The Rainbow Bridge, Animals in Transition | Joan Ranquet | TEDxWilmingtonWomen
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- You know the rainbow bridge, right? That meadow in front of the pearly gates where our deceased animals wait for us so they can escort us into heaven when we die? Animal Communicator, Joan Ranquet, shares a personal journey as well as professional observations about animals in transition to the rainbow bridge.
Joan Ranquet, she is an animal communicator, International speaker, and author of Energy Healing for Animals, A Hands-On Guide for Enhancing the Health, Longevity & Happiness of Your Pets (Sounds True) and Communication with all Life, Revelations of an Animal Communicator (Hay House). Most recently, she is a contributor to The Dharma of Dogs (Sounds True). Joan is the founder of Communication with all Life University, a certification program for animal communicators and energy healers for animals. Joan also takes people on animal communication/wildlife eco-trips. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx
I would gladly give up some of my lifespan to my dogs, so they could live longer.
Same. That’s amazing
I would give my whole life span to sweetie(my puppy)
Same here
I would shave off years of my life just to hold my dog again.
It is said that by remembering our pets and living a long life we give them a measure of eternity they could never have dreamed of. My 1st dog still lives, though she's been gone for 45 years. A place in my heart to which she roams freely no matter where I am or how long the time has been. Your dogs are alive, in you heart and memory, and so are mine.
I lost my dog 2 nights ago. I feel so completely broken, and it just hurts so much. I miss her every single day. opening the door to my house and not seeing her come and greet me makes my heart hurt. I really do believe that she's in a better place, but I just miss her so much and I wish I could bring her back.
I also lost my dog 2 days ago and I still can't stop crying. She was only 7 years old and to think my neighbor took her life with a bullet to the chest sickens me. I'm so distraught I can't even sleep or eat. This is my first loss, my first death and I don't know how to grieve
Dan kinder I am so sorry for your loss, I understand what you are going through. I just lost my 16 year old fur baby and today was unbearable having to find out how to cremate and move her. This dog had been with me for over half my life. The unconditional love BOTH our babies gave us is something we can never forget. If you need someone to talk to, I am here to listen. I know you loved your dog as much as I loved mine. I am so sorry someone took your baby away, but I know this is something we can both make it through.
I lost my doggy a week ago. She was my first dog and lived for 13 years and was my best friend. I’m just so sad. Exactly what you described 😔
Esme I just lost my very first dog of 16 years on Wednesday and I am absolutely heartbroken. I completely understand your pain as I am currently going through it right now. If you need anybody to talk to, even though I am a stranger, I am here for you. Just reach out if you want to talk. I am so sorry for your loss 😞
mari’s makeup corner pls talk to me about it because I just lost my dog
I am 81 years old and my 13 year old cat was euthanized today. We have been a family for 10 close years. We loved each other and were inseparable. I am in so much pain, miss him so much, I am hoping I will heal.. I am grateful for videos like this.
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I am so very sorry to hear of the loss of your beautiful cat. I understand your pain and wish you so much peace
So sorry. I am 71 and like I said, my two birds passed within days of each other. Think the second missed the first too much. I know a little of how you feel. You are in mybprayers.
My heart goes out to you, and I hope you have been able to heal from your loss. God bless✨
I hope you are doing better now. I lost my sweet kitty to a dog attack one month ago, and I’m heartbroken. I’m slowly getting better. I still cry most days, it just wells up out of nowhere, but it isn’t happening quite as much. The raw pain is diminishing, but I feel bruised and sore. I miss her terribly, and believe me, I know how you feel. I hope you are healing, and maybe someday you can love another cat again and let it love you. ♥️
So sorry for your loss. My baby of 11 yrs died Monday, but he was so very sick and his symptoms finally slipped through his stoic personality. We'll love them forever. Peace soon my friend
I just want him back, he was my everything, I wish I could go back in time.
It's so hard, isn't it? I've been thinking that if I had it all to do over again and I knew I would feel this much pain when we adopted our kitty, would we do it again? And I say yes. Every moment of joy he brought us was worth it.The pain we have now is worth it for all the love he gave us.
I understand. here's a hug. hold it as long and hard as you need
I lost my cat Rocco last year October it’s finally been a year. I miss him soo much. He was on his way home when he got run over by a car, I live on the main road. It’s my fault I let him go out. He was coming home to me. He wanted me to pet him but it was too late. He can’t anymore. I’m Muslim so inshallah when I go heaven I’m gonna ask Allah for my animals back. And apparently in heaven you can customise anything. I know Rocco would want big paws 😂😂 so I’m gonna ask God to make him enormous😂🫶🏼 my tiger!!! inshallah
it's what I keep saying, I just want her back.
I lost mine this week. I get it. I've been begging the universe to wake me up from this nightmare. It hurts to even breathe.
When my sister was dying of cancer, she began to see her beloved deceased yorkie roaming the house. Then her husband saw him too. I believe her dog came to guide her home.
@Maria Bykofsky I'm sorry for your losses. I can relate. Over the years I have rescued many senior dogs, rewarding but painful. Bless your dear heart.
I'm so sorry about your sister. I had a friend who was in hospice dying of cancer and when I visited him to say goodbye, he asked me if I saw his dog at the front desk. His dog had passed about a year before him. I do believe that our pets are in our heaven waiting for us. I just lost my cockapoo last friday and so this thought gives my broken heart some hope. God bless.
@@chrissyp3065 I'm so sorry for your loss. I don't know what I would have done throughout my life if it wasn't for the companionship of animals. They seem to know who you really are and love you regardless of flaws, in a way that most people don't.
My mom saw our first cat in the house after it’s passing. My second cat stayed about two weeks sitting on my lap and meowing into my ear to wake me up after it’s passing. It made me realize that the energy of the animal (soul) never dies, just the body.
@@YasmineSNunez Powerful! Love is also eternal.
I lost my cat Leo five days ago and am currently severely depressed. I’m an introvert who barely leaves the house so we would spend every second together. Life isn’t the same without him. My room feels empty and so does my heart. He taught me to love animals and it was only after I got him that I developed an insane love for animals and began rescuing them. Thank you for making me a better person Leo. God knows I don’t have that sort of connection with any human being. Until we meet again best friend, I will never forget u.
Volunteer with the SPCA or animal control or a local rescue and be a foster home to honor the memory of your pet.
My heart is with you. I just lost my beloved cat today, she was 17. I have been sobbing all day. But I can tell you this. Your heart WILL make room for the grief you feel, and you will love another companion. They are Angel among us. Give it time, open the door to another wee one that is waiting for you. Blessings to you, we will get through this.
Marie Field-Carpenter thank you so much for the love and kindness, I wish you comfort and peace ❤️ time heals all wounds, I hope in time you will find the courage to deal with the loss as well ❤️
Miriam, thank you. ❤❤❤
I'm so sorry for what you're going through. Wishing you so much peace at this time.
i just lost my dog. watching this for some kind of help because i miss him desperately
Just lost my cat today....looking for comfort......
Same here. I lost her yesterday. 😭
my dog just died about 40 minutes ago. i feel y’all
@@marleydhdhevhs9315 So sorry for your lost. I just lost my six month old dog today
Just lost my dog 2 days ago, didn't imagine it would feel this bad...
My dog crossed the rainbow bridge 3 days ago. 🌈 The complete devastation I’m feeling is indescribable. I felt like a piece of me was lost that day. 11 1/2 years wasn’t long enough. But the love and joy she brought to my wife and I made me a better man and our family stronger. I just miss her so much, idk what to do 💔💔🥺
i’m so sorry. I lost my best friend, superstar and amazing soul Frankie yesterday. I relate with you completely. After the euthanization I was in denial, disbelief, shock, and devastation all at the same time. it was a truly traumatic experience. It brings me comfort know these animals fulfilled their purpose, and down the line we WILL see them again. But for now we have to live their dream of happiness and light for them❤️❤️
i know how you feel i just lost my cat she was my daughter i don’t care what people think i loves her as much i loved my own flesh and blood. does it get easier?
@@andrewjennings3493Yes, eventually but don't rush things. It is different for everyone.
Sorry for you your loss even know it's been 6 months ago. Your blessed to have that amount of time you did. Its never long enough man. Just lost my dog of 9 years..I'd kill to have even a week more. But I'm blessed to even known my baby
@@aaronphillips2728 Thank you man! Ugh, so sorry for your loss. That as to be hard! 💙
I have had this experience too. It's true that animal-human relationships are far deeper than most human-human.
My daughter Amber who's never had children or ever married..knows all to well..how her cats meant n to her... Elliott lived three years longer then his brother ..it was intense..when they passed.. although she's looking vto get two more from the humane society..she's still greiving them.. because to her they were her CHILDREN..
@@michelemcguire8995 yes, me too... You NEVER get over the loss of a child, even if they are canine.
Dogs love us in ways that human beings are incapable of
@@theresistance3818 And not only dogs.
I agree with that statement 100%
Ive lost many humans in my life but it hurts extra bad when your animal buddy dies.
