#1 CONFIDENCE HACK: How To Be Confident Under Pressure
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Julien Blanc (AKA JulienHimself) is a Swiss-born, U.S.-based self-help speaker, entrepreneur and transformational coach.
Since 2010, he has been traveling around the world and has personally coached tens of thousands of clients face to face... Empowering them to create massive success in their lives!
His record-breaking programs Transformation Mastery, Transformation Mastery Live, Transformation Mastery Live Advanced, Transformation Mastery Academy & Transformation Mastery Mentoring help people around the world achieve the HEALTH, WEALTH, RELATIONSHIPS & HAPPINESS they deserve!
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#1 CONFIDENCE HACK: How To Be Confident Under Pressure
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I live also in Germany. We do Not know how to be free.
It was epic experiencing you live…as I said, Monumental work and thanks again 🙏
@@ericjochmann5407 🙏🙏🙏
Just eat raw primal diet they are incels blackpill
“No one wants you to be cool. People want you to be real. Only you want to be cool” That line is beautiful
Glad this speaks to you! 🙌
And if real you do not comply to expectations of people you need to act cool.
That simple line is in a philosophic standard a power sentence. You litreally described 50-70% of all young peoples worst fear. Not being cool. Which eventually leads to not being your own true self. Simply beautiful
@@303machine But if you act and do it well, they don't like you either, but maybe the role you play.
Caring or assuming what people want is what holds an individual back.
So if assuming people want you to be real, still yields rejection, the internal response for someone struggling with acceptance could be devastating.
Never, not ever base your own worth on the expectation of others response.
Be giving to others. Be real for yourself.
This made me tear up because I can feel what he’s feeling. Sometimes we just want to be this super weird extroverted person that everyone loves but we are afraid that it won’t turn out like that
Glad this resonates... Now, time to get to work and LET GO of this! 😉
The very desire to be this person creates the dissociation betwen you and him/her.
Some people also master the appearances but are still fake.
Dont try to become
Society is buiit on competition. The people you want to be cool around are the same people wouldnt care about you. So why bother. Unless you want to be the same as them in the hierarchy of stepping on one another to be that cool guy. Be confident and be humble.
I related to him so deeply that I followed along to this video trying to release the inner child and I feel like I did for a moment. Brought me to tears both releasing it and seeing him release it. Thank you for helping those who have had our inner child beaten for our entire lives.
Glad this was so impactful for you! You're very welcome! 🙏
Same
Your neighbour: Damn Ty can handle the unknown good for him man
@@mattshepherd1736 Hahaha the screams were silent in my case 😂
@@Snowboardbound screams don’t do it for me I only truly let go when I burp and it possesses me
"Noone wants you to be cool. People want you to be real, only you want to be cool." That was so profound, damn
YES! Glad this resonated! 🙌
I'm going to use this in a graduation speech to my students.
I mean you say that but our reality has shown that your hates for being real and loved for being fake. Most people like to fit in not standout so they become groups and judge you all together because they're insecure and would rather fit in than standout.
@@MrBmxer41 In my experience that's just how people act on the internet. In real life I've seen that human beings are incapable of ignoring real emotions, and instinctively distrust what comes off as fake. But perhaps you're right.
@@evolution_ethos Depending on your circle if you have a good one then awesome. Just I think most people put on an act and usually you can't see through it unless you pay close attention to everything going on around you. I'm not saying everyone is fake but a big majority are
When he finally let it happen, something clicked inside me, i got goosebumps all over and i started crying profusely. I felt his story, the reason for him not opening up. I hope this dude knows how many people he has touched just simply by letting his inner child scream.
Authenticity connects DEEPLY with all of us! 🙏
Dude im fucking crying watching this. Im watching my own process in another. Incredible.
Glad this resonates! What’s most personal is most universal! 🙏
My family always labelled me shy and unattractive, I spent my whole life living that way until recently, and I’m 48 now. Through NLP and videos like these I now live life through a different pair of eyes, we all deserve a wonderful happy life 👍
I can understand your family labeling you shy cuz maybe they noticed that, but they straight up told you that you were unattractive ?
@@instalivetalentshow3424 fr that junk was rude asf!
I know the label of "shyness" and I hated it. I am reflective and introverted, meaning I need alone time to recharge; social settings drain me and take much out of me. I appreciate time in nature, running, walking, doing adventures with my kids. It's crazy how labels can impact us! All the best and peace with yourself!
