Video není dostupné.
Omlouváme se.

Black Men Who Don't Date Interracially - A Discussion |

Sdílet
Vložit
  • čas přidán 19. 03. 2023
  • K-OS Project was a joint venture between Kalyd Dessalines and Brother Snow, who created the website a few years ago to spread "Knowledge of Self" (K.O.S). Shared with permission.
    -----
    Reelblack TWO, is our backup CZcams Channel that carries New Original content plus Classics from The Reelblack Vault that will be monetized. We ask that you subscribe there. / reelblacktwo
    Please buy Reelblack merchandise, make a donation through PayPal or by join our Patreon so that we can have the resources necessary to keep the channel growing.
    Please join our mailing list by sending an email to reelblackinc@live.com and follow us on social media @reelblack so that you can stay informed of future projects created outside of this platform.
    Merch: reelblack-shop...
    Donate via CashApp $Reelblack or PayPal.me/Reelblack
    Support us monthly via www.patreon.com/Reelblack
    Twitter TikTok and Instagram @Reelblack
    Shared for historical purposes. I do not own the rights.
    #####
    Reelblack's mission is to educate, entertain enlighten, and empower through film. If there is content shared on this platform that you feel infringes on your intellectual property, please email me at Reelblack@mail.com and info@reelblack.com with details and it will be promptly removed.

Komentáře • 1,9K

  • @kardon4996
    @kardon4996 Před rokem +457

    The only human being who understands black man's struggle is a black woman !!!
    This is fact!!!

    • @citizencoy4393
      @citizencoy4393 Před rokem +34

      I wrote a poem for bm online some years ago about seeing them beyond seeing them! A yt woman stole the poem and presented it as her own! I called her out for it but our ppl were already on it they knew she stole it based solely on the relation in the poem. No woman can relate to a blk man in that manner but a blk woman!

    • @mansamusa9465
      @mansamusa9465 Před rokem +8

      @@citizencoy4393 💯

    • @dansmodacct
      @dansmodacct Před rokem +12

      @@citizencoy4393 damn they think they're SLICK. SMH

    • @Heyu7her3
      @Heyu7her3 Před rokem +23

      Sadly, Black men do not reciprocate the same level of understanding.

    • @natillefoxy9881
      @natillefoxy9881 Před rokem +6

      And that has to STOP 🛑, black women are out here neglecting themselves mentally, because she busy loving every body but herself.

  • @act2lifeafter50
    @act2lifeafter50 Před rokem +1234

    I appreciate any Black man who stands with Black women. Much love!

    • @kwadwo9681
      @kwadwo9681 Před rokem +53

      I will always stand with Black women. I love Black women. I couldn’t imagine not being with a Black women. That would be torture.

    • @boni_traxton9436
      @boni_traxton9436 Před rokem +38

      We gay niggas love y’all too 👸🏿

    • @melanatedcutie748
      @melanatedcutie748 Před rokem +13

      ​@@boni_traxton9436 I second that 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾💓

    • @mississippigod3938
      @mississippigod3938 Před rokem +6

      Have that same energy for black divesting women. They don’t love these dudes . They hate them

    • @garymayfield5995
      @garymayfield5995 Před rokem +5

      Weak people whit a bunch of excuses , cop-out.........period

  • @darrellgalloway2749
    @darrellgalloway2749 Před rokem +581

    I AM A BLACK MAN WHO LOVES BLACK PEOPLE I ONLY EVER LOVED & WANTED A BLACK WOMAN AND I MAKE NO APOLOGIES !!! SALUTE !!!

  • @problactive285
    @problactive285 Před rokem +565

    Im just here to add my 2 cents....I WILL NEVER ABANDON THE BLACK WOMAN.....i dont care what the stats say i will love my Black women till the end of time.

    • @livw4180
      @livw4180 Před rokem +34

      ❤️ thank you! I feel the same about my black men!

    • @keenankhamun
      @keenankhamun Před rokem +1

      @pro blactive that is the thing. 85% of black men date and marry black women across socioeconomic classes. The perception IS NOT REALITY!!!!

    • @laurawilliams4087
      @laurawilliams4087 Před rokem +5

      👏🏽😘

    • @raineyj560
      @raineyj560 Před rokem +15

      ​@@livw4180 ditto!! Love our brothas, we have to appreciate them.

    • @INGEN_Dahnie-el-aha-ha
      @INGEN_Dahnie-el-aha-ha Před rokem +6

      Love your profile name 😍

  • @maureenjeancy3398
    @maureenjeancy3398 Před rokem +416

    KING said “
    ❤🎉Black women are the other half of what you are”

    • @LoveYah1
      @LoveYah1 Před rokem +25

      Like Adam Said
      Genesis 2:23 kjv
      And Adam said, This is now bone of my bones, and flesh of my flesh: she shall be called Woman, because she was taken out of Man.

    • @iaintmadatcha
      @iaintmadatcha Před rokem +48

      It's common sense really. The Black woman the only woman that can compliment my aura & essence

    • @mocancer3232
      @mocancer3232 Před rokem +12

      ​@@iaintmadatcha facts king👊🏿

    • @rongottimetoday7173
      @rongottimetoday7173 Před rokem +6

      That was dope. He’s absolutely right.

    • @lemurianchick
      @lemurianchick Před rokem

      Your True Self isn't Black, my sista. That's superficial. 🤦

  • @kwadwo9681
    @kwadwo9681 Před rokem +896

    I’m a Black man and I agree with these brothers. Black women just have that magic and are natural counterparts for Black men. I am with a Black woman and I couldn’t see myself having a serious relationship with a non-Black woman. I love myself and my people too much.

    • @mocancer3232
      @mocancer3232 Před rokem +25

      👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

    • @firstladychosen186
      @firstladychosen186 Před rokem

      That part💯 especially the way all these other races have treated us why would we even wanna interact with them

    • @missfreda7374
      @missfreda7374 Před rokem +16

      ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

    • @latoyahayes3381
      @latoyahayes3381 Před rokem +13

      👑

    • @RB-gt8bf
      @RB-gt8bf Před rokem +36

      Amen to that my Black King. Your comment is appreciated by this Black Queen!

  • @kayrobbie5840
    @kayrobbie5840 Před rokem +291

    What kind of world do we live in when black men have to defend why they date their own race. It should be the norm not the exception. I agree with what they were saying 100%.

