Getting a Gender Affirming Haircut

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  • @Lizziep228
    @Lizziep228 Před měsícem +2075

    Damn I missed a whole chapter

    • @Kenzieee12381
      @Kenzieee12381 Před měsícem +30

      Frr

    • @deanmadethis_
      @deanmadethis_ Před měsícem +29

      They came out like years ago

    • @bobbyedelen140
      @bobbyedelen140 Před měsícem +3

      Me

    • @key63727
      @key63727 Před měsícem +42

      @@deanmadethis_ They just said they came out in January; it hasn't even been a year

    • @Diva380
      @Diva380 Před měsícem +61

      @@deanmadethis_ That was regarding their sexuality, NOT their gender.

  • @sjlyons4
    @sjlyons4 Před měsícem +488

    holy moly i missed a lot

  • @BMarie774
    @BMarie774 Před měsícem +189

    I had to buzz my hair due to trichotillomania. I… left it like that now for two years lol. Short hair makes ME personally look more feminine. I think it’s my eyes. Which was so helpful for me because I always felt so boyish. But my gosh it’s so easy, keeps me so cool in the heat, and I just love it lol.

    • @Ashildr__
      @Ashildr__ Před měsícem +8

      I forced my mom to cut mine off herself (she was a hair stylist a while back) soley because I was so done trying to keep up with it. Best decision lmao I'm so free 😂

    • @BMarie774
      @BMarie774 Před měsícem +6

      @@Ashildr__ riiiiight! Also I’m so mad no one ever told me how wonderful it is to swim with a buzz or super short hair! My gosh! The only thing is when you first try to sleep after buzzing for the first time, and it feels like you have hundreds of little bugs moving all around your head when you slightly move on the pillow. Weirdest feeling ever. Don’t have it anymore though.

    • @Ashildr__
      @Ashildr__ Před měsícem +1

      @@BMarie774 small price to pay to damn near wake up and go hahaha

    • @taylorm1997
      @taylorm1997 Před měsícem

      Short hair like this doesn’t make a female more feminine lmao 😂 this hair cute is awful

    • @lornatw
      @lornatw Před měsícem

      💗

  • @brunaalbanez112
    @brunaalbanez112 Před měsícem +482

    It’s very sad how people get so bothered and uncomfortable with other people’s appearances 😔 you’re so strong Cam, your kids are lucky to have you!

    • @taylorm1997
      @taylorm1997 Před měsícem +21

      No you can be honest. It looks awful lmao.

    • @mugginsquilts1
      @mugginsquilts1 Před měsícem +30

      I'm not uncomfortable with their appearance. I'm uncomfortable that 'they' change their mind about who they are every six months. Flavour of the month and all that. It's annoying and disingenuous but it sure makes them a lot of money. They monetized their own husband's suicide under the guise of 'sharing and public education', monetized having kids as a teenager, glorified the horror of that, complained weekly about how terrible their life was ....it's just getting to be too much. I'm not watching anymore. It's like a train wreck.

    • @Jakehelmsley06
      @Jakehelmsley06 Před měsícem +1

      Hey camliy fam

    • @user-ol2jk5sm5h
      @user-ol2jk5sm5h Před měsícem +17

      @@brunaalbanez112 I'm not uncomfortable by a haircut. I'm not uncomfortable at all. Just found out that I've been watching & supporting a channel that was about a young family who suffered a major tragedy & a strong young woman raising two daughters alone who decided she now wants to be the opposite gender. That is sad, especially for the kids who lost their Dad before they even knew him & now their Mom wants to be their Dad.

    • @victoriakorlewala
      @victoriakorlewala Před měsícem

      @@user-ol2jk5sm5htheir pronouns are they/them. Is it that hard to be fucking respectfully? Leave if u don't want to be

  • @alyssatoro
    @alyssatoro Před měsícem +91

    I did this at 23 on a whim, I decided one day that I wanted a super butchy haircut (I’m a queer woman, typically fairly femme leaning). Luckily I worked as a receptionist at a hair salon, so the next day I had them chop all of my hair off. Then a few days later I went even shorter, like buzz cut short. And bleached my head icy blonde. Sometimes we just want to switch it up, affirm our feelings, and experience all that our body can offer us - including different looks. Your new look is great Cam!!

  • @emilyroseleaa
    @emilyroseleaa Před 26 dny +93

    Its giving identity crisis, i don't know if its due to the trauma which it possibly could be but i hope you're okay mentally, i really hope you're not struggling and going into mania or something. Usually people who make this much of a drastic change are usually in manic episodes or in decline mentally. This is NOT a hate comment I'm just generally concerned for cam and her children as they're probably going to be so confused why their mom had such a drastic appearance change.

    • @user-sh3qe4pj5e
      @user-sh3qe4pj5e Před 24 dny

      Bro it’s a fucking haircut 💀 you’re acting like she got a face tattoo or smth

    • @WARLORDDOM
      @WARLORDDOM Před 23 dny +11

      ​@@user-sh3qe4pj5ethe haircut wasn't the problem
      It's the title

    • @user-sh3qe4pj5e
      @user-sh3qe4pj5e Před 23 dny +2

      @@WARLORDDOM who cares??? Cam isn’t hurting anyone and it doesn’t affect you at all. Get over it.

    • @manjisano8544
      @manjisano8544 Před 21 dnem +39

      Honestly i believe this is 100% a trauma response . Looking at what she's gone through i feel like she dived herself in deeper . Cutting hair and having this gender dysphoria and instantly acting like a boy is very concerning to me . I feel bad for the girls and for the fact that they not only lost their dad but now have to deal w mom turninig into this gender confused woman who God forbid will ask her girls later to not call her mom but parent cuz its part of their gender identity . I hope my words wont come true

    • @emilyroseleaa
      @emilyroseleaa Před 21 dnem +8

      @@manjisano8544 i heavily agree

  • @kikkupop9714
    @kikkupop9714 Před měsícem +170

    being more masculine and not wearing makeup does not equal gender, you can be cis and gender nonconforming

    • @isabellaestrella3028
      @isabellaestrella3028 Před měsícem +10

      love this comment!

