I moved across the country.. đđŠâźmoving vlog, looking for houses, shopping, moving in, and more!
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âa lot of my favourite books wouldnât be my favourite books if I didnât move onto the next chapterâ has made me cry đ
truth
no fr that one got me đ
Me too lol currently I'm the process of moving and that one got me
Thatâs was a crazy bar.
Aw
WELCOME HOME PLS NEVER MOVEđđđđđ
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immediately looked for your comment haley. now sara just has to move to texas!
Cool
BESTIES UNITE!!
sara too plzđ
âhow lucky am i to have something so hard to say goodbye to.â SOBBING đ
Iâm so proud of you and I canât wait to see all your new adventures đ„čđ©· the best is yet to come!!!
Hi rachâ€
My bestie Iâm so proud of you!!!! â€â€â€â€â€â€â€â€â€â€â€â€
hi sara!!đ«¶
hiii
Hi Sara! â€
So when are you moving to Texas?đ
Hi Sara! Ilysm!
but why did I low-key get teary-eyed knowing that Iâll never see another Vlog in your bedroom again? the nostalgia is real
Omg same đą
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SAME
Sameeeee
Samee!!
As an older subscriber I mean this in the most loving big sis way possible, donât grow up too fast. Iâd do anything to go back to a less complicated time when mom and dad helped with everything. Iâve been an adult and on my own since 18 (10 years now) and Iâm desperately trying to get closer to mom and dad but work and life always pulls me away. Take as many trips home as possible. You will miss the trips to Barnes with mom.
this is so true. I also moved out at 18 and I'm now 26 and would do anything to have those extra years back.
Can I just commend you for being so vulnerable? Moves can be so great and so exciting and so wonderful but they can also be really sad and scary. Not enough people acknowledge that. I moved out of my mom's house when I was THIRTY and I still cried the entire drive to my new apartment. Thank you for letting us see the not-so-sunny side of you. I think it's important and I think it's brave of you to let us in.
haley writing a book destiny moving and starting a new chapter life's crazy what a time to be alive
And theyâre living in the same state!!!
@@ElainaKhamesonly like an hour away from each other!!!
@@ElainaKhames YES IM SO READY FOR VIDEOS WITH THEM AH
FRR and i will deffo read haleys book liek she got me into readinggg
@@Soldiersforchrist_ sameeeeee
THE WAY MY JAW DROPPED WHEN I SAW THE TITLE?? IâM GONNA MISS THE ICONIC BACKGROUND đđ
Ikr! I love her bedroom so much!! Itâs like my dream bedroom!!
true!!!!
Iâm gonna miss it too đą
I think she will have a entire library room
@@lamkrl that would be amazing to see
I'm 60 years old and I have had huge things happen in my life. Big changes, death of a husband, family members defending our country in foreign wars etc. So proud of you for taking this big step so courageously ⥠You have handled things beautifully â€
the good thing girl is that your moving with someone you trust and your best friend/boyfriend. good luck bestie and take care of yourself.
And Haley is in the same city!!!
iâm literally jawdropped at this title and i canât wait to see what the vlog holds!
Same Iâm so excited
THE GASP I GUSPED đ goodbye to the absolute dream bedroom đ„ș the girl is adulting đđ»
That she is. Itâs time for a new chapter
Was shooooook when I saw the title!! But so proud of you! It's incredibly hard to move away from your family. I moved from TN to NYC almost 8 years ago, and I'm now in my 30s. It's overwhelming, and you're going to learn a lot and go through a lot. Some bad, but mostly good. But it's worth the growth that you'll experience during this time.
Some advice is to:
1. Stay in touch with your family, but don't dwell on your past and obsess over what you're missing. Know that they're always a phone call and plane ride away.
2. Discover your new routines, but don't be afraid of experiencing all the new things. You're in a totally different part of the country now! Take advantage of it.
3. Have open communication not only with your partner, but also your housemates. And, I cannot stress this enough, IT'S OK TO SET BOUNDARIES WITH THEM! It's hard enough living with a partner, but adding other housemates in there can cause stress if y'all don't have convos about boundaries, routines, lifestyles, groceries, cleaning, etc.
4. Find your new doctors, hair dressers, dentists, etc, as soon as you can! You'll be happy you did your research before you need them.
So excited for the next chapter in your life. Make the most of it, it'll be a great adventure.
