Is this true about where “emotional intelligence” REALLY starts?

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  • čas přidán 15. 12. 2023

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  • @Dimitrius-vz7ol
    @Dimitrius-vz7ol Před 5 měsíci +157

    Man knows more facts than snapple

  • @a.r.walker5608
    @a.r.walker5608 Před 5 měsíci +130

    I wish he had his own show but I'm glad he shares the light with others with powerful words to say as well

    • @sunofabob
      @sunofabob Před 5 měsíci +4

      There isn't enough content in the world for one person o have their "own" show. They can be the host but they will always bring people in to help fill gaps and offer new commentary. Oprah's show was mostly about who she brought on.

  • @emeraldkaysgarden
    @emeraldkaysgarden Před 5 měsíci +67

    In my Denzel Washington tone, "my man"...this brother is so intelligent and wise.

  • @mca217
    @mca217 Před 5 měsíci +47

    Self awareness is key. Don't jump into a relationship if you don't know yourself.

  • @traceymiller6700
    @traceymiller6700 Před 5 měsíci +59

    This man is gold, I have never thought about my own emotional intelligence. Thank you 🙏 ❤

  • @rooseveltday6687
    @rooseveltday6687 Před 5 měsíci +19

    Between this Brotha and the last Lady who spoke... those two... Those two right there ma bwoy... Shyyyyyyt ~ they got it!!!

  • @destini2388
    @destini2388 Před 4 dny

    I love that Tripp not only pulls the audience in but his co-workers as well. His intelligence is breathtaking. I see you!

  • @steverobinson5677
    @steverobinson5677 Před 5 měsíci +22

    My man Tripp needs to write a book

  • @clytchan
    @clytchan Před 5 měsíci +16

    If people can’t handle the truth, they’re really not going to like that brutha. Because he hits you over the head with it constantly. Some of us embrace it, while others consider it assault.

  • @glennastokes9867
    @glennastokes9867 Před 5 měsíci +20

    Love this man and his intellect

  • @Shawntraci
    @Shawntraci Před 5 měsíci +3

    Finding yourself is the best way to get and maintain any kinda peace. I took years off (willfully single by choice for 5or6 yrs) after a failed marriage. Now I am at ultimate peace because I found me. No stress, no drama, just peace.

  • @aomojola1
    @aomojola1 Před 5 měsíci +17

    You can tell who is dropping gems, and whose mind is being blown. Overall, it's a good mix for conversation; it just doesn't work when the toxic voices outweigh the reasonable ones.

    • @toricollins6516
      @toricollins6516 Před 5 měsíci +4

      My thoughts exactly.

    • @Slowbone52
      @Slowbone52 Před 3 měsíci

      Damn, well stated. Thanks that's acold piece. Word

  • @Jaydki
    @Jaydki Před 5 měsíci +10

    This man always has an outstanding answer.

    • @CHOUSASUKE
      @CHOUSASUKE Před 5 měsíci +2

      Like never fails 😅😅😅

  • @magneticbeloved7154
    @magneticbeloved7154 Před 5 měsíci +19

    All this man do is talk truthful 👌🏿💯

    • @aomojola1
      @aomojola1 Před 5 měsíci +1

      Not exactly "all," but he's on point here.

  • @RayvynneFitWellness
    @RayvynneFitWellness Před 5 měsíci +5

    Self-awareness saves you a lot of time and energy. Once you know yourself to the core, you can tell if your character, morals, and goals will align with the person you are getting to know. Being self-aware has a depth of perception that supercedes you. It also helps you navigate and sense things intuitively. Again saving you time and energy.

    • @Slowbone52
      @Slowbone52 Před 3 měsíci

      Word, thanks well stated a cold piece.

  • @booboograyson1664
    @booboograyson1664 Před 5 měsíci +3

    TRIPP, ain't no trip! He's a whole RIDE❣️🎉💯💖👑

  • @twinkle8066
    @twinkle8066 Před 5 měsíci +11

    When you know your measurements you freak n communicate that verbally in truth and honesty!❤

  • @ahmorgan
    @ahmorgan Před 5 měsíci +9

    This guy's the only reason i watch this show.

