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I really appreciate that Robin talks about these obviously abusive behaviours with the seriousness they need, allot of the time especially with this sub they're played off as funny and it's super uncomfortable.
this, alot of female abuse is still so horribly downplayed and treated like a joke
Not to mention this subreddit rarely gets covered, I’ve only seen 3 Reddit channels cover this subreddit
I am so happy that we have robin to actualy speak out for us. Robin thank you so much.
its like a blessing in disguise. The posts are often downplayed since we live in a society where mens emotions are looked down on. It makes me sad.
@@13th.moon.have you seen male abuse
Yes. Not every reaction has to be hilarious. Some require tact.
The "C HE AT" was actually really clever wordplay, sadly it likely came from someone insane
Things can be both clever and irritatingly tasteless at the same time...
anyone named Christopher was given a task at birth ... Chris-Top-Her
You can’t say Cheat whithout Che (she) and at (eat) so Cheat in someone’s balls so there you have it we are all cheaters and therefore aholes(this is a joke please don’t be offended)
Pretty sure it's a joke tho, like when ppl say "why he got eyes, who else he tryna look at?" "Why go to the gym, who you tryna look good for?" Etc
C HE AT the arcade
I love short boys, I love tall boys, I love boys. It breaks my heart that some people think it's okay to laugh about any aspect of how a person looks, no matter their gender.
**s*x** proper word.
yeah its pretty f**ked up to judge someone based on uncontrollable factors or stuff like that in general
🗿
I laugh at short people to hide my pain from tall back issues
@@tibinininI laugh at tall and short people to cope with being average height
I discovered my drug addicted abusive sister has a facebook profile. She's constantly putting up inspirational and emotional posts. Talking about how great she is and how people treat her badly. She abused me my entire life. She cheats on every man she gets. And most, if not all, of her kids have been removed from her. Years of drugs and addiction have made her unrecognizable. But hey, keep posting lies, whatever makes you happy sis 👍
Damn man, I hope you're okay
@@Alpharius304 I'm good. Just needed to rant I guess. ♥
@@spongebobsexypants
Good to hear you're better
if I didn't know any better id think your sister is my ex word for word she's exactly the same
This is pretty common with addicts. Which is to say, while addicted, every addict is a narcissist. The addiction teaches them to manipulate others as a way to procur either drugs or ways to get it.
I don't know if your sister was that way before, but you have my sympathies.
Tell your sister I said hi....I'm sure I can fix her......😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😮
Just to put a finer point on the "can't physically abuse a man" thing. Strength doesn't matter when victims of abuse are manipulated by their abusers into not fighting back.
As a woman who is sane enough to not use Twitter, I wholeheartedly agree
When fighting back almost automatically means he assumed to be the aggressor. Sometimes the only options are either he hit a woman or got beat up by a woman.
Getting hit hurts it doesn't matter how muscular or "tough" you are. You'd have to be on something like PCP to not get hurt from being hit.
We are in the modern age! You can hurt anyone of any build almost effortlessly if you try. The biggest example is mace. Abuse is possible to anyone to anyone.
Yeap that is true. My cousin's wife is just like that. She is very overbearing and freaks the f out when stuff does not go her way. After a lot of piled on stuff, it finally blew up. My cousin picked his daughter up from school and took her along with him to have a quick chat with a coworker at a coffee bar (it serves alcohol too, it is relevant). The cousin's wife tracks them down through this 360 ap that she forces everyone in her house to get. She storms into the coffee bar and prepares to rip into my cousin in front of everyone and the coworker. My cousin has had enough at this point and when she gets all up in his face, he shook her to stop and when she proceeded to scratch his face, he pushed her really hard and she crashed into the wall. They proceeded to have a full on hair pulling, slapping, spitting, and all the works in the bar, but before the cops were called they stopped. She then proceeds to report to the Women and Children safety line, claiming my cousin was abusive and he hit her. She threatened to sue and claim custody of the daughter and she knows she will win because our country always gives the mother the priority, no matter how much of a shit they are. A lot of apologies had to be made from my cousin's side and his family so that lawsuit does not actually happen. The thing is, this is not the first time the "wife" threatened to call CPS because her husband "screamed" or "pushed" back. She has always been a martyr and act like a victim. She is a master gaslighter and always holds the marriage hostage. She at one point threatened suicide and vowed to name him and his family at fault in the letter that she will leave behind.
I once dated a girl that insisted on me celebrating mothers day with her.... She had no kids.... She just wanted another holiday to be all about her. For all the men that got socks on fathers day, I salute you.
Funnily enough, that is why a lot of guys don't do their birthdays or care about them. They can make sure their kids or wives have good birthdays, yet get socks or a tie or something to that effect.
yeah i would prefer not to celebrate fathers day if i get socks
Did you know that women thought up the idea of Mother's Day, and pushed for its creation on a national level to celebrate themselves? Then as an afterthought, they later created Father's Day to not seem so obviously self-serving. Men are vilified for giving a woman the gift of a tool, like a new appliance for Mother's Day. But, tools are advertised as gifts for Father's Day as THE appropriate gift. If a woman wants to find a thoughtful Father's Day gift she is out of luck. Women rarely buy nice, thoughtful, caring, gifts for the men in their lives, so stores don't demand them, don't stock them and can't even find them to buy to offer them for sale. Men can find endless options for thoughtful gifts for Mother's Day, but they are usually SOL for Father's Day!
The fact you admit women had ro create fathers day because men created a system that didnt allow them to be vulnerable, but STILL decide to hate on women is crazy. You were so close, yet still so far off. Your lack of “appreciation” isnt an issue women created.
