You need to get off social media, you're not stagnant

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  • Chitchat & GRWM (get ready with me) for a wedding as we discuss feeling stuck or stagnant, and what social media has to do with that. Have you experienced this?
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Komentáře • 383

  • @EzinneZara
    @EzinneZara  Před rokem +178

    Hey guys! If you want to give me a Christmas / NewYear gift, hit the like button on this video 👍🏽

    • @joyuche8333
      @joyuche8333 Před rokem +1

      This came timely!!! I’m really addicted to my phone 🥲🥹🥹

    • @divineenorense5808
      @divineenorense5808 Před rokem +1

      Just did!!!Appreciate your videos, God bless you, love your watch please what's the name?

    • @ChiMira991
      @ChiMira991 Před rokem +1

      I won't lie but your absence is not sweet, I do understand you need your own time out to do you and fully step in better and higher realms. The Lord is your strength dear one and may His mercy, grace and favour be upon you. We(all your subscribers) miss you dearly and hope to see you soon.

    • @CharlotteKofi
      @CharlotteKofi Před 5 měsíci

      Thank You for the Message much needed!

  • @TheDoreenTube
    @TheDoreenTube Před rokem +187

    “Sometimes God is not planning anything better for you” 🤣🤣
    That made me laugh so hard because that’s one of the harsh realities I had to learn. Sometimes it’s not just in His plans for you, and that’s it.

    • @damarisabimbola4756
      @damarisabimbola4756 Před rokem +4

      If that’s not the truth!!

    • @ibemereonyinyechi
      @ibemereonyinyechi Před rokem +4

      This is the first time I am hearing such and that hit differently.

    • @sparkleboea
      @sparkleboea Před rokem +3

      Yes! That part. 😅 The “better” that we may think isn’t always our definition of better and that’s what we need to let go of.

    • @GrowwithVicana
      @GrowwithVicana Před 2 měsíci

      Likeee😂
      My bubbles just got burst😂

  • @toniaonogwu
    @toniaonogwu Před rokem +210

    You are one out of the persons God is using to set my Life back on track......i was also jealous of you. at 25 i was a child most confused, at 30 am still broke but right now I'm in a special place praying and take one step at a time..... I am doing my spill over in peace.... thank you Ezinne 🙏

    • @Agnes.shines
      @Agnes.shines Před rokem +14

      You are such a priced gem ,thank you for sharing this with us, you have all my well wishes for your life’s journey ❤

    • @ibemereonyinyechi
      @ibemereonyinyechi Před rokem +8

      May God come through for you Amen

    • @toniaonogwu
      @toniaonogwu Před rokem +3

      amen 🙏

    • @toniaonogwu
      @toniaonogwu Před rokem +2

      @@Agnes.shines amen thank you....

    • @cindylaura1876
      @cindylaura1876 Před rokem +8

      I'm also in my early 30s and I've also felt jealousy and great admiration for this awesome girl! I've been jealous at how she seems so wise and perfect at just 25 yet I was such a mess at 25 🤣.. All in all, I am learning a lot from her and can only bless the Lord for what she's doing in and through Ezinne Zara's life 🙌

  • @adetolaakinwande9489
    @adetolaakinwande9489 Před rokem +98

    @ 9:48 “ If you can trust God to save you for eternity, then you can trust Him to satisfy you in this lifetime ❤” ~ Ezinne Zara 🎊

  • @theambassador9514
    @theambassador9514 Před rokem +71

    It amazes me how she's speaking so much wisdom and they are all concise and perfectly said....yet she wasn't holding script to read from , I mean she wad doing her makeup🤣🤣🤣🤣and uts as though she's just giving advice to her little sister on a normal day without the cameras 😂😂😂😂WOW... this is just her giving us, what she has inside...no need to fake anything 💯 I salute you Ezinne #spiritfilled #Phenomenal

  • @fortunesunday2716
    @fortunesunday2716 Před rokem +24

    "You're exactly where someone in their 20s is supposed to be!"
    Thank you Ezinne!

