ANTI-HAUL // 15 things I won’t be buying in 2024

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Komentáře • 326

  • @thehermit1122
    @thehermit1122 Před 4 měsíci +449

    I find it so frightening how literal children are being influenced to want to buy makeup and skincare products. It's not made for their skin!

    • @catherinelapointe8024
      @catherinelapointe8024 Před 4 měsíci +27

      Parents need to deinfluence them
      more.

    • @rikkemeek1506
      @rikkemeek1506 Před 4 měsíci +25

      Parents need to be more aware of what their kids watch on social media. Imo kids shouldn't be on any social media.

    • @rikkemeek1506
      @rikkemeek1506 Před 4 měsíci +6

      ​@@Little_farmhouseMy son is 20 and doesn't have any social media. He thinks it's a wast of time. I'm not on any socials either, just youtube😉

    • @anaalves3658
      @anaalves3658 Před 4 měsíci +6

      ​@@Little_farmhouse I totally understand, I have a nine year old and she keeps telling me how much make up her friends have. I wear even less makeup than you 😂, I remind her to moisturise, her whole body, and sunblock. She doesn't need anything else

    • @emmak4938
      @emmak4938 Před 4 měsíci +3

      I always wanted makeup, I grew up watching kdramas and wanting makeup from lancome due to product placement. It's crazy to me though that they have the money to buy these things, I still can't as an adult.

  • @sarahwatts7152
    @sarahwatts7152 Před 4 měsíci +379

    I can only imagine how many Stanley cups second hand stores are accumulating and will accumulate

    • @justynaaleksiejuk1802
      @justynaaleksiejuk1802 Před 4 měsíci +33

      I would say, that it will be lucky if they finish in the second hand store instead of trash bins.

    • @grreeeeee
      @grreeeeee Před 4 měsíci +4

      @@justynaaleksiejuk1802 lol why? they are surely well-made and made of steel. why would they end up in the trash?

    • @justynaaleksiejuk1802
      @justynaaleksiejuk1802 Před 4 měsíci +12

      @@grreeeeee I don't doubt it, but I also know very well that people are stupid.

    • @kaitlyng.473
      @kaitlyng.473 Před 4 měsíci +15

      @@grreeeeeeBecause people only have so much room in their homes. When the latest hyper-consumerism product is the rage people will need to clean out space in their homes to store them.

    • @grreeeeee
      @grreeeeee Před 4 měsíci

      @@kaitlyng.473 sure, but nobody just throws steel products away. everyone gives things to donation places.

  • @kellyopie5914
    @kellyopie5914 Před 4 měsíci +211

    1 stanley cups
    2 trendy skincare
    3 skims
    4 plants
    5 scented candles
    6 fabrics softners
    7 dryer balls
    8 botox
    9 edible glitter
    10 mystery boxes
    11 fast fashion
    12 no fast anything
    13 apple watch
    14 trendy storage
    15 merch

  • @moniqueraeshell6689
    @moniqueraeshell6689 Před 4 měsíci +131

    A friend of mine I suggested she start a plant exchange on FB. Basically people propagate plants and just trade with each other. 😊

    • @Gittemary
      @Gittemary  Před 4 měsíci +12

      absolutely banger idea 🙌

    • @chasingdharmaify
      @chasingdharmaify Před 4 měsíci +2

      We have a few that popped up during the pandemic. They're lovely!

    • @valerieannrumpf4151
      @valerieannrumpf4151 Před 4 měsíci +1

      We do that inmy neighborhood every spring when it comes to getting plants for the garden 🌱🌻🌹🥕🥔🍆🌽🌶🫑🍅🍓🥬🥒🧄🧅🫘🫛

    • @justapasserby
      @justapasserby Před 8 dny

      I love that!

  • @jmsl_910
    @jmsl_910 Před 4 měsíci +114

    i appreciate your nod to those of us who opt out of trying to look younger. i haven't dyed my hair or had any "work" done (no judgement, honest) & people are always shocked when they find out my age (58); across the board everyone thinks im much older.
    the reason, i think, is that so many people have opted-in to looking youthful that we've lost a realistic frame of reference. this saddens me. i'm in great shape, dress well, hydrate and eat healthfully.
    having a bad knee and a bummed hip stinks, i don't think i rock. but i am glad i am modeling for my (adult) children what an un-touched boomer actually looks like

    • @dreamer6943
      @dreamer6943 Před 4 měsíci +14

      And it's only women this is expected of. Men don't do all these treatments and tweaks. There's nothing wrong with ageing. I'm glad you feel able to be yourself and not get involved with things you don't want ro

    • @suzanneoleander3224
      @suzanneoleander3224 Před 4 měsíci +2

      Thank you! It helps younger people to not give in to the pressure!

    • @sarahkinsey5434
      @sarahkinsey5434 Před 4 měsíci +8

      My favorite cousin will be 38 next month (on my birthday) and she has a lot of gray hair. She doesn't wear makeup, hair is always in a low bun, and does woodworking. I look up to her because she seems comfortable with who she is. She shows me you don't need makeup to be beautiful. I don't wear much makeup (eyeshadow and mascara when I do) and my boyfriend thinks I'm beautiful without it.

    • @inkenhafner7187
      @inkenhafner7187 Před 4 měsíci +2

      When I was a teenager and twen I loved henna and non-permanent hair colour and played around with that quite a bit. And then came the first grey hairs and I stopped. I like them, I embrace them and now in my late 40s they are still quite well mixed in my dark hair, but slowly, slowly an all grey strand is forming at the right side of my forehead.
      I've always hoped that I'd inherit that from my mother and grandmother... And tadaaaaaaa, there it comes! 😀

    • @madbadanddangeroustoknow..3025
      @madbadanddangeroustoknow..3025 Před 4 měsíci

      You're not a boomer at 58,you're Gen X.❤

  • @SilviaN1
    @SilviaN1 Před 4 měsíci +33

    I am so glad you mentioned botox. I´m 49 years old, and I love beauty, but I try to celebrate beauty my own way. Proudly showing my grey hair and wrinkles. I almost died when I was 36 years old, so to me getting older actually - and honestly - feels good.