Yeah honestly what the hell? Mother’s Day is about appreciate MOTHERS or people who take on a motherly roll like a foster mom or a single dad with no help from the biological mother,
13:19 as a dude who was abused by a girl, Robin's speech restored my faith in humanity a tiny bit
I hate that everyone is just like “MeN cAnt Be AbuSed” while also saying to respect mens mental health. im so sorry you had to go through this.
Shit dude, I’m sorry I hope you have found your place of chillness
@@yeetrreet2453 i have dont worry i'm doing so much better now :)
I love your profile pic
The woman that sent a man over 159K texts actually went full stalker mode. She was eventually arrested for pushing things too far all because she thought that she was being given signs telling her that they were meant to be together. Last I knew TO THIS DAY she still believes they are supposed to be together. x_x
To make that many tweets, one would need to send one tweet a MINUTE for over 3 months straight. This can also be achieved by sending one text a second for almost two days straight.
"We're not even dating" "you don't know that" NGL if this is being said as a joke thats hilarious. If it was meant seriously then she's insane
"I don't consciously do this."
"You don't know, but you could be consciously doing it."
how would i not know if im dating or not man she STOOPID SKAHOOLIMOJAY 💀
"I don't live in South America"
"You don't know that"
“Im not in possession of multiple american missiles.”
“You dont know that.”
@@dr_mafarioyt4313 *puts american missiles in your possesion*
I once was in a bad mood and a girl asked me what was wrong. I said ‘I don’t want to talk about it’. I wanted her to push and wanted to talk about but didn’t want to flat out say it but she didn’t push. So you know what I did? I went to bed, woke up, and messed her the next day “good morning! Thanks for talking with me last night”. Because it’s not her damn fault I was being stupid emotional. And I appreciate She respected me enough to leave me alone. Like don’t blame them because they did what they asked.
hope you get through what you're going through
@@Xyb3rAnims thanks. This was years ago, I just just making the point of don’t test people
hope you’re doing better, you’re a respectful person and i’m glad people like you exist.
🤔Although unfair to do this, it’s perfectly normal so don’t feel to bad about it. 😌
It’s good though, that you realized that you did something wrong cause now you can grow from it; As well as be more conscious of the next time you feel like this, and catch yourself. 👍
I read it over and it sounds condescending but meant it. I wasn’t trying to be condescending.
Well done lad, you did the thing 100% of this sub cannot do, be RESPECTFUL. Seriously though, it's good to hear there are decent people
Hey, I just wanted to say- I’m an extremely insecure guy in high school and I’ve never liked how I look. I want to thank Robin for his speech about how we can’t control how we look, and it’s not my fault. My day just got a little better and my self-esteem a little higher thanks to you. Thank you, and keep up the good work. :)
:)
Any guy is handsome as long as he got best friend energy, loves talking for hours and loves playing video games.
If I had give dating advice? Just learn how to make friends with girls and focus on the emotional connection first. Then think about the girl whose personality you adore and that you love being around for hours on end.
Love is real and it runs so deep that it often doesn’t care about looks.
What people prioritize often aren’t the ingredients for a long term relationship.
After all, in a long term relationship It won’t last if the only things you ever valued about your partner were sex and looks.
Just food for thought. Also remember you don’t have to be in a relationship to be happy (relationships are a lot of work and responsibility)
It is often best to learn how to be happy on your own before deciding if you want a companion. Independence means we have control over our happiness and we’re less scared if people come and go in our lives. Independence teaches us that our self worth isn’t defined by a relationship and it actually helps us love on a deeper level. We’re actually able to love people better because now we’re more concerned about loving the person in the moment and less scared of things ending.
Yeah I think that speech was something alot of people needed to hear. I promise that there will come a time, even if it is temporary, where you will feel like you have actually found a style, or feel like you have things going well, and where you think your doing things right. I promise. I hope you find happiness soon.
You can't change genetic but you can still be the best version of yourself through discipline
20:35
And this is why June is, “men’s mental health awareness month”
but it always gets overshadowed by pride month :((
not saying thats a bad thing, but as the name states, mens health *needs* awareness
Honestly, the best idea is to remove the gendered part and just make it mental health awareness month, so nobody feels left out during June.
@@alikaisdead Nah, there’s a reason behind it. For the longest time, men’s mental health went disregarded, and so June was given that title in order to try and raise awareness for the many young and old men committing. Getting rid of the gendered part completely gets rid of its purpose
@@vinasaile9920 exactly. even today, men are told to hide their feelings, and get looked down upon if they dont
I think we should move mental health awareness month to may so it doesn't get overshadowed.
I don't think Robin have ever laughed this much in one video and it makes me so happy
Oh ive seen him laugh a lot so im exited (havent gotten past th3 first 2 minites) his laughs are free serotonin
Put a spoon on your head
Has*
@@gabehart7898 oh, damn, I didn't even see that
@@Cal_The_Stainless ngl dont really focus on the ones that care about a simple mistake :/
I just got dumped by my gf of three years and when I was talking to my mom she was like “I’m glad bc she was emotionally abusing you” and I didn’t believe her till I saw Robin calling out all the girlfriend texts and fame playing and realized she did that for three years, isolated me from all my friends, threw a fit and melt down when I tried to go out, and made me scared to leave. It feels like a weight has been lifted that I didn’t realize was there
Hope you're doing okay and can heal now she's gone
Im glad you found it out and talked to your mother. I know you will come back stronger from that(:
I feel you! Ive been through the same. Happy to hear you got out of it!
I worry sometimes about my boyfriend because he self-isolates sometimes and is prone to switching back and forth between overworking himself and shutdowns, and I desperately try to encourage him to get out there, and take care of himself, and don’t put up with bullshit. Like, we all know us and our girlfriend are playing around with the control idea, I like to refuse things just for fun sometimes and it’s clear to everyone when I actually put my foot down as “this is a bad idea, so we’re not doing it. If you’re wondering why, I’ll tell you why” but goodness if people don’t think someone actually encouraging others to try new things instead of just never visibly taking issue with any and everything is somehow toxic anymore.
