HOW TO DEAL WITH TODDLER TANTRUMS

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Komentáře • 240

  • @anniemonroe9285
    @anniemonroe9285 Před rokem +60

    1. Make sure that you're calm and regulated. Step away if you need to.
    2. Get low slow and quiet as you try to make a connection with your child. (Give them space if they need it and offer them a pillow to hit if they're getting physical),
    3. Empathize with your child and help them feel understood by talking about what you've seen and heard of them.
    4. Try to get close to your child and offer them a hug
    5. Once your child has calmed down (and not before) you can begin to tell them the story of what happened.
    6. If you need to talk about consequences of the tantrum, you can do this now that they've calmed down.

    • @bolinhong2598
      @bolinhong2598 Před 8 měsíci

      With the gradual using of dr Oyalo herbal recommendation for autism, whom I met on CZcams, my son is totally free from Autism with his speech cleared and social skills ok as he now respond to orders and act right. Thank you doc Oyalo for your help. I am Greatful

    • @Kuyaseth
      @Kuyaseth Před 3 měsíci

      I hate tantrum.

  • @VanettaMosetta
    @VanettaMosetta Před rokem +129

    For those of you watching this as parents of toddlers (no time for chit-chat), the useful video starts at 2:50

    • @PolvyStories
      @PolvyStories Před rokem +2

      Thank you.

    • @brittneym9686
      @brittneym9686 Před 11 měsíci +2

      Thank you

    • @Smilesbaylock8554
      @Smilesbaylock8554 Před 10 měsíci +3

      Get that woman a coffee!

    • @bolinhong2598
      @bolinhong2598 Před 8 měsíci

      With the gradual using of dr Oyalo herbal recommendation for autism, whom I met on CZcams, my son is totally free from Autism with his speech cleared and social skills ok as he now respond to orders and act right. Thank you doc Oyalo for your help. I am Greatful

  • @bluuprojectbaby9389
    @bluuprojectbaby9389 Před 2 lety +189

    im somewhat ashamed of watching these bc of my hispanic heritage. it’s always been known that we get hit and get yelled at (which is necessary if needed) but i want to learn different ways of dealing with my daughter when she’s having them

    • @violetmoon6233
      @violetmoon6233 Před 2 lety

      Bless you your amazing 🤍🕊️🌷

    • @LAYDEEYASMIN
      @LAYDEEYASMIN Před 2 lety +66

      GIRL BREAK THE GENERATIONAL CURSE! Im hispanic as well and our culture is so TOXIC in parenting! Let's be the change! It comes so hard for us because we are used to a different style!

    • @bluuprojectbaby9389
      @bluuprojectbaby9389 Před 2 lety +6

      @@LAYDEEYASMIN girl yes! i’m doing the best i can 😮‍💨

    • @lastseenontuesday6040
      @lastseenontuesday6040 Před 2 lety +13

      @@bluuprojectbaby9389 I'm black. African specifically. I've been witness to parents slapping their toddlers whenever they get tantrums. My parents decided to get a child in their late 40s and believe me when I say, I am not supportive for how they deal with my brother when he gets tantrums. They don't slap him, but they raise their voices at him. I'm watching this so that I can learn to deal with his tantrums too.

    • @bluuprojectbaby9389
      @bluuprojectbaby9389 Před 2 lety +6

      @@lastseenontuesday6040 yess my parents did that with my siblings and I and now that i have my own daughter i’m doing my best to help her with her tantrums ❤️‍🩹

  • @AddlesH
    @AddlesH Před 2 lety +72

    My daughter is really entering this…
    And I never know what’s wrong 😑 and I’m so triggered by it. I feel like I need a whole class in how to calm myself down when she starts

    • @cassiengoddard4510
      @cassiengoddard4510 Před rokem +2

      Did u ever find a way to calm yourself asking for myself I'm going through the same thing

    • @AddlesH
      @AddlesH Před rokem +12

      @@cassiengoddard4510 I don’t have a super sophisticated process and it can depend on the day but yeah… I pretty much think about how I feel when I’m crying about something important to me so I can relate to her and tap into some compassion first. Then I try to breathe with her, tap my chest and say we’re gonna breathe and count to 10. If she can’t focus and breathe (she usually doesnt) I ask her to please tell me or show me what she wants because I can’t understand her when she’s crying. If all of that doesn’t work, I just sit there and wait until she’s done, and tell her I’m here for her. Sometimes she’ll hug me after. Sometimes she’ll tell me to go away. It’s a lot.

    • @Delight422
      @Delight422 Před rokem +2

      Same here

    • @oyukat1320
      @oyukat1320 Před rokem +2

      Thats what I'm trying to train myself too. I can't stay calm everytime when she starts crying out of nowhere 😔 Trying to be calm most of the time, but not happening everytime. It is sometimes so stressful to have a toddler and being a pregnant. But this tips helped me a lot to keep in mind

    • @bolinhong2598
      @bolinhong2598 Před 8 měsíci

      With the gradual using of dr Oyalo herbal recommendation for autism, whom I met on CZcams, my son is totally free from Autism with his speech cleared and social skills ok as he now respond to orders and act right. Thank you doc Oyalo for your help. I am Greatful

  • @uzmaishaq7392
    @uzmaishaq7392 Před 2 lety +22

    Well now I dont feel so alone and over stressed . This is a very challenging phase in toddlers and parenting ,it takes a toll on us as parents. What works on one child does not necessarily also work for another, I think as parents we need to keep an open mind and try new strategies. Try try try.

    • @bolinhong2598
      @bolinhong2598 Před 8 měsíci

      With the gradual using of dr Oyalo herbal recommendation for autism, whom I met on CZcams, my son is totally free from Autism with his speech cleared and social skills ok as he now respond to orders and act right. Thank you doc Oyalo for your help. I am Greatful

  • @sowjanyagvs7780
    @sowjanyagvs7780 Před rokem +2

    Thanks a ton for helping so many first time moms

  • @nicholasjohnson6966
    @nicholasjohnson6966 Před 2 lety +4

    Wonderful insight. Thank you so much for you videos and knowledge!