    • @Gizzzmo68
      @Gizzzmo68 Před měsícem +6

      I really like it that you feel you can express yourself. It's honestly a great thing. It's so great, I'm going to express myself as well. Thank you for giving me the green light on this. God put two genders on this earth: females and males. Thank God you were feeling like a woman when you had the girls, because the girls would NOT EXIST if you had this epiphany back before they were conceived. All I can say beyond this is that I pray for those little babies. They have so much to process. I'm going to leave it right there.

    • @sofiakayte1362
      @sofiakayte1362 Před 28 dny +1

      you’re contradicting yourself. you’re saying that how you present yourself does not equal gender. you then say that you can be “gender nonconforming” while being cis, which means that how you present yourself does have an association to a certain gender. completely contradictory to your beginning statement.

    • @kikkupop9714
      @kikkupop9714 Před 27 dny +3

      @@sofiakayte1362 Obviously how you present yourself has an association to a certain gender. Doesn't mean that association equates to the gender (i.e. wearing dresses doesn't = being a woman). When I say "gender nonconforming", I mean not conforming to the social constructs around gender like fashion, not gender itself. Like if you're a masculine cis woman you're not conforming to current gender norms but your gender still aligns with your biological sex. Which is being cis and gender nonconforming

  • @RhiannonPellegrino
    @RhiannonPellegrino Před 18 dny +10

    I never wear makeup and put my hair up all the time and wear basic clothes… im not trans or non binary 🙄 im a women who just doesnt care about how i look as long as im clean and comfy. People need to stop having to slap a label on something just normal to get attention 🙄🙄🙄 WHO CARES IF YOU DONT DRESS UP ‘PRETTY’, WEAR MAKEUP OR DO YOUR HAIR. But that certainly doesnt mean you arent straight up a women, you have a vagina, that defines your gender. Act/dress how you want but your body is your gender end of story 🙄🙄🙄

    • @elephant1871
      @elephant1871 Před 18 dny +2

      Exactly. “I don’t know if I’m a guy or a girl” well, then honey look down.

    • @jessicacalderon-rico89
      @jessicacalderon-rico89 Před 2 dny +3

      Yes! Agreed 💯. Enough of this nonsense.

  • @sarahbecker8230
    @sarahbecker8230 Před měsícem +26

    Go off!!! Love that you are doing what makes you feel like yourself. Your kids are so lucky to have a parent like you to look up to!

  • @Alicewatcheseverything
    @Alicewatcheseverything Před měsícem +30

    I feel like it suits you tbh, like you did give off this certain energy! Personally I'll miss the thick long hair but I'm glad you feel more comfortable.

  • @SavannahAusteen
    @SavannahAusteen Před měsícem +58

    Do you think you’re a man now? Genuinely curious. Think about your daughters and how confusing this will be for them. I feel really bad for them.

    • @MissClassyDoll
      @MissClassyDoll Před měsícem +5

      @@SavannahAusteen Oh shut up, they are allowed to be what they want

    • @rainshadows17
      @rainshadows17 Před měsícem +1

      I feel bad for you honestly
      Why do u care about cam, let them express themselves however they want to

    • @laila-lk6cc
      @laila-lk6cc Před měsícem +1

      @@MissClassyDollallowed*

    • @nancyok
      @nancyok Před měsícem +24

      Yeah this is heartbreaking. Another lost to this nonsense.

    • @MissClassyDoll
      @MissClassyDoll Před měsícem +2

      @@nancyok It's not nonsense? They are presenting how they want too, stop being so judgemental

  • @CEDL4072
    @CEDL4072 Před měsícem +99

    Hope you are living your most authentic life and some commentators just need to just idk, not be mean and mind their business 🙄 You're still a parent to your daughters and they seem happy and healthy. You're truly a phoenix. I also survived my baby's daddy suicide so I know EXACTLY the feeling. It's a lifestyle I don't exactly wish for anyone else but it is what it is.

    • @amandajustice013
      @amandajustice013 Před měsícem

      @@CEDL4072 online=making it everyone’s business. Glad we cleared things up 😊

    • @Kattaz0309
      @Kattaz0309 Před 4 hodinami

      Why do they need to put their business on social media?!
      If they feel the need to get views from this nonsense, then we can comment on it.

  • @mandylydena24
    @mandylydena24 Před měsícem +32

    I bought clippers several years ago and buzz my hair right off. People are freaked out when you’re born female, haven’t figured yourself out until your 40’s, and look like a guy. Hair is hair, clothes are clothes, who cares what we feel comfortable with. Not hurting anyone or trying to change others. Good for you Cam!

    • @mugginsquilts1
      @mugginsquilts1 Před měsícem +2

      how do you know someone is affirming their own sexuality/gender? Don't worry, THEY'LL tell you...

  • @janetdamboise6225
    @janetdamboise6225 Před měsícem +31

    Good job I really love it on you so who cares what other people think! I'm a 68 year old woman and I used to have a short kinda buzz cut in my mid twenties and loved it!!

  • @bbygirl97
    @bbygirl97 Před měsícem +53

    I don’t care, present your self however you want, but please don’t confuse your little daughters with the f pronouns. you gave birth to them, you’re their mother, not a ‘they’

    • @ilovecameronmonaghan
      @ilovecameronmonaghan Před 18 dny

      this isnt your business, pipe down and shut up.

    • @cupcakeadventures8770
      @cupcakeadventures8770 Před 3 dny +2

      This!! She is a she she is a mom was a wife

    • @millyofdaworldhola984
      @millyofdaworldhola984 Před dnem

      Don't comment rude comments like this. If Cam doesn't want to use she/her pronouns then that's non of your business. The kids will support and continue to love their mothers. Changing pronouns won't change that.

    • @bbygirl97
      @bbygirl97 Před dnem

      @@millyofdaworldhola984it’s my opinion and it’s not going to change

  • @catherinekoppen5467
    @catherinekoppen5467 Před měsícem +150

    FYI, you can have short hair, without being confused about your gender.