Glad you’re out of an abusive situation! Take care of yourself and remember you’re worthy of love!
17:08 that's called wanting the people who love you to suffer for it, and it is highly sociopathic. Buy a vibrator, stop dating, and see a therapist.
Like I want a jealous and protective dude too but damn, you cant have both ☠️
What the actual hell is that name?@@lynroberts6362
11:09 I’m a girl who loves video games, but doing this to a game because you’re being an insecure, jealous loser is honestly something that would make me grab all their stuff in my house and dump it in front of their house then tell them that we’re breaking up because video games are expensive and I don’t play them often because I don’t have the time for them as much anymore and when I do play them it’s because I want to blow off steam and try not to be as toxic as their insecure self.
if someone says "you failed/passed the test" then thats most likely because they are trying to come up with a quick excuse because they realized they shouldnt have said whatever they said before.
More simple explanation is they got a screw loose in the brain.
unless it's a star wars reference
I'm a woman and I couldn't understand when I was younger why guys didn't believe me when I said things like "I really don't care where we eat, it's your choice." Or "No thank you, I don't want anything". Or " I don't understand why you are asking me if you can go out with your friends. I'm not your mother, just say"Hey I'm hanging out with whomever." " If we don't already have plans, why would I care? "
And then learned about all the little games girls and women play. It's so stupid. Ladies! Stop being assholes! You make ALL of us look bad!
@@bumblebeeyellowdragon completely correct
@@heatherbullock9020fellow girl here. Agreed 100% with your comment.
Dated a "nicegirl" before she made me cut off all contact with my family, cheated on me with best friend and 8months after we broke up messaged me a picture of her totaled car and said "you think you get to kill me fuck you try harder" I had moved two states away at this point and hadn't spoken to her or even been in the same state as her for 7months, later found out she had been telling people I used "black magic" to curse her which is why she got in a wreck.
Up until I got married five years later she made Facebook posts about me being trash and abusive at least once a week, then the day I got married she deleted everything and denied ever doing it and got engaged
jesus christ in heaven above
There are those who can harness spiritual magic but she just sounds like she belongs in the Looney bin.
it’s just crazy how all of that happened in about a year (the 1st part of the comment)
jesus c h r i s t- 10 bucks shes an astrology girl?
The whole "ugly people being in relationships makes me upset" is hilarious to me, because they never seem to realize having that attitude makes them supremely ugly 😂 it's almost like there's more to attraction and strong relationships than just a person's appearance. But hey, I'm ugly af, wtf do I know?
3:51 to be jealous of a cat, you need to be on a whole new level ಠ_ಠ
Regarding the "guys can't be abused by their girlfriends" thing, one of my favorite responses (and the typical replies to the asked questions) is
"Okay, so in a gay relationship, can one of the guys be abusing his boyfriend, or is it only because there's a girl involved that guys become abusive?"
"Yes, guys are abusive"
"Okay. Can a girl abuse her lesbian girlfriend, or are those girls lying about being abused by their partners?"
"Girls don't lie about that, don't be toxic"
_"So you admit that guys can be abused, and girls can be abusive. What's stopping a guy who could be abused from getting together with a girl who can be abusive?"_
I've yet to hear a satisfactory answer to the final question. Most of the time I hear ad hominem attacks, strawman arguments, or silence. The closest I've heard to a reasonable argument is "guys are less fragile so they can handle what girls do to them" but like... fam, that's not for the abuser to decide, if some guy were to be like "nah she's strong, she can handle being punched a few times every day" y'all'd be rightfully up in arms about that. Nobody can speak for what is and isn't a problem for others, and you're no exception.
Edit: and if they say "no, guys can't be abusive to their boyfriends" or "girls can't be abusive to their girlfriends" I say "then does that not mean that gay/lesbian relationships are inherently safer and more stable than straight relationships?" because a lot of these people are also homophobic to some degree
The answer is obvious. Misogyny, some people don't want to admit women aren't weak little damsels.
@@bumblebeeyellowdragon It might be more acurrate to say it's sexism because while that misogyny is present, alongside that there's misandry/machism who says that "men can't be weak or vulnerable, and if he is, he deserved it [for not being strong]".
It honestly sucks for everyone. I wish one day more people could realise how stupid and harmful this type of worldview is :/
@@BiDisaster327So many men are unknowing victims, to the point its sad.
guys are less fragile so they can handle what girls do to them
Ask the person who raises this point, would they rather be not punched, punched in the nose, punched in the jaw, or punched in the stomach.
if they answer not be punched at all, then ask why should guys just suck it up when their (hopefully ex now) partner decides to attack them.
@@MyAramil i completely agree with this statement
Say it with me kids; Chasing a girl that actually doesn’t want to be chased can be sexual harassment! I’d rather risk loosing a petty ass relationship than risk my freedom :)
same goes for guys too, people seem to forget that anything that can be applied to girls can be applied to guys, so many guys get sexually harassed and then get called names and made fun of if they say no or try to get away from the person.
@@red_phoenix0570 very very true!
Sexual Harrassment is touching of private parts not chasing 💀😊
Exactly. I don’t think it’s talked about enough. We’re making so much progress trying to get men to be respectful and understand that “no” means “NO”, and it’s girls like these who are blatantly reversing our efforts because they want to be sought after; because they want attention so badly. It’s really frustrating!!
@@red_phoenix0570Ain’t that the truth. I once witnessed a girl trying to pressure a guy into going out with her, things like “what, don’t you think I’m pretty?” and “I can be whatever you want, as long as I’m your girlfriend” and I just sat uncomfortably and gave the guy a sympathetic look. I didn’t know how to intervene (I’m not particularly confrontational) but man I felt horrible for him. Girls can be some of the meanest, most selfish, most _vile_ creatures on earth- and this is coming from a trans guy who experienced the _worst_ of mean girls.
