I was in a very toxic relationship for 7yrs. It took all my strength to finally leave back in 2018. After being celibate and stopping all dating for 4.5 years, I am now healed. I know my worth. I am a Queen who deserves a balanced, loving relationship with a true King. Thank you💞🙏
In 2015 I walked away from a verbally abusive / alcoholic man and never looked back. Two years prior the Holy spirit had spoken to me audibly and told me that I was going to leave him. When I'd told my ex whom I was with at the time about what the Holy spirit had revealed to me, his reply was "He didn't believe in such a thing" ... Well fast forward into 2022, it's been 9 years since I walked away from that Toxic relationship like the Holy spirit told me I would. I've been at peace ever since I'd chosen to believe and obey the Holy Spirit, and did exactly what The Holy Spirit told me I would do!! Thank You JESUS ‼️
Pastor RC Blakes you are the Father figure that so many of us as women grew up without. This fatherless void caused us to seek love in the wrong places by the wrong caliber of men. Thank you for allowing God to use you! You are reconditioning our mindsets, strengthening and healing our Spirits and most importantly, helping us to understand our worth. Praise God for you!!! ❤️❤️
At one point I was crawling. Then I walked. Thank GOD I had the wisdom to RUN. That decision saved my life...LITERALLY! HE is able and will give u strength 💪 ❤
I could’ve died and didn’t even realize it but I’m thankful for Psalms 91 protection. Satan was trying to kill my destiny and wanted my soul but he can’t have it, I’m God’s child. The bad thing is I was told my friends are not my friends over 20 years ago but I was in either middle or high school and didn’t understand why she would say that because they seemed like good ladies. I just wished she would’ve explained it further so I could’ve understood better, not her fault though, I should’ve just cut them off. Please keep me in your prayers because I’m not giving up on my relationship with God and I declaring that I shall fulfill my God given purpose. They may have derailed and delayed my purpose for a while but God is able to accelerate the time, they don’t realize they just gave me ammunition and now I want to tear down the kingdom of darkness even more but I have to remind myself that Vengeance is the Lord’s
@ecugirl10 💯👍🏾✅️🙏🏿 Wow!!! ...but very well said Sis!👌🏾 Im praying for you to heal my beautiful sister ... Continue to go on with your spiritual journey and be kind to yourself along the way. Life is a learning experience...you are learning and you will now be able to teach and bless others with your wisdom and knowledge. You will be fine if you continue to walk with Yah...follow your intuition because that is yah speaking directly to you! Just keep doing your best and being yourself! You got this!👊🏾 Yah bless🙋🏽♀️Love ya!🥰
Tried to walk away 3 times, took him back every time, and then when finally he walked out on me, I slammed the door shut on him. Never again letting this evil back in! Thank God for rescueing me! I've been so much happier since 🙏
Exactly especially when your family can tell when he's around you and when he's not...so much happier without him in my space, trying to control every single aspect of me 😊
"After you realize that the situation is bad for you, and you remain in it, you're no longer a victim, you're a volunteer!" Powerful! As you also said, our environment has to change, not just people but things as well: I had a bedroom suit from my longterm toxic marriage that I finally decided to get rid of, and a friend wanted me to give it to her but I told her that I never wanted to see it again or even know where it was, so I had to donate it. Seeing it go out the door gave a lift to my heart.
In 2017 I walked away from a Narcissist(s). Best thing I ever did had to protect my peace and mental, it was hard @ first because of that soul-tie! I promised God if he saved me never again will I defile the marriage bed and I hadn't! Been celibate now for 4yrs and 6months! I can see and think clearly😊🙏
Hallelujah, I love it, stay strong and trust God🥰! God's continued blessings be upon you always, in Jesus' Holy and Peaceful name, Hallelujah, Amen💖✨💕💫!
I walked away one day. Just walked. Cut him off and blocked his calls and texts. I definitely feel great about it. It has been several months and I am enjoying my life without him. No regrets even if he jas someone else. Good. He is out of the husband's way that God has for me. 👌
@@mmmmkay4773He was my fiancé. I was in love with him. We were friends in the beginning, no soul tie.. he was supposed to be a Man of God however,, I saw some very bad indicators that he had stepped out of God's will and he was bringing ne with him.. In the end, he wasn't worth my happiness and dignity when I took a good look at my life. Love will never treat you bad. Love doesn't live falsely, pretend and just outright lie. There were other men that wanted me however, I was too blind to see the bette in the other men verses the good looks he had. Going forward, it's God first.
This is not easy to do... i was in this thing for a year and was so hurt and broken on the way he treated me emotionally....if it wasn't for RC Blakes...I wouldn't be taking the time to feel and grow through this time. I moved clear across the country and God has shown up so many times to affirm my decision. I'm human so I still have human emotions but I'm working with a therapist for that. I'm doing Mordecai Mission for my inner work come March.... I'm the expert on nutrition and wellness because that matters too...The rest I'm working through with just me and Jesus. One critical thing that I'm doing is not opening another door until I am clearly Queen Concious... period.
So happy for you Tammy! Stay strong my dear Queen-Sister! You are worthy of every good thing God promised! Keep walking in your blessings!!!🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾👑💫🦋💃🏿
The Mordecai Mission is the best thing that I have ever done for myself. It changed my life. It is the most powerful thing that I have ever been involved in. March will be magic! I am proud of you!
I encourage you to keep positive, spirit filled people around you! I pray in the name of Jesus that he gives you the clarity that you need to walk in your divine purpose. Trust the Lord. Even when you don’t understand, Trust him! He will lead you and you’d be surprised where you will be 6 months from now ♥️♥️♥️♥️
Pastor Blake it took me from 2008 to 2021 to file for divorce. I first filed in 2008 and three times after that, for a total of four times attempting to legally liberate myself from the torture I was going through. Finally, on November 30th, 2021 I was emotionally and mentally ready to end it and the final decree will be between March and April 2022. There are so many times you can forgive an adultery, and I reached my limit. Best decision I ever made and I am now very happy.
15 years married to a narcissistic psychopath and I have been free for 3 years. I just started becoming social again after staying pretty isolated and healing for 3 years. Soul Ties, trauma bonds, cognitive dissonance, intermittent reinforcement, their flying monkeys, and love bombing are a few of the reasons it’s so hard to leave and remain free from people with cluster B personality disorders. Three years free and no contact, but my ex narcissist still stalks me and tries to Hoover me back into a relationship with him. To anyone struggling with leaving or going through the intense pain, confusion and self doubt while you are breaking free- It DOES get better! You’ve got to completely cut off contact so you can break toe addiction in your brain to them. I’m praying for everyone going through these types of relationships and for everyone that is now free but still hasn’t healed ❤️
Another word for a soul tie is trauma bond or attachment style. When we have a anxious attachment style we get needy very quickly in a relationship. We fall hard looking for security in another person. It all stems from our childhood trauma or wounds. We have to work on own healing and developing the ability to walk away when we recognise the pattern and when someone shows us through their actions that they are not really invested in us. It's a tough journey but we can heal and be better. This goes for all types of relationships in our life, work, friends, family, not just romantic relationships. We have to get healthy in every aspect of our lives.
Really looking forward to this conversation. I walked out of a 9 year toxic marriage 2 years ago and never looked back. Now I help other women through my book, coaching and CZcams channel.