  • @jalexiaofori4455
    @jalexiaofori4455 Před rokem +253

    Happy too see actually black America men instead of social media pushing the mixed race narrative. How refreshing to finally see black America men appreciate their own women .

    • @raineyj560
      @raineyj560 Před rokem +22

      And the companies and ad agencies with the commercials 😒

    • @nicolarodgers7228
      @nicolarodgers7228 Před rokem +5

      Absolutely ❤

    • @jerusalemspacal546
      @jerusalemspacal546 Před rokem +3

      Exactly 🗣️🗣️🗣️ totally agree with you

    • @ibabechanel
      @ibabechanel Před rokem +3

      They're pandering and yall are falling for the dusty bs. SMH

    • @cyndip5445
      @cyndip5445 Před rokem

      There are plenty of Black men like these brothers. I just think you won’t see this narrative on mainstream media, you will only see interracial narrative being pushed. If you study these ppl(the whites), throughout history, they have an agenda, and the biggest one is to destroy Black ppl. You don’t have to believe me, but you should study them, they way they have studied us.

  • @cecily387
    @cecily387 Před rokem +223

    The Black man and Black woman are a powerful force. When I’m out with my partner, we are always complimented on how great we look together as a couple, particularly by non Black people. They see esthetics but it’s spiritual. 🖤

  • @franceshoff4398
    @franceshoff4398 Před rokem +270

    Has nobody noticed that the only couples on commercials these days is black men with white women?

    • @ElleBrOw
      @ElleBrOw Před rokem +17

      I have 🙋🏽‍♀️
      I’m sorry but I’m on the fence with this because I’m just happy to see a male & female that I side eye the commercial 😏

    • @LoveYah1
      @LoveYah1 Před rokem +66

      Programming the Black Mind SMH

    • @kevinc3342
      @kevinc3342 Před rokem +49

      It's actually and primarily the other way - Black women with non-Black and primarily Anglo-white men. There's a lot more of that, versus Black men with non-Black women.

    • @williscartee2008
      @williscartee2008 Před rokem +29

      I commented about that a while ago, to bad many of our people's doesn't see it, we have eyes but do not see and ears but cannot hear, blind leading the blind.

    • @rosefils-aime5487
      @rosefils-aime5487 Před rokem +34

      Its the other way around now...its black women and caucasoids males.

  • @BSOG3
    @BSOG3 Před rokem +197

    I love Black men. There is nothing better than a Black man. Honored to be married to a beautiful Black man and the mother of beautiful Black children!

    • @daisyx1002
      @daisyx1002 Před rokem +13

      Me too.
      I love my handsome black husband and my beautiful black children ❤

    • @joyturner4379
      @joyturner4379 Před rokem +9

      Love my BLACK MAN....CLASSY ❤

    • @thejessicadiaries
      @thejessicadiaries Před rokem +4

      Same sis!

    • @BlackGirlBank
      @BlackGirlBank Před rokem +2

      Same here. It is a blessing.

    • @jowhit226
      @jowhit226 Před rokem +1

      I am a black man and I appreciate all the love on this comment thread. Let me soak that right on up lol! Black love is power and the devil knows this. Much love to my black woman and the black family.

  • @kjs9
    @kjs9 Před rokem +252

    The very first man explained exactly how I feel. Once I discovered true self love, then it became clear that I can only date my own.

    • @ahmorgan
      @ahmorgan Před rokem +4

      This is true, until you experience the self hatred of so many people within the community. It's difficult dating as an AA man who's not religious.

    • @missfreda7374
      @missfreda7374 Před rokem +5

      Right on, Queen!

    • @matttriano
      @matttriano Před rokem +2

      So you can only see the eyes of the Creator looking back at you when the person has dark skin? That's your failure. I'm sorry.

    • @kjs9
      @kjs9 Před rokem

      @@matttriano whatever it is that I feel, it’s the feeling that I get only when I’m with my own. Indescribable 🖤🤎 most attractive men on the planet

    • @RJ25255
      @RJ25255 Před rokem +4

      ​@@matttriano huh?

  • @iaintmadatcha
    @iaintmadatcha Před rokem +677

    I love my Black Woman and can't see myself with any other race. We need to show the world how all we need is us and stop pandering for outside acceptance great content👊🏿🖤💯

    • @annetteb2432
      @annetteb2432 Před rokem +27

      Thanks, and we love you guys too.👑

    • @sweetness3367
      @sweetness3367 Před rokem +34

      Yes yes we love you too.and our chocolate babies. Period

    • @kimik01889
      @kimik01889 Před rokem +39

      Pandering for outside accept.... That's facts! I can't wait till we as black people stop doing this.

    • @missqt48
      @missqt48 Před rokem +22

      Ain’t gonna lie, I’ve always seen men AND women that date/ marry outside as weak! No matter how stunning they look together or how rich they are (Dr Dre) I just sense weakness all around! So for you to stand up with your chest out praising the woman, it’s only natural for you to behave in that manner. May TMH bless you with a loving wife who LOVES looking after you and your children!

    • @reallife0728
      @reallife0728 Před rokem +8

      ABSOLUTE TRUTH!!!!

  • @jazminartopee7774
    @jazminartopee7774 Před rokem +209

    I can’t express how much I loved and appreciated this conversation. As a black woman who became hopeless with finding love from my own I am so happy to know that some of y’all still love us back! I don’t want anyone else

    • @kwadwo9681
      @kwadwo9681 Před rokem +23

      Black man here. On behalf of the good Black men I’m just reminding you that we love you back. Always have done. Always will.

    • @fk5371
      @fk5371 Před rokem +5

      Oh dear, but they are over 50 states............u need to increase your sample size when selecting. I had to move back to my own country to get my dark chocolate

    • @jazminartopee7774
      @jazminartopee7774 Před rokem +3

      @@fk5371 u are absolutely right

    • @Theunbotheredsunflower
      @Theunbotheredsunflower Před rokem +1

      Do you frequent the gym? I live in Dallas currently and I’m usually one of very few black women at the gym, they damn near follow me around lol and I don’t really date black men anymore(personal preference) but for you I’d say go to a gym in a mixed area where the gym is at least $50 a month. Extra points if you don’t just do booty workouts. Contrary to what a lot of women think but I’ve met the most men from doing pull-ups and dips that’s when they all come say something to me out of being impressed. Booty workouts will only get you sexualized in my opinion, gotta mix it up.

