Thank you very much for making this song! And for letting us know na kahit na merong mga taong di tayo pinili, meron at meron paring pipili sa atin. Sya yun. Thank you moira.
I remember 4 yrs ago, when someone told me, pwede bang ako nlng ang pakasalan para sa bata? Ung wla akong magawa kundi magpaubaya para sa bata. Everytime I hear this music nalulungkot ako at naluluha. Yung may set na kasal na kaso kinasal siya sa iba. That word "Binigay ko lahat pero naubos ako" until now I can still feel the pain. Nagsorry na siya saying "sorry dahil di kita naipaglaban". We both love each other but we both need to let go. Sorry and thank you is last word na nasabi namin sa isat isa. Sana one day totally maging okay na dn ako😊
Just did the same thing today. Nagpatawad, nagpaubaya, nagpalaam na. It was hard to think for the first few days, pero since we have a son, I really need to let go, kasi hindi lang naman ako ang nasasaktan. I grew up in a broken family, and my promise before to my own son is that he'll never grow in a family like mine. But since I'm already in this situation I need to speak up not just for me , but also for our son. It was hard really, but still I have the reason to move on and smile. I'm not living alone in this new chapter of my life, I am now living it with my own son. Being in this broken situation made me realize that hindi naman porket lumaki ako sa isang pamilyang sira ay dapat kong ipaglaban yung akin din kahit sirang sira na. Mas magaan sa loob na ilet go nalang siya kesa mamuhay pa kasama siya pero puro kasinungalingan nalang. Walang ina ang gugustuhin na mamuhay ang anak nila sa kasinungalingan . That's why I let go and is now ready to say goodbye.
theyre close friends kc.. cguro as a friend, gusto ni moira na makatulong sa kanilang dalawa na makalaya sa pain na nararamdaman nila. para magkaroon ng closure at mapatawad nila ang isat isa. npaka sakit ng kantang to. kahit ilang beses q na napapanuod, umiiyak parin aq.. masakit parin sa lalamunan..😭😭😭😭
I remember the days that I've been so much broken multiple times in all of my past relationships, then my last resort was to give up and to surrender everything to God, the days came when I'm not asking for anything but miracles really happened after that, all good things came on my way, even the guy that I've been dreamt of He gave him to me and that guy has a lot of traits more than I prayed for. So keep believing and have faith that God is writing your own love story. Let Go and Let God. 🥰♥️
You're so good at giving advices. Hits really deep. 💔 and the fact that I've never been in a relationship before but this still hurts me. "Stop thinking of WHAT IFS, Start accepting the WHAT IS"
Did you know that you got it right when you said it's not actually scripted? That when they went on to the scene where Julia and Joshua talks, it's actually unscripted and it was just both of them talking about what happened in their relationship. And the director asked the crew to wait outside and the only people who were inside was the director, Moira, Joshua and Julia. Your reaction and opinion is spot on and it stood out among the reactions I watch. Thank you and keep it !!!
Gave me a good cry. I know na I have to accept na wala na. Pero hindi ko magawa kasi I'm still hooked up with the thoughts of what I could've done better for him to stay. I have forgiven him for his mistakes, I apologized for my mistakes. Akala ko there will still be a chance para maging maayos kami, pero wala na. I know na he also needs space and time to be better. Alone. Alam ko lahat pero hindi ko pa rin matanggap. Maybe I'll just embrace the process muna. It's hard to force myself to be happy right now when I'm not.
Natutunan ko sa reaction nato... Tanggalin na talaga ang "what if's" ... Kung una palang doubtful kana sa karelasyon mo abay wag mo nlang talaga iPush. Sa huli ,masasaktan ka lang talaga.
I could still clearly remember that night, when the person whom after a long time of being too afraid, tinayaan ko and really opened my heart to, the one i made plans in the future with, told me he did not really love me, he just tried.. i cried my heart out the whole night, the pain was too unbearable i felt like i couldnt breathe and my heart’s crushing into pieces. And that was the moment i called unto God, to please make the pain go away. I surrendered it to Him. And i started to accept that maybe it was really not meant to be from the start, pinilit lang namin. I totally agree with you Darbz, pg pinaubaya mo kay Lord, even the most painful feeling would seem like a powerful pill that can make you even more stronger and wiser.
"In a relationship, you shouldn't be on a sprint, you should be on a marathon." Dayummm! dropping them bombs . I've learned so much from this video, thank you sir. GOD BLESS!💣🔥
Let Go and Let God 😊 I lay all my burdens and Pain to him, and Praise God I got out of that situation. Now, im loving myself more and loving God more than ever 💕
still crying up to now. This song hits me hard. Lahat nang pain ng flashback. But when u learn to surrender everything to God, you will find your answers 😢
You know what is the most painful part is ? You both shared happy memories together na kahet anong isipin mo , puro happiness lang talaga kase walang hindi happy eh , masaya lang , and suddenly shit happens . Kailangan nyong dalawa mag let go . 🥺
The last part, it made me cry. 😭❤️ Masarap sa pakiramdam kapag wala kang galit sa iba. Masakit man pero maluwag sa pakiramdam kung ipapaubaya mo nalang lahat sa kanya ☝️ Lord, Salamat sa palagi mong pagpili sakin. 🥺❤️
Last line of the original version Moira said 3 times “Paubaya” but for this music video she changed it to Pinapatawad, Pinapalaya, Pinapaubaya sa kanya. ☝️😔😭
This video moved me soooo much because it happened to me once. It reminded me how I left the love of my life behind and left her hanging without any closure or explanation. I left her. And I regretted it ever since. I cried the minute Moira’s first lyrics came. My emotions just came out and I burst into tears as I see reminiscing videos of fun memories. It reminded me of my memories with her. I hate myself even upto now for breaking her heart. No words can explain how much I must have hurt her. My greatest regret came as a flashback when I watched for the first time Moira’s video of Paubaya song. I don’t know how to close and end that relationship now because it happened long ago. But up-to this day, I truly believe I have lost the woman that I was meant to be. This video has done something that no one has done before. To actually bring in real people unscripted and their own true words for each other. Genius! Whoever made this video possible was ingenious and one of a few only videos that producers and film director will soon follow.
