first story, I mean it was harsh but it was his child to, the decision is not just hers to make no matter what the law says, if the father is in the picture he should get a say otherwise why should there ever be child support for those who don't take up responsibility given that they are denied any say in whether or not they will keep the baby (in the context that the mother can actually decide)
Story 1 NTA. Also Op dodged a bullet. His ex was a mooch. Glad he dumped her. Let her deal with her decision on her own. She owes OP an apology.
first story, I mean it was harsh but it was his child to, the decision is not just hers to make no matter what the law says, if the father is in the picture he should get a say
otherwise why should there ever be child support for those who don't take up responsibility given that they are denied any say in whether or not they will keep the baby (in the context that the mother can actually decide)