Off The Record: What's the Loneliest You've Ever Felt? (ft. Jason Cheny)

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  • @Vincisomething
    @Vincisomething Před rokem +478

    I think Jason fits here more than he thinks

    • @bethnichols2875
      @bethnichols2875 Před rokem +29

      Yep, I think he has found his tribe of people. It's a beautiful thing.

    • @Alexander-xk2nb
      @Alexander-xk2nb Před rokem +25

      Hes definitely on the same wavelength as the group.

  • @bigchris757
    @bigchris757 Před rokem +245

    Everytime Jason Cheny starts to tell a story or a point he's trying to make, all I can hear is the "have you ever had a dream" kid. Such a great addition to the show.

    • @Sweettormentt
      @Sweettormentt Před rokem +5

      YESSS !! He says so much but im so confused but I get it at the same time 😂

  • @wendy7858
    @wendy7858 Před rokem +479

    Jason is a perfect guest

  • @Priya_B
    @Priya_B Před rokem +282

    Jason is so endearingly honest 😂😢❤ Ive watched JK since 2012 and after David So; he is my next favourite guest

  • @testing123.
    @testing123. Před rokem +99

    17:55 this was such a mature conversation about connection. Thanks for going through this with Jason.

  • @_Maxten
    @_Maxten Před rokem +166

    I think what jason is saying is that he prefers a deep, genuine connection but is constantly wondering if this is/could become, the real thing hes searching for. & its probably due to the fact that he hasn't experienced it many times in his life. its almost like if you have a hard time accepting love bc u dont even know if it is real love ur getting.

    • @Hansahmed818
      @Hansahmed818 Před rokem +23

      Really well said! I think he has a different idea of what true friendship is. It’s more than just being able to vibe feeling truly heard and understood.

    • @_Maxten
      @_Maxten Před rokem +9

      also id say that mindset makes it feel hard to be present which can give you a constant lingering feeling of loneliness overall

    • @SpaceshipKev
      @SpaceshipKev Před rokem +2

      I'm the exact same way where all of my friendships are deep but I don't have that many friends and I constantly feel lonely.

    • @_Maxten
      @_Maxten Před rokem

      @@SpaceshipKev cant help u there.
      rel8able tho. thats why i know what hes saying. could be worse. LMFAO

  • @Jes-in-Simple
    @Jes-in-Simple Před rokem +30

    I love how nick and Anthony are raising their hands to ask questions and Joe is calling on them, “what?” 😂😂

  • @SunnyB_NewPeace
    @SunnyB_NewPeace Před rokem +29

    Just Kidding News is good for men's mental health!! This episode felt like a hug 🤗

  • @ehbri1
    @ehbri1 Před rokem +50

    Jason Cheny is a beloved guest...and the whole time they accost and bulldoze him 🤣🤣

  • @strawhat_jay
    @strawhat_jay Před rokem +25

    This episode is gold. Really puts in perspective how others perceive loneliness. A mature topic discussed among a great group, and I think its cool how Jason brings these topics out. I think that they all have different frequencies, but compliment each other like how a chord is built.

  • @LawrencePage
    @LawrencePage Před rokem +72

    Jason needs to be permanent on the show. I'd contribute to patreon to make that happen. Also I wish I can be friends with Ryan, his emotional intelligence/awareness is next level bruh.

  • @joshuathomas4070
    @joshuathomas4070 Před rokem +33

    I have been bedridden for 6 years with Guillan Barre. After I got sick everyone started to disappear. Now all I really have around me is family. It's a very intense loneliness, like Ryan described. Everyone disappearing kind of confirmed what I thought. That I've always been an outcast with a day pass with the cool kids. I really relate with Jason in this episode.

    • @xneverfull
      @xneverfull Před rokem +6

      I’m so sorry to hear that. I am a CNA at a LTC and your comment gave me the nudge I needed to continue giving the interpersonal and compassionate care that I do. I wish the best for you and your journey

    • @joshuathomas4070
      @joshuathomas4070 Před rokem +3

      @@xneverfull Thank you!