My heart really goes out to other women that have gone through the pain of infidelity. It’s so so painful. It scars you & affects your mind so much. May God heal our hearts & minds & restore our joy in Jesus name, Amen.
Thank you I was with this person for 17 years I have two kids with him sometimes I feel so alone all I do is cry I'm trying to get myself together but it's so hard I don't have anyone to talk to
@@tamisharowland4933 I'm really sorry to hear that you've been going through this and going through it alone 😔 I will be praying for you Tamisha. Are you apart of a church? Maybe there you could find women who could pray for you and encourage you?
We all try to Love with all of our heart but sometimes its just not meant to be. Accept it, be honest with yourself, and WALK OUT. Time heals all wounds and you will be fine. God bless❤
I truly cried and had a breakdown where I was on my knees in the shower crying before watching this, because my life has come to a point where I need to leave my setting. The toxic relationship in this case, for my circumstances, is my family. I love them so much, but it's time I go out in the world and find my tribe to do my services with my gifts and talents. They will always be there for me, but the setting has got to change. I loved this sermon for tonight, I've been binge watching RC Blakes the past week doubling down on Queen consciousness. God bless everyone on your paths. It's the only way to go! Let's do this
I wish you well Sis! It seems harder than it is. I divorced after 28 years of marriage and it was absolutely the best decision I made. I never knew how much turmoil I was in until I was out of it. GOD IS ABLE TO SUSTAIN YOU , ask Him for courage and confirmation He’s faithful. BE BLESSED QUEEN
Today is my birthday! I have learned so much since finding this ministry just a few days ago.I need a lot of prayers to get out of this narcissistic situation.It's crazy how you can be so blind for so many years. And when you finally get to the person's true spirit it can be overwhelming. So much of our life is entangled I don't know where to start.
Don’t tell him, plan to walk and when he pulls, you keep walking, and he will keep trying (mine caused the breaking that lasted 2yrs…1yrs he was in jail which helped hugely then the 2nd year was all begging and pleading to move back in together) I didn’t give in but it was a very heavy emotional place. He would verbally abuse me if I say I’ve moved on…I said I went to the movies with another man and he lost his mind…but he was on another state at the time.. he was relentless about trying to get back till he just met someone else finally…. He ended up apologizing for all the pain he caused me.
I have been watching Pastors videos for about 5 months so far and I’ve learned what a soul tie is, realized I had one, and last week had the strength to break that soul tie. I haven’t looked back at all, no temptation or guilt. I woke up and I’m awake now
Yess! It was 3am September 25th 2021! Packed what I could fit in my car and left while he was sleep! Moved to another state and haven t looked back since!
As I walked away from my toxic marriage, the Holy Spirit woke me up one night and referred me to read this story about the prodigal son. I was going through a very long battle in court with my ex and I thought God was letting me know he would come back. Well fast forward, I was the prodigal son. I knew I had made some choices and I need to get back with God. It’s been 3 years and counting. Never looked back. I blocked him and the flying monkeys from all social media, contacts and did not know why I was doing it but it was all God. Thank you Pastor
I had to leave a toxic marriage as well and in process of annulment. You did the right thing beautiful. Hurting people hurt people. Healed people love people.
If it looks like we all live the same life I wonder how many of those happy social media couples are toxic …. I left the cheating lying mr nice guy ( this is very confusing!) . I dated for 2,5 years for him it was ok because, he loves me now and it was for over a year ago (for a whole year) I forgave him other horrible stuff multiple times so this was my cue to JUST WALK and never look back … I do love him so I’m not gonna lie it’s easy but I know in the end it will be worth it ….. 37 young fun and bright but need to start over again ‘sigh’ but just as pastor RC Blakes always says you are never too old …. Wish me strength….
2 years ago back in Jan 2020 Holy Spirit whispered in my ear Open The Front Door And Walk Out With Nothing But Your Two Daughters. Don't look back once you get outside or you will turn into a Pillar of Salt. You will become stone. I did just that. Fast forward 2 years 2022 I still haven't returned back to the home that we own. I have my peace, my own car, my own apartment, full time job. I am wide awake. Great is here! Come on ladies you all can do it! You will feel so much lighter and better. I believe in you and I love you sis. Choose you and get yourself out of it. I had to choose me over that 26 year abusive alcoholic marriage.
🙌 yes! Listen 👂 to your own soul! It never 👎 lies 🤥 it’s all about the vibe! When you no longer feel good 👍 in your significant others presence…. Go! God said Go! Walk 🚶♀️away and don’t look 👀 back! I love ❤️ with the my whole heart ♥️ but I do know when something is wrong 😑 my spirit and my life guide always let’s me know what up! Side note 📝 to everyone… this is the main reason why we have to abstain from sexual relationship outside of marriage! Be careful with your heart ♥️ mind body and soul! Praying 🙏 for everyone…
I survived an abusive narcissistic relationship and have been free and delivered with no contact for almost a year now. My life has changed on so many ways and this had been my greatest personal challenge yet. This journey to healing is well over due and I cannot be anymore grateful for RC Blakes. He tremendously helped me and still is every day... Praying & Studying your videos saved my life
To se that I’m not going through this alone helps me continue to move forward with no contact, no social media etc. You ladies are truly inspirational. I have my hard days but I get through them. It’s hard to think that someone I loved would hurt me in ways this narcissistic alcoholic abusive man had hurt me. I pray for continuing strength to keep pushing forward, peace, acceptance, and to live a fulfilling life after this tragedy of a relationship.
Our own insecurities, fear of being alone, not being whole. You must ask God questions and pour your heart out in prayer. Being whole is a necessity so that we never put ourselves last.
I’ve listened to this five times today! Broke off a relationship Monday that was not God’s best for me. It was draining, not edifying. This video is SO powerful and empowering. I’ll keep watching this until I strangle the soul-tie.
It’s absolutely spiritual and with Narcissist I believe it must be demonic. I got into a relationship with someone who objectively needed help. I felt compelled to do good for them. Their behavior started out as questionable and however has only worsened. The anxiety, fear, stress they cause me is outrageous but the mental and and physical symptoms are so severe that I can’t muster the strength to go no contact.
It was very hard to leave, I felt like I was abandoning my family…it felt very selfish…it looked very selfish, it was the first time I put myself first. It’s been 8 months, a thousand miles away, my journey has just begun really. Asking for all your prayers 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
I've listened to a lot of your teachings on this subject. This is the one that broke the chains off of me. I listened twice last night & all day at work. Now in bed about to listen again. Thank You
I believe that my soul tie came from a repeated childhood trauma with my father and step-mom. God was gracious to wake me up from my fantasy that takers in my life would return my kindness and self-offering. I am slowly learning to firm-up my personal boundaries and recognize non-reciprocal relationships as they are forming. In the mean-time, I have *walked* *out* and *cut* *all* *ties* from my abusers with the help of God. Thank you, Mr. Blakes for stating and sticking firmly to the *truth.*
Oh my goodness Queens listen at pastor Blake’s please! He’s telling the gospel truth! I am past it now but it was everything pastor said it would be . But it’s worth the pain! Yes the further you get away you distinguish it ! When you come to your self you will be in shock for a while that you even settled for that evil mess . I am a senior ! but I did it please remember it’s never ever too late ! God has a wonderful plan for our life no matter your age it’s not over until God says it’s over Queens !!! Pastor Blake’s is giving you the best advice & wisdom from God ! Thank you pastor Blake’s God Bless you always. Much to you & your Beautiful family ❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️
I am excited for this message as I just ended a soul tie with a man who said he cannot commit to me because I ask too many questions.. its been two years so I moved on..No more communication with him and working on me. I feel this is exactly what I need and spiritual direction thank you RC Blakes.