Terminator X I’m relieved I’m not the only one. I’ve never grieved this hard over a person.
It’s very different yes, I too have lost both humans and today I lost my animal, this is just unbearably painful, I truly feel suicidal
It really does. 😔
Losing our beloved ones, either people or fur babies is just horrible, but losing my fur angel this year broke my heart the worst way.
And it still hurts a lot.
It was worse than losing people.
I thought it was just me.
Yes, this is true for me as well. My cat died 3 days ago, and I've not stopped crying. When a family member died, I did not cry like this. Strange...I accepted that, but having a harder time accepting my Cat's death...hmmm.
My cat Lacey was euthanized today. She was the love of my life and we did everything together. I would not travel unless she could come with me. Summer vacations were planned with her in mind.
I walked home from the vet and cried the entire way. Twenty blocks through Manhattan with tears and an empty carrier. I am sure people who saw me put two & two together and knew what happened.
I know loss and mourning but this is different. This grief is so profound and I cannot even begin to describe what I feel.
Oh my god I'm, I'm so sorry. My dog, his name is Ozzy, within the timespan of 6 hours he had gotten so sick from cancer, we had to euthanize him. This happened yesterday, one minute he was fine, the next he was about to drop down and croak. That isnt an exaggeration. He was like my left arm, in the sense that he followed me and my mom anywhere we went. I know how it feels, you can't even describe in words how much you love that pet.
Just something as simple as bumping into a bowl can lead to an outburst of tears, right? But, in the words of my dad, dont frown because it's over, smile because it happened.
@@Vewtle you are so strong. My dog passed away today and she was also my best friend. We will get through this. You and I got this.
@@dummythicc3732 ❤
My dog Damon had to be euthanized yesterday afternoon. I knew it was coming, time finally caught up with him and he was deteriorating rapidly. But I wasn't ready for it, no matter how much I told myself I was. It was all I could do to hold myself together long enough to make it to my car. When I got home it was worse. My entire life revolved around him being part of it. We were never apart for more than a couple days over all the years I had him.
Everywhere I look, every little thing reminds me of him. It was worse today, coming home from work and for the first time he's not there to greet me, I can't go into the living room to pet him and ask if he was a good boy while I was gone. I keep looking to where he would be in the room without thinking before I remember that he isn't here anymore. Everytime it's like having a peice of your soul ripped out. Like there was a hole in me that he filled that's empty now and I feel hollow inside.
The grief comes in waves, one minute I'm fine and the next there's some little thing that reminds me of him and I can barely hold it together long enough to get out of the room. Part of me doesn't want to remember because it's so painful and part of me wants to remember every little detail and feels guilty for ever thinking that in the first place.
All I can offer to anyone who is also going through this right now is you aren't alone in your grief and maybe just in knowing that, the burden of it isn't quite so heavy.
I’m so sorry, I hope your heart has healed now. Pets are so special and irreplaceable. ❤️🌈
I lost my golden yesterday. Honest to god I had a stronger bond with him than some of my own immediate family members. I didn’t even know you could fall in love with a dog until I met him. He changed my life and he showed me real unconditional love. I will miss him deeply until the day that I die.
Just lost my malinois Thursday and your words covered my feelings.
@@jennymanker6478 I am so so sorry. It’s an indescribable pain. Nothing can replace them. It’s been 2 months so far and I still miss him so much and think of him a million times a day. I will say that the pain eventually does become more manageable especially if you have a good support system. For now, don’t blame yourself or think you’re crazy for drowning in the grief. It’s perfectly natural and understandable. You will always miss them but you will make it through. Again, my heart is with you and I hope our dogs are playing together on the other side❤️
ours will be put down on Saturday we are absolutely devastated. On Wednesday she would have been 14. I am so sorry for your loss and pain.
Our dog was just diagnosed with cancer of the spine and the prognosis is not good. I feel like I need to be strong, but I also feel like I am a puddle on the ground. I have to face his mortality and never imagined it being right now, this soon. He is a pillar for me and has been with me through thick and thin…he hasn’t technically died, but seeing him in pain and not himself makes me feel like he already has. The pain is unbearable, but what choice do we have if we choose the lifetime love of a pet?
@@margaretmanzer2194 I’m so sorry Margaret. We are facing the same right now…I pray you are in a better place today.
"It's just a cat" It's the loneliest thing when you're freshly grieving your lost friend, and there's no one around to take it seriously - to 'hold space' for you. That happened to me when my 6 year old stray cat died of acute renal failure. I sat and sobbed for hours in another part of the house while my uncle and brother made small talk with each other only a few rooms away. Neither of them once checked on me. I don't know if they genuinely didn't get it, or where just too cowardly to deal with me in the state I was in. Hard to forget.
This was a really important talk for me to hear.
Jenny....lost my cat "Splash" yesterday 7/27/2019...... a rescue cat from a forest fire in Sept. 2008/Oregon
They are so much more than "just a cat"
Some guys get it......some don't
Your kitty is in a place of joy
They are Lions made just for us, amazing animals beyond what most people know
Keep in in mind that you gave love,care & respect to a soul that most likely would have never had
Think of the joy you gave to your little one, you made a loving difference
That is a key point in life.......you made a loving difference, their existence mattered because of you
Hold your love for them always, you will be with them again
Jenny, some people don’t know how to deal with such pain and suffering of another person. They may have cared but didn’t know what to say. Maybe they didn’t want to make it worse for you, or say something that would hurt you. Let that go, and don’t carry that bitterness with you. You’ll see your sweet cat again.
I understand.Don't ever let anyone undermine your relationship with your cat. I can love my cats no matter what! Not so with humans.
I literally just lost my cat, Ebby today due to the same reason. I am still crying right now even after watching this wonderful talk. Ebby was my only best friend because I would always take him with me, into my room and just talked to him about my problems. Now that he’s gone and I didn’t even get to say my last words to him, I am feeling so much worst than i have ever felt before. ☹️😭
@@chb8982 I'm so sorry for your loss, honey.
I have a similar relationship with my present cat. I hardly see anyone,irrespective of any global 'lockdowns', so he's probably more important to me than he should be. He's always there.
My old cat, who died felt like my only and best friend. We loved each other, and losing her at 6 was the worst grief I think I've ever been through.
This is only my opinion, but I think if you can think about the bit of yourself you were able to access in Ebby's presence, you might be able to better understand your grief, and what it's made up of.
What I missed about my cat was that I was able to access the pure, soft child part of me, that no one else sees, and I think losing her made me feel cut off from that connection to ME. What I'm saying is that I think some of the grief is about the animal, and some about how much we are hurting all the time, and the cat gave us the space to connect with ourselves, if that makes sense?
It's way too early for you to want to do this, but I think, when you are ready, a wonderful way to honour Ebby would be to adopt a stray cat from a shelter.
I was lucky, because my 6 yr old cat who died was trying to get us to adopt her when my old 24 yr old cat died! She'd been hanging around in the garden for months, and my old cat hated her! The last thing I wanted was to let in a new cat, but you know what, she helped me heal, and I knew I was helping her by letting her in to our family and giving her a home.
For now, know that Ebby's love is always there in your heart. he is safe and well, and he's so thankful to you for giving him a loving, safe home, when some cats never have anyone to care for them their whole lives.
Don't fear your sadness. No matter how much it hurts, stay close to your child self and listen to what he/she has to say. It WILL get better with every passing day. Trust me. And one day in the near future you will be sent another cat who needs your love.
Is here anybody you can talk to about it? If so, talk to them, or just tell them how bad you feel. It will help.
Take care tonight, and be kind and patient
with yourself. : )
My dog crossed the rainbow bridge two days ago, words can’t express how much it hurts to have lost my 13 year old best friend 🌈💜😓
I’m going through this now
@@Kellacroix I’m so sorry💜 It’s hard, but knowing your best friend is not hurting is what helped get me through a lot of the grieving; not a day goes by that I Don’t think about him but just have peace knowing they’ll be waiting for you whenever we cross over our “rainbow bridge” My heart goes out to you!!!
My dog passed away yesterday after 13 years. It was very traumatic. I watched him suffocate to death in our front yard at 6 in the morning. I’m destroyed
@@gabrielamendoza842 oh… I’m so sorry to hear :( heartbreaking. What’s your pets name? Ive been praying for people and their pets.
The only thing I can think is how grateful I am that I was lucky enough to have that selfless love. They are so much more worthy of love and they would love us though anything.
Try to hold yourself in light and hope… light of the love and hope that we will see them again.
I lost my best friend 4 days ago.
She loved without reservation.
Decided that when I die her ashes will be mingled with mine.
I hope you are doing well...I'm not doing so well. I'm 62. Her life was a frction of mine in time spent. She loved a lifetime.