What’s NLP?
@@JmanDidit neuro linguistic programming
I was there live, and I must say, what Julien does it`s unbelievable. I´ve been watching Julien and Owen since 2017, and many many others before I knew them and I must say, letting go is the only true thing that can change your life. Forget about other whoo-whoo self-help motivation shit, because letting go is the foundation of everything. That is real shit out there, and I don´t know how to thank Julien for this, because he changed everything for me. No more social anxiety, no more fear, no more anger. I´ve just seen these transformations live, and I´m so happy that I could be part of this event and that you transformed these people into better human beings. You are a legend, Julien!
Well said! Btw, were you a participant at any of Julien’s events? I’m wondering how effective the information can be without being at a live event alongside Julien to guide someone. Any thoughts?
How can I msg you ? Can you pls help me ?
@@shogoracing4294 What Julien says in all of his videos resonates with me and I find it real, it works for me. I was last week at his event for the first time and it´s something else when you see these transformations live in person. He has plenty of videos on this subject but I think it´s easier if you attend one of his events or book a free call with him.
This was Frankfurt right?
I can tell by the German accent. I wanted to book this but then saw he and Jeffy will be coming to Berlin as well (where I live) booked that and realized it's 2023. Next time I'll definitely be part of it.
100% agree!
This video just made me realise that I was always loved for being the calm kid. So I just kept loving myself for being calm, even though this calmness is not always helpful, like when socializing. Damn. I don't have a trauma, I was just raised this way and I have to make myself clear that nobody will reward me anymore for being quiet. Thank you Julien!
You're welcome! Glad this helped you become more aware!
Is ok to be such a quiet person
@@Shifty3651727 but its not ok if you can *only* be a quiet person, you should be YOU and we all been loud and very expressive when we were young.
@@Shifty3651727it’s okay but there are time and places for both
The point of this isn’t to be quiet or loud, it’s to be truly who you are inside…
This was so intense like a movie. I'm usually in tune with your videos but I'm on the edge of my foot stool with this one. Thank you everyone involved in this
Glad this was so impactful!! 🙌
my body felt the adrenalie and heat from the tension so much
This was definitely so suspenseful. I was afraid it would fall flat, but julien didn’t disappoint 🎉
Yes! Never quite realized it until now that when my mom told me that I talked too much and you don’t think before you open your mouth in a very condescending way,it set me up to be very mindful of what I say til at this point I have become a super quiet person now who thinks that what I say doesn’t really matter!!
Great awareness! This is sadly very common... But fortunately it's EASY to break out of it with the right tools and guidance! 🙏
Wow exactly feel that with my dad and i need a change in environment and meet new people to change my ways as i dont talk to basically anyone these days!
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I understand exactly how you feel when you say that @mr bomber!!
@@jackiespears3372 ❤️🔥
Julien posing himself as inner resistance was an incredible exercise. His passion was seriously palpable. Thank you!
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Life can be so paradoxical. You spend the first quarter of your life being shaped and molded (for good reason) but it also strips you of so much uniqueness and qualities that make you" you". You have to go back and recover the things amd parts of you that you got cut off from, and incorporate them to your now developed self. Those things you've repressed, were repressed for a reason, to protect you. As you get older, you no longer need that protection. It's time to step into your light, so that your freedom may liberate others ✌🏿
Deep shit right here
"are you living through other peoples eyes or your own eyes" bro i've been livin this way for so long and i swear every time i let go and be real, i feel vulnerable and a scared but also feels so good to just BE 💯
Authenticity is ALL! 🙌
“What’s that part of you that’s saying ‘be cool, yell in a cool way’” no one has ever, in my entire life, boiled me down as an individual so perfectly, on accident. I heard you say that and I broke down crying. I’ve learned something about myself today.
Damn you can see an immediate change in his body language after. This was such a great video and so relevant to me. Thanks Julien
Thank you! Glad this connected so deeply with you!!
JulienHimself he just has to stop tighten his muscles so much!
That's such a difficult exercice even on a private session without a crowd.
Respect to this guy and everyone involved
That last scream was so obvious and clearly letting it out i immediately starting laughing and crying at the same time, it was deep
YES! He crushed it! Massive respect to him 🙌
What I love about these videos is that you’ve created an echo-chamber, where only authenticity is validated. Compared to the majority of the world, where only the front, that people show is validated.
That’s how I see it anyways.
