Son kidnapped and witheld by MIL and husband in South Korea 시어머니 와 남편 우리 아기 남치했어요 대한민국 /폭행 하는 남편
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Korean Law is not in favor of foreigners and women overall. so sorry for what you've been going through
im american and i say this: don't trust western women!!
@@ee262920 ...anyways, the Korean law system isn't fair to foreigners
@@ee262920sorry but what you are saying goes against everything most of us has learned about South Korea. So we do not believe you. At ALL
So fucking true
@@ee262920incel alert
Korean law is known to be against foreigners and women in particularly. You need to tell your story in Korean social media and send it to Korean mainstream media. You should hire an international law firm in the US or Korea to get your son back.
so, we're not hearing the dad's side of the story?
@@orca_ball Well if the dad wants to post a video about his side he can, that's his perogative ngl - but he hasn't said anything or released a statement so I'm guessing this is true
The Korean government intentionally pretends not to hear it. In particular, it ignores misogynistic crimes. The current Korean president was chosen by incels as a target of eliminating the "women's department." It is a representative country of misogyny.
@@orca_ball Are you stupid? Anyone can tell any story they want, no one is stopping the dad from doing so. But why would he? he has the system to his favor.
I think you need to take this to tiktok and make sure to transcribe the video to Korean as well! This will BLOW up. I hope you get your son back! I would lose my mind.
Yes, most of the people here came from tiktok to support her.
Maybe also reach out to other content creators who can share your story like Stephanie Soo (she has recently helped with a different case in SK to blow up there as well!) - all my love goes out to you 🤍
@@celinep4625 yes, Stephanie Soo would be amazing!
@@Xinxin5242 Which tiktok please? Hers?
Estamos juntos com vc sabemos que o sistema no qual vivemos está bem complicado mas se vc acredita em Deus existe faça uma oração, converse com ele ,faça súplicas pra te dar forças o restante fizemos por aqui.❤
HE beat you yet HE got a protection order? Protection from WHAT? The audacity! As you said, it doesn't make sense that someone who is not the parent or legal guardian was allowed to just dip with a baby. That's not classified as child abduction?? 😭
she says she was beaten. says.
@@Blox117 🤨 Clear off.
@@Blox117 shut up.
Korean law is not in favor to woman and foreigner
@@peacelife Unfortunately, that's absolutely correct :(
한국의 법은 건강한 남자가 가장 보호 받아요. 자국민이라도 여자, 아이, 노인은 남자들보다 보호받지 못합니다. 그리고 그보다 더 밑이 외국인입니다. 한국에 이민 올 지 고민 중인 외국분들은 한 번만이라도 이 부분에 대해 고민해주세요.
Wow.. that sounds just awful.. no wonder women don't wanna marry and have kids
한국의 법은 정치인이 가장 보호받습니다. 그리고 아이,여성, 노인, 마지막으로 남성순이죠. 법이 남성을 보호 한다구요? 세상 살면서 본 글중에 가장 웃기네요. 개콘이 망한 이유를 알겠어요. 혹시 한국인 코스프레 하는 북한 사람이신지? 세상 거의 모든 남자들 또한 마찬가지 입니다. 대부분의 나라에서 남자는 법적으로 우대받지 못합니다.
특히 한국에서 남자의 처우는 비참한 수준이죠. 강제징용만 봐도 남성이 받는 대우를 알수있죠. 그들은 몸에 장애가 있어도 의무 복무를 해야 합니다. 장애가 심한 경우엔 군인이 아니라 생산자로써 국가에 봉사해야 합니다. 그에 따른 보상? 내가 받았던건 한달에 20만원 정도였지요. 대단한 보상 아닙니까? 반면 한국 여성이 국가를 위해 의무적으로 하는 일이 있습니까? 없습니다. 출산이요? OECD 1위 입니다. 뒤에서요.
한국 여성들은 한국 남성 비하하는게 그들의 일입니다. 군인을 조롱하고, 누군가의 남편을 조롱합니다. 나이들은 할아버지를 구타하고
아이들과 산책중인 한 집안의 가장을 두드려 패기도 합니다. 한국 여성이 술취해서 쓰러져 있거나 난동을 부려도 경찰이 손도 대지 못합니다. 왜냐하면 한국 "여성"이기 때문이죠. 반드시 여경이 공무를 집행해야 하며 남경이 하는 경우 아주 높은 확율로 성추행 관련 신고를 받을수 있습니다.이게 한국의 현 실태입니다.
