It’s time to stop telling yourself you can’t
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- čas přidán 11. 09. 2024
- We can no longer let the fear of failing or the cutting words of others keep us from reaching out and grabbing our dreams or exploring passions we've always wanted to try.
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It's time to stop letting the fear of failing get in our way of following our dreams and truly living! What is something you've always wanted to do? Or something you do now that brings you complete happiness? I wanna hear! Drop them below!
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We enjoy being CZcamsrs. We’ve always wanted to do it and finally started last year. Better late than never! This was a great video btw. 🙃
I’ve always wanted to write a book and learnsing, but I’m afraid of the criticism so it’s stops my creative juices from flowing. I’ve also wanted to travel more but am afraid of traveling alone. Great new channel vibe, Morgan! Can’t wait to see what you come up with 💕😊
Love the new direction of your Chanel :)
I want to learn Nyoongar and connect back to my roots :)
Also want to get all my plain clothes and the dye them and just experiment with colour and creations :)
I’ve always wanted to learn to do professional puppetry
I’ve always wanted to collect trampolines so I can build my own personal backyard trampoline park
I can see you completing this goal Stephi Lee!! 😁 #davesandersstepdaughter
I would love to be your neighbor. Seeing your heads popping over the fence. An occasional person flying in the air...fun stuff lol 🦲🦰🤸♂️🦳🦳🤸♀️
You can
I’m inviting myself over Steph 🤣🤣🤣
Um. Yes.
Those negative people hurt others because they are hurting.
Refreshing sincerity! Love this rebrand. I'm about open my own dog grooming business after working for other ppl for years and I'm terrified. This video made me feel better about it.
You're gonna kill it... I can feel it
It is scary. And invigorating. And frustrating. And tiring. And joyful. And YOUR business…which will make you proud to be you. Go for it, I know you’ll do great. The hardest part is being scared…and doing it anyway. Get past that and the rest is totally doable. Best of luck and joy!
You are very intelligent and a good speaker…..there’s a career avenue there
I recently moved to the country and got a bit of land and I taught myself how to garden and take care of animals (still battle mild asthma now but I've learnt to work around it with masks etc,)
I had a bad attack yesterday cleaning rabbit yard but I worked through it and made sure I had a better mask and finished the job.
I am doing this for me as I found I have worth now, I can do something I never thought I could ever do with my health but I'm doing this for my kids too, so I can leave them with a home where they have food around them and the skills I've learnt.
I thought about opening a bookkeeping business for 5 yrs, but didn’t know how to get enough clients to quit my 9-5 job. Came up will business name after 5 years of “thinking about it”. 2 weeks later had the opportunity to jump, with clients. My business is now 7 year old! Learned that if you JUMP, you’ll learn how to swim as you go. Fear allows for nothing but success…it is hard (not going to lie), but the freedom to work your job around your life is priceless. Yay me!
That's amazing! Jumping is the scariest part. We all eventually land on our feet, and when we do, it's the best feeling ever.
Congratulations. Must of been an amazing jump. 🎊🎊👏
I got a diagnosis of a rare connective tissue disease at the beginning of this year a week after my fathers passing. Your channels new direction gives me a lot of hope for my future, thank you for always being open and honest. You have reached and helped more humans than you know Morgan. It’s so easy to feel behind in life especially with chronic illness, extremely reassuring to know I’m not the only one struggling
I've struggled with similar issues, between my Crohn's disease, mental illness, and self-destructive tendencies, I expected I wouldnt make it to 25... Well I turned 25 this year and now I kinda have to get my shit together.
There is a quote from the podcast "I'm Quitting Alcohol" that I think about a lot. It goes something like "Self-destructive people don't want to die, they expect not to live. And the worse thing that can happen to a self-destructive person is that they live, because not only do they not die, they have to learn how to live and they have put no effort into preparing for the future."
Earlier this year I got relief from my severe depression for the first time in 8 years. Suddenly I could look towards the future and craft it in a way I wanted it to be rather than being carried by momentum. It's been crazy and I'm still working on being ok with doing the things my depression told me I couldn't do.
Love the rebrand and I'm looking forward to more videos.
Something I've always wanted to do? Metal scream! I started working on it a few months ago and it has been so much fun and rewarding.
