Its Soo Hard To Say Goodbye To My Husband!! I Cried For The First Time 😭

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  • čas přidán 12. 09. 2024

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  • @AmandaL3521
    @AmandaL3521 Před 11 měsíci +42

    You’re just missing him. It’s normal that you would miss. Make plans and think of things you can do when he returns home. Back massage, put puzzles together or play games, practice cooking a meal he likes and surprise him with how good you’re able to cook that meal. You can also pamper yourself like giving yourself a facial or manicure and pedicure or go to a nail salon close by. Continue to learn a few more words or sentences in Chinese. You can come up with creative ideas. It’s ok to show your emotions, Gladys. We’re humans. ❤😊

  • @Rosie-wj1le
    @Rosie-wj1le Před 11 měsíci +22

    So cute ❤He’s working to give you a good life. Such a thoughtful hubby. And you are a sweet wife💕

  • @MalbaMedina
    @MalbaMedina Před 11 měsíci +16

    Hi Gladys and husband Lin, God bless you both,❤❤,love to see you both together

  • @Rita_Aine
    @Rita_Aine Před 11 měsíci +17

    As a single lady who was once in your situation (sending off a loved one) is really hard.
    Be strong. Time flies before you know it, you will be back together.
    Sending love from Uganda

  • @jabudlamini817
    @jabudlamini817 Před 11 měsíci +10

    I almost cried with you my dear, you have been with him for quite sometime now that's why it's difficult this time around. At times you might feel a lump in your throat just release it by crying. He will be back ❤❤🤗

  • @moniquederique2428
    @moniquederique2428 Před 11 měsíci +30

    He said he want to give you good life. ...so cool😍

    • @gladyslin
      @gladyslin  Před 11 měsíci +1

      Am really greatful ❤

  • @deniseloua8625
    @deniseloua8625 Před 11 měsíci +15

    It’s completely understandable! You both love each other and just as you said it’s hard to part with someone you love! Don’t be hard on yourself. Allow yourself to feel the emotions you feel for him. It will make your relationships stronger! God bless you!❤️🙏🏽

  • @nadineleanya4311
    @nadineleanya4311 Před 11 měsíci +9

    Sorry girl! He’ll be back and you all will be happy again! I cried so much too when my boyfriend went to another country for work. Chinese men work so hard 🥺

  • @Prophetssenyongacharles
    @Prophetssenyongacharles Před 11 měsíci +6

    Just pray to God to protect him for you and give you strength everything with be well 🇺🇬

  • @benedictegaspard5867
    @benedictegaspard5867 Před 11 měsíci +6

    Gladys, your husband wants to give you a good life ! Bless him ! Invite your Mother in Law ! And try the best to learn Chinese! He will. Be very proud of You !
    You are very lucky to have such a Young responsible Man !

  • @sweetsushanna-ahh
    @sweetsushanna-ahh Před 11 měsíci +7

    The more your bonds become stronger,him leaving will get more emotional for you. Hoping you will soon feel better, it’s not easy but good thing is that the reunion is sweet when it happens.

  • @anetteadiabah
    @anetteadiabah Před 11 měsíci +7

    Safe journey Mr Lin.

  • @marieconlon4785
    @marieconlon4785 Před 11 měsíci +6

    You can visit Mamma or she can stay with you till Lim comes back

  • @elenaperez4803
    @elenaperez4803 Před 11 měsíci +6

    Hello! Gladys and hubby, awww he'll miss you and be back soon, we'll be here with you and keep you company till he comes back, i went tho that when my husband left my heart felt empty but be strong it cause your so used of being together and the separation makes it hard you got this sister. omg i love to make Liver with onion pepper and gravy its so good with white rice or mash potato.

  • @Sandy.TX5050
    @Sandy.TX5050 Před 11 měsíci +7

    Awwwww, sorry Gladys. I hurt for you. GOD Bless🙏🏼💕

  • @kansiimeoliver
    @kansiimeoliver Před 11 měsíci +5

    My sister Gladys much love dear 👌

  • @madeleinempondo3246
    @madeleinempondo3246 Před 11 měsíci +5

    Be strong, Gladys, hubby working to give you a good life ❤❤❤and you both love each other. 😂😂😂

  • @kumiriley5602
    @kumiriley5602 Před 11 měsíci +4

    Safe travels, Lin! Gladys, goodbyes are rough but you'll be fine. Just look forward to the beautiful sight of his return.