I lost my dog 13 hours ago. I feel like my heart is on fire. He died in my arms and I was so lucky that I could say goodbye. I’m still in shock, but I know that he is on heaven and I will see him again. I love you Bobby Benny and thank you, it was my privilege and my honor to be your best friend
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Lost my dog last night, cant bear the pain man, loved .my dog, i never can be the same anymore
Bless you
I get this. I know u commented 8 months ago but I just lost my dog 2 days ago. He was my best friend and got me through so much. I’ll never be the same. A piece of me died with him
Lost mine last night, I’m completely broken 💔💔💔
@@lilidots1913 hey, i understand your pain, truly. It will take time. Its been a year now since my dog passed but hes in a better place. Hes not in pain no more. I currently have a new 3 month old pup and the void has been filled but i know my old pup is proud of me
ant p thank u for the support, he left behind 2 pups that I have with me, and 1 of them looks just like him, I atleast have that. My dog that passed was absolutely in love with me & so was I. Followed me around everywhere 24/7. I need to be strong for him, I know he’d want to see me happy ❤️
I really do believe that pets go to the Rainbow Bridge once they pass on. Last year me and my parents had to put our dog down. I remember on our way to the vet, there was no rainbow in the sky. But shortly after he was put to sleep, I remember seeing a rainbow in the sky appear after. I'd like to believe that's where he went. I miss him every single day, and know that we'll reunite again :')
That literally just happened to me. On my way home from dropping her body off I saw a double rainbow
@@curtislarry540 I just lost my baby she was a yorkie and she was 14 she passed in my arms I miss her everyday
Please believe that that's where he went. He is looking down on you every minute and will be there for you when the time comes. I believe this. God bless you both.
Oh my gosh! I had to say goodbye to my sweet Dachshund two days ago. It almost killed me. The next day, while driving home from work, I was stopped, waiting for the light to change. There was a motorcyclist in front of me looking off to the right, up at the sky, and he was pointing upward. I thought it was pretty weird, and I couldn’t figure out what he was doing. As I inched closer I could see he was pointing at a rainbow and it hadn’t even rained! I told my husband “There must be moisture in the air for there to be a rainbow.” I had no idea what the rainbow bridge was at that time, and after reading your comment, for some reason that incident just popped into my head. God used the rainbow for a specific sign. Now I believe that was God, letting me know not to worry...He has everything under control. My Sadie is in the hands of her Creator. Wow. Just had to share that!
My dog was in such a bad condition but when the vet came home to stop his suffering he wailed his tail. He liked that vet, he knew this vet only wants him to be happy, i hope he is now. We sat next to him and it looked like he didn't feel any pain, he just got into a deep sleep...we hugged him and kissed him before we burried him in our garden...i still can't believe it, it was yesterday 😭
I am grieving and that is so true . people tell me its just a dog. But that dog gave me the purest real unconditional love that humans can't give. This is why i am dovorcing my husband. My pet's death was the reason for me to realize what true love is and that i need to let others go if i dont see that love back. I miss you Chilindrina 16 years old. She is incredibly smart, beautiful, unlike any other dog i ever met. I hope to see you again in eternity. 💘💘🐶🐶
Its not just a dog. People who say that are limited on the forms of love. Love is love in any form with any being.
When it comes to love, loyalty, and selflessness, we have much to learn from our animals
It is NEVER just a Dog. It's your best friend and your whole heart. God bless you ❤️❤️
I left an abusive ex because of my dog too
Betty, I can relate to you. My baby girl Mia passed away a few weeks ago. She was the link to my marriage. When she passed away, I don't feel the same way for my husband. I keep pushing him away. I want my daughter back .My home and my whole world is so empty without her. I will never find another like her. She was the sweetest bundle of joy which I greatly regret not giving her more hugs and kisses.
My baby just died 8 hours ago and Ive been holding him in my arms since until the morning we take him to get cemeted. My heart is gone with him, he's my soul my everything
My baby passed yesterday. I am heartbroken. :( Sending you love.
My yorky Chico left me to cross the rainbow bridge 2 weeks now. I am so happy to have started a pet cemetery in 1984 so I am fortunate enough to visit my last 4 loves of my life each & every day. Planting flowers, saying prayers to each one gives me such peace. God bless my babies....Amen
Reading these comments brings me comfort knowing I’m not alone in losing my best friend too... he was with me for 15+ years and I miss him dearly...
We’ll all see our fur babies again one day ❤️
Sorry for your loss
I just lost my Rottweiler had him 11 years I miss him a lot
@@desireebryant9523 hope you are in a better place friend. We are facing cancer with our boy rn, it brings comfort that others understand this pain and loss. You are not alone ❤
@@karissakline6765 I wish i had a chance to fight cancer with my cat because i think i had a good chance of curing her...but the vet killed her before that could happen. Devastated.
It's been 4 months and i'm here bawling like a baby. She waited for me to come home. So we could say goodbye to eachother. That's love.
Take comfort knowing we will all see our pets again. It is written in the book of Isaiah that our animals are in Heaven, and happy, we will see them there. Amen Halleluiah!!
I`m here to support everyone who has lost their pet. My dachshund has passed away this morning in front of my eyes. My sweet boy Charlie. Heart attack. I`m devastated. He`s been my best friend for 12 years since I was a kid. We are to be grateful for all the happy moments we shared together and always remmember them 💔 Don`t be shy to express your grief, write a thank-you letter or make something in his (her) memory. I`m about to paint a picture. God rest his (her) soul 🙏
it’s been four months and i can’t stop crying every single night
Our boy was just diagnosed with cancer, I am so sorry for your loss and hope we can both be in a better place soon.
I am sorry for your loss. It will get easier, especially if you get a new pet to focus on. That said, you will never forget. I have lost many cats and dogs over the years, and I think about all of them quite frequently, and it make me cry. I just lost one of my 3 dogs yesterday, and I have probably cried 100 times since Monday, when I made the appoint for the vet to come to my house and euthanize her. I am heartbroken, but I saved her from a horrible life and gave her the best life any dog could possible have. She was a very special dog and I will miss her immensely. The good thing is with our pets, we will meet again, and when we do, we will be together for eternity.
I'm sorry. I hope it's getting easier. You'll see your friend again.🙏
It’s been a year and I still can’t get over it.
@@karissakline6765 my cat cherry was murdered by some morons because she was haunting something, love of life was cruely hit by sticks. My cat was stray kitten who was left by her mom. we adopted her, she was 4 months old . seriously i wish i cud give her my life . she loved everyone .
I lost my beloved baby 5 hours ago and I haven't stopped crying since. I feel so empty and lost.. the house feels so empty without his presence, every corner I turn to I could imagine him just playing not caring about the ruthless people outside..my baby so innocent and pure he was only 6 month old and yet he was taken from us so soon. My baby wherever you are right now please know that I love you very much and I am very sorry I failed to protect you. Fly high my baby.
I am so very sorry for your loss. It is sooo very painful. My heart goes out to you 💜
I lost my pug Buster 43 yrs ago. I'm still not over it. I feel guilty...thinking I could have done more for him. I've not had a pet since then. I just can't endure that pain again. ....Not another pet could ever take his place. I pray for everyone who is going thru this unbearable loss and pain. ,GOD BLESS.❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏🙏
I'm so glad I found this. Lost my 19 year old cat yesterday. I've lost my child, since I can't have "children" he has filled any hole I thought my life would have.
I can't believe he is physically gone. I'm beyond heartbroken
Im very sorry for your loss. It is horrible.
Me too. Our little Rylie of 15.5 years. Had to go on the Rainbow Bridge. I’m so upset.
Omg i am so sorry. 💙 I hope you are feeling a little better. I just lost my furr companion 3 weeks ago. I'm beyond heartbroken. I feel your pain. It's harder than people understand.
I’m so sorry for your loss💔🖤. I just lost my Jake who just turned 12 today. All the sudden stopped eating and drinking and using litter box.. well today I had to put him down. It was the hardest thing I ever did and I’m heartbroken! 💔altho he was in pain with cancer( happened in two weeks time)and I’m still in shock . I know he’s crossing rainbow 🌈 bridge today but it does not make the excruciating pain any easier .Sending prayers💙🙏💎🤍 of healing to all dealing with this . Someone said to me today it’s not a person Just a cat and this enraged me. II said this was My angel and my baby and ii don’t have kids .. he was my baby 🐱💗 how dare someone belittle the love and connection you had with your pet. We need to talk more about This in. Society!
@@nancyrubio5969I am sorry for your loss... I lost my cat yesterday. I have so much guilt as this happened suddenly and while I was away.. My heart is really heavy. She loved me unconditionally and she had been there for me during my hard time in life... I don't know how to go one with my life... I feel so lost
My family had to suddenly put my 11yo cat to sleep 4 days ago. The grief is like nothing I've ever experienced, worse than for any person I've lost in my life. I love my boy more than anybody else in the world. He's the love of my life. It's a physical and emotional grief more powerful than I can explain. I'm sharing sympathy with anybody going through the same devastation.
We lost our cat yesterday and I feel exactly the same. My whole world falls apart. I dont know if I can ever be trully happy again without him - my baby Krupke.
