When Complimenting Your Date Massively Backfires! | First Dates

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  • Fred gives some advice on complimenting your date...
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Komentáře • 383

  • @livingbymottos
    @livingbymottos Před 6 lety +1504

    The backfire was so minimal it was hardly worth mentioning. He nailed it

    • @beckysfrefrr6712
      @beckysfrefrr6712 Před 6 lety

      Tom Batterbury I

    • @todd378
      @todd378 Před 5 lety

      Tom Batterbury mmmmmmo

    • @corpgov
      @corpgov Před 4 lety +5

      yeah, but did he nail her though?

    • @weavercs4014
      @weavercs4014 Před 4 lety

      @@corpgov you be asking the real questions dud

    • @80skid83
      @80skid83 Před 2 lety

      Was gonna say , hardly a backfire

  • @iamfrances3150
    @iamfrances3150 Před 6 lety +602

    I love awkward men. Not creepy. He’s genuinely seems sweet and can keep a date going

    • @Window4503
      @Window4503 Před 4 lety +6

      Well someone read too much into it. It takes two to keep it going. I’m not sure focusing on one person necessarily excludes the other.

    • @blademanx
      @blademanx Před 4 lety

      ROFL

    • @jonah8121
      @jonah8121 Před 4 lety

      B D calm down big boy

    • @sinki19841984
      @sinki19841984 Před 3 lety +1

      @@Window4503 There we go, it takes two to tango.

  • @smogz7023
    @smogz7023 Před 4 lety +649

    didn’t even backfire, let alone massively backfire, who wrote this lmao

    • @smithcodes1243
      @smithcodes1243 Před 4 lety +5

      Some dumbo employed by Channel 4

    • @MrAgmoore
      @MrAgmoore Před 4 lety +11

      Donald Trump’s speech writer.

    • @cdsmith1990
      @cdsmith1990 Před 4 lety +5

      @@MrAgmoore Fucking hell can we not go one day without shoe-horning that bloke's name into something completely unrelated?

    • @astrogeek4061
      @astrogeek4061 Před rokem

      you watched it and so did I. geuss the clickbait/ lie worked. it's unfortunate but that's how you get vies on youtube.

    • @Almsberg
      @Almsberg Před 10 měsíci

      These fucking clickbaits.

  • @NoMansSkyResources
    @NoMansSkyResources Před 6 lety +1106

    I think he did pretty well actually. Compliments are difficult to get right. He made a bit of a joke of it, which is a good thing. You don't want to be too serious about it, or you can come across as either taking the piss / not genuine or being creepy. He didn't take himself or his comments too seriously, which made it work.

    • @jayrod2536
      @jayrod2536 Před 6 lety +12

      Yeah I think she'd be doing herself a disservice if she did t atleast see him one more time in a more informal setting. That kind of place they were in can really work up the nerves, especially with those cameras in their faces

    • @oskarwinters1873
      @oskarwinters1873 Před 4 lety +3

      compliments about looks suck when you barely know the person.........guys please stop doing them. Compliment the persons passions, interests, motivations etc. Leave the compliments about the looks until the 2nd or 3rd date....and then don't mention the body, say 'i missed you, i missed your beautiful smile' a girl doesn't want to feel objectified.

    • @blademanx
      @blademanx Před 4 lety +1

      @@oskarwinters1873 complimenting looks is overrated

    • @ladistar
      @ladistar Před 3 lety

      Chakir Lemaalem damn lol savage

    • @ladistar
      @ladistar Před 3 lety +2

      Oskar winters sounds like a recipe for getting friend zoned

  • @frummel403
    @frummel403 Před 6 lety +247

    I thought it was cute. You can tell his intentions were good.

  • @chadgreenblatt9928
    @chadgreenblatt9928 Před 6 lety +735

    How did it backfire?? Clickbait

    • @wahmanwahman386
      @wahmanwahman386 Před 6 lety +2

      He made a joke and her jaw was about to drop off or her eyes going to roll out her face.

    • @jayrod2536
      @jayrod2536 Před 6 lety +3

      Yeah, I hate when they do that shit!