  • @samiramahmud406
    @samiramahmud406 Před 11 měsíci +6

    Don't Cry Sister 💕
    Take Care Sister 💕
    ❤🇬🇧

  • @ree6553
    @ree6553 Před 11 měsíci +8

    It's ok Gladys time will pass and your hubby will be back.
    🙂

  • @Lifeisbeautiful-ri2tb
    @Lifeisbeautiful-ri2tb Před 11 měsíci +3

    It is okay to give into your feelings and cry it out Gladys. Your husband will be back soon and think of all the good times you have together when he comes back. It is so lovely to see such a beautiful couple head over heels in love. Sending you hugs and love Gladys. xoxo

  • @KristenBryant-wo1ms
    @KristenBryant-wo1ms Před 11 měsíci +5

    We love you Gladys - we will will show you love in his absence!!

  • @gladysoyeabo2517
    @gladysoyeabo2517 Před 11 měsíci +7

    Unique couple.❤❤❤. How long is he going to be away? . All is well. He will soon be back. A fan from ATL USA.

  • @gloriagin2
    @gloriagin2 Před 11 měsíci +7

    Your crying because you've spent quite some time with him And I belief you really are in love with him. He loves and cares fo you too, can tell b the way he treats you. Take care, take eac dav as it comes and before you know it he'll be back. Mr Lin have a safe and pleasant journey and pls keep in touch with your wife ya
    11:36

    • @AmandaL3521
      @AmandaL3521 Před 11 měsíci

      Lin also looked a bit sad about leaving Gladys. He understands what she must be feeling. This makes me think of soldiers who sometimes deploy for a year or more. Those are even longer separations so Gladys will likely see him again soon and then she will be grinning and smiling all day long.
      😊🙏🏽

  • @euniceolawoyin1041
    @euniceolawoyin1041 Před 11 měsíci +7

    You should be strong for him, if you are,he'll be focused at work ,you'll be able to pray for his safety and peace of mind. God be with both of you,grant him a safe trip and journey mercies back to his place of work 🙏It is well with both of you.
    Yes ,it can be hard soo emotional to say goodbye to your loved o e especially in a foreign land. God will give both of you neexed strength to cope in each other's absence 🙏

  • @lillianwesonga2601
    @lillianwesonga2601 Před 11 měsíci +2

    I feel for you mama I understand just try to keep your self busy.

  • @veronwatkis2501
    @veronwatkis2501 Před 11 měsíci +6

    Gladys am not married yet, however I have 3 children and 2 grandchildren and a dog 🐶, what am trying to say to you, keep prayerful and 💪 strong through Jesus Christ and remember he has to do his job wherever it takes him, so trust God, if he could take you, he would, so be creative and attend a class or online class and surprise him, when he's back, learning Chinese language and just do you. Sometimes it's best to be apart, for a while, you both learn to appreciate Each other...have you both in prayers, love you sister, we can manage...😍🥳🥳🥳💯💞🙏🙏🙏👀👍🫶💪🫵👏👏👏

    • @sks3543
      @sks3543 Před 11 měsíci

      Oh so sweet when u said "we can manage" and such thoughtful suggestions like learning Chinese language through online classes.. that's so progressive to their new relationship. . awesome relationship goals u gave her. .🎉🎉❤❤ very useful friendly suggestions indeed for Gladys. .🎉🎉😊

  • @barbarajames7878
    @barbarajames7878 Před 11 měsíci +2

    Goodbyes are so hard to do Gladys...he will be back...may The Good Lord Protect Him throughout his endeavors 🙏🏽❤😍👍🏼

  • @VeraEkwa
    @VeraEkwa Před 11 měsíci +1

    Awww I can imagine how you feel darling. Goodbyes are always hard. Take care and soon he will be back for you all to be together ❤. Just try to do things that will keep you busy while you are alone

  • @nancyhuffman5802
    @nancyhuffman5802 Před 11 měsíci +1

    My mom and dad were often separated at first, because he was in the9i service. Finally, the family was able to tra8vel with him to Okinawa, Germany, and finally the US. You being with your husband, has really turned your environment into a cozy, little, home!

  • @nokuhlemadolo-mtegha5569
    @nokuhlemadolo-mtegha5569 Před 11 měsíci +2

    Big girls do cry beloved. It s good for the soul ❤

  • @giadella5929
    @giadella5929 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Girl I really did miss you here,I was so busy with the kids,and then not feeling well either,big hugs from me to you and family 🤗

    • @gladyslin
      @gladyslin  Před 11 měsíci

      Get well sweetheart ❤ take care

  • @Treniq7
    @Treniq7 Před 11 měsíci +5

    You can cry! You LOVE your husband! Video chat each other-daily.

