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- Relive Maeve's abortion story as she finds strength in the other women around her and sees Otis show up for her as the support she needed.
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s2 is filming as we speak, for those asking
Can you tell us the approximate release date please? 🙏
I think they can't tell us exactly the release date of the season 2
Richie .R If they’re still filming they won’t know yet.
Netflix UK & Ireland tell us at least what motnh it’s gonna be ready, I know you can’t explain us the day but at least the month please
YESSSS
"It's better not being a mom at all than being a bad one" This is so important
people should just put them up for adoption though
ᴋʜᴏʟɪᴏ but giving your child a life is better than just killing it in my opinion
Leah Robinson 🙄 it’s a clump of cells when it’s aborted it’s not even human yet. Plus she doesn’t have the money to do that (I’m on about Meave in the video, her options are limited) you can’t just put up for adoption like that it’s not that simple. And it’s the being pregnant which is hard at that age to handle. She has no money she would be tired all the time has to deal with everything on her own, can’t really study when pregnant, needs to go to school. Etc etc !!!
aexoticc not all people who get abortions are that young though
Leah Robinson I’ve already responded to you twice in this comment section but I’ll reiterate it again. Unwanted pregnancy and childbirth are traumatic. If you ever go through that (and I hope that you don’t because no one deserves to) I bet you’ll at least see why people get abortions.
"i have three kids and i feel way more guilty for the ones that i had than the one that i chose not to." this speaks a lot on the big issue on abortion
Yoi just focus on yourself
@SOptimus Neo in your opinion🤷🏻♀️
I don’t think it’s right how people are commenting saying abortion is wrong because it’s complex up to the woman and she is the one that is carrying the baby not anyone else , it should be her choice and only hers not some random person who doesn’t have a clue what she is going to have to go through😣. Just my opinion
Sam Cassley true. It's no my business what someone else wants to do with their bodies.
Ryujin's girlfriend what a great way to get your point across by calling people names and being immature :)
Maeve was just standing there waiting for Sarah to give her the vanilla mousse in return.
i was waiting for that too
you're not wrong
I was waiting too lol
Yeah...I was quite disappointed
Ikr. I was waitingggg
4:58 "you waited" was such a beautiful moment....Otis was there for her, waited even though earlier on she told him to go. I think this was the moment Maeve started to like Otis, not forgetting the hug they had at the end of the episode
Which episode is this ? I'm sorry i forget
Ayam Panggang season 1, episode 3 :)
Yeah really 😍😍
@@bridge3793 really?
I loved how otis went there expecting a date, but realized the situation , he took the supportive friend role, didn't got mad, didn't ask questions. He just supported a friend in a difficult time and did not expect anything ( romantic/sexual)in exchange from her as a reward for it, cause that is what friends do. That's what a real nice guy is. And not those who call themselves "niceguys"
"I don't like chocolate"
"Everyone likes chocolate"
"... not me"
sick мαrcø to be fair I had a friend that didn’t like chocolate at all
I also don’t like chocolate
I respect people who don’t like chocolate but I will never understand how. 😂
edit: um, it’s been a year- yeah i don’t like chocolate now uhm.. anyways character development
So deep 😭😭
I don't like chocolate
I just realized the reason why the other woman was crying was because of the nurses' comment saying there'll be chocolate the next time she comes. Implying that she'll be having another abortion soon enough...
Yeah that was rude af
i mean she had already gone more times so she deserves it, it is ok to abort one time but to abort repetedly just because you dont want to wear a condom?
@@daniellr8509 you know that condoms do break from time to time, right? There is always a chance of unplanned pregnancy everytime you have sex, even with protection. It takes two to make it happen, so stop blaming women for accidental pregnancy.
And the woman in the scene had 3 children to support at that moment, so she chose abortion in order to take the best care for those that she already had. She was setting her priorities straight.
@@tessielee21id thats not the point, of course accident happens and thats why is totally understandable to abort one or two times at the very much, but more of 2 times???Either you are the the unluckiest person in earth with condoms or you just dont care at all and prefer to fuck without a condom just to abort some months later...Whit this said I understand your point, but the thing is not to abort cause you had an accident, the thing is if you arent careful and you dont care at all about aborting...
@@daniellr8509 the woman in this scene has at least 1 pretty mature child, which means her abortions could have taken places over the course of years. It's very unlikely for a woman to be able to have sex until at least a month or two after an abortion because she will constantly bleed. But the most important thing is that woman chose what she thought would be best for her living and aborted children. No loving mother wants their children to be borned into hardship.
Unplanned pregnancy indeed happens more frequently than you think. I personally know people (not one person) who have unplanned pregnancy even when they use multiple methods of protection. One of them have several unplanned pregnancies and miscarriages so it definitely can happen more than 1 or 2 times. The point here is not every woman has the same privileges and a good system of support to have a new baby, so unless you are the father and willing to give the best care for them both, you can't decide what is the best decision for them.
"- You waited
- Of course" ... My heart 💓
this series is romanticizing us with the idea of abortion, THAT SUCKS!!!!
@@analizandoybailandoconmarc4611 I don't think that's the idea of the scene. He waited for her because she's going through a hard time. women usually are criticized for doing this and otis isn't doing that, he's supporting her decision.
@SOptimus Neo geez why so much anger calm yourself down. Besides, there is NOTHING wrong with abortion as a decision made very consciously.
Analizando y Bailando con Marc Romanticises????
SOptimus Neo she didn’t bring it upon herself, it take two to tango you know, and also what emotional stress is she causing him, he wasn’t stressed out at all, he was just being a good friend, she was the one that was dealing with emotional stress
that is the best representation of abortion for young girls on tv i’ve seen so far; better than what 13rw and euphoria did.