    • @StupendousJia
      @StupendousJia Před 6 lety +3

      Chad Greenblatt well the clickbait definitely worked

    • @SocietiesSlave
      @SocietiesSlave Před 4 lety

      Think it was the bum preference part

  • @TextbookBoxingGB
    @TextbookBoxingGB Před 6 lety +74

    He’s got such a child like enthusiasm

  • @Ohnogoblin
    @Ohnogoblin Před 6 lety +119

    Aw I actually think he was pretty charming

  • @lifeslessons9889
    @lifeslessons9889 Před 2 lety +33

    He was great .. he just opened his mouth from the heart and created innocent humour. Fumbling about verbally was hilarious. Well done 👍

  • @erichinkle7151
    @erichinkle7151 Před 4 lety +115

    I like his personality I think they would make a good couple.

  • @gyptsteria786
    @gyptsteria786 Před 6 lety +54

    Oh my gawd he's so cute, and she's so sweet! Stunning couple.

  • @thehoneyeffect
    @thehoneyeffect Před 6 lety +263

    It takes confidence to give people compliments, He just needs to improve his

  • @TaxEvasi0n
    @TaxEvasi0n Před 6 lety +283

    Where was the bit where it backfired? He seems like a mad fella! I'm a straight male and I was drawn in by his humorous charm.

    • @villanellepollastri8894
      @villanellepollastri8894 Před 6 lety +3

      sregi22 right?!?

    • @simonthewatchguy6073
      @simonthewatchguy6073 Před 5 lety +5

      If you were drawn in you don't seem as straight as you say bro hahahah

    • @rodbarrett2152
      @rodbarrett2152 Před 4 lety +5

      Your so gay.🕺

    • @void0350
      @void0350 Před 4 lety +8

      @Rob lmao gtfo with your bullshit. You just have to be genuine and dont care about the outcome. Thats all you need. He has a lot of charisma also so he is above average socially.

    • @aharonmizrachi440
      @aharonmizrachi440 Před 4 lety +1

      Lol your a fairy not a strait male

  • @ThePatriotIsMe
    @ThePatriotIsMe Před 6 lety +137

    When clickbait backfires...

    • @mikewright8625
      @mikewright8625 Před 6 lety +4

      ThePatriotIsMe I wouldn't say 179k views is a backfire

  • @qxponix589
    @qxponix589 Před 4 lety +26

    Yeah that’s why she’s uncontrollably laughing...

  • @crazedbabe1121
    @crazedbabe1121 Před 6 lety +34

    I would definitely go back on a second date. He seems like a good guy.

  • @callumjackson100
    @callumjackson100 Před 4 lety +8

    The fact that she was actually laughing and not awkwardly fake laughing says alot. Respect to my guy

  • @j2174
    @j2174 Před 4 lety +14

    I thought he did fine. He was endearing.

  • @marioelburro1492
    @marioelburro1492 Před 3 lety +18

    Bro killed it. I remember complimenting someone i met online and i told her she had good genes💀

  • @csonkaperdido
    @csonkaperdido Před 4 lety +30

    She was laughing.
    There was no "massive backfire"
    Who wrote this ridiculous click bait headline?

  • @tigershenanigans6878
    @tigershenanigans6878 Před 3 lety +8

    You can tell his heart is in the right place, but tangue just refused to cooperate 🤣

  • @carollothian4583
    @carollothian4583 Před 6 lety +31

    I love these two for each other

  • @lordofthechin89
    @lordofthechin89 Před 6 lety +614

    Waitress is hot.

    • @robertryan6782
      @robertryan6782 Před 4 lety +3

      @Rob Awful post for the insult and also for the af as prefer swearing outright 🤷‍♂️

    • @robertryan6782
      @robertryan6782 Před 4 lety +2

      @Rob Thsts not very Christmassy.

    • @robertryan6782
      @robertryan6782 Před 4 lety +4

      @Rob And its 'knobhead'

    • @s1050
      @s1050 Před 4 lety +3

      They’re smug, patronising attention whores.

    • @TheReesi73
      @TheReesi73 Před 4 lety +4

      Waitress is average looking! You need to travel more 👍😂

  • @baitedlol6972
    @baitedlol6972 Před 6 lety +37

    It failed but it didn't backfire. They both laughed it off

  • @dizh2581
    @dizh2581 Před 6 lety +41

    Actually this was really good usually we see when it’s not working or awkward but this was amazing and funny

  • @jackie5046
    @jackie5046 Před 9 měsíci +1

    I just love how authentic he is the fumbling is the proof of his sincerity. Charming.