  • @alyssahosbach4783
    @alyssahosbach4783 Před 3 lety +35

    Thank you for a practical way to deal with these insane tantrums. Three and a half is rocking my world. It's so hard!!

    • @PlayfulPathways
      @PlayfulPathways  Před 3 lety +4

      You are welcome. I hope it helps. It's such a hard time but as long as you can keep your cool it will pass eventually, I promise!

    • @zeyneppadilla9679
      @zeyneppadilla9679 Před 2 lety +1

      I would like to see a video of you modeling this please. Thank you!

    • @kinggirl6
      @kinggirl6 Před 2 lety +2

      I agree I have a 3 1/2 year old also.

    • @bolinhong2598
      @bolinhong2598 Před 8 měsíci

      With the gradual using of dr Oyalo herbal recommendation for autism, whom I met on CZcams, my son is totally free from Autism with his speech cleared and social skills ok as he now respond to orders and act right. Thank you doc Oyalo for your help. I am Greatful

  • @BonnieandTomLiotta
    @BonnieandTomLiotta Před rokem +2

    Thanks for sharing and know exactly how you feel about these issues. Felt the same way too. However, I found that after working with 1000’s of kids in a Martial Arts Licensed Daycare Center. We are all winning lotto tickets that showed up here in physical form and picked our trusted advisors (parents) to show us how the world works, not to be imprinted on how they want us to be. But to activate, train and develop our “I AM a Genius” Code (Thumb Print) with all missing life skills before leaving the nest so we can share our gifts with the world and live a successful life.
    Thank you for doing your part the best you can on this parenting journey.
    Here’s to your parenting success,
    Cheers!

    • @bolinhong2598
      @bolinhong2598 Před 8 měsíci

      With the gradual using of dr Oyalo herbal recommendation for autism, whom I met on CZcams, my son is totally free from Autism with his speech cleared and social skills ok as he now respond to orders and act right. Thank you doc Oyalo for your help. I am Greatful

  • @Sole650
    @Sole650 Před 2 lety +20

    I’m doing my best not to spank my son. Sometimes I think it’s the best solution since I was spanked and was raised like that, but I don’t wanna do that to my son. I realized my son was having a tantrum because he had a incoming rash on his stomach and on his butt. I felt terrible for yelling at him. It’s something I’m learning as a new father and trying to give him every attention and love he needs

    • @Whyisitthatway
      @Whyisitthatway Před 2 lety +2

      All you need to do is do your best and not physicly abuse your son. We all learn and this videos first part is really important: They arent doing it bc they want to be mean they do it bc their brains cant do anything else. Its difficult, i know. When my daughter screams and lays on the floor it makes me want to turn to the methods that my parents used.. But i know better! It has gotten better! Slowly shes starting to reconise her own emotions and shat causes them and has started to calm herself down before the big tantrum. We will get through this!

    • @bolinhong2598
      @bolinhong2598 Před 8 měsíci

      With the gradual using of dr Oyalo herbal recommendation for autism, whom I met on CZcams, my son is totally free from Autism with his speech cleared and social skills ok as he now respond to orders and act right. Thank you doc Oyalo for your help. I am Greatful

  • @shirley9166
    @shirley9166 Před 2 lety +18

    Thank you so much for this information!!!! My son is 3 and a half and OMG it is so frustrating how he is behaving. This was very informative!

    • @bolinhong2598
      @bolinhong2598 Před 8 měsíci

      With the gradual using of dr Oyalo herbal recommendation for autism, whom I met on CZcams, my son is totally free from Autism with his speech cleared and social skills ok as he now respond to orders and act right. Thank you doc Oyalo for your help. I am Greatful

  • @trinitywave
    @trinitywave Před rokem +1

    This is very helpful for so many reasons. You are brilliant. I wish we were taught this growing up on how to communicate with one another as humans too. I think that would have been a big help.

    • @bolinhong2598
      @bolinhong2598 Před 8 měsíci

      With the gradual using of dr Oyalo herbal recommendation for autism, whom I met on CZcams, my son is totally free from Autism with his speech cleared and social skills ok as he now respond to orders and act right. Thank you doc Oyalo for your help. I am Greatful

  • @crepesuzette7458
    @crepesuzette7458 Před rokem +1

    Your guidance is deeply appreciated. Thank you! God bless you always.

  • @licaleu5784
    @licaleu5784 Před 11 měsíci +2

    Thank you for the video. I work as a occupational therapist with kids and often enough i see parents who dont know how to help their kids. Now i myself understand the situation better and can help others ❤❤

    • @bolinhong2598
      @bolinhong2598 Před 8 měsíci

      With the gradual using of dr Oyalo herbal recommendation for autism, whom I met on CZcams, my son is totally free from Autism with his speech cleared and social skills ok as he now respond to orders and act right. Thank you doc Oyalo for your help. I am Greatful

  • @mstaurus5679
    @mstaurus5679 Před 2 lety +32

    My son is almost 15 months and I've never seen these type of tantrums ever, it's exhausting & overwhelming!

    • @guadalupeespinosa2288
      @guadalupeespinosa2288 Před rokem +2

      I’m there with you . It’s mentally exhausting . My son is about to be 2 . 😩

    • @Delight422
      @Delight422 Před rokem +3

      I thought it was just me my son is 11 months

    • @marymann6407
      @marymann6407 Před rokem +3

      My daughter is about to turn 3 but it's killing me .l even sometimes think its just this generation 🤣🤣

    • @mstaurus5679
      @mstaurus5679 Před rokem +2

      @@marymann6407 exactly & he's getting worse! Smh

    • @bolinhong2598
      @bolinhong2598 Před 8 měsíci

      With the gradual using of dr Oyalo herbal recommendation for autism, whom I met on CZcams, my son is totally free from Autism with his speech cleared and social skills ok as he now respond to orders and act right. Thank you doc Oyalo for your help. I am Greatful

  • @heatherlentz5872
    @heatherlentz5872 Před rokem

    Really really great stuff Aideen. Your insights and suggestions are so empowering for parents and also help them build positive relationships with their kids to boot.

