Ladies,be like CHIOMA ADELEKE:Such A Role Model!...My Unpopular Opinion!

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  • @Nezeville
    @Nezeville  Před dnem +1

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  • @tonkab8197
    @tonkab8197 Před 2 dny +375

    You date and marry according to your level of “self esteem”

  • @uniqueblesyn1412
    @uniqueblesyn1412 Před 2 dny +656

    Finally, someone said it. Chioma is not a virtuous woman, she might be patient and tolerant, but she should not be a role model for young girls

    • @KaiPhD
      @KaiPhD Před 2 dny +11

      💯💯💯

    • @nessas8589
      @nessas8589 Před 2 dny +10

      Exactly 💯

    • @stinalawman2748
      @stinalawman2748 Před 2 dny +5

      I know that u are a role model

    • @theresabalogun4095
      @theresabalogun4095 Před 2 dny +3

      Gbam!

    • @deltaspiced_T
      @deltaspiced_T Před 2 dny +16

      Talking about Tolerance Nigerians can be gullible no disrespect meant to you oh I'm just using your reply as a context...there's no Human being on earth that could be that patient and calm then certain people knows how to paint a perfect public picture I'm talking about those anonymous msgs she'd express herself in ways you can't think of perfectly behind closed doors only if those side chic's Sophie and co can own up....y'all wld see Sophie act out throw tantrums no be person dey provoke her??Omo I don't hate Chioma oh but she's the last person I'd see as a Real one I don't respond multi faceted people abegg

  • @blackdiamond231
    @blackdiamond231 Před 2 dny +414

    Some of us don’t want to smile in a keke, neither do we want to cry in a Rolls Royce. We rather genuine laughs with a faithful husband in a Honda Accord😂😂😂

  • @moreniwura7805
    @moreniwura7805 Před 2 dny +58

    Some women still have their dignity intact even when money is involved

  • @ezeikeracheal8767
    @ezeikeracheal8767 Před 2 dny +194

    Rightly said Neze 👍 Chioma is not a standard for all women. She just made her choice based on her values and level of tolerance.

  • @bibaolaitan5189
    @bibaolaitan5189 Před 2 dny +361

    Thank you Neze, the amount of women praising this is troubling. I am afraid for this country.

    • @limfenyuykinyuy4861
      @limfenyuykinyuy4861 Před 2 dny +39

      It's indeed terrible.
      Even in my countrt Cameroon.
      I appreciate he loves her. But as they are married he should respect her and not cheat like that.
      People have no idea how devastating it is to loose your sanity in a relationship with a cheating patner.
      I hope he changes for the better.
      It's sick what our generation spplauds!

    • @KaiPhD
      @KaiPhD Před 2 dny +5

      I agree.

    • @elohorziregbe3504
      @elohorziregbe3504 Před 2 dny +4

      It big wedding they want

    • @olao9893
      @olao9893 Před 2 dny

      @@limfenyuykinyuy4861 Agree💯.

    • @Dorothy8631
      @Dorothy8631 Před 2 dny +27

      Very troubling. It’s same in my country Ghana. I can’t and will never wish this kind of man for myself.

  • @mjybeex6016
    @mjybeex6016 Před 2 dny +104

    I’m always perplexed people only focus on the fact that he’s fathered all these children while with Chioma but no one talks about the incurable diseases he could have inflicted her with. To father those children - he was NOT practicing safe sex. I’m almost scared to say that if fathering children with ALL those women while with her is all that resulted from his promiscuity - they both got lucky! 😢

    • @sugarbush0659
      @sugarbush0659 Před 2 dny +8

      I have said this on a few of the videos I watched. The women kept dogging the Sophia, lady and kept saying his other children don’t matter on chioma and her children. And how much he loves her. And I said not enough to protect her from disease and no matter what all his kids matter. They shouldn’t be shunned or mistreated and talked about by these women who idolize chioma….

    • @tonero8562
      @tonero8562 Před 2 dny

      ​@@sugarbush0659 What of those men who will cheat secretly without social media hearing about it. Just leave matter, it rains everywhere.

    • @oluwayemisiakaaka3163
      @oluwayemisiakaaka3163 Před 2 dny +1

      Exactly 🙌👌

    • @oluwayemisiakaaka3163
      @oluwayemisiakaaka3163 Před 2 dny +1

      Exactly! 👌👍

    • @oluwatoyin6348
      @oluwatoyin6348 Před dnem +11

      @@sugarbush0659
      All his kids matter EQUALLY because HE CHOSE to sleep with ALL the mothers.
      I don't understand why people are being so sentimental concerning the Chioma. Dey no go share for her money, dey no go share for her pain.... so why can't they be objective and truthful ?
      There is so much to teach our young girls NOT TO DO, using Chioma and Davido as a case study.
      But it seems the morals our grandparents and parents taught us then no longer have meaning to most in the present day Nigeria.
      Imagine somone in the comments section responding to a comment like yours that those who disapprove of the wedding are jealous of the
      ' GRACE ' upon Chioma !!!!
      HABA ! Which kin grace be dat ?!!!
      Grace that makes your biyfriend/ fiance/ husband to be kneeling down and crying for girls' toto all over the world ?
      Grace that make you a step mother to only God knows how many ( innocent ) children all over the world ? !
      Abeg, that is the kind of ' grace ' many women do not pray for, and cannot handle o !
      UNTIL we begin to tell ourselves the truth ( that the Nigerian society has become so corrupt because of this inordinate desire for wealth and riches to the level where the SOURCE no longer matters ) we will not be able to curb the current trend of Yahoo Plus boys and Olosho girls like the Celine and Afibas in our soceity.
      I weep for the teenagers and youths of Nigeria because the ( most )parents have failed woefully ....