Very true teaching pastor I walked away after 10 years wasted with a covert spiritual narcissist this is not taught in churches I wish it was I was blind by hope and love im free now nearly 18 months free thank God thankyou pastor
After a 2 year toxic situation ship with a man i thought i really truly loved and cared about and thought would be a good partner- friend - lover and man to me turnt out to be a toxic Narsitic indivisible who loved 💣 me into spending $15,000 on him and then he wants to turn his back on me..but never think 1 bit that he won the battle!! Because God has the last say so..he will fight my battle for me...im gone, I'm walking away with my head up high.💪👸🙌❤️🙏
Sometimes we know the state of the person before we marry him or her. Then later on, we say that we get this big revelation from God saying to leave because we can no longer handle the problems. Rightfully so, but don’t say God told you to do this or that. Just leave the bad situation, repent and move forward in a renewed relationship with God, The Father.
But the Holy Spirit restored my value and worth.Restored my mind to where I'm not allowing any victim syndrome to be present within my Soul or Spirit .
Lesson: A) There was a desire in his Heart B)He forsake his Judgement,He perused the desire of his heart and tied himself to the people of that LAND. C)The relationships he develop wasted Everything he had of Value then left him Humiliated D)The relationship Were not recoprical when he was in need no one gave to him... E) His only way was to leave it... Wake up. Activate your Will. Leave the Disfunctinal familiarity.Sometimes u have to leave with "TEARS" Keep Going until you kill it..Suffocate it and draw come closer to God Amen "WALK"
Thank you so much for this word of confidence in my situation. I have walked away Mr Blakes, I pray he will leave me alone. He calls and leaves drunk messages continuously, late at night and through the wee hours of the morning. He says ugly things, he tells me I'm responsible for my sons death (I lost my son in October 21) unexpectedly, murdered by a loved one. This man continues to try to hurt me because I walked away. I am asking for prayer for him as well as myself. I will not return to him, yet I need prayer for him to leave me alone with his harassment constantly, in Jesus name Amen....thank you Mr. BLAKES, for all you're doing for us here, God bless you over and over,
It’s been 20 years. A 16 year old handsome boy later. On again off again relationship with this person. I divorced a man who had done nothing to me for this idiot. And after everything the toxicity had gotten worse. I finally woke up and got up. It took me a night in jail for fighting with him for me to realize I’m done. It stings but I’ll be alright. Thankyou pastor I needed this today. I have been so out of touch with myself I don’t even recognize me. I’m 39 years old and a child of God. Thankyou pastor I needed this message. God bless you.
I know that God answers Prayers! I have been praying to God about this, and low and behold I’m watching this Message! I tell you God will answer you!!!! This is what I needed to hear… Thank you , Pastor Blakes 🙏🏽
I prayed to God if this man was the one who I was suppose to be with reveal it to me! 2 week's after that prayer. I found out he had been stepping out our whole relationship! That day I walked out of his life forever. I went NO CONTACT FOREVER! When he tried to Hoover me I BLOCKED him for life! No Man is going to Disrespect me like that. It has been 6 month's since he has seen or heard from me! I made myself a Ghost in his life!
@@amessinadress9340 I truly believe that if you pray to God from your heart God open your eyes to let you see what you probably already knew! I live my life totally different now that I have allowed the Holy Spirt that has been given to me threw the Love of Jesus Christ my Lord and Savior.
Wow! This is perfect timing. Soul ties, broken! I been gone. (over 20yrs)...Others won't let, it "go", but I have....In the ends,must move closer to "God"! Yes, the spirit "God", is upon you, on this!! Return to myself, so true....The Creator & myself...(message received & will be shared with others).
I had a soul tie 20 years ago and it lasted 5 years but I still dream about him. In the dream we are either being romantic or I'm yelling at him, telling him how he hurt me by not sticking up for me over something important. That soul tie still haunts me.
Yes! Pastor, 5 year ago I walked after 23 years of marriage that wasn’t going no way. Thank God I am glad I did and I never looked back man. Live is beautiful now.
Millions need to hear this & those that are on the verge of going into a soul tie. Flirting with it🛑 don’t do it! I’ve known so many broken ppl. Like myself but never equated it to being a soul tie! It is truly AMAZING! I’ve never heard anyone speak so deeply about this. Every stage, emotions and fears is vividly explained. It’s like wow how did you know! You explain with scriptures making it so Relatable!! I am grateful for it, this has helped me tremendously. I share your videos & my family & friends know I’ve been calling you my Pastor since last summer. ☺️ I love how u keep it so real. Let’s me know how much God is so right here, he’s just where I am & right in the details of my struggles. He gets it and helps us understand the Spiritual & Psychological reasons we even got in these situations & entanglements. More importantly, how to “WALK AWAY” Hallelujah thank you Jesus and God bless you Pastor & THANK You, for letting God use you.
Pastor always dropping the gems! I look forward to this one. Had to listen to the last one about Assumptions twice. Please keep the messages coming. So many of us are desperate for change.
On point!! Exactly what I'm going through now .. This was so good and holy ghost. This relationship steered me away from the Lord & now the broken heart broken relationship is bringing me back to Jesus. I should have listened to my gut. I gave what was holy to the dogs & he really did trample and walk all over me. It's been on and off for a year and ik from the beginning something deeper was going on with me and him. I thought maybe witchcraft.. but now I'm learning about soul ties. Pls pray for me that I can break free from this tie.
Thank you I was able to receive help through my county Under domestic abuse Referring me to a therapist, support group, and housing assistance I woke up and did the walk The feeling of liberation and empowerment through the Holy Spirit is amazing 🙏🕊☮️✝️
From my experience, when you stop talking you'll start walking then you've got your mind made up to let it go. Thank you Lord for giving me the strength to let it go and walk.
Gonna be honest, this is spot on. I have been battling this with a particular person. I am walking away. And if you knew the details you would say run. Thank you for this video, I have been lead to it by the Father 100%
Again, this is a look into the straight an NARROW. Helps You to ignore even the voice of the toxic relationships of all kind that has brought trauma that we have created an participated in. WALK!
Appreciate the WALK talk! Let’s all WALK with no fear or reservation! Fully understand the psychological and emotional reprogramming that’s needed to proactively WALK. Let’s all free our minds and souls from all trauma bonding relationships.
Amen 🙏🏽 I must confess that when I started listening to Bishop RC Blake’s messages I CAME to my Senses and my eyes were opened that I was with Mr wrong and in a very toxic abusive situation.,. Praise God and I am FREE and Free indeed because of his messages. Sir, may God bless you indeed your messages have given me and my child a new and Happy life. Praying for you and your family may the Lord watch over your life 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 you are blessed for life.
This was me almost a year ago dealing with a narcissist who i was with for 7 years tried leaving on 3 different occasions but took him back each time until last March when i said enough is enough and walked away and closed that door for good since leaving im on the path to healing and feeling so free now! Thank you paster Blakes your such a vessel of God im so glad i came across your channel a few months ago and many of your videos have helped me so much ❤ i hope many more hear this message, blessings to you 🙏
My husband of 33 years used the Bible story of the prodigal son as reason why I should forgive him for neglect and infidelity. Thank you RC for helping me understand the message the Holy Spirit wants me to understand from this Bible story.