  • @thabbyr
    @thabbyr Před 4 měsíci +92

    I love the part about Botox. I think it is so important to talk about how much consumption and spending is generated by the idea that going through changes in life and growing old is something that we need to prevent at all costs, instead of embracing and celebrating. At 43, I have quite a few gray hairs and also a few wrinkles, especially around my eyes. Like you, I am not saying I'll love them forever (or maybe I will), but I am embracing the changes and celebrating them as proof of the life well lived I enjoyed so far!

    • @Gittemary
      @Gittemary  Před 4 měsíci +2

      This needs to be said way more 💚

    • @TermiteVideo
      @TermiteVideo Před 4 měsíci

      Get back to us when you’re 63 girls

    • @sarahkinsey5434
      @sarahkinsey5434 Před 4 měsíci

      I think it was a book called The Skin I'm In where a teacher had a birthmark on her face and explained to her class how she loves herself. One line I have always remembered goes something like "I love my laugh lines/crows feet because it shows that I love to laugh" I just love that. I love my stretch marks because they show that I have curves despite being a petite woman

    • @Randilynn66
      @Randilynn66 Před 4 měsíci

      I didn’t start Botox until I was 55, I’m 57 now and I actually like how my forehead looks so I continue to do it. I will never get filler though.

  • @almondmayo.
    @almondmayo. Před 4 měsíci +17

    More on fabric softener: it coats the fibres of your clothes to make it feel "soft", which is pretty bad for a few reasons. 1. if you use it on any athletic/active, linen, or cotton clothes, it will make them completely non-breathable, because it seals the small holes in the fabric, and hence ruins them. 2. it also coats the inside of your washing machine, and it's a leading cause of machine breakdowns! 3. their heavy synthetic fragrances can be very irritating to children/sensitive skin in general. If you still feel like you want to use something to make your fabric more soft, add a bit of vinegar to your load!!

    • @smileyghostkat3068
      @smileyghostkat3068 Před měsícem

      Omg that might explains why the texture feels like it changes

  • @catherinelapointe8024
    @catherinelapointe8024 Před 4 měsíci +71

    I really don’t understand the Stanley cup hype either. They don’t even look that practical and easy to clean, and who needs to keep their drink cool for 48h?? If you haven’t finished your water in 48h there’s a problem lololol 😅

    • @ajpadley
      @ajpadley Před 4 měsíci +8

      They also leak like crazy! I just don’t get it 🙄

    • @sustainfem
      @sustainfem Před 4 měsíci +5

      And aren't some them 64 ounces (1,818 ml)?? No one needs that much of any liquid!!

    • @andrasview
      @andrasview Před 4 měsíci +2

      @@sustainfemisn’t that the amount of water you’re supposed to drink in a day? I always heard it’s around 2 L per day for a regular person. So for water that cup doesn’t seem crazy to me. For other drink tho… ooof
      Stanley cup craze is insane either way

    • @QuirkyTJones
      @QuirkyTJones Před měsícem

      As a gastric bypass patient who can’t gulp so I have to walk around all day with a cup in my hand and i prefer it to be cold so I do need my drink to stay colder for longer 😂😂😂but with saying all of that I did fall in love with yettis 5 years ago but I also found a cup at Walmart on the discount isle for $6 by a brand named Bubba and I will fight someone about that cup 😂😂😂 now my aunt bought me a Stanley and I’m not impressed

    • @justapasserby
      @justapasserby Před 8 dny

      The Stanley cup thing truly baffles me. When I first heard about the brawls over a pink Stanley cup, I thought hockey fans were becoming more unhinged than usual and also was confused about why it was pink. But no.
      My great-grandfathers carried their Stanley lunch pails and thermoses to work in the mill. My grandparents did the same and carried thermoses on Sunday drives in the 1940s and 50s. My dad and uncles carried them to the woods, hunting and fishing in the 70s. I still have one of those.

  • @Anna_ForFutureAdventures
    @Anna_ForFutureAdventures Před 4 měsíci +16

    I love that you saw lines in your face and were like "oh cool new milestone". That's EXACTLY the neutral reaction we need to these normal changes! Normalize getting older! 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

  • @sarahbasler7771
    @sarahbasler7771 Před 4 měsíci +22

    I am convinced you would like the type of mistery box i'm getting: It's a box with quality orgabic fruits and vegetables from a local grower. It motivates me to try out vegetables i've never cooked with before, try new recipes and Cook more from Scratch in general. Also: If there is something in it i really don't like or can't eat (i'm allergic to seleri), i gift it to my parents or friends. So far this works very well for me. 😊

  • @alycenx
    @alycenx Před 4 měsíci +20

    Just a friendly reminder that botox is also used medically and the medical protocol calls for (in small part) some of the places where people would get it cosmetically - the other 50 injections are not in the cosmetic zones and many cosmetic zones are not covered by the medical protocol. For serious pain, it's been such a blessing for me and I haven't even considered getting botox in the places cosmetically that don't get touched in the medical protocol. As a medication, it's just wonderful.

  • @LennyKJ1
    @LennyKJ1 Před 4 měsíci +11

    I woukd love to see younger people wearing sunblock. The ultimate skincare item!

  • @catherineleslie-faye4302
    @catherineleslie-faye4302 Před 4 měsíci +10

    I'm simply not buying any new clothes or new shoes this year... I will thrift what I need in person at a local shop.