brother be brave and tell her your sorry and ask for forgiveness then wish her happy memories to come.. may god bless you and give you courage to talk her..
The reaction was too pure. I cried not only because of the video, but also because of your insights. Truly, a sensible reaction from an amazing work. Thank you po. God bless.
I did reaction from this MV too and we almost had the same sentiments. I cried the first time I watched it so when I react it’s just my POV. I admired you so much for being man enough to show emotions in public. I felt like you experienced this too. Accountability. Kuddos to your team real talk darbs and Moira dela TORRE for this obra . 😢
2nd time to cry while watching your reaction video. thank you for reacting it scene by scene especially when Joshlia were talking. TBH I've watch the MV 4x, ung pang 4th doon lang ako umiyak kasi na gets ko ung mensahe nila. But your reaction made me cry again and realize some things. 2019 is the year na masasabi ko na worst year for me. My long time BF left me for another girl, yes he cheated. He was trying to hide it but figured things out. I was mad and lost that time almost killed myself. Imagine, I was there for him lagi supporting his dreams and plans in life. Im older than him, never ko siya pinressure to marry me coz I know his priorities. Hinahayaan ko lang siya sa gusto niya kasi alam ko na he's matured enough to do life decision. He cheated pinili niya ung babaeng kakakilala lang niya sa work like a month or 2 lets maximize it sa 3 months. I trusted him but he made me a fool. Ang masakit doon di niya naisip ung relationship namin, ung relationship namin sa family ng isat isa. Coz TBH dumating din ako sa point na gusto ko na makipagbreak because it's not working anymore, pero mas lumalamang lagi ang love ko sknya at pamilya niya. When I found out he cheated i was willing to forgive him. Nagmukha akong tanga kakahabol sknya at kausapin siya to save the relationship, wala na ko pride, respeto sa sarili ko. It took me a long time to recover coz it really hurts. I developed anxiety, depression became workaholic. During my move on stage, I isolated myself. Wondered around, figuring things out. Then someone came, he knew my situation and he decided to stay until Im okay. I got scared kasi andon ung what if lokohin niya ko? I cant take that anymore. So I prayed to God so hard to help me heal completely and let me know if the guy who came to my life is the one. The guy help me to be close to God. he always remind me how beautiful life is and to be positive. Came 2021 we got married. Siguro ung problema ko lang d ko pa pinapatawad ung ex ko at yung babae. I just simply forgot them because I have a new life and partner. After watching this video, Imma pray to God to help me to genuinely forgive my ex and the girl that they may live life happily. Thank you Darbs for this reaction. Solid sa words of wisdom. Sorry haba ng comment ko. Hehe na carried away.
In all reaction of MV "Paubaya" this is the dabest of all... Lodii sir.. Ngayon lang ako naiyak in your reaction... sa lahat nang sinabi.... grabee sobrang sakit sa pusooo... ang hirap pero kailangan... sobrang salamat .. "STOP thinking the WHAT iFS and START accepting the WHAT IS" Grabee .... hands down...
Hindi natin maiiwasang Masaktan pero choice natin kung hahayaan nating magdwell tayo sa Pain at choice natin kung pababayaan nating lamunin tayo ng Pain at huwag umalis sa Pain na pinagdaanan natin.... Hayaan mo lang yung sakit na nararamdaman dahil kahit matagal darating ang araw na magigising ka na wala na yung Pain sa puso mo.... Mahirap, matagal, mabigat pero there is always hope....
I really admire how you see things. Admire how you express your thoughts and how you expound your messages. Makes me think na ang sarap siguro na maging life partner ang taong katulad mo. Worth remembering lahat ng conversations.
When you loved someone deeply that love could've still be shown even after a years of separations had passed. We can still see from their body language, looks from their eyes that they still have the remnants of that feelings they had shared before. As far as I understand, from the last part where the closures happened, it wasn't scripted but real closures for both of them that in fact to be able for the scene to happened, only few ppl are allowed inside the chapel and that's the director, executive producers, cameramen and their managers respectively. I heard Moira and Jason were also there inside. The talks was the highlight of this video that honestly made me speechless, it is relateable that makes me cry too. The 7 years they'd spent together, thinking about it's real wasted just becoz of "that" mindless mistake. But this opportunity is timely for both of them to not hold grudges to each other and moved on with a breather. Julia seemed much more affected. I can see the guilt and the pain the same with Joshua. Yung panghihinayang was very visible in his facial reaction. As a grown adults experiences, flirting is a taboo for me how much more if it's cheating? Sabi ko nga palagi, think for an nth times before you do something. Once can be a mistake but twice is a choice. We many not know the real situations why the two broke up except for both are flirting with others while they are in "stable dating" period. There's probably more between the line that the two does not want the public to know and talk about. Cry baby ka rin pala Darb. ☺ It is a sign that you are a good person.
