How To Do Effective Self-talk For Happiness (आनंद के लिए स्वसंवाद कैसे हो) by Sirshree
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- čas přidán 14. 10. 2024
- Events in our life are never the real cause of our sorrows and happiness. Self-talk is the cause behind our all kind of sorrows and happiness. But we are always under the impression that the reason for our unhappiness and sorrow is our neighbor, family members, post, body etc…But the actual reason is our self-talk. If your self-talk is changed then you start progressing towards your true nature.
Understand with an example how self-talk is responsible for our sorrows and happiness - There were two people Mangesh and Pankaj. Pankaj had borrowed money from Mangesh. One day Mangesh gets heart attack. Now see how the self-talk of everyone works. When his wife heard the news she got unconscious. His son started weeping and crying. His servant got upset. His neighbor who was reading a newspaper heard this news and called his wife from the kitchen and said, Did you hear that Mangesh, our neighbor, got heart attack. She said, ‘I don’t know what is happening now a days, a person can get heart attack at any age. Now Pankaj heard this news, what could be his self-talk? He thought, ‘Now I don’t need to repay him that amount. No one would know about this because only we both knew about it. Now from this money I can buy new colour TV, Refrigerator or I can buy a new car. See now the reactions to the event are so different. One got unconscious, one started crying, one got upset, one is neutral and one became happy.
Now suppose this self-talk hadn’t gone the way it did, what would have happened then? Now suppose Mangesh’s heart started working again and he got up. Now his wife got unconscious again, this time because of happiness. His son also started crying again but out of happiness. Servant became happy. Many guests were also coming so he also received some relief that now as he is alive people will stop coming for visit and his workload would not increase further. Now he is relax. When his neighbor hear this news that Mangesh is alive, he calls his wife from the kitchen and tells her, ‘Did you hear Mangesh is alive, his heart started again and he is fine.’ She says, ‘I don’t know what is happening now a days, you can’t tell anything about the doctors. They can say anything without checking properly.’ Now what happened with Pankaj. Pankaj became unhappy, his colour TV and colourful dreams vanished. See now the event is same. If events could bring happiness or sorrow then everyone should get that same happiness or sorrow, but this didn’t happen. That means with every incident the self-talk we make results in happiness or sorrow.
So with the understanding you are receiving you need to check your self-talk and after every incident, you need to see, how shall I report this incident to myself. Never say, that person said something to me that’s why I am unhappy. Instead of that say, that person said something to me that’s why I am allowing myself to become unhappy. This is correct reporting. When you say I am unhappy, I am bored then this self-talk starts working on you immediately, you don’t know that. When you change your self-talk you will understand, if I can let myself to become unhappy then I can also allow myself to become happy. Ultimately what everything depends on is - self-reporting. When you will understand this, then you will
start making reporting of your true nature. Who I am! But if you don’t work on self-talk then it gets worse. This wrong self-talk takes you further away from your true nature. Now from this situation where you are far away from your true nature, your deeds become impure and this brings further sorrow and unhappiness. So we need to learn to change our self-talk. In one day a person becomes happy and unhappy several times because of his self-talk. When you gain knowledge and wisdom your self-talk (self-reporting) changes automatically.
Whatever unhappiness, sorrow has come in our life are because of our thoughts. You attract all these negative things in your life with your self-talk. Your fears, your thoughts attract incidents, you don’t know that. Because of our thoughts, wrong people enter in our lives.
Some people never speak out their feelings, they can’t express their feelings. They always hesitate. They are told to repeat the self-talk, ‘It is safe to express my feelings.’ If they continue this, one day suddenly they notice they are able to express their feelings now.