I loved his transformation in the end 🙏
YES, exactly! 🙏
Wow love the way you summarized that. My high ass was just tearing up near the end. Love to see someone able to break through like that and credit to you Julien. Beautiful.
Wow, you’re right, good observation
You’ll never lose social anxiety without bravery. You’ll just try to avoid the fear so you avoid any situation which could spike that fear. To lose my social anxiety I took a job in sales selling subscriptions to people by ringing their doorbells. I would see dozens of people every day rejecting me telling me to f**k off. It wrecked me the first day, the second day, the third day.. till the day came in which I didn’t care AT ALL what the guy opening the door would think about me. Those few days prevented me from ever having unnecessary fear again.
I cried tears of joy, man! You can see the change in his posture. Just wonderfull.
Yup. Checked beginning of video and end. The confidence was there
I could tell that he was insecure about his voice in the beginning. He was not sure if the yelling would be loud enough, powerful enough. At the end, he realized that it did not matter. What a beautiful thing to watch.
You can almost see how quickly he rose up the levels of consciousness to a state of courage and was able to let loose!! Great video & I hope this encourages more people to let go of those negative limiting beliefs
Yes! He crushed it! 🔥👊
I love that he even said in the beginning how the best thing that could happen is that people stand up and start cheering.
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Back to me at 14 years old I've been rejected and bullied at school. My classmates were making fun of me on the facts that I looked younger than others and had an acute's voice compare to them. Sometimes they tried to beat me up aswell. By looking at this video I remember this event was how all my social anxiety started. Hopefully I've walked a long way since this. I know I'm worth it, strong, confident and smart enough to be loved and I wont let enter any kind of people, who would be negative for me, in my frame as I know how to deal with them. Sometimes you have to get anger of your own situation and the way you're living it. You need to get anger on your depression, on your anxiety and tell yourself you deserve better than this and you're ready to fight it step by step. Anger helped me fixing myself and I felt anger aswell when this guy screamed at the end of the video. You need to revolt and to overcome what holds you back by yourself to be able to grow. F*** off everyone, I'm me and you better not underestimate it because I don't.
Totally relate. My fear is the group (this human experience) is that I wasn't given a skill to thrive in life and bring value to the world. This fear plagues me that I always need to help others succeed in my group so that I don't get left behind and never receive the love, connection and support from others to survive. Thank you for this video!
That was so well put. I can relate to it so much
That chanting of "Let me out!" Really got to me. Cuz, it did kind of feel like everyone was living through the guy on the stage and talking as if they were their own inner child. Representing their own repressed selves.
" why do you still need me". Powerful statement, ended my depression coming to realise this many years ago, listen closely to your being ❤️
When he screamed at the ending i shed a tear
I thought it wouldn't happen anymore, felt like he needed to be brought to tears first or something to be real and than he killed it. It's so crazy how I instantly teared up when he did. Good on you dude.
He crushed it yes! There's nothing more inspiring than pure AUTHENTICITY! 🙌
It's funny how I was thinking "beaten down" at the exact moment Julien said it. We do pick up instantly how a person feels about themselves. The paradox is that by owning that you feel beaten down and insecure you actually stop perpetuating that feeling. It's when you try to hide it that things start to go wrong. Props to this guy. It takes a lot of courage to do this in front of a crowd
yo i watched the first few minutes and felt that the speaker was putting the poor man on the spot constantly, but when i skipped to the end, that pure scream gave me goosebumps, ive wanted to go on a mountain and just scream my heart out like that too, just let out all frustration and leave them there. damn a clear difference, this is legit
Glad you gave the rest of this video a chance! Welcome to the channel! 🙏
I feel I have similar "barriers" and have been working through them but the amount of CHANGE I witnessed in this man in just that short (probably felt infinite to him) 15 minutes is truly incredible. Gives me hope to be able to let that shit go myself...
Glad this was inspiring! Let me know if you'd like my help with this as well: application.julienhimself.com 🙏
I was like, how can there be difference between genuine and trying to hold back.. until I watched till the end and fking felt it, I had goosebumps!
That's so me, I really cheered and feeled for him the whole video. We'll overcome our past and love the child within us.
Glad this resonated so deeply! Let me know if you'd like my help with this: application.julienhimself.com
I feel like you go to these other countries like Germany where the people there are already so resistant to expressing their emotions (lest they come off as "weak" or neurotic) that sometimes I just want to shake them when I watch these videos. But then I realize this is a lifetimes worth of conditioning they are trying to break through in just a few minutes time and it puts it into perspective for me.
