Why my AFRICAN DAD Let me move in with MY BOYFRIEND Before MARRIAGE Ft SOGOODHAIR Invisible BOB WIG
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- This is a story of how my Nigerian dad let me move in with my boyfriend before marriage.. what's your own story? please share.
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This Video says how “she moved in and how it worked for her “. It doesn’t say tips for marriage .
It’s Her Story not an advice so “Do You” and follow your own principles.
See ehh thank you.. it’s taking everything in me not to slap some people through the phone.. I cannot live my life again and share on MY channel.. 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️ i am just tired to be honest. I don’t need this unnecessary pressure to be perfect or act perfectly just to please pple.
Well said *ooo!* 🤗
@@NeloOkeke Hey Nels, it's so nice that you share, some of your personal stories with us. No worries for you to be perfect or act it, because no one is. Let me give you a big hug, 🤗 take now take! I hope you felt that, cause it comes from a good place. 🥰
@@NeloOkeke 😄😁This is 'triggering' content 🤣😂lool and you have little or no control on the emotions your story will evoke in different individuals.
True, everyone and their life😊
Me and my husband moved in together before we were engaged and married, I was 25, he was 29, 20 years on we're still married with a beautiful family!
Truly when a guy knows what he wants, he won't waste time
To each their own. Some people didn't move in but spent weeks and weekend with boo before marriage, no real difference there if you ask me. For me, I am learning to take a leap, do things out of the norm.
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You are so correct
When a man is ready to get married and he sees a woman he likes he's not going to waste time.Not all this dating for 2 years.They happen like that because he's not ready to marry yet... simple.
I lived with my husband for two months and he proposed within that two months. We are married for 9 years now
🙌🙌🙌
I love how u blush when u talk about Oga Francis
Yeah I saw that too
I was just smiling throughout the video. Honestly people should just do whatever works out for them. I pray that your marriage grows stronger and stronger in Jesus name 💖
Interesting story, when a man knows 😁. After our introduction, hubby and I worked in the same state so we were together most times. We had a misunderstanding, separated briefly (e no reach heart 😁) but here we are now married for years. To be honest, I won't give this advise to many people because there are too many guys and girls willing to take advantage and just not serious about a relationship. It is a risk that "might" be worth taking so be mature enough not to blame anybody but yourself for the outcome (the advise my brother gave me).
A man knowing wat he wants is KEY..I also started living with my husband bfor he paid my bride price
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Haaaaa move in kwa?
Ordinary to come to Abuja to see my husband's people, my dad said I should stay with my cousin... If I hear,
I stayed with him though but my dad didn't agree and didn't want it.
I stayed in my parents house till that September 2015...
Wow i love this story, other African parents come and hear oooo, other African parents will cage and monitor you not to have boy friend but when you are up to marrigable age they will be expecting you pluck husband from their mango tree and present to them.
Exactly 😂😂😂
Thank you!!!😂🤣😂
Exactly 😂😂😂😂😂
You're a wise type👍
🤣🤣🤣🤣
I moved In with my Boyfriend 1 year after we started dating we lived together for 3 years and we have been married 5 months 🤣 the best decision we made was to live together
You and ur sisters are lucky that it worked for you, some guys ehn once u move in with them they'll turn u to lord of the rings 😂
That's. In some cases you will stay girlfriend forever
I love this video.... true representation of life diversity..... wishing you many more years of bliss and happiness
Not married yet, when we get there, I'll come back to this video 😀
Your hair is beautiful ❤️
You're beautiful too 😍
Am truly happy for you both.
I don’t know if it has to do with Nnewi blood.i met my husband in August, our introduction was in November of same year. We are still together for 15yrs. Like you said, I felt I was taking a risk too. But the way my parents supported it,(probably because i finally broke up with someone from a different state and now hooked up to an nnewi guy), I felt encouraged.
When a guy knows what he wants he goes for it ehh! Yes
Hahaha..... to be honest I wouldn't even have done it even if my parents had given their consent. For me it's a lot more about my faith and values as a Christian, however I'm aware of a few people that it worked for. Stay true to your own values and faith
Lol
You inherited those values.