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Aage badh na surakshit hai 🙏
स्वंसंवाद आनंदके समजानेके लिऐ सरश्री आपका बहूत बहूत धन्यवाद धन्यवाद धन्यवाद धन्यवाद
I'm open to nature's Miracle 🌟
आदरणीय सर श्री जी के विडियो ऑफ लाइन सुनने के लिए सुविधा प्रदान करे,हर समय online रहना ग्रामीण क्षेत्रों में संभव नही है
हार्दिक शुभेच्छा धन्यवाद सरश्री धन्यवाद...Happy thoughts..
yes gatana me dukh nahi hai, hamare swa sanwad me dukh ya kushi hai...🙏
Dhanyawad sirshree..🙏
धन्यवाद सर श्री जी
Happy Thoughts sirshree .. aaj fir se ye pravachan suna.firse clearity mili. dhanyawad
Great book vichar niyam,It save my life,give positive energy
Sir shree ji Aapka har word hamare liye jivan jaisa hai
Happy Thoughts & Thank U SIR SHREE.......
thank you,I suffered lot due to bad self talk,I am going to change myself
Happy thought sir shri
Dhanyawad Sirshree Dhanyavad Dhanyavad
Koti Koti Dhanyavad sir SRE
SIR SHREE Is The LIVE ENLIGHTENED MASTER , Make The Seekers Of TRUTH,To
Understant And Conceive The Deeper Mystical TRUTHS ,FollowThem, In The Most
Simplified Language......
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Thank you so much sirshree 😇🙏 for being life 💓
Mai purn hu purn se sabhi kaam purn hote hai samaye 🕒 par hote hai 👌
Thank u sir... I and my mom benefit from it very much.... Again highly thankful to u.... :-)
HT Great...Great........Great self -Talk is very important. i got some clearity and happines.
Be continue.....
Dhanyawaad sirshree. Koti koti dhanyawaad
Muje Prem se Prem hai 😍
Anant koti dhanyawad sir shree.
खुप छान माणूस सकारात्मक विचारानि परिपूर्ण होणार
Thank you.
It's very effective and I got benefits.
Dhanyawad Sirshreeji....Happy Thoughts...
बहुत ही बढ़िया ज्ञान
Happy Thoughts. Dhanyawad Sirshreeji.
Happy thoughts 💐💐 Sir shri ji
Dhanyawad sirshree ji
Dhanywad sirshree
Dhanyawad Sirshree.......................
dhanyavaad,happy thought
Thanks Thanks Thanks ........Sarsriji.
Dhanyawad sirshreee
Dhanyavad sirshri
dhanyawd sirshreeji aapki krupa sub ko mile
best..
dhanywad sir shri ji.
Happy Thoughts
Dhanyawad
Dhanyawad Sar shree🙏🙏
Dhanyawad Sir Shree
happy thoughts sirshree
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DHANYAWAD SIRSHREE..
Koti Koti Dhanyawad Sirshreeji Happy Thoughts
Sir shree ji Aapki Krupa Banaye Rakhana yahi asha karate hai
mere andar swast ke horman badrhe hai , Dhannwad sirshree
धन्यवाद
Koti koti Dhanyawad sirshri
Happy thoughts
Muje vishwas par vishwas hai 👌
very nice Sir.. ......
happy thoughts
Thank you Sirshree.
l love sirshree
Really worth knowledge . Thanks
Mujhe Prem se Prem hai
Dhanyawad ss
Minakshi Karande great
Guru
Thanks
Aage badna Surakhshit hai 👌
Enjoyed and learned a lot
Thanks so much sir shri
Sir's lecture is amazing as always but the English translation written down is not what is actually said in talk please check if possible...
Exceptional!! Dhanyawad Sirshree!! :)
Dhanywad SS.
Swayam ko badlo,be positive......mansik udvegon par kaise vijay paayee jaaye.......yehi samjhaanei ka prayaas hai is video mein.
savita vashishtha
Happy Thoughts
Happy thought
Mai sawasth hu
I am Healthy ☺
Happy Thoughts
Dhanywad SS
Msy ke andar nye swasth ke Harmon's nirman ho ha hai 😇
Chan
SS ke Vishwas par Vishwas hai 💓
Aaj. Phir se tumhe sat sat naman
Be Happy in Present ☺
Mai Azad hu mai Azadi hu
I am free i am freedom 👌
Dhanyavad sirshree
धन्यवाद सरश्री
Dhanywad sirshree
धन्यवाद सरश्री
धन्यवाद सरश्री
धन्यवाद सरश्री