I met my husband at the age of 18, we were married at19, no money, but working on a degree. We had our first baby at 21! We have 5 beautiful and intelligent daughters now! Godly Man,Very intelligent! Married 31 years!! Praise God!
💯I didn’t watch everything but I watched enough to know that a being a “HVM” isn’t necessary from jump,and growing with someone is so much more rewarding them having them presented at their best form from the genesis. One of my problems with Kevin is that he promotes the idea of a “HVM” operating with near impunity that they can do what they want because they’re high value and I believe it’s a defense mechanism for his own failed relationships. Men of God should not be promoting premarital sex and he does so implicitly at the very least. Good to see you followed God’s plan for your love life💯
@@ItsMeMissRuby I’m definitely going to pray for him more actively.One day I hope to call in on his show and ask him how he reconciles promoting premarital sex and qouting scripture like “Whoso findeth a wife findeth a good thing, And obtaineth favour of the LORD.” And claiming he’s clung to Ephesians 6 regarding spiritual warfare and espousing himself to be Christian,yet he encourages the satanic entry of lustful spirits on us a black people,namely black women. That’s just ain’t right😕
@@uhohcuzzo lol PLEASE TAGE ME if you do haha. But for real, that’s one aspect of his show that always makes me cringe. I’ve been being told forever that sex is just human nature bladidadida…. by people who just couldn’t submit to that part of the scripture. And I wasn’t perfect in that area b4 marriage either BUT I def wasn’t actively promoting it. So it’s always unsettling for me when others do it…other believers I mean. Like, we are on our knees daily praying for forgiveness so how are we also actively/shamelessly promoting sin? I could see if we were doing something we didn’t realize…but yeah. He’s very influential so ima keep him in prayer about that.
@@ItsMeMissRuby Lol 😂I’ll tag you.And yes we all fall short of the glory of God but penitent Christians let the Holy Spirit search their hearts in conjunction with their reason and repent,which is what I believe you did and I have had to do for my previous relationships. Sexual sin in a godly relationship was something I struggled with earlier in the year.The relationship was long distance but we we were doing things through video we shouldn’t have been doing and it corrupted the relationship to the point we don’t even speak any more:we spoke often about marriage,even made some haphazard plans but God prevented it and I believe it’s simply because we weren’t ready,but especially from an emotional and financial standpoint. Sex was designed for the boundaries of marriage and although Kevin properly attributes a lot of societal and cultural ills due to children out of wedlock,it’s ironic that he encourages sexual activity exclusively to a certain group of people outside of marriage to “make it serious” so to speak. On one hand he promotes marriage,which is good for today in the dying idea of monogamy,but on the other he doesn’t promote the godly statutes and limitations that should lead to a successful marriage,and doesn’t even promote the idea of love,namely being the couples love for God and each other at the center(at least from what I’ve seen and I’ve watched a lot of his content). That’s extremely dangerous and frankly I’d like to address it with him soon.I will definitely pray for him cuz by God I’ma put him on the spot at the right time and he gon need that divine intervention if he try to finesse his way around my questions🧐🤣😂
@@uhohcuzzo oh my gosh I’m WEAK! 😂😂😂 But I feel you! I appreciate you sharing this because, I’ve been getting so wrapped up in the mini things I agree with him on, that I think I started forgetting how big a deal it is that he is influencing people in these manners Additionally, I’ve heard him make light of the idea of a high-value man “cheating“ in a marriage… Almost as if it is to be expected. Don’t get me wrong, I understand that happens and it is definitely possible for two people to work through it… But for that to just be the standard… I don’t know. Now you got me thinking LOL. But this is why I always tell people I don’t support 100% of what he represents… But a lot of what he says is true whether we like it or not. And that’s what I try to focus on. Promoting the points that are helpful rather than bashing the person they are coming from. Anyway, thanks for keeping me posted on how things go. I can’t wait! I will keep u lifted as well haha
I met my husband at the age of 18, we were married at19, no money, but working on a degree. We had our first baby at 21!
We have 5 beautiful and intelligent daughters now!
Godly Man,Very intelligent!
Married 31 years!! Praise God!
That is beautiful! Thank you for sharing 😍😍
@@ItsMeMissRuby your welcome!
💯I didn’t watch everything but I watched enough to know that a being a “HVM” isn’t necessary from jump,and growing with someone is so much more rewarding them having them presented at their best form from the genesis.