They were literally indoctrinated into you before you were conscious or able to think and question it. You didn't choose to be Christian. Leave the "Christianity Value" aside. 😊
@@AkachukwuMadueke 😂😂 I actually chose to be a Christian. Your parents can only force you into a religion or way of worship for so long. Being a Christian is much more than rules and going to church, it is about understanding the finished work of Christ and the grace he made available to us to live like him. I'm not claiming to be perfect, but I rely on his grace to pull me through trials and temptations. I am happily married by the way and it was my desire to save myself to honor God (not any man or as a present to my spouse), and by his grace it happened. Everything I have written is based on my opinion and beliefs, please do not construe it to be an advice or instruction. Thank you. 🙏🏾
@Ogochukwu nwosu you chose to be Christian because that was the only option you had. If you were born in an Islamic country like Iran, you will most likely choose to be Muslim and understand the finished worked of Mohammed and would want to live like him. Well, live like a perfect sinless portrayed being when you're human? How does that sound... However, you didn't get my point. At the conscious age where you feel "you can choose to be Christian" don't forget the unconscious age when you couldn't even think, reason, or judge rather accept everything from your environment and your parents. All these has been going on in your subconscious and more importantly that's what guides you 90% of the time. You were born into a Christian home, from age 0-7 "the programming age" you were taken to church, taught to pray and all.
This is indoctrination. Same way Jihad Suicide bombers are indoctrinated and made to believe they are doing this for Allah.
What makes you think you won't accept Christianity in your adult age?
Well, humans confabulate. "Just use Language and Logic to prove the program in our subconscious is right. We go all levels"
Christianity doesn't refine character or encourage empathy. Embrace Mindfulness.
@@AkachukwuMadueke that wasn't the only option he had. It was his choice. I have a friend whose parents are Muslims, she chose to be a Christian while her brother chose none.
Your parents can only try to force you, they cannot shove it down your throat.
Even from a young age, my mum already figured she didn't want what her parents religion. She would constantly drag her feet to their church.
Subconscious or not Sir, we all end up doing what we see fit. For some people, it takes them back to where they left off and for some, it does not.
By the way, in countries like Iran, it's either that religion or most likely a gun to your head even from your own family.
Finally, I get your point about inherited values, but it does not apply to which religion you choose.
I like your experiential point of view "using your friends and mum" but, we don't really end up doing what we see fit"
Read what I wrote again.
Religion does not build character nor empathy nor self confidence neither the ability to think rather than just "accept" and look at everything in life as black and white from a really shallow view. It really increases cognitive decline.
Nonetheless, forget religion in your judgements and choose logic and empathy.
Wow your parents are the real MVP'S ..nelo is not today you've been living your best life o😅🙌👏💞
MADE IDANIMO hahaha. I know right! She don stay for the matter😂😂😂
Exactly when a man sees what he wants he knows. May God continue to bless your home. Amen.
Exactly met my husband on the 28 December got married on the 6th of January,we are three years down and line
It’s normal thing for us too I moved in with my hubby even before marriage almost 6years we have been married same with yours we married May 2015.. but I moved in with him December 2014.. I checked everything plus sound 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 he is the best thing that has happened to me... we met in Nigeria married in Nigeria. And we are back to his country here in Cyprus 🇨🇾.. much love...
All the Reverend father's n sisters would soon start😂😂😂let be watch finish
You are beautiful Nelo. My dad would never agree to that under no circumstances.
I met hubby 28 Dec 2014, 3months later, I moved in with him and 5yrs later ( 4th July 2020). we did our traditional marriage after 2kids.
I think dating for long even if you already know what you want should only be based on building resources.
Girl U're lucky oo. Tnk ur stars
oo bcos not all women are dat lucky. Oga Francis is a good man. I just thank God it worked out well 4 u guys.I can't try it oo. I'm not dat brave 😂😂
You mimicked NJ so well...that voice was so NJ😊😊. This is really an interesting story...loved every bit of it.
🙄🙄🙄✋🏽🚶🏽♀️ She didn't mimic my voice well anything!!!🙄
The hair turned out beautiful.
Am a silent subcriber i have subscribed to your channel for over a year now have never commented before your story is just like mine it seems like am going through memory lane because i also had an arranged marriage too 5years down with my hubby and we are still inlove in my case my parents supported me to move in with my hubby before marriage and after everything we are still together 5years down Nelo i like you alot u and your family thanks for the story stay blessed 😍
Awwww 🤗🤗 very similar stories ..
The realest youtuber ever...keep being you nelo💯💯
As soon as i saw the title of the video i knew that i would not be able to relate 😂😂😂.
Oh my days 😯, I really don't understand why people are talking so much about you and your marriage. We are all different even though you have your culture or traditions. You are happily married now and you are happy with your family 👪!
In Nigeria they have their culture and traditions but people should understand that we are all different and we do not have to always follow traditions!!! Nelo, people are judging you when they should not. Many women followed the traditions and they are not happy at all!!!
Please guys, stop criticism Nelo from moving with her husband before marriage. We are all different and you should accept that! Keep going Nelo 💪 💋.