1. Don’t have children with someone toxic and you know the marriage won’t last. 2. If you have children and the Lord tells you to walk, do it. The children and you will be fine. Children grow up and you will be alone. Leave early so you have a chance at happiness. Speaking from experience. Blessings,
I used to pray for the mentor like you. I have been following you for a year now and I am a different person now because of your teachings. Thank you 🙏🏻
Once you leave that soul tie, you will have so much clarity of what was wrong with that relationship. When i say leave you must LEAVE! Block them by email, block them my cell phone and who ever they are associated with. Absolutely no contact!! Its hard but it it is so worth it!! I will start to love yourself!
Left 9 months ago to God be the Glory. I pray I can be a part of Mordicai Mission. It’s a Blessing to walk and realizing that you are a Queen. God gives you the strength to walk and he will continue to make a way for you!!!!
Its amazing how God uses you to speak to our wounded souls. Your worth and value is innate, i need you to move. The further you go the more you surfocate it. God bless you pastor ❤️
I have watched this on repeat as I walk thru day #3 NARC Free.... this WORD is so tru it dries my tears..cuts thru my emotions and speaks to my logic and empowers me ! Thank you Dr Blake's God has used u to keep me tethered to this life thru his WORD.
My GOD… such a blessing to see the OTHER side of this mess I was in. I remember telling God I wasn’t going to leave him alone. I told God if He let me see what I was feeling I will never go back. The Lord let me see another woman. Check this he told me he didn’t want a relationship but my way of thinking THOUGHT I could change that. Yep I was in a relationship with him🤦🏽♀️. Anyway I saw the woman and all I could say was Lord you showed me. Help me get through this. There it was work, prayer, fasting, listening to RC Blake’s, my Pastor and just kept seeing that woman in my mind. I moved on in Christ 💕💕. Sister who is reading this. You deserve nothing but the BEST and God will give us that. Free yourself 💯❤️💕
Thank you very much RC Blake's, get words of wisdom. I walked away 4 years ago and then saw the real truth of what I was married to. Far worse than I knew when I was in at the time. The real skeletons came out 1 year after I left so I know God was leading me out.
Bishop is anointed to save women from themselves and from the hand of the enemy. His amazing I feel his words running through my soul and spirit. I pray they build me and I don't allow the enemy to still my fruits by doing exactly what he says we shouldn't do
I had to wait until the end to comment…. This message is like a TALL GLASS OF WATER. I drank every bit of it… and I am refreshed. I felt every word pour into my soul from the top of my head on down. By the grace of God I’m at the letter “K”: I will KEEP GOING UNTIL I KILL IT!!! Thank you so very much Man of God. Bless You!
I'm stunned since my sister died and finding out I'm living with a thief and there is another man out there that I love for years but I will not tell him and it just keeps following me, that nagging sensation as I'm slowly taking a nose dive into this incredible change of emotions, desires, heartache, loss.
But u know that somethings going on here. The world around me is changing. This has just crept up on me. Is he worried about his image? Or maybe I'm worried about mine
Ok Ok I’m finally hearing you Pastor RC. This message hit me hard 😭😭 everything you are saying, it’s me and my situation with whom I thought was my soulmate of 4yrs. Walking away is going to sting me, and I know I’m going to grieve the loss of something that should have been. I have to walk because he refuses to change and it’s affecting my walk with the Lord
True I've started my mornings listening to scripture first breakfast then day ahead I to sometimes when sad don't feel like facing life some days but most I'm upbeat and always grateful
You are speaking directly to me!!! Praise God for you Pastor Blakes!! Thank you for this devine word of truth!!! It hurts but Im determined to WALK!!!🖤
Many people break their own hearts by loving a fantasy not the person that stands before them.
That part!
So very true
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Ain’t that the truth
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I was in a very toxic relationship for 7yrs. It took all my strength to finally leave back in 2018. After being celibate and stopping all dating for 4.5 years, I am now healed. I know my worth. I am a Queen who deserves a balanced, loving relationship with a true King.
Thank you💞🙏
Amen, same here!
Great for you. I hope you find love again!
@@authormom7716 thank you 😊
Amen 🙏🙏
Praise God!!!
In 2015 I walked away from a verbally abusive / alcoholic man and never looked back. Two years prior the Holy spirit had spoken to me audibly and told me that I was going to leave him. When I'd told my ex whom I was with at the time about what the Holy spirit had revealed to me, his reply was "He didn't believe in such a thing" ... Well fast forward into 2022, it's been 9 years since I walked away from that Toxic relationship like the Holy spirit told me I would. I've been at peace ever since I'd chosen to believe and obey the Holy Spirit, and did exactly what The Holy Spirit told me I would do!! Thank You JESUS ‼️
AMEN!
Beautiful testimony!
Amen
Amen and amen!
Amen
Sometimes your heart has to break in order for your soul to heal. This is a powerful statement.
So true though. I've learned this
Facts
I am so hungry for God's word so I thank Pastor Blake's for bringing God's word to the light!
Yes indeed
Yes
Pastor RC Blakes you are the Father figure that so many of us as women grew up without. This fatherless void caused us to seek love in the wrong places by the wrong caliber of men. Thank you for allowing God to use you! You are reconditioning our mindsets, strengthening and healing our Spirits and most importantly, helping us to understand our worth. Praise God for you!!! ❤️❤️
@All Things Ashanda Thank You!!!!!! You have managed to put my thoughts and feelings into words!!!
I am forever grateful ♥️
This is very well said! My thoughts exactly! 💕
Amen!!
You read my mind..all true💯
Just walked....5 days ago, no contact, no thinking, just walking....and not ever gonna look back. Thank you Pastor, love you ❤️
Praise Him !
Hi Trishania. How are things now?
SAME! Day 3 for me. Im hurting but I’m numb & I know this is THE LAST TIME for me after 10years 💔 THANK GOD 🙌🙏
Best wishes 🙏🏾
Yes lord that’s me. Lord help me. Pray for me Pastor
Walk. Run. Crawl. Whatever God leads you to do. Be willing and ready. He is able !
Amen yes !!!!
YES, to all of the above!!!
At one point I was crawling. Then I walked. Thank GOD I had the wisdom to RUN. That decision saved my life...LITERALLY! HE is able and will give u strength 💪 ❤
Pray my strength in the Lord!
Amen. Been there.
Give them the gift of your absence. 💯
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That’s so true.!!! Absence makes you stronger and you get a chance to heal!
"You can only break a soul tie with Gods help" ...
--- Bishop RC Blakes
👌🏿Aint that the💯gospel truth!
YES, YES, Queen. God bless you my sista. 🙏🏿
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🤗Thank you QUEEN"MARY..🖤
Yah bless!🙏🏿
@@QIKWIA heavenly father, please help me cutting a soul tie in Jesus name
I could’ve died and didn’t even realize it but I’m thankful for Psalms 91 protection. Satan was trying to kill my destiny and wanted my soul but he can’t have it, I’m God’s child. The bad thing is I was told my friends are not my friends over 20 years ago but I was in either middle or high school and didn’t understand why she would say that because they seemed like good ladies. I just wished she would’ve explained it further so I could’ve understood better, not her fault though, I should’ve just cut them off. Please keep me in your prayers because I’m not giving up on my relationship with God and I declaring that I shall fulfill my God given purpose. They may have derailed and delayed my purpose for a while but God is able to accelerate the time, they don’t realize they just gave me ammunition and now I want to tear down the kingdom of darkness even more but I have to remind myself that Vengeance is the Lord’s
@ecugirl10
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Wow!!!
