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  • čas přidán 29. 12. 2021
  • let's get ready for my boyfriend and I's one year! I also try and give my best advice while answering all of your questions related to boys, relationships, etc. I LOVE YOU
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    Welcome to my channel! I’m Bailey Dedrick, a 16-yr-old teen based out of the mid-west! I’m currently in my Junior year of high school and plan to attend college after I graduate. Subscribe for weekly fashion, beauty, photography & lifestyle videos that follow me through my everyday life! I've also posted a lot of videos about pulling an all nighter, tiktok videos, hauls, shopping hauls, clothing hauls, vlogs, drive with me videos and birthday videos!
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  • @baileydedrick
    @baileydedrick  Před 2 lety +12

    I JUST UPLOADED A NEW VERSION OF THIS VIDEO! czcams.com/video/Vkm5zppfm0g/video.html

  • @addierichardson1579
    @addierichardson1579 Před 2 lety +436

    i cannot get over how sweet bailey is giving this advice on such personal things and going back to read quotes even like that just shows she cares what her fans are going through.

    • @lm8281
      @lm8281 Před 2 lety +8

      i need to keep this video in the back of my mind for when i go through a breakup haha, i'm gonna need het straight up ass advice telling me to cut all contact and go have fun :p

  • @chloeschannel1228
    @chloeschannel1228 Před 2 lety +747

    Great advice! I’m only 14 and not in a relationship and I never have been but I agree with most of the stuff you said! It can really apply to friends too- I’ll def use it in the future!!

  • @theresaaavu
    @theresaaavu Před 2 lety +131

    can we just appreciate how realistic bailey is with us

  • @bruhhh.lifern
    @bruhhh.lifern Před 2 lety +62

    “Don’t play games unless they’re playing games and then you can play them back”
    The best advice!!!!

  • @mckenziewicker6907
    @mckenziewicker6907 Před 2 lety +260

    bailey backing up what she says not RECKLESS not DRUGS and then that little laugh was soo funny love this video it was so on point

  • @zeviv7313
    @zeviv7313 Před 2 lety +129

    This is really good advice. I especially agree about "you can never change another person". People do change, occasionally, but only if it's their own decision, and never because somebody else was trying to change them.
    About overthinking, what helped me the most was realizing that not everything is about me. :) It sounds silly when you put it that way, but what I mean is that whenever I saw a person frowning, I used to worry what I did to annoy them. Now I realize that there are a million reasons somebody could be frowning, and most of them have nothing to do with me. Similarly, if a person sounds annoyed when they are talking to you, they might be annoyed at the previous person they talked to, or at something they saw on TV, or they might just be having a bad day.
    So as an exercise for less overthinking, if you think somebody is mad at you, try to immediately think of three other reasons they might have that facial expression. (Because if you are like me, chances are that 90% of the time you think people are mad at you, they actually aren't, and the remaining 10% of the time, they'll tell you exactly what you did wrong. Or at least something that you did wrong.) So you can try training your brain to think of other reasons, instead of immediately going down the "I am a terrible person" spiral.
    EDIT: Finally, there are some people who will find a reason to be angry at you no matter what you do. In that case, just remember that it's the problem with them, not you. If it's a boyfriend, dump that toxic (censored). If it's a parent, or someone else you can't avoid, just remember that they are the ones wrong, and try to ignore it. (See the part about being unable to change another person.)

  • @krustycow9670
    @krustycow9670 Před 2 lety +11

    I can tell that she is a perfectionist simply by how long she spent on her mascara. It looked amazing though. I could never😭 she is so pretty

  • @charlotterockwell1307
    @charlotterockwell1307 Před 2 lety +23

    The first thing Bailey said, goes for friendship too! if they aren’t giving you as much as you are giving them, they are worth that drain

  • @isabellamhaney
    @isabellamhaney Před 2 lety +12

    11:02 i just wanted to leave this here for anyone who need to hear it. basically me and this one guy liked each other but for certain reasons we could not be together. the night everything happened i was sobbing on my bathroom floor texting my bestie. he said to her “i feel like ive always liked her” which hearing that made my heart shatter. i can say that i have NEVER cried over a boy more than this one. EVER. it honestly took me over a freaking year to get over him but i finally did a few months ago. during the whole year of still liking him after everything happened, we were friends. yep. i had to hide everything from him including my feelings. endless nights of crying, telling myself i wasnt good enough ( even though thats not the reason we could not be together ), and even hurting myself. when i finally realized i lost feelings for him, i was so unbelievably proud of myself. myself a year ago would have never thought i would be where i am now. ladies i hope this story of mine helps if youre going through something like this!!!
    either way, we are in a good spot now. we are friends and im comfy being friends with him. obviously this isnt the case for everyone, but i just wanted to add this

  • @gracecarey2244
    @gracecarey2244 Před 2 lety +181

    bailey: “I have this black dress from princess polly”
    I swear everything bailey owns is from princess polly andd i’m here for ittt

    • @MasoumehRoseberry
      @MasoumehRoseberry Před 2 lety +4

      Seriously this sentence reminds me of Sadie aldis
      She was used to saying that when vlogging lol😄

  • @lauracheney5775
    @lauracheney5775 Před 2 lety +9

    Bailey you NEED to make a podcast because I would listen to that!!