This is a reaction-motivational video on a music video. Glad to have found found you here RTD. God is good even in the worst of times. New subsriber here.
I can totally relate with the lines of joshua and julia. Same reasons. But I am like Josh's character. Naiyak ako sa last lines ng reaction vid ni rtd. Nung hindi nya ako pinili, di ko pala dapat sa ibang tao sya ipinaubaya pero kay Lord ko na sya pinapaubaya. Sana. Sana maging masaya at mabuo na sya ulit at sana napatawad nya na rin ako. Thank you sa kanya, sa pagmamahal na pinaramdam nya sakin. Lahat ng sakit, kay Lord ko na pinapaubaya. We were just a lesson for each other, and i am already accepting the "what is" not the "what ifs". Thank you sa memories, thank you for making me a better person. Sobrang minahal kita, sana kahit nagkasakitan tayo, naramdaman mo. Hindi na kita guguluhin kasi i was the source of your pain. And I promise I will be a better person if ever we crossed each other's path again pero ndi ako umaasa. Philip, malayang malaya ka na, find your happiness :')
Nadaanan ko rin yan.Split with husband.Then after 6 yrs,bumalik siya.'Patawad and moved on lang,sabayan nang prayers.May plano si Lord.Kasi kong kayo ang match,kayo talaga.Love yourself first and everything will follow in positive way.Hindi madali pero kailan kakayanin para sa sarili at para sa mga taong nagmamahal sa iyo.😘
that's real talk right there, real reaction and commentary. those suffering from heartbreak out here...it is really painful to go through this, the hardest part is letting go and moving on. but if you stay strong you will eventually move on and be happy again.
"The more you resist, the more pain that you have." (RTD, 2021) As a young writer naiintindihan ko din yung mga sinasabi ni Kuya Darbs and I'm happy na napapanood ko siya kasi ang dami kong natututunan na kaya kong iapply sa pagsususlat ko.
This is also my realization. Holding on to 'what ifs' stops us from moving forward. But accepting and not resisting 'what is' pushes us to live in the present. It's painful but you have to move forward. Yes, there is uncertainty, but f*** it. Maybe this time, you'll hit the pot. 😉
It's a realization to all of us specially to those who've been hurt that God will cut those people who aren't destined in our life. Let's just be thankful for the memories and lessons, all we have to do is to prepare ourselves to be the right person that God wanted us to be, and be ready to receive what we truly deserve 💗 🙏
It's already 2 o'clock in the midnight and still wide a wake ft. cryin 'cause I really felt it, the same way I finally signing off for almost 3 years of loving my First Highschool Love, and made me realize to "Stop thinking for "What if" and start thinking for "What is" " it made me realize that alot of what If holding us back to move forward and start anew, the mindset that we shouldn't let controls us instead of going back from the past you should step ahead and show them how you stand even he made you feel you aren't enough to be. Start thinking for what is and face the future up ahead. I believe in sayin' that "YOUR PAUBAYA COULD TURN INTO BIYAYA" cause GOD will bless you for taking up the courage and surpass the most painful thing you've ever done your whole life ♥️ GODBLESS EVERYONE AND GOOD MORNING 🌞
According to the actor who played as the Priest, when they are going to shoot the last scene 'which is the girl apolozing' the director asks almost all of the crew to go outside the venue leaving only the Director, the two actors and camera men, the director instructed the two to just say whatever they want to each other genuinely since they didn't have any proper closure in real life when they broke up. There's no script to be memorized there and all of the lines was adlibs. I think the reason why this hits so hard is because we can feel the pain of these two, they are not acting, they are broadcasting their own life using this music video
Yes! It's true! After my most painful experienced, I felt his presence and his action after I cried a lot. After I let go and "Paubaya". He was there comforting me by sending notifications from Tweeter that I literally didn't turn it on even before. I was shock at that time. He's always been with me and to you. . .to us. Just do not doubt his actions and always believe in his future plans for you. One tip: Feel the pain before letting it go. It's the best feeling to do before receiving the full happiness.
The collaboration between Moira and JoshzLia is so powerful. Because we all know what Joshua and Julia have been through. And added a powerful singer. Boom sakit....
Great reaction man... accept the reality .. paubaya natin sa Dios pag ginawa natin yun dun palang tayo mapapanatag ginawa ko na yun kaya nyo din yun... God first
12yrs kami since 1st year college, 10years lived in. So last Sept 2020 iniwan nia ko dahil hindi na daw na ako mahal. Nafall out of love xa. After 2weeks nalaman ko na ung babaeng pinaghihinalaan ko dati na kaflirt nia, sila na pla. And after 2 months na ngbreak, nalaman ko na Buntis na ung New Gf nia. Ang sakit 😭 yung mga pangarap namen together wala na dahil sa isang babae na nakilala lng nia sa work nia. Sobrang sakit pero kailangan tanggapin. I know everything has purpose. Maybe this situation will lead sa right person for me 🙏🏻 ACCEPT | MOVE FORWARD | START YOUR NEW LIFE - NEW MEMORIES 💔
oh my g.... grabe every time napapanood ko yang scene na yan it bounce back again the pain and the same scenario and situations. ang difference lang is my ex doesn´t accept or admit anything. life is meaningful and beautiful when i found myself back with the lord.