  • @Oyinda4lfe
    @Oyinda4lfe Před 2 dny +114

    Chioma alone knows why she has chosen to marry Davido, and her decision should be respected. But I completely agree that she certainly shouldn't be the go-to role model, nor should her choice be the standard.

  • @r.q5194
    @r.q5194 Před 2 dny +213

    Am from Kenya and just love this intelligent woman

    • @priscaooko4626
      @priscaooko4626 Před 2 dny +2

      east africa women especially rwanda and kenya we are a movement🤣🤣🤣🤣..nigeria women come for benchmarking😊😊😊mama tears in marriages,,mama enduarances for abuses😶‍🌫😶‍🌫😶‍🌫

    • @fatimasani6151
      @fatimasani6151 Před 2 dny +5

      Yes, our Neze is wonderful with a supportive husband, just like the Kenyan Lynn Ngugi.Both channels are educative.

    • @tonero8562
      @tonero8562 Před 2 dny

      ​@@fatimasani6151How sure are you? Are you living with them in their home. Please please.

  • @tabithaauma1532
    @tabithaauma1532 Před 2 dny +122

    ....I listened to women on social media applaud her choice and I was sick to my stomach...😢

  • @marthacrentsil-acquah2242

    "There is no role being modeled here", Neze, I love you for this truth. I have been married for 17 years. I have 3 daughters and a son but I WILL NOT SETTLE FOR THIS FOR ANY ON MY 3 DAUGHTERS. God Forbid.

  • @Ris_Properties
    @Ris_Properties Před 2 dny +46

    My love for CZcams viewers. Theirs thoughts are usually different from Facebook, Instagram and Tiktok users. They're more matured in minds.

  • @kumbiaros216
    @kumbiaros216 Před 2 dny +244

    My love for Neze!!!We all love David and Chioma,but people shoud stop normalizing abnormalies....I pray God continue to bless their home... This video is ONLY FOR THE WISE❤❤❤❤❤

  • @Zoeyagule
    @Zoeyagule Před 2 dny +71

    My God!!! I’m in my early twenties and I consider myself as a blessed girl for finding barrister Neze! There’s so much noise out there and the truth is suppressed! God blessed Neze ❤❤❤🎉

  • @Petra.80
    @Petra.80 Před 2 dny +19

    The audacity of this woman to speak this truth! Thank you ❤

  • @abapyne2995
    @abapyne2995 Před 2 dny +21

    As a 21yr old lady, I strongly believe and I have seen people smile and laugh in luxury.

  • @annasexpressions
    @annasexpressions Před 2 dny +166

    Money can not buy peace of mind and morals

  • @esinamdo
    @esinamdo Před 2 dny +384

    Real love doesn't come with pain. It's beautiful to see the big wedding they had. I agree with you Neze dear. Chioma is beautiful and bet her last coin on something she can get a quarter of for the name and trophy. That doesn't make her a role model. This won't be our girls. Indeed stronger are women who walk away from all the abuse for their peace of mind. Women of African abuse endurance is not healthy. Money is not everything.

    • @Lisa30981
      @Lisa30981 Před 2 dny +12

      Well articulated point my sister,it starts with us to say no to dis abuse from men&later on covered with expensive gifts but not changing deir ways&in da end,dey become meaningless till u walk away after wasting almost all your life in pain!

    • @tayookunfolami2522
      @tayookunfolami2522 Před 2 dny +9

      🎉collect your flowers ma

    • @user-ie6ss3by6i
      @user-ie6ss3by6i Před 2 dny +4

      Fact

    • @RDCFemmes
      @RDCFemmes Před 2 dny +38

      i saw a comment about someone asking for Chioma's beleesing for her daughters and i commented so you wish for your daughters to be impregnated and moving with a man before marriage and go through multiples affairs? you seriously consider it a blessing? with this kind of mothers why would you need enemies.

    • @gbonjukola-balogun1362
      @gbonjukola-balogun1362 Před 2 dny +1

      Are you envious of them?

  • @amazing-gracedanieltv6607

    My GRANDPARENTS had a kingdom marriage, everyone including my mum, her siblings, community people knew how self disciplined and faithful my GRAND-DAD was, infact my grand-mom was being accused of using juju on him. And no he was not poor, he was well travelled, he was the first METHODIST MISSIONARY to the United Kingdom, Very Rev. Asuquo J. Udo, he travelled everywhere with his wife to different parts of the world, even when he had options of going alone, he always insist on carrying his wife, he was always known to be a FAMILY-ORIENTED MAN. Even he died a month before i was born(1993), his story was told to us his grandchildren by elders of the community and some of his associates and ofcourse my grand-mom will not stop talking to me about how self disciplined her husband was, and it was rare in her time to see such man, even when she didnt ask for fidelity, he gave her fidelity. Yes, they are faithful men, and its not about money, but about discipline

    • @elizabethbekoe381
      @elizabethbekoe381 Před 2 dny +2

      It's about love ..respect ..stability and peace of mind ..commitment is key !! Money can't buy love

    • @danielflorence7686
      @danielflorence7686 Před dnem +1

      Well said darling ❤

    • @DeeRee2010
      @DeeRee2010 Před dnem

      Hmm....Neze!!
      Very well said...u hv hit the nail @ the Head....a word is a enough for d wise ....