Thank you so much! I'm not sure if it's online anywhere or still just in DVD format, but "The Zen of Screaming" by Melissa Cross is incredible. She's helped train so many well known metal vocalists on how to scream and do it properly.
Ride horses! Finally started in July and now I am obsessed. Horses are my therapy.
I love animals more than people, but somehow I've never gotten on a horse. It's on my bucket list though! So awesome that you started and you love it!
Those necklaces are very rockable
Great video- my fears stem mostly from negative childhood messages and toxic ex’s. We internalize horrific messages sometimes 🥺 self awareness equals freedom. I have been working also on self compassion
Morgan you are a wise man. I grew up in a situation like that. I was by my 7th grade teacher who saw a kid who had a million stories to tell and he didn't care that I had ADHD (before they had a name for it) He didn't care that I was dyslexic and had trouble spelling. He taught me how to write a screenplay and the stories started to flow. He was a hippie draft dodger and only taught for one year. I am so blessed because he saved my life. I made videos in high school and went to film school and found a place in the film and television industry all because of this one man. I've had a good career, mostly making educational films and regional documentaries. I even wrote for a few cartoons like Care Bears. While I had a dozen feature scripts optioned none were never made. In some ways my negative self talk took over after that. It was because I wasn't good enough. At 64 writing drama and action spec scripts is my focus. My goal is to see one of them made. I keep the words of Becket close to me. He said fail better. Morgan you continue to inspire me. I wouldn't worry too much about the age thing. Over the years I've seen people change their life and career path 180 degrees. I even know someone who became a doctor at 55 and someone else who should become a lawyer by 60. Thank you for this video.
I've always wanted to be a researcher. Now I'm sharing what I've researched with other people and they appreciate it so much! It's amazing
I eventually wanna leave my home town… scared to leave my parents. But know I need to do it..
I've always wanted to sing. So last year I started singing lessons and performed for the first time in front of a crowd. It wasnt perfect, I screwed up a bit but it was super rewarding. Now I really want to start a channel on YT where I can post cover songs. One day :)
Heck yeah! You should totally do it. I play music, and I've tried to do vocals just so I could get the idea out and it's one of the worst sounds you'll ever hear. I've always wanted to try some singing lessons just to maybe be able to semi carry a tune for demos. If you get the youtube going, be sure to drop your link in a comment in the future!
@@MorganSolo for sure!!
They gave me 2 years to live 7 years ago with heart failure. I'm still here because of a focus of doing everything I can to beat this. It's working but now my anxiety is getting worse. Utube is my favorite go to. I'm a little worried I don't have any goals. Oh well, I love how tricafta has helped you. When you do the breathing tests I can tell you honestly try to do good . Good job
I’m a college drop out and always felt that sense of - I’m not good enough because I don’t have a degree. I have to do 10x as good because I can’t rely on a degree that PROVES I know what I know. But yeah. Going for it and not giving in to the negative thoughts is huge. Ps- love this vibe. ❤️
Totally relate. I never got through high school. I was home schooled, but I was sick a lot and my Mom was both my Mom, teacher, nurse, etc. Then my brother had health complications, so it just got overwhelming, so I dropped out but picked up the books online and learned the rest of everything on my own time. The "no diploma" thing has always been held over my head, but I've had amazing jobs that I've ran circles around people with degrees, so I think people that equate degrees to knowledge and being able to do your job properly (doctors and things of that nature aside, of course) are a little short sighted. Keep going! If you know you're stuff, never let anyone else tell you otherwise. And glad you enjoy the new vibe!
As a person with a bachelor's degree in science I can assure you it's a fucking scam haha especially in the US. I am grateful for it for a few reasons and proud I accomplished it don't get me wrong but a degree means very little. Here's why:
1) You still have to climb the same ladder as everybody else you just get a slightly higher chance of advancing to the next stage but someone without a degree is still just as capable.
2) which means you don't make alot of money right off the bat *shocker* and people who aren't college educated will and can be making more than you
3) not only that you leave with debt! Yay!
4) most companies will still expect you to have experience and will value it over education
5) you forget everything you learn because they make u cram it all in
6) You leave with irreversible damage caused by high levels of stress
7) There's a good chance you no longer even want to pursue what u got a degree in after doing it and being miserable so then you're back to square one.