...but very well said Sis!👌🏾
Im praying for you to heal my beautiful sister
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Continue to go on with your spiritual journey and be kind to yourself along the way.
Life is a learning experience...you are learning and you will now be able to teach and bless others with your wisdom and knowledge.
You will be fine if you continue to walk with Yah...follow your intuition because that is yah speaking directly to you!
Just keep doing your best and being yourself!
You got this!👊🏾
Yah bless🙋🏽♀️Love ya!🥰
Walk:
Wake up.
Activate your will to leave.
Leave familiarity.
Keep going till you kill it.
Tried to walk away 3 times, took him back every time, and then when finally he walked out on me, I slammed the door shut on him. Never again letting this evil back in! Thank God for rescueing me! I've been so much happier since 🙏
Exactly especially when your family can tell when he's around you and when he's not...so much happier without him in my space, trying to control every single aspect of me 😊
Same, he really did me a favor…
Wake (see,aware) Activate( unfollow, delete) Leave( remove, absence) Keep going keep going until you’re out of it!!! Kill it!!!!
"After you realize that the situation is bad for you, and you remain in it, you're no longer a victim, you're a volunteer!" Powerful! As you also said, our environment has to change, not just people but things as well: I had a bedroom suit from my longterm toxic marriage that I finally decided to get rid of, and a friend wanted me to give it to her but I told her that I never wanted to see it again or even know where it was, so I had to donate it. Seeing it go out the door gave a lift to my heart.
I did the same thing with my clothes and most things that came into my new space from the old one. Didn't want any of it!
Sometimes you have to go to the extremes to get your healing
In 2017 I walked away from a Narcissist(s). Best thing I ever did had to protect my peace and mental, it was hard @ first because of that soul-tie! I promised God if he saved me never again will I defile the marriage bed and I hadn't! Been celibate now for 4yrs and 6months! I can see and think clearly😊🙏
Praise God!
Hallelujah, I love it, stay strong and trust God🥰! God's continued blessings be upon you always, in Jesus' Holy and Peaceful name, Hallelujah, Amen💖✨💕💫!
It rocks your soul, and you want to do things the right way.
I walked away one day. Just walked. Cut him off and blocked his calls and texts. I definitely feel great about it. It has been several months and I am enjoying my life without him. No regrets even if he jas someone else. Good. He is out of the husband's way that God has for me. 👌
But you still think of him? If so, then is the soul tie really broken?
@@mmmmkay4773He was my fiancé. I was in love with him. We were friends in the beginning, no soul tie.. he was supposed to be a Man of God however,, I saw some very bad indicators that he had stepped out of God's will and he was bringing ne with him.. In the end, he wasn't worth my happiness and dignity when I took a good look at my life. Love will never treat you bad. Love doesn't live falsely, pretend and just outright lie. There were other men that wanted me however, I was too blind to see the bette in the other men verses the good looks he had. Going forward, it's God first.
This is not easy to do... i was in this thing for a year and was so hurt and broken on the way he treated me emotionally....if it wasn't for RC Blakes...I wouldn't be taking the time to feel and grow through this time. I moved clear across the country and God has shown up so many times to affirm my decision. I'm human so I still have human emotions but I'm working with a therapist for that. I'm doing Mordecai Mission for my inner work come March.... I'm the expert on nutrition and wellness because that matters too...The rest I'm working through with just me and Jesus. One critical thing that I'm doing is not opening another door until I am clearly Queen Concious... period.
God bless you Tammy
So happy for you Tammy! Stay strong my dear Queen-Sister! You are worthy of every good thing God promised! Keep walking in your blessings!!!🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾👑💫🦋💃🏿
This was wonderful to read. So proud of you sis. Keep going, keep growing and keep being your fabulous self!
The Mordecai Mission is the best thing that I have ever done for myself. It changed my life. It is the most powerful thing that I have ever been involved in. March will be magic! I am proud of you!
@@gingermullins8866 I totally believe it
I’m in a situation that I know isn’t healthy for me . Pray for me.
I encourage you to keep positive, spirit filled people around you! I pray in the name of Jesus that he gives you the clarity that you need to walk in your divine purpose. Trust the Lord. Even when you don’t understand, Trust him! He will lead you and you’d be surprised where you will be 6 months from now ♥️♥️♥️♥️
Same IT’s a blazing fire that burns 🥵
Pastor Blake it took me from 2008 to 2021 to file for divorce. I first filed in 2008 and three times after that, for a total of four times attempting to legally liberate myself from the torture I was going through. Finally, on November 30th, 2021 I was emotionally and mentally ready to end it and the final decree will be between March and April 2022. There are so many times you can forgive an adultery, and I reached my limit. Best decision I ever made and I am now very happy.
Great for you
@@authormom7716 thank you very much. Wishing you many blessings in your life.
I can totally relate to your story..
Congratulations love!
@@aviauramusic4064 Thank you. May God bless you also.
15 years married to a narcissistic psychopath and I have been free for 3 years. I just started becoming social again after staying pretty isolated and healing for 3 years. Soul Ties, trauma bonds, cognitive dissonance, intermittent reinforcement, their flying monkeys, and love bombing are a few of the reasons it’s so hard to leave and remain free from people with cluster B personality disorders. Three years free and no contact, but my ex narcissist still stalks me and tries to Hoover me back into a relationship with him. To anyone struggling with leaving or going through the intense pain, confusion and self doubt while you are breaking free- It DOES get better! You’ve got to completely cut off contact so you can break toe addiction in your brain to them. I’m praying for everyone going through these types of relationships and for everyone that is now free but still hasn’t healed ❤️
Thank-you 🙏❤️
Another word for a soul tie is trauma bond or attachment style. When we have a anxious attachment style we get needy very quickly in a relationship. We fall hard looking for security in another person. It all stems from our childhood trauma or wounds. We have to work on own healing and developing the ability to walk away when we recognise the pattern and when someone shows us through their actions that they are not really invested in us. It's a tough journey but we can heal and be better. This goes for all types of relationships in our life, work, friends, family, not just romantic relationships. We have to get healthy in every aspect of our lives.
Really looking forward to this conversation. I walked out of a 9 year toxic marriage 2 years ago and never looked back. Now I help other women through my book, coaching and CZcams channel.
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🙋🏾♀️ I just subscribed to your channel because of your inspiring comment..👊🏿👊🏿.. thanks Sis!
Same 9 years...been out almost 2 years
Great my sister i in that process of getting a divorce from my sexual and verbal disrespectful husband i got a PFA on him now keep me in your prayers
That is wonderful for you.
Subscribed :)
This is true.. when you’re Done you don’t tell nobody you. Wake up and Get Up!!
My heart really goes out to other women that have gone through the pain of infidelity. It’s so so painful. It scars you & affects your mind so much. May God heal our hearts & minds & restore our joy in Jesus name, Amen.
Amen🙏
Thank you I was with this person for 17 years I have two kids with him sometimes I feel so alone all I do is cry I'm trying to get myself together but it's so hard I don't have anyone to talk to
@@tamisharowland4933 I'm really sorry to hear that you've been going through this and going through it alone 😔 I will be praying for you Tamisha. Are you apart of a church? Maybe there you could find women who could pray for you and encourage you?
