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  • @coreyadams1982
    @coreyadams1982 Pƙed 4 lety +4305

    She made a bad decision in choosing to marry this dude.

    • @Alongebaby
      @Alongebaby Pƙed 4 lety +71

      Yep.....

    • @nme.00104
      @nme.00104 Pƙed 4 lety +135

      she really did, believe he wants her to cover his payment's.

    • @SensSword
      @SensSword Pƙed 4 lety +168

      Then she made two more bad decisions by having two kids with this loser. Birds of a feather flock together.

    • @ryandono5721
      @ryandono5721 Pƙed 4 lety +25

      You can't choose who you fall in love with, sadly.

    • @coreyadams1982
      @coreyadams1982 Pƙed 4 lety +301

      @@ryandono5721 You can choose who you marry.

  • @Will-oj3un
    @Will-oj3un Pƙed 4 lety +4100

    Dave: Sell the husband

    • @blacknmild
      @blacknmild Pƙed 4 lety +39

      Lol đŸ˜‚đŸ€Ł

    • @reganwolf4405
      @reganwolf4405 Pƙed 4 lety +17

      đŸ€ŁđŸ€ŁđŸ€­

    • @nme.00104
      @nme.00104 Pƙed 4 lety +14

      đŸ˜­đŸ˜­đŸ˜…đŸ˜†đŸ˜‚đŸ€ŁđŸ’€đŸ’€đŸ’€đŸ’€đŸ’ŻđŸ‘ŒđŸ‘đŸ‘

    • @truckerman9112
      @truckerman9112 Pƙed 4 lety +10

      ClassicđŸ€ŁđŸ€ŁđŸ€Ł

    • @hitchjack
      @hitchjack Pƙed 4 lety +35

      Except he is worthless đŸ€Ł

  • @mw6346
    @mw6346 Pƙed 3 lety +756

    It's hard for me to feel sorry for this women. He had three kids with three other women when they met. He wasn't taking care of them already and she thought it was a good idea to have TWO kids with him.

    • @anotherseoulnative8781
      @anotherseoulnative8781 Pƙed rokem +79

      “I can change him”

    • @AdamJ11
      @AdamJ11 Pƙed rokem +36

      @@anotherseoulnative8781 I agree with both comments here but I still feel bad for her. Nice people are always at risk for being overly trusting. Hopefully it’s a lesson learned and they can fix this horrible mess.

    • @richardramfire3971
      @richardramfire3971 Pƙed rokem +6

      I was thinking the same thing

    • @rrrealqueen
      @rrrealqueen Pƙed rokem

      A woman with a shattered self esteem and probrally desperate at that too

    • @turnovertheleaf5505
      @turnovertheleaf5505 Pƙed 8 měsĂ­ci +31

      She didn't know. I once dated a guy that had 4 kids (3 moms). I had no idea until his friend told me 6 months later!!
      He talked about "wanting kids." I think some guys think,"If she has my child, she won't leave me."

  • @colt4573
    @colt4573 Pƙed 3 lety +536

    So sad. She sounds like she is really really fighting the tears of marrying a loser.

    • @Wilhelm4131
      @Wilhelm4131 Pƙed 2 lety +13

      She's probably just as messed up

    • @BouncyBrown
      @BouncyBrown Pƙed rokem +41

      @@Wilhelm4131 She's employed and concerned about not only her own kids but her husband's kids from a previous relationship... She's definitely not as messed up as him.

    • @queenbee3647
      @queenbee3647 Pƙed rokem +19

      She needs to make better choices!

    • @neisci
      @neisci Pƙed rokem +26

      She knew he was a loser before marrying him. He wasn't paying child support for his children; what else did she need to know?

    • @nychris2258
      @nychris2258 Pƙed rokem +6

      He's worth zero

  • @geargrinder6057
    @geargrinder6057 Pƙed 4 lety +2998

    Dave: What does he do?
    Caller: Makes babies he can't take care of.

    • @MichaelP-ke1tm
      @MichaelP-ke1tm Pƙed 4 lety +33

      @Sir We Are About to Die
      In this case, the guy is a loser. You must be a loser as well to defend him.

    • @user-hd8ej8yx9p
      @user-hd8ej8yx9p Pƙed 4 lety +28

      Patrick not defending the guy.. but also throwing the woman under the bus here for her TERRIBLE taste in men and in that sense, she’s as much of a useless person

    • @erikkacherry4537
      @erikkacherry4537 Pƙed 4 lety +5

      Gear Grinder 😂😂😂😂😂

    • @MrEpz4321
      @MrEpz4321 Pƙed 4 lety +7

      @@MichaelP-ke1tm She still chose him.

    • @stargazerlily8451
      @stargazerlily8451 Pƙed 4 lety +65

      The fact that she married him and had babies by him says more about her than him

  • @AlexBAZCoffeeTimeRO
    @AlexBAZCoffeeTimeRO Pƙed 4 lety +1566

    "2 years latter"
    My Husband Owes $68,000 To 4 Separate Women

  • @a.h.2667
    @a.h.2667 Pƙed 3 lety +104

    The fact that she's the one calling Dave Ramsey instead of him says it all.

  • @heroicicons
    @heroicicons Pƙed 3 lety +462

    She sounds like she's about to have a breakdown at any minute during this entire call. What a defeated woman- withering away to a husk for $17 an hour so that she can support two kids that mean more to her than anything else... and a huge bum.

    • @EddieDuranLLC
      @EddieDuranLLC Pƙed 2 lety +14

      Nobody is forcing her.

    • @mmmmmmmm1942
      @mmmmmmmm1942 Pƙed 2 lety +22

      @@EddieDuranLLC you do not understand how real life works

    • @EddieDuranLLC
      @EddieDuranLLC Pƙed 2 lety +2

      @@mmmmmmmm1942 it seems like you're the one that doesn't. nobody is forcing her to support that huge bum. the kids is understandable.

    • @mmmmmmmm1942
      @mmmmmmmm1942 Pƙed 2 lety +7

      @@EddieDuranLLC you're ridiculous

    • @NightRidah777
      @NightRidah777 Pƙed 2 lety +22

      @@EddieDuranLLC I'm onboard with you. She needs to cut her losses. She met this dude this way, he won't charge. Some people are just bums

  • @adrianpadgett7278
    @adrianpadgett7278 Pƙed 4 lety +1808

    You could have been anything you wanted in this 🌎 ....but you choose to marry a guy with 3 baby mothers.

    • @crimsonite1524
      @crimsonite1524 Pƙed 4 lety +97

      a useless degree doesnt sound as reckless

    • @amandawalker1196
      @amandawalker1196 Pƙed 4 lety +188

      He must of had a real slick talk because ain’t no way in this world I would have married or even dated him. God himself would of had to come down from heaven and sit in front of my face and tell me to marry him.

    • @triggered577
      @triggered577 Pƙed 4 lety +12

      😂😂😂

    • @taniarivera2293
      @taniarivera2293 Pƙed 4 lety +19

      Wow....your comment was deep. Thank you for that.

    • @YouTubeUzername
      @YouTubeUzername Pƙed 4 lety +19

      @AmandaWalker even then I still wouldn't do it.