    • @reddneckkpieces
      @reddneckkpieces Před měsícem +38

      Good point, I 100% agree with you, I can't believe what this world has come to🙄

    • @bbygirl97
      @bbygirl97 Před měsícem +45

      right?? like, it’s become so normal nowadays to put labels on literally everything. you can’t even be a tomboy without calling yourself a “they”. like what does that even mean??

    • @reddneckkpieces
      @reddneckkpieces Před měsícem +2

      @@bbygirl97 yeah, no human on this planet is gender-neutral, so I guess they just don't want to be seen as human, that's the only explanation for it I guess🙄

    • @sydneybrooks9109
      @sydneybrooks9109 Před měsícem +26

      Right. I feel like people think that if they have short hair as a woman they have to switch genders too. 🙄

    • @reymki
      @reymki Před 28 dny +1

      you are really annoying

  • @makeuprudie6540
    @makeuprudie6540 Před měsícem +99

    She's completely changed

    • @hamildiggthonysauce
      @hamildiggthonysauce Před měsícem +14

      breaking news: people change 😱

    • @makeuprudie6540
      @makeuprudie6540 Před měsícem +16

      @@hamildiggthonysauce you don't have to be so rude! i didn't mean it in a bad way lol. Nowadays people just attack anyone. Go drink some water 😂

    • @hamildiggthonysauce
      @hamildiggthonysauce Před měsícem +2

      @@makeuprudie6540 apologies if you took that as rude. i didnt intent to be rude.

    • @chaehfair
      @chaehfair Před měsícem +2

      *they

    • @ashermaxcrew
      @ashermaxcrew Před měsícem

      @@makeuprudie6540if you didn’t mean it in a rude way start with using their pronouns

  • @manjisano8544
    @manjisano8544 Před 23 dny +25

    Have yall noticed the way she acts and talks and the switch when she cutted her hair ?

  • @rachelmoore2015
    @rachelmoore2015 Před měsícem +108

    Gender affirming? Does that mean you’re transitioning or you don’t identify as a woman anymore? Sorry I’m really confused by the title & what that means

    • @Finley____S24
      @Finley____S24 Před měsícem +44

      it just means they are presenting them self in a more gender neutral way, cam cutting their hair shorter makes them feel better about their gender, they have come out as non binary which means they neither identify as female nor male, their new haircut affirms to how they feel about their gender.

    • @gregliebig1083
      @gregliebig1083 Před měsícem +18

      ​@@Finley____S24 like robots for A I

    • @michaelaleigh2001
      @michaelaleigh2001 Před měsícem +1

      God this sounds so idiotic 😂 This they them shit is so out of pocket

    • @lpsnat6563
      @lpsnat6563 Před měsícem +8

      They came out as Genderfluid in February and use They/Them pronouns

    • @Finley____S24
      @Finley____S24 Před měsícem +4

      @@michaelaleigh2001 thats your opinion and i get it, pronouns are confusing but you have to understand that they are a person and they are the same person they where when they started.

  • @afrogal_legay6925
    @afrogal_legay6925 Před měsícem +56

    Not even kidding I was just sobbing over feeling my haircut is making me dysphoria

    • @ameliah2006
      @ameliah2006 Před měsícem +3

      I hope you can get a haircut you love one day 😊❤

  • @nancyok
    @nancyok Před měsícem +66

    How heartbreaking. Another traumatized woman falling into this nonsense.

    • @olikane
      @olikane Před měsícem +16

      How heartbreaking. Another traumatized woman feeling the need to bring others down to make herself feel superior, why don't you spend some time learning instead of hating people you don't understand 🩵

    • @jordanmartin3961
      @jordanmartin3961 Před měsícem +1

      cry me a river u miserable bitch

    • @nancyok
      @nancyok Před měsícem +13

      ​​@@olikaneI'm incredibly well educated in gender identity and sex and formerly was very pro trans/gender identity before educating myself more on it actually and I say this as a life long leftist but great baseless assumption ❤

    • @DJMetzler337
      @DJMetzler337 Před měsícem +3

      @@nancyok, I don’t believe that for one second. And even if that were the case, you should respect the “choices” of others if you truly feel that way.

    • @millyofdaworldhola984
      @millyofdaworldhola984 Před dnem +2

      I'm sorry, but how is this bad?

  • @nadaleenbrady8183
    @nadaleenbrady8183 Před 11 dny +3

    If you’re gay and a woman why do you want to look like a man? Im a 57 yr old woman who’s been married for 32 yrs with adult children- I do not get the pronoun thing or the different names for being gay or gender. I’m too old to change and to be honest I won’t. I’m just confused you can be lovely, a woman and gay?

  • @annawogen7476
    @annawogen7476 Před měsícem +14

    I cut all my hair off 2 years ago and I dressed very masculine and I was young and I found my self but I always where a hat and I where it backwards. And a coach told me the way you where your hat is the way you want to go in life.

  • @user-zv5lg1jj8g
    @user-zv5lg1jj8g Před měsícem +10

    As someone who worked as a receptionist for a hair salon, doing that to the schedule puts them super behind and late for their upcoming involved appointments, and they are usually super mean to us😂 but they shouldn’t be that way to the client.

  • @tlouitas
    @tlouitas Před měsícem +10

    It looks so good and I’m so glad you’re more comfortable now!
    Also getting it buzzed on the back & sides always feels so good (from someone who has short hair)

  • @amandajustice013
    @amandajustice013 Před měsícem +42

    Yikes another identity crisis while neglecting your children and letting them living in chaos with literally zero structure. Mom of the year ladies and gents.