13:10 Ad suspicious as that one sounds, I flinch so hard whenever someone is walking behind me because my family used to tickle me all the time and now I'm paranoid about it. Not exactly traumatic but I still flinch
The most powerful I have ever felt as a service industry worker is a customer I was Obligated To Be Nice To said “I Have a Boyfriend” to which I responded, “oh! Me too! We have so much in common :) “
Some of these people need to be put in a psych ward 💀💀
Especially the one complaining about a cat gettng attention.
@@bumblebeeyellowdragonLITERALLY BRO all these people had no attention cuz they’re dad was an alcoholic and they’re mom was doing they’re best punching bag impression so they project it all on they’re boyfriends who are just tryna play x box and love a damn cat
@@oxos_pass Also because cats are our lords and masters and need to be appeased so bad fortune doesn't come upon us.
@@oxos_pass Not to be *that* person and all, or to cause any offence(And I apologise if i comes off as such), but for future reference: They're = They are. There = Location*. Their = Possession. (They're over there with their jacket on.)
Some of these women need to be put in the BOX!
With the "Nine affairs," I've heard many, MANY stories from Reddit where once the first affair is discovered the past ones start revealing themselves. It doesn't mean that he forgave or took her back eight times, he could have been in the dark for many if not all but the last one of them. That said, "besides everything I did, what did I do?" is objectively funny in it's self contradiction.
How does somehing like this go? I mean, how is it even posible? Seems like a James Bond level thriller.
this is very true, i once got cheated on 5 times within 8 months by a guy and didn't find out til all at once, at the end, when i dumped him and left the next day. some people, if manipulative and clever enough, can easily fool a trusting partner who chooses to give them the benefit of the doubt. my guy would just admit to lesser crimes to give the illusion of honesty, bro made me look a fooool.
9 affairs before the divorce is insane💀
@@gaborcsuzi4504 Person is busy doing a job or something and then the other person just goes on tinder or another dating service for hook ups on the side while they are working. It's not that hard, not that I condone it, but if a person works an 8 hour job and the other person isn't working- all assumptions here. Then it's not crazy to think about a 2-3 hour hook up randomly with other people is it?
14:06 you should really call her out on that shit, make a comment saying "Really? Because I and the rest of our family was under the impression that it was because you were attempting to have an affair with one of your minor sons teenage friends"
25:09 that is the most "boy" answer to that kind of message i have ever seen GAD DAYUMN😭😭😭🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
It IS a valid reason to stare at someone
Yeah, what kinda monster gets a ton if food and doesn’t share?
My own experience with an insane girl:
So this girl came into my school, new student, near the middle to end of the year. Shorter than me, dirty blonde hair, blue eyes, really pretty. I was heavily bullied, and so when she began to give me attention, i was super excited. I felt like i had fallen in love the same day i had met her. Looking back, i really should have known about being touch starved.
Two days after meeting, shes flirty and touching me, confesses love middle of class. Super excited, say i love her too. We get into a relationship that day.
I know the red flags are EXTREMELY obvious here. Lovebombing, attention craving, there is obviously red flags.
We have a good long run, christmas break comes up and we have to cut contact with eachother because she lives in a shared home. Christmas break is over, im starting to rethink our relationship, and realizing im not really attracted to her, more just that i liked her attention.
Eventually, she starts touching me inappropriately in class without my conset, i have been raped before, and so i didnt want that to happen again. I tell her to stop, she stops for a day and returns to it right back again. I break up with her over it.
Next day, she comes in heavily depressed. It looks like she has put on makeup to look more depressed for attention. She begins to stalk me.
A few days after breaking up, my friend shows me to his other friendgroup, hoping to hit it off and help me get more friends. One kid shares an interestm and we are both autistic. We hit it off pretty easily. At lunch, i turn over to look at my Ex and shes glaring at my new friend.
I think nothing of it, i get sick for a few days. When i come back, i get told she tried to strangle him. Straight up. Hands on neckm friend turning blue and all. She tried to kill my new friend because she thought i left her for him.
I report her for stalking and attempted murder to the school, they take some reports, look at some cameras, and then shes gone for good.
Middleschool is crazy man.
MIDDLE SCHOOL??!?!?
@@chaotic_weeb3635 yeah. She and I were eighth graders. I was 14, she was 13.
@kaizacoon DANG- craziest thing to happen in my middle school time was just- bullies- not heckn attempted murder
A 13 YEAR OLD HAD ATTEMPTED TO MURDER YOUR FRIEND BECAUSE OF JEALOUSY? god damn this world is way more fucked up than i originally thought. is the friend ok now
@@A-10Thunder6olt2 I have no idea. I had to leave my other friend who introduced me to them because they wanted to be "transracial" and identified as transgender because they wanted to be a kpop girl from Blackpink. He also admitted to dating a five year old girl, made fun of R(who got strangled) when he wasn't around for being autistic, and also used suicide and depression for attention.
Now I am Transgender myself, but being Transgender because you like somebody's music..? Bro was psychotic. I hope he got better and gets therapy
10:40 when the "nicegirl" talks about how it is basically abuse for a guy to play games, she is not aware that destroying his hobbies/possesions is actual (as in not basically) abuse
bro its not just abuse its a crime to destroy someone else' property id say go nuclear revenge
@@hjrgf abuse is a crime already, but yeah
@@hjrgf I can't tell if it's a reference to how the game was Fallout 4 or not
To be fair it WAS fallout 4 so its kinda deserved
19:28 - OK, we've officially progressed from lunatics thinking we can read minds to them thinking we can predict the future well enough to have prepared an extremely random and specific photo the day before.
Drop that crazy jealous lunatic, bro.