  • @lmgam
    @lmgam Pƙed 4 lety +2054

    Why would you have children with someone who didn’t take care of the children he already had when you met him?

    • @jlebrech
      @jlebrech Pƙed 4 lety +15

      ;)

    • @SunniDae333
      @SunniDae333 Pƙed 4 lety +25

      Exactly...

    • @peacebestill662
      @peacebestill662 Pƙed 4 lety +37

      Did she know about them? Maybe she did, but didn’t know about the debt.

    • @ImprovementisGrowth
      @ImprovementisGrowth Pƙed 4 lety +48

      lmgam she sounds desperate. She’ll probably work while he stays home doing nothing.

    • @chriswalker7895
      @chriswalker7895 Pƙed 4 lety +88

      @@peacebestill662 so you're saying you'd have kids with a guy who had three kids by three different baby mamas? That's what's called trifling.

  • @pattipacer7869
    @pattipacer7869 Pƙed 3 lety +65

    I experienced the same thing with my ex-husband. He decided at 55 to become a professional actor without a day job. He still owed child support for 2 of his 3 kids. It left up to me to support the household and from the beginning I told him that I did not make enough money to do that. The pressure eventually took it's toll on my health and I was diagnosed with Lupus and Fibromyalgia. In the end I had to make a choice between him and my health. I chose my health and left him after 3 years of putting up with his lack of support.

  • @Tristum1970
    @Tristum1970 Pƙed 3 lety +76

    She is fighting back tears the whole time . Tells you all you need to know about it this guy.

  • @user-cf7pe3qg1c
    @user-cf7pe3qg1c Pƙed 4 lety +1719

    It amazes me that people actually volunteer for this kind of chaos in their life.

  • @ligerllama
    @ligerllama Pƙed 4 lety +915

    Some women spend more time picking out a wedding dress then the man they’re going to marry. đŸ€Š

    • @56TheAnimal
      @56TheAnimal Pƙed 3 lety +10

      Im stealing that 👍

    • @gtbigdog3507
      @gtbigdog3507 Pƙed 2 lety +28

      Some guys have trouble getting one woman. This guy makes no money and gets three

    • @axelfoley1812
      @axelfoley1812 Pƙed 2 lety +10

      @@gtbigdog3507 probably well endowed or good in the sack women will overlook a complete piece of sh*t if he has those so called qualities

    • @riri445_
      @riri445_ Pƙed 2 lety +3

      Chile...you said a mouth full 😼‍💹

    • @marj6377
      @marj6377 Pƙed 6 měsĂ­ci +1

      *than

  • @highbrass3749
    @highbrass3749 Pƙed 2 lety +273

    I’m going to play this video for my wife next time she complains when I track dirt in with my work boots.

    • @dumbeezy5480
      @dumbeezy5480 Pƙed rokem +14

      LOL

    • @lorphic777
      @lorphic777 Pƙed rokem +37

      That's how you make her your ex wife. Don't compare yourself to him. It will make you look bad. Because this is trash 🗑

    • @CC-zi5fb
      @CC-zi5fb Pƙed rokem +5

      Lol 😅

    • @chrisj940
      @chrisj940 Pƙed rokem +4

      @@lorphic777 then so be it. A good man can have any woman he wants.

    • @venieceantoinette
      @venieceantoinette Pƙed 10 měsĂ­ci +4

      😂😂😂

  • @jeanroeder5534
    @jeanroeder5534 Pƙed 3 lety +87

    He actually has five children he is not taking care of. Three previous children that he is supposed to be paying support and now two with his wife, that’s five children and he’s not out earning a decent living.

    • @larose6551
      @larose6551 Pƙed 4 měsĂ­ci

      đŸ‘ŒđŸŸđŸ‘ŒđŸŸđŸ‘ŒđŸŸđŸ‘ŒđŸŸđŸ™đŸŸ

  • @videowatcher398
    @videowatcher398 Pƙed 4 lety +1221

    If she had standards , she would never allow herself to entertain a man like him.

    • @crimsonite1524
      @crimsonite1524 Pƙed 4 lety +44

      yep, even as a guy i would not marry someone with a child/kids. its a tough life ahead for them, economically and emotionally, and the lady deserves better. why would someone who has been so careful with her life marry a careless person

    • @kjsampson5811
      @kjsampson5811 Pƙed 4 lety +18

      or if she had a better childhood

    • @jellybeans9283
      @jellybeans9283 Pƙed 4 lety +54

      KJ Tha 5 1 can't keep blaming your childhood forever, get in to therapy and do something about it.Doing nothing about childhood trauma is a choice

    • @crimsonite1524
      @crimsonite1524 Pƙed 4 lety +24

      @@jellybeans9283 yep, and a lot of people use that excuse these days, it means they never have to make the effort to change and they get so much sympathy and attention, especially on social media. you cant be 25+ talking about your childhood memories

    • @sheba1307
      @sheba1307 Pƙed 4 lety +7

      Well maybe he didn’t tell her this information. Stop victim blaming

  • @joatmon6132
    @joatmon6132 Pƙed 4 lety +743

    She's ready to cry. He's watching soaps.

    • @KCSimsStarter
      @KCSimsStarter Pƙed 4 lety +59

      He's probably cheating up a new Baby Mama

    • @granitemoss1451
      @granitemoss1451 Pƙed 4 lety +37

      He's making his own soap opera, starring him, his baby mommas, his unsupported children all over the place, and his new wifey (aka the Sucker).

    • @eurekahope5310
      @eurekahope5310 Pƙed 4 lety +36

      She chose to make babies with a man who owed THREE other women for child support. Unless he tricked her, she let feelings override logic. He is a loser, but if women avoided losers, they wouldn't give losers the opportunity to make these messes. I wish them the best, but women, we can't play the victim when we knowingly choose a loser.

    • @bobbymarm9978
      @bobbymarm9978 Pƙed 4 lety +1

      đŸ€ŁđŸ€ŁđŸ€ŁđŸ€Ł

    • @myytchannel6632
      @myytchannel6632 Pƙed 4 lety

      You mean he is in the restroom using soap to play with something of his.

  • @peanutoreo8052
    @peanutoreo8052 Pƙed 3 lety +157

    Calls like this make me even more thankful to God for giving me the gift of my husband. We will celebrate our 40th wedding anniversary next month.

    • @susiem.2068
      @susiem.2068 Pƙed 2 lety +8

      Congratulations ! I wish you a peaceful, safe and thriving marriage !

    • @peanutoreo8052
      @peanutoreo8052 Pƙed 2 lety +7

      @@susiem.2068 Thank you. Unfortunately, my husband died this weekend, but we did make it to 40 years.

    • @urdadshusband781
      @urdadshusband781 Pƙed 2 lety

      Thank God for giving those kids a father that can't take care of them. Your God is a joke

    • @TheAlchemist1089
      @TheAlchemist1089 Pƙed 2 lety +5

      @@peanutoreo8052 so sorry to hear that đŸ„ș

  • @user-lf5bm5tm1q
    @user-lf5bm5tm1q Pƙed 6 měsĂ­ci +5

    She turned down multiple nice guys who would’ve taken care of their responsibilities! Instead, she picked the bad boy who was exciting and drives a motorcycle. Ladies, start being accountable for your terrible decisions. 👍

  • @Audie1228
    @Audie1228 Pƙed 4 lety +776

    He is basically with you because he needs somewhere to live hun... He’s a 3rd child! ....RUN!!