Never looking back to the verbal physical emotional financial abuse when all I did was give unconditional love
We all try to Love with all of our heart but sometimes its just not meant to be. Accept it, be honest with yourself, and WALK OUT. Time heals all wounds and you will be fine. God bless❤
I truly cried and had a breakdown where I was on my knees in the shower crying before watching this, because my life has come to a point where I need to leave my setting. The toxic relationship in this case, for my circumstances, is my family. I love them so much, but it's time I go out in the world and find my tribe to do my services with my gifts and talents. They will always be there for me, but the setting has got to change. I loved this sermon for tonight, I've been binge watching RC Blakes the past week doubling down on Queen consciousness. God bless everyone on your paths. It's the only way to go! Let's do this
God is on your shoulder with you. Bless you.
@@latishabowen5433 You too LaTisha
I wish you well Sis! It seems harder than it is. I divorced after 28 years of marriage and it was absolutely the best decision I made. I never knew how much turmoil I was in until I was out of it. GOD IS ABLE TO SUSTAIN YOU , ask Him for courage and confirmation He’s faithful. BE BLESSED QUEEN
@@paulamcnairunapaulagetic Blessings Queen! Thank you for your words ❤️🙌🏼🌈
You’ve got this! I am on a partial same journey of letting go of the toxicity and moving into what we truly desire within family and relationships
Today is my birthday! I have learned so much since finding this ministry just a few days ago.I need a lot of prayers to get out of this narcissistic situation.It's crazy how you can be so blind for so many years. And when you finally get to the person's true spirit it can be overwhelming. So much of our life is entangled I don't know where to start.
Joyous bday!! Mine is tomorrow. Let’s get this work tonight.
Don’t tell him, plan to walk and when he pulls, you keep walking, and he will keep trying (mine caused the breaking that lasted 2yrs…1yrs he was in jail which helped hugely then the 2nd year was all begging and pleading to move back in together) I didn’t give in but it was a very heavy emotional place. He would verbally abuse me if I say I’ve moved on…I said I went to the movies with another man and he lost his mind…but he was on another state at the time.. he was relentless about trying to get back till he just met someone else finally…. He ended up apologizing for all the pain he caused me.
Happy birthday dear!
Happy birthday!!🤗🎉
Happy Birthday 🎊🎂🎈
Give them the gift of absence...Amen 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
That one right there 👆🏽blessed me! 🙌🏽🙌🏽
“Please don’t send me no email right now.”
“You MUST ACTIVATE your will.”
This message is everything. ♥️
I just walked away today. God led me to listen to you. Thank for following God's direction
I have been watching Pastors videos for about 5 months so far and I’ve learned what a soul tie is, realized I had one, and last week had the strength to break that soul tie. I haven’t looked back at all, no temptation or guilt. I woke up and I’m awake now
Stop giving a thing that is dead CPR.. CALL TIME OF DEATH! --RCB
Yess! It was 3am September 25th 2021! Packed what I could fit in my car and left while he was sleep! Moved to another state and haven t looked back since!
@@amandamagby3253 ooohhh..... didn't feel gooood 🤣 soooo proud of you. Keep working Queen!
As I walked away from my toxic marriage, the Holy Spirit woke me up one night and referred me to read this story about the prodigal son. I was going through a very long battle in court with my ex and I thought God was letting me know he would come back. Well fast forward, I was the prodigal son. I knew I had made some choices and I need to get back with God. It’s been 3 years and counting. Never looked back. I blocked him and the flying monkeys from all social media, contacts and did not know why I was doing it but it was all God. Thank you Pastor
I had to leave a toxic marriage as well and in process of annulment. You did the right thing beautiful. Hurting people hurt people. Healed people love people.
If it looks like we all live the same life I wonder how many of those happy social media couples are toxic ….
I left the cheating lying mr nice guy ( this is very confusing!) . I dated for 2,5 years for him it was ok because, he loves me now and it was for over a year ago (for a whole year) I forgave him other horrible stuff multiple times so this was my cue to JUST WALK and never look back … I do love him so I’m not gonna lie it’s easy but I know in the end it will be worth it ….. 37 young fun and bright but need to start over again ‘sigh’ but just as pastor RC Blakes always says you are never too old …. Wish me strength….
“You have to let your heart break to heal your soul”. Definitely been there.
2 years ago back in Jan 2020 Holy Spirit whispered in my ear Open The Front Door And Walk Out With Nothing But Your Two Daughters. Don't look back once you get outside or you will turn into a Pillar of Salt. You will become stone. I did just that. Fast forward 2 years 2022 I still haven't returned back to the home that we own. I have my peace, my own car, my own apartment, full time job. I am wide awake. Great is here! Come on ladies you all can do it! You will feel so much lighter and better. I believe in you and I love you sis. Choose you and get yourself out of it. I had to choose me over that 26 year abusive alcoholic marriage.
Please pray for me for Strength God Bless.
🙌 yes! Listen 👂 to your own soul! It never 👎 lies 🤥 it’s all about the vibe! When you no longer feel good 👍 in your significant others presence…. Go! God said Go! Walk 🚶♀️away and don’t look 👀 back! I love ❤️ with the my whole heart ♥️ but I do know when something is wrong 😑 my spirit and my life guide always let’s me know what up! Side note 📝 to everyone… this is the main reason why we have to abstain from sexual relationship outside of marriage! Be careful with your heart ♥️ mind body and soul! Praying 🙏 for everyone…
If you don’t leave this situation where’s this going. Release what does not serve you. 🙏🏽
I survived an abusive narcissistic relationship and have been free and delivered with no contact for almost a year now. My life has changed on so many ways and this had been my greatest personal challenge yet. This journey to healing is well over due and I cannot be anymore grateful for RC Blakes. He tremendously helped me and still is every day... Praying & Studying your videos saved my life
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That's Great!!!👍🏿
Our Bishop Blakes has saved so many lives and saved many hearts from being broken..he has delivered so many times...🙏🏿
The wisdom of Bishop Blakes is very compelling.
Such damage is done,But God is the healer of all things!!!
"Gift of your absence" 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽!
“Toxic Nostalgia” what a phrase.
Two years free. Amen 🙏🏾 thank you RC Blake’s
To se that I’m not going through this alone helps me continue to move forward with no contact, no social media etc. You ladies are truly inspirational. I have my hard days but I get through them. It’s hard to think that someone I loved would hurt me in ways this narcissistic alcoholic abusive man had hurt me. I pray for continuing strength to keep pushing forward, peace, acceptance, and to live a fulfilling life after this tragedy of a relationship.
Why do we find ourselves not loving ourselves more than the person whom we think we love 💔
It's the false hope we have of the relationship surviving when we know our intuition tells us 'this is not right.. they are not the one."
Our own insecurities, fear of being alone, not being whole. You must ask God questions and pour your heart out in prayer. Being whole is a necessity so that we never put ourselves last.
I’ve listened to this five times today! Broke off a relationship Monday that was not God’s best for me. It was draining, not edifying. This video is SO powerful and empowering. I’ll keep watching this until I strangle the soul-tie.
It’s absolutely spiritual and with Narcissist I believe it must be demonic. I got into a relationship with someone who objectively needed help. I felt compelled to do good for them. Their behavior started out as questionable and however has only worsened. The anxiety, fear, stress they cause me is outrageous but the mental and and physical symptoms are so severe that I can’t muster the strength to go no contact.
