I'm Funding My Parent's Stupidity
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"if our relationship is based on me giving you money, we don't have a relationship."
Buffy McMuffin it's true !
A mirror costs maybe 150 to replace, 25 if you go to a pick n pull, $2000 to steal from your kid in college to take a vacation…
That's terrible
Shadowsmiling to *unsuccessfully* take a vacation lol
The 2 people that disliked this video were her mom and her dad.
Dan Street 😂😂😂😂
Dan Street or or mine!😂😂😂😂
Amen to that
The other 4 dislikes were from their siblings
Kynan Or other moochers.
"Your mother is a Travel Agent for Guilt Trips." Absolutely fantastic, Dave.
That IS a great line! I love his other one where he'll say some dysfunctional female relative of a caller is a test pilot in a broom factory.
It sounds to me like this silly mirror stuff is just an excuse to hit the caller up for money.
This is sad if she really did pay 2K for a side mirror. I knocked my side mirror off a year ago and found a replacement online for $30 and my hubby watched a youtube video to install it.
Michele Nichols - There's got to be something more to this story if she's paying $2,000 for a side mirror. No one can be that unintelligent.
CJ Zanders Unless her parents lied to her because she did say her dad took it to use as a down payment for a vacation that he later lost. but it is very sad and either way her parents need to grow up and stop treating their child like that because it is wrong.
CJ Zanders
She may have scraped the side of the car and the mirror she keeps saying wrecked.
Now their argument could be that their policy was driven up in the long term by the claim. Which is fair enough.
But under no circumstance should they still be expecting that behavior to be cost 7 years later. They do not sound very mature to be honest.
Doesn't matter. He got it fixed through insurance.
She admitted she wrecked it. She's a liar.
Having lived in West Virginia for almost 15 years before(Assuming this is where her family is given that is where the call was from and she mentioned moving away), this is a mentality that unfortunately plagues that state. Often times the parents have no education and are unable to find work and then expect the children and their significant other/husband/wife to bail them out and help them out financially. Seen it happen with far too many friends who marry and then see the in-laws suddenly coming around wanting money.
“Your mother’s a travel agent for guilt trips.” I can totally relate. Best line I’ve heard in months!
Even worse when it's your in-laws.
Well, they are the in-laws of the guy they want to pay for these things.
Lololol “they’re just really stupid”
That CRACKED me up... this girl sounds fun!! Haha!
Do people need permission to disassociate from toxic individuals?
You have permission.
You open your mouth and say, "NO"
I am tired of these parents asking their kids for money. These are the people who criticize millennials.
This is a case of emotionally immature parents who believe their kids are responsible for them in old age. Its wrong.
Dave's wording on how to say no is exactly correct. It's clear, honest and direct.
No way I'd give a dime to her parents. If she wanted to pay them anything she's going back to work.
My sisters are travel agents for guilt trips, they couldn't believe I had the "nerve" to cut my abuse mom out of my life lol
2:00 I lost it when she answered😂
Andrew T I honestly can not stop laughing at her bluntness. It’s awesome lol
I would disown my stupid parents.
"I've been very blessed" makes 70k a year. Wow am I missing something? 70k means u stay at home with children? And ur parents think ur loaded? Wow. I was expecting her to say 250k plus
Exactly
If you grew up broke, being middle class for the first time EVER is a big deal.
West Virginia economics.
Starting out at 70K is doing pretty well.
Monica Haehl totally agreed
Im going through such a similar situation and this has been amazingly helpful!
Stop calling your parents stupid lady, you can just say no. Just say no and don't give them access to your money. It's not like they have access to your accounts.
💯 “Honor thy father and mother, that thy days may be long upon the earth and that it may go well with thee.”
Doesn’t mean you can’t say no, doesn’t mean you don’t call them out on their irresponsible behavior but to call them “just really stupid” on national radio? I don’t know, something about that just rubbed me the wrong way.
I agree. Nobody should call their parents stupid.
Amen to that.