그리고 한국 남성은 왠만해선 여성을 구타하지 않습니다. 그것은 한국 문화 특성상 매우 부끄러운 일이기 때문입니다. 법적인 부분을 떠나서 힘 없는 여성에게 폭력을 사용하는것은 남자답지 못하다는 인식이 매우 강한 나라가 한국입니다. 한 남성이 있다고 가정해 봅시다. 그는 친구들과 모임을 가지고 있습니다. 친구들이 모여 잇는 상황에서 그가 만약 자신의 배우자에게 폭력을 가하게 된다면 그는 모든 친구들로 부터 외면을 받게 될 것이며, 친구들에게 폭행을 당하게 될 것입니다. 이 또한 대부분 나라의 남자들도 비슷할거라 생각합니다.
이 영상을 올리신분이 뭐라뭐라 하시던데 저는 중립입니다. 세상에 이유 없는 폭력은 거의 없거든요. 그리고 실제로 폭력을 당했는지 증거도 없지 않습니까? 상처자국 보여주는건 나도 할수 있습니다. 오늘 걸어가다 발 찧었거든요. 일방적인 주장에 감놔라 배놔라 하는것도 웃기는 군요. 한국은 여성이 법적으로 매우 우대받는 나라입니다. 못 믿겠다면 검색을 해보시면 됩니다. 누구를 설득할 필요도 없습니다. 수만은 선례가 있으니까요.
긴글 읽어주셔서 감사합니다. 아마도 이 글은 금방 삭제 될 것이며,
조롱과 비아냥으로 뒤덮히게 되겠지요. 그게 "한국"의 현 실태이니까요. 좋은 하루들 보내세요.
헛소리 하지마라 이래서 익명성을 없애야된다.
도대체 무슨 자신감으로 외국인들한테 말도 안되는 거짓말로 한국 남성 욕먹이는 짓거리를 쳐하고있니?
동탄 경찰서 사건은?ㅋㅋㅋ
@@user-qr8pp6eh3r this is korean men
@@user-qr8pp6eh3r 마지막에 국가탓하는것까지 완벽한 한국남자의 악마같은 피해망상 거짓말 잘 읽었습니다. 누가 그들을 이렇게까지 억울하게 만들고, 여성에 대해 증오심을 가지도록 세뇌시켰는지는 모르겠지만 정확한 한국의 현실은 이 인간이 말한 것 반대라고 보면 됩니다.
And the south Korean government wonders why nobody there wants kids, the things women have to go through
All they need to do is do is copy USA and manipulate them through religion and politics since birth
That’s not why people don’t want kids, but the lack of work-life balance in working culture.
어떻게든 아이를 되찾고 가해자남이 마땅한 처벌을 받길 바랍니다
응원해요
당신의 아기를 뺏어 가해자에게 넘겨준 경찰서가 어디인가요? 민원을 넣고 싶습니다.
Hello, I am a Korean woman. Korea is not friendly to women and foreigners. A place like the police is not friendly to women. Rather, ask the embassy for help. Korean law is very unfavorable to women. Even if you file a complaint, your sentence is very weak or you are likely to be suspended. And you are likely to retaliate.
You’re not a Korean women, but pretending to be one.
For some reason your video showed up in my CZcams algorithm. I feel so awful about your situation. I shared on my personal Facebook page. I hope that you and your girls are reunited with your baby boy really soon. It's just so barbaric to rip a baby away from the mother. What kind of father doesn't want his son to have a mother?🙏🏾💔❤️🩹❤
Thank you so much for sharing it! I really appreciate people helping to get this out there and hopefully get justice for my son's case. I agree, I don't understand what enjoyment comes from depriving a child, especially a baby from their mother. Depsite being abused by my husband multiple times, I did offer to share and coparent with him originally if he ever wanted divorce. I just don't understand the desire to use a child as a weapon against a spouse. It cruel and cruel for the baby because hes missing out on bonding time. Thank you for your support and kind words ❤️
@@courtneytheenthusiast F him and your MIL. Hope karma comes quick to them, I hope you get success and get your son. I feel so disgusted towards your husband. He has not been worthy to be a good husband and now he can't even be a good father. Shame on him as a human.
To all foreign girls who watch a kpop drama or two and think they now understand the culture and would live it. That's never how that works. Same for my culture, watching a couple of Turkish TV shows don't mean you understand the culture, intricacies, issues, laws etc.
I don't know Korean law etc. But from what I've seen, generally these girls going to korea either have a horrible experience with SA, violence etc or they end up marrying a guy and then breaking up because they don't realize how large that cultural divide is. But mainly because they don't know the country, language, culture, laws they are very very easy to take advantage off by scummy guys that Korean women would avoid. In some cultures it's still quite common for men to abuse their wifes. Often they grew up in households where their fathers beat their wifes and their fathers abused them physically. I think this is changing, but it takes time. A man abusing his wife isn't as uncommon as in some western places (although domestic violence happens in every country)
And I mean no disprespect towards Korean people, I greatly respect them. My grandfather fought for Korea in the Korean war. But I would say the same for my own country. Marrying a Korean etc born in the west is different because that person will also understand your culture. But you can't just go to korea and think it's going to be smooth sailing.