Every type of degree and field is different of course but more and more people are running into this. So honestly educate yourself never quit learning that is more valuable and stay determined. You don't need a degree to be successful or good enough!
As someone who just got my Masters degree, I can day college is overrated (for some people). I have a physical disability, so I personally needed college to get a job that uses my brain more than physicality. But in general, college is overrated.
You’re never to old to start something new. I’m 42 years young and I’m still trying to figure out my damn life. I want to be a part of the CZcams community because I feel I have something to offer those who suffer with mental illness and not “being” good enough but I talk myself down ALL the time, and have a friend who says “that’s narcissistic” in a way maybe, but if I can Help someone know that there is hope and they matter that’s all I care about. I’m so glad you and Stephi have found each other and got together. Much love to the both of you from Upstate New York.✌🏻
It's a rough depression day, not sure why, thankfully they don't last long anymore. I lost the major things I wanted to a disability I didn't know I had. So, I'm looking for something again while I work retail and my limitations and the words of others haunt me. Fun times.
I remember when i started making music, like recording already, the first half a year was sooo challenging, it is always the beginning in all crafts like that that is the most challenging. When you go throught it then it gets better and better.
The first month learning to work on music production programs were sooo challenging i would be like, no, i can't do it, but then my friend would be like "hey look, you are juuuustttt starting out, it is normal that you are not perfect at it from the start". Very beautiful to have true friends. 💙🦋
I have seen so many people work toward a career and then change that career at age 30- perfect age to start.
I’ve always wanted to start a podcast & finally did! Now I just need some encouragement to begin the bake shop I’ve always to have
What's your podcast link?! I've been working on trying to get a podcast going for years now. I'm hoping this new direction can gain some traction and then I can start one in the same style as the future videos talking to people about life and struggles and growing. But, baby steps. And here's your encouragement to get that bake shop open! You can totally do it! Just don't put a cage in the basement (If you're a fan of the show YOU, you'll understand that reference, hahah)
I’ve heard along the way in my life, “Be your biggest fan, not your biggest critic. The world will try and beat you down . It shouldn’t have your help doing it also.” Ive heard that many times in my 48 years. It still doesn’t always sink in but I try. Most of the time. That’s really all we can do. ✌️⭐️
I like the new You Tube channel much better. Thanks for staying vulnerable, honest, and becoming a better human being. Much love ✌️
Same boat here hard to change mindset from thinking of having no time to having time
A tree can't grow if you keep chopping it...I love that thought! Great video!
Those beads are sick. Really like the braclet.
I'm currently editing my first vid, for my YT channel. Been wanting to start a channel, probably now for 2 yrs.
Dude, that's awesome! If you ever need any help as far as exporting video (not sure what program you're using) so it's optimized for high playback or any editing questions, feel free to ask! I've made enough horrible, grainy looking videos that I'm pretty good at getting it right now. haha
@@MorganSolo Hey Morgan, thanks for the offer. If I happened to hit any snags. I’ll be sure to hit you up. I’m shooting with a Canon R5, using the high-end RF glass lenses.
I’m using Adobe Premier Pro with the other adjacent apps with it like, Media Encoder, After Effects, Audition, etc.
Just about wrapped up the first video. Currently working on editing the second one right now.
I’ve got enough video for about my first 4-6 uploads.
I’m hoping to have the first one uploaded in the next 4-6 weeks. Then upload once a week following.
In short, been studying editing for almost 3 yrs now via YT. I will most definitely hit you up though.
I’ll hit you up again, next time work takes me through your area. Perhaps lunch. 👍
@@BartBourg Sick! Keep it up, man! Also, quick tip. If you’re shooting at 1080p and your footage is nice and clear, but when you upload it looks like crap, export it in premiere at 4K (yes, even if it’s 1080) and set your bit rate to triple the recommended (I set mine at 90) you get the better CZcams codecs with less harsh compression!