  • @ccntekim2864
    @ccntekim2864 Před 2 dny +49

    They have chosen to be together and that is fine for them. But words like “virtuous”, “role model” certainly do not apply to this woman. PLEASE!! Let this not become what young girls want to get into now.

  • @shesqueen_esther
    @shesqueen_esther Před 2 dny +139

    Neze, you have spoken facts. The part where you said, the strong person is the person that even in the midst of the things she stands to gain, still chose to walk away from emotional abuse and the likes. I felt that. I can relate too.

    • @ngozidavidakanno7136
      @ngozidavidakanno7136 Před 2 dny +8

      I just pray she doesn't contract deadly diseases that comes from such relationships, a man who enters very hole, and impregnate any thing on skirt, that money will turn to shit in a twinkle of an eye, I love her, I just pray Davido changes, and all the demons responsible for all this ashawo character will live him, oginidu haaa.

    • @queentv7565
      @queentv7565 Před 2 dny +3

      ​@@ngozidavidakanno7136Nobody dey force davido to do what is not good, na he mimd set make he dey do it, davido too like toto 😂

    • @chibandamwende3676
      @chibandamwende3676 Před 2 dny

      My sister if a Man ever calls you strong 💪, 🏃‍♀️ 🏃‍♀️ 🏃‍♀️ run ,run to the hills and never accept as a woman never accept ,women are the weaker vessel,omo we have 2 face,Davido,Diamond, Heck Samidoh yes am Kenyan and if I tell you follow the gospel according to Neze 😅😅😅🤼‍♂️🇰🇪

    • @maahonemercyma9083
      @maahonemercyma9083 Před dnem

      Even if at the end you can die.

  • @sophiaplange516
    @sophiaplange516 Před 2 dny +167

    It's all about the money here in Africa. Imagine someone saying True love comes with Pain...wow! really? To each his own, don't let anyone force his or her opinion on you

    • @Mimi-jk9jc
      @Mimi-jk9jc Před 2 dny

      Would you opt for rich+cheat or poor+cheat? Reason: how many rich men do we have in Nigeria? How many cheats do we have in Nigeria?

    • @berthaduah5508
      @berthaduah5508 Před 2 dny +16

      ​@@Mimi-jk9jcCORRECTION: Is not every man who cheats and it is not every rich man who cheats.

    • @grace-en7gs
      @grace-en7gs Před 2 dny +9

      It’s sad that you have come to these conclusions probably based on your experiences or what’s happening around you. Cheating cannot be normalised! It’s not every man that cheats whether they are poor or rich! So it’s disheartening to limit people to your abnormal two options: poor + cheat or rich + cheat! So sad. It may interest you to know that there are men who are sexually responsible and have treated their women with love & fidelity whether are rich or poor.

    • @sophiaplange516
      @sophiaplange516 Před 2 dny +11

      @@Mimi-jk9jc and who says you cannot find a Rich man who doesn't cheat. Who also says you cannot be Rich and have options. All I see in your statement is low self-esteem which, unfortunately, a lot of women have in this part of the world.

    • @simplye.l.
      @simplye.l. Před 2 dny +4

      ​@Mimi-jk9jc lol, those aren't the only options

  • @simplydemii
    @simplydemii Před 2 dny +18

    You and your DJ deserve an award for always using the perfect song 😂😂😭😭😂😭

  • @chrissynyanway2104
    @chrissynyanway2104 Před 2 dny +13

    A virtuous woman as described in the Bible or dictionary, is not one that goes under shame n disgrace for her promiscuous husband! Being a virtuous woman is far more than this n we should not encourage our young girls to be virtuous in this sense. This is all about money! She wouldn't have done that for a poor man! Who wants their child to suffer pains, agony n emotional distressed in such a young age only because of money? As u rightly said, money is not everything! I agreed 100% with your thoughts on this. Thank u.

  • @Ladyfaithke
    @Ladyfaithke Před 2 dny +33

    It’s a sign that he’s despised you so much that he chose you cause you can endure and overcome and never leave .

  • @mariamjibrin7260
    @mariamjibrin7260 Před 2 dny +83

    Chioma is not my standard. the standard is to marry a man that can be a good husband and a model to my children before having children. this is not goal jo. I believe that if she was raised well or adhere to her parents upbringing, she should not have dated someone like Davido not to mention having babies out of wedlock then marrying him.

    • @the7thquesttravelvlog995
      @the7thquesttravelvlog995 Před 2 dny +7

      ​@@chioma6844fact check... before the twins..she had a baby before the twin (may God rest the young boy's soul)

    • @AyoBamidele-gl6lk
      @AyoBamidele-gl6lk Před 2 dny

      ​@@chioma6844lie lie.chivido fans with their lie

    • @sandrajordan2179
      @sandrajordan2179 Před 2 dny

    • @tonero8562
      @tonero8562 Před 2 dny +1

      You are trying hard to paint her black because you can't see yourself getting the grace she has. Envy is just consuming some of you. Who knows the man you will end up with

    • @williewill3314
      @williewill3314 Před 2 dny

      Just because ppl got finger they just type rubbish who told u she had hertein out ofwed lock even the first don she was a fiance they twin she married davido in court before they were born. Get a life focus on ya life

  • @nwadimkpatogunloju349
    @nwadimkpatogunloju349 Před 2 dny +14

    The praise from people is born out of the fact that she won among all the women. What I see in it is the wealth and affluence involved was a big attraction for Chioma. Though she met Davido before he became very famous she too was too young to get involved in what she did. I am surprised that from her background at her age the parents watched and saw their daughter drop from school to follow a lifestyle completely alien to igbos. Having children out of wedlock and actually living with the man before marriage. The wedding was a crowning of all the pains she took her family through. As at now she has nothing to loose because she will enjoy the comfort ahead needs. But will she have to put up with the ridiculous life of Davido? Definitely maybe as at now her age is not allowing her to feel it. She is still living in a make believe world. Wish her the best

  • @kaybyonye
    @kaybyonye Před 2 dny +14

    'Aaahh' song😂😂😂😂 i can't believe that was a real song that exists😅

    • @nanangachingoma8673
      @nanangachingoma8673 Před 2 dny

      That was my thinking too. I was like: "what song is this now????" 😂

  • @hawaali4115
    @hawaali4115 Před 2 dny +75

    This lawyer Nezaville sabi well well!