Hayyy nako kuya . nadadala din ako sa iyak mo kuya ... . sa.bagay andaming daming nakarelate sa kantang paubaya . .... Grbiii naman kase .. Ang saya saya sa una .. Then at the end .. Kong anong saya noon ganun din ang sakit at the end ...nakakaiyak ..daming relate .. Salamat kuya sa message mo sa reaction ang galing . my nakuha akong Aral sa mga advice mo
watched a ton of reaction videos to this music video but you've given the best analysis and insight to Josh and Julia's scene and what the takeaways of the videos are. subscribing for future content, thanks!!
love it..❤️❤️❤️ every struggle im in too i always lay it to Him. to our almight God. because no matter what we go through only God who can fully understand us..
I THINK YOU HAVE TO GIVE IT ALL BECUZ AT THE END OF THE DAY YOU WILL NOT REGRET EVEN YOU WILL LOS E YOUR SELF. LOVE CANNOT BE MEASURE BY OUR OWN STANDARD ITS ONLY BE MEASURED ON HOW WE FELT AND THAT'S WHAT MATTER MOST.
@@RealTalkDarbs Ang sakit sir pero grabe, sobrang salamat. Salamat kasi yung mga bagay na kailangan ko arinig e nasabi / sinabi nyo. Salamat Sir! Salamat.
5:25 yes po. The first time we met after the break up. That was 3 months after the breakup. We knew we had to meet someday for that person to return things that she borrowed me. So I prepared myself for that day. Pero naging biglaan lang talaga ang meet up namin kasi may favor ako na sya ang kailangang gumawa. I pitied myself but felt also proud cause I was able to manage not to appear miserable in the best way I can. And I tell you, it took me a lot of courage to act that way I acted that day. Cause I still love the person.
We need to go through pain in order for us to heal, but it is not that easy as we deem because it is a process. But we must not forget that we cannot heal ourselves alone, we need God☝️because He is our healer and if we find hard to let go of someone, then we just need to let God. Ipaubaya naten lahat kay Lord and see the magic and beauty of letting go. P.S. This is my second time to watched this, and I just love the wisdom☺Thank you po for this.
Your last sentiments is one of the messages i hoped people would know through my song and my album. Thank you for helping make that message clear.
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Thank you very much for making this song! And for letting us know na kahit na merong mga taong di tayo pinili, meron at meron paring pipili sa atin. Sya yun. Thank you moira.
🥺🥺🥺🥺 hay
Hala, na notice ni @moira dela torre 😯.. congrats kuya darbz
"You have to be selfish in order to be selfless." ✨
- RTD, 2021
"Pasalamatan mo ung taong either nanakit or nagpasaya sayo, kasi at the end of the day there's a learning to that" 💯 - Kuya Darbs
Yung binulong ni Julia na "huwag mo kong bitawan" then sabi ni Josh "I need to" grave ang sakit sobra I felt that.. Nakakaiyak pucha 😭😭😭
God is always choose you kahit na ano pang nakaraan mo, iwanan ka man ng mundong to pero sya mananatiling tapat at palaging sasamahan ka
#OnGod
I remember 4 yrs ago, when someone told me, pwede bang ako nlng ang pakasalan para sa bata? Ung wla akong magawa kundi magpaubaya para sa bata. Everytime I hear this music nalulungkot ako at naluluha. Yung may set na kasal na kaso kinasal siya sa iba. That word "Binigay ko lahat pero naubos ako" until now I can still feel the pain. Nagsorry na siya saying "sorry dahil di kita naipaglaban". We both love each other but we both need to let go. Sorry and thank you is last word na nasabi namin sa isat isa. Sana one day totally maging okay na dn ako😊
The saddest part about life is when a person who gave you the best memory becomes a memory.
"PAIN is INEVITABLE but SUFFERING is OPTIONAL "
grabeeehhhhhhhh ang power nito.
Just did the same thing today. Nagpatawad, nagpaubaya, nagpalaam na.
It was hard to think for the first few days, pero since we have a son, I really need to let go, kasi hindi lang naman ako ang nasasaktan.
I grew up in a broken family, and my promise before to my own son is that he'll never grow in a family like mine.
But since I'm already in this situation I need to speak up not just for me , but also for our son.
It was hard really, but still I have the reason to move on and smile.
I'm not living alone in this new chapter of my life, I am now living it with my own son.
Being in this broken situation made me realize that hindi naman porket lumaki ako sa isang pamilyang sira ay dapat kong ipaglaban yung akin din kahit sirang sira na.
Mas magaan sa loob na ilet go nalang siya kesa mamuhay pa kasama siya pero puro kasinungalingan nalang.
Walang ina ang gugustuhin na mamuhay ang anak nila sa kasinungalingan .
That's why I let go and is now ready to say goodbye.
"Pain is evitable. But suffering is optional."
Yeah❤
*inevitable
Pain is inevitable, but suffering is optional 💔 ang sakit kuya darbs!
if u tired of crying for the person who didn't love u back o who didn't choose u , merong isang tao na pipili at pipili sau na kahit anong mangyari..
I needed to hear this. Thank you..
ITS NOT SCRIPTED,, ITS A DIALOGUE OF THEIR FEELINGS ,, YAN ANG POINT N MOIRA,, CLOSURE FOR BOTH OF THEM,, #REALTALKDARBS
theyre close friends kc.. cguro as a friend, gusto ni moira na makatulong sa kanilang dalawa na makalaya sa pain na nararamdaman nila. para magkaroon ng closure at mapatawad nila ang isat isa. npaka sakit ng kantang to. kahit ilang beses q na napapanuod, umiiyak parin aq.. masakit parin sa lalamunan..😭😭😭😭
Pain makes you stronger, fear makes you braver, heartbreak makes you wiser. Sometimes...good things fall apart so better things can come together.
