most people in the world are struggling with childhood traumas, accepting your past, seeking therapy and healing is part of the ways one can get over with these traumas.
Growing up without a mum is just something else,,, I can tell a story and tell and tell😭😭😭😭. Anyways 😢 It's not like it's over, but I'm still fighting many things right now... Denial, rejection aloooot from missed childhood affection.
I went through alot too..never got love from my parents till date and this made me want to have a child of my own someone that would give me love...I remember I went to my mum one day and told her that it's like I had depression and my mom said that I should have it kabisa💔...her words broke me especially coming from my own mom
this made me cry because i was raised the same way though i didn't run away but my younger sister used to run just like you guys and the worst thing is she was alone because i was at the campus then and she was in upper primary...and it affected me so much because even now am at 24 and its still hunt me,sometimes i cant even express what i feel...but i hv to fight it..i love you guys.
The sadness in Dee's heart aki wishing mngemskiza that time...... .. I feel you guys. I had a share of a strict dad who was also beating us for nothing. I am that person full of fear and low self-esteem because of him. Confidence naona watu wako nayo sijawahi pata courage aki. Thanks for the encouragement. Love you Mitch and Dee
MITCH AND DIANA ❤️❤️YOU TWO ARE A BLESSING UPON MY LIFE AND THIS ONE WAS AN ENCOURAGEMENT AND INSPIRATION FOR ME AND I WANNA ADOPT TO ALL WHAT YOU HAVE SHARED AND MAY GOD BLESS YOU TWO🙏🙏🙏🤗🤗🤗NAWAPENDA SANA❤️❤️❤️❤️
you are such an inspiration honestly Dee and Mitch...you have been through a lot but who is God look at you now!!!!!! Anyways all of us have gone through a fair share of life not necessarily with the parents but also relatives, but we have survived through it all by the grace of God. Great content we need more of it.
The story has reminded me of parenting styles( permissive, uninvolved, authoritarian, authoritative styles) your dad was more of authoritarian parent..wants you to do things because "he said so" thanks for sharing the story, made me learn and get motivated.
Well said ss, we don't share to get pity nor to expose ourselves, but exactly as you have said. Love you so much dearest, keep them rolling 💕💕💕💕Your story the child in me can familiarise with the child in me. But it is well
I'm crying knowing my father was exactly as misguided as yours but at the same time thanking God that my mother was present so we did not run away from home but if we were in the same scenario as yours we'd clearly be lost right now or maybe God would have saved us like he saved you. Thanks for sharing this. I also struggle with fear up to date just like Dee and i also struggle with harshness. I almost always catch myself being harsh and love is like a very far away thing in my life. The weird thing is when you are a lady you find yourself attracting men who are exactly like your father. God help us!
Thank you Mitch. Actually I've learned something great from you. God bless you dear. I'm 24 and it's when I'm picking up myself from my childhood troumas
I can relate to that😅 now I can laugh about it but deep down it still hurts and I would Never allow my kid or anyone's kid kupitia iyo life😔 its so frustrating aki
Girls just watched your story, it's really emotional, it reminds me about what my children went through in the hands of their father But apparently mine was different, I never left my children, and the times I was not there I always called to check on them. Yes my children have been scarred by the way there father treated them. Diana, Michele I would like to tell my story about what this man did. I actually 😭 just listening and remembering what my children went through. But I fought where I could. My children have never known what a father's love is. Anyway I thank God you have grown up to be such beautiful daughters of your father and mother. The devil is ashamed. And God is glorified you are a great testimony. Your story is really encouraging. Love you girls.
@@mitchngoje God is faithful!! I have no better words❤... respect to you two... Glad I took a few tissues.. You need to be a motivational speaker Mitch💯
Michelle !!!your story is very sad,made me remember my past childhood life,it is painful.I'am also struggling with childhood trauma,i live with my father's family after my parents died,it was a hell of mistreatment,i hate them up to now!!!!!I don't visit my village up to date.
I love u girls for free and every family always has their own amazing stories but one thing i regret even today is that i as the older sibling i never defended my bro when our step mom used to mistreat him.How i wish i could reverse the years and show the step mom my true colours when it comes to my only small bro.