    • @PlayfulPathways
      @PlayfulPathways  Před rokem

      Thanks Heather!

    • @bolinhong2598
      @bolinhong2598 Před 8 měsíci

      With the gradual using of dr Oyalo herbal recommendation for autism, whom I met on CZcams, my son is totally free from Autism with his speech cleared and social skills ok as he now respond to orders and act right. Thank you doc Oyalo for your help. I am Greatful

  • @MJBrown901
    @MJBrown901 Před rokem +14

    Less talk more real life action. This is easier said than done. Bring on a child and show how you work through things

    • @wabisabi87
      @wabisabi87 Před rokem +4

      Most of this does not seem realistic when a child is having a tantrum.

    • @bolinhong2598
      @bolinhong2598 Před 8 měsíci

      With the gradual using of dr Oyalo herbal recommendation for autism, whom I met on CZcams, my son is totally free from Autism with his speech cleared and social skills ok as he now respond to orders and act right. Thank you doc Oyalo for your help. I am Greatful

    • @dongxuemo4090
      @dongxuemo4090 Před 4 měsíci

      Yes I tried it and it didn't work. I'd like to see how this actually works in action

  • @karlagonzalezxo
    @karlagonzalezxo Před rokem

    Thank you for this! 🖤

  • @Goodvibesz222
    @Goodvibesz222 Před 2 lety +16

    Don't have a kid and also not pregnant, but I'm here because I am actually curious. I would probably panic especially during grocery store shopping😂

    • @Sashatruth58
      @Sashatruth58 Před 2 lety +1

      😂 dr visits are the worst because it be so quiet there and everyone just be looking lol Awkward

    • @violetmoon6233
      @violetmoon6233 Před 2 lety

      Lol my stepmother being blond and caucasion would just walk away at the store 😅I would left my siblings when I was a teen as we all looked similar . it was embarrassing that people stared . But they all grew to to be amazing humans .🤩

    • @bolinhong2598
      @bolinhong2598 Před 8 měsíci

      With the gradual using of dr Oyalo herbal recommendation for autism, whom I met on CZcams, my son is totally free from Autism with his speech cleared and social skills ok as he now respond to orders and act right. Thank you doc Oyalo for your help. I am Greatful

  • @antiangel13
    @antiangel13 Před rokem

    This is excellent advise and strategies I use with my childcare kids

  • @cattali
    @cattali Před 2 lety +3

    this is very helpful 💙💙

  • @ayaxoxox
    @ayaxoxox Před rokem +2

    Thank you for the info, I do really need this at the moment. My 6 year old son having a tantrum almost everyday especially in the morning . It's really emotional tiring for me.

    • @bolinhong2598
      @bolinhong2598 Před 8 měsíci

      With the gradual using of dr Oyalo herbal recommendation for autism, whom I met on CZcams, my son is totally free from Autism with his speech cleared and social skills ok as he now respond to orders and act right. Thank you doc Oyalo for your help. I am Greatful

  • @AnnGrande18
    @AnnGrande18 Před rokem +1

    Thank you so much! Such a big help.. my son was 2 yrs old and having all this issues

  • @anantwashere
    @anantwashere Před rokem

    Thank you so much. This was very informative.

  • @andrefromrome6414
    @andrefromrome6414 Před rokem

    Thank you. It was really helpful!

  • @TheYungPrince
    @TheYungPrince Před rokem +6

    With my godson I just leave the room and let him cry it out, I check on him every one minute. I don’t know why he gets aggressive at times but I tell him “Stop you know better” he looks at me mad and starts to throw his head into something and at that point I just look at him like you’re hurting yourself he actually realizes it and simmers down. Being quiet and letting him go through it seems to be the best option for me

    • @bolinhong2598
      @bolinhong2598 Před 8 měsíci

      With the gradual using of dr Oyalo herbal recommendation for autism, whom I met on CZcams, my son is totally free from Autism with his speech cleared and social skills ok as he now respond to orders and act right. Thank you doc Oyalo for your help. I am Greatful

  • @TheHouseofStallion
    @TheHouseofStallion Před 2 lety +2

    Everyone should watch this, thank you for such a good video. Love.

  • @chelseasanchezmartinez3246
    @chelseasanchezmartinez3246 Před 2 lety +32

    I have a 2 year old and he often gets overwhelmed when its time to transition from playing with his toys to something that I want him to do.
    Doing anything outside when he gets upset calms him down like a charm.
    If that fails, drinking milk or water or even a snack calms him before the big tantrum.
    Hope this helps other new moms! Sure wish there was a step by step for new moms like me 😅

    • @bolinhong2598
      @bolinhong2598 Před 8 měsíci

      With the gradual using of dr Oyalo herbal recommendation for autism, whom I met on CZcams, my son is totally free from Autism with his speech cleared and social skills ok as he now respond to orders and act right. Thank you doc Oyalo for your help. I am Greatful

    • @claimant9423
      @claimant9423 Před 6 měsíci +1

      Why would a loving mom or dad EVER give their kid pus and blo*d filled milk?
      What kind of snacks are you giving? Hopefully nongmo organic food... no poison for the kiddos, right?

    • @marloesk9753
      @marloesk9753 Před 6 měsíci

      I don’t think regulation with food is a nice foundation, very easy to resort to and have a messed up relationship, sometimes the need it and the tantrum was about being hungry or whatever but not all the time probably

  • @yenxion6516
    @yenxion6516 Před 2 lety +15

    😩 it so emotional exhausting.