I'm also in my 30s and moved states a few times in my 20s and am still living out of my "home" state. This is all great advice! Especially about living with roommates. I've seen too many friendships end after becoming roommates and mostly due to lack of communication.
@@jennlrichardson So true! I lived with strangers when I moved to the city, and it's so challenging when you're not only living on your own for the first time, but the dynamics of living with friends is still so different! People have different sleeping schedules, cleaning schedules, dietary preferences, etc. It can all be a lot to get used to at one time. And living with a partner too, you learn all of those things, but you're also trying to learn about the new normal of living with that partner too.
Its all worth the experience for sure. Growth is hard, but good!
Genuine question, is it common for Americans to move across the country?
@@laraschachl It's super common for people to move across the country in the states! I think it's because each region is very different from each other - the south is different from the north, east is different from the west, etc. But there are also plenty of people who stay in the town they grew up it.
@laraschachl yeah it's pretty common. Some of my moves were because my husband was in the military. But when he got out, we didn't go back to our hometown. I live about a 9 hour drive from my hometown now. Only one of my close high school friends still lives there.
Iâve found the best way to overcome homesickness those first few days is just to keep yourself busy whilst you adjust, and youâll be used to it before you know it! Phoning your family regularly also helps them not feel so far away
I am a silent watcher. But can I say as a 30 year old woman I sobbed watching this because i feel like Iâve watched you grow up here in infamous bedroom! Sobbing. So incredibly proud of you and sad proud to say Iâve been here since the beginning đ„čđ congratulations to you guys!
So weird I cried too lol I can relate so much to this!
Me too! Iâm 32 and Iâm like awww my lil sis!!!!
Omg, I'm 30 too but why does reading "as a 30 year old woman" make me feel like an old lady turning 60 lol
The utter shock on my face from the title of this video!! So excited for this journey for you but gonna miss this iconic room so much đ„čđ
âa lot of my books wouldnât be my favorite books if i didnât move on to the next chapter.â is my senior yearbook quote.
Des being real about leaving her home brought tears to my eyes. Itâs hard, and people donât like to show that, I appreciate you and am excited for this journey!đ€đ€
Iâm literally crying at your last look around the room. These moments of transitioning into a new chapter are so so so bittersweet. Canât wait to see whatâs ahead for you!!!
It is a bit bittersweet isnât it. But itâs time for a new chapter â€
The tears in my eyes because weâre not going to have another vid in this room again. So excited for you to start this next chapter of you life. Love you Des
as someone who has lived in the same house for 20 years I am so proud of you Des. I can't imagine how difficult it would be to not only move out but as far away as you did. I've been an AVID watcher for over 2 years now and you've motivated and inspired me to be confident in posting my own book videos. you got this and we are always here for you.
Why am I sad for a room that isn't even mine but love sm?!! im so nostalgic rnđ„č but im so proud of you des!! cant wait to see your life there!!
You and Haley will be in the same state! Congratulations Destiny.â€
The same city!
I WAS THINKING THE SAME THING! đ
@@greymoore86 That is what I meant to say!
Me too ! đâ€â@@Mid_ha2
@@greymoore86 does haley live in houston or austin?
what you said about your favorite books not being your favorite if you hadn't moved onto the next chapter got me teary-eyed !! so happy for you and this new chapter in your life.
That got me a bit emotional too. đąâ€
This video made me a little teary eyed because it was exactly 2 years ago today that I moved from Michigan to Las Vegas! So proud of you Destiny youâre gonna soar in Austin!!!! Good luck we love you â€ïž
and now Iâm crying because if Des is growing up that means I have to too. Iâm still living at home at the moment but I know this day is coming for me soon đđ„ș
As someone who missed "just a few videos" I am shocked đ, so excited for uâ€
This is a surprise for everyone! lol
50 minute MOVING vlog?? immediately seated
Yes!!â€â€
"How lucky I am to have something that makes saying goodbye so hard" Winnie the Pooh/A. A. Milne.
As a girl who lives on the other side of the world from her family and friends, I cry every time I hear/see that quote!
This is such an exciting time for you, but also stressful and it will bring a lot of anxiety about a million different things. Your life is about to change forever, and that's not bad!