  • @ecodiana
    @ecodiana Před 4 měsíci +31

    You manage it all the time to make a video simple and educational at the same time. Thanks for great content❤

    • @Gittemary
      @Gittemary  Před 4 měsíci

      Thank you so much for watching!

  • @rebeccakeenaghan2062
    @rebeccakeenaghan2062 Před 4 měsíci +1

    I have followed you for ages! And every video makes my mind set change that little bit more .. (for the better) .. I never thought I could stop fast fashion thinking I can't afford to, but they are such bad quality and now I buy second hand and buy one off nice items that last , and I don't no why but I fe3l so much better every time I male a change it just feels so good 😊 thank you ❤️

  • @lisaclairemont9579
    @lisaclairemont9579 Před 4 měsíci +10

    Happy Early Birthday 🎉🎉🎉. As a woman who is 52, I agree 100% to celebrate the changes that come with age.

  • @BobbisWorld9
    @BobbisWorld9 Před 4 měsíci +4

    I love your videos! I won't be buying paper towels. I've finally got my bf using used rags I got from the thrift store to clean up messes and clean the house. I never noticed how many paper towels he goes through. We have a rags bucket and clean them really well and reuse them! Keep the zero waste videos coming!

  • @blooriver
    @blooriver Před 4 měsíci +1

    A-WO-MAN!!!! How have I not found you sooner?! Thank you for being real and being the change the earth needs. I live this way as well and just thank you.

  • @judith6133
    @judith6133 Před 4 měsíci +10

    Interesting that you talked about this pantry-p*rn thing. It makes me giggle because my husband falled into this trap. At one point last year we talked about replacing some old plastic containers to store dry foods. He mentioned we could use nice jars. Ok. no big deal. Now all our stuff is stored in appelsauce and pickel jars. Otherwise they would have gone to the recycling.

    • @natashadavies9569
      @natashadavies9569 Před 4 měsíci +1

      I have open shelves and decant. I tend to use vintage and antique ceramic and glassware from charity shops.

  • @BethAge95
    @BethAge95 Před 4 měsíci +10

    Great list! I actually wasn't aware of how harmful paraffin candles are for our health. I knew about the environmental impact, but not about the health one. As someone who is already struggling with respiratory infections, I'll definitely cut down the amount of tea lights I burn for a cosy evening. Don't want to quit candles, but next time I'm running out I'll try to restock with soy candles! Thank you!

    • @Gittemary
      @Gittemary  Před 4 měsíci +1

      It is definitely a good idea to cut down, and switch out the paraffin wax ones 🙌🙌

    • @hazaldenizaygun7339
      @hazaldenizaygun7339 Před 4 měsíci +2

      hi! I have a cat (and an anxiety disorder) so I don't burn any candles anymore, I got LED ones with timers and while they obviously aren't the same thing (no scent, no warmth) they do a very good job of creating a cozy athmosphere and I don't have to "put them out" before going to sleep since they go off by themselves :) recommend them a lot!

    • @BethAge95
      @BethAge95 Před 4 měsíci +1

      @@hazaldenizaygun7339 that's an option as well, but I do prefer "real ones" by far. With a cat the electric ones are definitely the bettet option, though :D

    • @julianlaresch6266
      @julianlaresch6266 Před 4 měsíci +1

      I got cats and since then I don't burn parrafin indoors. I had a hard time finding soy candles for affordable prices and overall it has led to me using less candles overall somehow

  • @kaleyjanenigh
    @kaleyjanenigh Před 4 měsíci

    Currently low key bingeing your videos. New sub, loving your vibe and your opinions! Thank you! ❤

  • @Thrivinginthespotlight
    @Thrivinginthespotlight Před 4 měsíci +1

    Thank you Gittemary, this was a good one. Especially liked the bit about the plants.

  • @Purple-ws9fn
    @Purple-ws9fn Před 4 měsíci +5

    I don't use fabric softeners either. I like my fabrics to be a little bit crisp. Very good points!

  • @Strinanana
    @Strinanana Před 4 měsíci

    thanks for your amazing videos! you have such a positive aura

  • @charlotte1709
    @charlotte1709 Před 4 měsíci +17

    thank you for this educational video! can you speak on the impact of unscented beeswax candles with cotton wick in terms of environmental impact and indoor air pollution?? would love to hear about that :)

    • @Gittemary
      @Gittemary  Před 4 měsíci +5

      the environmental impact of any non-parafin wax candles is tons better ✨

  • @DanieWilliamsRivera
    @DanieWilliamsRivera Před 4 měsíci +2

    I am doing a no buy year for clothing, accessories, and shoes - and we are doing a "make do" year for everything else (basically, buy it if it's a need, but otherwise make do). The Stanley cup thing is wild to me. I have a second hand contigo that has been dropped, dented, etc. and is still kickin'. It just came with me on a trip and not a single leak. I love that thing! I feel like we already have way too much stuff as it is, I don't want any more stuff to manage!

  • @danamatsukawa4762
    @danamatsukawa4762 Před 4 měsíci +2

    This is a great video and I agree with you on most of the items you are talking about. Most of which, I have never consumed. I do like dryer balls because I think they keep my clothing from getting too wrinkled. I used sunscreen and a good mild cleanser most of my life. I think most of skincare and makeup is just a marketing scheme. Now, at nearly 70 I feel I need more and see a difference afterward.

  • @lesliehyde
    @lesliehyde Před 4 měsíci +12

    As a person who has a type of migraine diagnosis (status migranous aka intractable migraines) I have a medical reason for getting Botox. It's also useful for treating muscles that are super tight (commonly found in patients with quite specific severe medical diagnoses).