@@nguyenthixuannguyen7275 I lost my boy, my beautiful cat on Monday. It feels so empty without him. I loved that little being so much.
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@@ThePlutonicWay i lost my cat on saturday, he was my little baby boy, made it to 14 but it’ll never be enough time. i’m sorry you’re going through this but just know that they are in a happier place than we could ever even imagine. even though it’s hard find comfort in the fact that they had a wonderful life and i truly do believe you will be reunited with all those amazing bonds when your time is right
@@abbyleyden187 thank you. I'm so sorry for your loss and I feel your pain. I was in such a daze the first few days. I believe that too, truly and the strangest thing happened the night before last. I was wide awake in bed and I heard him meow, loud and clear as day. It sent goosebumps all over me but i knew it was him saying he's still with me and telling me I'll be alright.
He was always such a spiritual cat, we used to get this knocking from the flat above after that neighbour was taken into hospital. Two knocks, always loud, always intentional and at night. Donny, my cat, started scratching at the door to let him out so that he could sit outside that flats front door. I knew it was something I couldn't understand but didn't realise why. It was only when the neighbour came back and told me his mom's ashes (she had recently passed) had been taken there whilst he was in hospital, that it made sense. After they were reunited the knocking stopped and Donny stopped sitting outside the door. He was reassuring her that it was okay, he was such a beautiful soul.
So I know, he would have no problem reaching out to me and it was lovely to hear his meow the other night.
They are incredible and we will see them again, meanwhile they're having the time of their afterlives!
i lost my dog just 2 months ago, she was my bestfriend, we always did stuff together,run,play and watch tv. I went on a trip for two weeks, and came back home. One week after arriving, she gets sick, it has happened before so i gave her this treatment that would usually help me,it didnt this time. My father took her to the vet, telling us, she doesn’t have many days left. That hurt so much, and then the next day i was the last one to see her smile, we went to pick up my sister,coming back home, i was the first one to find her and last one to touch her.the only fact that hurts me is that i cant hear her barking when i get home.
Anyone watching this who is about to lose or just lost a beloved animal, know that it’s the worst thing in the world, but you can get through this. You animal will be waiting for you at the rainbow bridge, I truely believe that. Stay positive and look ahead 💞
I just lost my dog unexpectedly I don’t want her to wait for me like 100 years I wanna be with her right now
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I know how you feel. I lost my dog on the 12th of December, of last year. I still think about him everyday. But I promise you, you will always face these deaths in life and unfortunately you can’t stop that. But what we can do is appreciate the time we had with our pets. Stay strong, I love you 💕
I know this comment was from 3 years ago now…but I needed to hear this as we are facing the end with my best friend. We never thought it would be this soon, hate cancer. I need to be reminded there is hope beyond this because I cannot see it rn.
Thank you I really needed that. Just lost our beloved hamster last night, been crying on and of all the time and not eating much and doing nothing :(
My dog had the heart of a lion, even when he was sick, he was still wagging his tail. He had a tumor in his stomach that was causing him to vomit blood after he ate. The vet gave him a week to live. That evening I put him down it was gloomy, then after he went to sleep the setting sun came out with not a cloud in the sky. It was a peaceful sign from God. I'm gonna miss him, he was my best friend . But I know he's ok and I'll see him again someday.
Etigress you definitely will. You are brave and god will bless both your cute baby and you.❤️
The same with us. Our dog had a big tumor on his adrenal glands and his organs almost failed, he was vomiting and not eating for a week, we tried to help him with perfusions but only one day without it his sugar got to almost zero...he could not live one day without perfusions. We decided the vet to do an operation to see his organs. His liver was in pain and all the organs were in a bad condition so the vet suggested our options or to help release his pain. We decided to take him home and asked the vet to come home, we wanted our dog to die at home with us, he wailed his tail when he saw the vet entering, it was his favourite vet and he knew when seeing him means feeling better, i guess he is feeling no pain now....we feel so sad today... I guess i will always remember him, we loved him so much
Putting my kitty down today , same, tumor on his side, cant eat, throwing up what he does...plus kidney failure...but it's still hard
@Michelle Boutwell I happened to be here., after replying to someone else, and saw you just wrote this, so knew I had to tell you how sorry I am, and I am sending you prayers and love. I lost my dog 3 months ago, although I can hardly believe it has been this long. I think it hurts so much because it is our only experience of unconditional love. He will never be replaced, and I don't like the words 'get over it' - because that might not be true.. but you will change from feeling the way you do now. Because you and he had such a great love - only good can come from that. it will make you strong - the love will take over for the pain - gradually. I don't know if I will ever get over it either, but I guess we don't have any choice - so know that you are not alone, and I understand.
I lost my dog of 15 years yesterday which I considered my child. It’s taking a toll on me . I cannot eat nor sleep. My family and I tried to prepare ourselves for this moment as we knew he was getting older. Watching him be so sick and nothing we could do will forever haunt me. Trying to be t peace with his passing but i miss him so much. I will never be the same ever
The cat companion I've had for 18 years passed away day before yesterday, 48 hours ago, after an 8-day-long gradual decline. She died peacefully at sunset, with its rays beaming through the window upon us and catching crystals that created little rainbows all over. I know she's gone, but still feels like she's here, and I find myself reaching over to pet her but her spot next to me is empty and it feels like I've lost her again, over and over and over again. I've cried so much every day since I knew she'd be leaving me, and even more since she's gone. People who've not gone through this have no idea of its profound pain and sense of devastating loss, and alone-ness. No more does she purr me to sleep as our days ended, no more does she give me the morning greetings that started our days. To all suffering like this, my heart goes out to you. God bless.
I just lost my 2 year old boy Miles very suddenly the other day on the 11th but what you said really hits home :(
I lost my doggy yesterday and i miss her so much. This has been the loneliest morning. everything that was lonely before is even more lonesome.
leotardbanshee Same here. I lost my baby girl yesterday. She had congestive heart failure. If I had known she was as bad as she was I would’ve put her down. My heart is in pieces. My only wish is that in the 12 years she was here with me, I was able to make her feel immensely loved.
It was gut-wrenching waking up this morning and seeing her little bed empty. I send you hugs.
Hugs right back to you❤️ my sweet girl had congestive heart failure too. Everything is just so empty now. I know it will get easier with time but for now our hearts are broken. Sending you lots of love during this time, your little girl was so blessed to have a friend like you who allowed your heart to be broken❤️
So sorry for your loss, I know what you are talking about. For me, I said goodnight knowing I’d have to say goodbye in a couple of days, only to wake up to a seemingly normal morning, only for my mom to call me in shock, telling me that my best friend was gone. Like a sister to me. I didn’t cry until I saw her, I was full of disbelief and shock and felt so guilty that I didn’t get to hold her as she passed letting her know it was ok and that she was the best thing to happen to me. I don’t regret every moment I had with her, and while I’d always want to have done more I honestly did so much with her and all I’m regretting is her being gone. It’s been 4 months, but I still feel empty every time I get home from a fun day at school, only to see that my best friend isn’t there to see me.
I’m so sorry for your loss💜 I pray your mornings have gotten brighter. I could use some hope . It’s been 6 months since I lost my best friend in the world, Cupcake.I’m still heartbroken and miss her so much everyday , I can’t stop the tears. Sometimes I do not realize they’re falling.
@@lilymiller3522 i believe what has helped me to cope the most is to remember how much she taught me about being a better person. She taught me how to care for someone, how to be consistent, how to love and be patient. Those things she taught me will never go away. I used to give her medication every day, so when she passed away, i started gardening, and i have to water the garden every day just like i gave her her medication, and what she taught me about being responsible even when its difficult will never go away. There is room for other love in your life, but it won't fill the same holes, the holes are always there but you learn to accept them as part of you. I still miss her so much but i know she would comfort me if i were sad, so i try to remember what she would have wanted rather than focusing just on my sadness. It is hard, it doesn't get easier, you just change as time passes and your sadness changes and it becomes love, and there is no love like loving a dog.
I lost my little Hissy 2 days ago. She was a 6 pound Yorkie and my best friend for 17 years. I am beyond heartbroken and feel like my own life stopped. Every fiber in my body aches. Our dogs love us, heal us and understand us in ways human's can't. RIP sweet girl.
Yes, It,s true.
The more people I meet ;
The more I love my animals.
God Bless every one of them.
( near & far )
I lost my cat Rocco last year October it’s finally been a year. I miss him soo much. He was on his way home when he got run over by a car, I live on the main road. It’s my fault I let him go out. He was coming home to me. He wanted me to pet him but it was too late. He can’t anymore. I’m Muslim so inshallah when I go heaven I’m gonna ask Allah for my animals back. And apparently in heaven you can customise anything. I know Rocco would want big paws 😂😂 so I’m gonna ask God to make him enormous😂🫶🏼 my tiger!!! My cats taught me to love every animal no matter how vicious I just look into their eyes and see my pets lool. There’s cruel people in this world who harm animals and remembering that spookes my life and I cry everytime. But I wish the best always.
