Dietitian Reviews Ballerina Scout Forsythe’s Diet (WOW.. This is NOT Enough Food)

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    Hey everyone, I’m Abbey Sharp, welcome to Abbey’s Kitchen. In today's video, we will be looking at professional ballerina Scout Forsythe’s "What I Eat in a Day".
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  • @AbbeysKitchen
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  • @anneloeswarmelink16
    @anneloeswarmelink16 Před 3 lety +5170

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    • @nedahokkk7886
      @nedahokkk7886 Před 3 lety +356

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    • @ashdawson7418
      @ashdawson7418 Před 3 lety +104

      @@nedahokkk7886 mine has 5!

    • @nedahokkk7886
      @nedahokkk7886 Před 3 lety +170

      @@ashdawson7418 ooh 5 gives me stomach pains

    • @yourfbiagent1464
      @yourfbiagent1464 Před 3 lety +69

      @@nedahokkk7886 same! honestly I only take about 3!

    • @approx4ft
      @approx4ft Před 3 lety +60

      @@nedahokkk7886 good to know your limits

  • @katfoster845
    @katfoster845 Před 3 lety +5395

    My ballet teacher was so lovely. She taught me from 5 until I left dance at about 16ish. She never once told me I was too big or commented on my food, unless it was to say that my mum's homemade snacks looked tasty. I'm naturally short and stocky too, but that was never commented on. One girl tried picking on me for being busy, but she had words.
    I was never going to go pro. I did do exams though, but there was never a pressure. I don't think she ever raised her voice to us once. She praised achievement. If a girl did a beautiful pirouette, she'd say how good it was. If someone made a mistake, she'd gently correct it. She praised effort too, not just the girls who had natural talent.
    It worked. Several girls went on to the royal ballet school. Lots went pro. None had eating disorders. It is a testament to her teaching and it shows that the abusive tactics are unnecessary. You can get the same result or better through kindness. Body shaming isn't necessary.

    • @AbbeysKitchen
      @AbbeysKitchen  Před 3 lety +508

      Wow, that's great! Thanks for sharing!

    • @whateverfanclub8202
      @whateverfanclub8202 Před 3 lety +267

      Wow, I was smiling reading this. She seems like a great woman 🤍 and her methods sound so so good and healthy that's so rare.

    • @erinedwards2603
      @erinedwards2603 Před 3 lety +102

      Wow I’m so glad that you had such a wonderful teacher who fostered a healthy passion for dance! It’s so sad to hear so many experiences from people who had a real passion but it became unhealthy for their body and body image. I wish more adults could have this approach with young people they are mentoring and teaching! Kindness and encouragement makes such a huge difference 🥰

    • @ml2397
      @ml2397 Před 3 lety +42

      She seems lovely, I wish that I had encountered a teacher like that (actually I did but she taught the younger levels more often), maybe if more of teachers were like that then I wouldn’t have struggled so much with my body image or dropped ballet so early

    • @dianalove539
      @dianalove539 Před 3 lety +6

      That’s so lovely!

  • @kirsten.amelia
    @kirsten.amelia Před 3 lety +6854

    Abbey: 12% of ballet dancers have eating disorders
    Me, an 18 year old ballet dancer who has witnessed disordered eating and behaviours since the age of 8: ONLY 12%??????????????

    • @tf7602
      @tf7602 Před 3 lety +746

      It said "diagnosed" eating disorder :/ Wouldn't be surprised if there were lots of undiagnosed ones as well

    • @AbbeysKitchen
      @AbbeysKitchen  Před 3 lety +1392

      @@tf7602 yes thats just diagnosed. likely MUCH higher

    • @carbearr6093
      @carbearr6093 Před 3 lety +48

      Haha I was thinking the same- ex dancer here

    • @kateregier7713
      @kateregier7713 Před 3 lety +123

      Yeah I figured it would be like ..... 70% 😂

    • @MsAntigonaki
      @MsAntigonaki Před 3 lety +106

      I came out of that world when I injured my spine at the ripe old age of 23... thankfully I went to grad school and did something else- at 5’9.5, I was 140 lb and “fat”

  • @bethanytummillo5183
    @bethanytummillo5183 Před 3 lety +1328

    My mom pulled me out of dance class when the teacher put us on scales and told us we were too fat at 4 years old 🥴

    • @lizhutchinson6978
      @lizhutchinson6978 Před 3 lety +208

      Good job mom. That's horrible.

    • @user-rt9dt3sy5k
      @user-rt9dt3sy5k Před 3 lety +57

      Wow that is so messed up... Good job mom and sorry that must have been so toxic :(

    • @barbaralachance5836
      @barbaralachance5836 Před 3 lety +18

      Good for you! Amazing decision from your mum 👏👏

    • @TheBusyJane
      @TheBusyJane Před 3 lety +24

      What a shame. Ballet is so fun (assuming you were enjoying it) and can be so good in the long term and who know how many people this one toxic teacher ruined it for.

    • @persephonexx
      @persephonexx Před 3 lety +5

      Wait are u serious?

  • @lizzyteryoshin3501
    @lizzyteryoshin3501 Před 3 lety +2662

    as an athlete who found themselves severely underfueling I think it's important to emphasize that often intense exercise kills your hunger cues, so you can genuinely be "listening to your body" and be eating less than half of what you need and doing immense damage. I was eating maybe 1200 calories a day and I honestly felt good. It wasn't until I ended up in the hospital due to malnourishment that I realized the amount I was eating wasn't adequate.

    • @sofsings101
      @sofsings101 Před 3 lety +205

      this is so interesting and makes so much sense. I think it's pretty evident in Scout's video too, since it looks like her diet works so well for her. Thanks for sharing

    • @AbbeysKitchen
      @AbbeysKitchen  Před 3 lety +285

      Yes for sure. I'm sorry for your experience

    • @hannahc3317
      @hannahc3317 Před 3 lety +64

      Yep. Running destorys my appetite but gives me a hell of a deficit..

    • @eturley7533
      @eturley7533 Před 3 lety +31

      @@hannahc3317 I had an issue with that in HS! Didn't even realize I wasn't eating enough until I consulted with my sports R.D!

    • @heatherlaurenRN
      @heatherlaurenRN Před 3 lety +37

      Yep!!! And the damaging effects on hunger cues last a long time. I did this to myself in high school playing soccer and still have issues with hunger cues to this day. Making sure I eat enough so my body doesn’t go into starvation mode is a constant struggle for me. And it’s been almost 10 years since I stopped restricting

  • @danielle4211
    @danielle4211 Před 3 lety +3322

    As someone who did ballet for 10 years, I still remember how shocked I was when my teacher said we shouldn't eat peanut butter because it was "too fat." Thank goodness my mom raised me right. I would just roll my eyes and then go home and eat an entire rotisserie chicken after a 5 hour rehearsal.

    • @Anita-og1wb
      @Anita-og1wb Před 3 lety +134

      You go girl👏🏼

    • @AbbeysKitchen
      @AbbeysKitchen  Před 3 lety +274

      Wow. That is very concerning!

    • @alecbona4549
      @alecbona4549 Před 3 lety +252

      Anyone who tells you to not eat peanut butter is a terrorist 🤣

    • @musikluv6
      @musikluv6 Před 3 lety +64

      Damn, it makes me so mad that there are teachers like this. How fcked do you have to be to encourage that to kids? I'm so glad u didn't listen

    • @morganwu282
      @morganwu282 Před 3 lety +99

      Lol this comment made me laugh because my ballet teacher used to tell us that she was super poor when she was a dance major in college, so she would literally eat peanut butter out of the jar as her meals because it was cheap! Guess her philosophy was a bit different than your teacher's. 😂

  • @leafmealome8910
    @leafmealome8910 Před 3 lety +2864

    FYI for historical context: we can blame George Balanchine for the horrifying body standards in ballet. The stereotypical ballet body used to be a shorter, more built, and muscular frame before he started NYC ballet and was dubbed the father of American ballet. He was also a racist who married and dated his lead dancers on a rotating basis. He decided he wanted impossibly thin, meticulously controllable, tall white dancers because that’s what he was into dating.
    This shit is still really hard to watch. A lot of that skinny pressure I know from personal experience comes from home. My own mother has had meltdowns at me that at my age she was 98 pounds so I am therefor overweight despite the fact that I’ve got more muscle than she could have dreamed of at my age. My cousin recently started dating a dancer in college, her mother has an ED and is intent on monitoring and restricting what her daughter eats as well. I swear it was like college schedules for dance were built around restricting food as well. 8:30 am ballet, 10am gen Ed, 11:30 modern, 3:00 pm rehearsals that could go up until 10pm with no more than a 10 minute break for a snack. And most girls brought broth. I was looked at like I had three heads for not cutting out gluten and downing broth. And god forbid you got an injury and had to try and sneak to PT without failing class but they only scheduled PT during class times. It’s still weird to come out of the dance world and experience people regarding you as a person and not a tool for their amusement.