It was very hard to leave, I felt like I was abandoning my family…it felt very selfish…it looked very selfish, it was the first time I put myself first. It’s been 8 months, a thousand miles away, my journey has just begun really. Asking for all your prayers 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
I've listened to a lot of your teachings on this subject. This is the one that broke the chains off of me. I listened twice last night & all day at work. Now in bed about to listen again. Thank You
I believe that my soul tie came from a repeated childhood trauma with my father and step-mom. God was gracious to wake me up from my fantasy that takers in my life would return my kindness and self-offering. I am slowly learning to firm-up my personal boundaries and recognize non-reciprocal relationships as they are forming. In the mean-time, I have *walked* *out* and *cut* *all* *ties* from my abusers with the help of God.
Thank you, Mr. Blakes for stating and sticking firmly to the *truth.*
Oh my goodness Queens listen at pastor Blake’s please! He’s telling the gospel truth! I am past it now but it was everything pastor said it would be . But it’s worth the pain! Yes the further you get away you distinguish it ! When you come to your self you will be in shock for a while that you even settled for that evil mess . I am a senior ! but I did it please remember it’s never ever too late ! God has a wonderful plan for our life no matter your age it’s not over until God says it’s over Queens !!! Pastor Blake’s is giving you the best advice & wisdom from God ! Thank you pastor Blake’s God Bless you always. Much to you & your Beautiful family ❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️
I am excited for this message as I just ended a soul tie with a man who said he cannot commit to me because I ask too many questions.. its been two years so I moved on..No more communication with him and working on me. I feel this is exactly what I need and spiritual direction thank you RC Blakes.
Beautiful...I'm constantly struggling...how did you overcome?
God's BLESSINGS be with you.
@@Godschild921 I finally just spoke to my heart and decided I deserved to be treated better. It's been a long time coming.
@@Dr.J1972 thank you
"You asked too many questions"???
WTH!😂
Gurlll, you made the right decision..👊🏿
Yah bless!🙏🏿
Very true teaching pastor I walked away after 10 years wasted with a covert spiritual narcissist this is not taught in churches I wish it was I was blind by hope and love im free now nearly 18 months free thank God thankyou pastor
After a 2 year toxic situation ship with a man i thought i really truly loved and cared about and thought would be a good partner- friend - lover and man to me turnt out to be a toxic Narsitic indivisible who loved 💣 me into spending $15,000 on him and then he wants to turn his back on me..but never think 1 bit that he won the battle!! Because God has the last say so..he will fight my battle for me...im gone, I'm walking away with my head up high.💪👸🙌❤️🙏
I’ve been waiting on this all day. I need to walk out before this man kills me. And instead I keep coming back for more. It’s either leave or die
Praying for you sis - please leave ❤️
Sister, PLEASE Get help..confide in someone you trust...just go..leave please..
Im praying for your wellbeing..🙏🏿
Sometimes we know the state of the person before we marry him or her. Then later on, we say that we get this big revelation from God saying to leave because we can no longer handle the problems. Rightfully so, but don’t say God told you to do this or that. Just leave the bad situation, repent and move forward in a renewed relationship with God, The Father.
You are my ALARM CLOCK! I found your channel 10 days ago and been woke up since 💯💯💯
But the Holy Spirit restored my value and worth.Restored my mind to where I'm not allowing any victim syndrome to be present within my Soul or Spirit .
Lesson:
A) There was a desire in his Heart
B)He forsake his Judgement,He perused the desire of his heart and tied himself to the people of that LAND.
C)The relationships he develop wasted Everything he had of Value then left him Humiliated
D)The relationship Were not recoprical when he was in need no one gave to him...
E) His only way was to leave it...
Wake up.
Activate your Will.
Leave the Disfunctinal familiarity.Sometimes u have to leave with "TEARS"
Keep Going until you kill it..Suffocate it and draw come closer to God
Amen
"WALK"
This is the best talk on breaking ungodly/demonic relationships!
Thank you so much for this word of confidence in my situation. I have walked away Mr Blakes, I pray he will leave me alone. He calls and leaves drunk messages continuously, late at night and through the wee hours of the morning. He says ugly things, he tells me I'm responsible for my sons death (I lost my son in October 21) unexpectedly, murdered by a loved one. This man continues to try to hurt me because I walked away. I am asking for prayer for him as well as myself. I will not return to him, yet I need prayer for him to leave me alone with his harassment constantly, in Jesus name Amen....thank you Mr. BLAKES, for all you're doing for us here, God bless you over and over,
So sorry about your son!
I'm so sorry dear..
It’s been 20 years. A 16 year old handsome boy later. On again off again relationship with this person. I divorced a man who had done nothing to me for this idiot. And after everything the toxicity had gotten worse. I finally woke up and got up. It took me a night in jail for fighting with him for me to realize I’m done. It stings but I’ll be alright. Thankyou pastor I needed this today. I have been so out of touch with myself I don’t even recognize me. I’m 39 years old and a child of God. Thankyou pastor I needed this message. God bless you.
I know that God answers Prayers! I have been praying to God about this, and low and behold I’m watching this Message! I tell you God will answer you!!!! This is what I needed to hear… Thank you , Pastor Blakes 🙏🏽
I prayed to God if this man was the one who I was suppose to be with reveal it to me! 2 week's after that prayer. I found out he had been stepping out our whole relationship! That day I walked out of his life forever. I went NO CONTACT FOREVER! When he tried to Hoover me I BLOCKED him for life! No Man is going to Disrespect me like that. It has been 6 month's since he has seen or heard from me! I made myself a Ghost in his life!
@@amessinadress9340 I truly believe that if you pray to God from your heart God open your eyes to let you see what you probably already knew! I live my life totally different now that I have allowed the Holy Spirt that has been given to me threw the Love of Jesus Christ my Lord and Savior.
Wow! This is perfect timing. Soul ties, broken! I been gone. (over 20yrs)...Others won't let, it "go", but I have....In the ends,must move closer to "God"!
Yes, the spirit "God", is upon you, on this!!
Return to myself, so true....The Creator & myself...(message received & will be shared with others).
“You know the direction of your will by the direction of your actions.” - Brilliant and so true! Thank you for all you do. 💜
I had a soul tie 20 years ago and it lasted 5 years but I still dream about him. In the dream we are either being romantic or I'm yelling at him, telling him how he hurt me by not sticking up for me over something important.
That soul tie still haunts me.
Yes! Pastor, 5 year ago I walked after 23 years of marriage that wasn’t going no way. Thank God I am glad I did and I never looked back man. Live is beautiful now.
Millions need to hear this & those that are on the verge of going into a soul tie. Flirting with it🛑 don’t do it! I’ve known so many broken ppl. Like myself but never equated it to being a soul tie!
It is truly AMAZING! I’ve never heard anyone speak so deeply about this. Every stage, emotions and fears is vividly explained. It’s like wow how did you know! You explain with scriptures making it so Relatable!!
I am grateful for it, this has helped me tremendously. I share your videos & my family & friends know I’ve been calling you my Pastor since last summer. ☺️
I love how u keep it so real. Let’s me know how much God is so right here, he’s just where I am & right in the details of my struggles. He gets it and helps us understand the
Spiritual & Psychological reasons we even got in these situations & entanglements.