    • @vanessa386
      @vanessa386 Před 2 lety +9

      I agree I've cried my eyes out because I'm like what am I doing wrong

    • @ajd6212
      @ajd6212 Před 2 lety +1

      @@vanessa386 same situation right now

    • @tami.lima.
      @tami.lima. Před 2 lety +1

      Totally. I’m about to lose my mind, so is my husband.

  • @sharifahnawalal-habshie7323

    Very helpful 👍

  • @tikab7051
    @tikab7051 Před 10 měsíci +4

    This seems like a lot of words to say to a toddler. There’s a lot of detailed explaining that I’m confused on how much my toddler understands verbally. Also mine has tantrums in the car I can’t pull over and have this long conversation

    • @bolinhong2598
      @bolinhong2598 Před 8 měsíci

      With the gradual using of dr Oyalo herbal recommendation for autism, whom I met on CZcams, my son is totally free from Autism with his speech cleared and social skills ok as he now respond to orders and act right. Thank you doc Oyalo for your help. I am Greatful

  • @jasmine7123
    @jasmine7123 Před 2 lety +23

    My daughter is 5 and still dealing with tantrums :-(. Trying to find a play therapist to help us get through her feelings.

    • @bolinhong2598
      @bolinhong2598 Před 8 měsíci

      With the gradual using of dr Oyalo herbal recommendation for autism, whom I met on CZcams, my son is totally free from Autism with his speech cleared and social skills ok as he now respond to orders and act right. Thank you doc Oyalo for your help. I am Greatful

  • @laciegarraway57
    @laciegarraway57 Před 21 dnem

    I'm a 3rd time mum and still learning ... every child is different my last is the most challenging bit thank you for this. literally just did it and he calmed down straight away.. so writing this as I have just tried it ❤

  • @misahua9197
    @misahua9197 Před rokem +1

    I'm so happy I learned this before my son was here. He's 18 months now he is learning and tantruming but I feel super great being able to regulate him and teach him deep breaths he tantrums tend to last a minute or two. He seeks for a hug from mama or dada then he's good 👍

    • @bolinhong2598
      @bolinhong2598 Před 8 měsíci

      With the gradual using of dr Oyalo herbal recommendation for autism, whom I met on CZcams, my son is totally free from Autism with his speech cleared and social skills ok as he now respond to orders and act right. Thank you doc Oyalo for your help. I am Greatful

    • @yuliamarynik
      @yuliamarynik Před měsícem

      Wait until 3-3.5 years old. That's when sh*t hits the fan! 😂 18 months old tantrums are nothing compared to those

  • @jessf3495
    @jessf3495 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Nice tips, but for a single mom with no, you can't walk away and leave a toddler unattended! Hard to do.

  • @y7l424
    @y7l424 Před 2 lety +23

    My 18 mo old throws the wildest tantrums and isn’t even 2 yet Lord help us!

    • @moonfighter4872
      @moonfighter4872 Před 2 lety +6

      SAME LOL. Same age and we started throwing horrifically huge tantrums a few days ago. 😱 Full out shrieking, biting, hitting etc. Haha.

    • @bluemoongoddess2370
      @bluemoongoddess2370 Před 2 lety +4

      My 18 month old grandson does the same

    • @amandagoble2573
      @amandagoble2573 Před rokem

      17 month old grandson... Same way

    • @bolinhong2598
      @bolinhong2598 Před 8 měsíci

      With the gradual using of dr Oyalo herbal recommendation for autism, whom I met on CZcams, my son is totally free from Autism with his speech cleared and social skills ok as he now respond to orders and act right. Thank you doc Oyalo for your help. I am Greatful

    • @Lawnandgarden
      @Lawnandgarden Před 4 měsíci

      Same

  • @discorabbit
    @discorabbit Před 2 lety +5

    What if they have little or no language, 2 years and 3 months

  • @streetcat1710
    @streetcat1710 Před 2 měsíci

    Thank you

  • @TheYungPrince
    @TheYungPrince Před rokem +6

    As a baby I barely ever cried and never had a tantrum but sheesh these babies are different🤣

    • @PEMDASbaby
      @PEMDASbaby Před rokem

      My son only had one when I started the bath as it was his job then

    • @yuliamarynik
      @yuliamarynik Před měsícem

      Yeah right! 😂 And you remember everything that you did from the day you were born? 😂😀

  • @healthyfoodie2826
    @healthyfoodie2826 Před 2 lety

    Oh its a life saver

  • @bluemoongoddess2370
    @bluemoongoddess2370 Před 2 lety +4

    My 18 month old is easily stimulated and is now being physically abusive to others

    • @bolinhong2598
      @bolinhong2598 Před 8 měsíci

      There is permanent herbs to improve autism. It’s a medicine you can get from Dr Oyalo CZcams channel, his herbs have made my son improve perfectly in his speech and social skills. He is now verbal, responding to name and instructions

  • @hienienguyen6766
    @hienienguyen6766 Před rokem +3

    Being a mom to a toolder is a lot to deal with

  • @ivanaveselikova6188
    @ivanaveselikova6188 Před 4 měsíci +2

    Thank you for the suggeestions. But how do you deal with a 37 years old "toddler" throwing tentrums, falling on the floor and screaming like a little one? My daughter-in-law is like that.

    • @LilAnonymiss
      @LilAnonymiss Před 4 měsíci

      In the exact same way

    • @nelsondigital4664
      @nelsondigital4664 Před měsícem

      Lol

    • @yuliamarynik
      @yuliamarynik Před měsícem

      You don't deal with that at all. Adults are not children. It is also not your child to worry about. You just remove yourself from the situation. If your son chose that woman, that is his wish and he will deal with it himself. It's not your place to even talk about it, it's their relationship and their family.