@@MorganSolo I’ll keep that in mind. I shouldn’t have an issue though. I shoot in 4K & 8k. My issues are file sizes currently. Lol
Sent you a few sneak peeks on IG
@@BartBourg Ah, you should be good then. But, tripling your bit rate from the CZcams recommendations still applies. And you could always do a 2 pass VBR bit rate when you export to better control the file size some, but with 4k (and ESPECIALLY 8k) you may as well just load up on huge hard drives. haha. And sweet! I'll check them out when I get a sec!
Oh ..... Youre also incredibly brave dealing with CF.
Loving the new direction! You hit a lot of things that have been very tough for me so thank you for clearing them up for me. I have health issues that is also leaving me "late in life" but it's somehow never stopped me from going at something I find absolutely fascinating. I started training with Ludosport (light saber combat) when I was 41 (am 47 now) and I am so happy I did. Noone has ever complained about my age, on the contrary I am respected for it. If something looks fun and it's not age restricted, go for it!
Super awesome video and great advice. Failures and mistakes should be a learning curve and to help you grow to become better.
I wanted to be a film director for most of my childhood and everyone always told me to "pick a real career" or "whats your plan B?" And it was really discouraging. So at 27 i am making my first cinematic video :) I will be posting it to my other channel when it's ready.
Awesomeee! Be sure to drop a link whenever you do! I'll check it out.
@@MorganSolo That would honestly be amazing :) I'm still learning but i'm honestly really proud of it ^-^ Thank you for taking a look! czcams.com/video/C8pu3Wn-EAA/video.html
I really appreciate the positive, uplifting tone of your new vlogging style, Morgan. We definitely need more of this in our world right now. I’m stepping out of my fear box and working on an on line art journaling class in the new year. I’m scared and excited but going for it!
By the way, your beads are fab!!! Love that necklace so much!
Thanks for the inspiration! Keep rocking the new vibe!!!
I think it’s ingrained in us from when we were kids when somethings overwhelming we say, I just can’t most likely it’s something we are repeating from being said in our childhood
“Our path is our path alone”. So many people should really THINK about that. Took me 40+ years to learn I’m the one driving, and can drive (or not) where I want. So nice to see a more mature and thoughtful you 👍
Wow... Such an inspiring, earthy, and profound message. Love the re-brand. You are a gifted speaker. Keep going and growing. I want to finish writing a book that I started a while ago.
I grew up an artist. Got my bachelors degree in fine arts and everyone (especially my father) always asks me why I haven’t done anything with it. I still paint and do anything creative that I want. Also sold some pieces along the way. But I’ve always wanted my own studio and do painting classes like bob ross but with a kiln and other stuff not just painting.
I want to learn a language, not just one but many of them. I’ve already started learning one but I keep talking myself out of it every time something gets difficult. My mindset makes something that I once found really fun to something “to hard” or something that I “can’t do”.
You should be on Sharon McMahon’s podcast to tell your wonderful story. I’m living my dream working with fabric and sewing finishing quilts for customers. I love what I do.
Love the new content! I’ve always been my own worst critic. I’m constantly thinking of the worst case scenario. Since my brother passed away last year I’ve really shifted my outlook and no longer care what people think as long as I’m doing what makes me happy. I’ve always loved writing but didn’t think I had the proper skills or style. Well I said screw it and started posting my work online. I wound up getting my dream position writing as a weekly contributor for my favorite author since I was 12 years old! Now instead of wondering what could go wrong I ask myself “what if this goes right beyond my wildest dreams?” It’s a very freeing point of view. 😊
😨 FEAR means....... Face Everything and Rise or Face Everything and Run!!😁 If you believe then you can achieve!!💙#davesandersstepdaughter
Thanks for this video Morgan and sell that jewelry👍your awesome
I feel like you're my family, like my brother or something cause each time I lose myself you help me find me again. Thank you Morgan, like really!
I have always wanted to be a therapist. In my mid to early thirties, I just don't know how to even begin going about that journey.
I've always wanted to send my Writing to a Publisher. To be a writer would allow me to do and be everything I want. It's in Writing I Feel the most like me. I fully support this "new" channel. This video really hit home for me Thank You!!
Trauma sucks, we all have it in some way. Mine in part translated into I’m not good at anything interesting; that I myself, am not interesting. I started a journey to simply enjoy being myself. A second kid, a move, and a whole host of other things have paused my alone time but I’m hopeful that it will start back again! Finding time alone to do things I love and to try new things helps me separate myself from the roles that consume me: mom, wife, and nurse. It’s hard and embarrassing still to express myself creatively but it’s something I want to do!