  • @rowan561
    @rowan561 Před 2 lety +37

    the amount of effort and entertainment she puts into videos needs to be appreciated

  • @irenepetrutiu6977
    @irenepetrutiu6977 Před 2 lety +14

    the “you and your friends boyfriend” thing had me giggling for a good minute

  • @thai8182
    @thai8182 Před 2 lety +9

    10:26 spontaneous… NOT RECKLESS, trying new things…. NOT DRUGS 😭😭

  • @cheriepie5821
    @cheriepie5821 Před 2 lety +2

    okay but how is her skin so clear 😭

  • @itskk15
    @itskk15 Před 2 lety +125

    Thank you Bailey for continuing to bring me joy and motivation! It’s helped so much this year and I’m so excited to see what you have in store for 2022! Take care❤️❤️❤️

  • @jennifergarcia-griffin1637
    @jennifergarcia-griffin1637 Před 2 lety +15

    Watching her videos for some reason make me feel productive.

  • @sophiamedford9568
    @sophiamedford9568 Před 2 lety +36

    her videos are always on point! im so glad she takes time out of her life to give us good content

  • @oliviamarievlogs4825
    @oliviamarievlogs4825 Před 2 lety +28

    Who else thinks the comments are a better vibe than live chat?!

  • @janaaamariie
    @janaaamariie Před 2 lety +11

    Can you do a girl talk next 🤩

  • @chloebarthle3211
    @chloebarthle3211 Před 2 lety +12

    I love how Bailey is always editing in her bed at midnight ❤️🤣 and how she put on mascara for 5 minutes!! Love ya Bailey! Hope you don't take this offensive.

  • @gracecarey2244
    @gracecarey2244 Před 2 lety +70

    can we all agree that the amount bailey has been posting has been great

  • @riley3800
    @riley3800 Před 2 lety +8

    i have never enjoyed a video more than this one. bailey, you are so brutally honest and i love that about you. putting yourself before anyone else is such a good thing. watching your growth over the past couple of years has been incredible. congrats to you and leo for making it to one year! love you 💖💖

  • @gymnasticslover6366
    @gymnasticslover6366 Před 2 lety +6

    Ummmm Bailey when are we going to meet this boy?

  • @shubhangi28
    @shubhangi28 Před 2 lety +14

    thank you best friend.. this is exactly how I felt when this vid ended I absolutely love these ily imma go cry now, how you say things like don't do that, what I have been telling you no nope, their loss ahhh you are a gem and the outro

  • @addiejankauskas3237
    @addiejankauskas3237 Před 2 lety +10

    This was honestly some of the best relationship advice i've ever had and it let me to have such a good convo with my boyfriend that we have been needing recently. This legit helped me so much and was exactly what I needed to hear.

  • @sydnierivera23
    @sydnierivera23 Před 2 lety +6

    she’s the bsf we all need 😭 lil therapist fr

  • @addienguyen2854
    @addienguyen2854 Před 2 lety +11

    Bailey i’m obsessed with your videos so much! You put so much hard work into your videos and it shows! Wishing you a good 2022!

  • @lukeellefson6929
    @lukeellefson6929 Před 2 lety +14

    I love you Bailey . Going on a date is the best way to kick off the new year! . Happy new year love 💗.

  • @bellaalves3612
    @bellaalves3612 Před 2 lety +11

    I am obsessed with your videos thank you for being so on top of uploading!!

  • @savannajaqueth7277
    @savannajaqueth7277 Před 2 lety +8

    you’re literally so gorgeous. remember you’re doing amazing and I’m so incredibly proud of you! you’re so strong. remember you’re so gorgeous, intelligent, caring, funny, sweet, outgoing, worth it, valid, loved, and so amazing! make sure you eat something and drink lots of water! we love you. we’re always here for you

  • @graceeaston5122
    @graceeaston5122 Před 2 lety +3

    the advice about boys really helped, because this boy just left me for another girl and I liked him for 4 months already, and I cant stop crying about it. He broke my heart without knowing he broke my heart. Ill try and follow this advice but idk if ill get through it..