One of my favorite parts about these petite girls insisting on exceptionally tall men is that they’re inadvertently creating a whole generation of short men by counteracting their partner’s tall genes with their own short ones!
I say this as a 4’11” person, it is also weird because if you are petite most dudes are taller than you anyway 😂
@@commentsforthealgorithm so true! I’m 5’9 and my husband is about 5’10 and is actually the tallest man I’ve ever been with 😂 I swear it goes both ways and tall men like short women too!
every time a "nice girl" compains about a guy RESPECTING CONSENT and taking a no as a no, instead of continuing to push or doing things anyway, I wanna scream. ffs aren't we all still fighting for consent to be respected and for no to be taken as a no?
though, those girls don't seem like the type to respect someone else's no or consent either
Every time a NiceGirl complains about a guy respecting consent, an angel gets wing cancer.
It's the worst honestly
I have been saying that since the metoo movement existed. If women took no for an answer, no man on the surface of the earth wouldve ever hit a girl.
I never before really thought I had THAT good of a relationship with my ex-girlfriend, but seeing just how manipulative and vile some people are with their partners, we seemed pretty fucking good in comparison
The bar is low and some people manage to fly a plane underneath it.
@@MissRandomNomad0o
Rule #1 of being in a relationship:
BE A DECENT HUMAN BEING! BE RESPECTFUL AND UNDERSTANDING! BOTH TO YOUR S.O. AND YOURSELF!!!
Bro. . I really resonate with you, I definitely understand you. My only had 1 girlfriend. She was like the perfect woman for me, of course she had flaws and I thought they were the worst. But after I came back to the dating scene . Man , my ex could be f up in the head but compared with the women I came across after our break-up my ex doesn't seems so bad . Don't get me wrong , she was a shitty person towards me in the last stage of our relationship but compared with other women I met not even date, she looks freaking sane lol
@@luisbendezu6372 there are good people out there man and I know you'll find them
18:14 - That girl is simply envious that this man is perfectly fine and content with his own body and she isn't ( "she would really like to be on the beach with her buff man showing his gorgeous body, *_but she can’t_*."). That girl is projecting so hard.
3:30 if your girl/boyfriend gives you the "me or the pets" ultimatum, they're just testing the waters before they move on to your friends and family.
Whenever my partner is absorbed by video games I do one of two things 1) ask if I can play too, or 2) take advantage of him being distracted so I can play on my phone for hours. It’s fine having personal time for yourself while your partner is with you. Keeps me sane getting those moments of me time.
Yep, This is important. Its also important to try and encourage them to keep it to a certain time, Nothing ridiculous like "only 15 minutes at a time" ( I know I can game for hours at a time if I am really engrossed with it)
@@MyAramil I only manage their time if they have something they gotta do. Like if they work early the next day they should sleep early, dishes need to be done, etc.
Stardew Valley. That's the bonding game my wife and I have.
The one about boys having body image issues was a hard hitter since it’s hitting me hard through middle school and my teenage years.
same, been hitting me since 5th grade, hasn't stopped and I'm in my 20's...
The one about the black guy on the train/bus is so weird because they didn't even have to bring up his race.
Yeah that is weird as frick.
24:36 This is definitely a lose/lose situation. She asks you not to get her something, but you get her something she responds with, "Why did you get me something? I didn't ask for anything." But if you DON'T get her anything, She sks."Why didn't you get me anything?"
no no, she won't complain that you got her something, she'll complain you got her the WRONG thing
Exactly, it's called "double-bind" and it's a common manipulation trick used by manipulative people like in this subreddit lol
I was emotionally abused by a horrible girl who not only used me to cheat on her other girlfriend along with manipulation and then, after I idiotically gave her a second chance a year later, we didn't even last three days until she began to act up again, this time with an ex of mine with whom I remained close at that time. I gave her the chance to apologize twice and she refused. Dropped her instantly after that She had the gaul to attempt to contact me again a few weeks ago.
I'm nobody to tell you, dear reader, what to do with your life and maybe you're more forgiving than I am but don't give people second chances unless you have proof that they've changed. You also don't owe anyone a second chance, ever
people like that usualy are insane or have mental illness.
Why is nobody talking about the thumbnail and how ReviewBrah is the profile picture?
As someone who can't look in the mirror without thinking 'Damn, I am ugly,' I really appreciate Robin explaining that it isn't as bad as I think it is. Thank you, Emkay. I really needed that. ❤️
This came on from autoplay and I am not disappointed, also, your laugh is so contagious, I love it. And I appreciate you talking about how this kind of behaviour is abusive.
The one about the girl being jealous of a cat reminded me of when I had a girlfriend who was jealous of my bearded dragon that I have had for 4 years now and went through the entire pandemic with. In short I think that no one should be jealous of a god dam animal!
A bearded dragon? Dang that's an unusual animal to be reading about in this comment section but I think it's pretty neat
@@spidertheo3613 thanks I agree that Bearded Dragons are neat and quite adorable in my opinion
Nah I’m jealous of my pets bcs they got such an easy life
10:40 the irony of her calling him playing video games abuse. you know what IS abuse? destroying peoples property because they dont do exactly what you want and say or revolve their whole life around you
That CD, depending on when he bought it, could have costed 70 bucks. As a man who works for his money and lives paycheck to paycheck, that's painful to watch.
19:13 The only times I've ever used that is when guys just cant take no for an answer, but for some reason mentioning another dude is the only time they'll accept it no matter how many times I say no.
