Retroactive Jealousy: Feeling Misaligned With Your Partner
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Hi there, we are Eva & Sean Harrison.
A married couple that has overcome retroactive jealousy, ROCD and general relationship anxiety. The first few years together we really struggled with these issues and today we work together to help individuals and couples who feel overwhelmed, anxious, frustrated and stuck due to intrusive thoughts and mental movies regarding their partner’s past and/or doubts about their relationship today.
Whether you suffer from Retroactive Jealousy, ROCD, Relationship Anxiety or just want some invaluable relationship advice we hope our content helps you.
If you’re an individual or couple suffering with anxiety, confusion, anger, disgust, judgement, intrusive thoughts, trust issues, numbness, uncertainty in your relationship and are trying to keep it together on the outside but are suffering daily on the inside or if you’ve Googled or looked up “Overcoming Retroactive Jealousy”, “Overcoming ROCD”, “Relationship Anxiety symptoms”, “ROCD / Retroactive Jealousy why do the thoughts feel so real?”, “How to stop wishing your partner's past was different”, “How to treat ROCD”, “Intrusive thoughts and compulsions in relationships”, “Feeling doubt/questioning my relationship”, “Cure for Retroactive Jealousy?”, “How to overcome Retroactive Jealousy”, “ROCD / Relationship Anxiety or wrong relationship?”, “Relationship OCD urge to break up”, “ Retroactive Jealousy symptoms”, “ROCD symptoms” you’ve come to the right place.
The people we have worked with have experienced and processed how and why these things showed up in their relationships. As well as how it lead to them having intrusive thoughts, feeling angry, sad, anxious and like they are self sabotaging their relationship.
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Idea for a video, it's a tricky one: how do we manage intrusive thoughts of the nature "my partner went and had all his/her fun in the younger years and now all I'm getting is someone who wants to settle just because time passes and they're just tired and had enough fun".
same issue😢
@@bhavyasrivastava8340I had this suspicion it's quite common :)
Will make a video next week! Thanks for commenting.
I feel same
It makes me upset
This is exactly how i feel. I know that she sees me as a man and she adores me and everything. But on the other side im just the man waiting for her after all the clubbing and drunk nights.
Unfortunately I have personally known people who were married but still spent the entire time pining for an ex or someone they wanted but didn't end up with. So the idea of you being better than their past since they are with you now should be true, but sadly isn't always.
Being last doesn't necessarily mean being the best. It's a phrase that comforts us, but it's actually a big lie.
@@Gamer-xt1gn being the best at what?
Described exactly how I feel. Thank you for the video!
Thank you for taking the time to comment! We are happy to hear you found it helpful!!
Hi, Eva. Thanks for another video!
Glad you found it useful!! :)
Hi, Eva. Video idea: can you guys give us advices and tips on how to deal after we get some information? Let's suppose that our partner told us about an experience from the past with some level of details, for example maybe the day of the week it happened or the year number or maybe a place or even the color the t-shirt. It's common that rj sufferers start to make associations and get intrusive thoughts when they get to listen or see the details that were told to them. What to do to avoid that? In less words: how can we deal with content that we already know and " haunts " us? Ty!
Thank you for your suggestion, we will look into making a video on it soon:)
The only thing I found to cure Retroactive Jealousy was to end the relationship with my partner. I was single for a year and so happy to be free of it then the next relationship I entered they told me much worse stuff it all came back again.
Yes, it definitely goes away when you are single are reappears when entering into a relationship with someone you have feelings for and care about again.
The problem is he is that same person today :(
He says he would do exactly the same thing today, if he was single. Meaning, fuck his best friend’s wife (she initiated it, her husband was ok with that). It’s just so misaligned with my morals… it’s killing me. Had he not done that, I could be great friends with these people. But I’m just not interested and I only pretend I like them, but this is pure courtesy and avoidance….