  • @rachelgregory1854
    @rachelgregory1854 Před 2 lety +6

    This is great advice Bailey!! And I love how honest u are with all of us

  • @erinmckenzie1038
    @erinmckenzie1038 Před 2 lety +8

    shes literally so perfect! i love her

  • @CMForever
    @CMForever Před 2 lety +7

    who else just loves when she posts?

  • @bassantibrahim8469
    @bassantibrahim8469 Před 2 lety +3

    Those advice really hit the spot, I think I needed to hear that. Thank you so much for being my bestfriend through it all❤️

  • @hayleesao1851
    @hayleesao1851 Před 2 lety +9

    hey bailey! hope you're doing better from your sickness! thanks for all the good advice!

  • @sophiafey7744
    @sophiafey7744 Před 2 lety +5

    babe this helped my current situation sm

  • @Lily-mb5yq
    @Lily-mb5yq Před 2 lety +9

    Her videos are so nice and funny at the same time!

  • @prosandcon
    @prosandcon Před 2 lety +11

    Hey Bailey I literally love and look up to you so much you are like the bigger sister I never had. Thank you so much for being you❤️❤️❤️

  • @caitlyn6123
    @caitlyn6123 Před 2 lety +5

    I really appreciate this because these are literally my thoughts that I can't put into words, you said it well

  • @lm8281
    @lm8281 Před 2 lety +6

    Bailey is hilarious! you definetely seem like the friend that says it exactly like it is which can be so funny!

  • @emilyreyes8886
    @emilyreyes8886 Před 2 lety +1

    i love this. every point you made made so much sense and was explained perfectly. this is the perfect video for relationship advice :) hope you had a great time on the date btw💝

  • @riellybarrett7252
    @riellybarrett7252 Před 2 lety +3

    girl you need a podcast

  • @tillypaulson9152
    @tillypaulson9152 Před 2 lety +9

    I love both the dress and the final outfit, they are so pretty!

  • @marybutler625
    @marybutler625 Před 2 lety +7

    Congratulations Bailey!!🤍🤍🤍
    I’m so happy for you

  • @kailinelise8007
    @kailinelise8007 Před 2 lety +1

    I love how her advice is so great, like she's just honest and saying the truth. Alot of people, even friends don't give you that sometimes. I really like the quote she said :)

  • @Honeycomb546
    @Honeycomb546 Před 2 lety +4

    please continue to give us advice on boys, i love this vibe

  • @alyssaromi287
    @alyssaromi287 Před 2 lety +2

    yayy you posted! Love watching your videos they've become apart of my schedule :)

  • @noahdedrick7721
    @noahdedrick7721 Před 2 lety +12

    you truly have wisdom well beyond your years bailey.❤️

  • @aleeza1431
    @aleeza1431 Před 2 lety +4

    i feel like i havent seen u in ages. so happy to be here ❤❤

  • @aditikavi6018
    @aditikavi6018 Před 2 lety +4

    bailey is such a queen

  • @prajnasrikanth4508
    @prajnasrikanth4508 Před 2 lety +6

    thank you so much for this. i think we all needed to hear the advice

  • @leahwilson8982
    @leahwilson8982 Před 2 lety +4

    Early! I haven’t watched your videos in a while excited to watch this one ❤️

  • @emilybernritter3462
    @emilybernritter3462 Před 2 lety +8

    Bailey saying boys are completely clueless i couldn't agree more.
    Coming from experience

  • @gracecarey2244
    @gracecarey2244 Před 2 lety +2

    the queen has posted!!!!!

  • @paytonbutcher2022
    @paytonbutcher2022 Před 2 lety +2

    YOU ARE THE QUEEN wow, PERIOD SIS great advice pop offfffff, ly gorgeousssssss

  • @payton9378
    @payton9378 Před rokem

    literally a comfort youtube rn i love u so much Bailey

  • @qbear26
    @qbear26 Před 2 lety +3

    Thanks Bailey!! Even though I’m older but your advice helps me!! Love ya girl ❤️❤️

  • @janaaamariie
    @janaaamariie Před 2 lety +5

    Cam you pls do a workout routine or something that has to do with the gym or what you eat

  • @jaleigh_thompson
    @jaleigh_thompson Před 2 lety +1

    you should do an in depth makeup routine/ skin care routine and do a review on Truly & Beach Bum bum products!! ❣️

  • @akeylasmith8978
    @akeylasmith8978 Před 2 lety +1

    You don’t know how much I needed to see one of your videos today

  • @vivian8230
    @vivian8230 Před 2 lety +2

    I literally could not stop looking at your lashes like they are so pretty

  • @hadleyhomes2782
    @hadleyhomes2782 Před 2 lety +1

    i love ur vids u r like the big sister i never had
    could u do a makeup and skin care tutorials with like info in description bc ur skin is FLAWLESS and ur makeup is always on point
    u r so sweet and happy new year wishing u the best of lucky this year

  • @emilygrace6
    @emilygrace6 Před 2 lety +3

    i swear bailey always gives the best advice

  • @madsuyw
    @madsuyw Před 2 lety +1

    m obsessed with your videos helppp

  • @charlottemalone5967
    @charlottemalone5967 Před 2 lety +1

    Bailey gives such such good advice and I appreciate it so much.