I have never been moved to tears so many times as I have since discovering your videos. They are so Powerful!
Thats why its important to get to know yourself, oftentimes we are bombarded with so much stimuli, or operating on someone else's program that our feelings are pushed to background and it becomes default. Start trying things to find out what you like. Get comfortable with making decisions. Start small and work your way up. Heck roll a dice if you have to. Just start making decisions. Once you get moving you can start to reflect and figure out what you like then you can start to develop your identity. Unfortunately none of this is easy and takes time. Its a journey not a destination. So learn how to get comfortable with yourself and figure out how to enjoy the ride. You'll get there eventually. Good travels
Yes! Reconnecting to your AUTHENTIC self is key! 🔥👊
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Got goosebumps multiple times watching this. AN incredible show of resilience from our friend, you could see the perspiration patches under his arms, he really had to switch his physiology to elevate to his next level, and goddam he did. Those shouts sounded primal at the end, you could feel it through the digital screen.
Julien in combination with the crowd did a stellar job of using both supportive and challenging techniques to unlock him. Such a great watch, and it's a video that will stay with me forever.
I always knew Julien had found a special framework with his letting go mentality, but this is the first time that I felt like I was right there in the audience with him and the rest of the fam too. So great pops to the camera man.
Continue spreading the light my friends.
Thank you so much!! 🙏
YEAH i got goose bumps when he started screaming...i was like....YEAAHHHHHHHHHHH MUDDDAFUCKKKAEERRRRRRRRRRRRR AHWWWWWWWWWWW
Julien is a blessing to millions of young people. This is the stuff people need in their lives. So so UNDERRATED.
Making people grow up through making them realize the stupidity of their same thoughts, Thank You.
Sometimes I believe I'm not introverted, I'm just scared.
me too
Literally got up out of my chair and clapped with the crowd when he let out that last scream. Authenticity transcends.
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The question asking seems good. But the theatrics around screaming, “I can handle the unknown,” seem either like pure theater. Or short term posturing.
I don’t think people build confidence by screaming narratives at themselves and others. I think they build confidence by building experience and learning from that experience.
Starring at yourself in the mirror doesn’t do much toward changing foundation or changing belief.
tapping onto the shoulder and standing beside someone gives huge comfort to the one feeling nervous, this guy knows his stuff, very symphatic.
Thank you Julien. I am having this same problem. I want to scream but I can't seem to do. I am a lot of tired. I still feel like the old me child version, but I had to change to adapt the adult world. When I think back, I wasn't like this. After watching several videos of "letting go" and owen helpful advice about energizes. I am now realizing I have to do something. So again thank you. This journey is hard though, but I will come over this.
Glad these videos have been so helpful for you! If you'd like to go deeper, you can apply here for private coaching: application.julienhimself.com 🙏
WOW! What a great video! I was crying watching the whole thing and felt him deeply as I experienced my own triggers and at the end felt this massive proudness and happiness for him. I can totally resonate with this and just even referencing the inner child and how I can be so harsh sometimes without realizing that its causing so much pain and always having to hide it and pretending to be tough when there's so many emotions that needs to be let out. So so proud of him and loved how you stood by him and waited for that child to express and be seen. Thank you for your teachings. So appreciated.
He did AMAZING, yes! Glad this resonated with you!! 🙏
This reminds me of a memory I had! 5th grade summer camp! There was an absolute slapper of a camp song and I couldn't stop singing it! 15 minutes later of me humming it non-stop a camp leader puts his hand on my shoulder, shakes me a bit, and grunts at me sternly to "STOP." Basically never sing in public now.
Definitely something to process and LET GO of!
Man, the Insights of these videos are so valuable, I've been transmuting the transformational energy of being authentic through harnessing the wisdom of these videos, they are always heart warming and uplifting to watch.
Sincere Thank you Julien for following your life mission with such passion! ❤️
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The moment he screamed with authenticity in the end, it was👏👏👏
Julien is awesome, helping people fight through there weaknesses is so important. Especially because a lot of us are not taught to be confident by our parents unfortunately
That was very relatable and inspiring. It's really moving to see how everyone wants to genuinely help him be free and be himself.
I just want to hug everyone who feels this way! 😢 I can relate so much as well.