Three days ago, my cat, Simon, crossed the rainbow bridge. I was 16 years old when I found him outside- he was only four months old. We grew up together. I spent almost everyday with him for the last 18 years that I couldn't remember what life was like before him... I know his health was on the decline but this is the most painful thing I've ever experienced in my life so far. Not only was he a family member, he was also my soul cat and best friend. I literally feel so lost without him and miss him so, so much. 😭💔
When I got dumped by My ex it hurt. But when I had to put bloodhound to sleep it destroyed me. I know I'll see him again.
You absolutely will. : )
Yes, you will. I can’t wait to see my kitty again.
Yes that is very true I just lost my cat today and the pain is so much more different compared to a breaking up of relationship with ex it just hurts you on a different level
I have 2 cats that are alive and well, but I dread the day they gotta go. But how do you know we'll see our pets again? Is it just wishful thinking? We can't say that for sure... Maybe we tell ourselves these things to help us get through?
Just had to say goodbye to my buddy rocky. Had him since I was 11, got him when he was a puppy. 15 good years with you bud. Missing you.
icey crocs icey socks I’m going through the same thing I’ve known my Miley sine I was 6 and now I’m 17 She was a family member now it’s time to cherish memories and never let go . We can get through this for bud and Miley.
I just lost my rocky 3 days ago. May our Rockies Rest In Peace and we will see them again some day.. ❤️🙏
I lost my buddy rocky too, he was a beautiful 15 years golden retriever. RIP
Said goodbye to my pup Rocky today. Hurts so much, I've lost my sidekick. Wishing everyone peace while figuring out these missing piece's of our lives. Rest in peace dear sweet one ❤
I just lost my Jasper. 15 years old. Put him to sleep today. He was the best dog in the world. I’m torn inside. I just hope he’s at peace. I’ve never felt this sad in my life.
I lost my dog 3 days ago now. I have never ever felt such a horrible pain in my heart. There is something to pure and so unconditional about a pets love. there's nothing else like it. Forever in my heart Bentley
Sincere condolences to you, Megan. I lost my lab two days ago. Such horrible pain.
I lost my 14 week old puppy last night, I have never felt such a pain in my entire life, I am in just so much sadness right now
@@jakesherman8080 So sorry for your loss, Jake.
Lost my beloved cat last week. She was very sick and needed help to leave via euthanasia. I know Lola is just fine over the rainbow bridge, however I am in human grief for her loss. A little loving cat who was with me for 13.5 years meant more to me than many people I know. 💔
They are our Babies!!!! They are not just a dog or cat or horse or rabbit or whatever!!!! They are precious children to us!
I lost my dog that I had for 10 years few days ago. She had a kidney failure. We went through all the funeral process but, knowing that I won't be hearing her welcoming barks everytime I go home still makes my heart hurt
God I miss her. She gave us unconditional love and I wish I could've done better for her. I hope you rest in peace, Jenny.
역병으사 my yorkie died this morning with a kidney failure. Still trying to accept that this happened. He was 9.
@@barbarasolha I lost my 16 year old yorkie 3 weeks ago to kidney failure :/ I hope you’re doing okay ❤️
@@justinerocchio1469 I’m so sorry for your loss. Im sure our furbabies are having the time of their life together, watching over us. Sending you strength and love ♥️🐾✨ the pain you feel in your heart is their tail wagging happily
Did it ever get better?
I just lost my kitty to kidney failure. This is the hardest thing I’ve ever gone through
I lost my cat 3 days ago and i miss him so much, he was the best pet my family has ever had. He was family and we all feel so empty without him but he is in a better place now. Condolences to everyone else that has recently lost a pet.
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We have just lost our fur boy yesterday. I am here to read everyone's comments to get comforts. My heart is in such a constant pain that is so hard to bear! 💔
We buried our boy on Monday and I don't know what to do with myself. For so many years I took great care of him and then he became quite sick the last 8 months and my whole life revolved around taking care of him
So sorry for your lost! I am with you. It is so hard to deal with. What helped me is I went to animal shelters to start foster animals. It helped me with contine my daily routine. I know it's not the same as our lost one, but to share our love to our lost one with the animals inneed from the shelter and give them a comfort place to stay has gradually brighten my life. It didn't take me long to end up adopted one of my own. My pain has eased by welcome a new family member.
I held my cat Luna while she was put to sleep. Im so glad I did because most pets last thoughts are wondering where their owner is. Am glad I was brave enough to carry her over. I will always love her and miss her so much xx
Ashleigh Hennessy Official I just had to do the same with my Dylan 6 days ago. He died in my arms. I’m an absolute disaster
Me too. Just two hours ago I had to put my beloved cat, Tobey, to sleep. He was with me for 17 years. I have tears running down my face as I type. I know he's not suffering anymore, but it's hard to accept that he's gone.
Me too. I always want my cats to be looking in my eyes when they die.I'll never ever let them wonder where I am.
I am feeling insane guilt because I could not be with my cats final moments because of Covid . I had to wait in my car while the vet put my sick cat down.. it’s a feeling that I hope no one has to go thru.. I want to know the details of her passing but I just can’t ask... I am severely heartbroken... I feel like my cat is made at me and doesn’t love me anymore
@@sz7689 You poor thing, thats awful! Don't worry, you did your best with what you were allowed to do, and the vets are mostly lovely, am sure they cuddled her and loooked after her well, so she wont be mad at you! You could try and send her a message to tell her that you love her? I did this and i had a lucid dream where my cat showed me what the vets did with her after I left when she was at the evening vets getting washed and x rayed. In the dream i felt the warm temperature of the water on my skin, she was showing me that she was well looked after as im sure your kitty was too! Just before you go to bed tonight, i know that sounds crazy but if you just relax, maybe do a 5 minute stress relief meditation before bed, and then just talk to her either in your head or out loud, tell her that u love her and will see her again soon. Picture her as vividly as you can in your head when you do this. It might work it might not, but u may get a dream about her that helps you get closure and some believe you genuinely make contact with your loved lost ones this way. Thats what i believe. Anyway, sorry to sound crazy, hope this helps you bring some better closure and have a few more moments together!!
I've had my sheba for 15 years
:( I have to say goodbye to her today at 8am ..in 2 hrs
I'm broken in side
I'm soooo sorry for your loss I sincerely am!! I suddenly lost my dog of about 15 yrs or so and I cant get past the grieving point, I hope you are handling it better and have some peace at heart ❤
@@Bikerbitch Thank you so much..
I'm a bit better today ..I still cry of course :( I miss her so much
She was my baby
I just lost my 15 yr old baby yesterday. I know how you are feeling.
I feel for you. I lost my 15 year old cat, Sheba, this morning. I knew her time was coming soon but I woke this morning to find her passed quietly under the bed. I will always miss her and that is a good thing. Angel, you gave her love and she gave it back. That's all you need to remember.
I'm so sorry :(
People who say: it's just a cat.....they don't feel deeply....Losing your pet is absolutely the hardest thing in life.....thank you for this talk
I lost my wonderful dog last night. This was the first video I watched that brought me any level of comfort and then my distracted head realised it was a “Ted talk”. My little man was called Ted
Oh my gosh, that is so perfect. :)
Just loss my pit bull of 9 years to a snake bite.. Never in 100 years did I ever think he would have to be put down like that.. I'm grateful for all the steak dinners we had but I regret every walk I didn't take with him. I'm taking some of his ashes this summer to Norman's Cay in the Bahamas because that's where I got his name from.. Rip Diego
Thats what grieving does it brings guilt. Don't feel bad he loved you unconditionally the same way ypu will love others with no conditions
one of mine has liver cancer my 11 year old pit such a tough dog he is im so tore up over this i love him so much i dont want to say goodbye so hard digging his grave sorry you lost yours to a snake mine rocky boy would get tore up fighting javelina so many times got bit in face by a diamondback rattlesnake thought that was it he had an amazing life though just not ready to say goodbye this is same emotions as when cancer took my dad I have so much love for the Rocky Boy one of a kind for sure :((
Know how you feel, RIP. Hope you feel better
My boy is named Diego too! You are the first person I've seen that named their dog Diego. Sadly he recently transitioned on 5/21/20. I hope you're Diego is happy in the Bahamas! ❤ I figured I would get an urn necklace so that my best friend can still go with me on walks and vacations. It's the only thing I can 'kind of' give him other than talking to him. Long live our Diegos!!! ❤💫🐕🙌
My Diego was just put down on Thursday. I’m decaying inside and I feel the same as you do about all the moments where I could have made the choice to give him more happy time and walks.