  • @KINGDEVON16
    @KINGDEVON16 Před 5 měsíci +7

    Universal God, Protect This Fellow King At All Time’s! 🙏🏽

  • @dileimywaring4337
    @dileimywaring4337 Před 5 měsíci +36

    Facts!! One of the most important aspects we all lack is self awareness, but of utmost importance is the understanding of what emotions really are and how it differs from feelings. People always follow their "feelings" and get their "feelings" hurt because they don't understand the true nature or interaction between emotions & feelings, let alone how it makes them behave.

  • @sonja4164
    @sonja4164 Před 5 měsíci +11

    So on point! 💯

  • @venitayoung9152
    @venitayoung9152 Před 4 měsíci +1

    I, can not watching these videos. They, help anyone person to look at themselves. It, talks about women and men. This, is so enlightens to me as a older women to hear these kinds of conversations. Just so positive.

  • @tallmarn8927
    @tallmarn8927 Před měsícem +1

    One of the main reasons why a lot of people are so desperate to always be in a relationship is because they can't stand the idea of being with themselves. If you love and highly understand yourself, then you are more likely to choose someone who is right for you, and being in a relationship is actually fun, and not a task.

  • @themambosyndicate
    @themambosyndicate Před 5 měsíci +10

    you guys are helping me so much ...i have learned so much about myself
    thank you from the Netherlands

  • @micheleadamson9867
    @micheleadamson9867 Před 4 měsíci +1

    I love deep conversations like this.

  • @serenatrent6625
    @serenatrent6625 Před 3 měsíci +1

    I’ve been in this trip for a minute of self-discovery and writing activities books to help people learn themselves and their own patterns. My last relationship caught me off guard so I had to revisit my own lessons. ☝🏾❤️

  • @trinity-hopetricia3241
    @trinity-hopetricia3241 Před 4 měsíci +2

    Preach and Facts Tripp Preach and Facts 🏆🐐🎯🙏❤️

  • @trenastewart2599
    @trenastewart2599 Před 4 měsíci +1

    That is so true knowing your own self-awareness is one of the most key factors of understanding how far you will put up with other ppl BS.

  • @robgrant9359
    @robgrant9359 Před 5 měsíci +3

    Wow! That is another level of logic. 😏

  • @honeyisnatural5
    @honeyisnatural5 Před 2 měsíci +1

    I learned me own seasons and worked on myself. It seemed to automatically fix my relationship as well. Finally got married after 12 years. We are better then ever today.

  • @TheChadShow9
    @TheChadShow9 Před 5 měsíci +1

    I like the beard & glasses guy. Always grateful to listen to him speak.

  • @brooklynforever1990
    @brooklynforever1990 Před 5 měsíci +2

    “Know your measurements” 🤦🏽‍♀️ if that ain’t a word❤

  • @jamilevans5988
    @jamilevans5988 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Very true. Lots of ppl don’t know themselves and the levels of emotional intelligence they have. It’s crazy to think how many relationships with strangers are made before the person actual knows what they need in another human before feelings progress. Great topic 🔥

  • @JulindaLeDee
    @JulindaLeDee Před 5 měsíci +3

    Know thyself 🎉

  • @1percentwisdom
    @1percentwisdom Před 5 měsíci +2

    Love this!
    When you start to expand externally from your internal discoveries, that's when you learn to take more control of your life with your choices and stop blaming everyone else for your lapsed judgment in that specific situation!
    🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
    #nickbillions
    #1percentwisdom

  • @MaxineShaw-de7bh
    @MaxineShaw-de7bh Před 5 měsíci +1

    Dude is filled with Knowledge and Wisdom. #TrippdaTruth

  • @ruthcook8599
    @ruthcook8599 Před 5 měsíci +2

    #TRIPP LET THE KNOWLEDGE FLOW 👑🖤🔥

  • @mizzvip3196
    @mizzvip3196 Před 4 měsíci +1

    He stay on point.❤

  • @rasgardenandpoultrypigeons2048
    @rasgardenandpoultrypigeons2048 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Trip is so insightful.