  • @GodxTracy
    @GodxTracy Před rokem +2

    If God says you don't need something, then you don't need it. You must trust him as a good Father. Trust him to satisfy you. 🔥🔥🔥

  • @onyinyenweze860
    @onyinyenweze860 Před rokem +110

    Been thinking of getting off social media for the past couple of days, I feel stuck and too disconnected from God, coupled with all of life’s challenges hitting me back to back!!

    • @blessing1824
      @blessing1824 Před rokem +10

      Do it heyyy.... I haven't been on social media for a year and enjoying it ☺️😍 more greatful... You get to see God hands at a better point of view....
      You get to have more time in life

    • @divine5582
      @divine5582 Před rokem +8

      When in the wilderness, all the noises keep you from hearing the voice of God. I went through that last year and I felt bad at the beginning. God allowed me to go through the isolation and some pruning and social media was part of it, got rid of those that don't serve me. I can say that I am in a better place now.
      The only vindicator is our God, I learnt that ..
      Pray for spirit of discernment, may the Lord direct your path.
      Shalom

    • @jessicaibinabo
      @jessicaibinabo Před rokem +3

      You're not alone, we plenty

    • @onyinyenweze860
      @onyinyenweze860 Před rokem +1

      @@divine5582 thank you so much

    • @onyinyenweze860
      @onyinyenweze860 Před rokem

      @@blessing1824 wow…amazing!!

  • @Ogechime
    @Ogechime Před rokem +45

    Ezinne thank you sooooo much❤️❤️ this was the confirmation I needed. So last month I took a break off social media; Snapchat and IG to focus on my Christian journey, I realized that I was addicted and too distracted. I noticed that not only did I get closer to God, I became more productive and I was so happy. Then I redownloaded this month for random reasons and honestly I fell back into the loop of laziness and time wasting. I was already considering deleting it again, and this was the final push. I can’t get distracted now that God is finally revealing what he has in store for me concerning what to do next which was a prayer point throughout the year. He literally answered me at the time that I deleted the apps. Off to delete those apps 🚶🏽‍♀️🚶🏽‍♀️🚶🏽‍♀️

  • @mbachris1641
    @mbachris1641 Před rokem +7

    The reason why you don't have anything happening in your life is that you're always on social media, looking at people who have things happening in their lives.
    These lines hit me.

  • @Racheal_orezimena
    @Racheal_orezimena Před rokem +5

    So I started a CZcams channel 2 months ago and then started comparing myself with people who has been on the platform
    And then God rebuked me and told me this people has been on here for as much as 4 years 3years 5years and so on
    So enjoy the process ,wait your turn
    Gold takes time to become precious

    • @hannahharris5444
      @hannahharris5444 Před rokem

      Exactly. Same. God has told me that you have to learn to love and enjoy your process.

  • @LivingBoldlyWithUyi
    @LivingBoldlyWithUyi Před rokem +49

    I really love your channel, but when you post videos like this. I am so grateful! The wisdom you received from that experience is Gold. I used to struggle with Jealousy bad, but I am now at a place where I am seeking and asking God for contentment and satisfaction in him and a mind shift on how I perceive my own life.

    • @EzinneZara
      @EzinneZara  Před rokem +4

      Thank God, I’m happy to hear this!

  • @adepeju4944
    @adepeju4944 Před rokem +15

    Ezinne,you are so right!
    The reason we are jealous is because we don't have anything going on for us,if we do we would not be jealous.

  • @RaymondAtivie
    @RaymondAtivie Před rokem

    “If you can trust God to save you for eternity, you can trust God to satisfy you in this life” !!!!!!

  • @roselinededua
    @roselinededua Před rokem +26

    There’s absolutely no need for sibling rivalry! Exit! That got me. I can totally relate Sis.

  • @tabi_lu
    @tabi_lu Před rokem +37

    “You don’t have anything in your life because you are always on social media watching others that have things happening in their lives”
    Ezinne Zara (2022)

  • @GodxTracy
    @GodxTracy Před rokem

    "Who am I?
    What did you make me for?
    What am I supposed to be doing?"
    Key questions.