  • @nialldillon10
    @nialldillon10 Před 6 lety +82

    Sounds like jimmy Bullard 😂😂

    • @sour_flower0
      @sour_flower0 Před 6 lety

      Niall Dillon this is weird bc my brother's name is Jimmy Bullard lmaooo

  • @nickmiller398
    @nickmiller398 Před 6 lety +173

    Omg she's absolutely stunning.

  • @TheCarlScharnberg
    @TheCarlScharnberg Před 4 měsíci +1

    "Technically curing cancer" is actually really clever if he meant it as a pun. Feeling like he didn't tho. LOL.

  • @yoloyolo9576
    @yoloyolo9576 Před 6 lety +39

    This guy is a nice lad

  • @nnnm4115
    @nnnm4115 Před 6 lety +50

    This guy was nervous as hell

    • @66kaisersoza
      @66kaisersoza Před 4 lety +4

      @Rich 91 then watch her attraction for you drop

    • @huna5923
      @huna5923 Před 4 lety

      @@66kaisersoza not really

  • @Nicole-rj4xz
    @Nicole-rj4xz Před 6 lety +2

    Love this show 💗

  • @aminamousa
    @aminamousa Před 6 lety +155

    I just noticed that she came out the toilet with her bag... yet.. when she arrived the bag was already at the table LOL. Sorry editing, bad call

    • @Nicole-rj4xz
      @Nicole-rj4xz Před 6 lety +5

      Amina Mousa
      Well spotted I wouldn't have noticed that lol

    • @tenagede4524
      @tenagede4524 Před 6 lety

      I had to go back to see it 🙈🙈

    • @justentertainingtv9686
      @justentertainingtv9686 Před 6 lety +4

      so this show is scripted?? smg

    • @CrackedTubeGamer
      @CrackedTubeGamer Před 6 lety +4

      Yes it's heavily monitored, you can't base a tv show off of two people having dinner. How do you think they have so many clickbait videos off of one simple tv show.

    • @Uouttooo
      @Uouttooo Před 6 lety +1

      How many time did she go to the toilet?

  • @shannonmarie9930
    @shannonmarie9930 Před 6 lety +4

    They look really good together, he's such a sweetie!

  • @RGY33
    @RGY33 Před 4 lety +37

    2:47 she's undressing him with her eyes

  • @mastercommander7969
    @mastercommander7969 Před 6 lety +2

    I loved these two!

  • @lovemecom3832
    @lovemecom3832 Před 6 lety +8

    Seems like they really enjoyed their first date and it also looks like they were comfortable with each other. I think he is a nice guy and the woman he was with was really gorgeous.

  • @janebaker4912
    @janebaker4912 Před 6 lety +514

    Daters who have children should date daters with children

    • @auroraborealis675
      @auroraborealis675 Před 6 lety +1

      Rigjy

    • @auroraborealis675
      @auroraborealis675 Před 6 lety +9

      Right*

    • @rachiesherlock8963
      @rachiesherlock8963 Před 6 lety +33

      Jane Baker not really the way the world works. I'm married and I had a child to somebody else and were are best friends totally irrelevant I had a previous child. Happy family xx it's the people not the situation of their life.

    • @ems8717
      @ems8717 Před 6 lety +3

      No we don't

    • @janebaker4912
      @janebaker4912 Před 6 lety +1

      Jana Roos no, we shouldn't have to, do you mean? Not picking on your English. I'm curious.

  • @ramnicgarcha9060
    @ramnicgarcha9060 Před 4 lety +4

    They suit each other soooo much!

    • @rogdawg123
      @rogdawg123 Před měsícem

      hello there beautiful 😍

  • @J040PL7
    @J040PL7 Před 2 lety +1

    That guy is probably the most genuine person ever, 0 filters whatsoever, he's like a 5 year old 🤣

  • @blissessentials524
    @blissessentials524 Před 4 lety +2

    Hes got a great outgoing personality. Hes funny and genuine.

  • @iThiink
    @iThiink Před 6 lety +3

    He's so sweet.

  • @hafsahussein365
    @hafsahussein365 Před 4 lety +3

    3:25 her bag in on the table and then she had it with her coming out of the bathroom... but then it’s on the table in the following shot? lmaooo who edited that bit 😂🤣

  • @mayondawn
    @mayondawn Před 4 lety +1

    the chemistry is there!!