  • @aduraamarachi4089
    @aduraamarachi4089 Před 2 dny +95

    You have said it all my sister

  • @jam2finds
    @jam2finds Před dnem +37

    I Africa it’s all about poverty which makes women acts like dump. When my mother visited me in UK, she looked at the system of freedom and said to me that, if she was living here she would have left my dad long time ago.

    • @sharonosaze
      @sharonosaze Před dnem +1

      Hmmmmm

    • @danielflorence7686
      @danielflorence7686 Před dnem +2

      Truth.

    • @lola2659
      @lola2659 Před dnem

      There are lots of single mothers sleeping with men who just give them sex. They cook for the same man to attract him and open their children to risk of abuse because of sex. Some of this women struggle a lot without a man. Trust me things are not always as they appear

    • @CYDER-cv3yk
      @CYDER-cv3yk Před dnem

      Hmmm really 🤔🤔

  • @HanifaUwitonze
    @HanifaUwitonze Před 2 dny +18

    I thought i was losing my mind reading those filthy comments. I had started to lose hope. Thank God there are people who are still thinking correctly .that mariage is doomed and cursed .money is not everything

    • @roseorewa603
      @roseorewa603 Před dnem +3

      You have said it all no more no less. Let them be glorifying abnormality because of wealth.

    • @HanifaUwitonze
      @HanifaUwitonze Před dnem

      @@roseorewa603 can you imagine if it was a simple broke guy not famous not rich ? Would it be the same story ? Would she stay ? I'm afraid of a woman who stays with a guy who cheats without even protection .is she not afraid of her health ?

    • @Elxa-fb5gv
      @Elxa-fb5gv Před dnem

      She might be promiscuous too otherwise the emotional trauma is too much😢 for a committed person​@@HanifaUwitonze

  • @nnekairoegbu2360
    @nnekairoegbu2360 Před 2 dny +501

    Chioma has made her decision let's respect it. Chioma is not the standard for every woman thou.😂😂😂😂

    • @simipamzat6924
      @simipamzat6924 Před 2 dny

      Not at all. When she contracts some deadly disease, she wouldn’t be the standard!

    • @stormieblaze510
      @stormieblaze510 Před 2 dny +70

      Congratulations to both of them and I am super happy with this happy ending to their story. However - I echo you to say Chioma’s decision is not the standard at all - we must not dilute moral standards. The drama she’s put herself and her family through is unnecessary, but her patience and decorum needs to be studied and it paid off. Sometimes, love is not enough.

    • @lydianyagwoka409
      @lydianyagwoka409 Před 2 dny +42

      We women leave men because they cheat and end up single and date married old men, what's the point I support her fully. To date a celebrity you must have a strong heart oooo no be joke

    • @lindaegwuonwu3287
      @lindaegwuonwu3287 Před 2 dny +5

      @nnekairoegbu2360 I concur

    • @limfenyuykinyuy4861
      @limfenyuykinyuy4861 Před 2 dny +2

      Thankyou

  • @maryjaneomoroseTV
    @maryjaneomoroseTV Před 2 dny +109

    How do I like this video two times? A very balanced opinion.

  • @innocentagbo2855
    @innocentagbo2855 Před dnem +6

    Don't ever think of being like anybody, just be yourself!

  • @magahalgorre-ndiaye3267
    @magahalgorre-ndiaye3267 Před 2 dny +8

    This message should go viral! Thank you for a great message and I hope many women would learn from this.
    I grew up in a family where my dad was a cheater and my mum took it but it damaged me as their child and I am still trying to heal at 41 years old.

    • @adeshileadequateabigail4403
      @adeshileadequateabigail4403 Před dnem

      So sorry😢. You will be fine. I just want you to know it was not your fault. You didnt choose your parents.
      You just have to keep improving yourself and hope for the best.

  • @Funmyy
    @Funmyy Před 2 dny +219

    I congratulate them but I can never wish chioma and davido’s marriage on my enemy .

    • @Tpetra143
      @Tpetra143 Před 2 dny +12

      😂😂😂😂😂😂wahala pro max

    • @annabelrobert9639
      @annabelrobert9639 Před 2 dny +11

      You've said it all.

    • @KayNaude
      @KayNaude Před 2 dny +2

      😂😂😂

    • @JesuisFlay
      @JesuisFlay Před 2 dny +37

      At all lol. No money in the world could make me open my life to emotional turmoil or the possibility of diseases. I’ve been in that exact situation and I walked away. Glad I did.

    • @deborahkabutey5214
      @deborahkabutey5214 Před 2 dny +2

      😂😂😂😂

  • @kukuakukua
    @kukuakukua Před 2 dny +39

    Thank you my sister, we've lost all moral compass as a society. I see comments on Chioma and Davido's marriage and I know that the standards we are teaching our daughters (and sons) are falling lower and lower each day. We are teaching them that in the presence of fame and money (or their absence), it is okay to accept community peni-ses as husbands. We say that's what true love is.
    Smh. But what good is material possessions in the face of HIV, numerous baby mamas and children? Shouldn't we teach our children to love and respect themselves and choose peace of mind above everything? Why can't love be pain free and respectful?

