DATING IN IRELAND AS FOREIGNERS!!! REAL LIFE EXPERIENCES
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- čas přidán 17. 03. 2019
- Happy St.Patrick's day 2019 from me to you. This light-hearted video is just our experiences thus far and how we as foreigners perceive Irishmen in comparison to men from our countries.
Hope you enjoy my videos.OH well, I love this journey and the opportunity to share it with you.
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I am a foreigner and was engaged to an Irish man... biggest heartbreak.. but that being said.. most people in Ireland are very lovely
I am so sorry to hear that... Hopefully you've recovered from it by now (at least a little)
ATTENTION: PLEASE GIVE YOUR LIFE TO THE LORD JESUS CHRIST WHO LOVES YOU VERY MUCH 💟
@@Cristinact thank you so much...2 years later i would say im much better..and still moving to Ireland as soon as i can..
Give your life to Jesus and you will have no problem. Ireland hold on to your Christian values.
@@melissamohammed2624 look Melissa it happens were all human plenty of irish guys here
What irish men have you met? Who are dating? You guys meet the wrong people. My wife is black.. I walked right up to her and asked her to hang out. 10 years later. .. 4 kids.
That’s great.
It’s true. I think people who are struggling to meet people haven’t met the right ones.
Love it
You guys are hilarious...I met my Irish guy online and he showers me daily with compliments and was the first to approach even though it was online lol...but he's amazing... smiles
Wow am now experiencing what your going through...it's Soo sweet dating Irish man
@@ainebyoonaronitah4572 they're the best 😍
Compliments? Girl please get self esteem so compliments from a man doesn’t excite you because your comment is tragic 🤦🏻♀️
I'm single and I wish to have a lovely and happy woman in my life because I have made everything to make my family happy ❤️
@@ainebyoonaronitah4572 hi
I fell in love with these girls. And I am a girl. Reminded me of uni days.Wish i could be friends with them. German reminds me of me.They are both hilarious and well-meaning.
Word of advice about the guy at the restaurant, Irish people aren’t good at being direct, so you could have said to him something like, “I’d like to introduce you to my friend” and encouraged a friend of his to tag along, if you don’t twist his arm and bring him back to your table he’ll probably just leave with his friends like that guy did. We’re an awkward race haha
On the other hand I had an Irish guy approach me when I sitting in a church after Mass one lunchtime in Dublin. I thought "you have balls of steel". He was cute but I had a boyfriend already.
@@viviennedunbar3374 that man trying to skip straight to the wedding 😂
Sounds like it could be dificult meeting an Irish man.
On the other time he could have had a girlfriend and didn’t want to be rude!
I'm single and I wish to have a lovely and happy woman in my life because I have made everything to make my family happy ❤️
I read a quote in an expats group saying they loved everything about Dublin except the dating scene which is a disaster or something to that effect 😂 Totally agree
I enjoyed this video so much!
Very interesting topic😁Anna is a very open n interesting girl,like her vibes...awww,naija guys re fast guys ooo,dem no Dey carry last at all
woow, i'm really laughing so hard. you guys vibes are the best.
I'm dying!😆😆 this is great!
Hey Rachel how are you doing today
I remember back in the day in clubs they used to have ‘slow sets’ .. where they played 2 or 3 sloww/ love songs .. we never had problems asking girls for a dance .. got a bit like a meat market at times though.
Anna got swags oh .. love her
I came here after watching Leap Year on Netflix lol. So hello all the way from the Bahamas 😂
This video was such a gift😂😂😂
This is an interesting topic and you both nailed it.
The culture seems very different between people. This is very educational thank you :))
I have an Irish ex. We met in Australia and went back to our own country, so we were on LDR and it is kind of hard coz I could feel him drifting away. So he is my ex. What I know about him is that he compliments a lot, so the insecure me was blooming coz of those compliments. Yes he was shy as in first date I could feel him wanting to hold my hand but was hesitant coz maybe of different culture, so after that date we decided to do 2nd one and move a huge step forward to being together. He is an amazing man who made me very happy for a short while. Oh well ... I miss him. Also they dont want to be rushed ... Im impatient so ... he got tired of my crazy
you guys are so funny! feel like we're friends, how is that possible?