  • @mela2727
    @mela2727 Před rokem +17

    Well this video was unexpectedly vulnerable and comforting. Especially after Jason started the conversation on wavelengths and opening up about how he sees himself in group settings. I totally get that! Also, appreciated how the guys were very warm with their responses too. A wholesome vid to end the day with !💪💙

  • @GYSMelanie5
    @GYSMelanie5 Před rokem +41

    I need to let Jason know he's definitely on their wavelength one million percent! We see you! We LOVE when you're on! I laughed through the entire episode!🤣🤣🤣. Now for me I felt the absolute loneliest 2 times in my life. The first I was 15 and just mentally and emotionally not okay. The 2nd was when I found out my ex-husband had an entire other family kids included. Worst loneliest time for me ever.

  • @fay_g0
    @fay_g0 Před rokem +45

    jason is the definition of shower thoughts LOL

  • @Jiisica
    @Jiisica Před rokem +23

    Make Jason a regular 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 also how has he been a guest this many times and y’all haven’t shown him the clip until now???

  • @NinaInthaWorld
    @NinaInthaWorld Před rokem +17

    I totally empathize with Jason about wanting deeper relationships and having friend crushes. Like Ryan said, its a core insecurity where you might be scared like you're not enough or too weird/too whatever.

  • @victoriaskyful
    @victoriaskyful Před rokem +21

    Ryan is incredible at storytelling

  • @RealAzn
    @RealAzn Před rokem +29

    The Jason cheny impression from Anthony is a work of art😂 13:58

  • @lovinggossipgirl
    @lovinggossipgirl Před rokem +10

    I love how Jason turns his chair to the host. You can really tell he’s into it and trying to listen to the story

  • @heyytiff
    @heyytiff Před rokem +18

    Jason seems to fumble around trying to explain himself with you guys but he's always hilarious.

  • @extra4542
    @extra4542 Před rokem +19

    honestly the matching is pretty crazy lol. esp the black shirt AND smiley face and blue kimono robes, one is extremely specific and the other is uncommon lol

  • @vitruvianman7431
    @vitruvianman7431 Před rokem +8

    I love Jason and his chemistry with the group, please bring him on more!

  • @leahsmith5333
    @leahsmith5333 Před rokem +12

    This was such a sweet episode, I love getting a bit more insight into the guests and hosts!

  • @Dude-tr6kj
    @Dude-tr6kj Před rokem +24

    Jason is hidden gem

  • @c.b.6601
    @c.b.6601 Před rokem +12

    I really enjoyed this episode. It was very relatable and sometimes I wish I was there in real time to contribute to the convo haha. It was nice to hear you guys talk about “deeper” topics. It would be nice to hear more about stuff like this/mental health topics.
    Somehow I feel closer to them because I got to see a bit more of their personality and how they think (especially Jason).
    It feels like a long time since I’ve watched JK consistently. I go through phases where I decide to click on their video and I get hooked all over again.

  • @smrniskool
    @smrniskool Před rokem +11

    Jason vibes comedically with this group more than 99% of the other guests that have been on here.

    • @bethnichols2875
      @bethnichols2875 Před rokem +2

      I think part of it is how the group has spent so much time together on camera and with their off camera group chat, etc. that they have a lot of inside jokes that it takes a bit for others, like Jason and some JK followers that aren't regular watchers to understand and catch up on.

  • @umiumidabi
    @umiumidabi Před rokem +11

    We need Steve in these kind of sentimental conversations lol 😂

  • @TubeDeviant
    @TubeDeviant Před rokem +16

    Holy shit, Jason is just naturally hilarious, and not even in a comedic way.. It's a whole different kind of.. charisma.. It's a wholesome, innocent type of comedy..
    But he also said he did some weird shit behind a dumpster before.. That was strange.. haha

  • @hahayahable
    @hahayahable Před rokem +7

    Anthony’s hearts are so adorable

  • @iceomotion
    @iceomotion Před rokem +3

    Probably the main reason I watch is when Jason is a guest I'm glad he came on as a guest its super entertaining when he is there

  • @PuJolsLol
    @PuJolsLol Před rokem +14

    Jason is one of the best guests, Hope to see him permanently on the show.