I'm sorry they have your child, I hope you get justice soon.
I watched only a few k-dramas shows and many do have abuse and corruption too. I think some people overlook the unpleasant part.
A friend of mine watched a Turkish drama about a Fatmagul few years ago. I tried. I can`t.
@@eshtermaria6884exactly face slaps from men to their wives and subordinates and also from the woman of the house to other women below her is very common in these shows. It is acceptable to treat others with physical violence if the person in power deems you disrespectful. If you retaliate then the attitude is you assaulted them.
Not just foreign girls, korean girls are also disadvantaged by the society and justice system
@@eshtermaria6884 I started watch Kdrama in 2016 and what I learnt South Korean is a country that I would never want to live.
-For me it's because of Materialism I though it must be tough to live in country which money and wealth is number one reason for living.
-Second is the important of Pretty Privilege in someone life succeed as a average woman I though it must be depressed for average person.
-So don't think Kdrama are the problem because In all Kdrama a lead actress or actor has an abusive parents or family members.And I see why people ask about why the theme about lead actor abusive family the same.
Now I
-Now I know because it's the big problem in their country.
Bro - my family is part Korean and my grandparents, aunts and uncles said not to get involved with a Korean guy cos they’re the worst to date due to the chauvinistic attitude in the culture
당신이 고소에 성공해서 꼭 아이를 찾을 수 있기를 빕니다. 계속 연대하겠습니다.
변호사 상담 받아보세요 직업이 있으신지는 잘 모르겠지만 대부분 양육권은 아동 학대 증거가 없다면 직업이 있는 남편과 직업이 없고 가정주부인 아내일지라도 금전적으로 불리한 상황 이더라도 정서적인 이유를 고려해 아내가 가져올 수 있는 판결이 대부분이며 양육권 관련 승소가 높습니다.
she is consulting a lawyer ❤❤
Unbelievable how a baby can be kidnapped away from the main caretaker by the abusive parent's family and nobody basically does anything. Sick world. Extra "interesting" that they took the son but not the daughters... really telling.
I also don't understand how it's allowed. I was my son's primary full time caregiver. My daughters are from my 1st marriage, so he has no right to take them. We only share 1 son.
@@courtneytheenthusiastKorean men are obsessed with passing down their trashy gene and they probably love their white mixed baby and thought about commercializing their kid like many parents of (white) mixed kids do in south korea or keep them as some kind of trophy until they want to throw the kid out for new start with another woman. The police probably thought the same so he/she (probably he) thought the baby should stay with the guy. Or, they just like to see women in emotional distress and bully them. Baby belongs to men even though men will never take care of baby in korean culture (his mother will be taking care of the baby)
@@courtneytheenthusiastI’m sorry I know this may sound personal but was your 1st marriage also with a Korean? Was the ex also as bad as the current husband?
@tigerlily8312 Yes my first relationship/marriage was with a korean. he was interning in the states when we met. after the divorce I lived alone with the kids and coparented. I dated when I had time with other people and american men too. but I hadn't plan to marry again until I met my current husband and he kept asking and I thought he seemed very serious and like it would be a good marriage
@tigerlily8312 my first husband..is alittle bit diffrent situation. I met him when I was so young and he was 6 years older. When we dated in the u.s at first things were fine, but he was just too into video games. I felt like I was drowning in housework and kids stuff at home everyday with no help. finally I started working and I realized if I can work and earn money and care for my daughters..why be married and feel all alone anyway. There was no intimate connection too. and to me I just realized marriage isn't just devotion..there has to be respect and love for each other and time spent together...otherwise a household is just empty and people playing house. That's why I filed for divorce. it was better to be a happy mom for my girls than feeling trapped in a marriage where we both drifted apart. that'd why I will always stand by telling women "don't marry between 18-22" you can't know someone if you barley know yourself. and if you marry before you know yourself a man will out of generational habit mold you into what they want you to be"
I keep seeing these horror stories from foreign women who marry Korean men. I heard a lawyer say that Korean law is against women and foreigners. I hope you get your son back. Please get a lawyer if you can.
It's true, the law here is almost set to make woman have less rights in marriage. Although, the parental child abductions happen to fathers too. What I mean by this, my husband was able to kick me out and sell all of our furniture and property before the divorce even started...in the u.s that's illegal and punishable during or before a divorce without agreement. Same for spousal abandonment such as leaving them finachially alone or kicked out beforehand. So being that most women stay home to care for their kids at a young age...what can they do? I met a women recently also living in an officestel with a 3 year old...I don't want to assume her story, but I guess it's similar to mine
@@courtneytheenthusiast wow. They want us to be staying at home mothers and yet leave us so vulnerable like this. We risk it all giving up our wombs for a singular man.