Happy St.Patrick's day girls
Lol 😆 love you girls. Cheered me up totally
Take a look at Irish women if you want to understand Irish men´s behaviour. Then you might achieve a deeper understanding of what you´re talking about. Irish women react very negatively when an Irish man tries to chat them up or compliment them or break the ice. They look at you as if you´re some kind of creep or freak and make you feel uncomfortable for having dared to approach them. In fact they almost react as if the man has committed a hanging offence. Hence Irish men are very cautious apout approaching women as they have been continuously conditioned over the span of their lives to expect rejection from Irish women, in spite of the fact that they might be very good-looking guys. When Irish women become more receptive to being approached by men who are simply trying to express their admiration, then we might see a change in the behaviour of Irish men. So if you foreign ladies want to understand the behaviour of Irish men, you need to observe and understand Irish women first. Only then will you have a balanced perspective of the problem. Cherchez la femme....
Everytime I go out I get harrased and have some guy put his hands on me without my consent so yeh Irish men are real scared! My heart bleeds for ya, try being a woman for one day punk! The worst thing that can happen to a man is they feel unsure about being creepy whilst the worst thing that can happen to a woman is they can be raped and murdered!!
Just buy them lots of GIN..its expensive though..
@@neilthompson8793 irish women on ireland Change when out if ireland and let their hair down..
@@neilthompson8793 its internet not the real world..
So many people in my area have good looking foreign girlfriends who are much more attractive than they are. They love us because we don't take ourselves seriously. Irish women take irish men for granted
I’ve just found this video. I’m moving to Dublin in less than 2 months and this info is perfect! I’m from Buenos Aires and while I listen to your experiences, I feel like you’re describing Argentinian men... 😑
I'm an Irish male who lives in Portugal-you'll enjoy Dublin and the Argentinians are well known and liked in Ireland.Outside of English speaking nations there are more Irish in Argentina than any other country in the world-good luck!
Anna is so adorable! Yes to your confidence! I think we are so alike 💛💛
Sassy Funke I can imagine 🤩
I am Irish and yes we are a bit shy but most of us like to be met half way and not to chase,as we expect women to be fairly liberated.We can be somewhat superficial though and that is a bit difficult to understand,hard to make a deep connection.However dont give up,but try something other than clubs,as we like conversation and the best way to our hearts is with a sense of humour,not shouting over the din of a nightclub DJ or Band,try something different if the usual stuff isnt working as you might be pleasantly suprised,best wishes.Btw I hate dating apps as do a lot of my friends.
What do you mean with "fairly liberated"?
Hello, why you heart dating apps?
I feel so old (43) back in the day in lates 90’s nearly 00’s Irish men use to always approach women then internet came along and slow sets stopped lol 😂 I also approached a man I liked n that kinda worked for me at the time!
It's so crazy to go back through your videos knowing where you're at now. With a baby, a new house etc... but it's still fun to watch the old videos. Do you still have contact to this friend?
🤣🤣🤣 I know how to you feel, please I will be needing your help to Talk to someone I have been crushing Chigirl. Biko I love your confidence babes 😍
I loved this! Irish guys are shy but it's also because they want to be respectful of others people time and don't like to pester.
There are some great guys out there!
In regards to being intimidated by black women it's mainly because they think they're cool, and again are shy.🙄
Loved the video from a cultchie 😄
It's actually more about being respectful it's drilled into Irish men growing up to be protective it's not always shyness 😂
IRISH GUY JOINS THE CONVO....I ain't shy I'm out going everyone is different peace and love from Ireland
Irish guys who went to all boys schools aren't sure how to approach women or how to talk to them
Irish guys tho 😍 there's something about them
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂Why you like this doe
Go raibh míle maith agat 🙂👍🙏🤝
Thank you 😊
alcoholism and intimacy issues
I would love to visit Ireland!