One of my problems with Kevin is that he promotes the idea of a “HVM” operating with near impunity that they can do what they want because they’re high value and I believe it’s a defense mechanism for his own failed relationships.
Men of God should not be promoting premarital sex and he does so implicitly at the very least.
Good to see you followed God’s plan for your love life💯
Omg you said that so well! Thank you 🙏🏽
Those are my EXACT issues with his message as well. But as with everyone, he, too, needs prayer.
@@ItsMeMissRuby I’m definitely going to pray for him more actively.One day I hope to call in on his show and ask him how he reconciles promoting premarital sex and qouting scripture like “Whoso findeth a wife findeth a good thing, And obtaineth favour of the LORD.”
And claiming he’s clung to Ephesians 6 regarding spiritual warfare and espousing himself to be Christian,yet he encourages the satanic entry of lustful spirits on us a black people,namely black women.
That’s just ain’t right😕
@@uhohcuzzo lol PLEASE TAGE ME if you do haha. But for real, that’s one aspect of his show that always makes me cringe. I’ve been being told forever that sex is just human nature bladidadida…. by people who just couldn’t submit to that part of the scripture. And I wasn’t perfect in that area b4 marriage either BUT I def wasn’t actively promoting it. So it’s always unsettling for me when others do it…other believers I mean. Like, we are on our knees daily praying for forgiveness so how are we also actively/shamelessly promoting sin? I could see if we were doing something we didn’t realize…but yeah. He’s very influential so ima keep him in prayer about that.
@@ItsMeMissRuby Lol 😂I’ll tag you.And yes we all fall short of the glory of God but penitent Christians let the Holy Spirit search their hearts in conjunction with their reason and repent,which is what I believe you did and I have had to do for my previous relationships.
Sexual sin in a godly relationship was something I struggled with earlier in the year.The relationship was long distance but we we were doing things through video we shouldn’t have been doing and it corrupted the relationship to the point we don’t even speak any more:we spoke often about marriage,even made some haphazard plans but God prevented it and I believe it’s simply because we weren’t ready,but especially from an emotional and financial standpoint.
Sex was designed for the boundaries of marriage and although Kevin properly attributes a lot of societal and cultural ills due to children out of wedlock,it’s ironic that he encourages sexual activity exclusively to a certain group of people outside of marriage to “make it serious” so to speak.
On one hand he promotes marriage,which is good for today in the dying idea of monogamy,but on the other he doesn’t promote the godly statutes and limitations that should lead to a successful marriage,and doesn’t even promote the idea of love,namely being the couples love for God and each other at the center(at least from what I’ve seen and I’ve watched a lot of his content).
That’s extremely dangerous and frankly I’d like to address it with him soon.I will definitely pray for him cuz by God I’ma put him on the spot at the right time and he gon need that divine intervention if he try to finesse his way around my questions🧐🤣😂
@@uhohcuzzo oh my gosh I’m WEAK! 😂😂😂 But I feel you! I appreciate you sharing this because, I’ve been getting so wrapped up in the mini things I agree with him on, that I think I started forgetting how big a deal it is that he is influencing people in these manners
Additionally, I’ve heard him make light of the idea of a high-value man “cheating“ in a marriage… Almost as if it is to be expected. Don’t get me wrong, I understand that happens and it is definitely possible for two people to work through it… But for that to just be the standard… I don’t know. Now you got me thinking LOL. But this is why I always tell people I don’t support 100% of what he represents… But a lot of what he says is true whether we like it or not. And that’s what I try to focus on. Promoting the points that are helpful rather than bashing the person they are coming from.
Anyway, thanks for keeping me posted on how things go. I can’t wait! I will keep u lifted as well haha
Beautiful love story! Thank u for sharing ur testimony
You’re welcome
Thank u miss Ruby. U are such a beautiful person ❤️
You as well mama! I appreciate you ☺️
@@ItsMeMissRuby I appreciate u as well. I been MIA for a minute but I'm back. U always give very good advice.
💯💯💯 whew girl… so goodt
Amen!
Give it all to God!
Always!
Great video
Thank you ☺️
Wow I admire your story!! Determination is the key drive forward 💪 👌 🙌 ✨ 🙏
Thank you. I’m staying the course 😉
@@ItsMeMissRuby God bless you and your family🙏🤍I always enjoy all your content💟
CJ out here sliding in DMs my guy
Lol right!
Girl, this is some good stuff
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Amen