    • @aubreysellssofl
      @aubreysellssofl Pƙed 4 lety +19

      Whole facts

    • @janayialove4414
      @janayialove4414 Pƙed 4 lety +7

      Where's Tony Gaskins đŸ€ŠđŸ€ŠđŸ€Š, omg

    • @aubreysellssofl
      @aubreysellssofl Pƙed 4 lety +8

      @@janayialove4414 lol he would have a fit on this one!!!

    • @Sara_The_Feral_Housewife
      @Sara_The_Feral_Housewife Pƙed 3 lety +12

      Except he's providing childcare for her currently and we already know he doesn't pay child support so divorce isn't going to help her until she gets her income up

    • @ErickaWilliamsCC
      @ErickaWilliamsCC Pƙed 3 lety +6

      exactly... he needs to be dropped off at work in the morning when she goes.

  • @mjbankhead9063
    @mjbankhead9063 Pƙed 4 lety +1063

    She should’ve đŸƒđŸŸâ€â™€ïžas soon as he said he had 3 kids by 3 women. Unfortunately she’s about to be number 4.

    • @dflo9656
      @dflo9656 Pƙed 4 lety +3

      MJ Bankhead facts!!!!

    • @ashleygrey7986
      @ashleygrey7986 Pƙed 4 lety +35

      Technically 4 AND 5, they have two together đŸ€ŠđŸŸâ€â™€ïž

    • @ronb357
      @ronb357 Pƙed 4 lety +26

      Too late... she said they have 2 together

    • @dflo9656
      @dflo9656 Pƙed 4 lety +3

      Ronnie Brown đŸ˜©đŸ˜©đŸ˜©đŸ˜©đŸ˜©đŸ˜©đŸ˜©

    • @Scorpiomaj27889
      @Scorpiomaj27889 Pƙed 4 lety +22

      One prior wife is bad news, more than one a fire alarm - GET OUT.

  • @USNavyVet_STG
    @USNavyVet_STG Pƙed 3 lety +22

    I live in NM. There's landscaping work year-round. Trash hauling, tree trimming, etc. This guy's just a bum.

  • @loserplanet
    @loserplanet Pƙed 3 lety +118

    He's an extremely manipulative and she's victim #4.

    • @1981lashlarue
      @1981lashlarue Pƙed 3 lety +9

      Not much of an excuse to be a victim when she knew of the other three. Whether he's manipulative or not, the other person still has to have the fortitude to make wise choices.

    • @Theguys1
      @Theguys1 Pƙed 5 měsĂ­ci

      He’s a bum that has five kids and no responsibility. Four single parent households suffering God knows what poverty. That’s the definition of “ scum”.

    • @JenniC2
      @JenniC2 Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +1

      @@1981lashlarueExactly, women need to do better.

  • @ChevonneStaton
    @ChevonneStaton Pƙed 4 lety +1083

    The best advice is to never marry a man who doesn’t like to work and has kids he doesn’t care enough about to see and take care of.

    • @nealp885
      @nealp885 Pƙed 4 lety +50

      Chevonne Staton yeah and men also shouldn’t marry single moms

    • @crimsonite1524
      @crimsonite1524 Pƙed 4 lety +32

      now women will understand why we dont want to marry single moms

    • @eamcbmsc
      @eamcbmsc Pƙed 4 lety +41

      eli soopu why? I don’t the problem is that he has a child. The issue is he has a pattern of having children with multiple women and not taking care of them. I dated a man with a daughter and she wasn’t an issue at all.

    • @crimsonite1524
      @crimsonite1524 Pƙed 4 lety +20

      @@eamcbmsc one child can not be compared to three by 3 women miss Kim, we can all date someone with a kid but 3 diverse kids is a crimson red flag, what is so special about you that three baby mamas couldnt be kept for, and just the expenses should be a concern too, that man is complete before you come, he has kids and women what is your role that others could not fulfill

    • @vanessar.309
      @vanessar.309 Pƙed 4 lety +8

      This exactly the situation that my sister got herself into! So sad for my nephews.

  • @mikedageneral1
    @mikedageneral1 Pƙed 4 lety +569

    Child support: 58K
    Magnums: 5 dollars

    • @notmebutyou8350
      @notmebutyou8350 Pƙed 4 lety +6

      😂😂😂😂😂

    • @nme.00104
      @nme.00104 Pƙed 4 lety +3

      đŸ’ŻđŸ‘ŒđŸ‘đŸ‘đŸ˜­đŸ˜­đŸ˜…đŸ˜†đŸ˜‚đŸ€ŁđŸ’€đŸ’€đŸ’€đŸ’€

    • @triggered577
      @triggered577 Pƙed 4 lety +41

      He needs a vasectomy, not a magnum.

    • @heathj7794
      @heathj7794 Pƙed 4 lety +8

      you guys are using magnums?

    • @kaybooth303
      @kaybooth303 Pƙed 4 lety +2

      RacksandKush19 You took the words out of my mouth! LOL

  • @Philip_Florez
    @Philip_Florez Pƙed 3 lety +65

    Watching this made me feel so much better being a single dad paying child support on time

  • @hmj8469
    @hmj8469 Pƙed 3 lety +27

    This reminds me of when Clark Griswold asks Eddie's wife about his job and she says "He's holding out for a management position". priceless....

  • @theiratelandlord5608
    @theiratelandlord5608 Pƙed 4 lety +324

    Deadbeat. You need a divorce, not Dave Ramsey.

    • @weirdo1060
      @weirdo1060 Pƙed 3 lety +3

      Great idea, but there are caveats. Divorce may cost money and she would not get any alimony due to his current debts

    • @roseother8306
      @roseother8306 Pƙed 5 měsĂ­ci

      Not getting alimony from Mr Wonderful is not her problem. It is the debt he has amassed by spreading his seed that spells trouble. It is trouble he can take with him as he walks out the door. She will not be the only woman raising 2 children on her own. The 4 women can form a coffee clutch and talk about how lucky they are without him.

    • @Shopgirl1
      @Shopgirl1 Pƙed 5 měsĂ­ci +9

      @@weirdo1060wouldn’t matter anyway..she’s the one with the income taking care of him!

    • @ronaldmcnerneyjr3467
      @ronaldmcnerneyjr3467 Pƙed 3 měsĂ­ci +3

      How does he own a business, landscaping nonetheless without a drivers license.?

    • @LauraMacMillan-el2kc
      @LauraMacMillan-el2kc Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci

      Yeah but then she's paying for childcare for her own kids. At least he's providing that.

  • @mle011
    @mle011 Pƙed 4 lety +221

    If I was on a first date with a guy and found out he had 3 children by 3 different women, I'd walk out immediately and not waste a second more of my time. Why this woman decided he was some sort of catch and MARRIED him, I literally do not understand.