Hey April how are you doing today ?
Do not 'love to' , just 'do it' ..............
The way I held my breath from 7:15 -7:42 😭😭
These girls are adorable
Chai! He actually left!😂.......
I really enjoy your videos with Anna!... Such a lively soul😊
oby loretta 🥂
@@Everlycece Do you feel Irish guys are alphas or beta males? I got beat up by an Irish yob when I was 13 years old.
*I enjoyed every second of this video! I really do miss Nigerian men and their forwardness 😂😂 the times I got a "hi" from Finnish men were when they were drunk and when no other person was with them😂😂😂 Great upload Sis ❤️*
Smiles
Interesting topic
Thanks for the 'entertainment'. Nice to see folks enjoying themselves. Brought a smile to my dial. Regards from Australia !
😅😅😅😅 I'm an Irish lad and a lot of my friends are like that. As soon as they know a girl is into them they fall apart and don't know what to do especially if they already liked the girl 😅😅 it's funny to me.
Chichi first is this a top or a dress? I love it!
A very little top.Thanks sweet
YALL CRAZY FUN---IRISH /JAMAICAN GIRL SHES THE BOMB !!!
Anna seems so fun and nice!
Ebukar Okonkwo not the average girl indeed.cheers
@@Everlycece buy the guy a drink..
@@michaelheery6303 😂
nothing beats Irish women for me Big shoutout North Dublin Girls Clondalkin one of the best accent Ive ever heard . great video.
Some Irish guys are intimidated by confidence considering most Irish girls don't show it outside of getting plastered. Though as an Irish guy myself it's very endearing.
I love Irish guys🤷♂️😂😂😂
@@michaelheery7427 hahahaha
@@michaelheery7427 well who knows🤷♂️😁😁
Jason Kirk stfu lad
@@Jason Kirk ... So by the same token, if you´re saying the correct name is Celtic, then the name of the country must be Celtica ? I don´t think so. The Irish may well be Celtic by race, but their nationality is Irish. Look at an Irish passport and tell me where you see the word Celtic...
Penny Lee we love u too
Love your channel, I’m an older single guy planning a trip to Ireland soon. Any tips on meeting women besides pubs and dating apps?
WOODIES.
Tell them your a HANDYMAN.
How did it go?
Does size matter to you girls? I mean do you prefer tall, short or medium guys?
If a man has a cute, handsome face I wouldn't care about his height, as long as he's not too short in comparison than me.
This was so interesting girls 😃 maybe I should do the version of Spanish men when it comes to dating 😅😅
Loved the video 😍😍
Faith Kitama It’ll be nice to hear that version.Cheers💋
I picture Irish guys blonde, blue or gray eyes, very good looking, not too tall, I really picture them like those Westlife guys 😆 I wish I can have an Irish boyfriend but I'm very shy so not gonna happen.
@IRISH JAY IRISH JAY relax man
@IRISH JAY IRISH JAY I am very impressed with your apology because it says a lot of your improvement as a human being, since you explained the reason why you wrote a comment like that. Somehow it's inspiring me to revise my past acts as well. I hope you keep on being a good person. 😊 Have a good life. ✨
They are just gorgeous.
Head turners for sure.
Just buff,handsome,sweet and gentle.
Celts for you.
My Dad is really soft centerd,but hard on the outside and he's from Belfast in the North of Ireland.
@IRISH JAY IRISH JAY amen I am glad you found jesus💜💜
@@summergarrick3056 We are all glad : )
What is that sound at 6:48?
Bruh
I totally enjoyed this video
Do be so excited bcoz that's their job....
I have a friend in dublin, we have'nt meet yet coz these pandemic..anyway thanks for sharing some ideas.watching fr BAGUIO CITY PHILIPPINES w/ love. I'm your new subscriber
Culture clash , Filipinos should stick with Filipinos. Otherwise 'tragedy'.