  • @arinolao.k3972
    @arinolao.k3972 Před rokem +4

    OMG......did you like make this video because of mee because this video is for me...I just clocked 20 few days ago and I was in the library crying today that why am I so stagnant and there's no form of moving forward in my life....I have been overthinking a lot this day, I was thinking to myself today that can God just fast forward my life to the good and interesting part 😂😂..Ezinne you are a blessing to this generation especially to me...God will continue to bless you and keep you 🙏🙌

  • @samuelibe7734
    @samuelibe7734 Před rokem +7

    The first to watch the video 🤣😂😂 seems like I’ve won an award. truly love and celebrate the grace upon your life ma. Keep giving us world class videos . More grace ma.
    Ma Ezinne Zara (The G.O.A.T of CZcams videos🐐)

  • @clementinabusayo
    @clementinabusayo Před rokem +4

    I don't know why I laughed so much watching this. What you said is so true & " if you can trust God with your life in eternity, why can you trust him with your lifetime" .👏

  • @bcdbcd1010
    @bcdbcd1010 Před rokem +5

    As a years 20yrs old Guy… I love everything about you and all you said from the Love process to finding the real meaning of jealousy. I feel like many people don't know the real meaning of being jealous (tho I must found out about it) it means you want something someone else already have in there life but you don't. Instead of channeling the energy to the negative side why not put it into becoming who we want to be or learn how the successful people do it. I think I want to watch you more from now. Nice video sis💞

    • @bcdbcd1010
      @bcdbcd1010 Před rokem +1

      after going through the comment section i feel like i am the only guy in here lol😀

    • @alicemwende8897
      @alicemwende8897 Před rokem +1

      Haha😂😂😂

    • @bcdbcd1010
      @bcdbcd1010 Před rokem +1

      @@alicemwende8897 this is going to be my last comment tho... i dont want to be the only guy and i cant leave bc ilove the community

  • @BellaChristiana
    @BellaChristiana Před rokem +1

    Is it just me or Ezinne was just smashing tables??? 😅😅😅😅😅
    Omo 🤲🏾😂😂😂😂

  • @gloriaasuquo
    @gloriaasuquo Před rokem +4

    Your story of jealousy reaonates with mine so well😂
    I got active this year and had some people close to me who got encouraged by my activity, tried to do same and they flourished. I got jealous when they reached a big mile stone while I was still struggling. I had a leading to pray for them instead and even honour the grace of God upon their life. In as much, it hurts sometimes cause I feel they had speed upon their life, I have released myself to be obedient to God's leading and instructions.
    Oh... I didn't mention that I muted them on SM out of love and in an attempt to avoid the spirit of jealousy from clouding me again.
    Praise God

  • @ifeomachude2854
    @ifeomachude2854 Před rokem +1

    “This is the time for you to put in the work for the person that you want to see you become in the next ten to fifteen years.”

  • @momolayin1584
    @momolayin1584 Před rokem +17

    This has really helped me
    I have been off social media intentionally a lot this year and it has helped and I also intentionally stop following some people lifestyle cause after doing it I am always like God am I moving forward ?
    I found out I don’t compare myself with other people like before and it is the end of the year and I realize that we all run different race.
    Thank you for this.

  • @gracebamidele8144
    @gracebamidele8144 Před 4 měsíci

    Using social media on a 'need to' basis. That's actually very instructive

  • @victoriaharrison7039
    @victoriaharrison7039 Před rokem +1

    "don't use social media to track people's lives"..hmmm! this is something I know I was guilty of this year😩 but I don't want to take that bad habit into 2023, God please help me! No more monitoring spirit behaviour 🤲🏽

  • @SinesiphoS
    @SinesiphoS Před rokem +7

    Interesting how I just deactivated my social media accounts literally less than 30 minutes before seeing this video.💛 I feel vindicated. And a lot of the words you kept saying in this video were like keywords of my own thought process when I decided to delete those accounts. I literally had the same thoughts just a short time ago.
    💛🖤

  • @GrowwithVicana
    @GrowwithVicana Před 2 měsíci

    Jealousy crept into my innermost being late last year. I'm learning to be genuinely happy for people and trying my best not to see other people's progress as motivation. This is not because they shouldn't be motivation, in certain cases they are, but my motive for checking them out shouldn't be for comparison.