Thank you Mitch and Dee for the encouraging story, as a parent I have learned alot from your story it's going to change my parenting life. Thank you sana🙏
You guys need to have a sit down with your dad and get closure.....I know he might not open up completely but probably he also needs you guys.....you never know if he was or rather still is battling depression....nawapenda bure beauties
Yeah I had heard this from Dee's stories but honestly I get how growing up in fear is nerve reckoning one can still be at 20 + and you still fear your dad😪 This just gets me actually thinking you know it even scares me to get kids or get married this is something we need to talk about. It's actually an issue people do not talk about
Watching this has made me cry 😭😭😢...my story was worse than this ..in short my parents died when was 6months old,,was raised by my grandparents but not old grandparents ,,, so we grew up together with my cousins but I tell you it was not easy still now I feel the pain ,, I was humiliated in front of everyone ,,when my cuzs where given better education I was sent to public school ,,my grandfather kept comparing me with our neighbors kids which made me cry all the time..sometimes nilikuwa nakuzwa home😪😪 ..for sure its along humiliating story.....
I'm in campus and I know what you're talking about. I was also raised in fear,till date siezi open up to my parents ama nikuwe na shida I can't open up...azin you feel inferior. But life has to move on.
We love you guys so much.😍....plz do more story times like these coz they're are very touching and encouraging....and some people our there need this... 😊
It's a touching story.. I love you guys but thanks to God you are living a happy life now ♥️..and raising your kids happily and not in a way you were raised More stories to come ..
I can relate my father was a menace not only to us but to the society as a whole...being the only girl I went through hell and it affects me upto date ...I wish I could find help...healing is not easy.
My mom used beat me like a dog and for a long time I thought she hated me, most of the time she told me I was stupid and I grew with that in mind,no matter how hard I tried in my exams I failed coz it stck in my mind that I was stupid, right now I'm 22 and I don't have any love for her and I'm trying to heal from all that trauma. What parents do for sure affects their children even into adulthood.
May God gives you healing .I feel you,you don’t have to love anyone your parents included,if God gives you a chance to therapy please take for your own good.Praying for you.
are we all going to ignore how their dental formula's perfect and white? ur an inspiration girls my mom has made me go through shit also upto date I decided to respect her from a distance it's so painful what sometimes our parents make us go through
Michelle wah umepitia mob aki wah bt now u r sharing it n God ,,mm sijai chapwa na my dad siwezi sema ati dad alinichapa noooo,,,mm na dad ,,..bt war ya mathe hio acha tu 😄😉😀 ....bt I thank God kwa kua nko na paro wote ,,,
😭😭😭I feel your pain have passed through that I even slept with any man to get shelter even somewhere to change my clothes or bath I had no were I got raped I was used but I thank God here I am God saved me protected me now I have two kids and I pray my kids will not pass through what I passed through because my first child I got him through desperation
I think your dad was into depression since they got separated with your mum,it's like he had grown inner hatred for you because your mum left you.I hope one day you can sit him down and talk it out for him to realize his mistakes so that you all can heal. Sharing is part of healing process 🤞🤞
Wueeh this takes me back.. I lived with my aunt for 3years..wueeh Ile mambo nilipitia..I used to be beaten so bad😭😭😭😭😭 waah..to a point of kuvunjwa vidole woi🥲 Nwy, I thank God for where I am now. People go through so much in this life Kwanza kids, Lord have mercy🥲
We always taught to be thankfully to each every step we pass,,, I can say that the situation you went through made you to be where you are right now na Mungu akiwepo pia. We learn through mistakes, now hatuwezi kulea watoto wetu in that way. NAWAPENDA SANA.❤❤
Personally my own mother started the hate when i was as young as in class 2 I've grown in a very bad environment btw but since i let go i have the most peaceful moment of my life..9years down the line and i cut her off completely coz my happiness matters.