Was this a Korean lawyer?
@@jiminswriter4209 They were a foreigner who works a a lawyer in Korea.
I’ve seen a rise in posts in Japanese saying other countries have started introducing laws to ban marrying Korean men, unsure if true, asking Japan to do the same. Japanese women are being warned away from Korean men
This needs to be advertised, a huge aspect of interracial relationships is the power dynamics, the spouse belonging to a country where your children were born has automatically more power, I even heard of a father, that despite having a court order to this day he can't see his kids after his wife kidnapped them and brought them in her home country. Embassies will not do anything, stay safe out there, I hope you're successfully reunited with your kids
Yes, it is sad but true. Although I do feel the u.s is pretty fair about custody in some sense if I'm wrong maybe it's due to not hearing other stories enough. But, my ex spouse was from another country and the court flat out said when I said I wanted 50/50 coparenting for our kids sake "well yeah you have no choice that's the standard nowadays kids need you both". I hope others had similar experiences but I may be wrong. however here, they seem to focus more of keeping social imagine post divorce and making the parents life easier over the child and want the child to be with 1 parent only, to keep family until totally seprate and family systems and ideas seprate. As if a child having some opposing ideas growing up is wrong (because likely that would make them more observate and a critical thinker, this meaning rather than noding to society they will be more likely to consider multiple sides and even come up with their own beliefs more). It's just my opinion on the matter. I think you are right though it's a sad truth. I would suggest anyone marrying someone with a diffrent nationality to get a prenuptial for both our your sakes. A prenuptial stating how child custody would go in the case of divorce, how many family trips a year the other could take back to their home country to vist extended family, will the child be able to get both passports, will you both be allowed to travel internationally at all ( not talking about the other nationals home country just travel), if one parent stays home during early childhood with the kids how much money will be awarded in the cade of divorce to close that wage gap and career gap they have to account for. Things like this even in a marriage of people with the same nationally is very important, but more so for people with differing nationalities.
just for example: my ex husband and I had this all written out in our divorce and 50/50 custody agreement. We had rules on travel, rules that I must allow him to apply for a korean passport and nationality for the girls, rules that he can vist his parents with them every few years since they are their family. I imposed the rule that everytime international travel happens there must be a notarized written agreement of how long they will be gone and when they will return, if the date is to be extended i must receive a new notarized paper with new dates before the 1st paper expires. Sadly before and after the birth of my son I tried to write up and sign an agreement as such with my current husband for safety reasons and he refused.
@@courtneytheenthusiast so u been married twice already in korea? got 2 baby daddies? or is that the example?
@Josh_Lee85 Yes, my first relationship and marriage was with my ex-husband, who was an intern in the u.s. I had dated people after the 5-year relationship ended. I haven't just dated korean men, I happened to bump into my current husband in the u.s at a coin karaoke I went to for my birthday while traveling, his friends asked to sing together, eventually he asked for my phone number and we went on a few dates when I traveled here with my flight benefits back in the day. When I moved here early last year, we dated for a few a while, and he asked to get married. The biggest mistakes a parent can make is marrying without a prenup, as marriage, just like business choices, can go bad, and your children will pay for it in the end. Also I'm, not sure why you are referring to the word as baby daddies. I think you mean my children have different fathers.
There's a dark truth about south Korea, that is not portrayed enough the domestic violence matter, before the last years the majority of interracial marriages happened between Korean men and other Asians (from Philippines, Thailand...), being from poor background and often not knowing the language their pleas for help as for domestic violence went unanswered, or they wouldn't even try to fight legally but just escape to their own country
Hi, I'm a south korean. Your video title is in broken Korean, so it's a bit difficult to understand it at first glance. I suggest changing it to "한국인 남편과 시어머니가 제 어린 아들을 납치했습니다. / 남편의 가정폭력"
I hope my comment can be of help to you.
thank you so much
힘내세요 절대 당신의 잘못이 아닙니다 한국의 법이 당신과 같은 피해받는 여성을 지켜주지 못해 죄송합니다
I am so sorry and feel devastated - I am aware of Korea and Japan horrendous parental abuse and rights especially against foreign parents. I follow similar cases and sucess. Please get in contact with the lawyer I can search for a name for you she succeeded in getting the daughter on behalf of a french mother who fought for years against her ex husband and family in law ! I do hope it can get resolved soon!! Don’t apologise it is a very difficult situation !