I remember the days that I've been so much broken multiple times in all of my past relationships, then my last resort was to give up and to surrender everything to God, the days came when I'm not asking for anything but miracles really happened after that, all good things came on my way, even the guy that I've been dreamt of He gave him to me and that guy has a lot of traits more than I prayed for. So keep believing and have faith that God is writing your own love story. Let Go and Let God. 🥰♥️
Best reaction I have seen so far ....no judgement only insights that people can learn from.
Sya talaga hinintay kug mag react nito..
You're so good at giving advices. Hits really deep. 💔 and the fact that I've never been in a relationship before but this still hurts me. "Stop thinking of WHAT IFS, Start accepting the WHAT IS"
Did you know that you got it right when you said it's not actually scripted? That when they went on to the scene where Julia and Joshua talks, it's actually unscripted and it was just both of them talking about what happened in their relationship. And the director asked the crew to wait outside and the only people who were inside was the director, Moira, Joshua and Julia. Your reaction and opinion is spot on and it stood out among the reactions I watch. Thank you and keep it !!!
Also, when Joshua says "take care of yourself" Julia whispers "Wag mo ako bitawan" as to why Joshua replies with "I need to" :
Sa lahat ng mv reaction, eto talaga hinihintay ko! ☺💖
You make me happy with that comment!
"THE PERSON YOU LOVE THE MOST
IS THE SAME PERSON
WILL HURT YOU THE MOST"
True
True..this is what happen to me now.😭😭💔💔
Because being hurt is a proof that you love someone. ❤️
WE LOVE HIM, BECAUSE HE FIRST LOVED US.
1 JOHN 4:19 🙏🏻😇
Kapit lang tayo kay PAPA GOD🙏🏻
Gave me a good cry. I know na I have to accept na wala na. Pero hindi ko magawa kasi I'm still hooked up with the thoughts of what I could've done better for him to stay. I have forgiven him for his mistakes, I apologized for my mistakes. Akala ko there will still be a chance para maging maayos kami, pero wala na. I know na he also needs space and time to be better. Alone. Alam ko lahat pero hindi ko pa rin matanggap. Maybe I'll just embrace the process muna. It's hard to force myself to be happy right now when I'm not.
Grasya ka, Kuya Darbs! Thanks for letting everyone hear and see that we have always had the unconditional love we all deserve. Thank you, Lord! 🙏🤗
I do find strength in a man who doesn’t afraid to show their vulnerability. Kudos to kuya darbs for sharing your wisdom.❤️
Natutunan ko sa reaction nato... Tanggalin na talaga ang "what if's" ... Kung una palang doubtful kana sa karelasyon mo abay wag mo nlang talaga iPush. Sa huli ,masasaktan ka lang talaga.
I could still clearly remember that night, when the person whom after a long time of being too afraid, tinayaan ko and really opened my heart to, the one i made plans in the future with, told me he did not really love me, he just tried.. i cried my heart out the whole night, the pain was too unbearable i felt like i couldnt breathe and my heart’s crushing into pieces. And that was the moment i called unto God, to please make the pain go away. I surrendered it to Him. And i started to accept that maybe it was really not meant to be from the start, pinilit lang namin. I totally agree with you Darbz, pg pinaubaya mo kay Lord, even the most painful feeling would seem like a powerful pill that can make you even more stronger and wiser.
"The more I love, the more it hurts, but that's how I get kinder and stronger."
"In a relationship, you shouldn't be on a sprint, you should be on a marathon."
Dayummm! dropping them bombs . I've learned so much from this video, thank you sir. GOD BLESS!💣🔥
Let Go and Let God 😊 I lay all my burdens and Pain to him, and Praise God I got out of that situation. Now, im loving myself more and loving God more than ever 💕
still crying up to now. This song hits me hard. Lahat nang pain ng flashback. But when u learn to surrender everything to God, you will find your answers 😢
You know what is the most painful part is ? You both shared happy memories together na kahet anong isipin mo , puro happiness lang talaga kase walang hindi happy eh , masaya lang , and suddenly shit happens . Kailangan nyong dalawa mag let go . 🥺
Super proud of Josh. For being the bigger person. For dealing with the issues with such grace. Such maturity. God bless...
The last part, it made me cry. 😭❤️ Masarap sa pakiramdam kapag wala kang galit sa iba. Masakit man pero maluwag sa pakiramdam kung ipapaubaya mo nalang lahat sa kanya ☝️ Lord, Salamat sa palagi mong pagpili sakin. 🥺❤️
Last line of the original version Moira said 3 times “Paubaya” but for this music video she changed it to Pinapatawad, Pinapalaya, Pinapaubaya sa kanya. ☝️😔😭
Yes! Powerful messages
@@RealTalkDarbs so powerful lines grabe I’m in tears every time I listened to the song 😩🙏
Paalam
Patawad
Paubaya
baka bukas Pautang
pero sa Gobyerno ay Pabaya
@@rogh1977 🤣🤣🤣
I start to cried when you say that there is one still love us. The one above. Thank you for reminding us
This video moved me soooo much because it happened to me once. It reminded me how I left the love of my life behind and left her hanging without any closure or explanation. I left her. And I regretted it ever since. I cried the minute Moira’s first lyrics came. My emotions just came out and I burst into tears as I see reminiscing videos of fun memories. It reminded me of my memories with her. I hate myself even upto now for breaking her heart. No words can explain how much I must have hurt her. My greatest regret came as a flashback when I watched for the first time Moira’s video of Paubaya song. I don’t know how to close and end that relationship now because it happened long ago. But up-to this day, I truly believe I have lost the woman that I was meant to be. This video has done something that no one has done before. To actually bring in real people unscripted and their own true words for each other. Genius! Whoever made this video possible was ingenious and one of a few only videos that producers and film director will soon follow.
brother be brave and tell her your sorry and ask for forgiveness then wish her happy memories to come.. may god bless you and give you courage to talk her..