    • @janessapeterson3425
      @janessapeterson3425 Před měsícem +2

      I couldn’t imagine reaching this hard HAHAHA 😂

    • @amandajustice013
      @amandajustice013 Před měsícem +2

      @@janessapeterson3425 good thing you don’t have to babe cause it’s not a reach 🙃😊

  • @maggierost1604
    @maggierost1604 Před měsícem +6

    I've been watching you since like 2018 and I just want you to know that I love watching your videos. I feel like our own personal journeys are so similar. I feel less alone watching your videos and I appreciate that so much. Keep living your life 💕

  • @aogaby2
    @aogaby2 Před měsícem +17

    You used to be so pretty 😢

  • @tynikamanuel834
    @tynikamanuel834 Před měsícem +19

    Love the haircut cam!😍😍 It really suits you 😊❤

  • @amyhughesbudgie
    @amyhughesbudgie Před měsícem +52

    Your confidence after the purple dye is shining through! You look great, this really does suit you in a way I never considered before. So great you feel affirmed

  • @crystalsmith3574
    @crystalsmith3574 Před měsícem +9

    I'll admit at the start of the video was like noooooo please. By the end I think you made a bold choice and it paid off!! 🔥🔥🔥 I love the color and after the cut I could see the jake gyllenhaal resemblance more (it's the eyes definitely) you look amazing with long or short hair honestly. Happy you found something you are comfortable with.

  • @user-ol2jk5sm5h
    @user-ol2jk5sm5h Před měsícem +86

    Well it's time to say goodbye to this channel. Watched it from the start, a young couple with a baby who against all odds made a family & home together. After the tragic death of Landon, continued watching to support this young widowed Mother until this video. To see a young woman suddenly decide to become non-binary & go by pronouns after being married to a man & birthing children is not a channel I wish to support any longer. The children need a Mom not a they/them. Good luck Camily, wish you well!

    • @reddneckkpieces
      @reddneckkpieces Před měsícem +46

      I 100% agree with you, I genuinely feel sorry and scared for her, I feel like she's so lost and doesn't know what to do with herself anymore, I just hope those children don't get caught in the woke communities trap. Those children need to focus on being children, not affirming their own MOTHER'S fake identity😢 but I truly hope she finds peace one day

    • @heymystalkerr_465
      @heymystalkerr_465 Před měsícem +25

      omg finally someone who gets it.

    • @sydneybrooks9109
      @sydneybrooks9109 Před měsícem +28

      Yeah unfortunately i unsubscribed also. I’ve been watching since day 1 but i just can’t support her anymore.

    • @reddneckkpieces
      @reddneckkpieces Před měsícem +3

      @@sydneybrooks9109 I don't blame u at all, I was never subscribed but I've always been supportive of this young lady

    • @ely3693
      @ely3693 Před měsícem +6

      you dident have to announce yourself... just leave😂

  • @Carla-ko6vy
    @Carla-ko6vy Před měsícem +60

    Those kids will be so confused. Having their mom trying to figure itself out on what gender it is and stuff. You chose to make kids young, not their fault, no need to put them through your confusing figure out

    • @FlowersfloralDesign
      @FlowersfloralDesign Před měsícem +1

      Lol

    • @milo9586
      @milo9586 Před měsícem +3

      Kids just like having a parent, someone to care for them and love them and have fun with them. kids don't care what someone identifies as. just be happy cam and the kids are happy

    • @janessapeterson3425
      @janessapeterson3425 Před měsícem

      Yeah….. they look so confused, abused, malnourished and sad lol

    • @Carla-ko6vy
      @Carla-ko6vy Před měsícem +2

      @@janessapeterson3425 confused is not equal with abused darling. And I can definitely tell you a child needs simple terms, if you complicate it too much, and add a lot of terms, anxiety will definitely lurk in

    • @sweetvalerie
      @sweetvalerie Před 26 dny

      @@janessapeterson3425lets not lie 😅

  • @annienoel5571
    @annienoel5571 Před měsícem +22

    awh cam! you look amazing and it's so clear how happy it made you to change it up. thanks for sharing this with us, always rooting for u and hoping you and the girls are doing well!

  • @elimeli3918
    @elimeli3918 Před měsícem +22

    my tip for getting back to ur natural color fast is by dying it a very similar tone (maybe slightly lighter) and then the transition looks less noticeable :)

  • @maegenflynn7565
    @maegenflynn7565 Před 27 dny +30

    This is just another example that people NEED therapy. Everyone who decides to make these changes have gone through trauma and that’s what caused it.

    • @WhyAliasIdontNeedOne
      @WhyAliasIdontNeedOne Před 21 dnem

      It is the perfect example of social media brainwashing people into thinking it is possible and "empowering" to act like the opposite sex. She probably consumed lots of leftist media.

  • @Gizzzmo68
    @Gizzzmo68 Před měsícem +43

    Speaking just facts here, if you wanted a less feminine haircut, congrats. You succeeded.

    • @Goldflower220
      @Goldflower220 Před měsícem +4

      yeah, thats what cam wanted lol

    • @reddneckkpieces
      @reddneckkpieces Před měsícem +32

      Yeah I feel sorry for her, that haircut looks horrible in my personal opinion😶

    • @Gizzzmo68
      @Gizzzmo68 Před měsícem

      @@reddneckkpieces, I thought I would get attacked if I gave my personal opinion, so I offered a fact, and she most certainly achieved that look. No seeing individual will ever find that haircul feminine. This is perhaps the poster look for a man's appendage falling off, but because "she" is so liberal, she's probably good with it.

    • @Ansley-mp2jm
      @Ansley-mp2jm Před 28 dny +1

      @@reddneckkpieces I get a lot of people don’t like it and that’s your personal opinion but if it makes her happy, just leave her alone because she looks confident beautiful and happy in her own skin😅

    • @reddneckkpieces
      @reddneckkpieces Před 28 dny +1

      @@Ansley-mp2jm it's pure delusion she's living in, convincing yourself that you're someone you're really not, it's only going to hurt her in the long run.