Chichi it is not only in Irland this happens,most white guys are very much reserved everywhere,they lack the gut to move up to girls and say hi and probably express themselves.
As u rightly observed,just only very few of them do that mostly when they're drunk.
In the case of that guy u walked up to for ur friend,i think the reason why he left without even coming to say hi may still be that he lacks the gut to walk over to u ladies and/or ur friend didn't look attractive to him,so he couldn't help the situation and walked away with his friends,he might be too young believing his friends don't find her(ur friend)attractive as well.
Keep up the good work u're doing making a fantastic,honest and very helpful videos✌
Did you think for one minute that one of the other guys could have been his brother in law.
wow!
Thanks for sharing
I love Irish people 😙💖
So too , a lot of other people. 'Warm' .
Thanks for sharing; take care
Going out for a night and being available is different for women than it is for men. Men have one or two shots in a particular venue, while women can sit back and decide what they want. They reject a man and another will appear soon enough. Men have to either not care how people see them after a failed approach or be successful in that approach. Not making another approach is the only thing left after being rejected for most people. A lot of men and women in the vicinity has witnessed his failure and that’s him done for the night. A ton of women will automatically assume that the woman rejecting him had good reason and the men around him will take the piss out of him for his failure.
Therefore, he can’t risk just throwing away his one or two shots unless he thinks he has a good chance. Most women who think they’re giving obvious advances and believe he sees it the same way are totally deluding themselves. You’ve give semi-oblivious hints in reality.
Through experience he knows that there are loads of women who might give a few signals and then publicly reject him after an approach. Maybe he misread them, but there are many who like the power of rejecting people in a public way and will lure the person in so they can be rejected.
Essentially, women who come to a night out with an interest in finding a partner are holding a machine gun and have many shots. A man is carrying a double-barrelled shotgun and once his couple of shots are gone, he’s done. She can hang around until either lucky to find a good man or find the usual one who doesn’t care about opinion, but wants a quick ride and never to be heard from again.
As for the story about approaching the fella to go talk to the other girl. 99.99% of Irish men and a lot of other nationalities would be sceptical of such an approach. Unless it’s a scam, it doesn’t register with most of us as a normal thing that happens. I’ve had two similar approaches in my younger years. The first was in a bar in Austin while on holiday; I was the designated driver that night. While everyone else was drinking and socialising, I had a slightly older woman strike up conversation and buy me drinks. I’m driving so wouldn’t take them. Long story short, the other lads say she must be a prostitute who is trying to drug me and lure me away to be robbed. I promptly leave when they do as it isn’t worth the risk.
Months later... similar story. A woman hooks on to me after closing time and we head back to my hotel. A work colleague peels her off me and tells hotel security that she must be a prostitute and not allow her inside.
Don’t disregard male jealousy either. Some of those men would have been pissed that they weren’t seen as interesting that night. They would have happily cock blocked that fella.
He should have left with them and then come back in on his own a few minutes later.
I'm so sorry you were done that way in Austin.
Texas is my home state. But there are a lot of crazy people that go to Austin. Sadly Some people do go there just to prey on others. I've always thought of Irish men to be attentive and protective of who ever they are with. Especially once they get to know you. They love you like family 💜
Thanks for the information.
This approach thing is so true I worked with this Irish guy and he is so handsome and cute green eyes nice heir smells good funny sweet I fell in love with him instantly and I made the move and he shut me down as fuck I still want him I feel he does too I think it is true love I wish I meet him again and he drop his shy and go for it this time
Please how can I move to Ireland from Cameroon
Thank you, very interesting. I was wondering if you would do a video on how Irish men treat their women, and if you have seen, or know older women who are looking to date in Ireland? I am 60 yrs old, but look and feel much younger than I am. I hope to be living in Ireland soon and even though I only have a small percentage of Irish blood, it is very strong in me. I'm a little shy around people I don't know, but then I warm up. I'm also very old fashioned, so I don't normally approach men. What you are saying, makes me wonder how it would go for me.
Go to HURLING MATCHES...