Five days ago I lost my best friend of 16 years. I swear he was a human in a cat's body. What hurts the most is that he was planning on dying, I knew he was in pain and he had started hiding... I called the vet in hopes of making an appointment in what I knew in my heart was going to result in putting him to sleep. They were booked until the next day. I had planned on getting home from work and spending the entire night with him (I work 2nd shift). When I had gotten home I found him in extremely bad shape, and rushed him to an animal hospital about 40 minutes away. He held on for the whole ride, I left the door of the carrier open so I could pet him on the way there (I wasn't the one driving). When we arrived, the staff rushed him into an operating room in an attempt to stabilize him, and he lasted about 5-10 minutes after we got him there. I wasn't able to be there when it happened, they only let me in the back to see him after his heart had stopped. I wanted to be there for him, but instead he died alone on a cold, metal table... Who knows, maybe being apart from me made it easier for him to let go... I should have made the decision to put him to rest sooner, so he wouldn't be in so much pain... I don't share quite as much of a bond with my other cats like I did with him, he genuinely loved me and he and I needed each other in our lives. I feel so lonely without him. The only reason I've been holding myself together is that I've been researching pets in the afterlife these past five days, stories of experiences with pet mediums, receiving signs from a deceased pet, pet reincarnation, etc. I'm hoping for a sign so badly. That he's happy and not hurting, and that I'll see him again, someday... I miss him more than anything. Sorry this is so long, I needed to get this out somewhere and off of my chest.
thats what 24/7 emergency vets are for. I guess you didnt want to pay a little extra
We had to help our 16 year old baby Maltese mix CeCe cross over on 3/19/21. She was everything. I could never let her pass alone. I held her the entire time and for two hours after. I wanted to hold her until she was no longer warm. Although these questions are completely normal, I never ask “why me?” Or “Why her?” Because why not me and why not her? We all choose to come here and we can’t be here forever. It’s just the missing her that gets me. I just miss her terribly. Just know that since this life isn’t forever it won’t be forever until we see them again. 💜
I lost my Saint Bernard just 24hrs ago, he was only 5 years old, devastated is an understatement xx This is as hard as losing my children.x
I lost Kuai, my beloved goat to a dog back in June. I was devastated and guilt-ridden because I felt it was my fault for not securing the goats pen against dogs and also she was nursing twin baby goats at the time. She was such a beautiful goat and because of her I bought more goats later and started a small goat farm. She also helped connecting to the local farming community. The story is, she ran off the first day I bought her and before long everyone in the village came to hear about it and was out trying to look for her. She was brought back to me after almost 3 weeks and has since had two pair of gorgeous twin kids. I will love you forever my beautiful Kuai, alive or dead. I promise I will make sure your two orphaned kids grow as strong and beautiful as you were. Wait for me at the rainbow bridge...
So glad I found this. Woke up at 2AM (2 hours ago) to a text from my mom out of state that our family golden died. It’s a grief that we are not equipped to process. I’ll love you forever Boone ❤❤
My golden Ziggy passed 2 weeks ago. Hopefully him and Boone are playing together someplace.
My kitty boy Bandit went to wait for me up above yesterday. I was there for him in his last hours right up until he was euthanized. The sweetest most loving cat I've ever had, I'll carry his love with me until we reunite again.
My heart goes out to all of us grieving our little friends, thank you all for your comments under this video, it's so therapeutic
I lost my kitty Sunday. I’m so devastated. Sudden, and random. I miss her so much. I feel like I’ve lost my child and I’m waiting for her to come to me. I don’t want to be without her.
My Partner and I said goodbye to our sweet cat, Pinot Noir, two days ago, after 14 beautiful years. She died from chronic kidney disease but she held on to be with us as long as she could. She loved us and we loved her so much. She was a soulmate we hope to see again one day.
I lost my beloved dog yesterday afternoon. Rip Domi, thank you for those 16 years. I’ll see you again soon ❤️
same here, i lost my baby last night. She was 14
I’m going through this right now. After 14 years of having the best dog in the world, I have to say goodbye. It doesn’t feel real.
Mackenzie Haverstock, I translate, and just before I watched this thread I got a pic of the Probert vs Domi fight. (Not sure what that means to you)
I never read comments however swiping I saw the name Domi.
Reading your post, I realized I was getting a message that was acknowledging your Thank yous.
Hope this message reaches you. Xo
How long do dogs live?
@@thetree7694 Small ones (like the one I had, a chihuahua) can live at least until they're 18 -20, with good care. Mine died at 20 - and not from a "natural" cause; but from a rattlesnake bite, sadly. Bigger dogs, only until they're around 10, I believe. ❤️My mom was into showing and breeding Alaskan Malamutes (a large breed); not many of hers lived past that age.
I’m 20 years old. Just lost one of my cats yesterday he was 15 and sadly died of cancer. I’ve never cried so much in my life. And there’s absolutely nothing wrong with that. Pets are family and when you lose a family member it is tragic. This video was very helpful however and don’t let anyone ever tell you it’s “just a pet”, it’s more like family in our eyes. Rest in piece Stitch❤️ See you at the Rainbow Bridge someday.
Rest In Peace dexter. Not even 2 years old yet. Mom and dad love you so much handsome. 💙
Today I lost my beloved Parrot - 23 year old. I feel great pain, I miss him even though his body is on the floor yet. My little Bird...wait for me, please... when I die I want to see you soon...
You will. He knows you loved him very much.♥️
Sending you so much love , he is watching over you 💖💖
@@catiasousa1715 Thank You, Darling, He is in my dreams very often. I think that every human meets his pet after death.
@@anetaandrzejewska5803 my beautiful dog Lucky passed away last Monday, I also want to believe that he is watching over me and waiting for us to reunite one day 🤍 animals are so pure, they teach us so much about life. We don’t deserve them. But at least you had the chance to have your little pet in your life, they are grateful for you ❤️
@@catiasousa1715 I agree, animals are the best creatures! I'm sure that Your Dog is waiting for You.
I lost my dog of 11 years last Sunday. It is the most devastating feeling in the world. I dont know how to process except taking it day by day.
I lost my Sheila three weeks ago. It has destroyed me.
J Etheridge. day by day is the only way. For me losing Sheila three and a half months ago destroyed me the pain remains everyday is like I lost her a minute ago.
@@CaptainSmith23 I'm not dealing. I lost my, sugar 4 days ago of 13 yrs and he suffered bad and now I'm suffering. I don't know how to deal with this. Im alone, he was my everything and we were together everyday all day. Disabled and never even went to my doctor's without, Sugar. Please pray for me.
Sharon. I'm sorry that you lost sugar. It's very tough when you lose what you love. Losing my Sheila has been very tough for me and it's going on four months. I made a video of her and I watch it every day so that I can see her. People everywhere know how you feel, we all feel your pain. We pray for you.
@@CaptainSmith23 Thank you so much. I'm trying everyway I can to get through this and I really appreciate you commenting back. God bless
I put my sweet baby to sleep that Thursday. He was my heart for 18 years, since I was 10. All I’ve done is sob. I feel so incomplete, I can’t work, I can’t sleep. I miss my baby so much. It hurts so much. Please hug you fur babies close for me today. Rip skeeter- you weren’t a shih tzu, you were a pure beautiful soul 💔💔
I lost my dog a month ago. There are days I don’t want to eat because I’m so depressed about this. I hate when people say it’s not possible to bring them back but I don’t like to believe that. My life is a wreck without him.
I just lost my 11-12 year old rescued cat. It was traumaric, sudden. This is helping me cope
Alisha Dan Thanks.
even though i’m a year late i’m currently in the same boat but i know i’ll be okay
I lost my cat just this morning 21/7/19 at 06:25 and she was the only cat I ever allowed myself to love again after the death of my cat that I had for 12 years 2 years ago. I feel lost and as if I have nothing left. Most people I meet don't seem to understand the bond between humans and their pets but the unconditional love my two cats have given me is better than any human could. The only thing that holds me together in these times is the thought of them together up there and that I will see them again. Some people may find it silly but I really wish for the existence of a 'rainbow bridge' or kitty heaven, where I can see my angels again. Miss you dearly and forever will. R.I.P. 😿
I know exactly how you feel, I lost my cat thumper 7/19/19 he was my first cat and I honestly don't know how to function without him. But I know he's free from his pain, and I will see him again. Sorry for your loss. We'll both see our kids again~
The bond between me and my Sheila was something that I can explain. My Sheila love me even when I was not so nice of a person to others, she never judged me but she loved me for 13 years and I loved my Sheila from the moment that we met. when I lost Sheila I wanted to go with her. Animals are always there for people no matter what.
That's really traumatic. Especially after having lost your first cat, then again so soon. They were lucky to have you. And you should have another cat when you're ready, because you have such a deep love for them!
I'm so sorry for your loss. It's one of the most tormenting things that can happen to a perso.💕
I lost my dog of 16 years today and I feel so broken. I can’t sleep. I can’t stop crying. Watching him slowly die and then put to sleep has been such a traumatic experience. I miss him so much. I hope he reincarnates and comes into my life again. My family and I miss him dearly 💛💛
I lost my cat Tammy yesterday. She’s just 5 years old. I’m feeling guilty that I wasn’t able to save her life and make her live longer. I watched a video about pet loss and it says animals are better at forgiveness than humans. I have been crying endlessly. In my ❤ I believe in Rainbow Bridge. Tammy will be waiting there for me with the rest of the other cats I’ve loved.