  • @erinshea8994
    @erinshea8994 Před měsícem +21

    I absolutely love this hair cut for you!!! It really helps mix the masculine and feminine look. Plus the purple really suits you. So happy to see how happy you are 💜

  • @Sara-wi5je
    @Sara-wi5je Před měsícem +11

    seeing you looking so comfortable with your new purple hair made me feel so giddy, soo happy for you!! i think it suits you really well, very you 🫶🏼

  • @khrystynadukhova5464
    @khrystynadukhova5464 Před měsícem +26

    Omg he has a husband? So that means you are a lesbian now? How confusing will that be for your kids. Mommy has another women to love🙄

    • @rainshadows17
      @rainshadows17 Před měsícem +2

      What's confusing lol?
      Mommy loves Another mommy?
      If anything they are teaching their kids to be open minded, something you clearly are not

    • @khrystynadukhova5464
      @khrystynadukhova5464 Před měsícem +12

      @@rainshadows17 no it’s disgusting.

    • @rainshadows17
      @rainshadows17 Před měsícem +2

      @@khrystynadukhova5464 what's disgusting is your narrow minded thoughts
      Stfu and go get a life you tr@nsphobic idiot

  • @kaliemcintyre8922
    @kaliemcintyre8922 Před 29 dny +36

    those kids are going to grow up so confused.

    • @jessikadewitt4077
      @jessikadewitt4077 Před 28 dny +1

      Who isn’t confused tho

    • @HB-uy5ov
      @HB-uy5ov Před 28 dny +5

      Honestly was thinking the same. This girl needs to deal with her trauma not switch genders.

    • @akiews20
      @akiews20 Před 19 dny

      ​@@HB-uy5ovShe is not switching genders just so you know

  • @amethsytwarrior
    @amethsytwarrior Před měsícem +9

    I’m so happy that you love your new hair, it suits you so well!!!

  • @brandiejohnson2487
    @brandiejohnson2487 Před měsícem +19

    i have no need of being this early … but i just wanna say im so proud of you and how far you have grown since I first started watching !

  • @inbalclair
    @inbalclair Před měsícem +159

    no one needs to agree with cam, but cam wants to do what makes her the happiest of herself. It’s not necessarily for anyone but herself. People want to express themselves to find their people too.

    • @lpsnat6563
      @lpsnat6563 Před měsícem +33

      Them Cam is Genderfluid and uses They/Them pronouns

    • @inbalclair
      @inbalclair Před měsícem +5

      @@lpsnat6563 ok that’s good to know, I wasn’t sure exactly

    • @Pokemon23491
      @Pokemon23491 Před měsícem +2

      They/ them is odd to say to one person imo, but the haircut looks good on them 😬.

    • @sofiiabrnl
      @sofiiabrnl Před měsícem +12

      @@Pokemon23491so is it weird (for example) when someone leaves their glasses and a stranger finds them and says “look someone forgot their glasses”?

    • @renluvsk
      @renluvsk Před měsícem +2

      @@Pokemon23491When you start using it, it becomes natural pretty quick! It is correct grammar

  • @juliaharrigan6857
    @juliaharrigan6857 Před měsícem +46

    YOU LOOK SO SICK! been watching since your first video, so great to see you happy ❤

  • @ivygoodwin1561
    @ivygoodwin1561 Před 28 dny +11

    Your new hair made me want a grape jolly rancher but I do not want to go to the store rn however I might go get some jolly ranchers tomorrow

  • @ALYT08
    @ALYT08 Před měsícem +70

    Girl. What?! 😢

    • @ashermaxcrew
      @ashermaxcrew Před měsícem +3

      Not a girl and if you don’t agree then don’t comment. Commenting that won’t change them

    • @vintage4563
      @vintage4563 Před měsícem +2

      @@ashermaxcrew DNA says she will always be a girl...

    • @gabbywade4587
      @gabbywade4587 Před měsícem +31

      @@ashermaxcrew If she's not a girl then how did she get pregnant? I'm so confused...

    • @Gay_Forest_Cryptid
      @Gay_Forest_Cryptid Před měsícem

      ​@@gabbywade4587They're have a female body, but they're not a girl. Another comment said they identify as gender fluid, but I'm not 100% sure about that

    • @justaemogirlwhosings9375
      @justaemogirlwhosings9375 Před měsícem +1

      ​@@Gay_Forest_CryptidStop spreading bs,you're born a female or a male. Nothing else no matter how delusional you want to be.

  • @alwayschooselove2104
    @alwayschooselove2104 Před měsícem +45

    At this point, just change the channel name...

  • @aden0448
    @aden0448 Před měsícem +7

    OMG,Cam that haircut suits you so well!!I'm encouraged to explore a bit more with my appearance after watching this video

  • @Piyumottiness
    @Piyumottiness Před 14 dny +8

    Western people have gone mad cant say more

  • @ElizaArcher
    @ElizaArcher Před měsícem +10

    You look amazing 😍❤ cutting my hair was a big step to feeling more like myself :)

  • @sophiajane5346
    @sophiajane5346 Před měsícem +8

    I’m happy ur feeling confident cam. We love you ❤

  • @cassandrahughes2897
    @cassandrahughes2897 Před měsícem +48

    Oh, sheesh, another one bites the dust. Best of luck to you. This is where i check myself out ... 😶‍🌫️🫡

  • @elizabethkarnafel5187
    @elizabethkarnafel5187 Před měsícem +4

    I loved loved your long hair. But it’s not about what I love. It’s about what YOU love for YOU. And I’m glad you did this for yourself and feeling more authentically yourself. Regardless of the opinions of anybody else, your opinion of your own hair and body is the most important. Good for you !

  • @shartbot1984
    @shartbot1984 Před 26 dny +52

    Those poor babies.....

    • @kileylogan6342
      @kileylogan6342 Před 22 dny +3

      It’s a haircut… relax

    • @strongroots2345
      @strongroots2345 Před 21 dnem +7

      @@kileylogan6342it’s definitely more than that

    • @mamabee2022
      @mamabee2022 Před 19 dny

      @@strongroots2345lmao no it’s not it’s a fkin hair cut 😂 jesus christ lol

  • @babyzelda1621
    @babyzelda1621 Před měsícem +29

    I’m so lost she was straight married to a man I’m assuming her loss made her change I’m not sure if that’s true to self 😢

    • @oliviaanderson1210
      @oliviaanderson1210 Před 29 dny +5

      I know it’s so tragic to see the photo of her with her husband at their wedding, normal hair color and beautiful clothes, a lovely child, literally the dream we all aspire to that’s the bedrock of happiness and civilization, and to now see her like this. Let’s pray for her. She did a complete 180 and has lost it.