    • @micivalantincic8227
      @micivalantincic8227 Před 4 měsíci

      Yes! This is what is was originally meant to be used for! Do you remember an episode of dr.House where he injects it in a someones vocall cords and they can speak again? I also have migraines and it is THE WORST PAIN

    • @hazaldenizaygun7339
      @hazaldenizaygun7339 Před 4 měsíci

      god yes I've been researching getting Botox for some uhh extra sweaty patches on my body but even that I'm kinda against. Can't imagine putting literal toxins (yea yea it's safe) in my face just to hide wrinkles :D

    • @itslauracano
      @itslauracano Před 4 měsíci

      I was thinking of getting Botox this year because I suffer from very severe bruxism 😢 I’m going to the osteopath atm and I’m feeling slightly better… this is giving me extra time to think about it 😂 I’m a little bit scared to do it!

    • @Jessi2111
      @Jessi2111 Před 4 měsíci

      ⁠@@itslauracanoi got it in my maseter muscle for the first time in november 23 as I was so bad with clenching my jaw. Very easy and not painful at all to get the injections. Took about 10 days to feel the effect. The release felt great. Unfortunately, it only lasted until two weeks ago. It was 450€ and I am not sure if I would go back. I think it is too expensive for only 9-10 weeks. But I am glad I tried 😅

  • @SandieIsTheCandy
    @SandieIsTheCandy Před 4 měsíci +3

    I did buy a Stanley Quencher cup last year😅 BUT only because I LOVE my Stanley to-go cup and have had it for years. And I chose it in my favourite colour and plan on using it forever 💜 It’s helped me up my daily water intake!

  • @findingthebroom
    @findingthebroom Před 4 měsíci +5

    the botox part made me really happy

  • @MsSusieStone
    @MsSusieStone Před 4 měsíci +1

    Oh Girl I turned 30 2 weeks ago & I feel better than ever and I also think I look truly beautiful - lots of love to you ❤

  • @ElizabethCar
    @ElizabethCar Před 4 měsíci +4

    I bought a Stanley Lunch Box and a Stanley cup off of facebook marketplace for about 1/2 the original price. I didn’t get it for the trend, but the utility, the lunch box has become my traveling art kit for its durability (i might have knocked it off the side of a cliff once) and the cup fits perfectly inside for my cleaning water. Both have little dents and smudges of paint on them now and have so much character.

  • @cloud28nails88
    @cloud28nails88 Před 4 měsíci +2

    That's the thing about dryer balls though, if you bought them at any point in the past, you won't have to buy them again for ages.
    I've been using my same set of six for 4 years now and they're still going strong.
    So I won't be buying any this year either. 😂
    Incidentally, for anyone giving up fabric softener this year, dryer balls can help ease that transition. They help keep clothes separate and moving around the dryer so the clothes come out softer and fluffier, with less static.

  • @josie.dp_
    @josie.dp_ Před 4 měsíci +2

    I love these points. ❤

  • @romywolfofficial
    @romywolfofficial Před 4 měsíci

    I like your point about "We deserve so much better". I got into knirting a few years ago and now when I go to H&M etc and I see their knitwear all I can think is "That is not worth my money". (I get that some people don't have the means to shop outside fast fashion and depending on your size thrifting isn't always an option.)

  • @melek1836
    @melek1836 Před 4 měsíci +5

    I totally agree everything you said, I have my anti haul list too and there are many similar things with yours. But as a food/chemistry engineer I must point that edible doesnt mean you can benefit from certain nutrients, edible means you can eat and it has no harm for your body. So ofcourse im not saying go and eat all the edible glitters out there :) but i just had to say it :))

  • @TranquilityChiba
    @TranquilityChiba Před 4 měsíci +1

    I like watching the restock videos and inspiration (or the comments) of how to best store products. Also how to make everything more accessible. Tho I do tend to use second hand products so my best storage method is going very slowly lol

  • @januarywaterchild7521
    @januarywaterchild7521 Před 4 měsíci +9

    This is my first time leaving a comment, but I wanted to say that I enjoyed your “no buy” list. Definitely, no to Botox! I’m in my late 50’s and I plan to continue aging naturally. (That’s not to say that I’m perfectly happy with my face. I just don’t want to spend the time and money.). I also don’t wear any makeup but I’m usually thought to be younger(most guesses 38-45 years old). I too plan to end shopping for plants, but that’s due to not having the space for more. Happy Birthday wishes🎉. I also have a birthday in two weeks time. Wishing us both on having a great one. 😊

    • @Gittemary
      @Gittemary  Před 4 měsíci

      also a happy birthday to you as well!

  • @jankaaishakovacs7714
    @jankaaishakovacs7714 Před 4 měsíci +1

    The Apple Watch was a life changer for me because I live an active outdoor life. Having the phone with me is uncomfortable, but also it helps track my health better, which I need to do. I have it for 2 years now. It shows only the notifications I chose. So it's not overwhelming 😅 I will use it until it stops working or falls apart. I won't buy a new one just because mine is a few years old and there are new ones in the market 😅

  • @fedupwithusernames
    @fedupwithusernames Před 4 měsíci

    When I watched your Christmas season antihaul I was quite happy that I typically don't buy any of the items that you mentioned, and in this video, I'm pleased to say the same. I got a new Fitbit for Christmas which I suppose is similar to an Apple Watch, but I am hoping/expecting it to last for quite a while without needing to be replaced.

  • @reblaw
    @reblaw Před měsícem

    There are natural mica deposits in the area where I live. I don't do glitter but I can't tell you how much I love getting my shoes, legs, and pants coated in natural glitter whenever I go on hikes.

  • @Gavinsrents
    @Gavinsrents Před 4 měsíci +22

    Scary about the young girl skincare trend. Agree with your non buy items. Thanks for your channel.