  • @fireflyx808
    @fireflyx808 Před rokem +10

    Jason is so hilarious and he doesn't even have to try LOL

  • @jk4115
    @jk4115 Před rokem +6

    Jason giving infp vibes this entire ep I respect his desire for genuine friendships .

    • @Tearsofblood25
      @Tearsofblood25 Před rokem

      I've had the same exact thoughts as Jason. He reminds me of myself when I was a kid. Especially the way he talks.
      Just wondering how did you figure out he was an INFP? I took multiple MBTI tests and that's the type I've been ended up with on my last few tests. What about him gives you INFP vibes? I'm curious.

    • @jk4115
      @jk4115 Před rokem +1

      ​@@Tearsofblood25 i'm an infp and one of our characteristics which stands out the most is that we're the ones who value deeper connection over superficial qualities. whenever i meet an infp or person with similar traits (like enfp) they are often more altruistic compared to those who aren't an infp. jason might not be an infp but something tells me he has most of the traits.

  • @h3ll0g0rg30us423
    @h3ll0g0rg30us423 Před rokem +33

    You guys are synced…like how girl’s periods sync. 😂😂😂

  • @janesianjanesian
    @janesianjanesian Před rokem +4

    "I used to think that the worst thing in life was to end up alone. It's not. The worst thing in life is to end up with people who make you feel alone."
    Robin Williams

  • @Nightmare0112
    @Nightmare0112 Před rokem +2

    Jason's "Oh..oops." at the end of the video was so innocent 🤣🤣

  • @mungmongie
    @mungmongie Před rokem +2

    24 minutes and 54 seconds of wholesome content *chefs kiss👌*

  • @silogz
    @silogz Před rokem +3

    BEST GUEST EVER!! Make Jason permanent!

  • @Selin14.03
    @Selin14.03 Před rokem +8

    Jason is soo kind!!

  • @OlDirtyChinesRestaurant
    @OlDirtyChinesRestaurant Před rokem +8

    Ryan always has these crazy stories.

  • @lovelynn93
    @lovelynn93 Před rokem +4

    Jason's oops at the end was a perfect way to end this OTR!

  • @alexiatorres948
    @alexiatorres948 Před rokem +2

    This was one of my favorites, very therapeutic

  • @pa1773la
    @pa1773la Před rokem +3

    Always cracks me when Jason gets confused and trying hard to impress the guys

  • @deeluvstee
    @deeluvstee Před rokem +5

    Wow! I can’t believe Ryan’s vision of the Jersey came to fruition 😂😂😂 I neeeeeed it!! Hahahaha

    • @extra4542
      @extra4542 Před rokem +4

      they didn’t show it here but it says 12 in the front! critical detail lol

    • @bethnichols2875
      @bethnichols2875 Před rokem +2

      Yep, he had it made and gifted it to Steve during one of the episodes with Julia. Ryan had her hand it to Steve after they showed her the Clint Eastwood clip.

  • @ninas8210
    @ninas8210 Před rokem +2

    the 'oops' was too cute

  • @kwerty49
    @kwerty49 Před rokem +4

    People relate to the way Jason does when they wear a mask around those not in their inner comfort circle. He's either not being his authentic self or hiding to protect himself/others.

  • @bethnichols2875
    @bethnichols2875 Před rokem +4

    Good discussion. Thank you for sharing your stories, guys.