  • @marinathorpe6733
    @marinathorpe6733 Před rokem +2

    Haha I do love that so much & I totally agree “just because you don’t get something doesn’t mean that God has something else for you”, sometimes there’s nothing for you lol 😅

  • @beneziaharuna682
    @beneziaharuna682 Před rokem +2

    Your channel will blow beyond the numbers you are imagining so you can reach more people for God . Prepare and position yourself. Be ready

  • @GodxTracy
    @GodxTracy Před rokem

    "If you can trust God to save you for eternity, you can trust him to satisfy you in this lifetime." Ezinne Zara, 2022

  • @jod2111
    @jod2111 Před rokem

    "If you don't get something, it's because God is planning something better for you... Some times He's not planning anything better for you..." That line got me laughing and thinking too! 🤔💯

  • @chidiogonsude3072
    @chidiogonsude3072 Před rokem +1

    Got me at "I am giving Somebi a run for her money."😂😂😂

  • @olaoluwaanuoluwapo8337
    @olaoluwaanuoluwapo8337 Před rokem +1

    JESUS CHRIST IS COMING!!
    LET US BE READY!!!

  • @patiencemagoola101
    @patiencemagoola101 Před měsícem

    8:32 this right here made me laugh😂😂😂😂. Thanks a bunch.....mates from secondary school😂

  • @trant4
    @trant4 Před rokem +1

    If I can trust God to satisfy me for all eternity, then I can trust him in this lifetime. Ma'am, these words struck my heart. Why would God who gave me his son even when I did not know him withhold something from me while I am literally his own now? You are full of wisdom, may you never run empty

  • @yiwo-numenyi-nnely-shey
    @yiwo-numenyi-nnely-shey Před rokem +1

    Lemme comment before watching 😁😁😁😁 I just opened CZcams app thinking of what to watch, Ezinne ❤️ ☺️ came on my mind 🙈😁 and behold this video just pop up 💃🏼💃🏼💃🏼💃🏼💃🏼 only God knows how I love Ezinne ❤️☺️ lemme relax and enjoy the video 🥰

  • @chiomaalumonah2296
    @chiomaalumonah2296 Před rokem +1

    You're exactly where someone in their 20s is supposed to be.... which is being broke 😂😂.
    There's really a process. Thank you for sharing.

  • @ebunzzy
    @ebunzzy Před rokem +2

    This video deals with "the presssha is getting werser"
    Process is super necesssssssaryyyy!!
    There's no "overnight success", people were always getting ready before they "blow/blew". Thank You God!
    Thank you Ezinne! Spot on! God bless you, I appreciate you! ❤️

  • @blessed_hadassah
    @blessed_hadassah Před rokem +2

    You're so right, Ezinne.
    One of my resolutions in 2023 is to limit hoe much time I spend on social media.

  • @fisayoafowowe7800
    @fisayoafowowe7800 Před rokem +1

    😂😂ezinne legit said sometimes He’s not planning anything better

  • @busayomibabalola
    @busayomibabalola Před 7 měsíci +1

    I just came to watch this video again and it's so timely for me right now.

  • @gracebamidele8144
    @gracebamidele8144 Před 4 měsíci

    I came here watching this after spending not too long but unnecessary time on SM and in between the video, I paused and went to set healthy timers for all my social media apps and games even (because even though I don't play games on a normal day, I can fall into it's temptation because I have no social media to use lol. I'm giving no place to the devil😂) and I made a commitment to stick with it because God actually has a lot for me to do and I can't afford to waste precious time.
    Thank you Ezinne❤

  • @minitoure
    @minitoure Před rokem +1

    I have been doing youtube for 8 good years consistent and inconsistently and getting the 4000 seems impossible! I told myself after December if it don’t work it’s not suppose to be and that’s okay. I forgot why I was doing youtube and focused on the numbers now it’s more or shore than passion. I loved your perceptive!!!