I hope this gets all the attention it needs to help out in your situation. I can't imagine how horrible and lonely you must feel when even the system doesn't protect you. I'm sending all my love and prayers for things to get better real soon and for your reunion with your son❤
thank you so much! It has felt very lonely, rather than helping the court let my husband tiwst the laws to benfit himself, and kicked me out of our shared home for the 1 incident where I defended myself against him. I had told the police he was staying at his mother's willingly for 1.5 months and that kicking me out of our residence where I had been staying alone during that time would leave me homeless and that it was only him using the system to sell the apartment and all our marital property while I was kicked out. They rejected my Civil claim even though I had picture proof of him already seeling our furniture the very next day. I felt very alone as if nobody cared about neither myself or my son. I was very scared at the time. Luckily I had 1 family member who was able to give me 1k for a temporary studio deposit until this is fixed, but finding apartments with that low of a deposit is non existent here...so the law system pretty much knew I had no savings, no support and their answer was basically to be on the street or go to a women's shelter. that was it. I just feel as if it could have been handled with more humanity that that. but I've put aside my anger about the situation, and simply want to see my son again
Hello, I'm from Brazil, we just found out about your story, I was really sad to hear this, no mother deserves to go through all this suffering, especially after carrying a child for months, it's a really fragile moment in women's lives, you should have had more support, this is really annoying :(
If this story reaches the international media, maybe you can be even more successful in your process and force the Korean justice system to do the right thing and help you.
I hope you get custody of your child, we are rooting for you and we are on your side too, everything will be fine Courtney!!! 🙌🏻💗
shared and tagged I'm so sorry. abusers are the worst most awful kind of people. rooting for you mama. don't ever worry about feeling you're bothering them, you're fighting for your child. if that man abused you he's likely to abuse your child too one day. don't stop fighting you've got this
Thank you for this ❤️ I have felt as if im seen as a inconvenience, rather than worried parent (as one should be when their child is ripped from them). I'm trying to wait patiently and hope the court makes the right choice. Thank you for sharing this!
Please get a hold of the embassy from your country. That seems to be the only thing really helping
she did. but there's some legal issues :(
It is so heartbreaking to see this. What an incredible situation. I can feel your love towards your son. I hope you reunite with him soon.
thank you, I hope your son is reunited with you soon. I was hesitant to post a video about my Son's case, but seeing your bravery in doing so made me get the courage to. So thank you!
Hi, I'm Korean, and I want to say sorry on behalf of my country. I also think what you suffered is a big problem in Korea but the situation is changing too slowly right now. Is there anything I can help?
I'm here to support you from tiktok! I CANNOT imagine how desperate and distressed you must feel 😢
So someone did add it on tic tok? I just finally got a tic tok account made, and the app working on my tablet atleast. So I will try to add more content there too about my son's case. Whoever covered it on tic tok God bless them!
@@courtneytheenthusiastyeah, there is a girl ( @ law_and_musicc) who has shared your situation
The country is broken. I as a woman would not go there especially hearing of how they treat women
I moved to the UK from Korea because I felt like Korean law didn’t really try to protect women.. I was sexually assaulted and and got attacked twice going home at night, I didn’t feel safe in my own country so I had to move somewhere, and now I’m happier here, although it’s not perfect here either. Hope you get to meet your son soon, if you need any translation(Korean to English, vice versa) plz let me know!
@yl7164 I'm so sorry you went through that, do you feel safer there now? I hope the Uk is a better and safer environment for you. It's sad when someone has to leave the place they grew up because the laws don't protect half the population
SHAME ON POLICE WHO ARE USELESS. SHAME ON THEM. GOOD KOREAN POLICE, NOW U WILL BE THE SHAME OF KOREA.
Maybe you can try to reach out to this Korean- American youtuber, Stephanie Soo. She may be able to cover your story and help to spread awareness or get your story across. She has done it a few times and some international cases too. Really hope you get to reunite with your son again! For now, please stay strong! 🫂 ❤️
It’s good to expose it so public can help as well as shaming them keep vlogging only the internet can help
미친 배우자 때문에 이 사람만 고생하네
Hello, I'm Korean. I think it's a difficult video, so when I interpret it with a translator, I can't know exactly what it is. I guess you're raising violence and babies on your husband's side. Photo, text. If you file a lawsuit through a lawyer with the content, the baby needs to be raised by the mother to be healthy, so she can win. There may be a lack of interpretation. Cheer up and have a good result ~
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What kind of idiot thinks only a mom is needed to raise a kid. Are single dad's unqualified to raise a kid? Also, There is always two sides to every divorce story.
@@jaep7800clearly the dad is abusive here, so the mother should be raising the kid. Also the comment never said that men cant be single dads.
@jaep7800 The poster's comment suggested that English wasn't their first language and they were trying to make sense of the situation being explained, so we should understand the poster's comment with that context in mind. I don't think they were wholesale saying what you think they thought.
@@jaep7800are you purposely trying to be slow and ignorant here? They never said Dads can’t raise children, they’re literally trying to help a woman in an abusive relationship get their child back from their abuser. The only reason you’re making this a problem is because you’re also an abusive man
@@jaep7800 You're lookin like a real idiot rn lol 😂 u have no media literacy
I just watched your story through Dark Asia with Megan. I hope you get your son back and you get the justice you deserve. Fighting!