    • @AbbeysKitchen
      @AbbeysKitchen  Před 3 lety +265

      Interesting, thank you for sharing. I know it is concerning to watch

    • @twirlygirl0714
      @twirlygirl0714 Před 3 lety +48

      Even as an SAB alum, I cannot agree more😣

    • @leldesaulite-rozite
      @leldesaulite-rozite Před 3 lety +45

      Thank you for the information. It is saddening to hear such history. 😞

    • @HelibearWomble
      @HelibearWomble Před 3 lety +32

      This is horrifying

    • @charlotteoleary196
      @charlotteoleary196 Před 3 lety +49

      This is really interesting - I was watching On Pointe about SAB and I wondered why there was hardly any mention of how thin the girls were, aside from one talk about eating properly but it's never mentioned if any of them have eating disorders.

  • @chiaracavazzoli9250
    @chiaracavazzoli9250 Před 3 lety +930

    I attended a professional ballet school in italy from 11 to 15 yo.
    Its such a toxic world. I am just now recovering from years of binge eating disorder ( i am 27) I was always considered overweight for ballet ( when in reality i was underweight). Our teachers would weight us each week in front of everybody else and ask us every day what we ate for breakfast and lunch that day. I remember that once the teacher got really mad at a friend of mine bc she said she had a banana for snack. She said that a banana is not a snack, it is a dinner ( keep in Mind that we were Young teens who would practice 2 hours a day, 6 days a week).Once i got called fat by the teacher in front of the whole class and i still remember that moment as the most humiliating moments of my life. To this day i still dont know why my parents thought this was ok. I would come home basically every day crying and crying. I used to binge and restrict, binge and restrict. I thought i was broken. I thought i didnt have Any self control. At 15 i was finally brave enough to tell my parents i wanted to quit, they were not happy but respected my decision.
    Thanks to the help of professionals and ppl like abbey i am only now- after over 10 years of quitting ballet - finding freedom in food

    • @AbbeysKitchen
      @AbbeysKitchen  Před 3 lety +113

      I'm so sorry for your experience. I'm glad you're doing better now ❤️

    • @monomiracle1
      @monomiracle1 Před 3 lety +23

      My limited experience with those in the ballet world is that though they are in love with dance they are emotionally pressured into being abnormally thin. The thinner/ lighter the better. The same with injuries which they ignore /cover up so as to be able to perform.

    • @SlpBeauty333
      @SlpBeauty333 Před 3 lety +6

      I'm glad you were able to get the help that you needed and are doing better. ❤️

    • @SC-uq2jf
      @SC-uq2jf Před 3 lety +19

      How horrible that these monsters who teach children are so mean-spirited ...Any ( dance ) teacher that shames and berates children for their weight or Performance should be FIRED.

    • @islanddolphin6878
      @islanddolphin6878 Před 3 lety +6

      You are so strong at such a young age to advocate for yourself to get your parents to allow you to quit dance even though they were disappointed. People have so much hatred over girl's body's if they can't control their body and will shame them so harshly, like they are as bad as child molesters. It's sexual harassment and it's demeaning. Not just in ballet, but the world in general. I hope the dance and sports world moves forward to allowing different sizes and shapes to be accepted and respected. There are alot of talented dancers we are missing out on seeing due to these arbitrary and narrow standards of dancer's body.

  • @darcigayford6779
    @darcigayford6779 Před 3 lety +1178

    I work as a pianist at a major ballet company, and I just want to say that the break between morning class and rehearsal is SO SHORT! They have 15 minutes to collect all their stuff, go to the bathroom if they need, grab whatever costume or rehearsal outfit they need and get to the next rehearsal. And whatever food they can shove down in that time has to be something that’s not going to cramp up in their stomach while they work. As a pianist too I only get the 15 minutes and then have to wait until 3 for lunch. It took some getting used to but now I also only eat a light lunch because dinner is only a few hours after that! Haha

    • @Kaytreenz
      @Kaytreenz Před 3 lety +159

      Yeah I was going to say, it's hard to have a full stomach while exercising (esp if you're bobbing up and down?) and physically stressed, which would naturally reinforce smaller meals during the day. She sort of acknowledges this by eating quite a lot more in the evening time when she can relax.

    • @reneearabia583
      @reneearabia583 Před 3 lety +74

      Yeah I mean...the puffy chickpea snacks are great because it’s voluminous but won’t make you feel too full. I do powerlifting and I can’t even handle a banana a few minutes before a workout. What more if you do ballet where you have to twirl around and look like you’re gracefully dancing.

    • @AbbeysKitchen
      @AbbeysKitchen  Před 3 lety +73

      Wow. That's crazy!

    • @courtneyharrel5500
      @courtneyharrel5500 Před 3 lety +40

      My daughter who has told me they get 5 min breaks in between dance classes said they got an email that there is no eating in the building. They are there all day! I could go on.

    • @blewblupop68
      @blewblupop68 Před 3 lety +24

      Yeah. I think having nutrient dense foods to maintain energy is a good idea bc having heavy meals while dancing can be uncomfortable. Like some trail mixes, dried fruit, some protein bars. They can pack in energy without all the bulk

  • @TheBEG2000
    @TheBEG2000 Před 3 lety +865

    I remember eating lunch with a friend in high school who did ballet. I brought pasta and she insulted my meal saying it was too fatting and bad for me. I was underweight and it was something I enjoyed. She had a food journal and always stressed about food, body and presentation. We need to celebrate healthy strong bodies. Eating very little is not sustainable or safe.

    • @AbbeysKitchen
      @AbbeysKitchen  Před 3 lety +74

      For sure. I'm sorry for your experience

    • @TheBEG2000
      @TheBEG2000 Před 2 lety +24

      @@teacup3370 pasta was only a small part of my meal for lunch that day. I always had veggies and fruit too. Our friends found her puking up her food after lunch once. I do not think she was focused on “nutrient dense” food when making her comment. I think she had an ED.

    • @roseg2239
      @roseg2239 Před rokem +2

      And also, overly skinny bodies are just not attractive. As a sexually dimorphic species we are attracted to signals of health, fertility and strength.

    • @MsPBJTime
      @MsPBJTime Před rokem +3

      I'm sorry you had that happen. I wish people would mind their own business and keep their neuroses to themselves. Don't sploosh your food trauma onto me, Heather. 😂

    • @kareno7848
      @kareno7848 Před 8 měsíci

      The pasta was bad for you. Eat eggs, protein, healthy fat.

  • @wednesdaygreenleaf9578
    @wednesdaygreenleaf9578 Před 3 lety +2008

    Ballerina diets are terrifying. I can only imagine the metabolic damage you get from doing this to yourself long-term. I did ballet for 10 years and it was really scary to see the effects up close. So many girls not starting their period until they were 18-21....

    • @elisavandermolen693
      @elisavandermolen693 Před 3 lety +146

      That's a way of generalizing... I was a ballerina when I was young, not professional but I was close, and I ate normal and was still fit and thin. A lot of ballerina's eat balanced and good. I hate how people think that one example represents the whole community.

    • @AbbeysKitchen
      @AbbeysKitchen  Před 3 lety +170

      I know, it is very concerning

    • @arielmalanga
      @arielmalanga Před 3 lety +193

      @@elisavandermolen693 My mother was a ballet “star” and has suffered from an eating disorder to this day. She eats healthy but is still terrified of gaining weight.

    • @elisavandermolen693
      @elisavandermolen693 Před 3 lety +49

      @@arielmalanga I'm sorry for her. I hope she will be better, but the thing is, that I noticed that people think that the fact one person in a community has something, it means the whole community has it. For example, I am a bikini competitor, off season at the moment. People have said to me that they think I do steroids (wich is insane) because they say everybody in the bodybuilding community does it. That makes no f*cking sense. Another thing is that people think that when I am in prep I starve myself, wich is also insane. Fact is that doing competitions helped me so much with my eating disorder when I was 15. I got that due to problems at school. Doing competitions made me feel proud and I felt proud of my body, on or off season. It really distresses me that people judge without knowing the whole picture and people like Abby can cause some bias to certain community's wich sucks.

    • @elisavandermolen693
      @elisavandermolen693 Před 3 lety +10

      Sorry if my English is not on point btw, it's not my first language. But I still hope you understand my point.

  • @breel4769
    @breel4769 Před 3 lety +1571

    I love her attitude and she’s fun to watch but my god how does she sustain on so little calories?!