I also vibe with the sentiment of being old and knocking at deaths door at 31. My reasons are very different from yours but I get it.
Love the new style you’re taking! I’ve stopped watching all Vlogs, I felt like I was wasting a lot of time watching everyone else living. Keep up the amazing work!
Hey bro, ran across your channel a year or so ago. I’m a mid30s guy, Who Through my own stupid choices never got serious with career, or life type purpose or goals. I’ve had struggles with alcohol and drug addiction most of that time. I’ve turned a leaf and dove into motorcycles, which has given me a new hobby and passion to dive into. I always desired to produce music. But through motorcycling discoverd Moto vlogging in the summer of 2020 decided to dive into it,i Istarted a yt channel and have fallen in love with editing and production (cinematography). Currently studying to get my 107 Drone license and look forward to diving deeper into the world of editing. Skillshare sounds really cool and could be very beneficial to me right now👍🏻 Love the channel and the presence you bring to it👊🏻 Close to home for me, I am also from Central North Carolina (Rockingham) your journey and story are radically inspirational man. Stoked for you to have a future ahead of you through The Discovery of TRIKAFTA👊🏻🤙🏻
Much Love🙌🏻
I am going to be 40 in November, I have 2 daughters that are 17 and 21. Since my kids have their own lives and grown-up, I have a Fear of not knowing what I want to do with my life right now. I understand the options are endless, it's just the anxiety of starting over I guess!
Dude this video is so calming. So peaceful. Very chill. I love it.
Oh and btw .....all "those" people "out there" ....they have lots of imperfections and issues too.
Trust Me!!!!!!!
Dude! I'm 66 and looking forward to retirement. I'm also tooking forward to my FORWARD career! 😁👍
I've always wanted to live independently because I currently live with my mother I am disabled
@@Nehustanmorningstar I know that it scary the next chapter
Looks like you are getting into the gym and getting healthier, 39 here and still grinding, keep strong brother.
I actually haven’t been to the gym traditionally in months, but I took up Brazilian Jiu Jitsu and it gets you in shape and gets your cardio up so quick. Pair that with lifting 50+ lbs all day in a warehouse job and it kinda fills the void of not hitting the weights. haha. Thanks, bro! You too!
I really want to do a road trip to vistit friends in other countries and go surfing for a uncertain time. I am not sure if it will work out because of my health but i build out a minivan and will hopefully start my journey next summer 🎊
Wow I feel like I can relate to this very much, thank you for sharing! I actually don't know many people that knew/know what they are good at and I'm 39. One thing I've noticed is that we're often terrible friends to ourselves.
Nake nula waun welo - I am ready for whatever may come.
Ive always wanted to start a coffee trailer, but I'm so scared of failing and getting in over my head 😬
Wow, the jewelry is beautiful! 💫🌟
When you or stepi talk about how neither of you were expecting to live this long.. How you weren't planning for your future or ever got a head start, I relate soooo fucking much. I don't have cystic fibrosis, but I've had a very tramatic past and I have severe ptsd, depression, trichotillomania, and chronic stress. That feeling of having to pull your life together once you figure out you might not die tomorrow. Once you realize you have a future and need to change your habits to comprehend your new version of reality.. its really fucking hard. So thank you both for expressing your feelings online. I feel like I cant relate to anyone but then there's those lil moments that make me feel less alone
Fuck yeah brother !!! Love to see the growth me and my wife live in Greenville Sc would love to link up sometime appreciate the uplifting wisdom
I've always wanted to write a novel, but something always throws me off track before I get to the end. I got 50k words into my first novel, and life got in the way. Then, I forgot where I was going with it and gave up. Now, I'm trying a different approach to keep me on track. Hopefully in a few months, I will finally have a full first draft of a book.
Love this Morgan!
Just wanted to point out that you look super healthy and fit. I love how you and Steph seem to bring out the best of each other. Keep on shining!!
I wish I could compete in bodybuilding, but the medicine thats keeping me painfree, would make me fail a drugtest...
I'd love to motivate people to be healthy, but I'm still figuring it out...