@@estherwanyutu3286 me too dear it was rough till to date I don't understand why she hated me am the first born but my treated me differently from my sisters she would call them in the bedroom to talk to them and ask me to stay outside it was tough I was sucidal , I tried killing myself when I was in class five I tried it several time till class but I forgave her and I have learnt to love my self so as not to pass the same to my kids, my childhood was rough and tough 😭😭😭😭, I didn't enjoy I didn't get the motherly love , it's sad but I have gotten over it🙏🙏🙏, hugs dear 🤗
@ Margaret Waaaa Ithoght Ni Mimi pekee yangu nimepitia rough road ,imagine huyu Mother hajakulea ,she left 35 years back hakakuacha na your dad and grandma,wamekulea then wakarudi wakapass wote then baadaye huyu masaa ameresurface but kila akipiga simu Ni kukushow wewe Ni mchawi Kama shosho yako ,babako Ni familia ya wachawi na wote Ni deceased ,How could u feel? Nilimwambia afadhali angeniabort kuliko Ni pitie hayo yote ,so ave decided kumblock na kumsahau na Sasa Niko at peace na am there to stay kwa sababu ya watoto wangu ,I thank the almighty for this far,Na mi assume nililelewa orphanage
@@roseotieno4649 most parents wanatesa watoto wao aki it's painful mi mum alikuwa ananambia watu mi n useless ata nikifa haezi pata hasara she used ata to tell if someone wants me she would give me out for free I used to hate myself I could not even look myself in the mirror but am glad I over came it my prayers I will give my kids lots of love and care am currently working on my self to better so as not to pass the same to my kids, hugs 🤗🙏 dear it's well ☺️
I relate to foreal I am still struggling fRom childhood trauma I am really struggling to stop hurting people around me just because I am not happy myself
Big up! Acknowledging you hurt people is a positive acceptance! HURT people HURT people. Work on yourself and eventually you will be a darling not only to yourself but to your dear and near and the world as a whole. One day at a time at God's beautifol time
A touching story indeed 💔, parents should make children respect them but not fear them,my dad and mom separated too,i was forced to raise my siblings at my dad's it wasn't easy living with him,i was emotionally tortured😭,but i thank God I can inspire someone who is going through hard times, thanks for sharing yours 🙏
Losing a mum,no shoulders to lean on, everyone goes away from you leaving us with an ailing dad and siblings yet our relatives are well up..God!, Even to date am not in a good position where I can support them but am striving hard..hopes and prayers are my daily bread. Everyone who fights his/her battles alone without sharing it with anyone not because you're stupid but because you got no one to hold you and to listen to you,,God got us🙏
Sijui nisemeje such a moving story maze which I can relate... Me and my bro viboko our dad alikuwa anatuchapa waaah out of control...hadi kwa kichwa ....aaah leme achia hapo... Pia sisi we said no no no when we get children no instilling fear on them but discipline them with love na kwa kiasi...nwy nawapenda thanks for sharing
Who else wants to see a vlog of Mitch,Val and Dee?gonga like hapo ifikie Mitch and Dee
most people in the world are struggling with childhood traumas, accepting your past, seeking therapy and healing is part of the ways one can get over with these traumas.
Our parents are broken people but too proud to admit that
Couldn't put it any better
Growing up without a mum is just something else,,, I can tell a story and tell and tell😭😭😭😭. Anyways 😢
It's not like it's over, but I'm still fighting many things right now... Denial, rejection aloooot from missed childhood affection.
You are not alone
Hugs mummy ..God is with yoi
I can relate
GOD IS WITH YOU!!!
Pole sana,hugs❣️
I went through alot too..never got love from my parents till date and this made me want to have a child of my own someone that would give me love...I remember I went to my mum one day and told her that it's like I had depression and my mom said that I should have it kabisa💔...her words broke me especially coming from my own mom
Same here my mum treated me like a stranger/orphan ameletewa aleee
@@FC_family Mungu halali❤️
@@FC_family same ship but when you turn to God, everything changes... I found peace in myself and forgave kabisa....
Val should come here also... we'd love to see you three together
this made me cry because i was raised the same way though i didn't run away but my younger sister used to run just like you guys and the worst thing is she was alone because i was at the campus then and she was in upper primary...and it affected me so much because even now am at 24 and its still hunt me,sometimes i cant even express what i feel...but i hv to fight it..i love you guys.
Your story got me crying..I thank God my parents were both caring and they disciplined with love...Sorry for what you went through
The sadness in Dee's heart aki wishing mngemskiza that time...... .. I feel you guys. I had a share of a strict dad who was also beating us for nothing. I am that person full of fear and low self-esteem because of him. Confidence naona watu wako nayo sijawahi pata courage aki.