    • @AbbeysKitchen
      @AbbeysKitchen  Před 3 lety +125

      😫

    • @andginisin
      @andginisin Před 3 lety +370

      So I was never professional, but I have my degree in dance education... I honestly do not believe that this is what she eats every day. Dancers tend to fetishize the hustle. It’s unhealthy.

    • @breel4769
      @breel4769 Před 3 lety +72

      @@andginisin that’s honestly good to hear though. I hope she’s giving herself more calories!

    • @mystickitten9597
      @mystickitten9597 Před 3 lety +127

      I used to do running for like 3 hours a day at 1000cal, I know now it wasn't healthy but ur body gets used to it

    • @a.s.5268
      @a.s.5268 Před 3 lety +95

      It’s possible. Your body starts to eat away at its own muscle and bone to sustain itself.

  • @MariahGem
    @MariahGem Před 3 lety +154

    Wow, when I danced, I was also told ballet is about “floating” or appearing “light as a feather”, but I learned, and was drilled into me, that it was only how you appeared, through movement. It actually takes extreme muscle and control to “look” as if you’re effortless and floating. It takes so much oomph to look like it took none! And if you don’t feed those muscles, you’ll just be a “floppy” ballerina!

    • @shiahula-hoop5788
      @shiahula-hoop5788 Před 3 lety +8

      That’s so true! It’s the biggest compliment if people think what you did on stage was easy 😏

  • @katiemay3912
    @katiemay3912 Před 3 lety +159

    My dog is named Scout so every time you said Scout I just pictured a border collie doing ballet lol

  • @alanasmith2492
    @alanasmith2492 Před 3 lety +441

    I’m by no means a professional ballerina but I wouldn’t even last for one session of class on what she eats. Hoooooow?! On ballet days I’m eating everything but the kitchen sink, because my body is like “FEED ME WOMAN!” 😅

    • @AbbeysKitchen
      @AbbeysKitchen  Před 3 lety +24

      Me too!

    • @beckyedmonds4078
      @beckyedmonds4078 Před 3 lety +24

      Honestly even for sitting around all day, this isn't much food for a lot of folks.

    • @alanasmith2492
      @alanasmith2492 Před 3 lety +1

      @@beckyedmonds4078 so right!😩

    • @SlpBeauty333
      @SlpBeauty333 Před 3 lety +2

      Honestly, there's a point where you don't want to eat because you want a lighter leg to lift. It's a balancing act and really individual.

    • @vanessaebony529
      @vanessaebony529 Před 2 lety

      Honestly a lot depends on the schools and from my experience this is normal. Some don't like to eat around the other girls cause they're always judging saying they're getting fat their partner in pas de deux is going to need a crane to lift them. The professional schools associated with the big companies, they only admit students who have a certain look. A lot of companies STILL pick based off Balanchine's descriptions of how dancers should look. My friend trained at the Georgia Ballet and they would weigh them in front of the class to see if they gained weight. At my school 14 years olds would smoke so they wouldn't eat. My pointe teacher told me I was too fat to be a dancer and that i was putting too much stress on my ankles if I didn't loose more weight. Read Gelsey Kirkland's biography. Beautiful art but very toxic

  • @colleenrawson8477
    @colleenrawson8477 Před 3 lety +533

    The thing is, currently in ballet, you are expected to act like you live in a post 90s-ED-ridden dance world where it's a non issue. "I never restrict what I eat! I just work really hard. Ballerinas eat soooo much!" "I'm plant based". It's almost like they're trying to just act like they are that slim naturally, which is usually partly true, but also acting like this is in no part due to portion control/restriction. It's like how directors can't directly tell dancers to lose weight, they just say they need to "get toned" "lengthen their line" or "be careful with weight training". EDs are still very prevalent, they're just getting hidden behind "healthy". I'm not aiming this at Scout in particular, more just what I saw from my time in the ballet sphere.

    • @Sara.m.tube.
      @Sara.m.tube. Před 3 lety +29

      So so true. The pressure to be tiny is there but it’s all talked about in euphemism…it’s just as bad as it ever was imo

    • @bubbybets9336
      @bubbybets9336 Před 2 lety +1

      a lot of us eat normal

  • @Kat-oz3zy
    @Kat-oz3zy Před 3 lety +460

    Eating disorders in dance are talked about quite a bit, but another athletic community with an unhealthy emphasis on being small is climbing. I’d love to see that brought into the light as well.

    • @AbbeysKitchen
      @AbbeysKitchen  Před 3 lety +91

      I can put this on my list to discuss more on the channel!

    • @mckenziereed9501
      @mckenziereed9501 Před 3 lety +26

      Racing as well.

    • @ANNA-cf8vr
      @ANNA-cf8vr Před 3 lety +57

      Yeah climbers and cyclists really casually talk about losing five pounds and that helping up their game. I participate in both sports and it's wild how casually even normal day to day enthusiasts make jokes about losing weight.

    • @Ashley-cr4ow
      @Ashley-cr4ow Před 3 lety +6

      Most of the climbers I know have strong arms and legs and very little body fat, but this is also optimal for climbing. I agree that it’s unhealthy but just the way it is.

    • @Kat-oz3zy
      @Kat-oz3zy Před 3 lety +3

      This is a really excellent documentary with more info. czcams.com/video/thtDQJGrO5s/video.html

  • @LaurenWhitlock
    @LaurenWhitlock Před 3 lety +136

    As a dancer (on a slight hiatus), the Apple during the break didn’t surprise me. I’m EXTREMELY AWARE it’s not enough food, but I saw that and went “yup. sounds about right!” We need more people like Abbey reminding us that our bodies need FUEL!!!

    • @LaurenWhitlock
      @LaurenWhitlock Před 3 lety +10

      And while I was never as bad as some of the girls around me (who have now come forward about having disordered eating), I know I DEFINITELY suppressed my appetite and now eating full meals is very difficult for me, so instead I eat small amounts throughout the day. Hopefully some time in the near-ish future I’ll be able to afford a professional who can help me fuel my body in a balanced way.

    • @effigy8093
      @effigy8093 Před 2 lety +4

      Why is it always apples lmfao
      I was OBSESSED when I was in my ED. An apple was a whole ass meal to me then 😭

  • @helengrdina2085
    @helengrdina2085 Před 3 lety +74

    Professional dancer here and I am SO GLAD you reviewed this video. I love Scout's content and she is a stunning dancer, yet the whole time I originally watched her video I had this uncomfortable feeling and I remember thinking "How are you not hungry?! That's not enough fuel!" A lot of the swaps and suggestions you made were what I regularly eat when in a heavy rehearsal schedule and I am just so glad you shared such valuable information!

    • @soggygremlin
      @soggygremlin Před 2 lety +3

      Right! As a former professional dancer I couldn't exist with less than 3000 calories. I mean....I ate a whole pint of ben and jerry's every night. That itself is 1200 calories.

  • @raunwyncotogna4732
    @raunwyncotogna4732 Před 3 lety +611

    Growing up a dancer definitely contributed to my eating disorder. In the past few years we have seen improvement in the dance culture surrounding body positivity and diversity along with promoting proper nutrition and a healthy relationship with food but we definitely aren’t done. This is just the beginning and there is a lot of work to do!

    • @AbbeysKitchen
      @AbbeysKitchen  Před 3 lety +16

      For sure. Thank you for sharing your experience!

    • @luisacastello2603
      @luisacastello2603 Před 3 lety +9

      So happy to know that. A friend of mine couldn't enter the bolshoi ballet academy because her legs had the circumference of 53cm (sorry, in Brazil we use centimeters)

    • @kstadlerova
      @kstadlerova Před 3 lety +6

      i am starting to realize being a competitive dancer from a young age probably contributed to my ED as well, but dance is also the only thing i enjoy right now, practice is literally saving me from losing my mind in recovery.

    • @leafmealome8910
      @leafmealome8910 Před 3 lety

      @@kstadlerova This man, dance was the thing that was used to hurt me the most in the last five years but it’s still the thing I can’t live without.

    • @rlabarbera
      @rlabarbera Před 2 lety

      @Kitty Silverlake really dumb comment. Ballet is NOTORIOUS for putting inhuman pressure on dancers. Balanchine wanted "pin heads". There is a tremendous undercurrent of misogyny and aggression in ballet and modeling...both worlds where homosexual men push their "ideal" of an emaciated figure with no curves. You cannot dismiss a person's culture or environment and all the psycho social factors. Humans do not exist in vacuums.

  • @___Emily__
    @___Emily__ Před 3 lety +787

    What’s weird to me is that she says “sometimes I want _____ and that’s okay”, yet she never actually mentions that she eats what she craves or enjoys, only that she “wants” to. I hope she’s okay. The dance world doesn’t seem very food-friendly.

    • @AbbeysKitchen
      @AbbeysKitchen  Před 3 lety +67

      I hope she's okay too!