@@michaelheery6303 😂😂😂😂😂💀💀
@@viviennedunbar3374 ha ha ha go to big hardware shops men will gladly help you...
I'm single
I'm single and I wish to have a lovely and happy woman in my life because I have made everything to make my family happy ❤️
Hello jens@@jensrbuddrich3220
I'm half Irish: I wouldn't call myself shy, but I would say I'm "picky" .
Picky in what sense.
Yeh , and they are 'picky' too , thats why you end up with 'nothing' : )
It’s not even hard to approach women these days.
But I think clubs, bars, and nightclubs aren’t the solution. Those are for people looking for a quick one. That’s the problem.
I believe being in a different environment such as work, sports clubs, social activities etc. these are much more natural.
dating some irish guy , things are great but he wont call me baby .. like he would say hun or sweety . never baby . and i asked and he said they just dont use that term . i find it hard to believe whats up with that ?
NORA MANDJELEKIAN oh now that’s new to me.
@@Everlycece i would really like to make sure for real myself .. i dont know if he is playing me or what lol .. if someone has any info please come forward lol
you want to be treated like a little girl, that's what's up!
@@NORASHEN83 No. We don't say "baby" 😂😂😂. To be honest, it sounds like a cheesy term of endearment you'd only hear on American movies. It brings connotations of James bond or some evil vilian to mind. It comes across as forced and unnatural. You should be flattered he chooses not to use it. It must mean he thinks you're a keeper 😉
@@stimulus5635 Just cause you lot say 'baby' doesnt mean the rest of the world should. Attitude !
5:20 or may be he was just not interested and that's why he didn't make the move
My Irish side left from County Cork.
How did I end up here
Hi from an American!! 😂🇺🇸
Me too. 🗽🇺🇸🤣
So what ? !
Irish guys are definitely not shy when you're on a night out!! :P
Yeah i dont think Irish guys are shy at all, they just go about it in a different way 🙂 just chats, laughs, wee drinkies and number 😄, and if they dont well maybe they just not interested.. simple
@@deborahcrumley8044 Agreed, I feel Irish people have a very complex and particular way of communicating, we dance around things instead of approaching head on lol. I think it's fun but I can imagine it's frustrating for foreigners who are confused by it
Can we have a part 2 please😅
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you girls are so funny
She is so cute
bronx irish boys super forward and full of life
Julius Taylor in nyc?
kawaii kween yes
Laoch by nationality maybe but large amount of Irish descent men there.
@@bruhkent6895 yeah but it's culture that determines behaviour not genetics, Irish Americans act like Americans not Irish people unless they're like first or second generation.
How about Irish girls towards black guys. are they shy too, do they care about what others can say about them, do they like black guys? Hope you answer this please:)
Daphine katushabe off course Irish girls do 🙂🙂..
If Irish men are 'forward' in expressing their admiration and the feeling is not reciprocated, then they are instantly considered to be 'creeps' by Irish girls, especially in situations where the two people work together.That's why Irish men are usually not forward.
It's a difficult, basically what you're saying is that men should approach women in environments other than bars/pubs and dating apps. But whether or not an approach is considered completely creepy or not in modern society is basically if the woman thinks the man is attractive...if a guy you might be interested in starts talking to you on public transport or on the street during the day and asks for your number, you will probably feel great....if you don't find him attractive or are or too busy in that moment, you will instead think 'typical annoying creepy guys, I wish they wouldn't randomly approach me when I'm sitting on the bus"...do you get the point?
Good explanation
"I mean I know you. You wouldn't be like hey how are you. You'd be like
- Excuse me"
I laughed SO HARD
i want to travel out please take me lol
We have the same problem here in Greece
I live in ltaly and l want to come to ireland please can you connet me
Well well what if I said I felt in love with your laugh and cute face (white one) 😘
Yes , she is impressive. She doesnt have trouble 'recruiting' guys , lol !
I'm a black woman hoping to find an Irish guy cos I have heard so many nice things about them. Would prefer matured men 40 and above.