  • @MaGmaRinE
    @MaGmaRinE Před rokem +2

    "no its normal, now we're on the same wavelength" 😂
    he does seem quite anxious although that's what makes him so funny but hope he'll loosen up soon, also Ryan's suggestion about experiencing smth for the first time together is prolly a great idea

  • @striptalkbandit
    @striptalkbandit Před rokem +9

    Y’all really twins today 🤣

  • @testing123.
    @testing123. Před rokem +5

    23:52 "thats not normal though"

  • @santig1857
    @santig1857 Před rokem +2

    The outfit matching is out the wazoo, even a smiley face on both Jason and Ryan's shirts

  • @peterlongac
    @peterlongac Před rokem +3

    Jason chenny gots a unique comedy style, killer teeth, and humility. You'll find many trust worthy friends.
    Whats that saying ? You are/become the top 5 people you surround yourself most

  • @IntoMyWorld97
    @IntoMyWorld97 Před rokem +1

    PLEASE PLEASE Make Jason Cheny a regular lmao the guys and we love you Jason, stop fighting it.
    Plus Anthony totally giving the fans what they want with his little hearts to Jason lmaoo

  • @diegoescarfuller5096
    @diegoescarfuller5096 Před rokem +5

    JASON IS THE GREATEST GUEST

  • @BraindeadGabe
    @BraindeadGabe Před rokem +2

    😂😂😂 i hope he builds a friendship with the rest of the guys he fits perfectly as much as he denies it. “Ohoops 😅”

  • @triniwarrior16
    @triniwarrior16 Před rokem +11

    This time of the year I feel lonely, I’m single and it’s not like I need someone but I want them. I need someone who wants me for my love

    • @abeepeep
      @abeepeep Před rokem +1

      Exactly how I also feel, bro..

  • @jaycee8748
    @jaycee8748 Před rokem +4

    Jason is a national treasure dude 😂

  • @Angie-ik9ng
    @Angie-ik9ng Před rokem +1

    i love jason sm. one of my fav guest frf

  • @olajuwonthomas7342
    @olajuwonthomas7342 Před rokem +2

    Really enjoyed this conversation. I engage with people and very seldom do I actually consider myself connected with those I value and consider friends. Sure I speak with people and make myself outgoing when need be but it makes me feel like an imposter to myself in a strange way. I don’t have the capacity to emotionally invest in everyone when I’m too focused on personal things....

  • @raiineu
    @raiineu Před rokem +2

    I can relate with Jason. I’m glad jknews made him feel like he can be himself.

  • @brandonianproductions
    @brandonianproductions Před rokem +17

    I’m currently lonely, I’ve never clicked so fast on a notification.

  • @kelleyd9873
    @kelleyd9873 Před rokem +2

    Love Jason on here!!

  • @tinabeee7350
    @tinabeee7350 Před rokem +1

    Nick woke up and chose hostility this day. 😂 Aside from that, this might be one of my favorite eps. Appreciate the coordinated wardrobe and the honest conversation.

  • @jerrykid18
    @jerrykid18 Před rokem +5

    We miss u guys. Hope u are all ok🧸🧸

  • @loongsout
    @loongsout Před rokem +5

    So that's why Jason keep saying don't bulldoz me. Since he keep building a wall. N he afraid of wall be broken.

  • @Osk33t
    @Osk33t Před rokem +2

    “That’s crazy right?”😂😂😂

  • @incorrectformat
    @incorrectformat Před rokem +2

    this is an awesome episode

  • @thatfoojason12
    @thatfoojason12 Před rokem +2

    we need an episode with hella guest again lol but tim, david, jason and kalyne that’d be gold

  • @rheadsouza5756
    @rheadsouza5756 Před rokem +1

    Love whenever Jason is on the show😌

  • @ansonjayson
    @ansonjayson Před rokem +1

    Man I’ve learned so much about myself with this video

  • @aydenmcfly1362
    @aydenmcfly1362 Před rokem +1

    So wholesome

  • @MastaBroshiX
    @MastaBroshiX Před rokem

    What a video to pop up first thing in the morning on Valentine's day

  • @bboymorris
    @bboymorris Před rokem +1

    Glad to see Jason as a reoccurring guest

  • @panucolizeth
    @panucolizeth Před rokem +2

    I love Jason! He is soooo gaslighting all of you! 😅

  • @_Maxten
    @_Maxten Před rokem +5

    yo btw just bc u might not needa be checked on, doesnt mean thats the same case for ur friends !