It's amazing how egotistical, narcissistic, jealous, manipulative, and almost every TIME an abuser, "nice girls/guys" are. 💀 Whenever I see any posts, videos, comments, or stories/articles about these kinds of people, I genuinely think that I lose some of my brain cells. Because there is absolutely NO WAY that they genuinely think what they are doing to people is considered "nice". They are like 1 murder case away from being the epitome of EVIL. Honestly, I'm convinced that these types of "people" aren't even human. 🤨😑🙄😒
If my girlfriend asks me to step back or leave her alone for a little while, sure I’ll ask her if she’s sure, and let her know I’m worried, but then I’ll leave her alone until she wants to speak idk what’s so damn wrong about being respectful
Personally I couldn't handle that. I need a partner I can be around 99% of the time for various reasons but if it works for you than there's nothing wrong with it.
@@bumblebeeyellowdragon Honestly same, im just craving for affection.
@Simbyle Uh no it's called people have different romantic desires then others.
@@bumblebeeyellowdragon yeah just dont ask people to step away unless you want them to step away
@@bumblebeeyellowdragonno, it's called extreme dependence. Maybe get comfortable with yourself before you enter a relationship and become a parasite
The fact that the person in the post at 2:16 asked “besides what is wrong with me what is wrong with me” really shows how in the wrong they are because they know it but are trying to get around it
My response to 3:46 is "what kind of cold-hearted, detached, unaffectionate, cruel example of manliness did your father set for you that makes you think it's unnatural for a man to love a pet?"
i've seen other channels that read various posts but honestly? robin is my favourite. what he says and the way he talks about these issues with pure logic and objectiveness and not what society sees honestly makes me feel so safe. seeings things this way makes me insecure (not because i think im wrong, cause im not. people are assholes) but i often feel so alone when i express my views on things and people push me into a corner or laugh at me. so it's really refreshing knowing robin thinks the same way and seeing this community being on the same side
edit: forgot to mention his height comments really warmed my heart. im a guy, almost 21 and im 5'2. and very insecure about it :')
This subreddit is usually awful to look at but I am LOVING Robin's laugh troughout it omfg hahaha
Remember, no matter how beautiful you are, there is someone out there who thinks you are a 5/10 at best.
And no matter how ugly you are, there is someone out there who thinks you are fine just the way you are.
It all boils down to personality and compatability. someone could be what others consider a 2/10 that is in a relationship with an 8/10 but because they care about each other, they look past it.
@@MyAramil Thats the entire nice "other things are more important than beauty" thing, which also has some truth to it.
But I meant it absolutely literally. Beauty has some objective foundations. Skin diseases are kinda universally considered unattractive for example.
However, the range of what people like is still very subjective.
I personally for example would legitimately consider most super models to be boring 5/10s.
Or someone who would get jealous seeing you talk to their partner and therefore at least sees you as competition.
@AliothAncalagon and even skin imperfections that are "universally" seen as unattractive always have exceptions. I had no idea some ppl were ashamed/self conscious and even bullied for their freckles, and on the flip side that anyone would think freckles are ugly and worth bullying over, because I adore them they are one of the cutest skin "imperfection" I can think of, and that skin condition where u lose skin pigmint like vetiligo I think, smth like that, that shits pretty to me. Albinism and the opposite one, that's pretty too.
It's also interesting to me, I've always hated my unibrow and think they're ugly but in some cultures it's also seen as a beauty symbol, and ive heard in japanese culture, cooked teeth are seen as cute, in a childlike endearing way but cute none the less. That whole in victorian eras the perfect body was plump and whole, and the. At some point heroin chic was a thing and now it's slim thick etc.
Ppl forget at the end of the day beauty is genuinely 100 percent subjective, things might be *more
Commonly* categorized as attractive or unattractive, like certain icecream flavors are more popular than others. But it's still subjective and there's someone out there that likes something everyone else doesnt and vice versa
@@genesisfunes7551 you sound like you should date a ginger lol, we have about 10,000,000 freckles on our bodies. ignore the other problems we have though please
I hate how half of these are "Hey, I want you to not do X and to do Y."
"Alright, i'll do Y."
"You're a fucking loser for not sensing I wanted you to do X"
I don’t date girls but I got to have a nice girl experience with a friend once. We were driving back from a weekend staying at this resort with some other friends, and she’s super upset about something that had happened over the trip involving her sister. So naturally, I ask her if she’s ok and such. She says she’s fine, and she sounds mad so I accept that answer and we don’t talk for the rest of the ride. Next day, she comes up to me on the verge of tears, and you know where this is going. “You caused me to cry for hours last night because now I know you don’t care about me!” I don’t know what she’s talking about. “You’re supposed to ask if I’m fine a second time! Everyone knows that! So clearly you did it on purpose because you don’t care!” Later she’s talking to one of our other friends about this exact subject, I mention the passive aggressive connotations, but she disregards them and says it’s not true. I don’t know why some other girls do this. It’s like some sort of insecurity that they just can’t put to rest. I hope I never succumb to this nice girl fate.
Simple solution; you got a problem? Tell your partner. Keeping it bottled up already isn't a good thing, but if one expects their partner to read their mind? They're in for a rough surprise.
I am so glad I didn’t start dating in this day and age and my momma taught me how to treat boys and men. I have always asked for height, but that’s because I’m a 5’10” woman. My husband is 2 inches shorter. I just wanted someone slightly higher compatible because I have a broken spine and can’t bend very well. Honestly. But so glad I was taught to treat men the same way I treat my girly friends. People are people. And people deserve grace and mercy. These people are completely unhinged.
I feel like dating has always been a bit like this, we're just more aware of it now.
A big thing I hate about the whole how tall are you thing is that after I realized I was a transman that became a huge source of dysphoria for me because I'm 5'1
I'm working on my self-esteem and stuff now, but some of that dysphoria will never leave and along with other issues have brought me close to ending it multiple times. People are pretty and / or hot at all hights, so why do people have to make it so important.