  • @olgamartha5727
    @olgamartha5727 Před 11 měsíci +1

    I think I do understand how you feel, Gladys. Yes, it’s hard. Yup! But… by God’s grace he’s coming back. Wishing you blessings blessings blessings amen ❤❤😢

  • @asuncioncurry6607
    @asuncioncurry6607 Před 11 měsíci +2

    Gladys my friend, everything will be ok. I will keep you guys in my prayers. Just thank God that you have a wonderful husband who loves you very much, so do you. Please take care of yourself friend. ❤❤❤❤

  • @elizabethc9843
    @elizabethc9843 Před 11 měsíci +2

    You love each other that’s why. It is hard indeed, hope you occupy yourself you will be fine ❤❤

  • @wandahoward9636
    @wandahoward9636 Před 11 měsíci +2

    I feel sad for you but he will return to you safely, dear. I hate when husband goes for work trips, too. I can’t rest well until he returns. You’re fine love, it’s totally natural…you love him.

  • @nkganemolatedi2116
    @nkganemolatedi2116 Před 11 měsíci +7

    Take care and he will arrive safely ❤

  • @jjmerricks13
    @jjmerricks13 Před 11 měsíci +5

    🎚♥️It’s Okay to Cry over Missing Your Husband whom you LOVE Very Much!! I’m Praying that Father God Strengthen You and Your Marriage during this Brief Trial Period❣️ 🙋🏽‍♀️Be Blessed in the Lord My Sister❣️

  • @sherriebrown1387
    @sherriebrown1387 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Don't be strong Gladys just be yourself. I could feel the love both of you have for each other. It's powerful. Tears are helpful when you have to separate. They strengthen your heart and love for each other and make you more excited to see each other again. ❤😊

  • @riamhills11
    @riamhills11 Před 11 měsíci +2

    When it comes to saying goodbye, big girls too cry😂😂😂😂
    It's all because of that quality time you've spent together that you gonna miss 😊 be strong gal, Mr.Lin is right, he wanna give you a good life coz you deserve it 🥰

  • @jeanetteberryman1461
    @jeanetteberryman1461 Před 11 měsíci +2

    Big girls do cry but you will be just fine,i feel your sadness We love you ❤🫶🏼❤️💙💜🤎🤗

  • @bobbettewilliamson2850
    @bobbettewilliamson2850 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Be strong my dear he will soon be back home to u keep u love communication on the phone do face time and keep it strong 💪 ❤️

  • @MiriamMichaud
    @MiriamMichaud Před 11 měsíci +3

    Hugs to both, ❤❤

  • @joanlawrence6658
    @joanlawrence6658 Před 11 měsíci

    What you feel is normal, think good things of him and cheer up, be strong my dear💕🙌🏽

  • @paulineofori-dei70
    @paulineofori-dei70 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Sis gladys, I saw my husband once in two years. It was touch, it was hard. Girl I know the feelings it's not easy. But it's for you so you can have a good life.

    • @gladyslin
      @gladyslin  Před 11 měsíci

      Oh wow!let’s wait for him

  • @vamswolfmom4498
    @vamswolfmom4498 Před 11 měsíci

    I perfectly understand Gladys, you’re recently married, in a new country and also new village, he’s pretty much you’re only friend and companion. Cry baby girl! You know he has to work, but that doesn’t negate your emotions to miss him. Sending you hugs 🤗 ❤

  • @sylviakakoma41
    @sylviakakoma41 Před 11 měsíci +5

    Goodbye is the saddest word, you have a separation anxiety

  • @matebohomoeketsi7051
    @matebohomoeketsi7051 Před 11 měsíci +2

    I know the feeling 😢 but don't worry he will come to you ❤❤

  • @palmpalm5131
    @palmpalm5131 Před 11 měsíci

    Oh Gladys, sweet girl, you will be ok. I understand your feeling completely. Be strong, you will be ok. Distance makes the heart grow stronger. You will be ok. ❤

    • @Roudeline11JeanFrancoisjoseph
      @Roudeline11JeanFrancoisjoseph Před 11 měsíci

      Gladys is the same as me and I feel that it is the black women who pay attention to their husbands, so yes, my husband is my golden ball. Gladys, I am a Haitian.