Destiny, this genuinely could not have come at a better time. I have been watching you for four years since I started high school and I leave for college in four days and itâs 15 hours away. Watching your videos has always been a highlight of my day and I have always struggled with anxiety and you talking about having similar struggles makes me feel so seen and understood. I have been doing the same and suppressing my emotions and I will continue to do so because I am terrified, but watching you take it day by day and being able to overcome the fear you had to leave home and do it with strength and perseverance makes me feel so much better and confident that I can do it too. I appreciate you so much you gonna kill it in Texas!! đđ«¶
OH MY LORD THERES NO WAY?!?!!! Iâm so excited and happy for you Des!! This is a new chapter in your life and we all canât wait to watch it unfold xxâ€â€â€â€â€đđđ
As someone whoâs a big fan of your channel, but also 33 and have my own family/house, this genuinely made me cry happy tears for you! So excited and wish you all the best luck in your new chapter. đ©·đ«¶đ»
As a fellow Texan, so excited for you to become a southern girl Iâm so freaking excited for this new chapter of real lifeâ€â€
I have moved states multiple times in my life, and every single time (no matter how much I want and need the move) I always end up crying for days once I am in the new place. I have always felt so alone because like you said, moving vlogs never show that side of moves. From my experience, both emotions (excitement and grieving your old home and what you left) can exist at the same time and deserve to exist at the same time. You are doing what's best for you in this moment by moving, but that doesn't make the goodbye any less sad. Give yourself the freedom to feel it all.
as another 21 year old thatâs also about to move for the first time, i think i needed this
Destiny you should be so unbelievably proud of yourself!! I'm 23 and TERRIFIED about the idea of moving out let alone moving so far away from family! Like you say we are incredibly lucky to have something so hard to say goodbye to! You have taken such a massive step in your life and it's not going to be an emotionless task so I genuinely hope that you will mentally deal with it in the best way possible! As you turn to the next chapter we will be there with you every step of the way đ©·
Iâm the same age and feel the same way! i rely on my mom so much day to day
@@graceblondell7320 my mum is my best friend and I genuinely cannot imagine not living with her! And unlike Destiny she has been able to take Charlee with her! Sheâs so lucky because I would have to leave my dog with my parents đą
This comment brought me so much comfort đ. I feel like Iâm doing something wrong because Iâm 23 and feel the exact same way!
@@samantharocha5588 Everyone takes these steps in life when they feel it is right for them so don't let anyone make you feel like you're doing something wrong by feeling the way you do! We are simply just treasuring the time that we have with family whilst we have it because I feel that it is a massive thing to regret not doing đ©·
as a girl whoâs also from indiana, finding the courage to move to a completely different state was hard, but itâs definitely worth it!! canât wait to see this next chapter of you â€ïž
Destiny and Sara in the same day??? We're being spoiled đâ€
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I just said the same thing to myself! What a great Tuesday.
Omg why am I crying seeing this huge change. But Iâm so happy for you and proud of you taking this huge leap
Des I'm so proud of you!! This made me want to cry and i got teary eyed right along with you! That quote is also one of my favorites and everytime I get sad about things I try to remember that and be grateful for it all! Me being a 19 year old these thoughts also come into my mind on when i should move out and when it will be the right time and how I'll ever do it, so seeing you do this gave me a sense of bravery and made me feel not alone, that I can do it when the time is right and it will be hard but I'll make it through! So Thank You from the bottom of my heart for sharing your life with us, posting frequently, and taking us on this journey with you! I love you Des, keep being a light in this world like you are for me!â€ïžâ€ïž
Iâm so happy for you and the life change!! You are always here to show me that even with anxiety and everything we can take on big life changes!!!
moving from family is hard when you love them so much. iâm moving across the country for the first time in a week from now, too! seeing this made me even more excited. cannot wait for this new chapter for you đ
'I, the Lord, your God, will be with you wherever you go.' He's got you, des!!
This is so reassuring to watch, Iâm moving out for the first time on Friday and it feels good knowing Iâm not the only one that feels completely out of my element!
Always clean everything prior to putting away your own items, Check the ac unit filter, disinfect the bathrooms and fridge! †congrats on your new place
so excited to see this new era of yours đ«¶
I also wanted to say, I too live in a different state than my family so I totally relate to the time it takes to process that distance and change. You are so strong and Iâm so proud of you â€
i am so happy for you omg!! and that you get to do this someone you love is even more special. i wish you nothing but hapiness and bless in this new chapter
des, i have been watching you since early 2022 and i have loved seeing you and your channel grow into the amazing place it is now and that YOU are now. So happy for you and this new chapter. I cannot wait to see what it brings and hope austin treats you amazing!!
girl you hid this so well I was gagged when i saw the title. so happy for you!!