  • @gloriaray3084
    @gloriaray3084 Před 5 měsíci +2

    Fantastic point 💯

  • @vaclinciapounds8859
    @vaclinciapounds8859 Před 5 měsíci +2

    Well said!! 👏🏽 ❤️

  • @herelookinatu
    @herelookinatu Před 4 měsíci +2

    Yep, I'm fully aware of myself which is why I never wanted kids and most certainly never want to get married.
    It's not my lane

    • @Slowbone52
      @Slowbone52 Před 3 měsíci

      Exactly my story you told. Stay up thanks for sharing.

  • @Tido_sav
    @Tido_sav Před 4 měsíci +1

    God gave his chosen ones a will of our own…I believe the brother was also look for the word discernment…discernment of one’s self images before look into/identifying another individual’s

  • @elliotselmon7581
    @elliotselmon7581 Před 5 měsíci +1

    TRIPP WITH DA TRUTH!!

  • @UrbanSipfly
    @UrbanSipfly Před 2 měsíci

    I never put any thought to any relationship romantic or otherwise as TAKING UP SPACE!

  • @MalikLofton-ry2hn
    @MalikLofton-ry2hn Před 5 měsíci +1

    Chocolate brownie at the end badd

  • @goldnaturelove3503
    @goldnaturelove3503 Před 5 měsíci

    A word!!! Amen 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @mr.dccomics9018
    @mr.dccomics9018 Před 5 měsíci +2

    All people know is what they know. It's up to you to know the difference on if they know better or not.

  • @MelvonXO
    @MelvonXO Před 5 měsíci +3

    man.. this man hits the nail every time!!!

  • @dorothy7382
    @dorothy7382 Před 5 měsíci +2

    This is True 😊

  • @JordanClemons
    @JordanClemons Před 5 měsíci +3

    "Emotional Intelligence" is the buzzword for women on dating sites

  • @nikkie_a
    @nikkie_a Před 5 měsíci

    This applies to friendships as well

  • @renaywaterman815
    @renaywaterman815 Před 5 měsíci +3

    💯

  • @CDLCigarandGolfClub
    @CDLCigarandGolfClub Před 5 měsíci

    That MF don't miss man #sheesh 💯🎯

  • @nasrajamila
    @nasrajamila Před 2 měsíci

    This guy is smart masha'Allah

  • @user-ri6fb4xx2n
    @user-ri6fb4xx2n Před 5 měsíci +1

    That dark skin sister 🔥 is Sooo pretty

  • @PhoenixGoddess
    @PhoenixGoddess Před 5 měsíci +1

    YES absolutely

  • @MrNateyboy4
    @MrNateyboy4 Před 5 měsíci

    You have to be social to figure out these things. Meaning trial and error.

  • @gns4838
    @gns4838 Před 5 měsíci +4

    Dude is good, but I think it is what we are afraid to show someone else more than if we know ourselves.

  • @CS-gz2lb
    @CS-gz2lb Před 5 měsíci +1

    Yes!

  • @theslenorag
    @theslenorag Před 5 měsíci

    y'all gonna make me have to subscribe to keep hearing more than the snippets, shorts and reels. #tease
    js

  • @ritawilliams4098
    @ritawilliams4098 Před 5 měsíci +2

    I'm waiting on him to write a book

  • @user-ok4zw9hp3c
    @user-ok4zw9hp3c Před 5 měsíci +4

    you see the self is illusive you can never know thyself. that’s like trying to look directly into your own eyes or kiss your own lips. impossible the self need other just like the back and front go together it’s just what there’s is not.

    • @amari2aj553
      @amari2aj553 Před 5 měsíci +1

      I get where you're going you need others to reflect you so you know what you will and won't tolerate I think ppl who he's referring too are those with trauma who don't know themselves so they mold to fit others which they pressure themselves to be loved so they destroy their boundaries ppl who are trying to be accepted don't learn the reflection because they are just trying to be accepted

  • @angelique707
    @angelique707 Před 5 měsíci

    Know thyself.

  • @lydiachagga6946
    @lydiachagga6946 Před 2 měsíci

    Right

  • @basketball255tz
    @basketball255tz Před 5 měsíci

    That's dope

  • @garystewart5326
    @garystewart5326 Před 5 měsíci

    💯...........

