The Good & The Beautiful Drama

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  • čas přidán 8. 09. 2024
  • Social Media Chaos Coordinator? Yes- I feel there is a group of folks that get a kick out of stirring up drama however I have a solution.
    This video is for everyone.
    Prepare to be surprised as I tackle what we all need to do when there is drama surrounding curriculum choices and other homeschool issues that we don't agree with. 🌻
    Proverbs 15:1 and Romans 12:18
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    From time to time, I receive free or discounted items from other companies. The item(s) are provided in exchange for a review. This video expresses my own thoughts & my honest opinions.
    J3- I appreciate your editing skills & everything you've taught me. You make it all come together.
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    Psalm 61

Komentáře • 74

  • @SummerMeyers
    @SummerMeyers Před 7 měsíci +12

    Say it louder! Every time I see those videos I feel such a negative vibe and I don't need that noise in my life. Homeschooling is hard enough. So grateful for wise mamas like you!

  • @vmargarita
    @vmargarita Před 2 měsíci +1

    Be peacemakers! Not gonna lie, I'm guilty of not always being a peacemaker. You always have such great advice!! Pursue peace!! 😍

  • @onebow2arrows543
    @onebow2arrows543 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Such a testament of Gods Heart. He leads our steps by streams of living waters. Prayer is so vital in everything we choose for our family’s and ourselves. More eyes on Jesus and less eyes on what others are doing. 🙏🙏🙏.

  • @joyiasells4810
    @joyiasells4810 Před 7 měsíci +8

    Thanks for this video! Every family is different. Use what works for your family and your children. There is no need to be negative towards someone because they choose to use a certain curriculum. There are many different choices out there and that is the beauty of homeschooling. We all have the freedom to choose.

  • @seasonsofwonder
    @seasonsofwonder Před 7 měsíci +5

    Yes! So true! We are to be respectful and kind and in this way be a reflection of God's love. Especially as Christian homeschooling moms we are to be an example for our little ones and others. 🙏💕💗

  • @reclaimingwonder
    @reclaimingwonder Před 2 měsíci +1

    Love and so agree with your take on all the drama around TGTB! ❤

  • @lifewithginab
    @lifewithginab Před 7 měsíci +7

    So true. ❤️ i love your hearing your heart on this ❤ lets br peace keepers! After all it's just curriculum and we all have different needs :)

  • @thehudsonshub
    @thehudsonshub Před 7 měsíci +5

    I love the message of this video, CJ. You are spreading love and kindness.❤

  • @walkswithholly4610
    @walkswithholly4610 Před 7 měsíci +3

    Hey CJ - you have such a great way of presenting things 💜 I do love how we all have our own unique style for our homeschool - doing what works best for our families is such a blessing when it comes to homeschooling

  • @TheHomeschoolCounselingNetwork
    @TheHomeschoolCounselingNetwork Před 6 měsíci +1

    Thank you so much for this! So very true! We need to do better. We are all here to support one another. As homeschoolers, we are in agreement that ALL children deserve a quality education. The methods, styles, or curricula we choose may vary, but our goals are the same. Thank you for having the courage to say what needed to be said.

  • @sarahe7515
    @sarahe7515 Před 7 měsíci +4

    I have never watched your videos but this popped up. I love every thing you said! You got a new fan!

  • @PrayingForMiraclesWithCarol
    @PrayingForMiraclesWithCarol Před 5 měsíci +1

    Excellent point. As a peacemaker for as long as I can remember, you are so right. Many people love the negative attention of creating chaos.

  • @liamberry8064
    @liamberry8064 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Absolutely correct that if we are in doubt then listen to that nudge of the spirit if it’s a no. The spirit will nudge you in the right direction! ❤

  • @CRWottrich
    @CRWottrich Před 5 měsíci +1

    As much as is possible, Live peaceably with all ❤ thanks for sharing this godly advice.