Thankyou for this. I'm looking for a forgiveness from my cat cause i took him late to the vet.
My dog gave me life. He was there for me during my addiction and helped me through everything. He passed away 2 months ago and I miss him dearly
I lost my dog this morning and it's really depressing knowing the fact that I won't see him again. I was emotionally affected and I went into depression. It's really painful and hurting that he died. If you are in my position just know there are many people like you and you can talk to anyone about it.
i feel you. i lost my dog yesterday. i'm so sorry, you'll see him again and he'll visit you in special ways
Lost my puppy 3 days ago. I'm extremely depressed and broken. I don't know how ill deal with this. I miss her!! Watching this gives me hope.
Reading all these comments gives me comfort...my sister, my mom and i put our 16 yr old yorkie, Trinity down today...I am shattered 💔 but I know we'll meet again 🙏🏼
My precious, loving, kind Tyson passed away yesterday of cancer. I have never felt so helpless, heartbroken, sad, lost, and empty in my entire life. I am beside myself. Frustration comes with all these other emotions too. He was the glue that held my family together. I walked into the house tonight for the first time without him barking and running up to happily greet me. I just know this pain is never gonna stop. I just want him back. I want him home.
I lost my beloved cat yesterday morning and I am completely heartbroken, it feels like some part of me has been ripped out and lost forever. She was there for our family through some tough times, like another soul giving us comfort that everything will be ok. She was more than a pet to us, she was like another member of the family, always there. She had become ill a short while ago, but something gave inside her and it was time for her to go. The little things like being at the door, in the window, meeting me on the drive, lying on the bed, on my lap, even her usually consistent meowing. I haven’t even had the strength to watch this video yet, if I ever will. We had lots of good times, but I am eaten by guilt that if I ever ignored her when I was tired or never gave her the attention I should. Only a cat some might say, but anyone else who has had this bond will understand. I like to think her spirit is running free and happy somewhere in a garden, where she loved to be and that one day I can hold her again. She was a gift to us and helped us through times when we struggling. To all those in the same position, I hope time will heal us all🙏
Just lost my sweetie yesterday🥲
@@sabinekoch3448 so sorry to hear, I feel your pain. One day at a time is all we can do, whilst always remembering the good times 💔
I lost my sweet and loving chiwawa/corgi dog 2 days ago and feel completely devastated and heartbroken. She was my only family member and best buddy and now there's a huge void in my life. Having said this I've learned from several nde accounts that people have encountered their past pets on the other side. Since they're all love and no ego pets are actually closer in the spiritual realm than us humans. So yes, they do indeed have souls that enter the divine eternal consciousness when they leave they're physical bodies behind back here in the physical realm. This believe provides great comfort that soon I will joyously be reunited with my furry friends when it my time to make the transition. But don't get me wrong the grieving process is undeniably unbearable nonetheless.
If someone doesn't believe that animals don't have a soul they don't know much about animals.
I lost my budgie Tom Tom 10 days ago. I had a bond with him that can not be explained. I have never experienced grief like this. I love him so much and will miss him forever.
my ferret passed just a few hours ago, i'm so distraught in his passing, he was so young and he was the only animal that made me feel joy in the first time in five years, i miss him every second.
They are our True soul mates. Heart To Heart. The purest Love on this Earth. Our pets teach us about death. When I lost my dog Lady when i was 9, ...helped me to cope better with losing my mother at 12. Death is and always will be around us all. Animals understand when its Their Time. Acceptance. A natural course of life. I've had all my dogs die in my loving arms. The greatest Love i have ever experienced. A Gift. Love is energy and does not die. We will reconnect again one SWEET day through that Awesome Love. Their waiting.
Just lost my dog today. I'm mourning all day. I watch this coz I really miss her. She's one of the brightest dog I've ever love
Lost my 15 year old shih tzu today, I’m 21 now and I’ve had him since I was a little girl. He was my first love, my Christmas puppy. I know where he’s going is better than where he has been, but i will miss him forever. Hug your fur babies tight for me tonight please
Preciousville 💜 it's been 3 weeks since I lost my cat and I'm still crying and feel so much regret and guilt. The grief is agony
I just lost my almost 15 year old bichon 2 days ago. The grief is crushing...I pray I’ll see him again...
You will.
I lost my 19 year old bichon 6 days ago. I feel broken. Lost. Had him since I was 12. I knew his parents way before he was born. Brought him home at 4 weeks. Also brought him home the day he was born. Now my home is empty. Everywhere I walk reminds me of him. I’ve been crying for a week straight. He was fine a week ago despite his age.
@@carlosurbina8252 I'm so sorry to hear about your bichon what a blessing to have him that long. How are you coping? I just lost my beloved chihuhua Mia, 12 days ago. My husband and I adopted her from the animal shelter 7 years ago. She was the sweetest and bravest girl. We knew she had illnesses that would eventually progress but I would never think this day would come. I'm broken, I no longer enjoy eating, I cannot focus on school work, she was the link to my marriage. She was our only daughter. I love her and miss her so much I want her back :'(''''''''''
I just lost my almost 15 year old bichon just hours ago. I feel the same. Love to you
I just lost my 16 year old bichon as well. We'll see our dogs again for sure one day.
I loved my cat as much as I love my son. She was like my second child. I'm really heartbroken.
I lost my cat, my best friend, my baby, my sidekick, my everything , Heblu almost a month ago. I cry and miss him everyday. Actually the pain grows more and more everyday....i still can't believe he's not here phisically, i can't believe that he will no longer be next to me in my times and memories to come...and i hope and i pray that he knows how much me and my family loved him.
My cat died last week and I just can’t get over it. He was my best friend. It hurts so bad. Never thought I’d be so connected to a little cat, but... here we are. I cry every day because I miss him so bad. 😫
I had to put my 16-year old cat a few days ago too.... How are you feeling?
SuperMarway haven’t been able to put his food and water dish away. Can’t bring myself to put his stuff away. Every day I think about him. His name was mojo. He was very well behaved and literally never did anything wrong. The worst part is that he died while undergoing tests and I didn’t even get to say good bye! I had to say good bye to his dead body. It hurts every day. I’m having a lot of trouble getting over it. People say “just get another cat.” But I don’t want another cat. I miss MY cat. I didn’t even want a cat. But he chose me. (Long story.) he softened me as a person. I used to be colder, and didn’t care about animals. Now i love animals. He changed me. He made me a better person. And now he’s gone. My heart is forever broken.
SuperMarway sorry about your loss. I will say a prayer for your little cat.
@@JakeIannarino I'm glad you told me how you are feeling. Did you have in mind that he was too sick to be treated? Or that he didn't have long to live?
My cat had been diagnosed with some kind of heart defect a few years ago. I didn't have in mind the recomendation to put him down would come up, he was my cat that would live forever..... I'm glad I could say good bye to him, but it crushes me that it was in his worse condition... I knew that he didn't have long, and it makes me happy to know that he died without pain. Heart failure is really serious and he could have suffocated instead.
My cat too made me who I am. I got him when I was 10-11 y.o. Through the years my friends and family changed, but my cat was always there for me.
It hurts so much, I know. Have you talked about it with friends or family? Cried in front of them? It really helps.
@@JakeIannarino I will tell my cat (named "katten", translated to "the cat" from swedish) to find your Mojo and play with him now when their both healthy and have unlimited energy at the rainbow bridge (the pre-heaven for pets).
I lost my elderly English bulldog 4 nights ago. She was old, but I only had her in my life for 14 months. I adopted her from a rescue. Her soul was so pure and loving and Her absence is so heavy on me. Her death was fast and terrible from a condition called bloat. I was helpless in doing anything for her, and that saddens me the most. I blame myself cause I was experimenting with her food trying to find something better for her skin when this happened. I go back and forth on what I should have done different. I hope someday we see each other again so I can hug her.