    • @outoftheklosset
      @outoftheklosset Před 3 lety +1

      @Violett Fem are you serious? I'm so sorry that you can't write down your private thoughts if you wanted to. Btw if you have an iPhone or iPad you can make locked notes.❤️

    • @purpurina5663
      @purpurina5663 Před 3 lety +12

      Yeah, it feels like she’s preemptively defending herself/her choice… hmm

    • @bubbybets9336
      @bubbybets9336 Před 2 lety +6

      this is a very stereotypical thing to say. a lot of us eat normal

  • @17momentsofspring
    @17momentsofspring Před 3 lety +361

    I remember being 13 years old, my ballet teacher approaching each girl a couple months out from our end of year concert and telling each one how they should diet leading up to it. She approached me and said “you’re fine” because I was skinny enough in her eyes. I felt so bad for the girls who didn’t have the traditional ballet body, we were just children.

    • @johanna2690
      @johanna2690 Před 3 lety +4

      🤯

    • @AbbeysKitchen
      @AbbeysKitchen  Před 3 lety +22

      Wow 🙁

    • @leafmealome8910
      @leafmealome8910 Před 3 lety +33

      My dance teacher in high school tried that. My high school dance group had very healthy relationships with food, it was something social we all bonded over. The first girl worshipped our teacher and it was so sad to see how much it hurt her. The next girl she tried it on was completely secure in herself, and her mother had none of it. Very satisfying to hear her put our teacher in her place (she was awful for a lot of reasons other than these comments too). The kind of mom we all deserve really.

    • @Kat-oz3zy
      @Kat-oz3zy Před 3 lety +9

      When we were training to start pointe, my teacher just straight up told me that, “with that build you will never be a ballerina, so don’t push yourself and wreck your feet.” I was devastated, but ultimately she was right. I’m stocky, and it’s fine but it was hard to understand that at 12. I took another year of tap and then quit dancing altogether. No regrets.

    • @jamieoliver9609
      @jamieoliver9609 Před 3 lety +3

      I started dancing at age 3 in 1969 and still dance at a studio bc I love it. But your comment is so accurate. Growing up in NY, after we dressed for class, we routed through a room where we were weighed and measured and then provided "tips" on how to improve. This was just life and thought nothing of it until I had a kid and had to struggle not to judge him. That's ridiculous and I can see now how my love/hate relationship with food and my body were formed. I do feel, though, that there is a trend away from this now. The local places I go to now are much more inclusive to all body types. Nutrition and being more muscular is encouraged in the kids. I like it. I think the popularity of lyrical and ethnic dancing contributed bc those forms require more muscular depth than ballet which lends itself more to a light body with more muscular legs only.

  • @emmacooper4286
    @emmacooper4286 Před 3 lety +806

    I used to think the only healthy breakfasts were smoothies, oatmeal, and avo toast because that's what all the skinny youtubers eat for breakfast lol. Like you never see them reheating last night's leftovers for breakfast (which is my fave haha)

    • @rebeccaanne3083
      @rebeccaanne3083 Před 3 lety +58

      I love dinner for breakfast!

    • @AbbeysKitchen
      @AbbeysKitchen  Před 3 lety +107

      I love leftovers too!

    • @isabellf1210
      @isabellf1210 Před 3 lety +28

      I love to eat pizza for breakfast once in a while😂

    • @Katie-xz4qy
      @Katie-xz4qy Před 3 lety +13

      Same, my favorite leftover breakfast is curry 😋

    • @brittnil1828
      @brittnil1828 Před 3 lety +16

      I literally make pastas ahead of time, just because they are my favorite breakfast 😂😂😂

  • @crollo321
    @crollo321 Před 3 lety +449

    Honestly, her diet is very relatable to me as a former dancer. When I danced ~7-10 hours a day, I genuinely wouldn't get hungry until I was done dancing for the day and anything other than carbs/veggies/fruit would upset my stomach when I went back to rehearsal from lunch. Most days I'd just get by on toast, a bagel, and a frapp until I got home, simply because my body just couldn't handle more than that. Trying to force it--no matter how important for being able to continue moving--would result in running to the bathroom or having to sit out from rehearsal. While disordered eating is a major problem in ballet and the dance world in general, it's not the only reason dancers avoid eating.

    • @buh_its_me_yall6217
      @buh_its_me_yall6217 Před 3 lety +35

      That is still disordered eating though

    • @shelbyw430
      @shelbyw430 Před 3 lety +108

      @@buh_its_me_yall6217 I am not a dancer nor an athlete, but I understand what this person means. When you do hard, intense labor for hours on end, some people just don't have an appetite. I get extremely sick if I eat a heavy or rich meal while working, and then my appetite returns once I am finished. Like the video said, we all have different hunger cues.

    • @hectzen23
      @hectzen23 Před 3 lety +12

      @@shelbyw430 Yes, but someone said in the comments that prolonged behavior like limiting amount of food will affect your appetite, to feel full all the time.

    • @sumsumfosho
      @sumsumfosho Před 2 lety +43

      I was a dancer, but also a college soccer player. Eating more than like snack sizes at a time was so hard on me. I felt like I was going to throw up, I had to eat all my bigger meals hours before I did anything. I've watched a lot of Scout's videos and this is the one that just happens to have the least amount of food in it compared to the amount of work. She has like two breakfasts on regular class days.

    • @kyliee8586
      @kyliee8586 Před 2 lety +14

      Same. I dance at a pre-pro school, and I will feel sick if I eat too much before class. I also have zero appetite before and during class, and only feel hungry once I am finished. I don’t have an ED, and my doctor says I am very healthy. I just simply do not feel hungry and I can only eat snack-sized foods before I finish classes, so I do not eat that much generally.

  • @savannahhuxtable
    @savannahhuxtable Před 3 lety +66

    Being a ballerina for over 13 years and not once did I ever feel good enough. So sad what it does to yourself esteem. I would never want my child to go through this.

    • @AbbeysKitchen
      @AbbeysKitchen  Před 3 lety +7

      I'm so sorry for your experience. I hope you are doing better now ❤️

  • @limepiper3650
    @limepiper3650 Před 3 lety +812

    I have a feeling she eats more but is embarrassed to say so. In that environment eating " a lot " is frowned upon.

    • @sarahpaul9841
      @sarahpaul9841 Před 3 lety +87

      Yeah felt a lot like she kept telling us different things she ate but we weren’t seeing it. Food = Fuel. Did not see that happening.

    • @arielmalanga
      @arielmalanga Před 3 lety +92

      Completely agree. She appears to be of normal weight and she would be a stick if that’s all she ate.

    • @AbbeysKitchen
      @AbbeysKitchen  Před 3 lety +100

      Possibly

    • @kp782
      @kp782 Před 3 lety +14

      Yes because she looks healthy and not skinny at all ☺️

    • @elisavandermolen693
      @elisavandermolen693 Před 3 lety +20

      In other videos she does eat more....

  • @brittneysarah6910
    @brittneysarah6910 Před 3 lety +67

    I’m glad to see you review her. I saw this video a while ago and I was shocked at what she ate. I workout 30-45 mins 5 days a week and I eat way more calories than she eats in a day. Shocking.

  • @MegaTelenovela
    @MegaTelenovela Před 3 lety +108

    I wish there was a nutritionist and psychologist at each professional dance studio so there is support given to all those athletes.

  • @carlderotter
    @carlderotter Před 3 lety +52

    As a former ballerina myself AND someone with eating disorder history (astonishingly *not* at the same time lol) I was seeing my former self so much in her. It’s kind of making me mad that she’s going through her day so nimble-footed on so low calories. It’s nowhere near enough and this might influence young dancers / or young people in general to believe you should in fact eat that little.
    And I even think to remember so many comments that were applauding her like “finally a ballerina who eats regular portion sizes” and I was like whaaaat?🤨😂 are y’all out of your mind?
    Thank you, Abbey for tackling that video ❤️

    • @AbbeysKitchen
      @AbbeysKitchen  Před 3 lety +1

      Thank you for sharing. I'm glad it was helpful!

  • @emilyharring4353
    @emilyharring4353 Před 3 lety +515

    As a dancer myself, snacking smaller is less about caloric need and more about fullness and discomfort. As a dancer your jumping and turning and having a bunch of food in your belly can be unpleasant causing things like nausea and acid reflex- at least for me personally.

    • @AbbeysKitchen
      @AbbeysKitchen  Před 3 lety +201

      thats totally fair but you still need to fuel your body and choosing low calorie high volume foods like puffed snacks and veggie soups isnt the way to do it.