  • @kendallgarner802
    @kendallgarner802 Před 2 lety +1

    That quote she read helped me so so much. Love you Bailey thank you.

  • @Lillyg177.
    @Lillyg177. Před 2 lety +1

    HAPPY 1 YEAR BAY LOV YOUU 💕💕💕💕

  • @laurenelise123
    @laurenelise123 Před 2 lety +1

    bailey i love your editing!!

  • @BellaTealSings
    @BellaTealSings Před 2 lety +6

    I love how mature your are!

  • @mochipanda5061
    @mochipanda5061 Před 2 lety +2

    I’m really loving the advice! 🤍

  • @stephaniesheline
    @stephaniesheline Před 2 lety +1

    girl your skin is so good

  • @alexisrebello4619
    @alexisrebello4619 Před 2 lety +1

    This was so good!!

  • @brontehaynes3155
    @brontehaynes3155 Před 2 lety +4

    YAY SHE POSTED

  • @caitlin_yanks9488
    @caitlin_yanks9488 Před 2 lety +1

    girl i literally needed this so much rn. i’m going through a horrible breakup so thank you literally so much.

  • @shilpaw27
    @shilpaw27 Před 2 lety

    u keep it so realll

  • @trinitywillis7929
    @trinitywillis7929 Před 2 lety +3

    bailey 2022 "be reckless with your friends, not reckless. Try new things, not drugs." made me laugh so hard

  • @brooklyntucker8863
    @brooklyntucker8863 Před 2 lety +4

    Literal queen

  • @nadiaallen5938
    @nadiaallen5938 Před 2 lety

    you give SUCH good advice. you’re really helping me going into my junior year

  • @tangytwins2075
    @tangytwins2075 Před 2 lety +2

    I’ve been in a few relationships and idk how I feel about it love you Bailey ❤️

  • @erinoharte
    @erinoharte Před 2 lety

    Going through all your videos I missed!!❤️ I’m 22 and watch you:) you’re the funniest and cutest ever

  • @myabraun
    @myabraun Před 2 lety +2

    just had my one year too ahhh!!!! great advice, loved the video!!!!

  • @charityleannlamb6988
    @charityleannlamb6988 Před 2 lety +1

    I’m 19 and this advice is just perfect!!

  • @addysonpare4213
    @addysonpare4213 Před 2 lety +1

    ur such a good person giving great advice

  • @AddyMiller1
    @AddyMiller1 Před 2 lety +1

    ur hair is so pretty

  • @ttv-tttotz5965
    @ttv-tttotz5965 Před 2 lety

    ahhh bailey ilysm :) i hope you had a good night ;)

  • @ciannarenfrow4203
    @ciannarenfrow4203 Před 2 lety +2

    no because this video is perfect timing

  • @chloiepoblete4578
    @chloiepoblete4578 Před 2 lety +4

    You're the best bailey 💖💖

  • @anyacali23
    @anyacali23 Před 2 lety

    i LOVED this!💕🔥👑

  • @laceytatum6125
    @laceytatum6125 Před 2 lety +2

    bailey your absolutely stunning i’ve never doubt that opinion

  • @averykohler4550
    @averykohler4550 Před 2 lety +2

    This is the best😍💕
    Your so cool
    Your my fav CZcamsr

  • @soph5755
    @soph5755 Před 2 lety +1

    I love this sm

  • @alexiscora1193
    @alexiscora1193 Před 2 lety +1

    Love these videos were you just like sit down and it feel like we are having a conversation hope you had a fun date

  • @morganleblanc6916
    @morganleblanc6916 Před 2 lety

    bailey gives the best advice omg

  • @jenniferbills8266
    @jenniferbills8266 Před 2 lety +5

    Bailey you are soooo pretty!!!!♥️♥️✨✨

  • @kaivaughn380
    @kaivaughn380 Před 2 lety +8

    bailey you sound so wise, your advice was super good

  • @nenediallo4224
    @nenediallo4224 Před 2 lety +3

    ur actually so pretty

  • @dancerlayla
    @dancerlayla Před 2 lety +1

    Can u pls film another closet cleanout vid!!! It was the first vid of urs that I saw and to this day it is still my fav!!!