Nice to show us your persuit of happiness! 👌
I like what your doing. Keep up the great work. Follow your Dreams. Your not old, your Old CF'er friend John
Morgan..Thank you!!!
As a big “fan” of your content, I’m really enjoying this style of video Morgan. The scenery is breathtaking.
My dream is to own and operate my own coffee shop. A place to relax, a place to study, a place to have a nice bit of alone time, or a date. That’s what I want to create someday.
I’d love to give you a hug and say thank you for inspiring me. Can’t wait for more content of this style
I’ve always wanted to live in a van and travel to do dog agility & trick performances and start a dog training business (currently making a website .. I plan to share the link here when it’s done) so I can afford to buy a van. And this video helped me make the decision to go to dog training college (If I can get tuition covered)
I always wanted to be a RN and work in the ER, fast paced and save life's. But I never had the confidence.
I love this. Building other people up is rewarding in itself and a fantastic message to share x
Morgan, thank you. That was refreshing. Much love to you and Stephi. So glad you found one another. May you have many beautiful and happy years together.
Thank you for your re-invention! This is filled with nuggets of wisdom!
I always wanted to try streaming and 2 months ago I started. It was so scary to start but it’s been so much fun and id love to incorporate some art streams into the mix instead of just playing games.
that's great to find and discover new hobbies, i am still figuring out what i am interested in doing. i love the mandala style like necklaces. i am going to try and get back into sewing and photography
It’s lovely to see you grow and discover your new life. Godspeed 🥰
I appreciate how straight forward you have always been. I agree with others, you are a great speaker. I am looking forward to more of this type of video. I am so happy for you & Stephi!
Morgan this message is so powerful!! I'm so so happy for you that they have developed a drug that has given you a new life!! I'm looking forward to see what you have to bring is in the future my friend!
I’m definitely sharing this with my brother he needs to watch this definitely uplifting and encouraging for everyone going through uncertainty. Well said homie 🙂💯
I'm working on getting my legs stronger I have CP so I tend to go through periods of loss and gain throughout the years because the old saying if you don't use it you lose it type of thing.
I'm really loving your video skills!
You've taken 31 years to learn a lesson many people only learn when they are old and near to death. So 31 years is pretty amazing and its one of the most important life lessons. Enjoy.
Word up!
I've always wanted to make my own cat sanctuary! Take in homeless cats and give them somewhere warm and safe to stay. I would also get them all spayed/neutered! Just to be able to get all these homeless cats a nice safe space ❤🐱
And I'm working my way on getting it started and im so excited! 😄
Good stuff, keep it up. I love skateboarding, and laughing.
I haven't seen you around in a long time, I was thinking about you and decided to check back, I'm glad to see you're doing well.
You're a beautiful person. Thank you for this video ☺️
Loving the new branded channel so glad you and @Stehpi Lee are doing so good
Beautifully said ❤️🙏 Love your beads btw 😎
I love the new style of videos.
OMG Im so sorry you've had to deal with such unkindness.
My opinion : Youre Smart Funny Cool and Good Looking. You have great potential. Im rooting for you!!! Go out there and kill it!!! ...... or dont ....
You good either way. Live the life You want Not what others have a fantasy of. :)
Do you use Fishing Line when making your beaded bracelets and stuff. It should last longer and is stronger than thread.
I currently just use thick wax coated thread. I've honestly never thought of fishing line, but that is GENIUS. haha. Thanks for the tip!
Love this side of you, can't wait for more. You would be a great speaker, just sayin🙂
Thank you so much! :)
thank you ♥️
Morgan have you thought of the medical field..you have amazing knowledge and great social skills.
I really want to study music and be in a band 😊
I always wanted to have a purpose make family proud always to afraid because of my cf
I’ll share a secret with you. When we aren’t living consciously we aren’t planning for a future either. I’d say your right on track ;)
I would love to start a podcast but I’m not sure where to start I would love it to be a Variety type I also just never feel good enough though
Be a dr. I am a nurse went to school in my 3os,but made it with a 4.o
I would buy your pieces of jewelry if you sold them...please!
My new skill to learn is skating 🙀😸 already got my skateboard, write if anyone has tips for beginners 🙀😹