Euphanized my dog, Oh I made a mistake!!!😢
I just lost my dog Santi tonight. He was an older dog and was definitely struggling... I had to put my fear and sadness of losing him aside to do what was best for him. He's no longer in pain but I feel like a piece of my heart has gone. I hope he knows how much I love him
He does.His spirit is still around you.❤
I wanted to share a true story in hopes this will help someone who has animals. My dog was aprox 17 years old and had cancer of the tongue that had spread. I loved that animal like a child. I believe in Christ and every word the bible tells me. I had been praying to God that he show me a verse in the bible that Animals go to heaven or I wanted to find something that would give me peace that he cared for them. I read the bible for several months trying to find a verse to would put me at ease. I knew the day was coming when I would have to put him to sleep. I dreaded it with a passion. I just could not see my self doing that but I knew I had to one day as the pain of my animal cancer would progress. 3 days before I put my dog to sleep I was coming home and about 3 miles from home I saw the most beautiful rainbow so I pulled over and took a photo of it. The next day was 9/11 and I turned on the TV and saw the most beautiful rainbow on TV over the twin towers where they use to be. Then the 3rd day after seeing 2 rainbows I woke up that morning and my dog started struggling to breathe. I knew it was time to put her down so I got a family member and we took her to the vet and put her to sleep. I cried my eyes out and then I had to do some work about 1 hr away from where I lived. It started raining and I looked up and low and behold I saw another rainbow. I took a photo of it. That's 3 rainbows in 3 days consecutive. I knew it was from the lord and I knew that the rainbows are from heaven. I then realized that God was trying to tell me something so I went back to the BIBLE and looked up every verse about the rainbow. There is was.. GENESIS 9:13 And God said, “This is the sign of the covenant I am making between Me and you and every living creature with you, a covenant for all generations to come: EVERY LIVING CREATURE AND MAN GOD SENT A RAINBOW TO BECAUSE he LOVES THEM. There it was. God Loves the creature and Man he made a promise to. It also conveys intelligence. Animas and Man have intelligence. He made a promise to us because he loves us. I read that verse many times and didn't see it. It took God 3 rainbows to show me the last came the day I put her to sleep. The bible says in 2-3's I shall establish my word. He established his word with me that day very clear.
That is beautiful, but you didn't have to kill your dog. Sadly, the veterinary industry does not offer pet parents hospice option. There are medications to keep them comfortable while they die when the only one who should make that call - God - decides. Americans are so afraid of death, and the veterinary industry is a death cult, encouraging this. Our job is to help our babies through this transition.. which is part of life, for all of us. We need to start insisting the veterinary industry start providing hospice care, end of life comfort measures. We do this for humans every day,
Thank you for sharing this! Its VERY uplifting n puts me at ease.God bless you and the one you lost!😇😇🥰🥰
What a beautiful story! Completely reaffirmed my faith that God is always in control, and He is the Lord our God. He has a plan for ALL of us. He'll show you the way, all you have to do is ask. Thank you for this story 🙏 ❤️
@@scoobydadog246 actually there is hospice here in the US. It was an option for me yesterday when I made the decision to help my girl who struggled to BREATH transition. Nice of you to shame this person though after she shared her beautiful story.
@@scoobydadog246 PS your logic is flawed by miles… Veterinary medicine is not a death cult, if anything they are a money money money cult… they want our money so their going to suggest anything they can to make more money. If they say there is nothing left they can do I believe there is nothing left they can do. If they had hospice services they are for sure going to at least mention that to keep the flow of money coming in. Of course not all vets are this way but the majority that I’ve seen are. The hospice service that was offered to me was through an at home Euthanizing company. The kindest thing we can do for our beloved pets is to not keep them suffering. Maybe you’ve never had an animal struggle to breath, maybe you have never struggled to breath. It’s not fun to watch your animal suffer.
I lost my cat 2 nights ago and I’m just absolutely broken. He got me through 4 family deaths and it just completely guts me that I had such a raw and emotional connection. I’m not new to death, all my grandparents at 10 and my dad at 23 but losing my cat 25 is killing me. I love him and can’t wait to see him again
I can really relate, I have a similar story. How are you feeling now? I've just lost my beloved cat this week and the shock and pain is unbearable. She comforted me through a lot of really awful challenging times including multiple family bereavements and to now lose her feels unimaginably cruel. I'm just taking it one day at a time but sometimes it's hard to know how I can go on. I don't have a partner or children so me and her were a family unit. I always thought she'd live well into old age but she died of cancer quite suddenly. I'm still in shock and can't quite believe this has happened.
"I'm sick of everyone else dying." :(
Renee Nghiem @Yes, I feel the same way. Everyone human and furry leaving and im alone.
Everyone will die at some point.
People need to get over it.
Isahaq Yusuf @Go back to your own country and leave people alone as you don't understand people who grieve and hurt cuz they've lost a love one.
@@debbieshaw9018 I do understand because my pet died of old age. People die but time heals eventually. Everything needs to move on.
Isahaq Yusuf @True enough, but you have to realize that its everybody right to grieve as they feel, just as I lost my sweet dog Molly soon be 3 months ago, and I am moving on but still grieving. Just like im getting ready to go out with a friend tonight for dinner so see im trying to move on but would rather stay home, so cannot tell anyone how to grieve. And don't say nothing bad bout my baby, just leave ppl alone, no one is asking anything from you. This is your problem.
I just lost my sweet baby boy. He died in my arms suddenly and unexpectedly and it’s so hard to say goodbye. Saying thumper was my emotional support animal would be a huge understatement. He was my entire world. He helped me so much and pulled me out of a horrible depression. I love you so much Thumpy, you will always be my special baby and I hope you are up there doing binkies and eating lots of oats and bananas. I love you so much. Forever wouldn’t have been long enough. You are my soul mate. 🐰❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🌈
I am so sorry for your loss. Thank you for telling me about Thumper.
Laurel Fitzhugh thank you, it’s so hard. He was the light of my life 🐰❤️🌈
I lost my dog today. I’ve been wallowing in my tears all day, but this poem gave me some closure. I’m a Catholic, and I’m not sure if pets go to heaven. In any case, it will eventually be my turn to leave, and I just hope I can see him when that day comes
I lost my cat today and I can’t explain the pain I felt right now . I just love him so much🥺
I just lost mine today as well…I see you posted this a year ago and I have to know…does it get easier?
I lost my bby boy 2 days ago :/
I was woken up at 5am today with my cat being attacked by 2 stray dogs. She died in my arms and I’m trying to stop asking God why... RIP Sacha 💕💝❤️💙🐾
I lost my baby cat Fluffy yesterday (14/05/2019), she was an angel in this terrible world. I will miss her everyday, she was only 3 and she had FIP. I was so lucky to have her, she was truly a blessing.
I just lost my cat tonight and it hurts so much. I hope you're okay ❤
noir angel may she rest in peace. I know how you’re feeling. They were brought to us for a reason and I’m sure your cat was an amazing companion and taught you many lessons just like mine did. Until we meet again.
We had to say goodbye to our beagle today. I feel like he took a huge part of our hearts with him. The tears won’t stop.
I lost my best friend two days ago. Man, I can't even express how broken & numb I feel. It's a part of life & I'm grateful to have been there when she passed. She died in my arms & felt no pain. I was so blessed to have had 17 beautiful years with her. She always slept with me & jumped off the sofa looking like superman every time I took her outside. She was so strong & beautiful. I miss her so much & I can't picture living life without her by my side. My heart is so broken but what comforts me is that she is no longer in pain. I will get to hold you again & it will be forever. You're in my heart, always Princess 💓🐩
RIP Daisy. Only 5 years old, gone too soon. The whole family is devastated and in shock. We love you so very much😿
I know how it feel, my cat died at 1 and a half. I miss him more and more everyday:(
My dog passed on Tuesday it’s now Sunday she had a heart attack at 7 years old we were with her and she had been to the vet that day. I miss her so much and she was too young
@@JohnDoe-kd3ny I'm very sorry to hear that. I know it's not easy but I hope you're doing ok. Remember to talk to people, your family, friends, even people here on CZcams.
My sweet girl Mimi 😸 was 7 we lost her 4 days ago fairly suddenly from heart disease 😪 ironic bc to us, she had the biggest most sweetest heart ever. And we are incredibly devastated trying to be strong for our 10 year old male who is showing some signs of mourning. He's helping us just as much! I love my pets as others love their children.. They have filled our lives with so much joy it seems impossible to go on without her 😭
My beautiful dog Schindler passed on two months ago at the age of 4, he wasn't the brightest dog, he didn't do any tricks, he wouldn't win any dog shows but he had the most beautiful soul of any animal I've ever known, to know him really was to love him.
Of course I still miss him so very much but I know one day we will be reunited and we will walk together in the sun again.
I lost my cat to something on the inside. We didn't know what it was, but we found him two days ago. RIP Pumpkin, I love you so much.💜😭
It has been 26 days since I had to lay my sweet old man soul kitty to rest. Having to make the decision shattered my heart. I knew it was the last act of earthly love I could give him. I held him while we said goodbye. I needed him to know I was there with him until the very end. I told him how much I love him and how he changed my life as he fell asleep and we looked in each others eyes. I didn’t want him to feel scared or alone during his final moments on earth. It is something I will never, ever forget. It was the most painful moment of my life, but I knew it was the relief he deserved. I miss him so deeply. Not a day has gone by that I haven’t cried for my sweet boy. The love we shared was the purest I’ve ever had the privilege of experiencing. Everything feels so empty without him😔♥️
I lost my baby two days ago after 10 years to kidney failure. We had to put him down on Saturday. I screamed and hollered when they told me I had to make that decision. I miss him so much… I’m currently trying to find videos that would help me through my grief I feel so bad and guilty giving the okay but I also knew the discomfort he may have went through… it’s so different not having him in my bed or following me around anymore after 10 years!!!! Pray for me. 😢🌈😩💛