Thanks for the encouragement. Love you Mitch and Dee
Hop utaipata one day
@@reubenwafula5037 thanks
Val, should come here also...it's sad to grow with a violent parent...I'm a victim too...
Aki Dee, Val Ako? I want to see the three of you in a video together. #sisterslove❤😜
Seconded
@@taabuhellen1358 confirmed here😄
MITCH AND DIANA ❤️❤️YOU TWO ARE A BLESSING UPON MY LIFE AND THIS ONE WAS AN ENCOURAGEMENT AND INSPIRATION FOR ME AND I WANNA ADOPT TO ALL WHAT YOU HAVE SHARED AND MAY GOD BLESS YOU TWO🙏🙏🙏🤗🤗🤗NAWAPENDA SANA❤️❤️❤️❤️
Chunga oranails sisidunge Mitch tumbo
you are such an inspiration honestly Dee and Mitch...you have been through a lot but who is God look at you now!!!!!! Anyways all of us have gone through a fair share of life not necessarily with the parents but also relatives, but we have survived through it all by the grace of God.
Great content we need more of it.
A VERY TOUCHING STORY 🥺❤️ HEARTBREAKING 💔 YOU'RE A STRONG WOMAN BABE ❤️
The story has reminded me of parenting styles( permissive, uninvolved, authoritarian, authoritative styles) your dad was more of authoritarian parent..wants you to do things because "he said so" thanks for sharing the story, made me learn and get motivated.
Mbona nalia? sad story, But the fact that you made it this far tells me God has you. God carried you. Even D.
Thanks for the story👏
Sad story
You two are the right type of crazy we need....😆🤣😍...love the bond. Very encouraging story.
Wah,im moved to tears i couldnt hold.You girls are strong,hugs
Well said ss, we don't share to get pity nor to expose ourselves, but exactly as you have said. Love you so much dearest, keep them rolling 💕💕💕💕Your story the child in me can familiarise with the child in me. But it is well
dee and mitch kindly bring val tumuone.na atushow ha fair share of the story 🥰if possible😊
Mental health is something that boils down to the peace in the place we stay in...
True story 😭😭 i usually ask my self mambo mob but no one to answer my questions
I'm crying knowing my father was exactly as misguided as yours but at the same time thanking God that my mother was present so we did not run away from home but if we were in the same scenario as yours we'd clearly be lost right now or maybe God would have saved us like he saved you. Thanks for sharing this. I also struggle with fear up to date just like Dee and i also struggle with harshness. I almost always catch myself being harsh and love is like a very far away thing in my life. The weird thing is when you are a lady you find yourself attracting men who are exactly like your father. God help us!
Thank you Mitch. Actually I've learned something great from you. God bless you dear. I'm 24 and it's when I'm picking up myself from my childhood troumas
I can relate to that😅 now I can laugh about it but deep down it still hurts and I would Never allow my kid or anyone's kid kupitia iyo life😔 its so frustrating aki
This video was very much needed!
Love u guys! ❤❤❤
It is the make up for me, as they were talking I was admiring their faces😍😍
Kwani Dee yeye hakuwa anaulizwa ama alikuwa good gal
I love this it's not easy to share such dark moments it's brave of you... You have encouraged people out here..... You did great
Waaah ,that was traumatazing 😭😭.sending you lots of hugs and love Dee n Mitch❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Girls just watched your story, it's really emotional, it reminds me about what my children went through in the hands of their father
But apparently mine was different, I never left my children, and the times I was not there I always called to check on them. Yes my children have been scarred by the way there father treated them. Diana, Michele I would like to tell my story about what this man did. I actually 😭 just listening and remembering what my children went through. But I fought where I could. My children have never known what a father's love is. Anyway I thank God you have grown up to be such beautiful daughters of your father and mother. The devil is ashamed. And God is glorified you are a great testimony. Your story is really encouraging. Love you girls.
Anyone who is familiar with such vocabulary like "fight or flight mode" is truly on a journey to healing from childhood trauma. Take heart. Tuko wengi
The chemistry between this two sisters is amazing♥️
#gulf CZcamsr✔️
That was too much of your Dad😰😰😰thank God for you guyz,,,,alafu val alienda wapi alisema weezdom ananuka miguu akaenda 😂😂😂😂😂🖐️🖐️leteni val plz
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I can't wait to finish work and sit on this... someone pls let me know if I need tissues... love you two to bits...💯❤🙏🏿
Maybe a few🥰
@@mitchngoje God is faithful!! I have no better words❤... respect to you two... Glad I took a few tissues.. You need to be a motivational speaker Mitch💯
Hello Mitch and Dee..poleni for that. Such great lessons for parents and the people in general. Thank you for your content today.
