I think the daughter brought her mom there to become her live in maid/slave and is refusing to respect her as her mom. I’ve seen this happen a lot, it’s a shame
The daughter needs to give mom her passport and let her go back home. I'm sure the Nigerian Embassy in Uk can issue her a passport and help with getting her back to Nigeria. If the mother is toxic and I am the daughter, I would cut off all ties from her.🤷🏾♀️ How can you be toxic to your own child?
There are a lot of narcissistic mother in the world, many of us just have a hard time accepting that and acting accordingly. This is not the first time that mother has lied on the daughter, the daughter just didn’t learn.
What I sense is that the mother wants to gain independence and make money for herself, so her plan is to seek asylum since she claimed that she doesn’t have her passport … calling the police is the height of it all, she must have an adviser somewhere.
Some of our children assume they are the master and have right over anyone they take abroad who are not citizens. In Nigeria, we have maids that assist around the house and so, there's little the Mama can do. Nigerian parents do not joke about respect for elders!! On the other hand, some mothers' are not cut out for grandma's duties. They are too entitled and would make life miserable for the child if they do not get their way!!
Terrible. But I think that the mother has her passport. She probably wants to put pressure on the daughter to accommodate her demands. But I could be wrong 😂
Whatever the case I assume we can consider the said passport as lost. Let the mother follow the procedure for lost passport get a temporary travel document and go back home
I have seen too many immigrants do that to their mothers, she is not your maid or your nanny, those children are yours to raise with their father, you are not entitled to your mother’s help. If you choose to bring her in your home, it is for a visit not to be your slave performing unpaid labor for your benefits. The best you can do is leave her at home if you are not gracious enough to invite her into your home and treat her with the same respect and dignity you would give her back home if you were living in her house. How dare a daughter thinks the respect dynamic changes because they are living abroad? Take care of your own damn kids, this is why so many of you who’s mother help raise your kids gets no appreciation because you think you are entitled to it, well you are not, if your mother help you it is a blessing and not a duty.
You’re very right. The fact that w grandma is at home with the kids for her to go to work is already enough help for her. People just need to be appreciative 🥲
Nobody can arbitrate between the two by shifting blames. Some mothers a very jealous mothers. They Co e near you and everything about you goes down the drain.
If I was the mother why would she go out there she should had stayed where she lives at and some parents don’t like the way there kids run there house hold but we can’t say anything when I go over to my daughter home I don’t go there trying to boss her home she runs her home the way she wants to.is not my house
They set the whole thing up maybe. Just that the mother can stay in the UK. If she wants her mother to go, why would she keep the passport? People lie too much these days. I can't know what the truth is.
@Pepstalk1 I want to believe it's a spiritual battle. Let them seek God's face through deliverance, fasting, and prayer. All will be well. Probably, the grandma made noise about her trip.
Ok, you think I don’t know my job?You sound very guilty. I am creating awareness and it’s completely allowed. If you pay attention to my video you will hear that I said the police called me and get me involved, they’re aware of my SM platform. Stop your self hate comments.
We should be thinking of the child in this unhealthy environment, and what's best for that child. The mother can go to the embassy and have them sort out a new passport. Our UK police have real problems to deal with while mother and daughter play these childish games of control & manipulation. Sorry to be direct, but this is a waste of everyone's time.
@@vmat6684 I agree. I'm a psychotherapist and was baffled by the overly dramatic and sensationalist presentation. These unhealthy family dynamics are common unfortunately.
@@lightdweller1 … sorry I am not being overly dramatic, you know how things can quickly turn rough when police are involved? Not everyone is a psychotherapist like you, people need to be aware of the implication of unreasonable actions. You also mentioned above that a vulnerable old woman should go to the embassy to sort out her passport, do you think it’s that simple? I’m very disappointed at your lack of understanding, and you claim to be a professional - a psychotherapist with no empathy? My 2 minutes video is a waste of your time? Well thank God that thousands of people can connect, so you’re the problem here.