    • @elisavandermolen693
      @elisavandermolen693 Před 3 lety +44

      @@AbbeysKitchen have you seen her other videos? In other videos she eats more and in your terms "better"

    • @aeolia80
      @aeolia80 Před 3 lety +63

      When I used to dance, I couldn't stand to have anything in my stomach when I was training or performing, so I would eat after, and eating really late, like at 10:30pm or later, brings on a whole different set of digestive problems, lol

    • @elisavandermolen693
      @elisavandermolen693 Před 3 lety +29

      @@aeolia80 same, dancing with a full stomach was no party lol. I would eat a few hours before I danced (I trained about 9 hours a week so not professional or something) and right after.

    • @luiysia
      @luiysia Před 3 lety +54

      she could at least eat some almonds or something instead of literally like... 8 grams of chickpea flour lol

  • @martam.1994
    @martam.1994 Před 3 lety +124

    My mum was in a ballet school till she was 15, daily weigh ins in front of other girls and body shaming was considered normal. My mum was lucky enough to have very fast metabolism but some of her school friends were surviving on apples and carrots. She finally decided she wants to have a life and quit.

  • @blewblupop68
    @blewblupop68 Před 3 lety +176

    I’d love to see Abby talk about her dance background a little bit and how it influenced her career today

    • @AbbeysKitchen
      @AbbeysKitchen  Před 3 lety +74

      I can put this on my list to discuss!

    • @TheHugeDilEmma
      @TheHugeDilEmma Před 3 lety

      Yes please!!

    • @larissaswayze
      @larissaswayze Před 3 lety

      I agree!!!

    • @abbigailcarr2725
      @abbigailcarr2725 Před 3 lety +1

      @@AbbeysKitchen please! I was wondering the same thing, as a current musical theatre major observing all the pressure there is to “lose weight” and “be thin” in that industry as well

  • @mikaelakim602
    @mikaelakim602 Před 3 lety +52

    the second i finished watching scout’s video, i thought to myself: “i wonder what abbey would say? 🤔”. thank you for reviewing it! you’ve helped me and my mindset around food tremendously in these last years while I’ve been in recovery. i appreciate you!!!

  • @lily_white
    @lily_white Před 3 lety +104

    "IF your toes weren't bleeding, you weren't doing it right."
    Josephine from The Point Shop is screaming at her mom's instructors rn

  • @whatfuelsadancer778
    @whatfuelsadancer778 Před 3 lety +45

    This is a huge reason why I am working towards my Master's in nutrition! There are so many things that need to be changed about how we teach dancers about nutrition and body image. As so many people have commented below, dancing heavily attributed to my disordered eating, amenorrhea, and injuries, which is why I am so passionate about helping other dancers. I currently dance for a professional dance company that is helping to change the narrative surrounding the "dancer body", so real change can happen in the industry. Love what you talk about Abbey!

  • @kimk.9168
    @kimk.9168 Před 3 lety +473

    I would love a video on how microwaves don't do anything to food because that's something I've definitely stressed about. I epecially want to know why there are so many myths in the first place

    • @AbbeysKitchen
      @AbbeysKitchen  Před 3 lety +135

      On my list to discuss!

    • @drdrdrk
      @drdrdrk Před 3 lety +17

      So many myths come from lack of basic education

    • @kimk.9168
      @kimk.9168 Před 3 lety +2

      @@drdrdrk Maybe but also fear often overrides common sense

    • @dangsood4945
      @dangsood4945 Před 3 lety +9

      It's totally fine. No issues and no danger. Just dont reheat your food inside plastic boxes (put it on a microwave safe plate or in a bowl that isnt plastic) because it softens the plastic and can transfer into your food.

    • @BankruptMonkey
      @BankruptMonkey Před 3 lety +7

      I heard it's because cheap plastic food containers with BPA could cause problems with food when heated in a microwave, so instead of changing their food storage people put in the way bigger effort to live without any microwave

  • @chelsbells27
    @chelsbells27 Před 3 lety +277

    I love when Abbey ends a sentence with “folks”, or even better “people” - the sass 😂

    • @AbbeysKitchen
      @AbbeysKitchen  Před 3 lety +5

      😂

    • @FlamingBasketballClub
      @FlamingBasketballClub Před 3 lety +6

      Science + Sass 😂😂😂😂😂

    • @amandalemos310
      @amandalemos310 Před 3 lety +3

      We love a sassy queen 😂

    • @SaneeXD
      @SaneeXD Před 3 lety +3

      I figured she was just trying to cater to gender non-binary folks

    • @katem331
      @katem331 Před 3 lety +2

      @@SaneeXD I think it’s a bit of both, I know she does try to be mindful of being inclusive though 🙂

  • @MsRockstarDC
    @MsRockstarDC Před 9 měsíci +6

    My roommate at a renowned arts camp/school was a ballerina. We were in 8th grade, and she - and the other ballerinas - were obsessed with keeping their weight down, even at such a young age. I remember she would eat a small PB&J for lunch and a small salad for dinner, and that was after a full day of dancing. I was a musician and ate so much more, and I remember that triggering me a bit, even though I was fit and slim and never had problematic thoughts about food or my weight. What I learned is that the pressures in the world of high performance athletics is not about health but rather performance - and in ballet, how you look is a critical part of that standard.

  • @catalinabilandzija
    @catalinabilandzija Před 3 lety +37

    as a ballet dancer and dancer myself, i feel like abbey did such a good job on this video. Thank you!!!

  • @julia.carino
    @julia.carino Před 3 lety +144

    I’m in the ballet world and sadly, this isn’t new. there is a huge amount of pressure to have the correct “look” on stage and that puts a lot of people at risk

    • @AbbeysKitchen
      @AbbeysKitchen  Před 3 lety +8

      I'm sorry 🙁

    • @abbigailcarr2725
      @abbigailcarr2725 Před 3 lety +1

      Same in the theatre world. I’ve been told that even though I have a high, legit mezzo-soprano/soprano range, I don’t have the right “onstage look” for “ingenue” or young female characters and that if I want to be cast in a romantic lead I should lose weight.
      I have a history with disordered eating and it’s taken a long time to learn to just roll my eyes at those comments and move on but it’s still disheartening sometimes and occasionally does tempt me to try for extreme weight loss. But I just cope with it and refuse to give in by basically convincing myself I know more than the ED voice. She ain’t read no biology textbooks, she’s no woman of science, *I* am

  • @thepkism
    @thepkism Před 3 lety +11

    OMG! You took the suggestion 🙌🏻
    Thank you for covering this.
    Such a great video

  • @elonas9487
    @elonas9487 Před 3 lety +18

    When I went from dancing as a student to dancing professionally, I found it very difficult to eat enough calories given how short our breaks were. You know how when you eat a big meal you feel tired after? Dancers have no room for that. Literally. You cannot be soft-headed and tired in your last rehearsal of the day. When I started losing weight, I started eating ice cream every night just to increase my calorie intake. We actually could get pulled out of a role if we lost much weight, but I also realized it just wasn't healthy or sustainable to be too underweight. It would have been good to add calorie density with healthier options, but I was so exhausted at the end of every day it was hard to make that happen.

  • @Food_forThought
    @Food_forThought Před 3 lety +62

    MegSquats is a competitive powerlifter, but is also a soon-to-be mom and has a lot of "what I eat in a day" content on her channel! I'd love to see you review her

    • @AbbeysKitchen
      @AbbeysKitchen  Před 3 lety +9

      I'll have a look!

    • @vanderbam2741
      @vanderbam2741 Před 2 lety +3

      My husband does powerlifting and the amount of food he eats is actually mind-boggling sometimes. It definitely helps him bulk up quickly. But many professional powerlifters (the men, anyway) do unfortunately end up with heart issues fairly young from eating heaps of meat and fat etc.

  • @ninatungol2254
    @ninatungol2254 Před 3 lety +13

    as a baller dancer in training, i also used to show signs of an eating disorder and it's very common for a lot of dancers who want to go pro. but as time passed, i realized food isn't our enemy and it's okay to eat whatever. i think it depends on the ballet school you train in because my ballet school is pretty positive and aren't encouraging us to eat less. i just wanted to say from all the comments i've read is that not everyone's experiences with ballet is toxic, and i'm really grateful to have supportive teachers who don't tell me to eat less :)) and for those who did have toxic experiences with ballet, i'm sorry you had to go through that and i wish you all the best and stay healthy in your life! 🤍🌷

    • @uhpluplum
      @uhpluplum Před měsícem

      Which is your ballet school?

  • @jenniferlp959
    @jenniferlp959 Před 3 lety +41

    I’ve never been a dancer but I had a friend at school who was. She loved ballet, but was considered slightly “chubbier” than the “norm”. She once told me that her ballet teacher told them what to eat and that she needed to watch her weight. How old were we when she told me this story? We were 6. 6 years old. Year 2. It’s staggering.