Even hours of him trying to be louder and realer would have been bearable to me,Julien. You really are a gem to the youtube community atleast speaking about myself, I LOVE YOU JULIEN BLANC. I could really relate each second of the video and oin the last part, I jumped off my chair as he did it. My sincere love and salute to you for your commendable work. Hope to meet you someday. Come to INDIA. Take care Brother
Brave guy for sharing in front of everyone. I feel for him.
Well done to the crowd. They helped enable him to come out. His whole body language changed when they cheered him.
Its crazy how many times i see him have people just yell to not hold back, and the feeling i get is just oure emoathy and i can feel theor own resistance holding me back. Empathy is powerful when you are in touch with your own feelings.
Julien is like a therapist, but better. He experienced everything first hand and can actually help
Damn man. You could really see something burst out which was holding back for a very long time. Handled really incredible there Julien
Holy fuck that was powerful!!! Was rooting for him the entire way and hoping that he’d just surrender and unleash. And he fucking did!!! Congrats man, so happy for you !!!
Great work Julien. Also, props for not giving up on this kid, he needed that.
This coach is on cocaine. He looks disheveled and gives zero fks. Love this guy
YOU BOTH DESERVE THE UPROAR FROM THE CROWD. KUDOS TO THE GUY FOR SHOWING SO MUCH COURAGE
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Julien you are absolutely amazing, you just helped me so much with these videos, I can see improvements on myself right after one video, I was even scared to talk to my cousin, my blood, we didnt talk to each other for a long time but yesterday I was joking with her and having fun in the gym, I acted like myself when I am alone or with my brother and it turned out to be amazing . I am so grateful for you. Thank you Julien!
this was so painful to watch, in a good way. I think everybody can imagine how this resistance must feel even though the overcame their own a long time ago. Seneca once said that insights grow slow on you over time, they rarely just suddenly appear, so I still know the feeling of resistance even though I can let go most of the time.
When he has screamed and brought the real and authencity out. It made me cry because i was feeling that i have been also going through with the same i also really need to take that out. His screams made me feel that i can put myself in his shoes.🥺
As much as I crave someone pushing me like this, the excitement, realness and kindness of this guy would make me feel so attracted to him that I better hold back my thoughts and emotions... I'm not joking, I wish it was different. It sometimes happens in my life that someone tries to help me innocently but I get so emotionally confused over it that I escape and refuse. It's always men. Women usually take a softer approach and don't trap you when you need to be trapped. They don't want to hurt your feelings. I even wonder if this occasional sexual tension might be a factor that keeps me from overcoming my issue.
I was there on Thursday in Frankfurt. Great event. Entertaining whilst making a number of serious and useful points.
It was a good showcase for what you and your company have to offer.
The young man in this video came over as the sort of guy that I'd be honoured to have as a personal friend, because he seemed like a really nice, genuine guy.
Thanks for making it out in person!! 🙏
@@JulienHimself One thing that I noticed was how none of the people at the Frankfurt Free event thanked you at the end of it. I can understand this for the people that were going to attend your Saturday or Sunday sessions. But for everyone else to walk out without thanking you - I just found that a bit odd.
After you had given away so much value for free.
I put it down to 20 somethings acting like 20 somethings.
Love it! Been watching hours of your videos and they have helped tremendously! Especially when I start applying the principles taught. Ran into these videos when my ex left. Been the best year of my life. Thank you Julien 😊
Thank you, glad they're so helpful! You got this!! 🔥👊
That last set of crying out, welled up in my eyes. You did it dude.
Looking externally for so long and wishing you had something else or were something else will be the biggest longing even if 50 strangers were cheering you on. The packaged virus won't shift paradim just because some says shift. It takes speaking directly to each consrraint in the moment, recognize it's grip and ask for brotherly love to lift the burden as together the enemies are shattered.
This Fear 😰 i’m telling you it’s so strong it is so powerful it will hold you and keep you held down and keep you there and lock you there if you let it that fear alone that false expectations around reality takes a real quiet of a grip if you like it it’s a chain that holds you in and it keeps you there in bondage you just gotta have the wheel the willpower to break that bondage to break that chain once you do that little by little you’re good it’s the fear that prevents you to operate yourself correctly and the thing of the matter of it all is simple most people operate in fear they hold it as their security blanket they hold it and keep it with them in their comfort zone it comes to a point in time and Julian is right. You have to break free from it but it has to come from you deep within you to do it to make it happen but it can be done.