    • @cutehumor
      @cutehumor Pƙed 4 lety +33

      her husband got game. Not only did he get her to marry him and have two babies, but he is trying to get his wife to pay off his child support for the other three kids

    • @chibibumblebee3190
      @chibibumblebee3190 Pƙed 6 měsĂ­ci +13

      I once dated a guy that lied about not having any kids

    • @stef1872
      @stef1872 Pƙed 5 měsĂ­ci +1

      I did exactly that! 😂😂😂

    • @ProfessorOfLogic81
      @ProfessorOfLogic81 Pƙed 5 měsĂ­ci +17

      She did not pick him, he picked her. Losers like him are very skilled at targeting vulnerable women and making them believe that they don’t deserve someone better than him. She’s responsible for her own decisions, but I have a great deal of sympathy for the way she has been taken advantage of.

    • @taylamayde
      @taylamayde Pƙed 5 měsĂ­ci +1

      The pipe

  • @chiaraippoliti
    @chiaraippoliti Pƙed 3 lety +83

    This is part of the reason why I refuse todate men with children, whether they live with him or not.

    • @sophiasmith5949
      @sophiasmith5949 Pƙed 3 lety +9

      @Randall Johnson i wish more women could see that their children have protected them from far more bad relationships. .great advice never date women with children.

    • @shola7987
      @shola7987 Pƙed 3 lety +2

      Same here. And even if I did they would have to be supporting them. I couldnt be with a man who doesn't take care of his kids.

    • @rationalsamrat3247
      @rationalsamrat3247 Pƙed 3 lety +10

      Same goes to marrying women with children

    • @TheSunshinefee
      @TheSunshinefee Pƙed 3 lety

      agree !

    • @jones2277
      @jones2277 Pƙed 3 lety +12

      my feelings exactly. and i get so much hate, but I'm not ready for baby mama drama, naughty children, or half his income going elsewhere.

  • @caron5622
    @caron5622 Pƙed 5 měsĂ­ci +11

    I can’t imagine why any woman would have children with a man who already has three he’s not supporting. That’s who you chose as the father of your children? She’s a huge part of the problem as well. Dave was way more kind than I’d have been. No free pass in this situation.

  • @emmaliz5484
    @emmaliz5484 Pƙed 4 lety +1177

    No doubt his desire to be a “business owner” is so that he can claim he’s not working and therefore not have child support automatically deducted from his check every week 🙄

    • @nme.00104
      @nme.00104 Pƙed 4 lety +29

      agree with you, 💯👌👍👏 if he doesn't have documented income child support won't follow up on the case until he does. live in tx, owed $20,000 ncp is self-employed and he won't report his info. to them so no follow-up action.

    • @blacknmild
      @blacknmild Pƙed 4 lety +82

      He is a total bum.. What woman in her right mind would marry such a complete loser?? 😑

    • @nme.00104
      @nme.00104 Pƙed 4 lety +6

      @@blacknmild 💯👌👍👏

    • @NotQuiteEpic
      @NotQuiteEpic Pƙed 4 lety +33

      Or just a lazy guy who didn't want to have a boss because he can't get along with being told what to do.

    • @blueowl8928
      @blueowl8928 Pƙed 4 lety +49

      This is exactly what I thought while listening to the call. He probably only accepts cash for his landscaping “business,” which will mean that his client base will inevitably be smaller. When other companies take checks/etc, there is no incentive for anyone to choose him for the work they need done. If he were to try to open a bank account, his funds would be garnished pretty quickly. He is fully aware of this and is actively avoiding it.

  • @jasonclayton4998
    @jasonclayton4998 Pƙed 4 lety +513

    I swear I would be embarrassed to make this call.

    • @Kangaroojumper
      @Kangaroojumper Pƙed 3 lety +41

      She sounded embarrassed and awkward

    • @Only2GendersCommonSense
      @Only2GendersCommonSense Pƙed 3 lety +2

      Some have no shame.

    • @ranip7644
      @ranip7644 Pƙed 3 lety +8

      She sounded embarrassed.

    • @terranesha5784
      @terranesha5784 Pƙed 3 lety +6

      It is embarrassing I know this feeling.

    • @dutchray8880
      @dutchray8880 Pƙed 3 lety +8

      Desperation trumps embarrassment. It looks like desperation plays into why women even consider guys like this to be suitable partners.

  • @kristydickens1283
    @kristydickens1283 Pƙed 3 lety +20

    Be careful who you choose to be your children's other parent, because your children are stuck with them for the rest of their lives for good or ill.

  • @mdooms76
    @mdooms76 Pƙed 4 lety +15

    This man is not even working!!! I would not be stressing over how to pay HIS child support. He needs to figure it out!!

  • @anthonywaldrep5982
    @anthonywaldrep5982 Pƙed 4 lety +159

    After fathering 5 children from 4 different women, owing an insane amount of back child support and sitting on his duff, there's like no chance this guy is changing his behavior.

    • @johnbacon4997
      @johnbacon4997 Pƙed 9 měsĂ­ci +15

      This story doesn't have a happy ending. What a stupid choice in marrying this guy.

    • @user-kp2hl9du5g
      @user-kp2hl9du5g Pƙed 6 měsĂ­ci

      Literally đŸ€Š these women need to stop having babies w these bum ass men because this is ridiculous!

    • @o0usf0o
      @o0usf0o Pƙed 4 měsĂ­ci +3

      Dude is about to flee the country

  • @ijeomaemenanjo1758
    @ijeomaemenanjo1758 Pƙed 4 lety +436

    Guy says: I have 3 baby moms, I’m virtually unemployed, and.........
    Me: pleasure knowing you. Good luck in your search ✌

    • @sopascat7
      @sopascat7 Pƙed 4 lety +26

      LoL...I’m picturing what Judge Judy would say.

    • @jayenga22
      @jayenga22 Pƙed 4 lety +13

      exactly, I wonder what was going on in her head when she saw that and say "sounds good to me".

    • @Elizabeth-uj8vn
      @Elizabeth-uj8vn Pƙed 3 lety +4

      đŸ˜‚đŸ˜‚đŸ˜‚đŸ€ŁđŸ€ŁđŸ€Ł

    • @ErickaWilliamsCC
      @ErickaWilliamsCC Pƙed 3 lety +4

      exactly... run sis.

    • @bodhisattva2348
      @bodhisattva2348 Pƙed 3 lety +1

      đŸƒâ€â™€ïžđŸƒâ€â™€ïžđŸƒâ€â™€ïžđŸƒâ€â™€ïžđŸƒâ€â™€ïžđŸƒâ€â™€ïžđŸƒâ€â™€ïžđŸƒâ€â™€ïž

  • @areaj8006
    @areaj8006 Pƙed 3 lety +48

    Dave's facial expression while she was explaining her husbands life choices was hilarious 😂

    • @lizh4933
      @lizh4933 Pƙed 5 měsĂ­ci +2

      My facial expression when Dave suggests contacting a Pastor. Ha!