    • @HB-uy5ov
      @HB-uy5ov Před 28 dny +9

      Trauma will do it to ya. I really hope she gets the help she needs soon before the girls are old enough to see it. I can’t believe her family isn’t stepping up more to support her.

    • @aliciaolsavsky4098
      @aliciaolsavsky4098 Před 19 dny +2

      Getting pregnant young, marrying so young and the trauma she endured this is all the result of mental health issues. Sadly but I see it a lot people wanting to be something else due to so many underlying issues.

    • @babyzelda1621
      @babyzelda1621 Před 19 dny

      @@aliciaolsavsky4098 I agree I worry about her

    • @ilovecameronmonaghan
      @ilovecameronmonaghan Před 18 dny

      why do you think this is your business? stand down and consider shutting your mouth, since its so obvious you never do

  • @DarkBunny03
    @DarkBunny03 Před měsícem +8

    So happy for you ❤ your eyes are so bright ! With that hair cut ! Slay 🫡

  • @mygrantlife9873
    @mygrantlife9873 Před měsícem +67

    This is not a cute look for you

  • @jackdennis3626
    @jackdennis3626 Před 16 dny +6

    Why the he'll did you screw your nice hair?

  • @JenJen_88
    @JenJen_88 Před měsícem +18

    May I ask what makes someone SO confused ?
    Don’t come for me as a judgemental or a hater. I want to try and understand and be educated.

    • @annaleonhardt3840
      @annaleonhardt3840 Před měsícem +1

      It’s the complete opposite of confusion actually. It’s being able to do what makes you feel like you, not just be who the world thinks you should be

    • @DJMetzler337
      @DJMetzler337 Před měsícem

      Many people have never felt like they fit into the gender binary. We who are non binary are more common than you think.

    • @silviagonzalez8779
      @silviagonzalez8779 Před měsícem +1

      yeahh i mean she has a very feminine face… and the confusion of being masculine???

    • @lt4865
      @lt4865 Před měsícem +3

      Everything she's been through has clearly caused the confusion. Nobody starts thinking this way unless they either have a lot of trauma, or want attention. Someone in this position needs therapy, not new pronouns.

    • @DJMetzler337
      @DJMetzler337 Před měsícem

      @@lt4865 , or they have never fit into the boxes society has for them. I know that’s how I am. There is nothing wrong with realizing who someone is. It’s not for you to say.

  • @ZoesBlog
    @ZoesBlog Před 26 dny +13

    It is ok to be a woman and not wear makeup and embrace your masculine side, that doesn’t make you a man, or something in the middle. Be proud to be a woman, we all come and think differently from one another and that makes us special. We can’t be defined. Sigh.

    • @user-sh3qe4pj5e
      @user-sh3qe4pj5e Před 24 dny +3

      Or maybe you could mind your own damn business and get a life! 😊

    • @ZoesBlog
      @ZoesBlog Před 24 dny

      @@user-sh3qe4pj5e I’d rather keep triggering you instead.

    • @elephant1871
      @elephant1871 Před 18 dny

      ⁠@@ZoesBlogI read your comment and I loved what you said, but I love you even more after what you replied to that person 😂

  • @tindrahgmo7473
    @tindrahgmo7473 Před měsícem +14

    You look so good cam💕

  • @KellyRogers-f1g
    @KellyRogers-f1g Před měsícem +7

    I’ve been here since day one and I could not be more proud of you Cam 😊

  • @ededdeddy17
    @ededdeddy17 Před měsícem +24

    cam I’m so excited for you!!! I cut my hair similarly in feb this year and you’re exactly right, every haircut from here just gets better as you learn how you like it! Running your hands through it and feeling so fresh is the best feeling 💓 the more authentic you are the better you look I promise

  • @irene_uwu
    @irene_uwu Před měsícem +3

    15:49 i was thinking cam looks like a character and pointed it themselves 😭😭😭 so real for that

  • @JL-vg2qu
    @JL-vg2qu Před měsícem +52

    No love, you are spiraling

    • @kristinalastname9445
      @kristinalastname9445 Před 21 dnem +3

      Lmao theyre so happy what are u even talking about- its just a haircut

    • @embracewithgrace8951
      @embracewithgrace8951 Před 20 dny +2

      I’ve had my hair long , short, natural and coloured changing your hair doesn’t mean you’re spiralling. Get a grip

    • @jennifermatthews3691
      @jennifermatthews3691 Před 18 dny +1

      oh get a grip. Cutting your hair short means nothing. Some people begin to just simply hate long hair after dealing with it for so long and are much happier with short hair. If someone is happy with cutting THEIR hair short fine... it does not affect you an any way.

    • @cupcakeadventures8770
      @cupcakeadventures8770 Před 3 dny

      She a lost girl

    • @cupcakeadventures8770
      @cupcakeadventures8770 Před 3 dny

      @@kristinalastname9445she*

  • @thekathrynwest
    @thekathrynwest Před měsícem +5

    I went from long hair to completely buzzed on the sides and back and a little shorter than yours up top. I loved the haircut but absolutely hated it on my face. Growing it out has been the biggest pain and I absolutely loved when mine was a little bit longer than yours is now. It definitely takes some time to play around with it to get it right!

  • @kylieo91
    @kylieo91 Před měsícem +75

    Everyone is on their own journey, and this is a part of theirs. To those leaving hateful comments I hope your day gets better…

  • @dietsmoke
    @dietsmoke Před měsícem +8

    i swear im always in sync with you! i just cut my hair too! i cut like half of it off into a bob to be more gender affirming. im going to go shorter in a couple of months to have a more masculine cut but now just wasnt the time

  • @katemueller1359
    @katemueller1359 Před měsícem +5

    it looks so good!!! i think the purple was a good move, it looks so cool!