I donât know why Iâm so emotional over this. Im SO PROUD of you. You are 21 badass moving out and you are so independent!!! I know you experience a lot of anxiety and I can only imagine what it was like while getting everything situated but Iâm so HAPPY for you for accomplishing such a big goal of yours!!! I hope you love Texas. Spread your wings girlie. Cannot wait for videos in the new house as well as a tour!!! †also question, are your BF friends also moving into the house? JW since they were in the video and the house is 4 bedrooms. LOVE YOU
I have teared up so many times watching this video des ! happy and sad tears cause not many show the difficult parts of moving away from people and things you love! but I am also so excited for you in this new chapter of your life
we are all so proud of you I genuinely can't believe you even got this video up as quick as you did with the stress and busyness of moving!! have so much fun creating these new memories and I can't wait for you to share them with us
We love you and I loved seeing all this come together. So excited to see more and just breathe. Itâs all going to be ok. Love love love you Destiny!!!!â€
The utter shock I had when I saw the video title!! Iâm so excited for you!!!
Aw Destiny congratulations! How cool that you are now able to have an office/library room in your new space! I am excited to follow along with your new adventures! As time goes by, every new chapter of your life is bound into the wonderful story that is You. Wishing you love and light in your new home â€â€â€â€
I felt the same way when I first moved out of my parents house. I literally waited until the last minute to feel anything to the point where I just broke down when everyone left. Take the next few days for yourself, stick to the parts of your routine that you can and look forward to making new memories! Be proud for being brave enough to put yourself in the position to grow! Congratulations on your move, you got this!!
iâm so so proud of you đđđđ just know you are much stronger than you think you are and thereâs an abundance of love and support that surrounds you. So excited for everything thatâs to come!
omgg my jaw absolutely dropped when i saw the title. i cant believe we wont see the iconic background, but i know you guys are gonna have so much fun! i cant wait for future vlogs!
I moved states away from my family as well a few years ago and I had breakdowns about it for a few months leading up to the move, it was so overwhelming. But congratulations! As scary as it can be starting your own life is so fun as well. Youâve definitely got this.
I love her so much, and I cried along with her in the end when she sad the quote. IÂŽm so proud of her! She is soo brave to move and to do what she wants, I think she is amazing. This video is a end and a new beginning. I wish you the best Destinyđ
Wow, Austin! This is excitingđ Iâm going to miss the vlogs with you and your mom together. I love watching your relationship. Moving is hard. Transitions are difficult and there will be a lot of emotions.
the way my jaw dropped when i woke up and saw your ig story about your new video! i'm so unbelievably proud of you des, this is a brand new chapter for you and you're gonna do such great things đ
Girl I cried for you! I felt all the emotions while watching this video. I wish I had your courage. This will be a chapter of your life which you will look back on with a smile. I canât wait to see where this adventure takes you â€ïž
Iâm moving halfway across the country for grad school in 2 weeks and this made all of my suppressed emotions hit me like a brick wall - the combination of excitement about starting a new chapter and grieving leaving something behind is unlike any other
Idk if you will see this but Im so proud of you and your boyfriend â„ïž usually when I see you cry is over books but I am proud of how far youâve come.â
This is so exciting for you, but all you emotions are totally valid. I moved to college a year ago and I did the same thing as you and suppressed my feelings building up to the move. Then that first week I was a hot mess. I cried every night for about a week and felt so lonely. Specifically the first night and day alone I couldnât stop crying, but once you get adjusted and back into a routine it makes everything so much better. I hope you have so much fun at your new place! :)
Iâve been watching your videos for like about a year now. And this vlog made me feel like I was watching one of my friends move, itâs definitely a new chapter for you Des. Also I loved your ending quote đ«¶đ»
Iâm so shocked omg this is such a power move for you. So proud of you sweetheart.
i live for moving vlogs but i did not expect this from you destiny! iâm so proud of you! itâs scary leaving your family and all that youâve ever known. Congrats on your move and your new place.
Watching this made me teary eyed đ„č just watching you for so long and seeing you take a huge step in life. I am so proud of you and wishing you the best.
Des, I love how vulnerable you are! Itâs such a breathe of fresh air!!! This new journey is going to be great and exciting!