I can see both sides, but people on the outside like Dave Ramsay and the rest of us should definitely be the ones to tell the outrageous parents how truly STUPID THEY ARE
Many Asian parents think like this: We raised you, and now that you're a working adult, you need to give us X amount of money per month...meanwhile, my dad said I shouldn't have spent $9 on his sweatshirt for Christmas.
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That's why most Asian countries are cesspools: the crab-bucket model of economics does no one any good. I've never understood the idea that at some point, adults don't have to adult anymore. Sure, the family elders may get to a point of physical and/or mental incapacity, but short of that, either have a planned retirement or keep on chugging.
She has to ask? Say no. They can’t make her do anything. Geez move and block them if they get abusive. Her husband and child are her moral obligation. Her parents can kick rocks. They don’t have to hear the no they still can’t make her do anything.
"They are just stupid" in the worst nasally voice ever
haha ikr I'm dead ;d
I don’t like her how she is talking about her parents. But I understand her reason.
She's not wrong, though, and thank goodness she's finally getting around to putting her foot down.
Heather, whos parents ask them to buy them a vehicle and tickets to visit them because they are that selfish?
@@chicho814 Her dad took 2000 for a broken mirror.... put it through insurance... a whole door and mirror wouldn't cost $2000. (sounds like she probably tore more than the mirror off, but she paid for it none the less).
It sounds like her parents have this attitude that since I raised you since you were born now it’s YOUR turn to raise THEM !! Ie. give them MONEY 💰!! Duh 🙄 !!
She should not have told Dave she already bought that book, because Dave would have sent her a second copy of it. 😂😂😂😂
I would buy him a matchbox car and say we are even now.
love it!
😂😂😂
I would say, "No" to all of it. Honestly, if needed, I would stop taking phone calls til they decide to grow up for my own sanity if I were her. She's pregnant and don't need the stress.
I identify with her, I had a friend who expecte dme to pay for all of her stuff, and some of y relatives have no boundaries, I told the post office to stop sending my mother and sister's mail to my place, they ain't getting money from me.
"They're just really stupid . . ."
This video is nine years old but deserves a like a comment for that statement alone.
At least her husband is on her side. They need to keep saying no. That's it. Easy answer.
Controlling parents!
Travel agent for guilt trips. Lol. I’m remembering this one.
@2:05 That's really good soundbyte
Just say “no”. Don’t give them anything. If they bring up the car, tell them you already paid for it, so its rude and insulting that he’s even bringing it up.
Many years ago my mother knocked the passenger side mirror off my car with her car as she rolled her car back with the door open to pick up the news paper. I wish she had paid to fix it. She didn't. But I wouldn't dream of demanding she buy me car over it. Goodness.
And why did she not pay to fix your car? She damaged it, that was the least she could have done.
Do these people not work? Why do they keep asking her for money?! I’m thinking they are only in their 40s or 50s because she’s only 25.
The boundary book arrived, I wish I had it earlier!
"They're just really stupid." 😂😂 she's not wrong..
True but that’s a pretty harsh thing to say. “Honor thy father and mother, that thy days may be long upon the earth and that it may go well with thee.”
Doesn’t mean you can’t say no, doesn’t mean you don’t call them out on their irresponsible behavior but to call them “just really stupid” on national radio? I don’t know, something about that just rubbed me the wrong way.
The caller's probably right, but she has a really unpleasant attitude about her parents. They appear to be dirt poor, she doesn't really say why except for "stupidity". Maybe they really are horrible people, but if she is judging them for the results of bad decisions made long ago, that's laying it on pretty thick.
Agree 100%! “Honor thy father and mother, that thy days may be long upon the earth and that it may go well with thee.”
Doesn’t mean you can’t say no, doesn’t mean you don’t call them out on their irresponsible behavior but to call them “just really stupid” on national radio? I don’t know, something about that just rubbed me the wrong way.
But it's not only decisions made long ago... They're still doing it! The father is the one holding onto her past, and trying to use it to beg more money off her!!!
I thought I were the only one who were mad about my family stupid decisions on finances . I thought I were selfish and only think about myself..