I hope you get back together with your children. I'm pretty sure that they need you. Guy like him can't raise kids properly😢
Gosh I literally cried watching this. I am sending you all the hugs.
Foreigner parents don't fair well in SK. Unfortunately it's smarter to not have kids with a Korean because of it. I've heard so many heartbreaking stories like this. As a mother I can't imagine. I'm so sorry.
Girl, you need midia!!
It’s Olympics time, find way to expose your story to someone famous.
Korea loves to maintain a “image”, they will do something if there is pressure enough.
Hope you will embrace your kid in your arms soon. 😢
I am not sure in your case but I have heard its very common for an abusive partner to kidnap their own child as a further way to abuse and control their partner. I cant help but think they don’t care for their child they are just trying to abuse more.
Hi Courtney. I just saw your interview on Megan's channel. You're very strong. I was crying watching the interview... Stay strong... You will get your son back ❤
I saw this in megan's youtube channel, please please you need more people talking about it. I hope Stephanie Soo see this too!
im so sorry this is happened to you, every mother deserves to be with her child. please let us know how we can help
Every child does deserve to be with their mother, especially during this time in their lives ❤️ Thank you for the support, although I'm not sure how you can help, I appreciate the support! Please share this with anyone you can to just open it. Maybe then it will get enough attention to speed up my case for my son. Thank you so much!
OMG he is a baby too , that's so hard on a mom and baby! wow
I've been dealing with IPCA since 2016 when my ex-wife took my son to Seoul and stayed there. It's not a gender thing... there are a lot more dads that are going through this and we get the same treatment, if not worse. No, it's a cultural thing and there's way too much ambivalence in Korean society when it comes to custody issues. Bottom line is, Koreans still don't see this as the huge societal issue that it is and just shrug it off as a domestic issue. I wish you God speed and hope you can reunite with your precious babies soon.
@edjhkim79 I'm so sorry you are going through this. You must miss your son dearly. I hope you are able to be reunited with him soon. I do agree, society just doesn't see if as a public matter, but rather family matter to be dealt within private and if you bring it up people reply with shrugs or uncomfortable reactions. The ones hurt most in these cases Re the children deprived from their parents being in their lives. I will keep you and your son in my thoughts
@@courtneytheenthusiast Thank you. You know, we have a very small group of people in Korea dedicated to fighting Parental Alienation and Parental Child Abduction. If you are interested in joining, please let me know. There are several American parents in the group as well and I think some of our stories and efforts may be of use or interest to you. All I can say is trying to navigate and rely on the Korean Court system is very difficult and frustrating. I am also shocked to hear that the Courts are not complying with your petition to have your baby returned because all the reasons you stated are the exact reasons my ex's lawyers used against me, as a dad, to argue why she should have primary custody. Also, you should be aware that even IF you win and get a court order for your son's return, enforcement is a whole 'nother animal...
@edjhkim79 I would love to know more about the group. Yes, the court system here is very hard to navigate. I believe that they primarily always side with the Korean citizen in most cases just to save themselves from a headache. But I will not give up ok my son's return. I told my daughters we have to stay strong if we want to see their baby brother again. I am also suprised they sided with him. I even filed petitions to prove he got me kicked out of our shared residence only to sell the apartment and our belongings while I'm kicked out, yet the family court allowed it. It feels as if the court system lacks empathy to be honest.
I watched a documentary about a French mom going through the same thing some weeks ago. Maybe you can find it on youtube? The only thing I can think of is all of you parents going through the same thing teaming up. Separately, you don't seem to stand a chance. I hope it get resolved soon. Her daughter was turned against her so that she does not even want to see her. I hope it does not happen to you. Courage!
I can’t imagine how hard it is to be separated from him. I’m so sorry. What a nightmare of a MIL. I hope you get him back as soon as possible.
Thank you so much ❤️ it has been hard, but so much time has passed now, I have come to terms with the fact I missed all of my son's baby bonding time, and that I'll just have to try to make up for it with his years coming up
This needs to be publicized more. International community needs to see how abusive Korean men are & what real Korea is like. This is so unjust!
I suggest contacting a woman’s rights organisation to help you with the legal matters and publicity
My dearest friend...this is Jeannie Figueroa.... I wish I could find a way to help you better. You are doing a great job.....you should have all the support..... I am here for you and looking for ways to help you.
@reynaldofigueroa3372 HI, it's been so long my friend! I hope you have been well. I am doing my best and hope this is all a distant memory one day
I'm so sorry this happened to you. I hope it goes out well😢 have you contacted the US embassy yet? Also, send your story to the press(KBS, SBS, MBC, JTBC and so on..maybe foreign press too) it might help and capture all the abusive kkt/messages.
