Parental Alienation and enforcement
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- čas přidán 27. 07. 2024
- In this webinar family law solicitors Gemma Sparks and Amy Langford discuss parental alienation and how it can be enforced. For more information on parental alienation law visit our website www.thefamilylawco.co.uk
Parental alienation involves the psychological manipulation of a child by one parent against the other, without any justifiable good reason. Children then demonstrate animosity towards a parent with whom they once had a loving relationship. In this video we give some examples of parental alienation and answer some key questions about parental alienation UK such as what is parental alienation? How to deal with parental alienation? How to stop parental alienation?
Chapters
00:00 Intro
01:46 What is Parental Alienation?
02:21 Parental Alienation Behaviours
04:18 Psychological Assessments
05:00 What will the court do?
07:10 Enforcement Proceedings
08:00 What is considered in a contact order application?
08:51 How can the court enforce a contact order if it is breached?
10:21 Examples of where a breach might be justified
12:22 Family Assistance Order
14:50 What can I do?
15:05 Q&A
The laws must change to hold parental alienators accountable. And just like in sexual abuse cases, eliminate the statute of limitations to bring criminal and civil cases against the alienator (usually the mother).
Unfortunately the Courts in the UK dont take Parent Alienation seriously as USA/Canada. If your a Father you have very little chance of an outcome that will help you have an equal relationship with your children. The Court is only interested in the safety and wellbeing of the Children NOT you. Once Cafcass gets involved, everything becomes ten times worse and it grinds to a halt. As painful as it is, whatever it takes, avoid going to Court. If you go to Court you will portrayed as the bad guy to your kids. Be patient, it may take some years, and always be nice to the children's Mother, no matter what.
Carcass especially Brighton based are clowns with zilch idea
Dads have no rights - if you go to court then be prepared to deal with police Cafcass etc etc to answer to false allegations
Im a mum and i went through exactly the same!!
@@JadeBlakeVideos unusual it’s normally men that suffer this
I have been battling the lies for over 17 years my son is an adult now
All ,I want at this point is to take me off arrears and leave me alone i have shown the court their mistakes and they still don't give a shit. Personally speaking i moved on and got married and had a Daughter that is now 12 i have told her about her brother if she wants to know him that is her choice the other parent in question just hates the fact i moved away from their Bullshit i feel sorry for my son because the state and his mother failed him and he has no clue he has a great Dad full of love for him but he'll never know.
I can feel your pain I really do.
@@jugurthanumidian4738 I feel you too. My case is similar :-(
No parenting rights (equal or non equal) as a father "no automatic rights" only mothers have automatic rights as soon as the child is born. Puts everything into perspective
Can you make a video about what happens after you’ve been through enforcement and have findings where the judge found no reasonable excuse for the breaches?
been fighting this for 3 years the system is a joke i went got a child arrangement order never got stuck too currently in process of court for enforcement the waiting times are a disgrace women can just alienate men from there kids and it takes years too get anywhere
v helpful! Thanks!!!
Thank you for posting the video it will be a help to anyone in this situation. Especially now that the World Health Organization has recognized Parental Alienation as Child Abuse there is no more excuse for any man or woman to do this. BUT from personal experience i must warn every targeted parent out their NOT to discuss matters about your child directly with an Alienator as it will get deliberately twisted by them and relayed back to the child. If you Must talk with the other alienating parent and cannot do so via a solicitor, keep a recorder with you at ALL TIMES and record every conversation you have parent to parent , when lies get told at court and trust me ...Alienating Parents tell lots of lies at court.... you can (as a last resort if the Judge and "expert" social workers have had the wool pulled over their eyes and sided as they often do with the abusive alienating parent) at least prove there statements are false to have incorrect judgments overturned.
Totally true.
Iv just had a court assessor speak to my 5yr old son & I had told her about my concerns if oerental alienation even though he lives with me. My ex is trying to get full custody. My son told the assessor he hates me, he wishes he never saw me ever again then he could live with his dad. He told them I don't feed him, he sleeps under the bed in the back room. He only loves his dad & not me. The relationship with my son is severely damaged. He is aggressive towards me & when he comes home from his dads at the weekends he is very difficult. No one is listening to me about this. They have taken my 5yr old word & to make matters worse, the assessor questioned my son in school for nearly 2hours & now the teacher has turned against me & thinks I'm neglecting him because she just heard his words of hate towards me & is totally biased now. Whereas b4 i had an ok relationship with the school. Never had a problem with them. This is extremely distressing. His dad is doing untold damage to my son now & for his future relationships. Especially mine & my sons.
Can you post the links to case law summaries you have referred to in this video please?
Im waiting to see in my case who wil admit that my child suffers parental alienation/in order for a 4years old to make a high acusation /whene the police & social services can't find a prove.
But then the same child states he misses his father to social services.
Only because the mother does not want to acept the previous court order.
Now in the best interest of my son i need to protect him applying for a residence order to be overturn.
Or more damage wil be done to the child
How can something be done about grandparent alienation? I tried to step in with concerns counseling my daughter about neglect and abuse when she started dating a drug addict and she cut me off from them. I'm completely distraught.
In UK the crime is alienated parent often can't afford to go to court..
How about telling us how to fill out these forms for court, most of us fathers have been financially destroyed we can't afford lawyers
I’m in Texas :( I’m the custodial parent and he took off with my son. He’s done this for 3 years to me. I haven’t seen or talked to my son in 3 years now. I’m still trying to fight for justice. My son is 10 years old now and I can’t find a attorney that will take my case :(
is it possible to reach yourself or Amy to discuss my unique situation?
If you call our new enquiries team 01392 42177 or email enquiries@thefamilylawco.com they will be able to help you further.
What if it is Social Services Alienating the child while in foster care, bad mouthing the parent and the child becomes hostile and hateful to the parent, what then?
Courts must before court have collected info on any form of alienation so problem is resolved sternly for both parents in this narcissistic situation.. It causes loss of lives to have prolific false allegations against other parent and family.. UK does not rush to assist in alienation uk
All this is a problem that is shockingly simple to solve. The mother and father cannot both have “thefinalsay” at the same time, but it could be sequential and automatic as the default position, unless the courts determine otherwise and after Mediation has been tried and failed.
This sequential approach is the fallback position and is based on the theory of human maturation which needs:-
1. The unconditional love of the mother from birth until about 6 years old. The mother has "the final say".
2. The conditional love of the father who takes his children out into the world and teaches social boundaries, from about 6 years until 12 years old. The father has "the final say"
The friendship and respect of peers from 12 years until 18 years old. The child has "the final say".
Such an arrangement would be largely court free being based on protocols, which would tend to bind both parents into a joint and co-operative relationship.
The courts in the usa wont even hold the mother responsible for the visitation schedule. All the mother says is they are sick this month... and next month too. The father has no rights that i founf in divorce and visitation - what are they ?
I've Noticed Alot Of Parents That Are Being Alienated Ain't Taking No Action.
I have at $1000 an hour
And I have a high probability of losing
This video is a complete waste of time . There no effective action for Alienation. The Courts cannot see Alienation . The problem is not with the children , the problem is with the Alienating parent and the lack.of the Court's assessment of the Alienating Parent .
Fathers have no rights your wasting your time
Solicitors just ask what they charge. They really are out to make money. You can hear the lack of empathy in this video.
Hell yes I agree - they bleed money from you!