  • @chrisduckettMusic
    @chrisduckettMusic Před 5 měsíci +1

    Amen 🙏 God is good

  • @ChosenByHisGrace
    @ChosenByHisGrace Před 5 měsíci +1

    That’s right! Set them straight sis! ❤

  • @Homeschool.in.Paradise
    @Homeschool.in.Paradise Před 7 měsíci +4

    Yes!! So true!! We are all different families with different values and we should always be respectful to others and their choices ❤

  • @diannakarnes8696
    @diannakarnes8696 Před 5 měsíci +1

    My mother always told me if I don’t have anything nice to say, then I should say nothing! ❤

  • @edenharvest
    @edenharvest Před 6 měsíci +1

    I didn't know there was such drama in the community. As christians, we do indeed need to do better. ❤Thanks for the encouragements.

  • @tatanatodd7451
    @tatanatodd7451 Před 7 měsíci +3

    I just had this conversation with a friend. 🕊Thank you!

  • @NaaSydnia
    @NaaSydnia Před 5 měsíci +1

    Yes. Everyone doesn't do everything the same. People do need to be more mindful of their words. God bless you and it is good to see you.

  • @Sunnyinthesuburbs
    @Sunnyinthesuburbs Před 7 měsíci +2

    Hi friend! Hope you’re having a blessed Sunday. Such a great and informative video. It’s a great reminder of how we should all be spreading love and peace through our community. TFS, and have a wonderful evening! 😀

  • @ThePreciousLife
    @ThePreciousLife Před 6 měsíci +2

    Wow. I don't know exactly what you're talking about, but I can imagine by some of the things you said. It is important to tame the tongue as well as the keyboard.
    I recently heard about The Good & the Beautiful, about 6 weeks ago. The lady had so many good things to say about it. I haven't checked it out. But the name itself, I thought was so nice, because I had just read something powerful and inspirational, and the words "good and beautiful" were talked about much in it. Anyhow.
    I would like to check out the two videos you showed here, and decide for myself.
    I know this, as Christians, when it comes to sin, it is clear. But when it's a gray area. A preference or conviction, we must give room for others to, and for the Holy Spirit to lead each one of us.
    Everything nowadays, is a matter of contention and a reason to be offended and give others a piece of their mind. It is so draining.
    May God Himself fill those who are diligently seeking Him, and may He reward them with Himself- our exceedingly great reward. ❤

  • @beyondthebookshomeschool
    @beyondthebookshomeschool Před 7 měsíci +3

    Yes, yes, yes!! I love this video. Thank you for the positive message.

  • @BlossomsOfGrace
    @BlossomsOfGrace Před 5 měsíci +1

    I agree, people are always watching. I enjoyed your videos.❤

  • @jonathanjenckes
    @jonathanjenckes Před 7 měsíci +3

    This is really good to keep in mind before commenting

  • @momzestlife
    @momzestlife Před 6 měsíci +1

    Say it louder! YES and amen to this. Thank you so much.

  • @sjaap141
    @sjaap141 Před 6 měsíci +1

    We love TGATB for our family! It’s so strange to think that I would have a strong opinion on what other people teach their kids. Aren’t we all, as loving parents, doing what we feel is best for our children? I don’t have any time to micromanage what others are doing! I just listen to God and what He wants for my family ❤ thank you for this reminder!

    • @MomIt101
      @MomIt101 Před dnem +1

      We love TGTB too. I didn't know people had such an issue with it🙈

  • @amberfaulkner1722
    @amberfaulkner1722 Před 7 měsíci +3

    Thank you for your positivity!

  • @mariscadenby4300
    @mariscadenby4300 Před 7 měsíci +3

    I completely agree! ❤

  • @HomeSweetHomeschoolLife
    @HomeSweetHomeschoolLife Před 7 měsíci +3

    I just had this same discussion with my husband.

  • @YasuTaniina
    @YasuTaniina Před 7 měsíci +3

    We started out with the good and the beautiful. My 6 year old son liked the songs, but hated the fluff. He mostly wants to get into the meat of the lesson. I loose him fast when theres busy work for the sake of busy work. We switched to Starfall and for math were doing easy peasy. He zoomed past 1st grade and is happily on 2nd grade math. My sister has been homeschooling for I think 9 years and really doesn't like the good and the beautiful, a lot more then us. Ironically we're of the same denomination as the creators of the good and the beautiful, but I still feel like it's just not really challenging enough, and the extra work is just less fun then intended and more kids spinning their wheel. My mom was a public /private school teacher herself in the 80s-90s before homeschooling us, and she had really mixed feelings after seeing my son struggle with it first hand. Overall, at least for 1st grade, we feel it talks down to and underestimates kids. It just was an awful fit for us