Letting go is the way... 🙏
@@JulienHimself You’re absolutely right.
my blood pressure went up from this video, that never happend before watching some yt vid. Powerful stuff julien
Glad it was so impactful! 🔥👊
true! i just feel how he reowned himself
When i saw t he first one or 2 of Julien's videos I thought he was cheesy/huckster. Now after a few more, my opinion of him is what a fantastic inspirational guy. A true teacher
Goosebumps! Suchs good coaching for calling out the staged and acted screams. The moment you hear the authentic scream it rumbles through your soul, sending shivers down the spin. A sound of pure and raw nature.
Damn we're all so messed up.
Laughed while listening to this while training. But that's because I can see myself in him + I don't see anything as cringe anymore, I see everything as funny. I was there once where I wanted to be perfect and everything was so serious and locked in, and I still have work on that, but I've learned just to laugh of everything I do most of the time and say whatever I want to and that helps relax me too and I just stopped caring and just live and whatever I say loud out floats with the south and me just going wild and free. I love julien because that's what everyone can become with hard work and trough progress. I love how he's so real and crosses his boundaries and jokes abt it as he can actually help him, and it worked. And creds to this man for making me laugh and trying everything to get his feelings out and actually managing it in the end, that's amazing
His body shaking/trembling at 18:35 while he was yelling off the top of his lungs reminded me of Dr. Peter Levine's work on Trauma therapy, specifically the application of bodily shaking movements to release trauma. Levine points out that animals in nature (deer, bears, etc.) literally 'shake off' a traumatizing incident, and he finds that people are able to accomplish the same thing when trained on how to do it.
I am crying too! Really happy for this man! Hope he’s doing great!
The way he let loose after those screams...... His body language went from tensed to feel free☀☀☀connection and emotions❤
Your doing amazing work Julian you have helped me find my inner child and stopped me worring about being concerned with being cool. My interactions with strangers have become so much easier.
Amazing to hear!! Happy for you! 🙏
I'm overwhelmingly grateful for this content & am really touched by the great perspective shared here. But I have an enormous issue with this idea that force & loudness proves a person is becoming unstifled. Especially after the person has already shown they are struggling to demonstrate this in front of people. I can't help but think changing the approach to getting him to say it VERY slowly and intentionally (literally taking complate breaths for every Syllable) would have accessed a different pathway for the same information to be received & accessed psychologically. After having accessed a clearer & more conscious part of himself he then could try this again with more clarity of self-animation.Sometimes it's not loudness that diplays being unstifled but the smoothness of a conscious soul that needs more mindful action before applying more volume to that action.
I'm sure this was a great reference & you can see the person really facing their shadow at the end & accessing the extra gear they had trouble accessing. Accessing this gear just seems to have more ways than aggression in the face of frustration.
Just my opinion.
I can clarify this for you. Its hard to proof it, so consider it a possible point of view to test against as opposed as some absolute truth.
Due to having different gender roles defined in society, we start from a certain balance between the two within us. As we grow up, we need handles to navigate the world so that we factually can learn things important to survival and ultimately thriving. Providing those handles is the effective purpose of culture.
This essentially means we can classify supporting other people in two distinct ways: Leadership and nurture.
Julien's approach mostly presents itself as self-leadership to actualise self-love. This means that no matter the impact or intensity, you allow your values to manifest because its valuable to you or someone else. In fact, even thinking about it is probably preventing your values from being manifested.
Nurture however is about allowing adaptation to happen within an environment, as opposed to within yourself. Its far more subtle but the impacts are just as great. Its about teaching others cognitive skills to have more opportunity to self actualisation and thus, self acceptance. Although depending on who you ask, its also transforming resources into something more meaningful or impactful for all those involved.
When people are balanced, it essentially means you use leadership to allow yourself to be nurtured, often by yourself, to rise to the occasion to what's value to you. To manifest it into reality. Consequently, we want to rise to the occasion to share life's blessings as that also helps validate the existence of your values.
However, if for some reason you believe your intensity, your values, have no place in this world, then neither leadership or nurture can manifest.
Julien is trying to make the people feel this in their body. The people are trying but cannot allow this self-actualisation to manifest yet due being buried under the expectations of others.
Now I do agree the more nurturing side might manifest greatly from an outsider's point of view. But really consider the audience. They're mostly males in there, and they mostly seem to struggle with accepting their masculinity. Julien basically had to represent the father figure, the unmovable rock, the mentor, the enabler as opposed to supporter. If you look closely, support is EXACTLY what the audience was introducing at some point, and Julien explicitly supported him AFTER he showed actual self-leadership.