  • @kyalugabamaggie8472
    @kyalugabamaggie8472 Před 10 měsíci

    Bambi stay strong, I really love your couple ❤I
    And I wish one day I will find mine there 😂

  • @wdbmtubatuba3753
    @wdbmtubatuba3753 Před 11 měsíci +1

    African women have a lot of respect thye will be even submissive even if you treat them bad, hope you are happy sister where u are

  • @ememakpan8639
    @ememakpan8639 Před 11 měsíci

    Be strong Gladys, it's well with you. Safe travel Lin

  • @user-be7rg4xz1b
    @user-be7rg4xz1b Před 11 měsíci

    Sorry Gladys. I know how hard it is to say goodbye. You just have to be strong baby girl.

  • @nicquiann2u
    @nicquiann2u Před 11 měsíci +4

    God Bless your marriage

  • @karenbrown3465
    @karenbrown3465 Před 11 měsíci +4

    I am crying too it will be ok 🇬🇧

  • @dellascott163
    @dellascott163 Před 7 měsíci +1

    Gladys, you were pregnant in this video. That is why you were so emotional. I think that it might've crossed my.mind at the time, but it all makes sense now.

  • @Luming-di9rf
    @Luming-di9rf Před 12 dny

    I understand how you feel. My girlfriend is in Madagascar and it's killing me. I have to remain strong for it's hard for her as well. Adding to the problem is that it's hard to communicate at times because wi-fi connectivity is pretty bad in her country. Still, if all goes according to plan we'll be married in January, maybe even earlier. We both love each other dearly it's worth waiting. In fact, tomorrow she'll go to pick up her birth certificate in order to apply for her passport. She'll have to travel by bush taxi which can take several days depending on the weather. Passengers will have to sleep outside at night. There are no planes flying to her destination with is in the countryside. But it also shows how serious she is about our relationship. You can't imagine how much appreciate her doing this for me.

  • @janethecht8263
    @janethecht8263 Před 11 měsíci +4

    Be happy❤

  • @beramyers8873
    @beramyers8873 Před 9 měsíci

    ❤❤. I just love you two.

  • @iamracheal927
    @iamracheal927 Před 11 měsíci +3

    Guma: let him go for work dear

  • @kassimjamiu9538
    @kassimjamiu9538 Před 11 měsíci

    Gladys,it is well with you.

  • @nampijjaedith27
    @nampijjaedith27 Před 11 měsíci

    Be strong lady May God keep him safe

  • @velmabrookes8567
    @velmabrookes8567 Před 11 měsíci

    Nothing is wrong with crying! Sometimes it’s better to let it out. That’s normal! ❤❤

  • @thelvapompier6981
    @thelvapompier6981 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Yes dear thats normal just cry wen you feel like crying
    He will be back song try and go to sport and sing wen he Gomes back you could sing for HIM juist going i want you to smile.
    I Love both of you ...BLESSINGS beautifull Caring PRINCESSSSS

  • @irieify9334
    @irieify9334 Před 11 měsíci

    I am literally in tears to see you cry - crying with you.

  • @josephntale8717
    @josephntale8717 Před 11 měsíci

    Gezaako nnyo oyige olulimi ate beera muyiiya ofune omulimu kuba tomanya what next.

  • @smilebell8381
    @smilebell8381 Před 11 měsíci

    I’m new to your channel ❤ And I have been watching some of your old videos. And I enjoy watching them.❤I look forward to watching your videos ❤❤❤

    • @gladyslin
      @gladyslin  Před 11 měsíci

      Awesome! Thank you dear please feel at home 😘

  • @jasminmarsh6699
    @jasminmarsh6699 Před 11 měsíci +3

    You miss him it's ok to cry

  • @sarahnabs
    @sarahnabs Před 11 měsíci

    Ik😊 iknow you will miss him dear its hard to say goodbye

  • @letishabrenda5591
    @letishabrenda5591 Před 11 měsíci

    Ono omusajja ndaba arabika tatijja nze mukama mwebaza abazungu oba abelu nze banema njagara omubiri omudigavu banange ekikulu omuti omudugavu bwengulaba guyimya hahaha anyway sorry baby girl

  • @peterphan3524
    @peterphan3524 Před 11 měsíci +6

    Try to learn your Chinese while you are at home so you can show off to him😅

  • @lorahunter180
    @lorahunter180 Před 11 měsíci

    You're going to be okay.