  • @Julie-ip3il
    @Julie-ip3il Pƙed 3 lety +32

    We are all thinking the same thing: what on earth does this guy look like? Marrying a guy with 3 kids from 3 different women sounds like brain damage đŸ€Ș

    • @Jackson-qi4rw
      @Jackson-qi4rw Pƙed 5 měsĂ­ci +1

      He has to be extremely attractive

    • @amyrussell860
      @amyrussell860 Pƙed 4 měsĂ­ci

      @Julie-ip3il: He probably has a very charming or charismatic personality. Obviously, he knows how to be a player. And sadly, she was vulnerable enough to fall for it.

  • @minimumwagemoney3258
    @minimumwagemoney3258 Pƙed 4 lety +229

    Soon the next woman will call Dave and tell him my husband owe $80k to 4!different women

    • @InclinaProduction
      @InclinaProduction Pƙed 4 lety +6

      đŸ˜‚đŸ˜‚đŸ˜‚đŸ€Ł

    • @HC_8
      @HC_8 Pƙed 4 lety +2

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @amandaparrish9128
    @amandaparrish9128 Pƙed 4 lety +755

    Sounds like he was a loser BEFORE she married him. So sad for her.

    • @paladintactical8250
      @paladintactical8250 Pƙed 4 lety +42

      yeah she's the 'victim'...she knew what kind of guy she got...she liked it.

    • @nealkelly9757
      @nealkelly9757 Pƙed 4 lety +14

      Don't feel sorry for her, feel sorry for the taxpayers for footing the bill. Support eugenics

    • @oneeyedman99
      @oneeyedman99 Pƙed 4 lety +18

      He was a loser before she got pregnant by him, which I am guessing preceded the marriage. So she's definitely a loser, he could be either a loser or a user, or more likely both. I'm sure Dave knows that better than anyone, but telling her that to a national audience isn't going to solve anything.

    • @SignedOff402
      @SignedOff402 Pƙed 4 lety +8

      He should have worn condoms. Perhaps the mothers of his children told him they were taking BCPs. Unfortunately, some women look at child birth as a career (child support, entrapment or welfare is guaranteed).

    • @laserbeam-fx9qv
      @laserbeam-fx9qv Pƙed 4 lety +13

      She is no victim!!! She picked Him...

  • @Dream-bebe
    @Dream-bebe Pƙed 3 lety +15

    Are you kidding me ? The “wife” is paying his child support??? And he is “looking “ for a job!!!

  • @greggalletta8679
    @greggalletta8679 Pƙed rokem +5

    Why would you get involved with someone with that much baggage? It will not end well.

  • @kumquat1979
    @kumquat1979 Pƙed 4 lety +297

    1. You can't "debt snowball" child support.
    2. He's sitting home avoiding wage garnishment while his wife supports him and all 5 of his kids.
    3. He needs to get snipped.

    • @Vydio
      @Vydio Pƙed 4 lety +9

      They can't go after her for support. But the second he gets a paying job imagine the fight over his paycheck.

    • @kpeggs82
      @kpeggs82 Pƙed 3 lety +9

      @@Vydio no if they get a joint account they can go after half. Seen it first hand.

    • @Vydio
      @Vydio Pƙed 3 lety +6

      @@kpeggs82 Correct, they can actually empty the entire account. But he has got to start dealing with this, it will not go away if you just ignore it.

    • @charleneWL
      @charleneWL Pƙed 3 lety +9

      He’s a trash father !

    • @ebonysharee
      @ebonysharee Pƙed 3 lety

      Lol

  • @Black_Jesus3005
    @Black_Jesus3005 Pƙed 4 lety +633

    She’s gonna end up like those other woman.

    • @zybard01
      @zybard01 Pƙed 4 lety +44

      you can hear it in her voice... she ain't going nowhere. My bet is that he leaves for a pack of cigarettes and doesn't return

    • @TwoCents
      @TwoCents Pƙed 4 lety +7

      MOST DEFINITELY

    • @Irene-gq4jr
      @Irene-gq4jr Pƙed 4 lety +14

      Eventually, but not before she pays for his other kids at the expense of her own. And he still won't give a toss.

    • @shazz286
      @shazz286 Pƙed 4 lety +4

      She already has 2 kids with this idiot

    • @highlyfavored2434
      @highlyfavored2434 Pƙed 4 lety +9

      She already is. Shes the bread winner, calling dave to help pay for his 3 other kids while raising their 2 kids... meanwhile he is on the prowl for the 5th baby mama

  • @chelsealewis309
    @chelsealewis309 Pƙed 3 lety +17

    I feel bad that these spouses stick up for bad behavior, condemn the behavior, then justify the behavior.

  • @twalk2008
    @twalk2008 Pƙed 3 lety +23

    She sounds like she’s about to cry.

  • @killuificould
    @killuificould Pƙed 4 lety +411

    How women sleep with boys like that, I’ll never understand.

    • @dronetrucker
      @dronetrucker Pƙed 4 lety +52

      It's the same type of dude impregnating these women, I blame the women because they like projects, fixer upper boys.

    • @wanefelicia8779
      @wanefelicia8779 Pƙed 4 lety +22

      How men sleep around and lie and use women like that...ill never get it đŸ€źđŸ€źđŸ€źđŸ€ź fkn GOOFBalls

    • @quackaddict9810
      @quackaddict9810 Pƙed 4 lety +17

      Sounds like she’s a “fixer”. Aint no fixing this guy.

    • @specstreaming6127
      @specstreaming6127 Pƙed 4 lety +11

      80/20 rule.

    • @specstreaming6127
      @specstreaming6127 Pƙed 4 lety +8

      @@wanefelicia8779 women sleep around more in 2020 than the average guy

  • @StarvingArtistWanderingFree
    @StarvingArtistWanderingFree Pƙed 4 lety +700

    He was trying to create a landscaping business because it’s cash only.

    • @angelbear_og
      @angelbear_og Pƙed 4 lety +11

      I had a landscaper for a while. Paid with checks, so...

    • @nme.00104
      @nme.00104 Pƙed 4 lety +2

      💯👌👍👏

    • @nme.00104
      @nme.00104 Pƙed 4 lety +15

      @@angelbear_og most pay their employees with cash, jobs like this, bartending, waitressing etc. don't get w-2's. the worker just has to keep records of their pay to file their taxes, the owner is responsible for filing their business returns. it's much easier for him than working at mc donalds etc. where he knows they will be notified right away.

    • @nme.00104
      @nme.00104 Pƙed 4 lety +4

      @NurturingTalents 💯👌👍👏 agree with you, under the tables jobs are easy to get until you receive your document's.

    • @angelbear_og
      @angelbear_og Pƙed 4 lety +2

      ​@@nme.00104 He wasn't an employee. He owned his own business. Which is what the caller's "husband" has done.

  • @ramonaearnest4709
    @ramonaearnest4709 Pƙed 3 lety +10

    Dr. Phill says..."You can't change what you don't acknowledge!"

  • @campin_sasquatch7740
    @campin_sasquatch7740 Pƙed 3 lety +21

    She knew he had all the kids and issues before she married him. He's now a stay at home dad đŸ€Šâ€â™€ïž

  • @offgridjack5779
    @offgridjack5779 Pƙed 4 lety +227

    She needs to cut her losses and leave NOW before he talks her into having another baby to keep her with him making HIS payments for him. She is raising/supporting SIX children AND herself. Their two, his three and HIM!! The biggest baby of them all.