    • @jazminartopee7774
      @jazminartopee7774 Před rokem

      @@Theunbotheredsunflower great suggestions sis. And I acutally don’t go to the gym right now but I want to start I just have to find time. And I totally agree abt the booty workout being sexualized

  • @daughterofmosthigh8074
    @daughterofmosthigh8074 Před rokem +120

    You brothers have NO IDEA what you are doing for black women right now!!!! For me, no other man will do other than BLACK MEN!!!!! I LOVE my Black kings. You guys ARE strong and no wimps who are afraid of the energy and strength of the black women. Thank you for having this conversation and my sister thank you very much for posting this video. Much love ❤

    • @yaaab4
      @yaaab4 Před rokem +4

      Spiritual physical mentality Pure Love Blessings Prosperity 💯💪🏽✊🏽🙏🏽👊🏾👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽✊🏽❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🔥🔥🔥Blacknificent woman loving this beautiful show so positive.. we need more important empowering talk shows like these for our people to hear and apply to themselves.. we need to love ourselves 100%❣️✨✨✨

    • @darkchild5983
      @darkchild5983 Před rokem +1

      Awesome!

    • @Necronomicon88383
      @Necronomicon88383 Před rokem

      But y’all NOT attracted to these type of brothas. Lol the blk guys you want n value date outside they race. White girls is WINNING rt now. And Spanish baddies

    • @jowhit226
      @jowhit226 Před rokem +2

      Love the strong black woman. And their many other wonderful qualities as well.

  • @gemini8620
    @gemini8620 Před rokem +235

    This made me shed a tear. I’m not as confident as I should be and I think it has stunted the growth of my existence as a black women. I’m grateful for this video.

    • @Mytribe_CoachVictoria
      @Mytribe_CoachVictoria Před rokem +30

      You are beautiful, now tell yourself that and believe it. I felt the same way for a long time because of societal views on my darker complexion, but once i started valuing myself now people around me compliments me daily.
      Find that one thing you love about yourself and build on that. For me lol it’s my nose. My sista you are beautiful; so own that and watch others will start valuing your beauty.

    • @citizencoy4393
      @citizencoy4393 Před rokem +14

      Awww I’m so sorry to hear that. You are naturally amazing which is why ur image is constantly under attack. I wish more blk women stepped back to look at reality vs listening to lying lips! The narrative doesn’t add up! Their goal is to break u down Bc of the strength u poses as an African woman! When the world gets too heavy sit still! Listen to the voices from within! U r NEVER alone!

    • @whisper2284
      @whisper2284 Před rokem +11

      Dry your eyes Sis! The only important intrinsic value a person possesses outside of good health is trust for self. Trust yourself enough to know that only you can save you. Even in your darkest hours you never leave yourself and remain loyal. That’s love. Self trust builds self respect and that is what others admire and value. Learn to listen to yourself, value your opinion, and you’ll understand what that guy said about self love because you will have learned to trust and love yourself.

    • @truthseeker3376
      @truthseeker3376 Před rokem +5

      ​@Whis Per Excellent comment!! Took me a very very long time to understand this!!

    • @munix9351
      @munix9351 Před rokem +3

      Have you travelled to Africa??

  • @iamthesolitarymaninblack
    @iamthesolitarymaninblack Před rokem +139

    People were upset about John Boyega only dating black women. Dr Umar would approve.

  • @live.life.on.purpose
    @live.life.on.purpose Před rokem +217

    Talk Black to me! 🖤❤️ Music to my ears to hear these fellas articulate their feelings towards loving Black women. Nice, positive, productive dialogue. I haven’t heard any convo like this online. More please. 🙏🏽 I will definitely be sharing this video.

    • @brendawright6901
      @brendawright6901 Před rokem +6

      I love you black men 🌹

    • @NavyBlueSky17
      @NavyBlueSky17 Před rokem

      ​@@brendawright6901They don't love you broads back .

    • @jowhit226
      @jowhit226 Před rokem

      @@brendawright6901 Awww you a sweetie boo.

  • @marlonjawon1602
    @marlonjawon1602 Před rokem +145

    I Agree with these KINGS 💯. BLACK WOMEN are the Physical Embodiment of a Spiritual Heaven. Not only in this world but also in that which is to come

    • @endlessbeauty8351
      @endlessbeauty8351 Před rokem +4

      That's right, black women will be the prettiest in Heaven

    • @Kasso923
      @Kasso923 Před rokem +4

      Not all black Americans are descendants of Kings ,and Queens...The TRUTH IS KING....

    • @OfficialStreamSagaTv
      @OfficialStreamSagaTv Před rokem

      @@endlessbeauty8351 you ain’t even going to heaven thinking that shut up

    • @saihemebillings2820
      @saihemebillings2820 Před rokem

      I’m no they are not men are, women are of the earth.

  • @reallife0728
    @reallife0728 Před rokem +68

    FOR ME AS A BLACK MAN,,,IVE ALWAYS DATED BLACK WOMEN....I DIDNT LOOK TO DATE ANY OTHER GROUP OF WOMEN,,,NOR WAS I CURIOUS ABOUT DATING ANY OTHER GROUP OF WOMEN....I GET A BEAUTIFUL NATURAL ENERGY FROM BLACK WOMEN THAT I LOVE!!!!!💐💐💐🤎🤎🤎

    • @salaamakbar3630
      @salaamakbar3630 Před rokem +1

      💯💯💯 .... AND I'M A BROTHA DOING HIS THING& I'M NOT GOING TO LET WHITE WOMAN & ASIAN WOMAN USE ME AS A COME UP TO REPLACE A " MEDIOCRE WHITE MAN"!!!!