As always I’ve waited for this. And truth only God knows the truth behind every pain ❤️
papi. message me
The reaction was too pure. I cried not only because of the video, but also because of your insights. Truly, a sensible reaction from an amazing work. Thank you po. God bless.
You're like a big hug po. Thank you for your amazing words and thoughts po. Thank you.
Aweee thank you🤗
I did reaction from this MV too and we almost had the same sentiments. I cried the first time I watched it so when I react it’s just my POV. I admired you so much for being man enough to show emotions in public. I felt like you experienced this too. Accountability. Kuddos to your team real talk darbs and Moira dela TORRE for this obra . 😢
Yes youre right the chemistry is there...bagay tlga sila
"Pain is inevitable, but suffering is optional." - damn dude that hits really hard! Thank you for wise words at the end of the video. New subs here.
Finally, this is the reaction I've been waiting for since the MV released...
2nd time to cry while watching your reaction video. thank you for reacting it scene by scene especially when Joshlia were talking. TBH I've watch the MV 4x, ung pang 4th doon lang ako umiyak kasi na gets ko ung mensahe nila. But your reaction made me cry again and realize some things. 2019 is the year na masasabi ko na worst year for me. My long time BF left me for another girl, yes he cheated. He was trying to hide it but figured things out. I was mad and lost that time almost killed myself. Imagine, I was there for him lagi supporting his dreams and plans in life. Im older than him, never ko siya pinressure to marry me coz I know his priorities. Hinahayaan ko lang siya sa gusto niya kasi alam ko na he's matured enough to do life decision. He cheated pinili niya ung babaeng kakakilala lang niya sa work like a month or 2 lets maximize it sa 3 months. I trusted him but he made me a fool. Ang masakit doon di niya naisip ung relationship namin, ung relationship namin sa family ng isat isa. Coz TBH dumating din ako sa point na gusto ko na makipagbreak because it's not working anymore, pero mas lumalamang lagi ang love ko sknya at pamilya niya. When I found out he cheated i was willing to forgive him. Nagmukha akong tanga kakahabol sknya at kausapin siya to save the relationship, wala na ko pride, respeto sa sarili ko. It took me a long time to recover coz it really hurts. I developed anxiety, depression became workaholic. During my move on stage, I isolated myself. Wondered around, figuring things out. Then someone came, he knew my situation and he decided to stay until Im okay. I got scared kasi andon ung what if lokohin niya ko? I cant take that anymore. So I prayed to God so hard to help me heal completely and let me know if the guy who came to my life is the one. The guy help me to be close to God. he always remind me how beautiful life is and to be positive. Came 2021 we got married. Siguro ung problema ko lang d ko pa pinapatawad ung ex ko at yung babae. I just simply forgot them because I have a new life and partner. After watching this video, Imma pray to God to help me to genuinely forgive my ex and the girl that they may live life happily. Thank you Darbs for this reaction. Solid sa words of wisdom.
Sorry haba ng comment ko. Hehe na carried away.
Wow... You're word of wisdom is powerful! Create more kind of this reaction videos that full of wisdom and knowledge!
The sweetest and memorable memories you had together could turn into saddest and painful memories you had when you're apart.
In all reaction of MV "Paubaya" this is the dabest of all... Lodii sir.. Ngayon lang ako naiyak in your reaction... sa lahat nang sinabi.... grabee sobrang sakit sa pusooo... ang hirap pero kailangan... sobrang salamat ..
"STOP thinking the WHAT iFS and START accepting the WHAT IS"
Grabee .... hands down...
eto yung solid na reactor ❤️ may matututunan ka din❤️ first time ko po manuod ng reaction video mo. grabe solid 🙌🏻
Hindi natin maiiwasang Masaktan pero choice natin kung hahayaan nating magdwell tayo sa Pain at choice natin kung pababayaan nating lamunin tayo ng Pain at huwag umalis sa Pain na pinagdaanan natin.... Hayaan mo lang yung sakit na nararamdaman dahil kahit matagal darating ang araw na magigising ka na wala na yung Pain sa puso mo.... Mahirap, matagal, mabigat pero there is always hope....
I was healed also.. by "HIM". thank you for the best reaction so far ive ever seen.
I really admire how you see things. Admire how you express your thoughts and how you expound your messages. Makes me think na ang sarap siguro na maging life partner ang taong katulad mo. Worth remembering lahat ng conversations.