It’s so telling that they ONLY took your son, I hope you can reunite with your family soon and hopefully get out of there ASAP
@michellelee8933 I will admit, I do think the grandparents only want him for government money and also because he's a boy. however my 2 girls are from me first marriage years ago. So he doesn't have custody of my girls. It's just sad to see a step dad literally sell all my girls stuff and kick them out of the house before the divorce with no backup of where to live. it shows how immature and inhumane he can me. Even if I hated someone I wouldn't kick their children out onto the street, step kids are still children and being a step parent means you need to have those children as a basic priority too as an adult caregiver
This is so annoying and heartbreaking. Why would they take a baby away from his mother? Your mother-in-law is not a good person!
God has everything figured out. And He does care about you AND your children. My heart hurts for you but I will be praying for you 🙏🏻 prayer is the most powerful weapon
Thank you so much ❤️ at God's pace
Honestly... Korea ain't a good place for women. It will be a tough progress, stay strong😢 I wish you good luck.
How is this possible?! This should be illegal!! I hope this all sorted and you get your son back! Kids need their moms! Honestly this video is hard to watch.. Im so sorry this happened to you
In South Korea, it often seems like the abuser receives more support, with laws that tend to favor them, it's especially difficult for foreigners. I'm really sorry to hear that you and your children are going through this. They want to complain that birth rates are dropping, if you don't respect and protect women of course the birth rates are going to drop. What woman would want to have children there seeing the things that women have to go through? domestic abuse is a huge issue there and not taken seriously enough.
Leaving a comment here also for engagement. This is so heartbreaking, sending hugs!
Sorry you had to go throught such treatments, hope things work out for you in a foreign country.
This is terrifying! I hope you get the help you deserve I hope this goes viral.
Hello, you are a very beautiful and strong lady. I don’t really know what I can do to help but I would like to send you strength, courage, positive energy and I pray for your son to be in your care really soon ! 🙏🙏
Came here from TikTok, I hope you get your son back soon.😢
I really hope everything goes well for you.. maybe consider adding korean subtitles for korean people who wish to understand?? Im korean and would like to help translate this video
Do NOT have children in a foreign land with a foreign man! This happens all the time and their is no legal system on the side of the mothers in these places. I know this does not help you, and I'm so sorry for what you are going through, and what you've been through. If this helps anyone thinking about getting involved in countries where men have more rights than women, societally and/or legally where it's very difficult to recover your children should the men decide they want them, hopefully this comment and your video will give them pause. I know people want to say the US societally prefers men, but the courts prove otherwise when it comes to PTO and custody matters. In Korea you have a greater chance of getting some sort of custody of your son than in the middle east. But it's still an unfair challenge.
This showed up in my TikTok. I am so sorry you are dealing with this, may you be able to get through this safely and see your son soon
i hope you get full custody of your son real soon. sending you lots of love and don't loose hope.
Hang on a little longer dear, I am sure you'll get back your son sooner .You are one of the strongest mom I've ever seen and your kids will be super proud of their precious mom!!!
May god give you strength and happiness
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@reshma1544 Thank you for this ❤️ I was up late bc I can't sleep...feeling a bit down thinking about the month ahead before court
..but seeing this cheered me up. Bless you
I'm so sorry this has happened to you, I hope you can get your babies back😢
Women all around the world needs to hear the "korean men talk", avoid them at all cost
I just found this channel now, hope you get your son back 😢😢🎉
I’m so so sorry… I hope you’ll get justice! 🙏🏼💫
Thank you so much!
Did you try getting help from the Embassy? I will be praying for you to get your child back and leave South Korea 🙏🏻
Your video just showed up on my recommendations. Your situation is so unfortunate. I hope and pray you get your son back soon!!
To all the Koreans supporting her, thank you so much. As a foreign woman living in Korea, I feel welcome here and love your warmth and humour. Thank you for acknowledging that there are structural issues (as in many countries), instead of blaming or looking down on us. I hope that we can also support human rights of women and other groups here ❤
Hello Courtney im sorry this happened and is happening to you. I dont know you but i hope this gonna reach more people. Justice!
I'm so sorry, this is happening to you. I'm sorry for all the abuse you went through with your ex-husband. Is there a news media you can contact? Or a divorce group that can help you who's going through the same thing?
Courtney….i hope and pray that you get your son back. Don’t give up. Fighting!!!
I am from Trinidad and Tobago 🇹🇹 This video showed up on my YT recommendations. I’m so sorry you’re going through this and i manifest it be resolved favorably for you soon 🙏🏾 take care of yourself and keep fighting ❤️
My heart goes out to you, missing your baby and dealing with such a misogynistic system and as a foreigner, making the situation more difficult .I hope that you are able to see your baby soon.
How are your legal fees? Would a GoFundMe be useful?