    • @nme.00104
      @nme.00104 Pƙed 4 lety +7

      💯👌👍👏

    • @crimsonite1524
      @crimsonite1524 Pƙed 4 lety +6

      i dont believe there can be a full recovery from this, no matter what route the lady takes, unless the guy finds a genie and wishes for his transformation

    • @offgridjack5779
      @offgridjack5779 Pƙed 4 lety +6

      Eli Soopu - Very true!! She's his FOURTH baby maker and no end in sight and she is being made to carry it all. Not her responsibility to carry HIM, their TWO and all of HIS kids by 3 others!!

  • @jakefarmer3122
    @jakefarmer3122 Pƙed 4 lety +394

    *clicks the title, gets the popcorn*

    • @Theseghhhhjvft
      @Theseghhhhjvft Pƙed 4 lety +9

      Thought I was the only one 😂

    • @quackaddict9810
      @quackaddict9810 Pƙed 4 lety +8

      Right?! Scandalous!!

    • @IamtheGL
      @IamtheGL Pƙed 4 lety +7

      Here's more compadre 🍿

    • @nme.00104
      @nme.00104 Pƙed 4 lety +2

      that part, all facts and truth. 💯👌👍👏

    • @onlyu7308
      @onlyu7308 Pƙed 4 lety +7

      Don't forget the soda.

  • @jessicamaria6009
    @jessicamaria6009 Pƙed 5 měsĂ­ci +5

    Being single is a blessing

  • @ber9313
    @ber9313 Pƙed 3 lety +8

    My father had a landscaping company through 1960's through to the early 1980's. He mostly had his dad, son, brothers and nephews to help him work it. He made it work very well. He made enough money to buy a house in a nice neighborhood, build on a second floor to the house, and add a built in swimming pool. My parents had one or two cars at a time growing up. He would drive oil trucks in the winter and plan for the next summer season and build his customer base through networking with people he knew and through word of mouth. This was on Long Island.

    • @larose6551
      @larose6551 Pƙed 4 měsĂ­ci

      God bless your dad he had a hard work ethic and wasn’t shiftless.

  • @laurah6381
    @laurah6381 Pƙed 4 lety +182

    “He’s not really doing much” OMG ruuuuun

  • @daniellecoffey8451
    @daniellecoffey8451 Pƙed 4 lety +179

    He should’ve been the one calling in. She needs to leave him and support her kids by herself on that $17/hr. Let him go to jail for it and move on!

    • @kimmy225
      @kimmy225 Pƙed 3 lety +9

      Exactly, might as well get rid of him. One less bill.

  • @jbtpa895
    @jbtpa895 Pƙed 3 lety +4

    You can't run a landscaping business without serious equipment and a driver's license. If he's making anything he's hiding it from support court and IRS. This woman needs to GET OUT before they both end up with Federal charges for tax evasion.

  • @vadimrazenberg
    @vadimrazenberg Pƙed 6 měsĂ­ci +3

    Shocked at how calm Dave is
 Dave 10 years ago would have had a seizure from yelling at this couple.

  • @tinmanslickgreasy999
    @tinmanslickgreasy999 Pƙed 4 lety +278

    ONE OF THE MOST IMPORTANT DECISIONS YOU WILL MAKE IN YOUR ENTIRE LIFE, WILL BE WHO CHOOSE TO MARRY AND HAVE CHILDREN WITH!!!!

    • @monica62888
      @monica62888 Pƙed 3 lety +5

      This!

    • @monica62888
      @monica62888 Pƙed 3 lety +13

      I'm 32, childless and being VERY Cautious!

    • @tinmanslickgreasy999
      @tinmanslickgreasy999 Pƙed 3 lety +3

      @@monica62888 👍

    • @khalidmohamed5988
      @khalidmohamed5988 Pƙed 3 lety

      @@tinmanslickgreasy999where did true love conquer all go

    • @rhoonah5849
      @rhoonah5849 Pƙed 3 lety +1

      @@khalidmohamed5988 No where. It just never existed and is a childish notion. You can love someone with all of your heart and have radical differences of opinions in finances, child rearing, religion, politics, etc. that causes insurmountable problems in your relationship. You can also love someone that is abusive or has a lot of baggage and that makes the relationship intolerable. Life happens despite silly fairy tail slogans.

  • @karadaniel6334
    @karadaniel6334 Pƙed 4 lety +115

    Girl, get the book “codependent no more” and stop taking responsibility for the messes of others

  • @sistermadrigalmorning233
    @sistermadrigalmorning233 Pƙed 3 lety +4

    "He got his license revoked"... Oy. I had been thinking he could do uber when the kids are in school without giving up his business until I heard that. đŸ€Šâ€â™€ïž

  • @dianebalch5369
    @dianebalch5369 Pƙed 5 měsĂ­ci +5

    I've seen this before. He can't see himself with a menial job. If he can't find a job worthy of him, then he needs to take a good, long look in the mirror at who he really is. He seems to be ashamed of what he sees so he tells himself that he's "working" toward a goal. That inability to see himself will lead to a deficit for everyone involved. Sometimes we just have to get through the hard times even when we don't like what we see in the mirror.

    • @larose6551
      @larose6551 Pƙed 4 měsĂ­ci

      Exactly!
      He’s holding out for that unicorn job making six figures.
      I have zero sympathy for these types.

  • @maryfields1382
    @maryfields1382 Pƙed 4 lety +169

    "He's at home with them while they're at school". Uh huh.

    • @cutehumor
      @cutehumor Pƙed 4 lety +36

      He's also doing the next door neighbor and having babies with his neighbors. lol

    • @wwtjoygbths3993
      @wwtjoygbths3993 Pƙed 4 lety +3

      @@cutehumor
      Exactly.

    • @M0chaJ0J0
      @M0chaJ0J0 Pƙed 4 lety +1

      Mary Fields đŸ€ŁđŸ€ŁđŸ˜‚

  • @neilyaremchuk6798
    @neilyaremchuk6798 Pƙed 4 lety +102

    Quick money tip: Pick better men.

  • @joshw7415
    @joshw7415 Pƙed 3 lety +8

    This poor woman...her husband likes the free ride

  • @johnSmith-uz8nl
    @johnSmith-uz8nl Pƙed 5 měsĂ­ci +2

    Let me start by saying... the best saying that Dave has ever said is "CHANGE YOUR FAMILY TREE". And that is my goal in life even though I stopped working about a 1.5 years ago. I have no issues spending money on my kid, including paying for University and anything else my kid wants or needs.

  • @offgridjack5779
    @offgridjack5779 Pƙed 4 lety +200

    He sits at home and plays mom while she works and pays HIS child support!!!

    • @blacknmild
      @blacknmild Pƙed 4 lety +21

      He's pathetic

    • @coconutwater4531
      @coconutwater4531 Pƙed 4 lety +32

      She’s a fool.