  • @ijeomaagu5465
    @ijeomaagu5465 Před 2 dny +7

    Nezeville has the best unbiased commentary ooo. She speaks from a place of abundance and not lack. Love the content nne

  • @yozareason1803
    @yozareason1803 Před 2 dny +14

    You are really smart! I’ve said this from a very first day I listened to your videos, since you Nigerian days…. I’ve been so disturbed reading other comments even from other content creators 😳😳 I couldn’t believe that almost 85% of women in Nigeria are attacking us when we say something different and saying we are jealous 😳 why would we really??? You really have a sound mind ❤

  • @somayinaayerite7643
    @somayinaayerite7643 Před 2 dny +23

    Life is a choice, Chioma made her choice. If that is what she wants, then that is her choice. This is not a standard for everyone.

    • @nyekay615
      @nyekay615 Před dnem

      Asking respectfully, is it your standard?

  • @queensleychukwudum2119
    @queensleychukwudum2119 Před 2 dny +40

    Today, after watching your show for more than a year, I subscribed! You went against the grain and I am so proud of you! You spoke my mind succinctly.

  • @sadebabalola2189
    @sadebabalola2189 Před 2 dny +7

    Go Nezeville ,well said. ..Stronger is the person who chose to WALK... You are a woman of great wisdom. Abi oo,my sentiments exactly. The narrative needs to change for next generation. Thanks for speaking real truth

  • @AliceJohn-vv1jn
    @AliceJohn-vv1jn Před 2 dny +5

    That's how social media people will hype you to death unless you use your sense,

  • @limfenyuykinyuy4861
    @limfenyuykinyuy4861 Před 2 dny +66

    Soo sad that our generation is blinded by money and have no standards.
    A well elaborated and educative video.
    Women who see themselves as high valued will accept every single thing you mentioned here.
    You expressed my mind

  • @Scoop777
    @Scoop777 Před 2 dny +127

    The wedding and all its glitz is just for a day. Marriage is for a lifetime. I pray it all ends well. All the red flags do not look good. She seems to have moulded herself to please Davido. It could end in tears. I'm thinking in the extreme as PDiddy and Cassie come to mind. All that glitters is not gold

    • @Lisa30981
      @Lisa30981 Před 2 dny +5

      Well said.

    • @josephinehagan6584
      @josephinehagan6584 Před 2 dny +11

      please don't let us sing doomsday for their relationship. They have been in relationship for quite a while and i think Chioma is aware of what she's up for against. Let's allow them be.When she feels she can no longer tolerate the humiliation, she will make her decision. Though they should not be the standard

    • @CommentBot007
      @CommentBot007 Před 2 dny +6

      Back to sender!!
      Life is a game she won the one she played and will continue to win the rest🙏🙏🙏👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻Amen
      If she didn’t marry him she would always be known as „Davido baby mama“……. Let her go all the way…. They understand each other.
      Millions will still die to marry Davido!‘n

    • @tonero8562
      @tonero8562 Před 2 dny

      It will not end in tears. Or should I say what you wish for her should come back to you? I wonder the kind of human beings that exist these days.

    • @shalbec3232
      @shalbec3232 Před 2 dny +2

      ​@@josephinehagan6584 like you said she's aware who she married so if he does cheat later on she must not act surprised because it Davido and it won't be his first or last time cheating

  • @oziomablessing3487
    @oziomablessing3487 Před dnem +3

    I feel like hugging Neze right now 😂. This is exactly my point, it has nothing to do with hate or jealousy

  • @barbaratiedeu4985
    @barbaratiedeu4985 Před 2 dny +3

    This analysis deserves a STANDING OVATION! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @AfricanDee
    @AfricanDee Před 2 dny +32

    Ah! I wish CZcams can allow me to like this video 100 times!! You said my thoughts so well. I’m so sick of other CZcamsrs glorifying this behavior for fear of not being canceled. Yes, we respect her decision to marry David, but the sexual irresponsibility is real. There are diseases out there! What role models are we showing our next generation by not speaking the truth.

  • @Afrodiaspora
    @Afrodiaspora Před 2 dny +33

    This hairstyle really suits you, your braid looks fantastic

  • @reitaebohon7853
    @reitaebohon7853 Před 2 dny +4

    Thanks to our Barrister who speaks nothing but the truth. Nothing more to add. You nailed it!!! 👏 👌 congratulations to her anyway. She looks happy ❤

  • @flourishflo3570
    @flourishflo3570 Před 2 dny +3

    The third one made me spill everything from my mouth 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 this lady is on fire with her mouth

  • @onyxx1030
    @onyxx1030 Před 2 dny +42

    So many CZcamsrs have posted so-called unpopular opinion, but Neze is the only one who has spoken truthfully and without fear!

  • @namastebawoni1356
    @namastebawoni1356 Před 2 dny +53

    God bless you, Nezeville. I don't wish such marriage on my daughter. Congratulations to Chioma, May God continue to give her the grace to endure. Mother's must train their daughter on self-worth. Well articulated as always, Nezeville. Speaking my mind, emotional abu$e is as bad as physical abu$e. Emotional instability can also affect one's health physically. Women raised in the diaspora are educated from early on not to condone any sort of abu$e for whatever reason.

  • @katekamerun1550
    @katekamerun1550 Před 2 dny +4

    Chai Neze you said it! If money was everything the rich will not cry! WORD!!