  • @jaedastoute6565
    @jaedastoute6565 Před měsícem

    Woah, you had me until scented candles!!! But you raise a great point. Thanks for this video. I need more of this to keep me from running to target!

  • @brittanyeng7210
    @brittanyeng7210 Před 4 měsíci +1

    I'm on year 3 of having my apple watch and I really like it for it's fitness/health tracking abilities. I love that it tracks my workouts, will give me reminders to drink water/take supplements, stand up after sitting for an hour+, or keep me on track of my calendar appointments. It's definitely not a necessity but it sure is a nice to have if you're someone that also wants to stay on top of these things. Having this little device has strangely enough cut my screen time down.

    • @sbocaj22
      @sbocaj22 Před 6 dny

      As someone with medical conditions my Apple Watch is literally necessary for me. It helps alert me to my POTS When I don’t realize I’m having an episode. Also helped me learn that my oxygen is cutting off at night

  • @katiePBD
    @katiePBD Před 4 měsíci

    I love that you specifically mentioned anti-hauling fast home decor. I think considering a piece you'll keep out to create your home environment is entirely different than buying the next new tablescape or candleholder. Alongside clothes, home decor is the most prevalent type of item in every thrift store I've ever been to. Shelves and shelves of holiday decor, baskets, glassware like jars and candleholders. It all feels like such a waste. I have a small group of home decor items that I plan to keep for many years which help shift my home seasonally. More is definitely not more in this instance. Having totes and totes of seasonal decor that *might* come out once a year seems like such a waste.

  • @nhuslage
    @nhuslage Před 4 měsíci +3

    I didn't think I needed an Apple Watch. However, my son gave me a used Apple Watch, because I'm in my 70's and I am prone to falling. It will call emergency if I fall. I feel much more secure.

  • @ek-dw5ur
    @ek-dw5ur Před 3 měsíci +1

    can you make a video on how to sustainably soften your clothes, and/or your clothes washing routine? i find there's a lot of conflicting information on how often to wash certain types of clothes and certain materials, and i struggle to keep up with handwashing of delicate clothes, especially knits and things that can't hang dry and need to be dried flat

  • @findingthebroom
    @findingthebroom Před 4 měsíci +3

    happy birthday in advance!! 🎈

  • @annesmith1535
    @annesmith1535 Před 4 měsíci +3

    Love you, love your video and everything you stand for. Thank you so much for saying ageing women are beautiful 😊❤

  •  Před 4 měsíci

    Hello , I am new here, and I just want to say, that I am glad I found your channel !
    It is very interesting and natural :)
    I am also turning 30 this year in the beginning of March ;) and am loking forward to it. Of course I have some things I stress about sometimes, but I honestly am happy in any part of my life jurney, and every year brings something else, different.
    I think that growing up and aging is the beauty of life, we just have to learn to accept it and stop trying to go against it...
    Now....I am going to binge watch some of your videos :DD: have a nice day! ;)

  • @anastasiasthoughts
    @anastasiasthoughts Před 4 měsíci

    "That's what she said" 😄 you never stop surprising me hahaha thanks for another great video ❤

  • @thedakotaprepper3309
    @thedakotaprepper3309 Před 2 měsíci

    Yo girlie…your leg tattoos are awesome. I am a tattoo shop owner who preaches zero waste which is so hard in this industry. But things are getting better and better, love your content.

  • @alignedplans
    @alignedplans Před 4 měsíci

    I loved this video:) I probably won't be buying literally anything that you mentioned in your list. Candles are the only thing but to be fair I do make my own and it gives me the control over the scent and the type of wax and wick I get to use. It's a whole other convo. I would also add viral make up to the list for myself. I love beauty and make up especially green beauty. I'm just getting to the point now where I'm super not drawn to the influencer promoted make up brands. My vibe is now supporting smaller brands that aren't hyped up on tiktok and brands with sustainable packaging where I can just buy the refills. It feels like far more logical to me than to constantly feel like I have to keep up with the latest beauty trend. Thank you for your informative vid 😊

  • @jobishop6014
    @jobishop6014 Před 4 měsíci +1

    I love my garden & houseplants but have become so uncomfortable about plastic pots & the use of peat in the compost used that I too have decided to stop buying new plants. I’ll divide what I have, grow from seed, use my home made compost & re-use all the plastic pots I’ve collected. It’s ironic that garden centres - in the uk at least - are the least ‘green’ places of all.

  • @tanyasmiles
    @tanyasmiles Před 4 měsíci

    Everything in this video is so on point 👏👏👏👏

  • @shaunaburton7136
    @shaunaburton7136 Před 4 měsíci +5

    The Stanley cups were sold out at the store by me. They had a big sign. I didn’t understand what the fuss was about. Weird

  • @barelybarb
    @barelybarb Před 4 měsíci

    Yay for birthdays and getting older! 🥰🥂 Happy birthday Gittemary 🥳 My birthday is in January as well 💛🎉

  • @thinkingbout
    @thinkingbout Před 4 měsíci +11

    I totally agree with you on the things you won't buy this year. I also found it crazy when I heared that people still hype the Stanley cup that much since I didn't really get it from the beginning. All the more crazy that there are people who have them in 20 different colors!
    Clothing with big brand names or logos has never been something for me because I just don't like the look of it, so I haven't bought merch until now, and aren't planning on it, if it isn't really something I like to have and wear without a big Logo on it. My sister has some Lidl and Aldi socks since last year or the year before they brought out the merch and she liked them, because they only have the logo subtle on it - another hype I didn't really get.

    • @sarahkinsey5434
      @sarahkinsey5434 Před 4 měsíci

      Curious question: How do you feel about having branded clothes when they are a good and sustainable brand like Patagonia, The Parks Project, Cotopaxi, etc?