  • @ameliah2006
    @ameliah2006 Před měsícem +1

    I just came from your TikTok and I’m glad CZcams seems to be more supportive. I love your new hairstyle! It suits you a lot. Cutting your hair will also set an example to your girls that they’re allowed to have self expression and be themselves. You’re a cool human being, keep being your TRUE AND AUTHENTIC SELF! 😊❤

  • @joyceglace340
    @joyceglace340 Před měsícem +19

    THIS IS SAD THESE R GODS CHILDREN THAT R BEING CORRUPTED

    • @rainshadows17
      @rainshadows17 Před měsícem +2

      Stfu why do you care about cam and their kids
      Not ur kids, not ur opinion

  • @nancyok
    @nancyok Před měsícem +16

    Girl you dont have a masculine face, thats wild to say. Youre a woman ❤️

  • @shawnahamilton4241
    @shawnahamilton4241 Před měsícem +109

    Hear me out. We don’t have to be non-binary a.k.a. a label just because we’re not girly or manly enough. Why can’t people just like what they like without becoming a label?

    • @padlocksncocoapuffs
      @padlocksncocoapuffs Před měsícem +23

      Sometimes labels are comforting to people and that’s ok. If they aren’t for you that’s ok too.

    • @destinyuribes110
      @destinyuribes110 Před měsícem +4

      That part everyone has to put lables on everything and even make ones up that dosnt make sense idk why everyone can't just be there selfs and take constructive criticism without thinking people r attacking them. You don't always have to agree with everyone you just have to respect that opinion and go on with no problem because not everyone is gonna like what you like and that's okay because opposites attract.

    • @DJMetzler337
      @DJMetzler337 Před měsícem +2

      As someone who is non binary, this is really offensive. You just don’t know how it feels to not be a man or a woman. And that’s not Cam’s problem or mine. That’s a you problem. There’s a difference between gender identity and gender expression.

    • @shawnahamilton4241
      @shawnahamilton4241 Před měsícem +24

      @@DJMetzler337 It is quite silly to me. Therapy is probably the way to go. You being offended by what I think is not a me problem, that is a you problem.

    • @Hannahsuebana12
      @Hannahsuebana12 Před měsícem +4

      @@shawnahamilton4241you being bothered by someone else’s pronouns sounds like a you problem.

  • @christinastanley5101
    @christinastanley5101 Před měsícem +40

    Your poor kids

    • @DJMetzler337
      @DJMetzler337 Před měsícem

      No, your poor kids. They may have a mother who doesn’t love them for who they are despite being “different”. That’s the tragedy here.

    • @ashermaxcrew
      @ashermaxcrew Před měsícem

      Poor kids? It’s almost like just because they have a queer parent doesn’t mean they won’t turn out queer oh wait they won’t do it just because of them bc they’ll know they can be their happy most authentic self with an amazing parent who will raise them to be responsible humans

  • @Skyeee207
    @Skyeee207 Před 23 dny +2

    Omg😭 I missed so much jeez, I have been watching since a little before Delilah was born, and I jusr came back after about 2 years and it's honestly wild how fast things change

  • @Anastasia-ct4es
    @Anastasia-ct4es Před měsícem +57

    whats next? Testosterone shots and top surgery😆

    • @mugginsquilts1
      @mugginsquilts1 Před měsícem +1

      no, the pronoun change first to 'them'.

    • @vintage4563
      @vintage4563 Před měsícem +7

      @@mugginsquilts1 She is one person ,not plural.

    • @mugginsquilts1
      @mugginsquilts1 Před měsícem

      @@vintage4563 you need to educate themself...

    • @reddneckkpieces
      @reddneckkpieces Před měsícem +20

      Ikr!! I used to love this channel, but ever since Landon passed away, it has just gone downhill from here, I'm genuinely scared and concerned for her, I mean tricking yourself into believing your someone your BIOLOGICALY NOT is very bad for ones mental health, cuz she's not living in reality rn, it's pure delusion that she's in, I hope she heals and gets better very soon with her mental health.

    • @vintage4563
      @vintage4563 Před měsícem +5

      @@reddneckkpieces I agree.

  • @julie_its_just_julie9729
    @julie_its_just_julie9729 Před měsícem +29

    unfollowing lolll

    • @rainshadows17
      @rainshadows17 Před měsícem +1

      Thank God, don't need loser transphobes here anyway

  • @noneofyourbusinesslolz6112
    @noneofyourbusinesslolz6112 Před měsícem +2

    i cut my hair in december of 2023 and i loved it! Didn't and still don't have supportive people in my life so I'm glad they do. Even though I have 4c hair, its so much easier. I didn't cut my hair for gender identity purposes; I cut it for mental health purposes and technically went behind my parents back. I can't tell you how many times I've been misgendered but for some reason I'm kinda okay with it. I can't dye my hair or really explore/experiment because i'm still underage and till have to obey my parents or whatever but seeing Cam do what they want with their hair despite the hate and societal norms make me so happy because I know what its like firsthand to have people talk s**t. Couldnt be more proud

  • @MHThinkinBoutTheEnd
    @MHThinkinBoutTheEnd Před měsícem +2

    Cam, I'm so happy for you! The cut looks so cute on you and the purple is so cool! Seeing your smile beem after getting the haircut made it for me. So happy to you progressing on your journey and finding the things that help you feel like you. Forget the negative, this is a positive for you ❤

  • @nardiamcphee5239
    @nardiamcphee5239 Před měsícem +8

    I love your new look cam and congrats on the change!
    A few years ago my mum used the colour remover because she used to die her hair blonde all the time and wanted a change sadly yes it turned out bright orange like you said and she has short hair. Even did it days before we went on holiday to New Zealand. It was Christmas I said to her just say it’s a Christmas colour

  • @khrystynadukhova5464
    @khrystynadukhova5464 Před měsícem +29

    Omg why would you do that to your hair? Not cute at all.

  • @jessica3285
    @jessica3285 Před 9 hodinami

    Thank God I found few decent folks in the comment section who are aware about the spiraling messed up situation. So heartbreaking.