Aunty Nelo I'm supposed to be reading for my final year exams but I couldn't resist this video at all
NJ holy nweje 😅. Nelo the baddie 🙌🏾
Lol when u said,NJ was staying with u,i was thinking of what she would say,and gbooòooom u mimicked her 😃😃😃😃😃i love u NJ.
Has anybody ever told you, you are so beautiful? Even without make up
It's Nelo here as always.... looking so cute,telling us interesting love story,nice vlog sis❤❤💕💕
Abeg 'when a guy knows what he wants' u are good to goo, wish u many more years ahead biko... PS: ur hair turned out fine
Nelo I really love your vibes...yes is not bad moving in with your boyfriend as long as you knw where the relationship is heading.💖
First of all, your thumbnail is so beautiful😍 You are so beautiful mehn🥰❤️
☺️☺️ thank you
I never knew our @Nello has a big sister oh my God. Really and she has this Eldest sister attitude and character
Awww I remember Francis from CU. Decent guy!!
Do you mean Covenant University?
I like your cloth colour-combination and simple design
Mine was different ohhh,he called me a prostitute and refused to marry me,
Really Nawaooo
@Adaoraogechukwu Shows his level of intelligence and karma is waiting for him. Calling you a prostitute what does that mean? He is trying to move on and instead of saying it is not working and move on. Has to run you down to support his low ego and self esteem. Let him move on this type the marriage would have been hellfire. Constant denigrating and words because he wants to show he is a man. You should be grateful he showed his true colours as words can’t break you but beats can. This type is not where you will ever have a happy married life. Will go through women as has negative vibes and needs constant praise in the relationship. Which can be frustrating. So would say good riddance to bad rubbish. Move on not worth even remembering. You will kiss a lot of frogs before you meet the right person. The saying goes.
I actually learnt how to Bob wig here , I stopped wearing my bobs because it straightened and I didn’t know how to Bob it back. Everyone should do what works for them, I didn’t know you and Nj lived in Abuja. abroad it was very normal o but here my parents only let me start staying with hubby when we did introduction.
Like you said he is a Family friend and from the same Village that’s why your dad allowed you and trusts him
it is easier when it,s between the same community but difficult when are from distance community
Smiled the entire video😀 my husband and I didn’t start living together till after our white wedding. Please where did you get the got2b spray please.
Love the transformation with the wig
Your dad is so adorable ehn! Not the typical African dad
Packed my whole bag 😂😂see how she’s blushing lol
Am ready to here the gist
The wig is beautiful
You were inlove
You try ooo
Very special woman
Hi *Nelo,* 🤗 I'm here visiting with love and all that good stuff. 😉 I really enjoyed this story, it just feels like we're here chatting together. The hair looks cute and suits you gorgeously love. 😍 Thanks for sharing and I'll see you soon. Take care and bye! 👋🏻
I had to come back here and comment, especially after watching NJ's reaction Video & reading more comment here.
Y'all should Understand that everyone and his/her path to life, Y'all say DO YOU, but you dont allow people BE THEMSELVES.
Personally, it's a NO NO for me to consider any form of co-habitation, my fiancé knows&agree with it.
However people also have what they believe in,hence we can just say our opinions on things without really talking down on the other person.
From a Christian perspective, YES IT'S A NO NO, say that and leave it, he who has ears will hear and truthfully still do what they want.
Those it works for am sure are happy, those it didn't work for I'm sure have learnt. Life happens. So Y'all calm down and simply make your point😊
Where in the bible is written that you can't stay in your husband's house before marrying?(it's basically just like visiting)
As long as you're not fornicating ,what's the issue?
If a marriage won't work,it won't work,moving in or vice versa doesn't change that.
Tea with Adaora the commenter is not condemning anyone, just saying that people should let others live how they feel comfortable. The Bible doesn’t say that you cannot live with your partner, the issue is that you’re putting yourself into temptation when it can be avoided. It’s not visiting if you have your belongings in his house and you intend to live there.
@@crissoa as far as you are not spending the entirety of your life there,it's visiting.
Visit:to reside with temporarily as a guest.
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I keep telling people that there is no blue print to life, live and let live. I loved this video❤️
This wig ehhhh. The parting is everything
Good family keep on excelling my dear whether boy or girl a child is a child what matters is how you raise them children are blessings from God
Hi Nelo, don't mind the haters, they will always be there, see them as stepping stones Ss, I love your genuinity, my husband proposed within a month together, got married in 8months and now married by the grace of God now for 15years. This think does not have a specific formula, but it is about how the Lord would want it oo. I wish you all the best dear in your matrimonial home and your relationship with your assistance Uche. 💕💕💕
what about the spiritual implication of living with a man that is not married to you yet?
before i dive into the video gotta say i love that top
I will say that once one has grown to get married your parents will allow you , depends on the type of family you are from but they will still advice and tell you to be very careful on whatever you are doing. I thank God that today you are happily married to your dream man and blessed with adorable kids. May your marriage continue to grow to the glory of God amen , omalicha nwannem 😍😘.