    • @KristinaVeshtort-Kask
      @KristinaVeshtort-Kask Před 2 měsíci

      ​@@sarahkinsey5434 the OP didn't answer you, so I'm gonna be the annoying person who butts in on other people's conversations!
      AFAIAC - absolutely No logos on my clothing, even small brand logos somewhere in the corner, sustainable or not. I am not a billboard to advertise on. It completely baffles me that people are willing to pay to become an advertising space!
      (also Patagonia isn't as sustainable as they claim. Better than shein or hm, of course, but not as good as they claim or want to seem, and that whole "donating my fortune" gimmick was basically a clever scheme to keep money in family without paying taxes)

  • @stephaniedavilla8596
    @stephaniedavilla8596 Před 4 měsíci +2

    Shout out to Gittemary for singing a little Cutting Crew at the start of the video. My 1986 highschool self thanks you. 🎵🎶👩‍🎤

  • @juliakolcunova7674
    @juliakolcunova7674 Před 4 měsíci

    Thank you so much for your really down to earth, wise thoughts and frankly, brave video. You are such a inspiration in the world overwhelmed by loud advertisements from greedy companies and silly influencers....please, share more of refreshing and sober ideas.

  • @moniqueraeshell6689
    @moniqueraeshell6689 Před 4 měsíci +2

    I also hang dry my laundry. I order my laundry detergent from Drops and it comes in a glass bottle and I switch my pump from the used bottle. I am not buying anything I don’t need this year 😊❤

  • @elinak4513
    @elinak4513 Před 4 měsíci +2

    Refreshing to hear someone say they're looking forward to turning 30. All of my late-20s friends make a big deal out of "being old" and jokingly get mad when they're reminded of their age. I think it's sad!
    I'm 22 right now and getting older is something I'm excited about. The pressure of making my 20s the "best years of my life" feels quite silly - there's more to life than just youth.

  • @nicejenny83
    @nicejenny83 Před 4 měsíci +1

    I literally just bought wool dryer balls. Dang it. My dryer is not drying so good lately and everything I read online about them raved about them. I have not used them yet, so we'll see if they help. Edit: A great video though! Also currently reading Sustainable Badass and I am learning so much! Edit #2: They don't help drying time! GRRRR! If only I waited like two days and saw this video!

  • @Foliageandforensics
    @Foliageandforensics Před 4 měsíci

    Loved the bit about botox, I'm 36 next month and began to get botox and lip filler around the age of 30. I'm due a top up however have made the conscious decision not to, I don't want to be doing this all my life and think lines on others look beautiful 🌿🖤✨️

  • @ailanissen7262
    @ailanissen7262 Před 4 měsíci

    love these videos

  • @LillaTwiggy
    @LillaTwiggy Před 4 měsíci

    You have a new follower. The list of anti-haul adds nothing to the quality of my life and I won’t be buying any of it. Love your ethos!

  • @Raccoon00798
    @Raccoon00798 Před 4 měsíci +4

    The rate at which young girls are being influenced is absolutely terrifying.

  • @zanna186
    @zanna186 Před 4 měsíci +5

    I'm accidentally not buying into a lot of the things listed here because of my sensitivities. My skin is super sensitive and will break out in welts, rashes and blisters if it's in prolonged or repeated contact with many things that are derived from petrochemicals; mainly synthetic fabrics, petroleum based skincare and cosmetic ingredients, and fragrances. I make my own clothes because most store-bought clothes, even those labeled as made with 100% natural fibers, will still have seams that were sewn with polyester or nylon thread. I try to make my clothes as durable as possible and take care of them, because it's my time and labor that is wasted if they wear out too quickly.
    My husband is a chemical technologist. He makes the laundry detergent and dish washing soap we use, without toxic chemicals and fragrances. He has his own sensitivities with his lungs because he had asthma as a child. So everything in our house is fragrance free.
    I often feel like those of us with sensitivities are like canaries in a coal mine. The stew of toxic chemicals all around us is noticeably affecting us first. But I believe you are right, that overexposure to all of these toxic chemicals will eventually sensitize all of us.

    • @Emma-bv7oo
      @Emma-bv7oo Před 4 měsíci +1

      I have similar sensitivities. I save so much money not buying skincare, candles, fabric softener etc. i stick to bar soap and eco non-bio laundry detergent. I don't bother with make up due to allergies.
      I do however have a problem with collecting plastic gadgets etc on Amazon. I need to work on that to buy much much less.

    • @hazaldenizaygun7339
      @hazaldenizaygun7339 Před 4 měsíci

      fabric softener is so unnecessary any way!! I've stopped using it in around 2017 and have noticed no difference tbh :D

  • @basakmutlu2155
    @basakmutlu2155 Před 4 měsíci +6

    The Stanley cup craziness is really annoying me as well. The whole purpose of the video with the burning car was to show that Stanleys are really for a lifetime but instead people started to buy more and more. They literally have lifetime guarantee from the company. Why would anyone need more than only one? Treating quality brands such as Stanley, as a fast fashion brand really infuriates me. You don't need two of the same cup. You will not be able to wear and tear down the cup in a lifetime like the fast fashion items. I am really sad to see these people buy more and more meanwhile we are trying to make a difference

  • @Autumn1988
    @Autumn1988 Před 4 měsíci

    Stanley is a car cup as it fits in cup holders which many bottles and tumblers don’t do. You also don’t need to take the lid of whilst driving. I can see the practicality if you drive a lot etc.
    But 12 year old girls do not need one!
    Sticking with my straw Hydroflask thank you

  • @faithkelly396
    @faithkelly396 Před 4 měsíci +2

    One rule I have for myself to help with more conscious consumption is to never buy something to cover up an insecurity, or rather to never let a company profit off of my insecurity.