  • @onyekwuomaryjane3814
    @onyekwuomaryjane3814 Před 10 měsíci +10

    “Don’t just sit down and be waiting for a stage to come, practice how you’ll be speaking on stage. This is my building time and phase”.
    Thank you Ezinne❤️

  • @nurseuju9455
    @nurseuju9455 Před rokem +2

    One time I was on a fast, and I by God's grace didn't go online till I break my fast for the day. I saw how reluctant I was towards social media even when I was through with the fast. Somehow I've gone back to the online junky 😔, but I'm cultivating the habit of not going to the restroom with my phone but rather a book or my bible and also getting an app that tracks how long I spend on social media daily. Please can someone recommend an app for me?
    Thank you Zara and by the way, you look stunning in your makeup and outfit

  • @damarisabimbola4756
    @damarisabimbola4756 Před rokem +18

    This felt like a big sister telling us the whole truth. Love eet

  • @seunolagunju
    @seunolagunju Před rokem

    "If you can trust God to save you for eternity, then you should be able to trust him to satisfy you in this lifetime." - This is the line that stuck with me the most. Thank you Ezinne.

  • @GodxTracy
    @GodxTracy Před rokem +1

    "Woe is me" 🤣🤣🤣

  • @tashaaaa._
    @tashaaaa._ Před rokem

    Needed this!❤️

  • @TheHebrews11Lady
    @TheHebrews11Lady Před rokem +2

    The fact that it's your videos that God, that the Holy Spirit has been using to hit me that I need to make that big step of surrendering (no more lukewarmness) is just wonderful. Thank you🥺❤

  • @VirtuouslyWright
    @VirtuouslyWright Před rokem

    Perfect video! Thank you Queen!

  • @ochyaje
    @ochyaje Před rokem

    Thank you so much for thisss! I needed to hear this again. God bless you greatly 🤗

  • @FaithWuyah
    @FaithWuyah Před rokem +1

    This video is screaming “THE CLOUD IS BIG ENOUGH FOR EVERYONE.” I love it😍

  • @uchechiaugusta9022
    @uchechiaugusta9022 Před rokem

    Thank you so much for this❤

  • @TheGlobalWoman1
    @TheGlobalWoman1 Před rokem +3

    So much wisdom!!!! No competition, no jealousy, no comparison! Trusting God in my journey. I love it.😍😍😍 Thank you for sharing.💥

  • @TheHebrews11Lady
    @TheHebrews11Lady Před rokem

    Thank you for this!!! I needed it in all parts of my life honestly. 😭❤❤

  • @agathadanquah
    @agathadanquah Před rokem +1

    This is a MESSAGE FOR ME! God bless you for this!

  • @ENNY.J
    @ENNY.J Před rokem

    The Holy Spirit just keeps speaking to me, because why do I keep seeing videos of quitting social media tonight.😢 Every single time I delete social media I end up installing them back and I am glad that I have just gone a week without it.

  • @melodyiwuamadi483
    @melodyiwuamadi483 Před rokem

    Thank you so much for this, Ezinne.
    I truly needed it.

  • @beneziaharuna682
    @beneziaharuna682 Před rokem

    Thank you so much for a word in season yet again 🙏

  • @ofureogbidi8076
    @ofureogbidi8076 Před rokem +1

    It's how timely your videos always are. Thank you for being this open with us. I'm very grateful.

  • @Nwabi23
    @Nwabi23 Před rokem

    This was soo good. Thank you! Thank God!♥️🥺

  • @patiencemagoola101
    @patiencemagoola101 Před měsícem

    ❤❤❤thank you. This was timely

  • @ellaumoru8094
    @ellaumoru8094 Před rokem

    This was kind thank you🥺

  • @chisomchukwudimma3234

    Thank youuuu Ezineeee ♥

  • @anne.8830
    @anne.8830 Před rokem

    Came here from your Instagram.
    Thank you for this❤️

  • @giftnzelu4044
    @giftnzelu4044 Před rokem

    Thank you, Ezinne❤

  • @kosiclementina4357
    @kosiclementina4357 Před rokem

    Myyyy!!!! Thank you for this Ezinne. Thank you for being a blessing to me ♥️

  • @Chef_Ronnie
    @Chef_Ronnie Před rokem +2

    This is exactly what I needed to hear. Thank you 💞

  • @iamtomidey
    @iamtomidey Před rokem

    Really loved this video😍

  • @Nonye27
    @Nonye27 Před rokem +1

    Thanks for sharing, this is so impactful ❤

  • @purposefulrelationshipwithdoxa

    Thank you, Ezinne!