    • @homeschoolingthroughhighschool
      @homeschoolingthroughhighschool  Před 7 měsíci

      Hi! I appreciate you sharing this. 🙂
      Yes-It works for some and not for others. Best wishes on the remainder of the school year &
      Thank you for tuning in. 🌻

  • @howtohomeschool
    @howtohomeschool Před 7 měsíci +2

    I love that you say there is a way to say things without being hurtful but even Jesus said his message was offensive. Something to think about. ❤

    • @ldv02
      @ldv02 Před 7 měsíci

      Ephesians say we gotta say the truth in love. His message was offensive bc ppl were convicted not bc he was rude about it

  • @asuslp
    @asuslp Před 6 měsíci +1

    Good for you, beautiful lady!

  • @ldv02
    @ldv02 Před 7 měsíci +2

    Amen!
    Luke 9:50 KJV
    And Jesus said unto him, Forbid him not: for he that is not against us is for us.

  • @ThisHicksHouse
    @ThisHicksHouse Před 7 měsíci +1

    Yes, thank you so much for this!!!🙌🏻👏🏼

  • @amandamendoza4181
    @amandamendoza4181 Před 7 měsíci +1

    Sing it!❤😊 Love you more and more with each video!

  • @ShardaeRenee
    @ShardaeRenee Před 7 měsíci +3

    I never understood all the drama. Everyone has to do what's best for their family. 🙄

  • @christ_above_all3288
    @christ_above_all3288 Před 7 měsíci +3

    Subscribed

  • @WindyCityHomeschool
    @WindyCityHomeschool Před 7 měsíci +8

    It doesn’t help that a company bashes them either.

  • @lisacg4438
    @lisacg4438 Před 6 měsíci +1

    I may be late but what is going on? What drama? I have no clue what's going on.🤷‍♀️

    • @homeschoolingthroughhighschool
      @homeschoolingthroughhighschool  Před 6 měsíci

      Hi. As you search through the comments you’ll see a bit of what’s going on. I hope to switch the narrative and have people think before they post. Thanks for tuning in. 🌻

    • @katie7748
      @katie7748 Před měsícem +1

      99% of the time, it comes from people clutching their pearls that someone is choosing NOT to use THATB. I have yet to see any other curriculum with such...to put it nicely...enthusiastic fans. Some of them get downright mean.

  • @gatheredandgroundedhomeschool
    @gatheredandgroundedhomeschool Před 7 měsíci +1

    👀

  • @ShannonCarpenterTHMCoach
    @ShannonCarpenterTHMCoach Před 7 měsíci +2

    💯 We have the opportunity to represent Christ on the web!!!❤❤

    • @homeschoolingthroughhighschool
      @homeschoolingthroughhighschool  Před 7 měsíci +1

      Amen!🌻

    • @ThePreciousLife
      @ThePreciousLife Před 6 měsíci +1

      Amen! ❤❤❤

    • @ThePreciousLife
      @ThePreciousLife Před 6 měsíci +2

      I've seen Christians I admire, answer comments with a bit of pride or witty defensiveness, and I still love them. But I gotta say, the people I instantly admire, are people who answer back with kindness and humility. It's so beautiful. ❤

  • @howtohomeschool
    @howtohomeschool Před 7 měsíci +6

    Is peace not important than promoting the gospel? I think it's worth offending someone to tell them the truth. Thanks for this though.

    • @leebug8568
      @leebug8568 Před 7 měsíci +4

      You have to be careful there, as Romans 14 says we aren't suppose to criticize other believers as we can draw them away from faith altogether.

    • @howtohomeschool
      @howtohomeschool Před 7 měsíci +2

      @@leebug8568 but what if it's done in love? Do we not disciple and discipline "with a rod" if required? Think of Eli's sons and God's stinging rebuke to Eli. Appreciate your thoughts on this. I think Romans 14 is about non gospel issues.

    • @WildBison74
      @WildBison74 Před 7 měsíci

      @@howtohomeschoolI guess I’m missing the overall point of the video. Did something happen with the good and beautiful?

    • @user-vd2jk7dl3p
      @user-vd2jk7dl3p Před 6 měsíci +1

      ​. That's what I'm trying to figure out