@RowUUUU Thank you so much! It's been hard but I like to think the end of this is almost near and I hope I'll hold my baby boy soon
@@RowUUUU I do have a gofund me my grandmother set up, I will put the link under my next youtube or bio
@RowUUUU legal fees a
we're over 7.5 k . The biggest issue right now is finding jobs in the city we are in. The girls school off time always collides and nobody will hire me in this city because of it. so my grandmother is trying to help finachially to keep us afloat until we find out my son's verdict so we can either go back home where family support is and start over strong and I can get a nice job and apartment there. or start over here if the court forces us to stay to be with my son
@@courtneytheenthusiast I hope for the best outcome for you and your children, so that you can be together in a safe environment with all the support that you need. I will make sure to keep an eye out for your next videos and help out with what I can!
I am so sorry that you are enduring such abuse and distress, may you get reunited with your children very swiftly and get yourselves away from that evil man and his evil mother. you are believed
Rooting for you and praying ng for you!!!! Lord, please help Courtney be reunited with her little boy. I pray you grant her complete victory in court soon! You are not alone girl, there are people praying for you and rooting for you! ❤
I saw your story on TikTok. I shared it! I hope you get your baby back and I hope you never have to deal with then ever again.
Thank you so much ❤️
So sorry to hear what happened to you and the abuse. I pray for you and your children's happiness. 🙏🙏
A friend of mine is going through a similar situation with her Korean husband, girls I hope hope hope this works out for both of you i’ll keep you in my thoughts and prayers. The solution is to speak up publicly about this so it gets known, thank you for your courage. ❤️
I'm so sorry she is going through this, nobody should be treated this way. Korea needs to stop calling these things "family issues" because it reinforces to perpetrators that their actions are reasonable and just typical in a family settling, instead of calling it what it is, abuse
I'm here after watching the video Dark Asia with Megan made about your story. It's terrible situation. I only wish the best for you and that you will be with your son very soon.
Call out the family names list there pictures so other people can see them
Korea has horrible laws and she would be sued for sharing their names.
this is horrible!!! IS there anything we can do to help?
It's hard to get the court to move quickly on the case, as the court system here is very slow, but sharing this and having people veiw it might help. I tagged the court, I'm hoping if those gets enough attention it might motivate them to work more actively on my son's case. Please share with any friends or family who can veiw it. I appreciate you!
Just find out your case from Dark Asia With Megan, listening to your case really makes me sad and frustrated, i do really hope you'll reunited with your baby boy soon 😢
Is there some way for you to get in contact with Attorney Kim Jae-Ryeon? She helped get Agathe Drancourt’s daughter back. Or could you get in contact with Dr. Song Mikang of the “Parental Alienation Awareness Korea” organization? I don’t know these people personally but I hear their names being shared by user november13 (the man with the treadmill) who also has insta.
Have you contacted the US Embassy/Consulate? Unless you renounced your citizenship, if you were born in the US, the baby is an American citizen. You may be able to get our government involved here to advocate for you. Maybe you can contact US news outlets about the situation to generate more publicity and scrutiny on the SK police actions/government.
keep making videos telling everyone your story. People will support you!
Stay strong, you got this!
Thank you
This is a fucked up situation through and through. Every day I’m just learning how awful the situation for women in Korea is. Just look at the abuse case of Tzuyang recently. I’ll be following you and praying that you get back your son. Please don’t lose hope!!!!!
Taking a 3 month old from its mother is evil!
My cousin is also going through a horrible custody issue in Canada. Their laws also suck because his soon to be ex wife lied to the authorities about being abused. She even refused a rape examination! The judge even scolded her in court. In spite of it, SHE still has full custody! She's still in a shelter and refuses to find a job! Meanwhile, my cousin provided a home and worked 3 jobs to support all 3 of them! This all started because he wanted her to start helping out with the expenses! He was feeling overwhelmed. Evil woman. My cousin did lawyer up and was finally able to get weekend visits. Now get this, his next court date is in SEPTEMBER!!!
I'm praying for you. It is cruel to separate a 3 month old baby from his mother! It makes me wanna cry. I'm very attached to my son and we're also domestic abuse survivors!
Wishing the best for you 😢
That is so devasting!!! How can you take a young child from the mother😢😢😢
The evil mother in law 😢
I’m so sorry you are going through this.. Sending you a lot of strength and love!☹️💕 Will make sure to share this video!
Espero que tudo de certo para você e seus filhos 😢❤
It must have been so hard to speak out about your situation, especially in a country where misogyny is so widespread and common. You are such a brave lady and a mother. I am so sorry what happened to you and hope you have your son back soon.
So sorry this is happening to you! I hope you get your son back 💖
Bless you, I cannot imagine the stress and pain that this situation is causing you and your children. Stay strong!
You need to this into Korean social media AND go to the US embassy and speak to them.