    • @triciadean9694
      @triciadean9694 Před rokem +3

      Amen

    • @salaamakbar3630
      @salaamakbar3630 Před rokem

      @@triciadean9694 💜❤️❤️ THANKS SIS 💯💯💯💪💪💪 YOU GOT OUR BACK & WE GOTCHA YOURS 360!!!! AND WE HAVE ARE FAMILY BACK TO DO WHATEVER IS POSSIBLE THAT THOSE WHO LOOK LIKE US & ESPECIALLY THE YOUTH HAVE A " CHANCE" 💯💯💯 I'LL FUCKING DIE BEFORE I LET HISTORY REPEAT ITSELF AND DO NOTHING ABOUT IT 💯💯💯 AND THOSE CORNY ASS / UNCLE TOM NIGGAS CAN GET IT ALSO 💯💯💯 WHEN THEY LOOK AT " SALAAM" THEY KNOW WITHIN 10 SECONDS!!!!! HELL NAW!!!! WE AIN'T BROTHERS AND ALL THAT SILLY SHIT" YOU CAN BE MOBBED UP WITH" MEDIOCRE WHITE MAN AND BITCHES... PEOPLE WHITE PEOPLE DON'T EVEN WANNA FUCK WITH!!!! BUT NO WAY NO HOW !!!! YOUR GOING TO ROCK & ROLL WITH US .... BECAUSE WE MOVE AS ONE & WE'LL ALWAYS MOVE AS ONE!!!!! SOME MUTHAFUCKAS COULD EASILY FIND OUT THIS IF THEY READ A 📚📚📚 ABOUT HISTORY INSTEAD OF SITTING AROUND & ABOUT TO FIGHT OVER IS " KIM KARDASHIANS ASS IS BIG 😆😆😆 I COULD ROLL UP ANYWHERE AROUND THE WAY AT WALMART & TARGET & SEE A BIG ASS .... SOME BIG TITS THAT ARE REAL 😆😆😆😆 EXCUSE MY FRENCH JUST HAD TO THROW SOME HUMOR ON TOP OF THIS CUZ I CAN DEFINITELY " FLIP THE SCRIPT" BE GOOD STAY SAFE AND HAVE A BEAUTIFUL DAY TRICIA...YOUR BROTHA SALAAM

    • @marciarose7419
      @marciarose7419 Před rokem +5

      Thank you king. Take this from an elderly black women who wants to pass the blessings on to the next generation . Keep the black community safe and healthy. Black men keep loving your black culture. ❤❤💯

    • @barbaragunning5784
      @barbaragunning5784 Před rokem +3

      Glory to God

  • @larryjones1858
    @larryjones1858 Před rokem +150

    Three very very wise men, iam 70yrs married my black wife over 51 years ago. I've pretty much seen it all family and the inner spirit in me always lead me to my people, to all black men and women; never mix your blood with any one outside of your group/race. That's Godly.

    • @Yahknowsmyname
      @Yahknowsmyname Před rokem +12

      Yes sir!!!! I don't think we realize this Mr. Larry, it is the Most High's will!❤

    • @my.0224
      @my.0224 Před rokem

      I concur but it’s too late. The bloodline was diluted when the slave master raped and impregnated the first black woman.

    • @southernladybrown5092
      @southernladybrown5092 Před rokem +2

      Do you have a Bible verse to backup your comment sir?

    • @DaughterofZionChildofTMH
      @DaughterofZionChildofTMH Před rokem +9

      ​@@southernladybrown5092 There are plenty. Go read the laws in Leviticus. Tobit 1:4 is one for you as well. We aren't supposed to mix our seed. All the instances of men having to leave behind strange wives and children when leaving captivity. The mamzers being stoned and not allowed into the congregation. It's all over the place in the Bible.

    • @southernladybrown5092
      @southernladybrown5092 Před rokem

      Thank U sister I wanted to make sure I got the correct Bible verse. Hopefully young lady will read your message be safe and blessed 🌷🌷🌷🌷

  • @nathanielraydavis708
    @nathanielraydavis708 Před rokem +157

    Iam mixed and have never dated a white woman. And Iam frankly shocked by the vitriol directed at the sisters nowadays by the brothers. This is refreshing. Sadly too many brothers is saying, if you black, stay back.

    • @Morgue12free
      @Morgue12free Před rokem +22

      Stay black brother ✊🏿

    • @deamorebeaute2412
      @deamorebeaute2412 Před rokem +16

      Mixed with what, exactly? The vast majority of the world's population is multi-ethnic or multi-racial. It's extremely rare for any homo sapien to be 99.9% of anyone halo group.
      What is the point of announcing that your mixed? Is the conversation in this video about mixed people's dating preferences? No. It's about men with two black parents, dating women with two black parents. If you're mixed race, your opinion has nothing to do with this topic of discussion. I'm not sure why you are even here because this is not about who mixed race people date, marry, or procreate.

    • @nathanielraydavis708
      @nathanielraydavis708 Před rokem +21

      @@deamorebeaute2412 ... hahaha. ooookay... your response is very typical..

    • @wildwaning9427
      @wildwaning9427 Před rokem +16

      You're not the only one shocked!! Your post reflects a degree of understanding from a certain viewpoint, as the fair majority of bi-racial people actually gravitate to and date/marry whites.

    • @AfroPick82
      @AfroPick82 Před rokem +10

      @@deamorebeaute2412 Only problem would be overlooking the basic fact that everybody originated from the same 2 ppl or melanated ancient ancestral source to begin with. (Where do you think the recessive traits Blonde/Red hair Blue/Light eyes + Pale skin complexion came from?) Yet that's still probably too much unsugar coated truth for a % of folks to fully digest. And this is coming from a Pro Black America BM. However I also happen to be a lover of the unsugar coated truth in general.

  • @Njoofene
    @Njoofene Před rokem +535

    As a Black African man, it is the natural thing for any Black man to be attracted to Black women. Never understood the concept of interracial relationships. Not only is it self hating, it is cowardice, selfish and shows a great degree of lack of racial pride. It is a curse to your descendants as far as I am concerned. I've only recently took a dna test for the fun of it. Although the history of my family has been instilled in me since childhood, and I'd been documenting my family history for 30 years, I was not surprised when the dna results came through showing that I'm 100% Senegalese (Senegambian to be more historically and geographically accurate). This means my ancestors preserved my blood in its purest form and passed it down to me. It is would therefore be selfish and wicked of me to go out of my way and engage in interracial relationship, thereby cursing my descendants because of my own selfishness, cowardice and lack of racial pride. I have watched a number of Black dna videos on CZcams, and there is a reason why African Americans and Caribbeans are happy when they have a substantially high African dna. There is a reason for that, because it tells a story of the actions of their ancestors or what their ancestors went through. Knowing that, you still go ahead and engage in interracial relationship, thereby denying your descendants that pleasure and their ancestral heritage! I will never understand it. It is important to hear from Black American men like these rather than the cowardly ones I hear on social media claiming they don't date Black women blah... blah.. blah... Those type of men are lost and beyond help. They have no honour.