Try making a vid of a minority man in Ireland....you will hear the crickets....
I have heard so much interesting stories about Irish men, pls how do i find myself one😅😊
They're a bit like momma's boys, too, right?
Yep!
Crisinact judge much? Not all Irish men are mammys boys I knowurish males who are not mammys boys they know how to look after themselves stop being so quick to judge
I loved irish guy hahahah
Can a nigeria guy approach an Irish girl without any issue
Or any racist act
Nne biko how far your friend she's single shey? I'm single too naaa! Lol
I like your video you've given me this very big insight of Ireland thank u o nne oma
PS Ich liebe Deutschland greatest country on earth love at first visit
This is serious... Just read the comments and no Irish guy is saying anything.
This is serious...
Cos 'talk is cheap' !
They rather drag their feelings to the grave lol 😂😂😂
Very Funny 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Hey I'm Joe Panda a move maker, also into Multimedia looking for an Ireland lady friend 25 years above ❤❤❤
By an accident, I caught up your video.
I have (2) expose myself now with the worst possible way with that comment, I am national from different EU state here Ireland, from Greece. My age (45). African women here Ireland, (does not matter their age), do you pay attention (2) man age, if he is older than you, way (2) above your standard of what you really expect!! (How you react??).
I cannot say that I am shy or I hide behind other people, because I am not that social (like the 2day generation/s). I have my moment/s, like all people around me. From your video, I take the massage, that (African women), are not that much tough on the issue of socializing (while you have good times). As many white women are.
(4) me, I find it really hard (2) date some African women, probably is not the right timing
(4) me. Probably I contact the wrong group of women, may be is the fact, that I do not have plenty sense of humour (women enjoy a really good laugh!!).
Is quite long time now, which I like the chocolate skin, that is my weakness. How smart, (you wish 2 be the next move, man will do), enough (2) get your attention. Without being completely jerk, or off topic!! While tries (2) have flirt you with smart and interest way, avoiding being rude.
How smart, you wish, some1, (2) approach you (4) a smart flirt and probably an interesting conversation??
I know that also women, you have your moments (2). Any useful tips??
As men, speaking about the average men like me that's out there, we don't wanna approach in fear of getting rejected, I mean ladies put yourselves in our shoes and you had to do all the approaching and got rejected constantly, not nice is it? So why should men always take the bullet?
Never give up
It shows you have balls as a man if you approach women, I think great Irish and British men approach is a charming way and make you laugh, knowing how to chat up a woman is a life skill.
I'm also an Irish man and I often don't approach women because I feel like I have to have something decent to say to make conversation, not really fear of getting rejected for me
@C17NRYL3 hello
How irish act on the foreign people?
That is my qoestion
@puca if i am spanish they will be nice? xd
@@omegamusic3055 if you are nice they will be nice. same world over , same 'life'. stupid question !
I'll look forward to seeing a woman trying to approach me!
I experience that all the time !
Well, I'm afraid you'll be waiting a lot of time, unfortunately society accepted that men should be the one approaching which is ridiculous
@@ciemny9410 Also socially accepted that men 'pay' for it , one way or the other , lol
Please can an European rent a house in Ireland before getting a job,?
Money talks everywhere in the world ............
I always wanted to go to ireland, until i saw that video, where this irish girls humiliate and discriminate a mexican telling him a lot of racist shit!!!😰NEVER MIND i rather stay where im at!! Lol "word"
Hahahahaha very funny
Had a conversation with an Irish man about this topic. He told me Irish women wear the pants in the marriage. They are in the drivers seat.... i asked him why women wore the pants. He said when women started going for higher education and getting good jobs, things changed. He even said his brother had a curfew and if he got home late his wife would yell at him.
🤭😯
🤣🤣🤣🤣 true..
Its true. Irish men are afraid of their wives!
I think it's cute.
Maybe they appreciate/love their wives more than their ego.
Happy wife,easy life as the saying goes.
What about Church? Anyone going to church in Ireland? haha!