  • @ugoeziegwim1552
    @ugoeziegwim1552 Před 2 dny +3

    My dear, I am glad to see a woman with this mindset. Thank God.

  • @baronesslizzy8428
    @baronesslizzy8428 Před 2 dny +167

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ Neze! It’s really sad to find out apparently that blatant promiscuity is acceptable for rich young men in Nigeria in 2024 and the one who ends up marrying them is considered to have won the jackpot, according to some bloggers (mostly men)! I will say this. The wedding ceremonies were spectacular and beautiful and opulent and fantabulous and the newly weds looked completely adorable and gorgeous. However, I still have my reservation about the character of the groom and pray that maturity and self respect for himself and his marriage and kindness and sensitivity to his wife directs his future decisions about ‘the other room’ activity.

    • @doreenchibuzor4340
      @doreenchibuzor4340 Před 2 dny +35

      I am a Nigerian and I hate that people hail promiscuity. Well the bride already knows how promiscuous the groom is and going to be.

    • @bibaolaitan5189
      @bibaolaitan5189 Před 2 dny +35

      I hope she can mentally tolerate it, and cope with it, but I hate the way ppl are praising her. If a woman did this to a man. She would be dragged to hell by both man and woman.

    • @BisolaHephzibahJohnson
      @BisolaHephzibahJohnson Před 2 dny +1

      ​@@doreenchibuzor4340you mean poor people are not promiscuity?

    • @rosewangari1534
      @rosewangari1534 Před 2 dny +6

      We are quick to judge people in the lime light, whereas you find even in the slums that a man has multiple children with different women, but since they aren't popular.. we don't sit here and condemn their actions. I don't support promiscuity but those who do this, know what is in their minds and hearts.

    • @BisolaHephzibahJohnson
      @BisolaHephzibahJohnson Před 2 dny

      @@rosewangari1534 tnx

  • @Adedolapo02
    @Adedolapo02 Před 2 dny +33

    The way you articulate my thoughts on some subject matters is so beautiful. I totally agree with you on this

  • @valentinenkem9193
    @valentinenkem9193 Před 2 dny +13

    Africans celebrate married in a beautiful way and leave out the most important part ,which is "how is this union going to survive after the big ceremony?"

  • @onege4460
    @onege4460 Před dnem +3

    THANK YOU NEZE. When I saw your title, I ran here to flog you but when I listened to your comments, I was reassured that you are as wise as I thought. This relationship and this beautiful young woman should not be any body's role model. We are happy for her but she is in an abusive and toxic relationship. If this man was ordinary poor Femi in Ojuelegba, will these people say that he is a good man, that she is lucky to be married to him? The double standard is nauseous.

  • @ekeamarachi
    @ekeamarachi Před 2 dny +42

    Thank you ma, i said same yesterday after congratulating them and I was so attacked that I had to delete it. Chioma is not the standard period

    • @evyjin9675
      @evyjin9675 Před 2 dny

      @@chioma6844you’re a fool

    • @ekeamarachi
      @ekeamarachi Před 2 dny

      @@chioma6844 lol, I’m not shallow minded like you. Do you think you have to marry a rich man to make wealth, it’s lazy people like you that sell their integrity for money. I won’t and can never sell my peace for money unlike you

    • @user-hd2rf2mr9e
      @user-hd2rf2mr9e Před 2 dny +5

      Why did you delete it.let them wail and cry the truth will stand strong forever.

    • @ekeamarachi
      @ekeamarachi Před dnem

      @@chioma6844 maybe but that won’t still make it right or the standard

    • @ekeamarachi
      @ekeamarachi Před dnem

      @@chioma6844 who is talking about Sophia, pls don’t divert from the main point

  • @tu-ugejoy6303
    @tu-ugejoy6303 Před 2 dny +37

    God bless you Neze. When you see truth, you say it with your full chest.❤

  • @elizabethjohndouglasakelem5575

    The main advice is in the last 10 minutes of this video. ❤ It doesn't rain everywhere oh. You should be genuinely happy in your relationship. Projecting negativity into your life. Settling for rubbish. To what end really? It's better to remain single sis than living through unnecessary nonsense.

    • @nkhabe03
      @nkhabe03 Před dnem

      Queen May is the role model

  • @JAY18351
    @JAY18351 Před dnem +2

    You had me at coronary heart disease step out abort mission, congenital heart disease pick your bags run away,deep vein thrombosis leave the room🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 you are so funny,entertaining and teaching all at the same time. This is my best channel on here!!!

  • @doraokojie2523
    @doraokojie2523 Před 2 dny +97

    I celebrated my 23 years of marriage on the 20th of June, but as at 23 years ago we don't have much but we were so happy and blessed with 2 boys but today our joy have no boundaries , i think the problem in Africa is all about money 💰 so sad how even pastors and fatherly personalities clapping for nonsense

    • @estyonyi8153
      @estyonyi8153 Před 2 dny +4

      Honestly it's sad how people applaud the wrong things and want to normalize it.

    • @ezinnoch2203
      @ezinnoch2203 Před 2 dny

      ​@estyonyi8153 crazy. I was trying to explain this to someone and it seem difficult for them to understand

    • @RitaDokore
      @RitaDokore Před dnem

      I agree the fact that black woman has to be strong for non sense and struggling love . She was never custom for real love .. all she is gaining his lifestyle and luxury...​@@estyonyi8153

  • @bettyosaremwen6490
    @bettyosaremwen6490 Před 2 dny +40

    You have said what others are afraid to discuss. .kudos!