    • @LolaBluJ
      @LolaBluJ Před rokem +33

      Many blessings! Greetings from Canada! 🇬🇲🇯🇲

    • @jacquelynn2051
      @jacquelynn2051 Před rokem +23

      I'm appreciative that you focused on bm because bm choose the woman as far as a COMMITTED traditional relationship is concerned. Bw are fairly recently en mass going out to consider non bm.

    • @Morgue12free
      @Morgue12free Před rokem +29

      Well said my brother. Considering where we are as a people and how much rebuilding there is yet to do.

    • @graceallovermae
      @graceallovermae Před rokem +16

      I agree with this finding out that I'm 42%Nigerian/kenyan... and the rest was European countries and Asia was heart breaking because as soon as I seen I was Nigerian/Kenyan, I immediately rejoiced but I also understood that for personal reasons there's some curses and covenants that I need to break. ❤

    • @misslady5029
      @misslady5029 Před rokem +13

      Thank you brother 😊. The mark of a true man is his honor, self appreciation and awareness...

  • @graceallovermae
    @graceallovermae Před rokem +67

    The fact that men think this is amazing. I've always said this about black men but never expected them to say it back❤

  • @marlondjuma1
    @marlondjuma1 Před rokem +192

    This gave me a smile on my face ❤

  • @selftalkwithsal4229
    @selftalkwithsal4229 Před rokem +181

    BEAUTIFUL BLACK CONVERSATION ✊🏿

  • @lavonnes05
    @lavonnes05 Před rokem +19

    As a black woman I have to do better!!!!! My children are watching and learning. Thank you brothers for this message.

  • @TheeStrawberryLee
    @TheeStrawberryLee Před rokem +118

    Oooooowwwweeeeeee!!! more videos like this PLEASE!!! I don’t feel cray cray anymore cause I’m not into other races. The BLACK MAN is HIM 💚💚💚. These educated brothers are EVERYTHING!!!! That middle situation is yummy!! #YesLORD🤣

  • @renithamoore492
    @renithamoore492 Před rokem +6

    I've dated a non-black man before and it was the worst experience of my life. I will never do that again. I LOVE BLACK MEN. THAT'S WHO I BELONG WITH.❤❤

  • @shellrobsherm2232
    @shellrobsherm2232 Před rokem +93

    This conversation was real, raw and it felt so natural with these brothers and I love it. Thanks for loving us strong, powerful handsome and intelligent kings🙌🏿 🎉🎉💯💜

  • @Nicollettej120
    @Nicollettej120 Před rokem +40

    This is so awesome to hear. I love me some Black Men. My Dad, Grandfather, brothers and cousins showed me the true essence of a man. I love my People. We are Special.

    • @jowhit226
      @jowhit226 Před rokem +2

      It's nice to see that someone else recognizes that we as black people possess something special. We're great at almost anything we put our minds to but I feel like this special something is most clearly seen in our music.

    • @chillivybz5418
      @chillivybz5418 Před rokem +1

      🖤💛🖤💛

  • @RB-gt8bf
    @RB-gt8bf Před rokem +68

    Thank you my Black Kings for appreciating us Black Queens. We are unmatched together!

  • @LoveYah1
    @LoveYah1 Před rokem +87

    Blaquemento stay together my Black people, we can only create ourselves ❤

    • @prim.an.propher1505
      @prim.an.propher1505 Před rokem

      Blanqueamiento
      is the whitening. It’s the deliberate erasure of black folks through breeding out our existence.

  • @rozihorn360
    @rozihorn360 Před rokem +16

    To refuse to mingle, associate, befriend, or date someone who looks like oneself is self-hate, no matter what ethnicity.

  • @takabunnie3077
    @takabunnie3077 Před rokem +55

    What a breath of fresh air you gentlemen are. You make me proud. It’s a shame that this is even an issue. God bless you guys.👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @livw4180
    @livw4180 Před rokem +108

    Y’all are amazing. I love my black men out there! So glad to be apart of the black community. I will always support my black men!!

    • @aspdlsp2420
      @aspdlsp2420 Před rokem

      @livw4180
      Do they though

    • @livw4180
      @livw4180 Před rokem +3

      @@aspdlsp2420 why yes, I believe they do. Especially the black men in my family. My uncles and cousins only deal with black women. And they take good care of them. My father has been the best father and he has shown me what a real black man looks like. So to answer your question, In my experience they do😊

    • @rongottimetoday7173
      @rongottimetoday7173 Před rokem +1

      @@livw4180 They got pretty quiet after that response

    • @livw4180
      @livw4180 Před rokem +1

      @@rongottimetoday7173 lol I though so as well

    • @rongottimetoday7173
      @rongottimetoday7173 Před rokem

      @@livw4180 all the best to you beautiful sis

  • @williammason475
    @williammason475 Před rokem +14

    There is no other woman on the face of earth, that will understand or love me more than a black woman. You are my rib and Eve. Blessings to you❤

  • @downwiththeclique7239
    @downwiththeclique7239 Před rokem +209

    I'm glad this is a topic. Because as a black woman, I can't see myself having biracial children

    • @lemurianchick
      @lemurianchick Před rokem +6

      Why?!

    • @Heyu7her3
      @Heyu7her3 Před rokem +7

      You could also adopt Black children with your non-Black spouse

    • @rosejames5172
      @rosejames5172 Před rokem +31

      Too bad not many black men feel the same way.

    • @deamorebeaute2412
      @deamorebeaute2412 Před rokem

      The vast majority of us black people are mixed race according to genome testing. I can guarantee 99.9% of your genetic makeup is not of African ancestry. If you can't see yourself having biracial children, you can't stand seeing yourself living.

    • @firstladychosen186
      @firstladychosen186 Před rokem

      ​@@Heyu7her3 Stop tryna push that interracial shit off on us we see the agenda oh and sis said what she said period no race mixing🙅

  • @fiyahriddims
    @fiyahriddims Před rokem +7

    "When you love yourself, you want what looks like you".

  • @tjc2824
    @tjc2824 Před rokem +40

    Much love, respect and appreciation to the Black woman🥰❤ You are loved and valued!!!!

  • @tangelaford4680
    @tangelaford4680 Před rokem +96

    I love this! Thank you all so much! We love you too!

  • @Kim-427
    @Kim-427 Před rokem +32

    It’s crazy that a black man has to justify why he chooses to be with a black woman.