  • @shiny6123
    @shiny6123 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Girl join an expat group for married women! A group that will support you and make you feel independent and confident and strong. Women who understand and have or are going through what you’ve going through. Seems like your husband doesn’t get it doesn’t understand that you’re sad. Maybe it’s the culture I really don’t know.

  • @AchiengGladysAbundance
    @AchiengGladysAbundance Před 11 měsíci

    Take heart, Gladys.

  • @cynthial5901
    @cynthial5901 Před 11 měsíci +1

    He will be back soon

  • @caroljean161
    @caroljean161 Před 11 měsíci

    Learn a new hobby Gladys so you can surprise Lin when he comes home. I have been in the position of my husband working miles away and coming home at weekends. It’s tough but just look forward and don’t get down. ❤

    • @gladyslin
      @gladyslin  Před 11 měsíci

      Am trying to figure out what to learn my dear ideas will be appreciated ❤

  • @HadizaIsah-cc3vl
    @HadizaIsah-cc3vl Před 11 měsíci

    Lovely family 💕 God bless you all 🙏❤️

  • @cynthiadaniels1294
    @cynthiadaniels1294 Před 8 měsíci +1

    What kind of work does he do? Seems like he is always gone.

  • @brooklynsky1228
    @brooklynsky1228 Před 11 měsíci

    Good bye are so hard specially to see a love one go, but you will be together again I get it we are all here for you to keep you company till he gets back.

  • @romarin2872
    @romarin2872 Před 10 měsíci

    GLADYS, please stop complaining and open your eyes on the big chance GOD gave you. Stop crying. The first thing you should do is : 1- learn the local language to be able to communicate with people easily. It is not the Chinese who should understand your language but you who have to speak their language. 2- When you speak the local language, take a training to be able to make your own business (one line, import/export, etc.) as chine is the world factory. 3- Be serious and put your husband before your friends, take your life in hand and this will occupy you.

  • @ndoyisilemogale6855
    @ndoyisilemogale6855 Před 11 měsíci +2

    How long is your husband gonna be away?

  • @user-pd1vx8uy6i
    @user-pd1vx8uy6i Před 11 měsíci +3

    I cried with you😢

  • @mcleanmanyuke7700
    @mcleanmanyuke7700 Před 11 měsíci +2

    Lovely 💕 family hello

  • @susancrawford8213
    @susancrawford8213 Před 11 měsíci

    Gladys it's okay to miss your husband. That's showing how much you love him and miss him. God bless two🙏 Love you guys ♥️

  • @cherylkhoja917
    @cherylkhoja917 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Gladys is your motherinlaw with you like before.

  • @user-jw9cg7lm5l
    @user-jw9cg7lm5l Před 11 měsíci +2

    It’s ok to cry

  • @iamrukundo
    @iamrukundo Před 11 měsíci +1

    Omukwano gunyuma 😅😅😅

  • @thobekilenala3415
    @thobekilenala3415 Před 11 měsíci

    Be strong girl trust God❤❤❤

  • @myrasemakula8672
    @myrasemakula8672 Před 11 měsíci

    Am in yo shoes sis

  • @angelamarquez9052
    @angelamarquez9052 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Forza ti sono vicina sei sola li senza di lui capisco come ti senti un bacio dall'Italia 🇮🇪😘

  • @nesemac
    @nesemac Před 11 měsíci

    I was always like that when I was pregnant

    • @gladyslin
      @gladyslin  Před 11 měsíci

      I believe it wasn’t easy darling. How’s our baby doing

  • @user-nn6iu5nc2u
    @user-nn6iu5nc2u Před 10 měsíci

    It's love girl😢

  • @memorybanda9277
    @memorybanda9277 Před 11 měsíci

    It's indeed hard to say goodbye i can understand that, even me i can cry 😂

  • @simonedixon8715
    @simonedixon8715 Před 11 měsíci

    I know that feeling it happened to me

  • @barbaracrain2975
    @barbaracrain2975 Před 11 měsíci +1

    🥰

  • @ninalopez5994
    @ninalopez5994 Před 11 měsíci

    😮😢😢

  • @myrabali2439
    @myrabali2439 Před 11 měsíci

    Really.

  • @gnilanendiaye6921
    @gnilanendiaye6921 Před 9 měsíci

    清真mean halal for muslim

  • @iamrukundo
    @iamrukundo Před 11 měsíci

    😅