At least being 5'1 makes it easier to find someone taller than me since that's a preference because hugs from tall people are great, but I also want to date people shorter than me because they are also nice to hug/cuddle so yea makes that harder
And now I'm questioning if I'm ace because of the hug thing again fuck me it's 10pm I don't need this before bed dammit
@@goldendaygecko7435 our differences are what makes us beautiful. Life would be boring if everything was the same. My husband is shorter than I am. It’s not a big deal. People who care about height are not people who care about the important things. Those people are vapid and as shallow as a rain puddle. Just shake it off. And sexuality is a spectrum. Don’t worry about labels. Worry about what makes you happy. I’m old, trust me on this one. And nothing is so crucial that this world would be better off without you in it. You hang in there and you fight like no other. Don’t let anyone treat you any way you don’t deserve. You demand the respect you do deserve. 🫶🏼💋🫶🏼🌈
God this subreddit is infuriating 💀 but I love robins voice so I'm quite happy
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8:25 nah this gotta be an AI 💀
My ex was like all of these girls combined , starved for attention , acting desperate to receive an ego boost , Talking to other guys to stir up drama , even sometimes insults me just for us to fight. Seeing videos like this are always a breath of fresh air
This actually made me realize that my ex was abusive. He was really manipulative and would tell me to do things I was uncomfortable with and if I didn’t he would threaten self harm and even sent me pictures a few times. That was fucked up.
I'm sorry you had to go through that. I know a lot of girls who went through the same thing. It really is messed up
Seriously, I’m so sorry there are even people like that
Imagine if "Nice guys" and "Nice girls" meet each other in DMs and real life. Will their relationships flourish?
They would both go "ew i deserve a 10 and you're at most a 4, we can still be friends tho"
They’d realize they can’t manipulate each other, so the relationship would never work.
They made at show about that, I think. Jersey Shore, I believe it was called
6:55 The "buff guys" are buff guys _because they spend their time in the gym working out instead of talking to people._ You're specifically targeting the _one_ specific group of people who _obviously_ don't use the gym for the purpose you're hoping to use it for.
8:51 if a woman asks you about your height and you do not like it, don't throw back weight or bust size, ask em about their height.
hit em directly with the thing you do not like instead of going for a different insecurity, she says she's below 6ft? rip, unmatched.
Same for many other things, unless unapplicable
But you see, _height_ is not an insecurity for most women, the same as _weight_ is not an insecurity for most men. The idea is that the *emotional* response is to be the same.
@ the insecurities spring up due to people asking about them/shaming, never too late to make an entirely new one.
"I'll hurt myself and it'll be your fault"
Best reply i can think to this "Don't remember who this is but sounds like you got your day all planned out. Good luck."
"I just got this number and who the fuck are you?"
personally im more of a
"and nothing of worth was lost"
kind of guy
@@virgilmcmath6363 Idk, obviously threatening to self harm is nasty but then that's also nasty
"Have fun then!"
I wish I had this response earlier :,)
Instead I said "Ok bye"... :,)
9:54 Fun fact I learned recently: in Japan there's a tradition called White Day that's kind of a counterpart to Valentine's Day but a month later. The idea is that on Valentine's Day girls would give gifts to boys, but then a month later on White Day boys reciprocate with gifts to girls. Apparently getting less common these days, but yeah.
Bro I love White Day! It's so cute
7:25 thank you! Grrrr! Women would normally complain about dudes harassing/bothering them at the gym. People normally want to go to the gym to workout, not to get ogled. Some people...
21:38
I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again; it does my heart good that folks like Robin are taking time to lay down truth, especially as some people are young and this could be a positive moment in those years as teens and them are learning more of the world and of their fellow humans.
I was a nice girl when I was younger. Dog, I feel so f-ing embarrassed about it now.
Congrats, you have learned from your experiences and have grown as a person, You realized that your past experiences where bad and now are a better person for it. (no am not being sarcastic, its always good when people grow)
@@MyAramil thank you.)
Atleast you knew it was wrong
Dog? 😅
@@LLLadySSS dawg
Ok so for the one with 159,000 texts, the average adult types at 40 words per minute. lets say she was typing “I love you” over and over just so we can get a constant number of words per message. 159,000 messages • 3 words = 477,000 words. divide that by 40 and you get 11,925 minutes. that’s 198.75 hours. 8.28125 days. this girl used 2.2688356164384% of her year to blow up this man’s phone.
what the hell???
That’s like texting this guy as a full time job for a month straight. At 8 hours a day, 198 hours would be 25 days. _25 days_
I’m more impressed that you worked out the math.
How can one be that obsessive?
@@wantedbird55srandomchannel28 he’s just so good lookin
That's about 21 texts per hour so on average she texted him approximately every 3 minutes
2:26
Girl, you just explained it.
4:27 is what we could call a shrodinger's date
“besides being a manipulative liar and a whore what was wrong with me” holy shit wtf
That almost sounds like a joke. How could anyone say that out loud and realize how stupid it sounds? Lol
Its the honesty fallacy. Some people (especially modern women) who preach "confidence" as an end-all solution to relationship problems, think that just because they feel less guilty of something, everybody else is going to see them as less guilty.
That thing where you say you don't want anything but you do is actually pretty normal. I do it all the time. What isn't normal is complaining about it afterwards or thinking that it means literally anything. I usually do it because I know that I don't really need the thing I'm being asked about.
Just say "Yes I would like something, can you get me (insert item here)/you know what I like"?
I recommend just being straightforward, I think you'll find it creates more healthy and valuable relationships with the people around you, have a great day!
Yeah, I do that all the time. Something I’m trying hard to get out of. Just feels weird asking for things when you’ve always been treated like a waste of space, you know?
10:30
This hurts so much because Fallout 4 takes like 30 hours to complete the main story and it takes longer to complete all the side quests, not even mentioning getting the game to 100%. That dude must've been so upset after finding out about all his progress being gone.
Is the data saved on the fucking disc?