    • @jamiehill2847
      @jamiehill2847 Před rokem

      It’s also crazy that a black man would willingly sleep with a black women who preach hate on them on the daily

  • @tiannazarae
    @tiannazarae Před rokem +65

    This was so warm, I love how they articulated their love for us 🤎 appreciated this convo

  • @emefreeman1905
    @emefreeman1905 Před rokem +30

    I never understand the attraction to a person who has chosen ZERO Black friends, coworkers, neighbors, associates, wouldn't hire or champion a Black person, but they love you?

    • @matttriano
      @matttriano Před rokem +3

      You don't choose your coworkers or neighbors.

    • @raineyj560
      @raineyj560 Před rokem +3

      ​@@matttriano lol true because I shocked the ish out of my neighbors when I moved in, oh well

    • @gwadkarukera
      @gwadkarukera Před rokem +1

      Wow that's so true!

  • @wantjustice843
    @wantjustice843 Před rokem +89

    I love this conversation. It put a smile on my face.

  • @hischosen1409
    @hischosen1409 Před rokem +44

    I am grateful this showed up on my screen. Informative and loving....thank you for valuing our beautiful women....

    • @rongottimetoday7173
      @rongottimetoday7173 Před rokem

      Absolutely!!

    • @patbecford
      @patbecford Před rokem +2

      I was so happy to see this video of these intelligent black men. Black love is so beautiful. The other races knows that we as a people , if we stick together we are unbeatable in every aspect. All other races try in every way to break us down, that should prove to us how great we are as a people. Thank you black Kings for knowing and loving yourselves so that love can radiate to your black Queens. We definitely need more videos like this. Love it.

  • @KeetWeet
    @KeetWeet Před rokem +10

    I loved everything about this ❤ great video. As a black woman who's been with my black husband for 24 years, I love BLACK LOVE.

  • @jeffreyjackson5472
    @jeffreyjackson5472 Před rokem +29

    As a Black man I concur with everything spoken..

  • @hs-qk9qf
    @hs-qk9qf Před rokem +38

    Now let's watch this, share and support 👍🏽!👏🏿👏🏾👏🏽👏🏼

  • @vernessaking3950
    @vernessaking3950 Před rokem +17

    My father was the perfect example of instilling in me that I was a Regal and that I was a princess who would grow up to be a Queen. Today I am Queen and love the way a true King can recognize and acknowledge us as Queens. Thank You.❤

  • @andreadavis1388
    @andreadavis1388 Před rokem +6

    You should watch the things pushed and discouraged. Many outlets try to reprogram us to hate each other. I love my people.

  • @lisahobbs2312
    @lisahobbs2312 Před rokem +17

    I love black men who love themselves.

  • @tigerlilly1545
    @tigerlilly1545 Před rokem +133

    I always for years asked the question why any race wouldn't want their offsprings to be a true reflection/look like them.
    I have seem plenty of interracial kids where they don't resemble/look like neither parent

    • @ahmorgan
      @ahmorgan Před rokem +16

      some people really don't care

    • @tigerlilly1545
      @tigerlilly1545 Před rokem +23

      ​@@ahmorgan true..but it's odd that statistically more black men date or marry outside of their race then all other races combined. That's worth asking the question why is that?

    • @ahmorgan
      @ahmorgan Před rokem +14

      @Tigerlilly well first I need to verify that because that doesn't sound correct. Hispanic men date and marry women outside their race often, and Asian men can't attract women outside their communities. Asian women actually date out the highest, then black men. My belief is that the old stereotypes persist about Asian women and black men. Asian women are perceived as hyper feminine, and black men are perceived as hyper masculine. There's also a lot of self hate and white infatuation, but that's my opinion.

    • @citizencoy4393
      @citizencoy4393 Před rokem

      They don’t want the answer to that question put up in the front. Blk men date out more than any other group of men not all races combined. I’m working on a series that exposes the facts surrounding this Bc it’s not even complicated ppl just ignore the obvious Bc it uplifts yt ppl and tears down blk ppl at the same damn time! Blk men are willful tools against the community.

    • @lacinabakayoko4634
      @lacinabakayoko4634 Před rokem +18

      Self hate is powerful drug.some melanted people don't want their kids to look like them.

  • @TerriWorlddd
    @TerriWorlddd Před rokem +16

    They are so intelligent this was a beautiful and insightful conversation💕 Thankyou kings

    • @TerriWorlddd
      @TerriWorlddd Před rokem

      "I have never met a black woman that twerks in walmart" "I know so many black women who are hard working " yall broke so many barriers in our false tv community

  • @simmerg
    @simmerg Před rokem +29

    These are the REAL KINGS❤️❤️❤️

    • @ladye1777
      @ladye1777 Před rokem

      Yes these young king's👑are superb, much respect to my sister as well, she allowed them to flow freely without interrupting.

  • @sandradavis4551
    @sandradavis4551 Před rokem +40

    This is very refreshing. It means a lot that someone appreciates us. And I love that you brothers are not intimidated by us. We really do appreciate that. THANK YOU MY DEAR BROTHERS.

    • @citizencoy4393
      @citizencoy4393 Před rokem +7

      Nothing to be intimidated by. Blk women are the most caring and loving women out there! They also know how to defend themselves (history made them have to) and they do! Ppl have an issue with ur resistance and resilience! They want to be able to control u just as freely and easily as they do the blk man but blk woman u r the force! They fear!!! Stand and KNOW!!! Gather ur ppl and teach! The attack is on YOU!

    • @liveandletlive7152
      @liveandletlive7152 Před rokem

      I find your comment so sad. I'm not black but it saddens me that you have to go through life thinking others don't appreciate you guys. That's not fully true. I think you're all beautiful . Everyone should accept eachother.

    • @barbaragunning5784
      @barbaragunning5784 Před rokem

      Bless you guys

  • @carbro_320
    @carbro_320 Před rokem +32

    Honest refreshing conversation _ all touch points _ what's being pushed down our throats is definitely orchestrated

  • @k.l.g.5786
    @k.l.g.5786 Před rokem +12

    As a black woman, I love this video. I wonder what year this was originally recorded. Looks like it may have been recorded 5 to 10 years ago. I would love to see an updated interview with these three men.

    • @Bigram.sonsun
      @Bigram.sonsun Před rokem +1

      Hi, we are all still the same but we no longer live in the same states. Maybe we could do a zoom lol.