"Ako ang kailangan, pero 'di ang mahal"
"Ako ang nauna pero sya ang wakas"
Sakit!! 💔💔💔
When you loved someone deeply that love could've still be shown even after a years of separations had passed. We can still see from their body language, looks from their eyes that they still have the remnants of that feelings they had shared before. As far as I understand, from the last part where the closures happened, it wasn't scripted but real closures for both of them that in fact to be able for the scene to happened, only few ppl are allowed inside the chapel and that's the director, executive producers, cameramen and their managers respectively. I heard Moira and Jason were also there inside. The talks was the highlight of this video that honestly made me speechless, it is relateable that makes me cry too. The 7 years they'd spent together, thinking about it's real wasted just becoz of "that" mindless mistake. But this opportunity is timely for both of them to not hold grudges to each other and moved on with a breather. Julia seemed much more affected. I can see the guilt and the pain the same with Joshua. Yung panghihinayang was very visible in his facial reaction. As a grown adults experiences, flirting is a taboo for me how much more if it's cheating? Sabi ko nga palagi, think for an nth times before you do something. Once can be a mistake but twice is a choice. We many not know the real situations why the two broke up except for both are flirting with others while they are in "stable dating" period. There's probably more between the line that the two does not want the public to know and talk about. Cry baby ka rin pala Darb. ☺ It is a sign that you are a good person.
This is a reaction-motivational video on a music video. Glad to have found found you here RTD.
God is good even in the worst of times. New subsriber here.
Thank you brother
I can totally relate with the lines of joshua and julia. Same reasons. But I am like Josh's character. Naiyak ako sa last lines ng reaction vid ni rtd. Nung hindi nya ako pinili, di ko pala dapat sa ibang tao sya ipinaubaya pero kay Lord ko na sya pinapaubaya. Sana. Sana maging masaya at mabuo na sya ulit at sana napatawad nya na rin ako. Thank you sa kanya, sa pagmamahal na pinaramdam nya sakin. Lahat ng sakit, kay Lord ko na pinapaubaya. We were just a lesson for each other, and i am already accepting the "what is" not the "what ifs". Thank you sa memories, thank you for making me a better person. Sobrang minahal kita, sana kahit nagkasakitan tayo, naramdaman mo. Hindi na kita guguluhin kasi i was the source of your pain. And I promise I will be a better person if ever we crossed each other's path again pero ndi ako umaasa. Philip, malayang malaya ka na, find your happiness :')
This is what I've been waiting for, huhu this is one of the best reaction video I've ever watch!!!
Nadaanan ko rin yan.Split with husband.Then after 6 yrs,bumalik siya.'Patawad and moved on lang,sabayan nang prayers.May plano si Lord.Kasi kong kayo ang match,kayo talaga.Love yourself first and everything will follow in positive way.Hindi madali pero kailan kakayanin para sa sarili at para sa mga taong nagmamahal sa iyo.😘
that's real talk right there, real reaction and commentary. those suffering from heartbreak out here...it is really painful to go through this, the hardest part is letting go and moving on. but if you stay strong you will eventually move on and be happy again.
Matagal na kitang pinatawad. Alam ko nanunuod ka ng mga video Niya. Be happy always. Thanks for everything.
I salute you sir! This is the best reaction video of "PAUBAYA" that I've seen so far!❤️👌🏼
Isa sa pinaka maganda reaksyon napanood ko sbra ng galing PUSO UNG mga cnasabe at Kung ano UNG gsto mo sbhn un UNG sakto cnsabe nia.
♥️🙏♥️🙏♥️🙏
THUMBS UP SIR, that is the REACTION that i want to hear. thanks so much... Galing mo sir
"The more you resist, the more pain that you have." (RTD, 2021)
As a young writer naiintindihan ko din yung mga sinasabi ni Kuya Darbs and I'm happy na napapanood ko siya kasi ang dami kong natututunan na kaya kong iapply sa pagsususlat ko.
This is the best reaction I ever scene of all wow..
That's true ipaubaya mo na lang Kay lord ang lahat masakit man pero kailangan tanggapin 💔💔💔
This so beautiful, Darbs. Just beautiful.
Very on Point. Your statements really convey the message of the songs. And Joshua and Julia messages to each other breaks my heart. 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
This is also my realization. Holding on to 'what ifs' stops us from moving forward. But accepting and not resisting 'what is' pushes us to live in the present. It's painful but you have to move forward. Yes, there is uncertainty, but f*** it. Maybe this time, you'll hit the pot. 😉
It's a realization to all of us specially to those who've been hurt that God will cut those people who aren't destined in our life. Let's just be thankful for the memories and lessons, all we have to do is to prepare ourselves to be the right person that God wanted us to be, and be ready to receive what we truly deserve 💗 🙏
It's already 2 o'clock in the midnight and still wide a wake ft. cryin 'cause I really felt it, the same way I finally signing off for almost 3 years of loving my First Highschool Love, and made me realize to "Stop thinking for "What if" and start thinking for "What is" " it made me realize that alot of what If holding us back to move forward and start anew, the mindset that we shouldn't let controls us instead of going back from the past you should step ahead and show them how you stand even he made you feel you aren't enough to be. Start thinking for what is and face the future up ahead.
I believe in sayin' that
"YOUR PAUBAYA COULD TURN INTO BIYAYA" cause GOD will bless you for taking up the courage and surpass the most painful thing you've ever done your whole life ♥️
GODBLESS EVERYONE AND GOOD MORNING 🌞
To the person reading this, you are amazing, stay blessed, stay safe. May you have a wonderful day ahead. God Bless you all.
same to you.