    • @johnc2438
      @johnc2438 Pƙed 4 lety +13

      Sounds like they are two peas in a pod. These children will grow up and replicate this behavior, in all likelihood.

    • @coconutwater4531
      @coconutwater4531 Pƙed 4 lety +1

      John C How sad.

    • @tindrabeam5922
      @tindrabeam5922 Pƙed 4 lety +7

      He doesnÂŽt play mom! He is their dad!

  • @ShabazzStone
    @ShabazzStone Pƙed 4 lety +321

    Why would you "reward" a guy like this, with known character issues... by not only marrying him but having more children with him. Wow, unbelievable. Once she found out his true character (or the lack thereof) she should have snow-balled the heck out of there.

    • @nme.00104
      @nme.00104 Pƙed 4 lety +10

      💯👌👍👏 with the marriage, believe his plan was to have the debt attached to her. if you file a joint tax return, it can be taken to settle the debt owed.

    • @AestheticBible
      @AestheticBible Pƙed 4 lety +5

      You spoke the facts

    • @courtneysperfectcafe
      @courtneysperfectcafe Pƙed 4 lety +3

      Shabazz agreed.

    • @oneeyedman99
      @oneeyedman99 Pƙed 4 lety +9

      "Should" has nothing to do with it. This guy is a genius at taking advantage of young, naive women, either sheltered or neglected. Like other posters have said, he probably had the allure of a "project", which many young women fall for for some reason. A lot of parents seem to be failing their daughters badly in giving them guidance about men.

    • @bobbymarm9978
      @bobbymarm9978 Pƙed 4 lety +1

      Love the phrasing

  • @rubyslippers1935
    @rubyslippers1935 Pƙed 3 lety +6

    Dave, you’re not being mean. You give tough love. A lot of people need that. Keep up the good work!

  • @Faith-un7ns
    @Faith-un7ns Pƙed 4 lety +4

    It doesn’t sound like this relationship is going to get any better.

  • @carlat6686
    @carlat6686 Pƙed 4 lety +155

    So, he’s marketing his landscaping business with a revoked drivers license for failure to pay child support for three kids with three different mothers? đŸ€” sounds like a winner! 🙄🙄🙄

    • @tracy5721
      @tracy5721 Pƙed 6 měsĂ­ci +2

      @@drc3po I agree! It makes no sense at all. Essentially the state is saying that if you don’t pay child support, we’ll take away your ability to pay child support while still demanding that you pay up.

  • @pawsnotclaws2772
    @pawsnotclaws2772 Pƙed 4 lety +70

    He owes child support to three different women and you have two kids with him...

    • @robindouglas5721
      @robindouglas5721 Pƙed 3 lety +16

      đŸ€Šâ€â™€ïžđŸ€Šâ€â™€ïžđŸ€Šâ€â™€ïžđŸ€Šâ€â™€ïž

  • @krznarbmx
    @krznarbmx Pƙed 5 měsĂ­ci +1

    What a piece of work.
    I have been divorced before and remarried and none of my kids will ever go without.
    That’s not the mother’s only job that’s a responsibility you take when you have kids.

  • @bpaige12
    @bpaige12 Pƙed 4 lety +2

    Three kids with three different women behind on child support and she thought he was marriage material

  • @dallasgurl1989
    @dallasgurl1989 Pƙed 4 lety +144

    3 kids by 3 women... ok it was nice meeting uđŸƒâ€â™€ïžđŸƒâ€â™€ïž

    • @adrianpjagger
      @adrianpjagger Pƙed 4 lety +6

      Run forest run haha 😂

    • @cutehumor
      @cutehumor Pƙed 4 lety +4

      her husband is a stud. He is irresistible to women.

    • @saribrown7156
      @saribrown7156 Pƙed 3 lety +1

      Exactly! It is his fault for sure, but what kind of a woman marries a man with three kids who all have different mothers đŸ€” And then have MORE kids with him đŸ€ŠđŸ»â€â™€ïž

  • @kevinstevenson
    @kevinstevenson Pƙed 4 lety +161

    Dave Ramsey was too nice on the husband đŸ€šđŸ€šđŸ€š

    • @onlyu7308
      @onlyu7308 Pƙed 4 lety +13

      I think that it would have been different if the guy was on the phone.

    • @clarifyingquestions
      @clarifyingquestions Pƙed 4 lety +7

      what would flogging a dead horse accomplish - hopefully this man gets the help he needs.

    • @quackaddict9810
      @quackaddict9810 Pƙed 4 lety +2

      I wanted him to roast the guy

  • @sophiawish9772
    @sophiawish9772 Pƙed 3 lety +8

    There is work available every season of the year. He could also add services to the basic landscaping.

    • @sgc1401
      @sgc1401 Pƙed 3 měsĂ­ci +1

      Yep. Snow removal is what many landscapers do in winter. And tons of places hire extra workers in the fall before Christmas. UPS and FedEx being great examples of higher paying temporary jobs.

  • @Mr.Rogers91
    @Mr.Rogers91 Pƙed 3 lety +3

    My neighbor is in a similar position. Her husband doesn't work while she works for me full time and works another job full time. While her husband sits home drives a brand new BMW and he swears he will be getting workers comp any day now. I can hear the embarrassment in this callers voice just like I hear in my neighbors voice.

  • @schau0903
    @schau0903 Pƙed 4 lety +233

    Dave: Roll the husband down the hill like a snowball

    • @jblessed2983
      @jblessed2983 Pƙed rokem +1

      đŸ€ŁđŸ€ŁđŸ€ŁđŸ€Ł

    • @victoriamalik7640
      @victoriamalik7640 Pƙed 5 měsĂ­ci +1

      This 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @CycoPatPonfe
    @CycoPatPonfe Pƙed 4 lety +74

    For every problem there’s a solution!
    Problem : Married to his A$$
    Solution: Divorce His A$$
    BWAHAHAHA

  • @woohyukikkoku
    @woohyukikkoku Pƙed 3 lety +9

    God bless him for keeping a straight face when she told her situation... đŸ€­

  • @gardenofe12
    @gardenofe12 Pƙed 3 lety +1

    Didn’t she know her husband had 3 children with 3 different woman prior to marrying him ?!
    Doesn’t make sense to me unless he didn’t divulge this information to her ?!
    Is she that desperate to get married that she doesn’t care at that time only now to realize the magnitude of their marriage ?!

  • @rushopolis
    @rushopolis Pƙed 4 lety +168

    I guess delivering pizzas is out of the question for this guy.😂

    • @RandomUserName92840
      @RandomUserName92840 Pƙed 4 lety +24

      He's trying to have non reportable income to avoid child support.

    • @---cr8nw
      @---cr8nw Pƙed 4 lety +12

      I wouldn't risk sending him to knock on other women's doors. Never know when that next bill's going come due.

    • @nme.00104
      @nme.00104 Pƙed 4 lety

      @@RandomUserName92840 💯👌👍👏

    • @scotttracy9333
      @scotttracy9333 Pƙed 4 lety +6

      Yup, no license pretty much rules out delivering pizzas

    • @RK-ds3jk
      @RK-ds3jk Pƙed 4 lety +4

      Or drive uber or something, jesus christ

  • @petramontgomery2579
    @petramontgomery2579 Pƙed 4 lety +142

    Wow....just wow. Talk about being so desperate to marry someone only to end up with a total bum!

