal hogya character ka bhi qatal ho gaya rabia bilkul aapka sad ,honest review sanjeeda viewers ki feelings ki awaz h aise hi dukh ko hamne isi trah feel kiya thanku dil ki bat aapke lafzon me dhal gai aapki qabiliyat ki mei dil se qayal hun from india
This was totally unexpected. 😑 Murtasim's whole character has been ruined. His purest, respected love has completely ended.💔
Totally agree with you!
Personally I think they have tarnished Wahaj who was so invested in performing the Murtasim character, even to a level which I think enabled the rating to achieve such phenomenal high and was trending in many countries! I’m sad that both Yumna and Wahaj has been let down by the writer and content writer from the production house! They are reprehensible!
I agree. And so so disappointed because I had come to love his character.
Just one last hope, murtasim didn't do anything , maybe he backed off .
@@perejisolomon2556 that would be dream come true for me as I am still in denial.
Thank you so much mam for saying this on behalf of all of us. We can't approve rape under any circumstances. Rape is a rape...doesn't matter if its happening in Pakistani drama or indian drama or somewhere else. Wrong is wrong. I know its a drama but still couldn't get out of this shock.
Omg ...how perfectly you discribed whole thing...itna achcha bolin aap😊
I can really feel your pain, Rabia. I'm feeling that, too.🥺 Such a disappointment 😞
Rabia I absolutely understand the way you feel. This is exactly how I felt. Traumatized and betrayed as audience. This is soo soo sad. I wish our writers and producers understood the responsibility the have and the impact they have on the minds of youth.
Kudos to you 👏👏👏👏 please never stop being emotional or speaking about the cheap content that is shoved in our faces again & again. Utterly shocked at the writer!!!!
I have seen many reviews but she speaks from broken 💔 heart beautifully explain
I was in shock too. My heart is wrenched. I have started believing this type of fantasy love and characters exist. Reality looks far more accurate I felt in this promo, what society is taught us.
Murtasim’s character is a lost opportunity. Reason he was so cherished by the audience was because even though he had a tough side that he showed to others, to his wife, he was soft and considerate of her wishes.
His character could have helped drive home the fact consent is consent that a man with a patriarchal mindset can respect woman’s wishes.
Thank you so much, Rabia for always speaking against unjust presentations that consider the audience to be dim-wits who would accept everything offered to them and would be willing to absolve the characters of whatever illls they commit simply because of their earlier positive presentation.
Tere bin definitely has been a thoroughly misogynistic play from the start and unfortunately, NM has shattered all hopes of the world still having some gentlemen who think using their heads. The promo of episode 47 has left all of us shaken to the core! I had to take a lexotanil to sleep because it was a nerve-wracking experience that left me feeling choked.
Moreover, if the play proceeds as insinuated in the promo, Yumna and Wahaj should be considered as responsible for the degeneration of not just dramas but in turn, societal values because there are 2 billion people watching, absorbing, and then perhaps normalizng what they see, especially when their favourite actors don't comsider it inappropriate. Where is the "responsible capitalism" Wahaj keeps mentioning in all his interviews? Is it just a term used to impress or does he really believe in it?
Hoping against hope that Tere bin will not go down the drain after all the love that it's received, but definitely praying for better content to appear on TV screens soon.
Do keep up the good work 👏
Very well said. I couldn't sleep on Thursday, and I'm still unable to forget what I have watched in episode 46.
The fact that it has been discussed almost after a week of the episode, shows that how much it has affected our mental health. I was numb for sometime after watching episode 46...I couldn’t process it. I was in state of shock. I know It's just a drama but I've never felt this way.
In the world of Tere Bin:
If Murtasim has crossed his limits then Meerab is equally responsible for whatever happened. She has proved so many times that she is arrogant, impulsive, short tempered and what not but this time she has also crossed all her limits. Her thappar to Murtasim is still I can say OK, that was her reaction because that how she is. But spitting on someone’s face and not someone, the one who was with all her thicks and thins. Unfortunately that assault was the heat of the moment where both are equally responsible because both are equally egoistic.
I have a strong feeling that there will not be happy ending which should not be. As title says TERE BIN and the lyrics of OST clearly showing its a the painful love story which is definitely not because we have only witnessed Murtasim’ love to Meerab not Meerab’ single act which can show us her love to Murtasim.
u r absolutely right
To be honest, 1st 3 days I was literally in depression after seeing that episode & the promo totally destroyed me from inside. But I had to accept that reality to move on, So I can feel you..💔
the way you described how you felt watching it, believe me we all felt exactly the same deafening silence all around, also the writer saying its just a drama, well that drama is being watched by 40 million people weekly. time to read the room and understand art also imitates life
1000000000 agree with you!! I feel exactly the same!!!!!!!
100% agreed... Apki terha tere bin ka hr fan hi shocked hai.
I completely agree with you. I was devastated to see the couple displaying so much hatred at this stage of the drama. They should be reconciling now. How come they both accepted to play this part? Very disappointed. Very sad to see. Did not expect this at all. 😢
You are absolutely on the point Rabia. After a very long time, had started to watch a drama, and was super excited to see a solid matured kind and patient man(husband) in Murtasim. the writer just ruined his character. Meerab's actions were really stupid. there has been several instances in the drama where Murtasim has confessed that he has no feelings to Haya and Meerab knows it. yet she acted in a stupid way. the illogical twist was written to garner more TRPs & sensationalize the proceedings. In today's complicated world, where Genzs and millenials are losing faith in the institution of marriage, this added more fuel to it. I am really appalled at the writer who defended her screenplay. a golden opportunity to create a benchmark of the drama and build a lasting legacy is lost. The serial ends for me at 46.
I think you’re doing a great job reviewing this drama then the people in “ Kya drama hay” episode. You are pointing out the right details in a much more detailed manner as compared to the three people I saw today in “ Kya drama gay” episode. Thanks for sharing your opinion here. I am glad to see somebody sees what I am seeing. Thank you.
You r Absolutely right
As someone who’s resonated with Meerab’s character since day one, as many women have - what’s been implied to have happened with Meerab is TRULY disturbing, because it feels as though as a viewer I’ve bared the burden of her pain alongside her. Trivializing a topic like marital r@pe in such a callus, irresponsible, and offensive way feels like an attack on the audience. Y’all are really questioning our intelligence in the most disrespectful way. I have no faith that what the viewership as a collective is thinking won’t happen, rather we are being gaslit into believing that the writer will provide a resolution!? But how do you come back from SA. Pls, spare us.
How can you justify the evil and ego driven act of your so called ideal meerub? How can you justify her cruelty that she slapped n even spat on murtasim without any legit fault of his.. as an audience even I can't get over that silly despicable act of hers.
Meerab n ideal my foot? I love yumna but hate meraab now whole drama..
I resonate with your thoughts. I loved Merub from Day 1 until the last episode.
No matter what anyone said, I always saw strength in that character. But her reaction in the last episode was so illogical and crude. And then Murtasim's reaction to her aggression is just out of bounds.
I'm now more disappointed by the choices of the actors in playing these roles.
@@jas0204 No one is justifying that. She said it clearly that we've idealised Merub coz of her pain and her show of strength. But we are shocked, troubled and disgusted at her illogical act and then the response that followed.
They copied from kutumb an Indian serial.
THANK YOU RABIA! I really appreciated your thoughts and feelings! I kept saying SAME. You beautifully articulated what I felt. Please keep speaking your truth! You have an amazing platform! Please keep at it!
Yes totally agree
Writer n TB team would not understand what have they done but they should know that they really hurt all of us very badly. Thanks Rabia and all viewers , your comments have given some comfort at least. 🙏