  • @chukwujebichizitere2795

    This was much needed ❤️

  • @Barnabas_Akinrinola
    @Barnabas_Akinrinola Před rokem

    ❤️❤️❤️
    Thank you, Ezinne.

  • @momentswithjo5341
    @momentswithjo5341 Před rokem

    Thank you Ezinne, I really needed this, thank you 🙏

  • @thoughtsbyheavens
    @thoughtsbyheavens Před rokem

    Thank you so much for this Ezinne

  • @TheOloriLohi
    @TheOloriLohi Před rokem

    The reassurance I needed

  • @jolawrites
    @jolawrites Před rokem

    This was so good to watch. Thank you, Ezinne.

  • @jemimaokonkwo8288
    @jemimaokonkwo8288 Před rokem

    Thank you Ezinne. This video dropped at the right time. God bless you.

  • @Janederryo
    @Janederryo Před rokem +1

    Alright I really love your videos and this is absolutely one of my favorites currently was checking my screen time on my phone and I spend way too much time doing nothing on social media creative and finance was less than 2hrs last week I felt bad and told myself I need to regulate this thing more. I try not to go online immediately I wake up or all the time. Thanks again love love this video.

  • @iwuchukwuemmanuella8499
    @iwuchukwuemmanuella8499 Před 8 měsíci

    Thank you , I needed this

  • @olaright3878
    @olaright3878 Před rokem

    Bold. Beautiful. Brilliant. Thanks for this. Thought provoking.

  • @kosilinus3118
    @kosilinus3118 Před rokem

    You look so beautiful 😍 and thank you for these words, I've been wishing and wishing that I could do this and I could do that but I haven't done anything about it. I'm going to start exams this January and I have to spend the little time I have studying but next year, I really want to grow in terms of art and writing( I've had an interest in them for a while but I haven't taken time to develop them). I always give myself excuses saying I'm studying a tasking course but like you said, the time spent on social media could be used to do these things

  • @ewenyembesa3839
    @ewenyembesa3839 Před rokem

    Deep truth😊

  • @medeeannexo
    @medeeannexo Před rokem

    Wow, you spoke so much wisdom in these 10 minutes! God bless you!

  • @tricksandhacksofsewingmori9282

    Thank You so much Ezinne🙌

  • @estheremmanuel247
    @estheremmanuel247 Před rokem

    Thanks a lot for this.

  • @munachimsonwufo708
    @munachimsonwufo708 Před rokem

    Tnk u for this ❤❤❤

  • @foreverchichi
    @foreverchichi Před rokem

    Thank youuuu. This was really insightful 😍👏🏾

  • @Ebie_Evidence
    @Ebie_Evidence Před rokem

    I really needed to see this. Thank you so much Ezinne ❤️

  • @anuoluwaposhadamoro2824

    thank you so much for this video. God bless you ❤

  • @deardesire
    @deardesire Před rokem

    Thank you for sharing. Love you ma'am 🥰

  • @ini.og1
    @ini.og1 Před rokem +1

    This is so profound and highly relatable

  • @balogungbemisola9968
    @balogungbemisola9968 Před rokem +5

    Hello Ezinne. First time commenting. Thank you for BibleDairy, your post from 2017 remains relevant today, and I'm praying for you. Thank you for blessing us with your track record.🙌

  • @angelkosi
    @angelkosi Před rokem +2

    I totally agree with taking a break from social media sometimes and minimising the time spent on it.

  • @ogundaremosopefoluwa1005

    This is the confirmation I need in this season. God bless you ma.

  • @edenstudiopolaroids
    @edenstudiopolaroids Před rokem

    God bless you so much for this. So so timely ❤

  • @dayeabasidavid9456
    @dayeabasidavid9456 Před rokem

    This couldn't have popped up at a better time. Thank you for this, Ezinne.
    These are true words. It took me a while to come to this realization, but I'm here now and I'm giving this phase my all.