  • @febbiecomeros4262
    @febbiecomeros4262 Před rokem

    Can I say ,THANKYOU MAAM ❤ for doing a kind of this Video ,
    Hi ,I am a first time Mom from Philippines 🇵🇭 and I hardly experiencing this kind of tantrum that my 2 year old Son Going through And Everytime We were dealing this kind ,i feel terrible because it comes one time that i going to spank him and ahouting out to him ,and everytime i've done this to my Son i regret and cry 😭😭😭 Becos Ilove my baby but i dont know myself sometime if this will happen everytime i honestly trying my best not to shout to my baby ,but sometimes i can't say to my self to cool down 😭😭 and this give me sick ,stress and anxiety 😞😭😭😭😭😭

    • @bolinhong2598
      @bolinhong2598 Před 8 měsíci

      There is permanent herbs to improve autism. It’s a medicine you can get from Dr Oyalo CZcams channel, his herbs have made my son improve perfectly in his speech and social skills. He is now verbal, responding to name and instructions

  • @shameenaanjukandan9074
    @shameenaanjukandan9074 Před 2 lety +7

    Hi. I am from kerala. My 3 year old baby was very emotional. I can't manage it and my relatives are punish and blame for his tantrums. This situation is very irritating me and my husband. Can you help to overcome it

    • @bolinhong2598
      @bolinhong2598 Před 8 měsíci

      There is permanent herbs to improve autism. It’s a medicine you can get from Dr Oyalo CZcams channel, his herbs have made my son improve perfectly in his speech and social skills. He is now verbal, responding to name and instructions

  • @jenniferreynolds1537
    @jenniferreynolds1537 Před rokem +3

    What about trying to redirect their attention? Like my 1 yr old had a meltdown after she tried putting a rock in her mouth and I took it away. The only thing that seemed to get her to calm down was my husband redirecting her attention by running around with her, which made her laugh. Is this approach ok to stop a tantrum?

    • @bolinhong2598
      @bolinhong2598 Před 8 měsíci

      With the gradual using of dr Oyalo herbal recommendation for autism, whom I met on CZcams, my son is totally free from Autism with his speech cleared and social skills ok as he now respond to orders and act right. Thank you doc Oyalo for your help. I am Greatful

  • @meghanharper9875
    @meghanharper9875 Před rokem +3

    How do you talk and say these long sentences to a 2 year old when you go over it afterwards? Or is that for an older child??

    • @bolinhong2598
      @bolinhong2598 Před 8 měsíci

      There is permanent herbs to improve autism. It’s a medicine you can get from Dr Oyalo CZcams channel, his herbs have made my son improve perfectly in his speech and social skills. He is now verbal, responding to name and instructions

  • @kllepokgvfcdxds6412
    @kllepokgvfcdxds6412 Před 2 lety +5

    Can tantrums be early signs of autism?..I have 14m son and he easily get frustrated about small things that don't go his way.

    • @mytran6936
      @mytran6936 Před 2 lety +1

      Did tou have him checked out? I heard high functioning kids could be difficult to deal with

    • @TheYungPrince
      @TheYungPrince Před rokem

      My godson has autism and throws petty fits 😂 what i do is leave the room for a bit and let him cry til he stops and cocomelon works too

    • @bolinhong2598
      @bolinhong2598 Před 8 měsíci

      There is permanent herbs to improve autism. It’s a medicine you can get from Dr Oyalo CZcams channel, his herbs have made my son improve perfectly in his speech and social skills. He is now verbal, responding to name and instructions

  • @janetelizabethh
    @janetelizabethh Před měsícem

    What do I do when my toddler screams over me during my attempts at all these steps ? I try to wait and give space but sometimes that results in him hurting himself. Also the last step sometimes triggers him back into the tantrum

  • @jasszc
    @jasszc Před rokem

    I need help. My sister-in-law has a daughter she's almost three and she just cries all the time. She can understand already for her age. She knows if something irritates her she will cry the hell out and I'm done. Not my child not my responsibility and obligation. But I'm so fed up of hearing her cry it's exhausting me and it keeps me from getting a good sleep. I already talked to my husband to talk to his sister about this because I really can't. We are all for child development but what about my mental health? This is affecting me already.

    • @bolinhong2598
      @bolinhong2598 Před 8 měsíci

      There is permanent herbs to improve autism. It’s a medicine you can get from Dr Oyalo CZcams channel, his herbs have made my son improve perfectly in his speech and social skills. He is now verbal, responding to name and instructions

  • @devonseamoor
    @devonseamoor Před 2 lety +3

    It's funny, in a grim sort of way, that nowadays, we seem to have a need of so called experts, on CZcams telling us how to handle our children. In earlier times, not so long ago, grandfathers, fathers and mothers with the presence of uncles, aunts, neighbours and friends, communicated their experiences, helping each other. Besides, relatives and neighbours used to take care of difficult moments when parents were losing it with their toddler, almost. It's actually the parents' state of emotional balance that is at the core of handling their kid's tantrums, using common sense and patience. Mindfulness as well.

    • @PlayfulPathways
      @PlayfulPathways  Před 2 lety +6

      Thanks for your comment Devon. I agree, parenting these days is different for many people than is was in generations past. It can be very lonely, exhausing and overwhelming if you don't have the benefit of an extended family or community to support you. I think it's great that people have a range of options for seeking support and finding new ways of handling situations when they feel that they aren't parenting they way that they would like to, or when they feel they want to do things differently from how they were raised. Parenting is hard work! I do not profess to be an expert, but I do like to share what I've learned from my studies and experience, in the hope that it can help others.