More importantly, how to “WALK AWAY”
Hallelujah thank you Jesus and God bless you Pastor & THANK You, for letting God use you.
Amen perfectly written!
Pastor always dropping the gems! I look forward to this one. Had to listen to the last one about Assumptions twice. Please keep the messages coming. So many of us are desperate for change.
On point!! Exactly what I'm going through now .. This was so good and holy ghost. This relationship steered me away from the Lord & now the broken heart broken relationship is bringing me back to Jesus. I should have listened to my gut. I gave what was holy to the dogs & he really did trample and walk all over me. It's been on and off for a year and ik from the beginning something deeper was going on with me and him. I thought maybe witchcraft.. but now I'm learning about soul ties. Pls pray for me that I can break free from this tie.
Thank you
I was able to receive help through my county
Under domestic abuse
Referring me to a therapist, support group, and housing assistance
I woke up and did the walk
The feeling of liberation and empowerment through the Holy Spirit is amazing 🙏🕊☮️✝️
From my experience, when you stop talking you'll start walking then you've got your mind made up to let it go. Thank you Lord for giving me the strength to let it go and walk.
Gonna be honest, this is spot on. I have been battling this with a particular person. I am walking away. And if you knew the details you would say run. Thank you for this video, I have been lead to it by the Father 100%
What I'm getting from the relationship that I had not enough. I'm worth more than what he made me feel.😊
Again, this is a look into the straight an NARROW. Helps You to ignore even the voice of the toxic relationships of all kind that has brought trauma that we have created an participated in. WALK!
…” that ain’t no crown, he got aluminum foil wrapped around his head. “ 😂 amen!!!
This man of GOD help me to open my eyes and see directly inside. Rc Blakes is blessed.
Appreciate the WALK talk! Let’s all WALK with no fear or reservation! Fully understand the psychological and emotional reprogramming that’s needed to proactively WALK. Let’s all free our minds and souls from all trauma bonding relationships.
I have been in a toxic abusive marriage for seventeen years and we’ve separated now. Thank you 🙏
Amen 🙏🏽 I must confess that when I started listening to Bishop RC Blake’s messages I CAME to my Senses and my eyes were opened that I was with Mr wrong and in a very toxic abusive situation.,. Praise God and I am FREE and Free indeed because of his messages. Sir, may God bless you indeed your messages have given me and my child a new and Happy life. Praying for you and your family may the Lord watch over your life 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 you are blessed for life.
This was me almost a year ago dealing with a narcissist who i was with for 7 years tried leaving on 3 different occasions but took him back each time until last March when i said enough is enough and walked away and closed that door for good since leaving im on the path to healing and feeling so free now! Thank you paster Blakes your such a vessel of God im so glad i came across your channel a few months ago and many of your videos have helped me so much ❤ i hope many more hear this message, blessings to you 🙏
My husband of 33 years used the Bible story of the prodigal son as reason why I should forgive him for neglect and infidelity. Thank you RC for helping me understand the message the Holy Spirit wants me to understand from this Bible story.
1. Don’t have children with someone toxic and you know the marriage won’t last. 2. If you have children and the Lord tells you to walk, do it. The children and you will be fine. Children grow up and you will be alone. Leave early so you have a chance at happiness. Speaking from experience. Blessings,
Pastor Blakes I did leave and never looked back and I know it was God who helped me through it.
I used to pray for the mentor like you. I have been following you for a year now and I am a different person now because of your teachings. Thank you 🙏🏻
Once you leave that soul tie, you will have so much clarity of what was wrong with that relationship. When i say leave you must LEAVE! Block them by email, block them my cell phone and who ever they are associated with. Absolutely no contact!! Its hard but it it is so worth it!! I will start to love yourself!
Left 9 months ago to God be the Glory. I pray I can be a part of Mordicai Mission. It’s a Blessing to walk and realizing that you are a Queen. God gives you the strength to walk and he will continue to make a way for you!!!!
This wasn’t an easy message, but a necessary one. Thank you Pastor Blakes🙏🏽
Yes it's sometimes so painful to hear but necessary 🙌
I'm so grateful for this message! God was speaking directly to me 😭😭😭😭 ❤️❤️❤️just when I felt a little disconnected today
This message is so powerful it breaks my heart. I just pray that we chose the path of righteousness and not look back. God please help us!!
Its amazing how God uses you to speak to our wounded souls. Your worth and value is innate, i need you to move. The further you go the more you surfocate it.
God bless you pastor ❤️
The Gift of Absence! It's a calculated decision, not a feeling. Most people fear the birthing pains. Out come is worth it ! ! ! !
I have watched this on repeat as I walk thru day #3 NARC Free.... this WORD is so tru it dries my tears..cuts thru my emotions and speaks to my logic and empowers me !
Thank you Dr Blake's God has used u to keep me tethered to this life thru his WORD.
Me too I'm also watching it on repeat once is not enough because the temptation is very big we need powerful godly video
My GOD… such a blessing to see the OTHER side of this mess I was in. I remember telling God I wasn’t going to leave him alone. I told God if He let me see what I was feeling I will never go back. The Lord let me see another woman. Check this he told me he didn’t want a relationship but my way of thinking THOUGHT I could change that. Yep I was in a relationship with him🤦🏽♀️. Anyway I saw the woman and all I could say was Lord you showed me. Help me get through this. There it was work, prayer, fasting, listening to RC Blake’s, my Pastor and just kept seeing that woman in my mind. I moved on in Christ 💕💕.
Sister who is reading this. You deserve nothing but the BEST and God will give us that. Free yourself 💯❤️💕
Thank you very much RC Blake's, get words of wisdom. I walked away 4 years ago and then saw the real truth of what I was married to. Far worse than I knew when I was in at the time. The real skeletons came out 1 year after I left so I know God was leading me out.
Bishop is anointed to save women from themselves and from the hand of the enemy. His amazing I feel his words running through my soul and spirit. I pray they build me and I don't allow the enemy to still my fruits by doing exactly what he says we shouldn't do
I had to wait until the end to comment….
This message is like a TALL GLASS OF WATER. I drank every bit of it… and I am refreshed. I felt every word pour into my soul from the top of my head on down. By the grace of God I’m at the letter “K”:
I will KEEP GOING UNTIL I KILL IT!!!
Thank you so very much Man of God. Bless You!
I'm stunned since my sister died and finding out I'm living with a thief and there is another man out there that I love for years but I will not tell him and it just keeps following me, that nagging sensation as I'm slowly taking a nose dive into this incredible change of emotions, desires, heartache, loss.
But u know that somethings going on here. The world around me is changing. This has just crept up on me. Is he worried about his image? Or maybe I'm worried about mine
Ok Ok I’m finally hearing you Pastor RC. This message hit me hard 😭😭 everything you are saying, it’s me and my situation with whom I thought was my soulmate of 4yrs. Walking away is going to sting me, and I know I’m going to grieve the loss of something that should have been. I have to walk because he refuses to change and it’s affecting my walk with the Lord
True I've started my mornings listening to scripture first breakfast then day ahead I to sometimes when sad don't feel like facing life some days but most I'm upbeat and always grateful
Amen!!!i just walk out a 2 year toxic situation ship..i know my worth💪🙏❤️🙏🙏
Amen!!!
You are speaking directly to me!!! Praise God for you Pastor Blakes!! Thank you for this devine word of truth!!! It hurts but Im determined to WALK!!!🖤