  • @peacegracemercy5445
    @peacegracemercy5445 Před 2 dny +3

    Thank you our adorable Neze, i love you to the moon and back. I have 2 beautiful daughters who i will never wish this kind of life for.
    May they date and marry disciplined men. Amen!!!
    Thank you, Neze ❤🎉

  • @emmieQ
    @emmieQ Před dnem +1

    Barrister Neze that music ahahahahah got me rolling on the floor 🤣 😂 😆

  • @edejorroseline3802
    @edejorroseline3802 Před 2 dny +16

    This is a really counseling and a reminder to all the single ladies at there 😢
    May God bless you for this ma

  • @j.n.8153
    @j.n.8153 Před 2 dny +32

    I find her marrying Davido so ludicrous that I started thinking maybe he gave her an STD. I hope people don't think that this new marriage will end old habits. In fact, Davido will use his prior lifestyle to support continuation of it post marriage. His cheating isn't about Chioma. It's about his ferocious appetite to have access to sex anywhere and any time. That's stronger than public humiliation of Chioma. Those children of his are evidence of promiscuity, but what about those who bore no fruit for him? Sex addict is what it's giving. Any way, Chioma knows why she decided to jump the broom. God grant her a higher ability to see no evil and hear no evil. At least in America spouses are granted spousal and child support once divorced. You never know her aim.

  • @ngoziilonze4616
    @ngoziilonze4616 Před 2 dny +2

    Thank you so much, my dear . Moral decadence, especially in our country, is something else. People now think that money is everything, and that's so sad 😢😢

  • @fionalewinson5199
    @fionalewinson5199 Před 2 dny +2

    True love dont come with pain. Love is kind

  • @estherbebe2303
    @estherbebe2303 Před 2 dny +12

    Everything about Neze is correct 👍🏾 your accent correct ✅
    Your vibes correct ✅
    Your voice correct ✅
    Your energy correct ✅
    The way you mix comedy and truth, girl !you got talent, you should be a journalist 😂
    The way you make us understand the story 👌🏾

    • @nanangachingoma8673
      @nanangachingoma8673 Před 2 dny

      Totally agree with you, @estherbebe2303! ... Thats what brings me to her videos wherever I get a chance. In this age of misinformation/dysinformation, we need someone who says the truth; no matter how horrible that truth may be! ❤️ you Barrister!

    • @MaiAngelTv
      @MaiAngelTv Před dnem

      As it’s time to be real. Accent needs to be tone down Abit…I sometimes struggles to listen to her. More Nigerian accent is clearer an easy listening. I do appreciate your videos.

  • @virtuouswoman4516
    @virtuouswoman4516 Před 2 dny +66

    Nezeville, l have not seen anyone who best narrates events on her platform. Nezeville is a highly intelligent lady with excellent communication, eloquent and articulate. She is also extremely beautiful and stunning. Your fan from 🇬🇧

  • @user-tm3yj4yj1x
    @user-tm3yj4yj1x Před dnem +1

    The presentation and the backup song wanted to die me off with laugh 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @ininkanta9952
    @ininkanta9952 Před 2 dny +3

    You deserve a hi 5 for this piece🙌

  • @sylvanusjajuamoore6980
    @sylvanusjajuamoore6980 Před 2 dny +14

    The song is something else 🤭😂.
    No way someone can be another person🙅🏾‍♂️.
    Be honest with yourself and let the person know what they’re going to see in you in the future,never you fake it to make them stay believe me one day the real you will show up and guess what they’ll leave.

  • @tamiausten873
    @tamiausten873 Před 2 dny +12

    Preach Mama❤❤. I've heard loud and clear. What is the point of luxury if it can't make me smile? I better dey water side, make I know say I dey suffer, at least I'll still have dreams of a better future. When you are rich and still in pain, the next thing is to take your life 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️. May God help us to have peace

  • @adariches
    @adariches Před dnem +1

    I wish I could like this video a thousand times!
    Thank you Neze for speaking nothing but FACTS! While everyone was oogling and fawning over their wedding, I was looking like 🙄😒. Why are we celebrating such a tragic union?
    Shout out to her for all the money, etc she's gonna get but life will be just as it has been for her the past years.
    Hey, she like it...I love it 😌

  • @iamsosasmama
    @iamsosasmama Před 2 dny +1

    Correct, a sensible person has spoken. Thank you @Nezeville. People tapping into"blessings" & using certain others as yardsticks, tire me. God bless you for touching on this.

  • @datibella
    @datibella Před 2 dny +23

    Na me land here fess😂.
    Nothing "Neze" gist no go do person 😂😂😂

  • @SandraSalomeAngolorctr
    @SandraSalomeAngolorctr Před 2 dny +17

    Barr.Neze you will not see pagatory for that song that you included .😂😂😂
    Infact, I shall sit beside you when we get to heaven because,😂this gist too sweet!
    I was waiting for this unpopular opinion because I would NEVER put my mental health, sexual health, and physical health at stake in the name of "virtuous woman" just because of money.
    Let me gladly be among those "jealousy" individuals, but that union, is nothing to be proud about.
    Mind you, The real marriage is yet to start😂😂😂(this comes from a married woman). The fire hasn't even started. Let her enjoy the glamour, gold, and bliss that comes with the ceremony. The REAL MARRIAGE is coming, ooh!😅

  • @ijeomao.4847
    @ijeomao.4847 Před dnem +1

    Thank God for you and your sense. Its such a breath of fresh air to hear a woman speak with her whole mind. I dont understand the nigerian womans OBSESSION with struggle and pain.