Nelo I love your transparent attitude, whereas the suppose church people that carry church for head but if you hear what they do you will marvel, I love transparent people like you
Hi dear see how everyone is coming after you cos you shared your experience. All same thanks for sharing.
I am about to move 🙈🙈🙈 felt it was going fast but watching this now, I am calm. My dad has also said I should move to know him better but society be giving me reasons not to. We dey move oooo.
May God continue to bless your home darling
Thank you ☺️
🤣chai Aunty NJ will not kill me oh😂 Aunty NJ where are you oh😂
😂 😂 😂 Moving in with your bf is a taboo sef o... Haaaaa it's to just hide and visit sef...
God forgive us for all we have done in the past
Even if 'it led to marriage in the end' this does not necessarily justify the means though.
Love love Nelo coz i can relate to you. You sound real and not fake at all.
I love this video! Shunning the norms and going with what works for you, regardless of criticism. I'm happy it worked out and even if it didn't, it's not the end of the world. Kudos to paving your own path to happiness because life is not a one size fits all.
What a family... moving in with a man before marriage
You say WHATTTTT you were doing sweet sweet things nne mu😚😚
Hahahahahahaha the part where you explain how you packed everything is just life. I love you so much. ❤️❤️
The hair is a so nice, I like bob but I dont know if it will suit my round face
Lol. I am team round face too. 😩
Your dad is a mood.
Awww...d hair is so beautiful Nelo.
I dated for 5 years and it didn’t lead to anything, my fiancé and I dated for 10 months and we’ve done our introduction and ime ego, truly when a man knows what he wants he goes for it
We have a similar story here, dated for 4 and half years which led to nothing, now about to get married to a guy I started talking with 11months ago... Truly when a man knows what he wants he doesn't waste time
@@nazakuba5130 Awwwn congratulations 🎊
I think you have to be a person who has a strong assurance and confidence in your partners love for you to be a women and take that risk....because if you just do it for anybody who does jot even have family credibility it is not wise!! Period one needs to be very careful 🤗🙏
I agree 100% Nelo..You see in this life eh... there is no hard and fast rule to this life...Me sef,a man that knows he wants to marry you knows...All these long dating na wash...
This tea will be hot, let me grab a snack and get fatter in the process
😂😂😂😂
I was always at my then boyfriend now husband’s house but still keeping my apartment (was a student then) so that it won’t look “Somehow”. Anyways it’s good to live with them and understand what you are going into (my opinion). The hair looks so nice on you.
I had my introduction on the 26th of this month, and I'm still in my grandma's house 😭😆,can't wait for everything to be finalized 😊
Wow beautiful story .
Can't wait to hear the story ooo .
Things work different for different people. I dint do that though. But do what u are comfortable with o. You are a good story teller.. I think I should start a youtube video o. Welldone sis!
I met my husband when we were in school, after dating for a while my parents were very aware of our relationship, and when we decided to move in together while in school, my parents had no problem with it at all, btw I was 22 at the time.
Love this. There’s nothing about the stereotypical route to marriage in Nigeria that makes it more likely to last longer or be of better quality
Beautiful video
Lovely hair. You look great with and without make.
Am happy for you, yes he knew what he wanted
Love it. You're doing well with the hair. Blessings
Nelo you're really glowing in this video oh😍❤+the hair was actually beautiful
In my own place introduction isn't marriage... I'm from NRI
What worked for you might not work for me. Am glad it all ended in praise sha
Awe
I see how much you love Francis by how you light up when you talk about him.
Hair and makeup look 👍🏾❤️
In my culture living with is our own choice base on various factors of course..Many couple live together until death without officially getting married. Common law relationship are more common than marriages
Lol auto correct kill me
really?? in this part of the world nothing like common law relationship oo 😂
Nelo Okeke
Yes girl in the island you find many such relationships. Usually marriage may happen after years of being together. Parents basically have no control after 18. It’s only those of us who are respectful that will seek parental advice on or before entering affairs/relationships. I see where some aspect of your culture could be beneficial in my home country.
I so so so love dis particular Video...I have being trying to convince my friend to subscribe to dis channel up on till now...we had to have a chit chat watching dis video and concurring to all u've said and she loves loves u already❤
Nelo the wig looks nice and your make up even nicer😁🥰
The Bob looks really really nice