Challanges are there to face,,, but with God everything is possible 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Michelle !!!your story is very sad,made me remember my past childhood life,it is painful.I'am also struggling with childhood trauma,i live with my father's family after my parents died,it was a hell of mistreatment,i hate them up to now!!!!!I don't visit my village up to date.
I love this conversation. Thanks Deimos
I would love to see your sis val in one of your vlogs...inspiring episode keep winning♥️
Very educative yes we have to unlearn the bad things we learnt from our parents,, reading books especially rich dad poor dad has helped me a lot
This has given me strength and motivation Mitch you are such a blessed soul ❤️❤️❤️
I love u girls for free and every family always has their own amazing stories but one thing i regret even today is that i as the older sibling i never defended my bro when our step mom used to mistreat him.How i wish i could reverse the years and show the step mom my true colours when it comes to my only small bro.
Waau much love for you @Diana and@Mitchell and each and every one here let's keep on pushing coz we are almost there. Thumbs up everyone 😘❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Thank you Mitch and Dee for the encouraging story, as a parent I have learned alot from your story it's going to change my parenting life. Thank you sana🙏
You guys need to have a sit down with your dad and get closure.....I know he might not open up completely but probably he also needs you guys.....you never know if he was or rather still is battling depression....nawapenda bure beauties
This amazing two sister's who have each other's back 🥺❤️
Love you Mitch, ur such a vibe 🥰.. but this video is so emotional, we've all been through the worst and came out strong 👌
Would really want to here more of the story...so touching so encouraging keep up
Yeah I had heard this from Dee's stories but honestly I get how growing up in fear is nerve reckoning one can still be at 20 + and you still fear your dad😪
This just gets me actually thinking you know it even scares me to get kids or get married this is something we need to talk about. It's actually an issue people do not talk about
Hugs dear girls..Thank you for your vulnerability.Your story will help alot of people .You are so loved.Stay Blessed!
So touching and emotional 😭😭😭 and is it that Dee was daddy's favorite or she wasn't around... You just inspire alot of people out here
Girls you strong and you keep inspiring us ...it's all about God and he's gonna turn our stories ..we love you girls and may God keep blessing you🙏🙏
Watching this has made me cry 😭😭😢...my story was worse than this ..in short my parents died when was 6months old,,was raised by my grandparents but not old grandparents ,,, so we grew up together with my cousins but I tell you it was not easy still now I feel the pain ,, I was humiliated in front of everyone ,,when my cuzs where given better education I was sent to public school ,,my grandfather kept comparing me with our neighbors kids which made me cry all the time..sometimes nilikuwa nakuzwa home😪😪 ..for sure its along humiliating story.....
Take heart dear and find confort in God ❤❤❤❤
Am sorry, as long you are alive God will change your life to be good.
We need to see val here too
Be careful when you’re out here judging people cus you never know what they have had to live through.
I wasn’t ready for this.😢
Bring us Val...she must be a beautiful soul.
Thank you for your story , thank God for your lives. Was unconscious was reacting from traumas
You both need to talk to your dad and open up. May you both find peace
I don't think you understand what it means to be raised by a harsh Dad. I was raised by one too and even the thought of facing him to date is scary.
Dee leta hiyo story ya kurun away ukiwa Uni.
Halafu mlete Val tumuone pia
Akii we want to see your other sister
I just love how u two relate very friendly...I think one of this days bring Val we see how three of u will be together... Keep up da spirit dear
Dee mimi am still fighting fear...
Mpaka kwa rship
Happy to see you Mitch and Dee❤. I think Mitch can sing so well ❤
At some point I felt like crying but the fact that you are here with all the God's blessings, let's smile with our shoulders high. #nakuruyoutuber
Dee was so emotional 😭😭.