Yeah, I hope they did end up moving far away. That would be the best thing for everyone in that situation. Put physical distance between you and the parents.
I need that book aswell.
It's hard feeling guilty
Hahaha... My favorite phrase, "Pound Dirt"...
Oh my gosh this whole family is unbelievable
I really and truly do not understand how people have such nerve. How do you get your mind around that? Sometimes I just cannot for the life of me understand how these parents think.
Two things you can say
1. OK wait right there.
2. OK check is in the mail
If she's a stay-at-home mom and the husband doesn't want to give any of his money away to her family she should just tell her family that he's had enough. Maybe if she had a job and was throwing most of her money to her own parents he wouldn't care so much.
No, that just puts the husband to blame which does not help. No, we’re going to use our money to raise your grandchild. I hope you come visit.
I would laugh the next phone call I got like that and hung up
How does a side mirror cost $2,000 dollars?!
we didnt get the full story
I feel like there's more to this story than what we're being presented.
Boomer narc parents is the rest of the story.
I agree --
Wow, I don't remember calling Dave ...
They are excellent for making you feel guilty...
2:05 lmbo
Sorry 🤣
" UUOOHMM HOW DO I TELL [MY PARENTS] THAT I'M NOT GONNA FUND THEIR STUPIDITY?"
This sounds like a balanced, fair, and open-minded question. Her voice is that of an angel.
Paul D Of course it's not an open minded question. Her parents are abusing her. She's fed up and she has every right to be.
yeah she really needs to stand up to her parents. I mean, the dad was unbelievable to tell her that she needed to buy a car because she knocked a mirror off 7 years ago, something she paid WAY to much for, only to find out he had the insurance cover it and blew her cash on a trip they didnt take. Man that woman needs to be really loving to her hubby because her parents are expecting to profit off of HIS work. If i was her hubby and my inlaws were asking me to pay for their trip down i'd tell them i'll see you at Christmas when we visit you.
Omg her voice! Like toootalllly
Shes so disrespectful
She has a reason to feel that way and to be that way
This advice was appropriate, but her approach was completely terrible. Clearly, if she has the nerve to call her parents “stupid” with complete confidence, she called this show just to embarrass them and get a pat on the back from Dave Ramsey.
Sure, she isn’t responsible for the vehicle and she doesn’t need to help her parents see their grandchild. But obviously they are struggling, they need help to learn how to handle their finances appropriately and they need a little grace. This woman has her husband who helps her, supports her and is on her side, and she is stabbing her parents in the back by stating how “Stupid” they are to need help.
If her parents made tons of money and we’re in tons of debt, this would’ve been different. But they need help and they are not “stupid” for needing so. We’ve ALL needed help, that’s why we all watch Dave Ramsey’s show.
I hope this selfish woman reads my comment.
What I have today is because of my parents....shame on you. Only great people help others. Don't help them, but don't be rude.
there seems to be an increase amount of entitled parents i am noticing , also seems like they are manipulating dave's advice to benefit them .
Ikrrrr 😒 smh 🤦🏽♀️
At least for the parents to come visit her, they should be the ones to pay for their own plane ticket, most times it’s easy to find cheap plane tickets for crying out loud even if it’s the “least” they can do, ya know wat I mean, why have ur daughter pay for you two to come visit ??? Doesn’t make sense, a little similar to how my mom wanted me to take care of expenses like hotel and all when she wanted to come visit me in Texas, since I was stationed there for few months…. Pathetic 🤦🏽♀️
Two sides to every story -- dont believe in bashing family members on social media - low class
What awful parents!
OMG I knew they were black lol. I'm black and my mom called me while I was in Atlanta and asked me for money while I was delivering pizza and she's a Registered Nurse. I called her on it and the first thing she does is mention that she was in labor for 16 hours with me.
JJSmith Lago
She obviously your mother that is has very poor finances if she is a nurse (probably earns ok money) and has to borrow money of you.
Now I could understand that if your mother fell on hard times because of some unforeseen circumstances there maybe reason to borrow money.
Yeah because it was your decision for her to be in labor with you. 😂😂
@jjsmith you "knew" they were black how?