    • @blacknmild
      @blacknmild Pƙed 4 lety +2

      Exactly..

    • @Dr.C_Stag
      @Dr.C_Stag Pƙed 4 lety +5

      The thirst must have been real with her. đŸ€·đŸŒâ€â™‚ïž

    • @petramontgomery2579
      @petramontgomery2579 Pƙed 4 lety +15

      Seriously, what was she thinking? Making 2 kids with a loser who doesn’t take care of the 3 he already has!!!! And she thought this was a marriage/ father material!? What an irresponsible stupid woman! And the excuses she makes for him for not working.....this is astounding! I feel so sorry for the kids.

    • @misscaliluv1561
      @misscaliluv1561 Pƙed 4 lety +9

      @@petramontgomery2579 Right! I can't understand why women go out and have children with a man who has multiple baby mothers and he's not supporting the children he has already.

  • @hansvetter8653
    @hansvetter8653 Pƙed 5 měsĂ­ci +1

    It's amazing what people are accepting just to be not alone. After nearly 30 years of an unhappy marriage (4 kids) I requested a divorce (2017). Now I know that I was more alone during my unhappy marriage then today. I am finally free again. Every day is now my day! What a relief.

  • @Kevin-et6ng
    @Kevin-et6ng Pƙed 2 lety +2

    Imagine having two kids with a man who that is $58k in debt for not taking care of kids that he already had. What in her mind made her think he would take care of hers.

    • @GDuncan8002
      @GDuncan8002 Pƙed 5 měsĂ­ci

      He's a zero but she's not looking too bright either.

  • @quincg7546
    @quincg7546 Pƙed 4 lety +123

    idk man, i feel grateful to be single every time i listen to daves calls

    • @elizabethtimothy4776
      @elizabethtimothy4776 Pƙed 4 lety +3

      There's is never shame in being single, there's no need to even here all these alarming stories .

    • @alexc5369
      @alexc5369 Pƙed 4 lety +4

      Yeah I like watching David Attenborough docos about lions eating deers and then I feel grateful I'm not a deer

    • @roserevancroix2308
      @roserevancroix2308 Pƙed 5 měsĂ­ci

      ( ͥ° ͜ʖ ͥ°)

  • @buffymcmuffin5361
    @buffymcmuffin5361 Pƙed 4 lety +170

    She still chose to marry him.

    • @chingllac
      @chingllac Pƙed 4 lety +8

      Buffy McMuffin because she is stupid dumb af

    • @rayhill5767
      @rayhill5767 Pƙed 4 lety +3

      He’s a really great guy except he’s not

    • @EarlyBirdCraft
      @EarlyBirdCraft Pƙed 4 lety +3

      Exactly. The guy is the sailed ship. He was born a loser and will die as a loser. I’m not worried about him. My concern is her. She’s the problem in this whole chaos. How desperate and stupid can she be to marry a bottom feeder like him?đŸ€ŠđŸ»â€â™€ïž

    • @thiagocaproniny
      @thiagocaproniny Pƙed 3 lety +1

      Leila Adams My guess is that, since they have 2 children together, and she said they are both in school, so kids are grown. That means they have been married for a while. My guess is that when they got married he was working, and looked like a nice guy to get married to. Otherwise he would be a lot more than 58k in the hole for 3 children.

    • @whitneyw.7919
      @whitneyw.7919 Pƙed 3 lety +4

      @@thiagocaproniny Doesn't matter. Never marry someone with 3 kids from 3 separate people. Even 1 kid is a lot more trouble than most people bargain for. Can't even imagine 3 kids with 3 separate baby mamas

  • @lilyroza
    @lilyroza Pƙed 3 lety +4

    I am amazed that Dave actually had a good answer for this poor woman. I had no idea how to help her. I hope he is seeing his kids and calling them, at least! I wouldn't be surprised if he has a few more kids, but the moms haven't come forward because they know dad has no money. But maybe someday a few more juniors will show up at their door.
    I'd sure like to see an update on this one.

  • @michaelfjmusic
    @michaelfjmusic Pƙed 3 lety +6

    2:31 the look on Ramsey's face is freaking priceless!!!! đŸ˜‚đŸ˜‚đŸ˜‚â˜ ïž

  • @guerreravelez2458
    @guerreravelez2458 Pƙed 4 lety +134

    Lawd if another married woman scoffs at me for being single again I’ma 😂😂😂. đŸ€ŠđŸœâ€â™€ïž.

    • @Eveningbreeze721
      @Eveningbreeze721 Pƙed 4 lety +12

      Well this guy is not the norm. I assume most people know how to choose better.

    • @ladystacey3283
      @ladystacey3283 Pƙed 4 lety +3

      Angel Face right on girl👌

    • @juliusceasar8485
      @juliusceasar8485 Pƙed 4 lety +16

      Angel.....you live the life you wish ....dont let nobody make you feel imcomplete.....best wishes

    • @royalredus
      @royalredus Pƙed 4 lety +1

      I love that your avie photo is a giant wedding party 😆

  • @GavinCollins1963
    @GavinCollins1963 Pƙed 4 lety +121

    Missing from his character.....Birth Control.

    • @RandomUserName92840
      @RandomUserName92840 Pƙed 4 lety +7

      Even easier to not sleep with losers.

    • @luminous6969
      @luminous6969 Pƙed 4 lety +1

      Making better decisions about who to open your legs for is cheaper than birth control.

    • @kahea2018
      @kahea2018 Pƙed 4 lety

      đŸ€Ł

  • @michaellaffredo2473
    @michaellaffredo2473 Pƙed 8 měsĂ­ci +3

    This girl picked her a winner

  • @christina9725
    @christina9725 Pƙed 3 lety +3

    What he should be doing is working a 40 hour, 5 day a week work week. THEN, work on the landscaping job during the weekend. Once that is doing really well, then he can take less hours at work until he can do the landscaping full time.
    But, the problem is, he doesn't really want to do anything. He is using the landscaping business as a reason for why he can't work a normal job - because he doesn't want to work a job at all.

  • @GenExDividendInvestor
    @GenExDividendInvestor Pƙed 4 lety +64

    One mistake, ok. Two mistakes -- s happens. Three mistakes and I think you picked the wrong fella.

    • @elmateo77
      @elmateo77 Pƙed 4 lety

      @NurturingTalents Eh sometimes things just don't work out. If a relationship is bad enough sometimes it's not worth staying together for the kid, they won't be any better off for it. But if he has kids with 3 other women and her that's probably a problem.

  • @mariacarino5665
    @mariacarino5665 Pƙed 4 lety +46

    First step - vasectomy.

  • @markbrown6763
    @markbrown6763 Pƙed 3 lety +2

    Thank you Dave for getting to the heart of this call!

  • @jacobhinsey
    @jacobhinsey Pƙed 4 lety +3

    If the opening scene from the movie “Idiocracy” were a phone call then it would be this one