@@vmat6684 .. Firstly, I am not a social worker, if you listen to my video and pay attention to details you will hear me introduce myself. Because you’re so naive, you think everyone is making videos for views? You need to heal from your myopic mentality.
@@Pepstalk1 What have you made people aware of exactly? There are no takeaways at all. You have 15k views and 91 likes, I'm not sure you have a realistic reading on the impact of this video. Interesting to see an you make a defensive personal attack on my professional attributes knowing nothing at all about me. You invited comments; I raised a concern for the child and commented on the video presentation - not your person, there's a difference. You still say nothing about the child. As for empathy, have you done anything 'directly' to help the family in any practical way? I'm fully aware of how these domestic situations can escalate, hence my concern for the child, I live in the UK and aside from being a therapist I worked for 'victim support' linked to the police to help victims of domestic ab*se, my work was voluntary... I was doing something practical to help others so go ahead and attack my character as lacking empathy if it makes you feel better. I shared my opinion, you could learn from it, ignore it, or attack the commenter... you chose the latter which is totally your right, but it's not a good look for your channel.
I think the daughter brought her mom there to become her live in maid/slave and is refusing to respect her as her mom. I’ve seen this happen a lot, it’s a shame
The daughter needs to give mom her passport and let her go back home. I'm sure the Nigerian Embassy in Uk can issue her a passport and help with getting her back to Nigeria. If the mother is toxic and I am the daughter, I would cut off all ties from her.🤷🏾♀️ How can you be toxic to your own child?
There are a lot of narcissistic mother in the world, many of us just have a hard time accepting that and acting accordingly. This is not the first time that mother has lied on the daughter, the daughter just didn’t learn.
If your mother is your worst enemy why bring her this far?
Exactly
What I sense is that the mother wants to gain independence and make money for herself, so her plan is to seek asylum since she claimed that she doesn’t have her passport … calling the police is the height of it all, she must have an adviser somewhere.
Some of our children assume they are the master and have right over anyone they take abroad who are not citizens. In Nigeria, we have maids that assist around the house and so, there's little the Mama can do. Nigerian parents do not joke about respect for elders!!
On the other hand, some mothers' are not cut out for grandma's duties. They are too entitled and would make life miserable for the child if they do not get their way!!
Please say Nigerian , not African.
I beg o! Why now she dey say Africa, no madam this one be your own country! Shhhhhhhhhhhh
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Terrible. But I think that the mother has her passport. She probably wants to put pressure on the daughter to accommodate her demands. But I could be wrong 😂
Whatever the case I assume we can consider the said passport as lost. Let the mother follow the procedure for lost passport get a temporary travel document and go back home
Please be specific. Its not just African grandmother. What's her ethnicity? Nigerian.
Yep. I believe!
... sounds like the daughter was looking for a housemaid, brought in her mother and started slaving her in the house...
They can go to the embassy and get a travel document for the mother simple.
I have seen too many immigrants do that to their mothers, she is not your maid or your nanny, those children are yours to raise with their father, you are not entitled to your mother’s help. If you choose to bring her in your home, it is for a visit not to be your slave performing unpaid labor for your benefits. The best you can do is leave her at home if you are not gracious enough to invite her into your home and treat her with the same respect and dignity you would give her back home if you were living in her house. How dare a daughter thinks the respect dynamic changes because they are living abroad? Take care of your own damn kids, this is why so many of you who’s mother help raise your kids gets no appreciation because you think you are entitled to it, well you are not, if your mother help you it is a blessing and not a duty.
You’re very right. The fact that w grandma is at home with the kids for her to go to work is already enough help for her. People just need to be appreciative 🥲
Mothers are not servants. Back home she probably has people who cater to her.
Exactly... She's not a childminder.
Why did she agree to come then.she had the right to refuse and stay at her home
@@mzeemat.707Maybe she didn't know the exact situation she was coming into.