  • @gladys19gh
    @gladys19gh Před 2 dny +2

    You've said it all, Sis. Our sisters & young girls must do better👌🏼 We must not normalize this.

  • @sn2919
    @sn2919 Před 2 dny +15

    Neze got me laughing with this song.....I wish them the best .. peace and sense is found in Christ, may they find him. Is ironi ooo....not our role model.
    You nailed it! It's extreme poverty that make many think those things are normal.

  • @janetOlubiyi
    @janetOlubiyi Před 2 dny +15

    This is really the hard truth.

  • @preciousglory6735
    @preciousglory6735 Před 2 dny +2

    The blessings of God added No sorrow, may we not look enjoying outside for people face and crying inside may the good God bless everyone of us ❤

  • @zeemali4369
    @zeemali4369 Před dnem

    👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾U couldn’t have said it any better.Thank u so much Barrister Neze. God bless u🙏🏽

  • @nnekairoegbu2360
    @nnekairoegbu2360 Před 2 dny +74

    I personally know someone that died of a broken heart, her husband cheats on her like there's no tomorrow. She was a very unhappy woman and her husband is just a regular guy. Gone at only fourty six years. Women be careful oooh.

    • @Hoj299
      @Hoj299 Před 2 dny +6

      🙏 imperative to guard your heart

    • @lindaj7167
      @lindaj7167 Před 2 dny +1

      I know someone similar as well

    • @daisychepkorir7579
      @daisychepkorir7579 Před 2 dny +1

      😢

    • @trixwoman
      @trixwoman Před 2 dny +8

      My mum died of broken heart,if I don't learn from my mum's case I must be a cursed fool. Emotional abuse especially for a loyal woman is very hard.

    • @ifeomaookoli
      @ifeomaookoli Před 2 dny +1

      ​@@trixwoman😢 so sorry for your loss 🫂

  • @vickieogb1262
    @vickieogb1262 Před 2 dny +33

    Another reminder that I’m following one with a value system!.
    I will never understand settling for a man without character cos of wealth sha, cos anyone can personally work towards financial freedom; nevertheless over the years I’ve also just learnt to respect people’s choices even if I’ll never be able to rap my head around such decisions.
    God help us all 🙌🏽

    • @e.a.2033
      @e.a.2033 Před 2 dny

      The problem is women working to get the wealth

  • @graciedee8248
    @graciedee8248 Před 2 dny +1

    Omg, this Neze woman is full of wisdom. God bless you for what you do & for sharing with us. Love your channel.

  • @bceebakars
    @bceebakars Před 2 dny +2

    i salute your frankly speaking. more strenght to your vocals.

  • @TamarMichael-xm8wj
    @TamarMichael-xm8wj Před 2 dny +25

    😂😂😂😂 She settled for reasons best known to her but certainly not a roll model.
    Not every woman has the mental & emotional strength for a torturing philandering abusive hubby with or without money!
    Let's keep their unity in prayers because with settling comes repeated patterns, good or bad! Amen 🙏.

  • @finestfinest9926
    @finestfinest9926 Před 2 dny +45

    So like I commented in your previous video
    " Chioma is still young with good shock absorbers...let's wait till she is in the thirties approaching the forties and if she will still contain all the excesses happening now..
    Then we will understand her love better. Marriage is no joke ooo.

    • @damilolabashorun8890
      @damilolabashorun8890 Před 2 dny +10

      😂 love that shock absorbers😂😂

    • @inerit5175
      @inerit5175 Před 2 dny +11

      well said ! When you are 40 and the first grey hair starts showing and then he dates a fresh 20 yr old! Hmmmmmm

    • @eljayjay7884
      @eljayjay7884 Před 2 dny +1

      No joke 🤦🏻‍♀️

    • @pdm8446
      @pdm8446 Před 2 dny

      @@inerit5175e gbami oooo

    • @Hair4Two
      @Hair4Two Před 2 dny +3

      Maybe that's the plan. Give it 10 more years amass so wealth and leave at 40 with the rest of your life ahead of you and your children at a reasonable age.

  • @eljayjay7884
    @eljayjay7884 Před 2 dny +2

    All that you read from your book killed me woh😂😂😂😂😂

  • @kulajallah1737
    @kulajallah1737 Před 2 dny +2

    Neze, everyone chooses their hard time! 😂😂😂😂But crying in a hut is harder and lastly being broke is even the hardest😂😂😂😂😂

  • @preciouschizim5985
    @preciouschizim5985 Před 2 dny +6

    "Leave the room sister, you will die..."😂 Neze your story telling skill is something else.

  • @abenahcnb1994
    @abenahcnb1994 Před 2 dny +62

    People who think Chioma is happy in that relationship,Ur wrong. She is just in for what she gains in it the wealth and affluence

    • @angela-bx6gu
      @angela-bx6gu Před 2 dny

      My sentiments exactly 💰💰💰 this man 😳🍆come and get it community

    • @namsyl2093
      @namsyl2093 Před 2 dny

      😂😂😅

    • @joykorshiwor699
      @joykorshiwor699 Před 2 dny +2

      We all can't tell if she is happy or not. It may be be those things may not be a deal breaker for her though

    • @tonero8562
      @tonero8562 Před 2 dny

      Chiomaa's spokesperson has talked.

    • @somoyesimileoluwa2283
      @somoyesimileoluwa2283 Před 2 dny

      ❤❤❤❤

  • @nadiaadu-gyamfi1251
    @nadiaadu-gyamfi1251 Před 2 dny

    Thank you, Barrister Neze! You've said it alllll. God bless you