  • @MaybeMalayna
    @MaybeMalayna Před měsícem +1

    I was absolutely stunned when I saw the thumbnail & title of this video! I never would’ve expected this kind of haircut on you but OH MY GOD idk how but you look so genuine to yourself now. I’ve been watching your videos since the very beginning and you seem so much more confident and authentic and comfortable now and you look SO AMAZING!! I’m so proud of you Cam ❤️

  • @hannahortiz1629
    @hannahortiz1629 Před měsícem +6

    I love your new hair it fits you so well! I absolutely adore it 🥰 makes me want to shave mine cuz I’m done taking care of it 😊🫣

  • @lynseyt83
    @lynseyt83 Před měsícem +7

    Love it!! Lookin good. I love the cut!!
    Love watching your journey 🩶🩶🩶

  • @reneeolo3814
    @reneeolo3814 Před měsícem +22

    I was smiling so big this entire video!! The hair just looks so RIGHT- you’ve got some real nb swag going on. So happy for you :)

    • @reneeolo3814
      @reneeolo3814 Před 21 dnem

      @Quvenzhanelewiz ? U got a worm up there or what?

  • @michaelaleigh2001
    @michaelaleigh2001 Před měsícem +87

    Oh girly this ain’t it 😅

    • @MissClassyDoll
      @MissClassyDoll Před měsícem +16

      @@michaelaleigh2001 Just like your face that ain't it either

    • @erinm1373
      @erinm1373 Před měsícem +7

      not a girly

    • @michaelaleigh2001
      @michaelaleigh2001 Před měsícem +6

      @@MissClassyDoll aren’t you funny 😆

    • @michaelaleigh2001
      @michaelaleigh2001 Před měsícem

      @@erinm1373 ur delulu 🫶🏻

    • @kynn..cordell
      @kynn..cordell Před měsícem +6

      it seriously isnt…so sad looking back i know landen would be upset

  • @katherinenichole
    @katherinenichole Před měsícem +13

    im so proud of them for making big steps to be more themselves. they have been through so much they deserve our support. :))

  • @ambzer98
    @ambzer98 Před měsícem +6

    You look amazing either way, and it's really sad that other people are upset over a haircut... like it changes anything about you 😂 Slay monarch 👸🤴

  • @PAIS_IS_BETTER
    @PAIS_IS_BETTER Před měsícem +60

    guys i feel like it was js yesterday her and her bf were raising their first baby, what happened

  • @nicolesandhercats
    @nicolesandhercats Před měsícem +4

    I love this hair cut and color on you! It really makes your eyes pop and seriously makes you super androgynous. Congrats on living more authentically you!

  • @persephone385
    @persephone385 Před měsícem +76

    wth has this channel come to… these poor girls

    • @afrogal_legay6925
      @afrogal_legay6925 Před měsícem +9

      @@persephone385 shhhh let them be themself it’s not your life

    • @MissClassyDoll
      @MissClassyDoll Před měsícem +10

      Shes not doing anything wrong

    • @ElizaArcher
      @ElizaArcher Před měsícem +1

      Get your judgemental ass out of here 😊 unsub and be happy, no need to leave this type of comments 🫡

    • @persephone385
      @persephone385 Před měsícem +20

      @@MissClassyDoll look through her videos, she takes on a new persona every month, it has to be confusing as hell for her kids

    • @MissClassyDoll
      @MissClassyDoll Před měsícem +2

      @@persephone385 She deals with her mental health as do I! She's figuring herself out like I am, stop being so judgemental

  • @MegaDerpification
    @MegaDerpification Před měsícem +5

    The short hair suits you SO incredibly well Cam! Thank you so much for feeling secure enough to share these changed in your life, as a trans person myself that first gender affirming haircut is truly life changing😊

  • @Katenpotatoes
    @Katenpotatoes Před dnem

    You're allowed to figure out who you are, outside of being a parent, while also being a good parent. These negative comments are very odd. Those kids are loved and cared for.

  • @kay-qc2pb
    @kay-qc2pb Před měsícem +1

    I’m seriously blown away by how amazing you look with that haircut!! Wow! It makes your eyes look bigger, it suits you so well! I’m so happy for you Cam♥️ love from Canada

  • @NinaZeffari
    @NinaZeffari Před měsícem +26

    It's always the traumatized kid. Time to unfollow

    • @oliviaanderson1210
      @oliviaanderson1210 Před 29 dny +3

      I wouldn’t unfollow because she obviously needs support. She is obviously deeply damaged and needs empathy to get her out of it. If everyone leaves her, the only people left are those who support this kind of stuff and the further spiral.

    • @NinaZeffari
      @NinaZeffari Před 29 dny +6

      @@oliviaanderson1210 I dont support the LGBT community + I think this change has to do with the trauma she is experiencing and I wont be supporting a lost of gender identity. CZcams might not be the right place to heal. Ive been here since the beginning, it broke my heart when I saw what happened to Landon and I was interested in all her projects. But THIS. nope.

    • @HB-uy5ov
      @HB-uy5ov Před 28 dny +2

      @@oliviaanderson1210I see what you’re trying to get at, but no one can’t make her get the help she needs from behind a screen. Unfortunately I think she’s gunna have to hit rock bottom first. She’s already spiraling, pray for her children.

  • @meep1539
    @meep1539 Před měsícem +5

    I cannot imagine how good it feels!!! Looks great!! :)

  • @mightymorganl6890
    @mightymorganl6890 Před měsícem +1

    Coco WENT IN lolol her devilish laugh sent me

  • @Ranchmomma0
    @Ranchmomma0 Před měsícem +33

    Are your kids allowed to call you MOM. Omg poor babies. Ughh

    • @isabellaestrella3028
      @isabellaestrella3028 Před měsícem +3

      Poor babies???? Just because someone identifies as non binary doesn’t mean they can’t take care of their children!!! Jesus Christ you need help

    • @millyofdaworldhola984
      @millyofdaworldhola984 Před dnem

      Don't comment rude comments like this. If Cam doesn't want to use she/her pronouns then that's non of your business. The kids will support and continue to love their mothers. Changing pronouns won't change that.