According to the actor who played as the Priest, when they are going to shoot the last scene 'which is the girl apolozing' the director asks almost all of the crew to go outside the venue leaving only the Director, the two actors and camera men, the director instructed the two to just say whatever they want to each other genuinely since they didn't have any proper closure in real life when they broke up. There's no script to be memorized there and all of the lines was adlibs. I think the reason why this hits so hard is because we can feel the pain of these two, they are not acting, they are broadcasting their own life using this music video
yung ang sakit na ng song, ang sakit pa ng music video TAPOS MASAKIT DIN YUNG REACTION 😭😭😭😭🙌
Bogbog ang puso ko😥
Yes! It's true! After my most painful experienced, I felt his presence and his action after I cried a lot. After I let go and "Paubaya". He was there comforting me by sending notifications from Tweeter that I literally didn't turn it on even before. I was shock at that time. He's always been with me and to you. . .to us. Just do not doubt his actions and always believe in his future plans for you.
One tip: Feel the pain before letting it go. It's the best feeling to do before receiving the full happiness.
ETO HINIHINTAY KONG REACTION, FINALLY!
The collaboration between Moira and JoshzLia is so powerful. Because we all know what Joshua and Julia have been through. And added a powerful singer. Boom sakit....
Oh my God😭 i need to stop thinking of what if's and need to start accepting the what is.. 🥺💔
Great reaction man... accept the reality .. paubaya natin sa Dios pag ginawa natin yun dun palang tayo mapapanatag ginawa ko na yun kaya nyo din yun... God first
This is one of the best reactions out of 15-20 reaction videos ive watched
12yrs kami since 1st year college, 10years lived in. So last Sept 2020 iniwan nia ko dahil hindi na daw na ako mahal. Nafall out of love xa. After 2weeks nalaman ko na ung babaeng pinaghihinalaan ko dati na kaflirt nia, sila na pla. And after 2 months na ngbreak, nalaman ko na Buntis na ung New Gf nia. Ang sakit 😭 yung mga pangarap namen together wala na dahil sa isang babae na nakilala lng nia sa work nia. Sobrang sakit pero kailangan tanggapin. I know everything has purpose. Maybe this situation will lead sa right person for me 🙏🏻 ACCEPT | MOVE FORWARD | START YOUR NEW LIFE - NEW MEMORIES 💔
"Okay lang yung saktong pagmamahal lang (sa una o sa umpisa), as long as kaya mo itong ibigay ng pangmatagalan." ✨😌
oh my g.... grabe every time napapanood ko yang scene na yan it bounce back again the pain and the same scenario and situations. ang difference lang is my ex doesn´t accept or admit anything. life is meaningful and beautiful when i found myself back with the lord.
I learned a lot from your words of wisdom. All of your advices hits me.
FORGIVE
LETTING GO
LET GOD
It's painful watching this all over again. But your advises may help me survive all these pain I'm going through right now. Thank you sir Darbs! 🙏
Hayyy nako kuya . nadadala din ako sa iyak mo kuya ... . sa.bagay andaming daming nakarelate sa kantang paubaya . .... Grbiii naman kase .. Ang saya saya sa una .. Then at the end .. Kong anong saya noon ganun din ang sakit at the end ...nakakaiyak ..daming relate .. Salamat kuya sa message mo sa reaction ang galing . my nakuha akong Aral sa mga advice mo
watched a ton of reaction videos to this music video but you've given the best analysis and insight to Josh and Julia's scene and what the takeaways of the videos are. subscribing for future content, thanks!!
When time comes and youre tired of crying for the person who didnt love you, who didnt choose you. You have HIM😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭HITS SO HARD
Ewan ko ha pero, ang sakit nung "huwag mo 'ko bitawan" ni Julia 😭 Dagdagan pa ng reaction ni kuya darbs haha ayoooooko na
Perfect timing.. Forgiveness, acceptance, growth..
Graveeh boss yung "you cannot give what u don't have" and ung 80/20 rule...so real💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽🤘🏻
Very well said sir salamat Paubaya MO nlang
SA LAHAT NG REACTOR. ISA TO SA HINAHANAP HANAP KO AGAD HAHAHA AND FINALLY!
love it..❤️❤️❤️ every struggle im in too i always lay it to Him. to our almight God. because no matter what we go through only God who can fully understand us..
Closure to moveon
And to thank to all good memories.
I THINK YOU HAVE TO GIVE IT ALL BECUZ AT THE END OF THE DAY YOU WILL NOT REGRET EVEN YOU WILL LOS E YOUR SELF. LOVE CANNOT BE MEASURE BY OUR OWN STANDARD ITS ONLY BE MEASURED ON HOW WE FELT AND THAT'S WHAT MATTER MOST.
The best reaction so far!
😍😍😍 so painful but your right iappaubaya ko na lahat kay lord 😍
Im waiting for this. wooooh!
Enjoy!
@@RealTalkDarbs Ang sakit sir pero grabe, sobrang salamat. Salamat kasi yung mga bagay na kailangan ko arinig e nasabi / sinabi nyo. Salamat Sir! Salamat.
5:25 yes po. The first time we met after the break up. That was 3 months after the breakup. We knew we had to meet someday for that person to return things that she borrowed me. So I prepared myself for that day. Pero naging biglaan lang talaga ang meet up namin kasi may favor ako na sya ang kailangang gumawa. I pitied myself but felt also proud cause I was able to manage not to appear miserable in the best way I can. And I tell you, it took me a lot of courage to act that way I acted that day. Cause I still love the person.
I WAS MOVED BY THIS REACTION!
We need to go through pain in order for us to heal, but it is not that easy as we deem because it is a process. But we must not forget that we cannot heal ourselves alone, we need God☝️because He is our healer and if we find hard to let go of someone, then we just need to let God. Ipaubaya naten lahat kay Lord and see the magic and beauty of letting go.
P.S.
This is my second time to watched this, and I just love the wisdom☺Thank you po for this.