  • @metasymphony
    @metasymphony Před 2 měsíci

    I agree with all these things! Also wanted to mention that proper skincare (not trendy or expensive), especially sunscreen every day, works better to make my skin look healthy than botox did anyway.

  • @film9491
    @film9491 Před 4 měsíci

    I don't know about the wool ones, but I have had rubber dryer balls for years and they reduce static

  • @andrewhannah4331
    @andrewhannah4331 Před 4 měsíci

    I use eco egg laundry egg, it's little beads inside an egg,you pop in with every wash ,no need for softener , you get 70 washes for each pack of beads, great for sensitivity, it only costs about seven pounds, i have been using mine for about six months now. I have excema and it's good for me.

  • @neurolotte2406
    @neurolotte2406 Před 4 měsíci +1

    I actually can't think of a single category of item I wont be buying this year. All I intend to do is keep doing what I did last year (that is actually a suggestion you gave in a video some time ago): when I feel I need to buy something, let it rest for ten days or so instead of going out and buying the thing immediately. It is unbelievable how this trick reveals what is actually necessary.
    Also, not completely related to this topic but this year I'll do the shameless thing and decide with my friends what we are going to give each other as a present for birthdays, Xmas etc... Enough with the too many sweets/shower gels and beauty lotions (in plastic, ofc).

    • @sustainfem
      @sustainfem Před 4 měsíci

      Oh, how I wish my friends would do this for presents! I did ask them to donate to a food pantry or animal shelter instead of giving me physical gifts, but they will not listen. One of them gave me a plastic "champagne" bottle that had even more plastic inside encasing 8 tiny nail polish bottles. I had to literally cut them out of the bottle and the hard plastic was cutting my fingers. At this point, I don't know how else to get them to avoid giving me items encased in plastic, lotions, etc.

    • @neurolotte2406
      @neurolotte2406 Před 4 měsíci

      @@sustainfem what a terrible present! Why would anyone even think of a product like that?!? I really hope you'll manage somehow to convince them 🤞

    • @micivalantincic8227
      @micivalantincic8227 Před 4 měsíci +1

      We agreed to no gifts with all the friends. Only for bdays and only sent links to what you need. If someone sais I don't need anything we respect it. It takes so much preasure of

    • @neurolotte2406
      @neurolotte2406 Před 4 měsíci

      @@micivalantincic8227 that's a great idea, too!

  • @ZoeMikelStites
    @ZoeMikelStites Před 4 měsíci

    In relation to the candles I’m curious about the impact of things like matches vs lighters etc as well

  • @lauracanna2201
    @lauracanna2201 Před 4 měsíci

    So many things we have in common that I won't be buying either❤. The only thing I bought recently, though, was a fridge container for my cheeses. I was fed up with having them spread on the shelf, and they were taking lots of space. Instead, now when I want cheese, I just quickly and easily take my container out ... så det så 😂

  • @jasonmuffin7898
    @jasonmuffin7898 Před 3 měsíci +1

    About mistery boxes, the ones for pets can be very good. That way you can switch up the enrichment for ur pets. Because pets can't go online and choose what they want to play whit:)

  • @CharlesCayton-vz2hd
    @CharlesCayton-vz2hd Před 4 měsíci

    Thanks for your video

  • @Lolaistoolate
    @Lolaistoolate Před 4 měsíci

    hey gittemary,
    is you're gourmet book going to be published in english as well? it looks so good and it's one thing i would love to buy this year ;)

  • @KS-jf2jf
    @KS-jf2jf Před 4 měsíci

    Awesome list! I will not be buying brand name groceries as much as possible and any fiod product that is overpackaged as much as possible.

  • @shalae96
    @shalae96 Před 4 měsíci

    I have been using the same hydro flask since 2018 it’s banged up it has stickers from all over and I love it has survived fire and I have managed to no lose it I also have some other hydro flasks and yetis all different sizes but mainly because they were either gifted to me or I had them for specific drinks and sizes like tea and coffee but I haven’t bought a new cup in 4 years although a yeti was gifted to me this year. I use the same skincare for 2 years and keep it to a cleansing oil and a moisturizing oil and have lovely skin in my opinion minimal breakouts and even tone . I will admit though I love candles so that is something I do but (I am. It perfect lol) I use eco egg for my laundry and that is literally all I throw in with my clothes occasionally I will add baking soda or vinegar through

  • @pixymixy1980
    @pixymixy1980 Před 2 měsíci

    I too love repurposing jars for food and anything else storage. I used to save the large Spinach box containers to store my shoes in so they wouldn’t get dusty. Does anyone know what is a good substitute for the fabric softener? I don’t use it to soften my clothing g , I use it for the scent, but I’d be open to other scents ( just not patchouli). I’ve heard of people using essential oils with those wooly balls. Any other ways to make the items in the dryer fragrant ?

  • @shadowofthenorm
    @shadowofthenorm Před 4 měsíci

    For the wool dryer balls - I live in an apartment and the driers are terrible. I used to have to run the dry cycle 2-3 times to get my clothes dry. I started using the dryer balls and now its down to 1 cycle to dry. I dont think it needs to be a wool dryer ball, I feel like I could have used old tennis balls, but having items in their to fluff the clothes as it spins have significantly helped

    • @wiltedspinachcat3472
      @wiltedspinachcat3472 Před 4 měsíci

      u could try hang drying ur clothes on a drying rack inside and then just throwing in the dryer once they're already dry to dewrinkle. this is what ive done for 10 years, and it has helped my energy bill and helps clothes last wayyyy longer.