  • @prosmokeprochokeantibroke
    @prosmokeprochokeantibroke Před 5 měsíci +1

    Mirror Work

  • @keanamejia9331
    @keanamejia9331 Před 5 měsíci +1

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @lungelo3415
    @lungelo3415 Před 5 měsíci +1

  • @jadioj
    @jadioj Před 4 měsíci

    Please where is the full video???

  • @greatvaluepookie
    @greatvaluepookie Před 5 měsíci

    That ds lady is gorgeous 😭

  • @Thejericko17
    @Thejericko17 Před měsícem

    The take home lesson is that people need to be aware of their emotional SPC charts 😂🤣. What are your UCL and LCL ? If you dont have that personal understanding then youre liable to be outside of your controls and out of spec.

  • @toricollins6516
    @toricollins6516 Před 5 měsíci

    Where was the lie?! It’s lacking in most people, b/c they simply avoid criticism & don’t self-reflect or seek therapy soon enough to catch these toxic behaviors before they become personality & reputation.

  • @1flyirby
    @1flyirby Před 5 měsíci

    Whole podcast ?

    • @marvinwoolfolk209
      @marvinwoolfolk209 Před 5 měsíci

      That’s what I’m looking for. What episode is this from?

  • @devonjoseph5467
    @devonjoseph5467 Před 3 měsíci

    Tripp be finding the way to say the most obvious shit ever. Its not a reflection of him, its a reflection of society. To have to be the person to find ways to say "To have a good relationship you need to be a good person" to full grown adults is insane.

  • @vernetta111
    @vernetta111 Před 4 měsíci

    Yasssssss

  • @Yvng_Zy
    @Yvng_Zy Před 4 měsíci

    That's a bar if you dont have the awareness of self then you dont self awareness

  • @FergMartice
    @FergMartice Před 9 dny

    It's called "outer awareness". Which is different than "self awareness".

  • @dreski83
    @dreski83 Před 2 měsíci

    the world aint ready for that moment in the mirror...

  • @Ac3Badger
    @Ac3Badger Před 5 měsíci

    All these women commenting how they love how intellectual he is are not even listening hard enough to realize he's talking to them

  • @cmitc16ify
    @cmitc16ify Před 5 měsíci

    That's deep🤔🤔

  • @giancarlohill3200
    @giancarlohill3200 Před 5 měsíci +1

    What is this man's name. I'm trying to listen to him more

  • @ForevaABBIEx3
    @ForevaABBIEx3 Před 4 měsíci

    Tripp and that dark-skinned goddess would do well together. They're very aware

  • @Mac_Raymond
    @Mac_Raymond Před 2 měsíci

    bro be speaking

  • @gcslim2010
    @gcslim2010 Před 5 měsíci

    On God

  • @user-ds1fd2rm4p
    @user-ds1fd2rm4p Před 2 měsíci

    people dont know ,

  • @chef_thyme
    @chef_thyme Před 4 měsíci

    What is this Brother’s name? Anyone

  • @daphanyharrison13
    @daphanyharrison13 Před 3 měsíci

    I swear I want a conversational date with him. I'm a sapiosexual when he talks🥹🥹🥹🥹

  • @hereforit2347
    @hereforit2347 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Not gonna lie. When he says people don’t know “how much space they take up” I don’t know what TF he’s talking about. Sounds like some frackle-knackle psycho-babble bullsh**. 😂

    • @rdkirk3834
      @rdkirk3834 Před 2 měsíci

      What he's saying is that people attempt to move into relationships without knowing how much impact their own attitudes and behaviors have on the people around them. It's like a man driving a full-sized Cadillac Escalade trying to parallel park without understanding how large his vehicle is relative to the space he's trying to park into. When he bumps into the other cars, he thinks "they parked wrong."

  • @tinyking11
    @tinyking11 Před 5 měsíci +1

    He’s preaching to me. 🩷💯😮‍💨 I now know myself as a woman and what I want for myself in order to be happy and healthy mentally. I wasn’t like this in my previous relationships. I’ve been single for almost 3 years and I had a lot of self reflecting to do.

  • @chavonnelove
    @chavonnelove Před 5 měsíci

    💯