    • @devonseamoor
      @devonseamoor Před 2 lety

      @@PlayfulPathways Please, you don't have to defend yourself and your work. My comment isn't directed at you, it's the phenomenon of this present time, that internet creates more than ever a tendency to grasp for solutions, answers, and advice from the outside in, while the inside is the DIY reservoir for self-reliance, and authentic personal solutions. Besides, it breeds resilience and confidence, in an inner foundation, an embodiment.
      Nowadays, parents' confidence is paper-thin, easy to tear apart by a comment or opinion that is different than their own. Thinking for oneself is out of fashion often. I'm an experienced nanny, and I've observed this trend.

    • @mandyweberding7584
      @mandyweberding7584 Před rokem +3

      I totally agree with you. As a sahm of a deaf toddler true support systems change everything. And in today's society other adults just stand back and judge your parenting if a child is struggling.

    • @bolinhong2598
      @bolinhong2598 Před 8 měsíci

      With the gradual using of dr Oyalo herbal recommendation for autism, whom I met on CZcams, my son is totally free from Autism with his speech cleared and social skills ok as he now respond to orders and act right. Thank you doc Oyalo for your help. I am Greatful

  • @dongxuemo4090
    @dongxuemo4090 Před 4 měsíci

    I tried it and it didn't work . My son is 14 months old and can't communicate yet so it's hard to reason with him

  • @ozzyd2754
    @ozzyd2754 Před rokem +1

    Kid's are today nothing makes them happy because they have everything!

  • @rosyapplekitchen635
    @rosyapplekitchen635 Před 2 lety +5

    Damned if you do damned if you don’t with my little diva

    • @deniseelizabeth6761
      @deniseelizabeth6761 Před 2 lety +1

      I feel your pain mine too, I thought I was patient… now i don’t know

  • @edifysalim5359
    @edifysalim5359 Před 7 měsíci

    My 2 years old 8 month son in his random mood could deliberately not eating or eat less than he should so that my wife would be angry then he proceed to throwing his tantrum crying out loud. Usually after that my wife would give him a hug and sympathy which is my son/s goal all along. So to deal with this? and this is just one of many example

    • @PlayfulPathways
      @PlayfulPathways  Před 7 měsíci

      Thanks for your comment. Dealing with toddler tantrums can be very frustrating and exhausing, but it's important to remember that at 2yrs 8months your child does not yet have the ability to manipulate or understand long term consequences/responses. Offering comfort and sympathy to a child who is upset or distressed is the best way to get them back to a regulated state and help them learn to understand and cope with their feelings. You don't have to change your limit, rule or expectation, and in fact it doesn't help your child learn to cope with disappointment/ frustration if you change the boundary because they are struggling to accept it. You can maintain the expectation AND offer them comfort - this is the way to support children to learn to self-regulate.

  • @hyacinthmusic1595
    @hyacinthmusic1595 Před 2 dny

    Is it normal that most of non breastfed kids got these tantrums? Coz my two kids who are breastfed and born normal delivery doesnt have tantrums at all only my one child who's bottle fed 😔 so maybe it is true that breastmilk is the best.

  • @bellahernandez7687
    @bellahernandez7687 Před 2 lety +5

    2:43
    Your welcome.

  • @nikankan639
    @nikankan639 Před 2 lety +4

    Easier said than done

    • @Whyisitthatway
      @Whyisitthatway Před 2 lety +2

      Yes, but we all learn, make mistakes and grow! Its hard but you can get it done and become quite a master at it

  • @lovelypandamom
    @lovelypandamom Před 7 měsíci

    How do you speak to them if they're screaming so loud nobody can hear anything?

    • @PlayfulPathways
      @PlayfulPathways  Před 7 měsíci +1

      Thanks for the question. Tbh, if a child is screaming so loudly that they can't hear you, then they are unlikely to be in a condition to understand what you are saying. The best thing to do is to make sure that you are calm and regulated (modelling deep breathing can help you both), sit with them (if you can) and offer comforting gestures or sounds (think low, slow and quiet) until they have started to calm down, then you can start to use words to connect with them. Leave all the more demanding talking stuff until they are fully calm and back in their thinking mind.

  • @starrsteele1340
    @starrsteele1340 Před 6 měsíci

    My almost 4 year old grandson when he's having tantrums would say to his mother "I want to kill you " what's that all about? It breaks my heart 😢she's really good at handling herself and him..I don't hear what she'll say to him when he sees that cuz I run away with the 2 year old when older brother is about to throw a fit

    • @yuliamarynik
      @yuliamarynik Před měsícem

      Most likely the mom said it to the child before, it could have been even said as a joke to another adult: "When he is throwing tantrums, I feel like I want to k*ll that child". Children don't understand jokes and they don't understand sarcasm, they will take everything literally and then repeat it back to adults in a different situation.

  • @PAPAof5
    @PAPAof5 Před 2 lety +3

    If they get triangles and they throw a fit I’d take a bite out of the sandwich and tell them to eat their food or someone else will.
    We’ve got 4 kids and my goal is to prepare them for adult life.

    • @jamesduhring4746
      @jamesduhring4746 Před rokem

      Dad's rock. We need you to show tough love sometimes to balance the woman's overindulgence. We can't help overindulging...Something about birthing ties us to our children.

    • @bolinhong2598
      @bolinhong2598 Před 8 měsíci

      There is permanent herbs to improve autism. It’s a medicine you can get from Dr Oyalo CZcams channel, his herbs have made my son improve perfectly in his speech and social skills. He is now verbal, responding to name and instructions

  • @herlife6771
    @herlife6771 Před měsícem

    Am just over this life am done am tired am done with this life am done completely and wanna die seriously and just praying for it ! My child doesnt sleep when asked to sleep and all tht i say she doesnt listen much she is completely an irritating stuff for me and when she runs behing her dad tht is the worst moment ! I never knew life is soo tough with kids once wished to have kids i know think what did i ask for ! I hardly get time to sit with my husband 😂and good tht i have i never have this habbit

  • @leemtz2034
    @leemtz2034 Před 2 měsíci

    What if head banging?