Mich I am also crying oh God you went through alot😔
God is so good He changed your story. Glory be to God 🙏🙏🙏
These two sisters are crazy 🤣❤️ I wish I had such a bond with my sister 🤣
Thank you, for sharing, Sending hugs, its really sad how most millenials were raised in fear. May God Help us.
I'm in campus and I know what you're talking about. I was also raised in fear,till date siezi open up to my parents ama nikuwe na shida I can't open up...azin you feel inferior. But life has to move on.
Sorry for what u went through.I think it’s good you talk to your dad about it ajue how u feel
We love you guys so much.😍....plz do more story times like these coz they're are very touching and encouraging....and some people our there need this... 😊
Wow. Just wow. Watu hutoka mbali
Thank you for sharing
It's a touching story..
I love you guys but thanks to God you are living a happy life now ♥️..and raising your kids happily and not in a way you were raised
More stories to come ..
I can relate my father was a menace not only to us but to the society as a whole...being the only girl I went through hell and it affects me upto date ...I wish I could find help...healing is not easy.
You ain't alone, I finally forgave him in his grave.
@@goldensunshine8693 i wish I could forgive him
My mom used beat me like a dog and for a long time I thought she hated me, most of the time she told me I was stupid and I grew with that in mind,no matter how hard I tried in my exams I failed coz it stck in my mind that I was stupid, right now I'm 22 and I don't have any love for her and I'm trying to heal from all that trauma. What parents do for sure affects their children even into adulthood.
@Lyrical Red give me your number I need to talk to you
May God gives you healing .I feel you,you don’t have to love anyone your parents included,if God gives you a chance to therapy please take for your own good.Praying for you.
are we all going to ignore how their dental formula's perfect and white? ur an inspiration girls
my mom has made me go through shit also upto date I decided to respect her from a distance it's so painful what sometimes our parents make us go through
Pole sana. I wonder why he did that. I grew up with a loving caring dad. Am glad you guys are doing well.❤❤❤🙏🙏🙏
You are lucky,be thankful to him
Dee like i cant stop crying n seeing how you feel about thiz Dee u really a worrior person thanks for ur pesonality av learned alot
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Thanks Dee na sisy uko io ni moto nice encouragement mmenipea aki
I would like to hear dee akitoroka home… thanks Deimos for the story
You have to be courageous to share this story.congrats
Michelle wah umepitia mob aki wah bt now u r sharing it n God ,,mm sijai chapwa na my dad siwezi sema ati dad alinichapa noooo,,,mm na dad ,,..bt war ya mathe hio acha tu 😄😉😀 ....bt I thank God kwa kua nko na paro wote ,,,
Its touching...i love you guys ..the love u have as sisters napenda ...keep it up
Bambi!, love you ladies...
This is inspirational
😭😭😭I feel your pain have passed through that I even slept with any man to get shelter even somewhere to change my clothes or bath I had no were I got raped I was used but I thank God here I am God saved me protected me now I have two kids and I pray my kids will not pass through what I passed through because my first child I got him through desperation
I think your dad was into depression since they got separated with your mum,it's like he had grown inner hatred for you because your mum left you.I hope one day you can sit him down and talk it out for him to realize his mistakes so that you all can heal. Sharing is part of healing process 🤞🤞
Yes it's true
They should go visit him.I think he was overwhelmed taking care of 3 gals without their mother's help.he was bitter
Yeah true my mum also was like that saa hii ndo nimeanza kumuzoea depression is real
True
Like really dee weeee this is another one who doesn't want me back and not sure how 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣❤❤❤👨👧👧👨👧👧👨👧👧👨👧👧👨👧👧👨👧👧👨👧👧👨👧👧👨👧👧😍😍😍😎😎😎
Child's love is priceless 😭😭Aki let's change aspect. Nothing beats my heart kuskia my son saying mum love you❣️❣️❣️❣️
I grew up without a mother and I can feel whatever you saying
Pole sana mami😪 but things will always get better
it's so touching
@@mitchngoje you girls are beautiful.....where is Val?
That was my dad 😌 he used to beat us wueh 🙆 may his soul rest in peace
Mitch nawapenda bureeeeeeeeeeee ❤️❤️❤️can't wait you be my make up teacher 😜😜😜😜😜😜😜😜
🥰🥰🥰let's make it happen
I'm here too you so perfect 👌
Much love Dee and Mitch thats for the encouraging words🫂❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Wueeh this takes me back..