Nobody can arbitrate between the two by shifting blames. Some mothers a very jealous mothers. They Co e near you and everything about you goes down the drain.
If I was the mother why would she go out there she should had stayed where she lives at and some parents don’t like the way there kids run there house hold but we can’t say anything when I go over to my daughter home I don’t go there trying to boss her home she runs her home the way she wants to.is not my house
Never help your kids with grand child it won’t work well the kids of today are way too much sorry to say this
Thankyou for advice .
The headline itself informed me this is Nigerian case
Her mother is toxic but you brought the toxic mother here
PLEASE don't say African grandmother . Say it out right, its a Nigerian grandmother from NIGERIA.
Make sure to say the same thing when there is a video on a high achieving Nigerian or anything positive, and it is labelled "African".
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They set the whole thing up maybe. Just that the mother can stay in the UK. If she wants her mother to go, why would she keep the passport? People lie too much these days. I can't know what the truth is.
If it's a true life story, then this is extraordinary. The situation might be a case of spiritual attack.
Why will it not be a true story? You think I made it up?😢
@Pepstalk1 How would I know! A lot is going on social media, and please, let me call your attention to the "if " clause in my comment.
It’s ok, I get you. This is a true story and it’s escalating to something else that’s unbelievable
@Pepstalk1 I want to believe it's a spiritual battle. Let them seek God's face through deliverance, fasting, and prayer. All will be well. Probably, the grandma made noise about her trip.
Africa..........Why is everything attributed to spiritual attack? It might be a mental health issue compounded by stress and conflict.
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What about confidelity?
Ok, you think I don’t know my job?You sound very guilty. I am creating awareness and it’s completely allowed. If you pay attention to my video you will hear that I said the police called me and get me involved, they’re aware of my SM platform. Stop your self hate comments.
No names were mentioned so it is still ok.
Who is on the wrong here, Mama or the daughter, please leave your comment.
We should be thinking of the child in this unhealthy environment, and what's best for that child.
The mother can go to the embassy and have them sort out a new passport.
Our UK police have real problems to deal with while mother and daughter play these childish games of control & manipulation.
Sorry to be direct, but this is a waste of everyone's time.
Exactly, and this social worker comes with her judgemental self to talk about it so dramatically for views.
@@vmat6684 I agree. I'm a psychotherapist and was baffled by the overly dramatic and sensationalist presentation. These unhealthy family dynamics are common unfortunately.
@@lightdweller1 … sorry I am not being overly dramatic, you know how things can quickly turn rough when police are involved? Not everyone is a psychotherapist like you, people need to be aware of the implication of unreasonable actions. You also mentioned above that a vulnerable old woman should go to the embassy to sort out her passport, do you think it’s that simple? I’m very disappointed at your lack of understanding, and you claim to be a professional - a psychotherapist with no empathy? My 2 minutes video is a waste of your time? Well thank God that thousands of people can connect, so you’re the problem here.
@@vmat6684 .. Firstly, I am not a social worker, if you listen to my video and pay attention to details you will hear me introduce myself.
Because you’re so naive, you think everyone is making videos for views? You need to heal from your myopic mentality.
@@Pepstalk1 What have you made people aware of exactly? There are no takeaways at all. You have 15k views and 91 likes, I'm not sure you have a realistic reading on the impact of this video.
Interesting to see an you make a defensive personal attack on my professional attributes knowing nothing at all about me. You invited comments; I raised a concern for the child and commented on the video presentation - not your person, there's a difference.
You still say nothing about the child. As for empathy, have you done anything 'directly' to help the family in any practical way?
I'm fully aware of how these domestic situations can escalate, hence my concern for the child, I live in the UK and aside from being a therapist I worked for 'victim support' linked to the police to help victims of domestic ab*se, my work was voluntary... I was doing something practical to help others so go ahead and attack my character as lacking empathy if it makes you feel better.
I shared my opinion, you could learn from it, ignore it, or attack the commenter... you chose the latter which is totally your right, but it's not a good look for your channel.