  • @Super33Saiyan
    @Super33Saiyan Před rokem +3

    I feel so out of place here as I'm a man and also not a dad but an uncle who due to certain painful circonstances had my niece grow up in my arms.
    She is a lovely 3 and half years old but is hyperactive. And it's so hard to make her follow rules or maybe I'm not good at it...

    • @bolinhong2598
      @bolinhong2598 Před 8 měsíci

      There is permanent herbs to improve autism. It’s a medicine you can get from Dr Oyalo CZcams channel, his herbs have made my son improve perfectly in his speech and social skills. He is now verbal, responding to name and instructions

  • @tleeproductions1773
    @tleeproductions1773 Před 6 měsíci

    "A completely disregulated and emotionally overloaded animal"

  • @Ghostfazekillz
    @Ghostfazekillz Před 2 lety +11

    My two year old has one of the wildest tantrums. He sometimes wakes up from sleeping with a tantrum like as if he didn't rest well enough it becomes an issue because he has no way to communicate on what's bothering him and it puts me on emotional distress.
    He also gets very emotional with his desires making him bipolar especially since he has the least amount of patience.

    • @mareynacua1424
      @mareynacua1424 Před 2 lety

      Same here hayssst

    • @chelseasanchezmartinez3246
      @chelseasanchezmartinez3246 Před 2 lety +1

      Usually if my kiddo is crying after a nap thats his way of telling me he needs more sleep.
      Now if this is a morning where we need to go at a certain time, rocking him and giving him his water bottle might work. But usually i just have to accept the attitude he gives 🥲🥲🥲

    • @bolinhong2598
      @bolinhong2598 Před 8 měsíci

      With the gradual using of dr Oyalo herbal recommendation for autism, whom I met on CZcams, my son is totally free from Autism with his speech cleared and social skills ok as he now respond to orders and act right. Thank you doc Oyalo for your help. I am Greatful

  • @theasthmacures2292
    @theasthmacures2292 Před 2 lety +1

    Please HELP 22 month old, crying crazy violent and has disturbed sleep at bedtime, plus bath time after 10 minutes he freaks out to get out of tub, my son itches alot do you think its worms yes he itches in genital area, neck alot, his chest and kidney area. What tests need to be performed to make sure its not worms. My son will be 2 years old in 2 months, he wakes up crying violently and he loses his breathe its ok violent of crying and its scary please help.

    • @dababy7256
      @dababy7256 Před 2 lety

      Take him to the doctor dumbass you don't need to be a genius to figure that out.

    • @LAYDEEYASMIN
      @LAYDEEYASMIN Před 2 lety +3

      Take him to doctor to get checked!

    • @Whyisitthatway
      @Whyisitthatway Před 2 lety +1

      How is he?

    • @bolinhong2598
      @bolinhong2598 Před 8 měsíci

      There is permanent herbs to improve autism. It’s a medicine you can get from Dr Oyalo CZcams channel, his herbs have made my son improve perfectly in his speech and social skills. He is now verbal, responding to name and instructions

  • @user-my1ie3wn9l
    @user-my1ie3wn9l Před 2 lety +1

    I’m nut so I search for this...

  • @kevinschindele4829
    @kevinschindele4829 Před rokem +1

    My daughter just started school and every night before bed she freaks out and wants to go to her grandma's house she does this every 20 mins. I hate feeling like the bad guy when i yell at her because she's only 4 but I don't know how else to handle it. I let her cry and tell her no you cant go to grandma's house and stay you have school now and she cries and cries until she's gonna throw up. It makes me and her mother feel horrible and it feels like she doesn't even wanna be around us and views us as bad guys because we won't give her every thing she wants . It's stressful it's it's the point where it's abserious attachment issue that needs to be addressed

    • @salandersalgado4038
      @salandersalgado4038 Před rokem +1

      This is abuse.

    • @kevinschindele4829
      @kevinschindele4829 Před rokem

      @@salandersalgado4038 haha you don't know jack shit. Mind your business.

    • @bolinhong2598
      @bolinhong2598 Před 8 měsíci

      There is permanent herbs to improve autism. It’s a medicine you can get from Dr Oyalo CZcams channel, his herbs have made my son improve perfectly in his speech and social skills. He is now verbal, responding to name and instructions

  • @saschamayer4050
    @saschamayer4050 Před 2 lety

    Ok

  • @CJ-xr5hq
    @CJ-xr5hq Před 2 měsíci

    My 16mo daughter has mini tantrums and throws herself around into the couch haha😂 its actually really cute and funny the way she does it (i never let her see me smiling or chuckling about it) .. But its still a tantrum and i just squat down on the floor and she eventually runs to me and throws her arms around my neck, i give her lots of kisses and it ends pretty quickly, as for now at this age.

  • @d011p4rtz
    @d011p4rtz Před 2 měsíci

    when your child is way passed 2 and still cant regulate their emotions🥲

  • @bellamia9580
    @bellamia9580 Před rokem +1

    Let them tantrum themselves to sleep.....

  • @henrydamiani1507
    @henrydamiani1507 Před 5 měsíci

    People need to go to a dog training class... 😊

  • @rileyscott5827
    @rileyscott5827 Před 2 lety +3

    What about when they pick up a bad behavior? Such as playful biting or spraying spit, even after you've told them not to...and they do it immediately afterwards and follow it up with a giggle?

    • @parentingbeyondbehaviours6382
      @parentingbeyondbehaviours6382 Před 2 lety +1

      Pay attention to your reaction when they do that. Sometime they do certain behaviour looking for attention, doesn’t matter if it’s a good or bad reaction.

    • @bolinhong2598
      @bolinhong2598 Před 8 měsíci

      There is permanent herbs to improve autism. It’s a medicine you can get from Dr Oyalo CZcams channel, his herbs have made my son improve perfectly in his speech and social skills. He is now verbal, responding to name and instructions

  • @bluemoongoddess2370
    @bluemoongoddess2370 Před 2 lety +5

    How can an 18 month old understand a conversation

    • @kennyputri3202
      @kennyputri3202 Před 2 lety +4

      They actually smart enough to understand. Yes you need just to tell them more than once, but they do get it.