  • @shakirayang1977
    @shakirayang1977 Před rokem

    I don't think Jason realizes how at ease he became around them since he first became a guest.

  • @simoliz03
    @simoliz03 Před rokem

    ''I don't give a fuck what she said!'' LMAO!

  • @madieblack1687
    @madieblack1687 Před rokem +1

    Jason is honestly my favourite guest

  • @rodya_malverde
    @rodya_malverde Před rokem +1

    Ayo Anthony is right. Each side has a role to the conversation.

  • @testing123.
    @testing123. Před rokem +2

    "This is what this is" - Jason Cheny

  • @genecuisine7
    @genecuisine7 Před rokem +1

    Perfect punch line at the end omg 😂😂

  • @bethnichols2875
    @bethnichols2875 Před rokem +2

    I think the other friend who dropped something off to Joe at the start of the pandemic was Ant delivering avocados from his tree at their former house.

  • @UrbanLegend2k11
    @UrbanLegend2k11 Před rokem +1

    The matching is on point bruh.

  • @janesjourney9092
    @janesjourney9092 Před rokem +2

    It's pretty obvious that Jason doesn't have many friends. His conversation skills are pretty bad but I really like him. I hope he comes around often and opens up more and build his story telling skills etc. he's a good match with the guys

  • @masst7732
    @masst7732 Před rokem +3

    Jason needs to join the Careful Boyz

  • @LauraMancillas
    @LauraMancillas Před rokem

    I really enjoy this group together ❤️

  • @MultiPain101
    @MultiPain101 Před rokem

    "Gotye-Somebody that i used to now" is probably the best song to hear while suffering from a concussion. Hearing that song without a concussion has me feeling some kind of way

  • @ChristianMbanza
    @ChristianMbanza Před rokem +1

    You guys have the best vibe

  • @jennythich9298
    @jennythich9298 Před rokem +5

    Jason always talks like he’s improvising making things up as he goes.

    • @bethnichols2875
      @bethnichols2875 Před rokem +1

      You mean improvising. Though granted Jason has been improving the more confident he gets within the group.

    • @jennythich9298
      @jennythich9298 Před rokem +2

      @@bethnichols2875 I didn’t even notice the typo. 🤦🏻‍♀️ Editing it now.

  • @SilkyySmoothhs
    @SilkyySmoothhs Před rokem

    Everyone thinks that sometimes Jason, but you can always choose to not give a fuck. One of my homies told me “it’s your world, I just live in it.” Really put things into perspective

  • @nhatreally
    @nhatreally Před rokem +6

    I don't think I've seen a guest fit in and click more with jk then Jason.

  • @KanekiTakemitchy
    @KanekiTakemitchy Před 6 měsíci

    The entire time Jason was talking it sounded like I was listening to myself and I didn't know I wasn't the only one. Hurts sometimes..

  • @SYNYSTERVODS
    @SYNYSTERVODS Před rokem

    To me I know when Im lonely is when I get sad or depressed for no reason and it sucks cause I can't find ways to cope with it and deal with it

  • @kiarademoner
    @kiarademoner Před rokem +1

    Jason has been initiated 😂🙌🏽

  • @dex3779
    @dex3779 Před rokem +3

    Dude is like either a genius at being a troll or just really crazzzy not really sure whats going on .

  • @FigWidIt
    @FigWidIt Před rokem +2

    Ryan got the craziest stories bruh omg

  • @lisapineapple
    @lisapineapple Před rokem

    “we can tell”.
    😂😂😂😂 shutup, anthony😂😂😂😂

  • @testing123.
    @testing123. Před rokem +3

    8:06 holyshit Ryan

  • @senthuranindrasithu5
    @senthuranindrasithu5 Před rokem

    one of my fav episodes