YES SIR (immediately dropping everything I just wanted to do)đ
Like reading? đ
The way I literally cried watching this. SO PROUD OF U DESđ
I haven't checked in in a while because I've been in a slump but then today, I see this title and I just HAD to catch up! I'm so proud of you (and your BF) for taking such a big leap. It's very hard to move outside of your comfort zone but that's how we grow as people. I wish you so much health and happiness as you adjust to your new space and it becomes more like home. Your new house is beautiful!
omg bestie!! congratulations!! đ moving away from home is always difficult, but like you said, taking it one day at the time, and what helps me is always planning little facetimes or having a planned trip to see my family or when they can come and see me, even if it's months away, it just helps :) Sending all the love!
IM SO HAPPY FOR YOU!!! CONGRATS GIRLY!!
When I was 18 (now 22), I moved from Nevada to Florida on my own. I went on antidepressants and missed my family like crazy. Florida brought me so many great things though! I met my husband, got off my antidepressants, and my parents actually ended up moving here too! Always try and keep yourself busy, but let yourself have the moments of remembering where you came from so you can enjoy where you are now! â€
Iâm moving from Nevada to Arizona next month!!!
I moved from KY to CA back in October. It has been the hardest, most emotional experience, but so rewarding. Iâm a silent watcher but wanted to comment that you should be so proud of yourself for choosing to do this! â€
but but... the iconic room!!! I'm so excited for you and your new chapter bestie!!!
OMG!! I'm so excited for you! :) Can't wait to see what this next chapter of life has in store for you bestie!
I am so happy for you! Praying that this next chapter in your life goes smoothly and that youâll be happy and at peace with venturing this new place you now call home!đ
Hi Des! Have been watching your videos for over a year now, my sister and I love you and always get excited when you post đ what you said at the end really resonated, I moved to a different country when I was 26 and I left behind not things, but people, AMAZING people. I felt like I had this wonderful life that I was just abandoning, it's 5 years later and I just want to tell you that the decision was SO worth it. It was terrifying, but I have learned so much about myself. And your people will ALWAYS be your people, no matter the distance. You taking this step is an automatic success, even if and when things go wrong, it is STILL a success because you DID it. You took that leap of faith. Proud of you and rooting for you!!đ
on a more serious note, change and moving is hard. but i think youâll love it here in texas and iâm so excited for this next chapter in your life ! đ€
i was shook when i saw this title! iâm so proud of you and excited for you!!!â€â€â€
iâm usually just a silent watcher but i also just moved for the first time far away from my parents (well 4/5 hour drive but the uk isnât as big as the us) literally on the 25th june so almost a week before you! so this is so comforting for me to watch, i watched some moving vlogs but couldnât really find any in a similar situation or anyone iâve watched before/could connect to but i already love you and your videos so it feels nice that i almost have someone to experience the same thing withđ„č
Thank you so much for sharing this Des! Iâm so excited to following your journey and experience this chapter with you â€ïžâ€ïžđ©đ©đ„čđ„čđđ
Iâm so proud of you. I moved from my childhood home in Kentucky to Florida to be a marine biologist back in 2016 and lived without my family there for 8 1/2 years! It was such a difficult decision but I do not regret it đ
I'm from KY moved to Florida too!
this is so amazing destiny! wishing you all the best in Texas and cant wait to see your vlogs in the future
cant wait to see more of your amazing journey, des - the best is yet to come for you !!!!
What you said about favorite books đ„čđ©· The next chapter of this story is gonna be a sweet one for sure. Proud of you!!!
OMG GIRLLL - Haley and Des in the same state!!!đ«¶
Not me crying with you đ„ș I pray that you find so much joy and peace in this new season! We all love youđ«¶đŒ
Being a subscriber that watched Des since the beginning of her channel even tho Iâm 3 years younger than her makes me so emotional to watch her go through the entire moving process and seeing her as an actual grown up for the first time having her own house Des you might not see this but we your subscribers are so proud of you and so excited to continue to support you through the next chapter of your life â€
MY JAW DROPPED! This secret you kept from USSS!! HOWW
OH MY IM SHAKING IN MY SHOES WHAT THE SHIVERY TIMBERS?! SO HAPPY FOR YOU BUT LITERALLY SHOCKED.
Iâm so proud of you Des!! Itâs overwhelming especially as a person who suppresses their emotions too I know how hard it is mentally, but I truly wish you have the best of days and memories in this new place â€â€
I'm so proud of you destiny!
congrats des this is so exciting!!! WHY AM I EMOTIONAL đđ gonna miss the iconic bedroom! so excited to see you thrive in texas