    • @parentingbeyondbehaviours6382
      @parentingbeyondbehaviours6382 Před 2 lety

      Everything is cause and effect. So just pay attention to your response to their behaviour. Change the effect to the cause 😜

    • @bluemoongoddess2370
      @bluemoongoddess2370 Před 2 lety

      @@kennyputri3202 yes indeed.

    • @bolinhong2598
      @bolinhong2598 Před 8 měsíci

      There is permanent herbs to improve autism. It’s a medicine you can get from Dr Oyalo CZcams channel, his herbs have made my son improve perfectly in his speech and social skills. He is now verbal, responding to name and instructions

  • @Jag4MEH
    @Jag4MEH Před 8 měsíci

    Why do 10 year old have tantrums

  • @danstephensen9032
    @danstephensen9032 Před 2 lety +7

    I had a kid who would GO OFF sometimes in uncontrollable Rage!! I found that a large container of ICE WATER 💧 would cool him right off!!
    (raised 4 boys, 3 girls) (then 3 grandkids for FIVE years) Those 3 are back with Mom now, doing nicely. Cheers 🥰

    • @saschamayer4050
      @saschamayer4050 Před 2 lety +1

      Hahaha, ice water! 😄😅
      ...
      Really? 🤔

    • @alejandrab7041
      @alejandrab7041 Před 2 lety

      Hi, but how do you use the tank?

    • @torreycat7716
      @torreycat7716 Před 2 lety +2

      You dunked him in ice water? Did you pour it over his head? Did you throw it at his body? How old is he now? Is he a good human now?

    • @danstephensen9032
      @danstephensen9032 Před 2 lety +1

      @@torreycat7716 Thx for your concern. All of my children are very accomplished in their fields and love God and Jesus Christ. Peace

    • @BabyMango
      @BabyMango Před 2 lety +9

      Horrible lol. Imagine that whenever u had emotions someone poured water on you. Ice water doesn’t teach self regulation. It doesn’t teach them to distinguish their emotions. It shows that their dad is lazy and doesn’t wanna do the work with the child and help them through it

  • @toshtosh9297
    @toshtosh9297 Před měsícem

    Is this a man thing or am I the only one who feels like I'm not going to be doing this???? Real question

  • @kyledeitz2760
    @kyledeitz2760 Před 5 měsíci

    How the Dads feeling on here?

    • @abelramirez7320
      @abelramirez7320 Před 11 dny

      Really lost because my dad used to whoop the ever loving mess out of me. Different times.

  • @TAXFREETV1993
    @TAXFREETV1993 Před rokem +1

    I've always learned that people who appear to be a "perfect" parent are the exact opposite .... you sound like u trying to be a friend instead of a parent

    • @bolinhong2598
      @bolinhong2598 Před 8 měsíci

      There is permanent herbs to improve autism. It’s a medicine you can get from Dr Oyalo CZcams channel, his herbs have made my son improve perfectly in his speech and social skills. He is now verbal, responding to name and instructions

  • @jigpy1482
    @jigpy1482 Před rokem +1

    My parents are shit at discipline they're mexican so their way of discipline was shouting their fucking lungs out or beating. They stopped disciplining the younger kids and now they are out of control I am combing home to see my family for a month and I am trying to finds ways on how to help them, because i feel like my mom gave up on raising them. I feel that she thinks that taking care off kids is just cleaning after them and feeding them but that's not it. They need to be thought rights and wrongs and teach them sympathy. And also not be such slobs. I feel like I'm stuck because I don't know what to do.

    • @bolinhong2598
      @bolinhong2598 Před 8 měsíci

      There is permanent herbs to improve autism. It’s a medicine you can get from Dr Oyalo CZcams channel, his herbs have made my son improve perfectly in his speech and social skills. He is now verbal, responding to name and instructions

  • @annazraf
    @annazraf Před rokem

    I lost control and yelled at my daughter (3 yo). I feel disgusted by myself.. I will do better. I just feel like crap and can’t sleep..

    • @bolinhong2598
      @bolinhong2598 Před 8 měsíci

      There is permanent herbs to improve autism. It’s a medicine you can get from Dr Oyalo CZcams channel, his herbs have made my son improve perfectly in his speech and social skills. He is now verbal, responding to name and instructions

  • @AK-ui1zl
    @AK-ui1zl Před rokem +1

    Spankings need to be legal. Kids need discipline same as adults. But because they are provided for there are no consequences that will instill good behavior. One good spanking will curb 90 percent of future misbehavior. There were no school shooters in the days of spankings I can verify that.

    • @bolinhong2598
      @bolinhong2598 Před 8 měsíci

      There is permanent herbs to improve autism. It’s a medicine you can get from Dr Oyalo CZcams channel, his herbs have made my son improve perfectly in his speech and social skills. He is now verbal, responding to name and instructions

  • @davidburden2360
    @davidburden2360 Před rokem +4

    dont take any shit for one

  • @tangbein
    @tangbein Před 2 lety +1

    Maybe this is how one should handle Putin?

  • @alonbinyamin
    @alonbinyamin Před 5 měsíci

    God... children are so not worth it..

  • @Adrian_Estando
    @Adrian_Estando Před 9 měsíci

    Hearing you speak while seeing your mouth closed because the video is not in sync is incredibly annoying.

  • @rainalove_450
    @rainalove_450 Před rokem +2

    My daughter throws one when I tell her no she kicks screams , flip over things I get so frustrated she only 2 🥹

    • @sanjidaislam1396
      @sanjidaislam1396 Před rokem +1

      Dont say no,dont,stop. Rather say what is expected and coregulate