    • @AbbeysKitchen
      @AbbeysKitchen  Před 3 lety +4

      Wow. I'm so sorry

    • @loreleiford700
      @loreleiford700 Před 3 lety

      That breaks my heart

    • @abbigailcarr2725
      @abbigailcarr2725 Před 3 lety +1

      I had a ballet teacher pinch my stomach in front of the class and tell me “with all the gymnastics you do, you should have a 6 pack”
      ...at age 7

    • @jenniferlp959
      @jenniferlp959 Před 3 lety

      @@abbigailcarr2725 that is just awful - I'm so sorry that happened to you

  • @Stephanie-us3bj
    @Stephanie-us3bj Před 3 lety +86

    Thank you for debunking the sugar thing. I try to never make it a big deal with my toddler and when she was sick in the hospital a dr. told me that toddlers actually need some amount of sugar, especially when sick, because their blood sugar can crash very quickly. I also have a small bowl of candy every night - sour keys or fuzzy peaches are my weakness - and always wondered if it contributed to my insomnia. Glad to know that it's not likely the culprit...it's more likely the wine 😂

    • @AbbeysKitchen
      @AbbeysKitchen  Před 3 lety +9

      Totally! I'm glad that was helpful

    • @abbigailcarr2725
      @abbigailcarr2725 Před 3 lety +2

      I just turned 21 like 5 months ago and I already have stopped drinking almost entirely, I reserve it only for celebrations (weddings, New Years, etc.) bc I found it messes with my sleep so much.

    • @jessa.4529
      @jessa.4529 Před 3 lety +6

      Stephanie I am a therapist for folks with substance use problems.You are correct. Even small amounts of alcohol (without a disorder or dependence on it) can cause sleep disturbance. Folks think it helps because it can help them fall asleep, this is separate from staying asleep. Hope it helps. Addressing since Abbey did not.

    • @vanderbam2741
      @vanderbam2741 Před 2 lety

      @@jessa.4529 thanks for this. I've noticed as I got older and reduced my alcohol intake (consequence of being a parent and not a young party-goer anymore) that even if I have one glass of wine, I tend to wake up in the middle of the night with a racing heart.

  • @texasdazzlers
    @texasdazzlers Před 3 lety +84

    Dang, I wish I saw a handful of puffed snacks as “filling”. I don’t think it’s physically possible for me to eat a handful of cheese balls. I’m not full until they’re gone. 😂

  • @kendall9673
    @kendall9673 Před 3 lety +38

    Thank you so much for this Abbey. When I first watched this video I was absolutely shocked at how little she ate and felt guilty for eating so much more than her, so I appreciate your reassuring message here. As a former ballet dancer for 13 years who developed an eating disorder, I've seen how toxic the dance environment can be...I was hardcore judged for eating just a sandwich :( Very sad to see and I hope the pro-restriction ballet culture improves in the future.

  • @steviehey7339
    @steviehey7339 Před 3 lety +124

    my ballet teacher made us all keep a food diary and then shamed us in front of the class if it wasn't 'healthy' enough (i was 12). She once threw the strawberries i was eating in the bin during a break because they were too sugary :D

    • @Nesja89
      @Nesja89 Před 3 lety +10

      😲😲😲

    • @matildecavalet7699
      @matildecavalet7699 Před 3 lety +12

      I'm so sorry to hear this!

    • @laurenbi
      @laurenbi Před 3 lety +12

      🤮 what a monster

    • @Andrea-sx3xo
      @Andrea-sx3xo Před 3 lety +5

      I’m sorry you had to go through this 💙

    • @jessicah3450
      @jessicah3450 Před 3 lety +9

      My dance teacher started diet shaming us around age 7-8 also. She'd pinch any fat on your thighs and bellies and twist, it left little red marks! Many of us she had been teaching since we were 4, my mom snuck me in there at 3 lying about my age. Classic Russian trained ballet witch. Some of my classmates ended up with what I now know to be anorexia by the third grade.

  • @97LifeMelody
    @97LifeMelody Před 3 lety +5

    Abby, you are so kind and wholesome! We are lucky to have you.

  • @aquana
    @aquana Před 3 lety +153

    A ballerina who doesn't eat enough? Practically unheard of lol

  • @morganleighjones6355
    @morganleighjones6355 Před 3 lety +39

    I just love sourdough because it’s bloody delicious! I grew up eating it in my family, and as an Aussie love it with lashings of butter and vegemite! I do love scout’s video glad you reviewed this so informative as always 🥰

    • @AbbeysKitchen
      @AbbeysKitchen  Před 3 lety +1

      I love it too!

    • @loreleiford700
      @loreleiford700 Před 3 lety

      I eat a long loaf of sourdough each week. By myself lol. Too delicious and easier on my tummy than store bought.

  • @lizbethgarcia.4002
    @lizbethgarcia.4002 Před 3 lety +187

    A video about microwave's myths... YAAAS PLEASE!

    • @AbbeysKitchen
      @AbbeysKitchen  Před 3 lety +25

      I will put this on the list!

    • @GamingWife42
      @GamingWife42 Před 3 lety +4

      Definitely!!

    • @abbyjackson5288
      @abbyjackson5288 Před 3 lety

      @@AbbeysKitchen please do! My grandma convinced me when I was little that I always have to close the microwave to protect myself from the radiation, and k thought I would get zapped with cancer if somehow the microwave started with the door open....

  • @deniseangieri4174
    @deniseangieri4174 Před 2 lety +3

    Scout is one of the healthiest looking ballet
    dancers I have ever seen. Not sickly, skinny or low energy. She seems to be doing really well❤️

  • @teresamckeown5594
    @teresamckeown5594 Před 3 lety +25

    I LIVE for the moments when Abbey says …”I have some thoughts” 😎

  • @aprilbardin3095
    @aprilbardin3095 Před 3 lety +8

    I appreciate how carefully you mention someone's eating habits and don't judge them! You entertain us while educating us as well and you respect the person whose video you are reviewing. Thank you! Also, OMG at eating cotton balls and tissue paper. whoa! I am a adult figure skater and typically only skate 1-2 hours a day on top of a daily additional work out and I cannot imagine eating this few calories and having energy, let alone eating something like cotton or paper and trying to do anything active. How sad and scary.

  • @enakshi8729
    @enakshi8729 Před 3 lety +21

    When I was 12 years, having sudden growth due to puberty I gained weight and my Dance Teacher who's teaching for 3 years then, said that I have to lose weight and start dieting, that was one of the events I became too conscious with food

  • @anngholston459
    @anngholston459 Před 3 lety +1

    Wow thank you Abbey for reviewing this one! I remember watching it after having seen a lot of your videos thinking that you would find this a great “what I eat in a day” video. Thanks for continuing to educate us.

  • @historydragonsandmagic
    @historydragonsandmagic Před 3 lety +168

    Could you do a whole video about the microwave? A while back I got a bit brainwashed about microwaves sapping nutrition out of our food and I still struggle with it. Thanks Abbey!

    • @AbbeysKitchen
      @AbbeysKitchen  Před 3 lety +34

      I'll put it on my list to do this!

    • @conlascosasquehaces
      @conlascosasquehaces Před 3 lety +3

      Yess! Second this as I’ve weirdly only just bought my first microwave.. ever.. and not really sure about them

  • @jahajahai6204
    @jahajahai6204 Před 3 lety +224

    I've never been this early!
    Please review "counting calories with a balerina" from Munchies.
    You are gonna be pleased with her amazing attitude toward food.

  • @marisachs6850
    @marisachs6850 Před 3 lety +99

    All these foods look good but I definitely agree that she doesn't eat enough food. As an athlete who trained 3-4 hours a day in high school and is now a Division I athlete, I could not imagine eating that little. Honestly, I would eat what she is eating but twice the amount that she's eating. I definitely feel that there is pressure on athletes to always be thin and lean and I had trouble and still struggle with this myself. Naturally, I am on the leaner side, but I've always gotten comments from other people about my size and whether or not I should have more muscle or less fat as an athlete, and also questioning me every time I wanted a donut. What I try to do for mealtimes is always incorporate some type of protein, carb, and greens into each meal so that I am always satiated and happy. And if I want to eat a donut or have a bowl of ice cream I will.

    • @thepilot3156
      @thepilot3156 Před 3 lety

      👏👏👏♥

    • @AbbeysKitchen
      @AbbeysKitchen  Před 3 lety +12

      For sure. I'm glad that works for you! Thank you for sharing your experience

    • @elphie93
      @elphie93 Před 3 lety +4

      Yes - the food she's eating is nutritionally sound but just not enough. I used to be a dancer and my standard meal before four hours of dance classes was two slices of whole-wheat seeded bread with Avocado, feta and a protein (egg or meat) so essentially what she had for breakfast x 2.