  • @amari2641
    @amari2641 Před rokem +36

    Intelligent conversations like these need to continue in the black community. I'm always excited to see positive representations of us depicted by us. There needs to be more of that. I love what these men are expressing unfiltered. Thank you all for spreading the love that black people naturally have for their community.

  • @iamthesolitarymaninblack
    @iamthesolitarymaninblack Před rokem +59

    Brilliant points made by these guys. I wonder what the Manosphere and Divestors will make of this video. Probably trigger the Conservatives.

    • @rickyqueen2621
      @rickyqueen2621 Před rokem

      They'll go with their FAVORITE go to insult, calling them "Simps." 🤦🏾‍♂️ Those Anti-Black Woman males are LOSERS! Believe me! They serve no purpose, other than to spread their evil, and cause confusion! Not all of us stand with those weirdo's! I will ALWAYS stand with my Beautiful Black Nubian Queen's 👸🏿

    • @iaintmadatcha
      @iaintmadatcha Před rokem

      I don't, I couldn't care less about them passport snow bunny loving sellouts. It's time to love on our women if we don't our nation falls to pieces

    • @chillivybz5418
      @chillivybz5418 Před rokem

      I can't stand the "manosphere" and the "divestors"😒

  • @msv6674
    @msv6674 Před rokem +7

    We got that "thing" & pray more melanated men will feel this way about us 'cause I sure feel they have that "thing" too. Love my Black men...😍

    • @tygg4455
      @tygg4455 Před rokem +2

      We Love our woman too👑❤🫵🏿

  • @AntoinetteMPetty
    @AntoinetteMPetty Před rokem +30

    💐 This, by far, was the best interview I've seen in years. Thank you all so much. I can feel and see the love you all have for Black Women, and I love it so much. Bless you all, including the woman conducting the interview. 🙏🏾👍🏾👌🏾

  • @Simplek1593
    @Simplek1593 Před rokem +4

    I truly appreciate this. I am very much reassured by this program how much beautiful black women are loved and adorned. I look forward to the future of black love and growth between us as a unit. After the brief interruption of negative over the past few years I am confident we're back on track. I feel the love in the air and I see the love shared. Thank you my handsome, intelligent, sexy, black brother. You are conquerors. Our treasures hold deep in our wombs. Thank you for your unconditional love.❤

  • @brendataylor4163
    @brendataylor4163 Před rokem +13

    I'm a black woman after being divorced who is waiting for the right black man. It's been a while since I've had a meaningful relationship. Sometimes it looks like I'm invisible to the black man, but I've refused advances from men outside my race, because I love black men! My patience goes on, for no other man can replace my desire to wait for the black man!

    • @reginacameron3011
      @reginacameron3011 Před rokem +3

      girl, you better stop sitting around waiting on a bm. If another man from another race want to take you go for it.

    • @kwadwo9681
      @kwadwo9681 Před rokem +5

      There’s a perfect brother waiting for you sister Brenda ❤️

    • @brendataylor4163
      @brendataylor4163 Před rokem +5

      I'm too much of a "black" woman. It's more than racial, it is my inner being!

  • @rosahacketts1668
    @rosahacketts1668 Před rokem +17

    Excellent. For me it is easier to be with my own race than another. We understand each other socially, historically, culturally, psychologically, and emotionally. And I love me and who I am as in my identity.

  • @indigobeauty1
    @indigobeauty1 Před rokem +10

    Good Lord!! Black Men are so wonderful...this was so nice to see, classy mature conversation 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🌹

    • @Victorious-sz3uz
      @Victorious-sz3uz Před rokem

      My mother said don't come home with any woman except a black woman.

  • @febe11111
    @febe11111 Před rokem +17

    I absolutely loved this we need more panels of brothers respecting the beautiful black woman I knew you were out there way to go sister keep this conversation coming very go content.🤙🏽

    • @ladye1777
      @ladye1777 Před rokem +1

      Yes same thing I said we need more of this type of conversation being had amongst our people, too many black content creators miss the opportunity to use their platform to help unify our people, to many think the only way for clicks and views is if they only talk about the celebrity gossip, or degrading their own black women, we have a real serious problem within the community people, and until we as adults are willing to address this ongoing problem and start holding ourselves and each other accountable for the part we've played in the demise of our people collectively, we will continue to fail and our children will continue to be the ones who suffer from our own reckless behavior, the ancestors certainly deserve better.

  • @tudy4564
    @tudy4564 Před rokem +29

    Young men you are an inspiration to your people. I am so thankful to the host and Independent Voices for these exceptional messages and coming from these three young black men is heart warming. Thank you!

  • @glendakier9142
    @glendakier9142 Před rokem +8

    I wish I could like this video a million times. Nothing more attractive than Black Kings, praising Black Queens. I love this, thanks for sharing!

  • @jdf875
    @jdf875 Před rokem +106

    There’s a saying if you have something negative or awful to say about BLACK woman , write it down and give it to your mother!

  • @desdotcom
    @desdotcom Před rokem +4

    The joy that this conversation has bought to my heart is indescribable❤ I will be sharing and rewatching. THANK YOU for these gems❤️

    • @reelblack
      @reelblack  Před rokem

      You are so welcome!

    • @Victorious-sz3uz
      @Victorious-sz3uz Před rokem +3

      A lot of black men are afraid to approach black women but there are A lot of us who absolutely adore YOU ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @intensepassion3382
    @intensepassion3382 Před rokem +15

    How some BM think it's a status upgrade to marry WW is insane to me with the history of enslaved and BM being brutalized and murdered over there involvement with them, is beyond me.

  • @Nancy22102
    @Nancy22102 Před rokem +15

    Wow! It feels sooo good to hear this society has judge bash critize mock us and the have the audacity to mimic our looks. To hear this from these blk men is vibrant and refreshing these is what i called intelligent proud bold distinguished blk men.. Thank u Brothas ❤🥲❤️🖤💚✊🏾✊🏾✊🏾

  • @ms.golden8210
    @ms.golden8210 Před rokem +5

    Thank you to the host for presenting this conversation! Thank you to these brothers for letting us know that y'all still have love for us because it's rough out here. I love myself, thank heavens but even with that there is so much thrown in our face that tells us and y'all to do the exact opposite. Oh, and if you're a natural sista, then it tends to be way worse for us. This discussion made my heart smile. I love my Black Men and have no intentions of straying away. There's nothing like our vibration together.💛💛💛

  • @intensepassion3382
    @intensepassion3382 Před rokem +10

    This video needs to be shared far and wide.