Huh? What? You knew how? ..and why does this matter again?? ....I'm confused.
JJSmith ...it's been months and you still have answered us. How did you know? Huh? We're confused.
Lol how completely inappropriate. I am all for helping family financially if you can afford it, but this couple sounds like they are just starting out.
Good parents dont lay guilt trips because their daughter/son wont give them money.
What's a 'stay at home wife'? I'm familiar with 'stay at home mom' which seems to be 'work from home mom' these days... But I'm unfamiliar with the term she used.
It’s a married woman who stays home, and doesn’t have kids. She takes care of the home and the husband I guess.
She said she was having a kid
I guess my mother would fit the bill for guilt trips over money. She has a gambling problem. Took our inheritance and spent it all.
Although the situation is bad,shame on her for demeaning her parents on air and calling them stupid. I'm equally disappointed in Dave for joining in on her parents and condoning her bad attitude. If the tables were flipped,I don't think the caller nor Dave would appreciate being called stupid by their kids.
Agree 100%! “Honor thy father and mother, that thy days may be long upon the earth and that it may go well with thee.”
Doesn’t mean you can’t say no, doesn’t mean you don’t call them out on their irresponsible behavior but to call them “just really stupid” on national radio? I don’t know, something about that just rubbed me the wrong way. She lost the moral high ground for me with that attitude.
@@dr.dermixgirlmd7479 - Amen and well said! It rubbed me the wrong way too.
@@onehope77 yea for sure, thought it was just me thinking this
This generation has no class!!!
Boundaries
What SLUGS!!!!
Aries
watch
What's with all these stay at home wives?? These men are crazy.
Gambit2483 No, that's the way it works. The women take care of the household because that's their natural inclination and the men provide.
Mark of Excellence ignoring the sexism, I just have to ask what household? They don’t even have a kid yet.
Who cares? If they can afford it then good for them
Shame on you Dave, for condoning the behavior of this Valley girl. Some of these
calls, by the way, have the same voices and sound staged. I am outie here.
Don’t act like a clod if you are supposed to walk with god.
Are her parents on drugs?
Whoa
This Girl Is Really Beating Up Her Parents!
Not surprising that 2 dumb parents made a not so smart child. At least she has some sort of common sense though. I’m not trying to bag on her but she paid $2000 for a SIDE MIRROR.
I can understand, she doesn’t understand vehicles most likely. Best to cut them out of your life mostly but still keep in touch.
Mike Halve that’s not dumb, it’s unaware about cars. She was an 18 year old girl trusting that her parent wasn’t taking advantage of her
Fraud Gabe him boundaries
She sounds as though she might be a brat, and disrespectful. I agree that she should not pay for a car. If her parents aren't in a place to pay to visit her, I don't think it's to much to ask her to help, maybe not completely pay, but help. That doesn't sound crazy to me.
carmella brown
It does not sound like they want help.
The fact they are bringing up an old car incident after it was paid is just an example of their level of thought and creativity.
I don't know about that. It's not just her they're asking. It's her spouse as well. Different if she had a job, then maybe, but she doesn't. And it doesn't seem like they'd ever stop asking for money.
I wouldn't have any respect for them either if I were her!
carmella brown I agree with you. She should never call her parents "stupid". That's wrong. I know the parents need help, but you don't stay that.
You're crazy! He makes 70,000 a year. That is not a lot of money!
You don't call your parents "stupid". I'm sorry, but I strongly disagree about that.
BLANSTAR21 what if your parents are stupid
You strongly disagree with speaking the truth? Let's not sugarcoat it here. They're stupid on steroids.
Agree 100%! “Honor thy father and mother, that thy days may be long upon the earth and that it may go well with thee.”
Doesn’t mean you can’t say no, doesn’t mean you don’t respectfully call them out on their irresponsible behavior but to call them “just really stupid” on national radio? I don’t know, something about that just rubbed me the wrong way. She lost the moral high ground with that attitude.
Mark of Excellence Agree. Apparently, a lot of people have trouble with acknowledging objective reality.
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