Its all about perspective. Its quite possible you already own a great deal of ownership of yourself, and thus this level of self-leadership is rather approachable to you. If that's the case, it makes sense for me that you'd mention the need for a balance between nurture and leadership.
That's a good thing, it means you're already 'integrated' as they call it.
One last thing: Make no mistake, leadership and nurture are essentially the same thing, depending on what skills you utilise when doing the leading. A nurturing mother HAS to take leadership over the child constantly, changing diapers is a simple example of this. But we see it as nurturing. The great company's CTO has to be nurturing to ensure people do not bury themselves in irrelevant expectations. Just like how a father sometimes creates additional room for mistakes for their children by imposing rules that otherwise would lead to chaos. But we see it as leadership.
The point being, the intensity and intention should not matter when you are expressing yourself (to yourself, specifically). There should be no need for a distinction, because if the value manifests as it feels within, that means you've effectively communicated authenticity, the most relatable thing in history. Then it means mission accomplished.
Hope that helped! Cheers!
Tears streaming out my eyes , feeling my heart and the pain it , deeply touching , brave , beautiful and real x
Ayo Adrian!! (Julian) I got something to say, you help a lot of people including myself and for that I said thank you, I'll see you as an older brother even though we never met, mad respect
18:44 Whoa that sent shivers!
Hey Julien! I needed this video more than anything because I have extremely low self-esteem. I wish I could have found you earlier. I really need some therapy and need to raise my confidence to a whole other level. Thanks for this and other videos related to confidence and self-esteem. Hope I can meet you one day and tell you how I feel and how should I get help getting that inner child to come out and scream to the top of my lungs.. Keep up the good work mate..
Even the look of his face changed after he finally got it out❕🙌🏻👌🏻 Awesome Julien❕👌🏻👌🏻💪🏻💪🏻
It helps a ton seeing other people feeling a similar way thank you
Yes! What's most personal is most universal! 🙌
Donors give their bodies to medicine for study.
Bravehearts give their minds to society for study.
This was a psychological & emotional dissection.
I feel like in some ways telling someone “you’re not trying, nobody believe that” is counter intuitive and you’re reinforcing the perspective of “him doing it for others approval, validation” when he should be doing it for himself. If he believes he’s doing the best he can and it feels real and authentic to him, that’s enough.
Wow, I am really impressed by the progress of this guy. It's amazing. Julien has slayed again in helping people !
As a person who also struggles with anxiety and stuff I respect the hell out of people that are able to just be themselves, that last scream the guy did you can literally see the moment he finally snapped and had enough with not doing the scream right, unlocking your inner child is the most important thing anyone should try to do , kids are always so free and just because we had some bad experiences and grow up with the pressures of the world, we lock ourselves away and refuse to let us feel. Kids have thousands of reasons to be scared but yet they’re not, we all could take a page from their book.
this inspired me to finally face my fears amazing vid
Glad to hear it! Thank you!
this hit me so deeply I was in tears when he finally could let go
Authenticity resonates!!
When he pulls his hat off.. ❤ What a handsome man is hidden under there.
As a shy anxious person, it’s a way of hiding away. I love how Julien gets to the heart of his fear. He’s got so much more presence at the end than he started with. What a lucky fellow!
If you mean the guy that had the hat on, yes I think he is handsome physically. I am a bi guy and I want that guy! His scream is manly and sexy!
Bro you came through! Thanks for being so open and vulnerable. Massive respect!
Even though we did not get the chance to talk I think you helped everyone. Certainly did for me!
What an epic event 🔥
Thanks so much for making it out to the event! 🙌
My pleasure! Thanks for the epic event! :)
OMG
THIS IS AWESOME , I JUST FELT SO FREE AND RELAX .
THANK U JULIEN SIR
The childhood pain sometime makes u like slave to your own thoughts
I can feel this guy ... Very very very very well i can even understand how he think and act... Trust me it's a loooooooot of pressure
Oh wow. You gave him exactly what he needed, Julien. I dream of one day doing what you're doing right now.
Yes, he crushed it! Massive respect to him!
I also the think the group backing you and the empathy of the group really helps you❤
This is genius, the quickest way to break shyness is to “humiliate “ yourself in a way I like it