  • @DiegoGonzalez-yn5hc
    @DiegoGonzalez-yn5hc Před 6 lety

    That turned out so much better

  • @DaveSHarris
    @DaveSHarris Před 6 lety +35

    She was quite lovely and he only opened his mouth to put his other foot in! :-)
    Love this show.

  • @telechubby2310
    @telechubby2310 Před 6 lety +4

    I hope they got together. He’s so sweet 😆

  • @antoniomark7745
    @antoniomark7745 Před 4 lety

    You walking away so beautiful!!... my man!!.. hahaha...wish him the best !!.. you can tell he is genuine and good guy....

  • @hannahblair7180
    @hannahblair7180 Před 6 lety +1

    He's so adorable

  • @slushpup5125
    @slushpup5125 Před 6 lety +10

    Is nobody gonna mention the fact Rylan is legit eating in the background?

  • @rheannamcauley8447
    @rheannamcauley8447 Před 4 lety

    They seem so sweet and suited ❤️🥺

  • @heatherthomson1118
    @heatherthomson1118 Před 6 lety +2

    Proud of the lad, he done well. Went about it the right way, said it the right way, wasn’t to serious, but was, everyone loves a bit of humour.
    10 points lad, fucking good son.

  • @StupendousJia
    @StupendousJia Před 6 lety +2

    Does anyone know how these two got on. Second date?

  • @scottandrewhorne4655
    @scottandrewhorne4655 Před 4 lety +6

    The geeza seem's a genuine fella back fired massively where was that then, that did not back fire massively she loved it. Good for him lol

  • @Raldazzar2
    @Raldazzar2 Před 6 lety +1

    she is legitimately beautiful. stunning eyes/smile.

  • @milliegoodwin3747
    @milliegoodwin3747 Před 6 lety

    What episode is this?

  • @newmie01
    @newmie01 Před 3 lety +2

    They make a lovely couple. He is awesome and she is gorgeous and funny. Perfect couple. Hope they got on

  • @anaguerrerosholisticwellbe2788

    "Walking away was beautiful" 😅

  • @peentfue4859
    @peentfue4859 Před 4 lety

    This guy has the best personality

  • @islaholbox7312
    @islaholbox7312 Před 3 lety

    I love these two... just beautiful

  • @hannahlundberg4351
    @hannahlundberg4351 Před 5 lety +3

    I had yet to find someone who blushes as bad as I do. Finally found him 😂 I thought he was sweet

  • @melissawright1979
    @melissawright1979 Před 6 lety +2

    I think he's a lovely guy x

  • @breakdancerQ
    @breakdancerQ Před 2 lety

    That was sneaky nice trick actually if anything. He didn't bluntly complimented her on it, but gave her the suggestion without directly saying it which made it come off well.

  • @donnabuttery9316
    @donnabuttery9316 Před 3 lety

    A lovely couple.....nerves maketh the man.....wish you both well 😊

  • @AngelWebby10
    @AngelWebby10 Před 6 lety +1

    OMG THIS GUYS IS ADORABLE I'd love to meet him

  • @TheBotwell
    @TheBotwell Před 4 lety

    They're both lovely

  • @darrenbyrne5345
    @darrenbyrne5345 Před 6 lety +1

    The mans a legend

  • @polina9466
    @polina9466 Před 6 lety +7

    He's absolutely hilarious! If she doesn't want him, I'll take his cute nervous ass. Edit: watched to the end, they seem so cute together!

  • @Hieroglyph777
    @Hieroglyph777 Před 4 lety +2

    He seemed like a sweet guy and she's a doll, maybe they got together or at least had an amiable 2nd date.

  • @NoDripp2
    @NoDripp2 Před 6 lety +1

    You made an effort today and it shows☠☠

  • @marykate2336
    @marykate2336 Před 3 lety

    Aww he's a sweetheart

  • @la-ia1404
    @la-ia1404 Před 4 lety +4

    The way he acts reminds me of Paulette from Legally Blond when she was trying to flirt with the UPS guy. "Could I be any more god damn spastic!"

  • @mds33483
    @mds33483 Před 10 měsíci

    back fired my arse, my man nailed the landing...

  • @strwberrysnail4322
    @strwberrysnail4322 Před 5 lety +2

    Did they stay together?