  • @lindamiller2868
    @lindamiller2868 Před 3 lety +80

    Is it possible she eats kind of light on her rehearsal days so she doesn’t feel “weighed down” and lethargic, and then packs it in on the off days?

    • @naelielizalde1776
      @naelielizalde1776 Před 3 lety +20

      Yes!! I thought it was bad to eat a lot right before you work out. I end up throwing up... I believe it's better to eat like Scout instead of eating more and throwing up 3 times a day every day!!

    • @iseenargles13
      @iseenargles13 Před 3 lety +5

      I suppose it’s possible. But when I was a competitive athlete I would be STARVING in between games. I didn’t eat large amounts of food but I did eat a lot of protein and if I didn’t eat enough I would have been more tired and unable to play as hard. If you don’t have fuel, you aren’t going to be compete at your highest level.

    • @AbbeysKitchen
      @AbbeysKitchen  Před 3 lety +31

      For sure. And that's totally fair but you still need to fuel your body and choosing low calorie high volume foods like puffed snacks and veggie soups isn't the way to do it

    • @frank8229
      @frank8229 Před 3 lety +2

      it’s possible,
      however being a dancer myself - it’s extremely unlikely.

    • @iamthebadwolf7296
      @iamthebadwolf7296 Před 2 lety

      I never feel lethargic after I eat? Unless I overeat or eat a lot of fat. If I eat a nicely balanced meal until I’m comfortably full, no issues.

  • @lifebrarian
    @lifebrarian Před 3 lety +40

    If I exercised that much I would be eating a lb of pasta every night 🤣

  • @everythingalila2850
    @everythingalila2850 Před 3 lety +5

    Your videos have taught me so much! I used to eat extremely low calorie amounts and I workout everyday along with playing 1-2 hour basketball games. Thank you for helping me become more comfortable eating higher calorie meals.❤️

  • @joeckelly88
    @joeckelly88 Před 3 lety +134

    Dancer here. When you’re dancing all day, it’s so hard to eat a lot durning the day because whatever you eat, it really ways you down. I hated eating anything before dance. Annnd you have no time to eat anyways - you have no time between classes/rehearsals.
    It’s best to snack and then eat a big dinner. It sounds like she has a pretty good relationship with food. (Just my opinion...)

    • @thisisme2681
      @thisisme2681 Před 3 lety +17

      I wondered about that. I intermittent fast because that's what works best for me not about loosing weight. It seems with a schedule like that making dinner the main meal with the large majority of calories for the day would make sense. The key is to get the needed calories and macros in though. Fasting schedules like that tend to have dinner spread out over a couple hours because it's so much food.

    • @jessicaa3641
      @jessicaa3641 Před 3 lety +6

      I was thinking that too, I have never danced, but it seems like it might make someone nauseous to eat a lot in between classes.

    • @_.soymilk
      @_.soymilk Před 3 lety +6

      Yeah sometimes after eating I can’t do anything after for a while lmao I can’t imagine having to rehearse after a meal. It definitely wouldn’t feel good

    • @folded_pizza
      @folded_pizza Před 3 lety +15

      Yes. I didn't like this video at all because this lady is treating Scout like someone with a regular job. If she ate something other than an apple or soup between rehearsals, she'd probably be feeling too fatigued to dance. About her calories, imo as a dancer ~1600 would be fine for me, I physically can't eat 2000+ calories (especially if it's healthy food, so not a calorically dense sugary drink, or fast food) it's too much for me. I relate to the sugar giving you energy issues, I don't care what research says, I can feel it in my body. This video is perpetuating the stereotype of all dancers undereating, and it's upsetting to watch. This lady is supposedly all about intuitive eating, but apparently not in the way that works for Scout. 🙄

    • @BloopyBlobBob
      @BloopyBlobBob Před 3 lety +13

      but she didn't have a big dinner..?

  • @riribeasley4741
    @riribeasley4741 Před 3 lety

    Omg I love the clips you include. That office one got me laughing into my coffee

  • @FBranzell
    @FBranzell Před 3 lety

    Loooove all of The Office clips🙌🏻 Thank you for another informative video!

  • @TheYNirvana
    @TheYNirvana Před 3 lety +16

    Makes me laugh when people say salad is “easy on the stomach.” Raw veggies hurt my tummy and bloat me.

  • @phoebe261
    @phoebe261 Před 3 lety +15

    Thank you so much. I love Scout, I’ve watched many of her videos, and in my head I’d pegged her as a ‘normal’ ballet dancer with ‘healthy’ standard eating habits. I’m in recovery from my ED, so when I saw this WIEIAD a few months ago I felt so greedy and ashamed that I NEED some like banana and PB after a workout. Thank you for this. Thank you for being a dietician who reminds us that our bodies NEED and DESERVE to be nourished!

  • @inkynewt
    @inkynewt Před 3 lety +1

    Thank you for being so understanding about different people's different styles of eating while still educating about health and nutrition!

  • @rikki-leeburley3143
    @rikki-leeburley3143 Před 3 lety +1

    I love your videos! Thank you so much!! I love learning about nutrition and always think of you and what I've learned from your videos when I'm choosing a meal or snack and love to have a little running commentary in my head about the hunger crushing combo or how to add nutrients or make things more satiating xxx

  • @sydneybowles7102
    @sydneybowles7102 Před 3 lety +101

    As a dancer, having slow digesting/ larger meals before rehearsal and class is just not comfortable and doesn’t produce the best performance. That may be why she has small snacks of fruit between rehearsals.

    • @kp782
      @kp782 Před 3 lety +17

      Completely agree. As a former national team athlete it was horrible because we had so many training but you cant eat pasta and meatballs and be able to train right away 😂😂😂 so I ate a lot in the evening and hella lot of snacks during the day 😂😂

    • @AbbeysKitchen
      @AbbeysKitchen  Před 3 lety +24

      Thats totally fair but you still need to fuel your body and choosing low calorie high volume foods like puffed snacks and veggie soups isn't the way to do it

    • @brandiharper7946
      @brandiharper7946 Před 3 lety +4

      Totally agreed. Having more food than humble portions as a dancer between rehearsals can be nauseating or just plain uncomfortable.

    • @sydneybowles7102
      @sydneybowles7102 Před 3 lety +3

      I agree. Thank you for reviewing a ballerina and highlighting the problem in body standards in ballet. I have certainly seen and felt the negative effects of this, and am learning how to fuel my body efficiently and sufficiently as well.

    • @danhhoang5947
      @danhhoang5947 Před 3 lety +6

      But why can’t she eat dates then? They’re high in carbs and low in volume.

  • @Lina_al_j
    @Lina_al_j Před 3 lety +7

    I love your review! been waiting for this one. I am an athlete, but im a runner, not a dancer, but when I saw that apple, I couldn't believe how she can possibly feel energized after that! I eat a big breakfast and after AM practice, I have a good lunch (not a vegetable soup - that would not give me nearly enough energy and I would probably end up in the restroom instead of track for my PM practice!). I eat salads for dinner only to avoid stomach issues while running, so a lot of vegetables for lunch are a no go (whoever runs longer distances knows! lol). after practice I immediately have a chocolate milk, protein bar or protein shake and try to eat a meal within 1.5 hrs after practice.

  • @cassandranightshade696

    Yay! I sent this over on instagram and I'm so happy you covered it :)

  • @kiterafrey
    @kiterafrey Před 3 lety +20

    I’d never heard off the cotton balls before, and I”m really glad I didn’t hear about that as a teen. I would’ve done that in a heartbeat.

    • @Shy-xm4kn
      @Shy-xm4kn Před 2 lety +2

      I’m glad you didn’t cause it’s know to cause obstructions in people intestines and bowls.

    • @pheart2381
      @pheart2381 Před 2 lety

      cotton also contain toxins that damage your hormones.

  • @belleb8177
    @belleb8177 Před 3 lety +57

    When I was a full time dance student my teachers would make comments about my weight even though I weighed under 100 pounds and had a waist measurement smaller than the 8 year olds I taught. It is changing but it’s a very slow turning ship

  • @Gii7077
    @Gii7077 Před 3 lety +9

    Thank you SO much for this. I was hoping you'd do this, to help a lot of young girls. I was honestly shocked when i read that 99% of comments under the video were praising her for being an athlete that 'finally eats enough'. I'm like...how far into disordered eating are we that we're praising someone eating this little, ESPECIALLY A PRO ATHLETE that has to train intensively 7-8 hours a day, as eating a 'good amount' and 'more than other dancers'. I'm still in shock, like, how little must inactive girls think they have to eat? Everyone i know eats sooooo much more than she does, SO much more, and none are athletes. The fact that hundreds of comments with hundreds of likes were praising her for eating enough...when this wouldn't be enough for a sedentary child, let alone an athletic woman, chills me. It scared me like no other. How little do these girls think they need to eat? What has diet culture done to us?