  • @agatevalta2936
    @agatevalta2936 Před 4 měsíci

    I really enjoyed your video! However there are few things from this list i have been wanting/need to replace something else. First, the Stanley Quencher. My mom gifted me a stanley thermos mug with a screw on lid more than 10 years ago and, while really beaten, scuffed up and wobbling on the table, it’s still going strong. However, i have an old starbucks thermos that has a broken lid, so it leaks and i can’t find a replacement or fix, so Quencher is something i’ve looking at for a long while to replace the poor little starbucks cup. Second, Skims. My closet is very small and i rarely buy clothes, especially for the summer as the summers here are sp short, so when i saw a dress from skims that i really like (that one maxi with spaghetti straps) i really had my heart set on it. It would also be perfect for my changing body as my wight tends to fluctuate. Third, an apple watch. I really didn’t like apple for many years, but the first iphone se that i have for five years already is the perfect size. Given that i am already in the apple ecosystem (i have a mb air too, always repairing stuff to keep my devices going) i decided i want to get a used older apple watch so it is compatible with such an “old” iphone to track my workouts and steps as i have gotten into working out over the last year to keep myself healthy. All of these choices have been thought out and reconsidered for months so i get the most use of my things. Everything else on your list i can completely agree on. Well thought out choices have the most lasting effect.

  • @ashamileswebster750
    @ashamileswebster750 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Thank you for this, amazing video (as always!)
    I've only just heard about the Stanley Flask trend and I'm just horrified by it, I thought one flask was supposed to last decades and be practical and well-used, not trendy!

    • @Gittemary
      @Gittemary  Před 4 měsíci +1

      those stanley cups will outlive all of us lol

  • @jennifershaw4756
    @jennifershaw4756 Před 4 měsíci

    I really enjoyed your thoughts on Botox. I'm 59 and my daughter is 36. We were having this exact conversation last week!

  • @tuesdaysbirdseed
    @tuesdaysbirdseed Před 4 měsíci +3

    I thought the dryer balls were to act as the softener in teh absense of liquid fabric softener! WUP.

  • @melanieschneider519
    @melanieschneider519 Před 4 měsíci

    I've recently seen a video on Eddy Bernays, and it has changed my way of seeing consumerism. I think my goal for 2024 would be to only buy things i really need. Which is probably harder than it sounds.

  • @amandaneale5180
    @amandaneale5180 Před 4 měsíci

    Loved video

  • @vegemitegirl1971
    @vegemitegirl1971 Před 4 měsíci

    As someone old enough to be your mother (my daughter is only a year younger than you) and is growing older naturally, I am loving listening to you talk about ageing gracefully. I've never had Botox or plastic surgery or any other procedures and am enjoying my uniqueness. Yes, I did have 1 plastic surgery at age 20, but we do not count that as vanity as it was to correct a big defect which affected daily life.

  • @4SHomestead
    @4SHomestead Před 4 měsíci

    I have a second hand Apple Watch Series 4. I’m using it until it break 😂 I mainly use it for work outs and to see the date/time. I have mine set up where only certain apps send me notifications. Also my iPhone and iPad are second hand

  • @MidnightMuse102
    @MidnightMuse102 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Wow … I was really mourning not being able to purchase candles on my No Buy this year but this information really helps. I really don’t understand all the ways fossil fuels are used especially in clothing. I don’t know how ready I am to research but I’m becoming more open to learning & asking for gifts from female owned small & sustainable businesses … but I fear I’ll need to get over the what feels daunting task of researching.

    • @Gittemary
      @Gittemary  Před 4 měsíci +1

      I completely understand how it can be overwhelming, if it helps, I have several videos that cuts the research time short. In the fashion/beauty playlist there is a pretty recent video about polyester impact, which might be a good place to start 🥰

    • @MidnightMuse102
      @MidnightMuse102 Před 4 měsíci

      @@Gittemary yes thank you 🖤

  • @LittleRedTeaCake
    @LittleRedTeaCake Před 4 měsíci +1

    I have several Hydroflasks; 2 I bought and the others my husband rescued from the Lost and Found at his work (they were going to throw them out!!!) One I bought it for water and the other is smaller and for hot drinks. I also bought a special straw top (which fits on all of them) because I know I am more likely to stay hydrated if there is a straw, just the way my brain works. And they're so expensive! As for Botox, only way I'm ever doing it if it gets recommended for my chronic migraines. I'm happy to show my age and what a privilege it is to get older! Pretty much everything you listed is something I will not be participating in. I am trying my best to make my tech last for as long as I can, because I am trying to get out of Apple's chokehold, however if my laptop bites it, I don't know if I would go secondhand because I have not had good luck with secondhand laptops (both Apple and PC), but that's just me. I have this thing about technology, my husband jokes that it just breaks around me because I'm an artist
    🤣

  • @susanritter2266
    @susanritter2266 Před 4 měsíci

    I have a second hand Apple Watch That I purchased through Mac of all trades, but it’s worth every penny. The features I use most are “setting a timer” and “locating my phone”, which I lose all the time!

  • @viivi4196
    @viivi4196 Před 4 měsíci +3

    on top of what you said, scented candles are even more dangerous to our pets (the smaller the lungs, the bigger the health risk for them) so pet owners, please be mindful about that!

  • @elbasset7214
    @elbasset7214 Před 4 měsíci

    When I was a teenager it was cleanser toner moisturiser that's it. So now I just clean and moisturiser. Sometimes serum because I like the feel but that's it. And in the daytime suncream

  • @leamariakiehlmeier2985
    @leamariakiehlmeier2985 Před 4 měsíci +2

    What about band-merch? I set my goal to only 3 Bandshirts in 2024 xD

  • @emmak4938
    @emmak4938 Před 4 měsíci

    I need to rewatch this before I go see the eras tour... I know I will feel the need to get a tshirt...