  • @clionawhite9180
    @clionawhite9180 Před 4 lety

    They must have mixed up the title on that one...

  • @arimax888
    @arimax888 Před 6 lety +2

    The title is misleading! He stumbled at the beginning but picked it up and they both laugh it off! I hope it worked out :)

  • @mattneillninasmom
    @mattneillninasmom Před 9 měsíci

    This was 5 years ago - where are they now?

  • @joannephillips6781
    @joannephillips6781 Před 3 lety

    He’s going to practice many times for a smooth delivery!

  • @pcharm3711
    @pcharm3711 Před 21 dnem

    00:36 her hair is so good looking!

  • @ann-mariedebrah2245
    @ann-mariedebrah2245 Před 6 lety +7

    How did it backfire???

  • @016162877
    @016162877 Před 4 lety

    Just great 😎 it's fun watching this show

  • @shaemurray2642
    @shaemurray2642 Před 5 lety

    Nothing needed to improve on. Guy is obviously really nice and his compliments are so goofy they make him funny, innocent and most of all a real guy. Natural is always best. We know and even she knows he means well.

  • @katelynrose7324
    @katelynrose7324 Před 4 lety +1

    Ok but like his whole performance was so attractive... 😄

  • @dannymerito6210
    @dannymerito6210 Před 4 lety

    He'd be a good friend to have..

  • @TheBuckbennyrides
    @TheBuckbennyrides Před 4 lety

    Im Canadian and wonder if my "accent" sounds as weird to people with "accents"?

  • @SamSGSDUMA
    @SamSGSDUMA Před 6 lety +3

    lol He's turning SUPER red XD

  • @DJTXD123
    @DJTXD123 Před 2 lety

    Nice to see the postman from Afterlife got a date

  • @paalijay
    @paalijay Před 6 lety +1

    that was kinda adorable

  • @melissag.428
    @melissag.428 Před 6 lety +2

    Some guys are really sweet once you get past the awkward. lol.

  • @Loffacius_XVI
    @Loffacius_XVI Před 4 lety

    He's actually quite a nice guy

  • @ThomasBrawn
    @ThomasBrawn Před 6 lety

    "hate to watch you go but love to watch you leave" kek

  • @Jonathan01233
    @Jonathan01233 Před 4 lety

    So when did the compliment backfire ?

  • @claudebaron9525
    @claudebaron9525 Před 4 lety

    Man after this he must have sleep for 3 days straight, sure he was feeling like he just runs 5 marathons back to back. 😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @walkwithmeASMR
    @walkwithmeASMR Před 2 lety

    Omg I'm like him. I get nervous and feel "wired". Its so frustrating.

  • @GivMeUrGamerTag
    @GivMeUrGamerTag Před 5 lety

    That guy is naturally funny and he doesn't even know it

  • @deeluchrain3718
    @deeluchrain3718 Před 5 lety

    He is adorable

  • @rylanholland7294
    @rylanholland7294 Před 6 lety

    He isn’t awkward at all, he’s witty

  • @HassanAli-cb2ny
    @HassanAli-cb2ny Před 6 lety +1

    Where’s the back fitr

  • @TheEntryCode
    @TheEntryCode Před 5 měsíci

    "Back" fire hehe

  • @squired1238
    @squired1238 Před 6 lety +46

    This guy was always on Facebook live in roast my selfie claiming he owned loads of real estate and was a millionaire. Funny guy. What a clown.

    • @talavera180
      @talavera180 Před 6 lety +3

      what does a millionaire dress like?

    • @squired1238
      @squired1238 Před 6 lety +2

      Zoe x Yeah that's him and 😂😂 some of the girls on live actually were dribbling over him so he must of got a fair few. He is a beg though tbh.

    • @LoveYou-ol3dt
      @LoveYou-ol3dt Před 4 lety

      @boimackhead Lool wealthy people don't dress how you think.

    • @LoveYou-ol3dt
      @LoveYou-ol3dt Před 4 lety +2

      @boimackhead I didn't find him scruffy or a tramp at all. He could very well be a millionaire. I know millionaires who look worse than him. Multi-millionaires I know all dress modest. The most successful people are not flashy and are often lowkey.

    • @donbarzinitut
      @donbarzinitut Před 4 lety +1

      @boimackhead alot of them do.