  • @KatieLee0823
    @KatieLee0823 Před rokem +29

    this was really good. thank you for sharing especially in this day and age

  • @el_diabla
    @el_diabla Před rokem +23

    Ooooh this was good! Thank you! Thank you! Thank you! This video came on time!

  • @SiriusAspirations
    @SiriusAspirations Před rokem +10

    Amazing conversation, great to see a group of black men reasoning intelligently and valuing black 💕

  • @TheDanster4
    @TheDanster4 Před rokem +6

    I remember this video from YEARS ago! Thank you for re-uploading it! I wonder where these brothers are now, I hope they actually are with Black women. I love hearing the love that Black men and Black women have for each other!

    • @CodyCole80
      @CodyCole80 Před rokem +1

      I thought this was new. When was it released?

    • @TheDanster4
      @TheDanster4 Před rokem +1

      @@CodyCole80 Unfortunately I don't really remember. Maybe 2013-ish?

    • @naga7461
      @naga7461 Před rokem

      Hopefully their with white women

  • @djozerwright1206
    @djozerwright1206 Před rokem +61

    Yeah I also appreciate my own people too much to go outside of the Black race.

  • @ileniepowell
    @ileniepowell Před rokem +10

    Hallelujah!! Can I adopt these beautiful young men! Congratulations to those who raised them! Brilliant!! Jamaican in the house❤!!!!

  • @reginaharris6534
    @reginaharris6534 Před rokem +41

    This was a very enlightening, intelligent, compassionate, neutral and full of grace conversation from these 3 kings/gods. I appreciated their diverse perspectives. Gives me hope for the next generation despite the one-side, blame game of *SOME in what's called social media "manosphere." I love the ORIGINAL, ORGANIC, carbon-based melanin MAN, always will to the 4 corners of the earth... Nothing like HIM! Ase'

    • @OfficialStreamSagaTv
      @OfficialStreamSagaTv Před rokem

      Your sad and old stop being ignorant

    • @bajansons4687
      @bajansons4687 Před rokem

      Maybe there is still hope for us. We need to discard those that aren't unapologetically for African people. As well, can we stop saying "Black's and people of color". Tht

    • @bajansons4687
      @bajansons4687 Před rokem

      Maybe there is still hope for us. We need to discard those that aren't unapologetically for African people. As well, can we stop saying "Black's and people of color". Tht

    • @bajansons4687
      @bajansons4687 Před rokem

      Maybe there is still hope for us. We need to discard those that aren't unapologetically for African people. As well, can we stop saying "Black's and people of color". Tht

    • @bajansons4687
      @bajansons4687 Před rokem

      Maybe there is still hope for us. We need to discard those that aren't unapologetically for African people. As well, can we stop saying "Black's and people of color". Tht

  • @DrLesiaThePreachasDiviNation

    Self love is reflected in your choices 💯

  • @daisyx1002
    @daisyx1002 Před rokem +7

    Thank you for making this video, amazing interview.
    Great job Kings 👑

    • @Victorious-sz3uz
      @Victorious-sz3uz Před rokem +1

      No other race of women can compare to my black Queens ❤❤❤❤

  • @shakkamusa2366
    @shakkamusa2366 Před rokem +16

    Amazing. Beautiful. Raw. Sensible. Absolutely true.

  • @claudettereid
    @claudettereid Před rokem +4

    Love to see black brothers who love themselves enough, to want to conserve their heritage with another black woman. Healing can only happen when we promote psychological self respect and self love

  • @divaprettyakakapequeen9438

    This is absolutely a beautiful conversation. I admire their courage, commitment and conviction in self love and importance of keeping the black race intact. They couldn’t have said it better than they did the magical and spiritual connection between Black men and women when they’re together. It only takes a mentally strong black man to want a black woman. So proud of you guys!

  • @Bigram.sonsun
    @Bigram.sonsun Před rokem +20

    Thank you for sharing King 👑

  • @twoawesomekidz5284
    @twoawesomekidz5284 Před rokem +8

    Thanks for this interview it is much needed. It was great seeing and hearing the hearts and minds of black men. Great guys!!!

  • @carolynfrink5569
    @carolynfrink5569 Před rokem +4

    As a Black woman, I love this coming from three beautiful Brother Kings! Black man, I see you and I love you! Ase❤✊🏿👑🔥

  • @afroqueen9458
    @afroqueen9458 Před rokem +10

    I love all the comments on here from my people. We are simply amazing. To my people round the world I love you.

  • @ermaash1064
    @ermaash1064 Před rokem +4

    Thank you black men. Black women love you.

  • @ZackDia-Ptr
    @ZackDia-Ptr Před rokem +3

    The identity thing is a crucial one ...
    Nothing more harmonious than being with people who can relate to you.

  • @annmariefuller9020
    @annmariefuller9020 Před rokem +7

    It is soooo refreshing to see these three black men taking so positive about their black women.
    Big up to you. I hope other young black men will watch this and start looking at their black sisters differently.
    And not buy in the worlds systems of lies.
    I love my black men..❤❤
    Hope they do one with the sister's look forward to watching😊

  • @God-Love-Freedom
    @God-Love-Freedom Před rokem +5

    It’s a breath of fresh air and a show of true strength to see BM speaking highly of their people. Love this. ❤️

  • @yahainHotPink
    @yahainHotPink Před rokem +23

    Nice to listen to this

  • @chamadnasahahab8688
    @chamadnasahahab8688 Před rokem +4

    Wow i needed to hear this..... Bless you Kings! It will always be the BLack Man for me! This is so refreshing gives me so much hope for us all. BM BW Unite!✊🏿🙏🏿🙌🏿

  • @darkchild5983
    @darkchild5983 Před rokem +4

    I love my blackness and I LOVE my black men! We are unique and we are beautiful.

  • @your.beautiful.mind.now.

    Loved this!!!! Nothing but pure honesty!!!! I know for a fact that they get attacked for their views, ESPECIALLY by other black men and their preferences. Hats off to these Gentlemen!

  • @Alafa_Naturals
    @Alafa_Naturals Před rokem +4

    I stand with Black women. I'm exclusively for my kinds, the black woman is my reflection, she's been with me since day one ❤️🖤💚