    • @AbbeysKitchen
      @AbbeysKitchen  Před 3 lety +2

      I'm glad it was helpful. I understand, it is very concerning

  • @samiderossi7060
    @samiderossi7060 Před 3 lety +17

    thank you so much for doing a dancer’s “what i eat in a day”. i’m a former dancer myself and the struggle is real! i still struggle with my ed but i love watching your videos for inspiration!

  • @misselizabeth6631
    @misselizabeth6631 Před 3 lety +26

    Dancers don’t eat much during the day because it makes you bloat and be lethargic. Eat early in the morning and when you get home. That way you don’t bloat in your leo lol

    • @RS-pe1ft
      @RS-pe1ft Před 3 lety +8

      Why is bloating in a leotard bad? Bloating is a natural physiological response to eating and digestion. As someone in recovery for an eating disorder, I try to remind myself that bloating is good because it means that I’ve eaten and fueled my body. What could be cuter than taking care of yourself?

    • @nats6951
      @nats6951 Před 3 lety +13

      @@RS-pe1ft It's not bad, it's just uncomfortable. For most people it has nothing to do with how it looks, they just don't like how it feels, especially if they have to be exercising for hours with it.

    • @folded_pizza
      @folded_pizza Před 3 lety +6

      @@RS-pe1ft it's not that it's in a leotard, it's that you need to rehearse after lunch. Imagine jumping around for two three hours, immediately after having a full size lunch.

    • @overgrownkudzu
      @overgrownkudzu Před 3 lety +1

      ​@@RS-pe1ft it's physically painful when you have to use your core and ab muscles all the time, they press on the stomach and it hurts and is uncomfortable. it's not just about looks

  • @sammycarroll2771
    @sammycarroll2771 Před 3 lety +3

    Coming across your videos has really helped repair my relationship with food. Love ya Abby

  • @danamiceart
    @danamiceart Před 3 lety +28

    Bless her heart. I'm a ex ballerina and I'm having flash backs to sneaking a banana in the bathroom stall. The 12% statistic is way off. I dont know how that data was gathered but its more like 60-70% at the professional level.

    • @AbbeysKitchen
      @AbbeysKitchen  Před 3 lety +2

      For sure, this statistic definitely seems off. I'm sorry for your experience

  • @sidneygutierrez9658
    @sidneygutierrez9658 Před 3 lety +10

    I’ve been waiting on this one!!! I never see how they have time to eat enough in a day with their class schedule.

  • @zixiong681
    @zixiong681 Před 3 lety +9

    I am so glad my ballet teachers don't comment on our weight at all even though we are a pretty big school. The teachers are super understanding and even though most of us are pretty thin (not russian ballet dancer stick thin but not overweight at all), when we gain a bit of weight they don't comment on it. They do remind us to eat nutritious foods (whole foods like veggies, grains and fruit) and less junk foods but never forced anything on us. I think they are telling us to eat healthy so we can support our dancing better, and there was never any mention of 'you can't eat ___'. Also they sometimes bought us chocolates for special occasions too which always made my day 😂 there was a few times that she said 'stomach' to me but I wasn't engaging my core so it wasnt a body issue, more about my technique lol

  • @kristen1664
    @kristen1664 Před 3 lety +13

    The “vegan-free” part of the ad made me chuckle. It felt like a “no vegans were harmed in the making of this protein powder” joke lol! Love to see another vegan-friendly protein powder on the market! 🌱

    • @AbbeysKitchen
      @AbbeysKitchen  Před 3 lety +6

      Sorry about that, it was meant to say "vegan friendly"!

    • @kristen1664
      @kristen1664 Před 3 lety +2

      @@AbbeysKitchen no worries! It was like a little teaser to see if people were paying close enough attention during the ad portion 😄

  • @kayleemarie8212
    @kayleemarie8212 Před 3 lety +8

    Ok I’m glad I’m not the only one that thought this wasn’t enough food! When I first watched scouts video I was like “wait if she just needs that much food and she’s working out that much, then I definitely don’t need much more food when I’m not even working out like she is”... yeah I tried eating like her for a day.. I was STARVING not to mention exhausted.. I hope she’s ok💗

  • @gabsauce1359
    @gabsauce1359 Před 3 lety

    Yay! I've been waiting for this!

  • @Duckduckobtusegoose
    @Duckduckobtusegoose Před 3 lety +6

    Talking about being ravenous after 4hrs, on my 8hr shift at work we get one 30 minute break, and I am always starving when that time comes around

  • @DanielPerez-pw1sr
    @DanielPerez-pw1sr Před 3 lety +5

    Not gonna lie, i used to be obsessed with watching ballet dancers describe their eating habits esp the one that munchies posted from around 2017-2018. The calorie counting and the hard work/dedication i found to be really inspiring. I even got into a really intense and *ideal* body that i was applauded for on social media. It’s only been through the eventual crash of 2020, these review videos, and retropective wisdom that i realized that i had developed a very unhealthy relationship with food that used shame and guilt in the name of health/fitness to acheive goals in a quick and unsustainable way. Thanks for highlighting and spotlighting these habits that many athlethes and gymgoers face on an everyday basis and normalizing realistic food habits, Abbey. 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

    • @AbbeysKitchen
      @AbbeysKitchen  Před 3 lety +3

      Thank you for sharing your experience with this!

  • @FreshSalad645
    @FreshSalad645 Před 3 lety +6

    When I was doing gymnastics (rhytmic), I remember training days where some girls ate celeri and fennel as their lunch because it was "0 calories". I was 13 and I had never been exposed to diet culture. I just thought "it looks so...sad". A couple years later, my coach gave me a earful about being "too fat" (I wasn't anything close to fat). Thankfully, I'm really strong headed so I was like "yeah I'll watch what I eat" and didn't. I wasn't a professional athlete, and I didn't have that ambition at all so I wasn't motivated like some of the girls who aimed to be pro, were suuuper thin and had lost their periods.
    My sister was a ballet dancer and she got anorexia. She's fine today but she's been struggling again lately because she gained weight in pregnancy. We're supporting her !

  • @isla2593
    @isla2593 Před 3 lety +1

    Thank you for these videos, I’m learning a lot :)

  • @noemi4x
    @noemi4x Před 3 lety

    You're killing me with all these the office videos lol this is too good abbey, too good!!

  • @sindhusekar1
    @sindhusekar1 Před 3 lety +98

    I love how respectful you are while providing constructive feedback. 👏🏼

  • @elisereehl
    @elisereehl Před 3 lety +7

    This was so great! I was a dancer my whole childhood and I always felt strange when I was enjoying a delicious chicken sandwhich with avocado and my friends were eating a bad of nuts hah. I would also love for you to react to molly Burke’s what I eat in a day.

  • @karengonzalez116
    @karengonzalez116 Před 3 lety

    Thank you so, so much for posting this, I was one of your viewers who requested this video. I was never a dancer, but did do gymnastics which also has a great deal of pressure to appear a certain way. I also have a good friend whose daughter just won a scholarship to a small ballet co. I discussed the prevalence of eat disorders in dance. I am going to share this video with him as a heads up.

  • @mbutler2905
    @mbutler2905 Před 3 lety

    Ahhhh I messaged Abbey about this a while ago and so glad she did this video! (Probably not just me who requested but still this is a dream!)

  • @einah6310
    @einah6310 Před 3 lety +14

    The ritual protein powder caption said "Free-vegan" and I was like thank goodness there is no-vegan powder in this product 😂

    • @AbbeysKitchen
      @AbbeysKitchen  Před 3 lety +5

      Sorry about that, typo!

    • @einah6310
      @einah6310 Před 3 lety +1

      @@AbbeysKitchen Jajaja I just thought it was super funny

    • @LolaKlein
      @LolaKlein Před 3 lety +2

      As a vegan I was confused at first lol

  • @saskiabahr8957
    @saskiabahr8957 Před 2 lety +4

    I've done Ballet since I was three and my ballet teacher is the sweetest. She teaches my group so many lessons and always told us that our bodies were okay as they were and that we shouldn't try to get a sixpack or be stick thin by unhealthy habits. I still developed an Ed but I only know about like two other girls who struggled.

  • @martynkal.1248
    @martynkal.1248 Před 3 lety +1

    Great video! I loved the inclusion of research articles!

  • @autricereganholdridge4816

    I'm no professional dancer, only enjoying ballet as hobby a few days a week. But I am working in a job where I have to be on my feet for sometimes 8 or 9 hours in a row and in stressful times I don't even manage to make a break, except for a cup of coffee. In the beginning, I had the feeling I'm going to starve on the spot, however, you're body starts to get used to it and you don't feel hungry anymore after a while.