2:22 at least she was aware
A year or 2 ago i had this one tinder match. For refernce i am a black male, this is useful information for later.
We talked a bit and asked what she was looking for. She said she was "looking for a simp." To entertain myself for a bit longer i asked what i would get in return hypothetically. She said "you get to talk to me." I had my laugh for the day and wished her luck on her ventures. She proceeded to lead with "but, BLM!" I ask how that's relevant. She then starts saying that because she isnt racist and supports blm that i should simp for her 😭😭😭
Fuckin hell that woman was insane 💀
OOF Nice girl and White savior complex? YIKES
Wtf lady that’s the bare minimum
@@MadAliceInWonderland we have green flags yellow flags and red flags but this is a black and white one because if i got with her then im FINISHED
Bick was like '😱 but I think your people are humans become a cuck for meeeee' 🤣🤣 some people are fucking stupid
do you ever wonder what is going on inside of these guys heads? There is no way these guys can be serious sometimes....
Guys?
@@BrTox “guys” can sometimes be a gender-neutral term.
@@mallowanimationsyt4646Exactly. And also "bro" and "dude"
@@mallowanimationsyt4646 sometimes
@@mallowanimationsyt4646 it's a little confusing cause the other sub is called "NiceGuys" probably
I will never stop being amazed how awful people can be.
1:40 Hearing Robin cackle like that does make me smile a doofus, it does.
Emkay should let Robin laugh more. Free our baby boi goblin
As a girl who loves video games... of all the games she could've broken, FALLOUT 4?? There are probably months of settlement builds in there! Hours of quests completed! Honestly I'd've probably committed murder if someone did that to me. This may sound dramatic, but seriously, she destroyed hours of that guy's work.
8:41 grammar pedant, here. By using "apart of" rather than "a part of," she technically said he was an example of those who are not among the group of toxic men.
When I get a boyfriend I want him to know that if he doesn’t wanna hangout or go anywhere he doesn’t have to- I want him to hangout and be around me because he wants to, that way I know he’s actually enjoying himself and not feeling forced.
I don't think I've ever once claimed to be a nice girl.
👍
ok
I've said I think I'm nice if asked?
Me either. I kinda just claim to be...
Yknow, a girl.
@@Aromantic-freak I'm a pretty loud bitch but not a mean one, anymore.
5:09 This is what we call "confirmation bias." It was her goal to piss him off, and the fact the guy isn't, irritates her more
8:12
officer dingleberry 💀💀💀
I while back I decided to give up passive-aggressive behavior. Now whenever I have to take a course of action I ask myself, "Is this action going to be passive-aggressive? Is there a more direct way of solving this problem?"
I think the girls featured in this subreddit could benefit from giving up passive-aggressiveness as well. Hell, I think everybody could!
that "C HE AT another BITCH house" is a meme in my friend group, it began a thing for us where we take a word and try to make it into a "jumping to conclusions" sentence. its actually super fun to do
18:56
Do. Not. Mess. With. The. Walmart Employees. Just don't. They do not have the patients.
Well yeah they're not doctors
@@June_The_Goon GOD DAMN IT
Naaah that “C HE AT” girl gets 100 points for creativity 😭💀
4:07 *sigh* fellas is it gay to care about your cat
Made me laugh harder than robin, take my like and go buy yourself a fancy dinner :)
@@FedoBlocks:0 tysmm I didn’t think I could be funnier than him!
For V-day *I* take my *husband* out. Most of the time dinners come out of the 'house fund', but for V-day I pay to take him out to a churrascario. Because I love him. And it makes him happy.
Aw that's so cute!!
That’s so sweet ❤
Aww! :-) The only time I _ever_ get anything for Valentine's is when I'm single... WTF?
"I don't think there's any ugly people" Really EmKay, after reading all these posts I do believe there are.
gotta watch one of these every once in a while to make sure i don't end up like that again. Great stuff 👍
2:08 Robin turns into Damien 😂
It sounds like he tries to say something else but all that comes out is *”HHAWANAHEAAYY”*
2:40 judge answer me please, despite me killing 82 people, bombing 13 towns and having 32 counts of vehicular manslaughter with 73 counts of armed robbery, what seriosuly did i do wrong?
"What did I do to deserve this? I mean what specifically?"
Idk just your aura was off
Sure, I committed 463 war crimes against unarmed Indonesiam civilians but why am I banned from Bali?
Robin is out here being the real hero that people in general need. Everyone should strive to have this attitude because god knows we need it
I feel you honeybun lover, I feel you. Sometimes asking with your mouth is too insensitive, and all that's left is asking with your eyes.
I was in a fairly long relationship until about early last year, when my former partner decided to break up with me and started dating another dude I knew shortly after. That still holds a mental toll on me to this day. Although some of the posts in this video reminded me of certain scenarios that happened during said relationship and helped me realize how abusive my partner was most of the time. I cut all contact because I could not take it anymore and I have not heard *directly* from them since. I was told how they were telling people that I abused them, which really bothers me because I never had any ill intentions, espacially not to harm them in any mental or physical way. Still, I have done things I am absolutely not proud of and regret deeply.
I have been seeking professional help for a while now. Things got a little better over time, but I'm still a long way from feeling "good" again, I think.
Im happy that you reached for help. I hope your life get back on track
You'll get there. The fact you have even been attempting to improve yourself speaks volumes about your character, even if it's still in development.
I am a grown man. I love my cat dearly. He is like my baby and I have PTSD epidoes that he comforts me through and he has such a lovely personality.
My partner loves my cat just as much as I do and my cat is always excited to see him. He looks for my partner every time I come home and yells for him if he hears his voice.
If your partner doesn't respect how much you love your pet and even try to show them similar love, you probably need a new partner.
Right. Even if you do not like the animal, at least respect the partnership they have with their companion.
@@MyAramil exactly.