I lived with my aunt for 3years..wueeh Ile mambo nilipitia..I used to be beaten so bad😭😭😭😭😭 waah..to a point of kuvunjwa vidole woi🥲
Nwy, I thank God for where I am now.
People go through so much in this life Kwanza kids, Lord have mercy🥲
We always taught to be thankfully to each every step we pass,,, I can say that the situation you went through made you to be where you are right now na Mungu akiwepo pia. We learn through mistakes, now hatuwezi kulea watoto wetu in that way. NAWAPENDA SANA.❤❤
Thank for the word of encouragement Mitchell......Sorry to ask but where is val your other sister
Been asking too where she went!!
Maybe alienda Italy
My question is why do parents devolop hatred towards their kids, in the name of displline
Personally my own mother started the hate when i was as young as in class 2 I've grown in a very bad environment btw but since i let go i have the most peaceful moment of my life..9years down the line and i cut her off completely coz my happiness matters.
@@estherwanyutu3286 me too dear it was rough till to date I don't understand why she hated me am the first born but my treated me differently from my sisters she would call them in the bedroom to talk to them and ask me to stay outside it was tough I was sucidal , I tried killing myself when I was in class five I tried it several time till class but I forgave her and I have learnt to love my self so as not to pass the same to my kids, my childhood was rough and tough 😭😭😭😭, I didn't enjoy I didn't get the motherly love , it's sad but I have gotten over it🙏🙏🙏, hugs dear 🤗
@ Margaret Waaaa Ithoght Ni Mimi pekee yangu nimepitia rough road ,imagine huyu Mother hajakulea ,she left 35 years back hakakuacha na your dad and grandma,wamekulea then wakarudi wakapass wote then baadaye huyu masaa ameresurface but kila akipiga simu Ni kukushow wewe Ni mchawi Kama shosho yako ,babako Ni familia ya wachawi na wote Ni deceased ,How could u feel? Nilimwambia afadhali angeniabort kuliko Ni pitie hayo yote ,so ave decided kumblock na kumsahau na Sasa Niko at peace na am there to stay kwa sababu ya watoto wangu ,I thank the almighty for this far,Na mi assume nililelewa orphanage
@@roseotieno4649 most parents wanatesa watoto wao aki it's painful mi mum alikuwa ananambia watu mi n useless ata nikifa haezi pata hasara she used ata to tell if someone wants me she would give me out for free I used to hate myself I could not even look myself in the mirror but am glad I over came it my prayers I will give my kids lots of love and care am currently working on my self to better so as not to pass the same to my kids, hugs 🤗🙏 dear it's well ☺️
@@margaretmuiruri8173 hugs dear and to everyone who has passed thru all this.
I relate to foreal I am still struggling fRom childhood trauma I am really struggling to stop hurting people around me just because I am not happy myself
Big up! Acknowledging you hurt people is a positive acceptance! HURT people HURT people. Work on yourself and eventually you will be a darling not only to yourself but to your dear and near and the world as a whole. One day at a time at God's beautifol time
@@gracegutu1792 thank you gracie
I just love this girls they are so lovely I always feel jealous the bond they have 😄😄😄
A touching story indeed 💔, parents should make children respect them but not fear them,my dad and mom separated too,i was forced to raise my siblings at my dad's it wasn't easy living with him,i was emotionally tortured😭,but i thank God I can inspire someone who is going through hard times, thanks for sharing yours 🙏
Facts, it’s important to rise kids with love instead of fear!
My all time darling Gaaaaalss, love you deariez, @Deimos and Dee-Darling
Losing a mum,no shoulders to lean on, everyone goes away from you leaving us with an ailing dad and siblings yet our relatives are well up..God!, Even to date am not in a good position where I can support them but am striving hard..hopes and prayers are my daily bread.
Everyone who fights his/her battles alone without sharing it with anyone not because you're stupid but because you got no one to hold you and to listen to you,,God got us🙏
Sijui nisemeje such a moving story maze which I can relate... Me and my bro viboko our dad alikuwa anatuchapa waaah out of control...hadi kwa kichwa ....aaah leme achia hapo... Pia sisi we said no no no when we get children no instilling fear on them but discipline them with love na kwa kiasi...nwy nawapenda thanks for sharing