Euphoria did it better, in a more artistic way
Nah, euphoria and sex education did it the best
@@station_77 artistic way, yeah, but its not comforting at all; euphoria is great at making you feel bad tho and sex education makes you feel good. and real.
i e t i s but it’s not really comforting in real life. It’s rather traumatic
MadMady but you should tell young girls that it’s ok to make this decision, you’re not evil or a terrible human being if you decide to do an abortion and keep on living your life, because maybe you’re not ready to have a baby yet, maybe you wanna live for yourself first and that’s ok. yes, abortion should be sad but representing it on tv has to show the good side of the process, not the traumatic and disturbing ones.
honestly i miss the times when the only teen drama we’d get were the disney channel things. now everything’s so dark, depressing, and sex education seems to be the only one rn which is so light and not making you slip into that dark place (as euphoria and 13rw does)
I think pregnancy is a beautiful thing and that bringing someone into the world is something any woman should be proud of. But at the same time if you're not ready then you're not. That doesn't mean that she can never have a baby or that she's killing her child. It just means that she knows that she's not ready to raise a child and doesn't want to bring it into the world and then abandon it. It's a actually an incredibly mature thing for a teenager to do.
WØLFIE Yo nobody was talking to you. Trust me.
@@wlfie950 who asked
WØLFIE the only thing you have to be proud of is remembering your onlyfans password.
@@andreisdead2830 she said woman. yes she was talking about her
@Ashika Raj had us at the start ngl
The depth of the woman's character was just mind blowing. Even though her screen space is so little she still showed so many layers within her. Like how she she tried to make the both girls laugh in such a painful situation. And how it reflected on her own experience before.
I adored this episode because of her. Making people smile in painful circumstances is a great gift.
I hoped we could have seen more of her in the show. I like how it shows that even though she was getting an abortion, she was still a loving and supportive mother figure. First because of how her daughter was supporting her and second because of how she made two young girls a bit less afraid of this difficult situation.
I loved that even though she showed she was used to the process, it was still too emotional for her and she cried. Kinda great representation of the whole situation to show both the good will behind it, and the struggle it still creates.
Character?
Yes, she was a character, not real, it's called acting, with emotional music in the background.
Why do you like being scammed so much?
@@malachi- What an unhinged comment lol
I thought she was Margot Robbie weirdly enough
Julia Taunton-Clark she looks so much like herrr
@@JadeLynne same facial structure and hair
I learn after finishing the show that she wasnt margot robie
I think that all the time
Same here
I love the fact that this serie shows the process not as something “bad” or “dark/scary” like sometimes in movies or other tv programs, they showed as it is : something that if you do in the right place and at the right moment should not be dangerous or bad, in my country this still being ilegal and see that in other countries you have the option for a well planned abortion gives me hope
@SOptimus Neo Gosh get a life, safe abortions on proper terms are AS MUCH important than issues like hunger 😑😑
SOptimus Neo Did I even said that I prefer abortion over the things that you mentioned? Come on, you bring different topics to try to shade my opinion✌🏻
sasaazn Amen
@SOptimus Neo funny, because people having unwanted kids is the mais cause of the thing you're mentioning. I live in a country where abortion is ilegal, and I know what I'm talking about.
@SOptimus Neo What if the child's life is at stake?? There are a lot of women who get pregnant and have to do an abortion because they don't have the money to mantain a child. Having a child is something you need to be prepared for, and a lot of women who get pregnant on accident are NOT prepared for it.
Please just think about them, they go through a really hard time making this decision and it's not their fault. A lot of them just didn't have the proper education to know better or maybe they were sexually assaulted, you never know what could've happened to them so please have some empathy.
And sorry if I made mistakes writting this, english is not my first language.
This scene depicts a young woman making an incredibly difficult decision. She struggles. Given the circumstances she made the right one for her.
And that’s that.
Edit:
To anyone reading this: pro-choice is exactly what it sounds like. If you personally believe abortion is wrong and don’t want to get one, then don’t get one. That’s your choice. But you do not get to choose for other people. That’s not your place.
yeah, username checks out
Yeah she chose to murder her baby
Dshulgs that’s unnecessarily negative
Dshulgs and so?she did what she had to do
kalifornia oconnor it’s the truth
The way she whispers ‘not a word’ and he smiles like he wasn’t going to anyways just melted my heart 💖💖 oml I love Otis and maeve
This is what I've seen; Sex Education represented abortion in a realistic and accurate way, Euphoria showed it in an artistic way and 13rw in a dull way, I think.
In my opinion, this show and Euphoria did it great, and 13rw is my least favourite, thank you for coming to my TEDtalk
Vicky the Ted talk part was so uneeded bro
@@Crystal-sl3oo lmao
13rw is my favourite show after ST
Your right, but they dont show what happens afterwards, which is sucking up your uterus and its actually painful and causes problems in the future. The baby fights for its life and is dismembered into a tube
@@quinnlindden4919 it's not a baby, it's a fetus which doesn't feel pain and doesn't even know it exists
This makes me think of my neighbor, a 14 year old girl who got pregnant, abortion wasn't a choice according to her family, cause God would punished them if they did that, that's what they said, so she had the baby, it's been like 1 year from that and that poor kid is almost abandoned, cause the girl doesn't care for him, and the family has their own business. This is why abortion should be an option...
Don’t abort the baby just give it up for adoption
@@JDG-hq8gy but then the baby will live most of its life wondering why it wasn't wanted. Pro-lifers generally dont give a fuck about what happens after birth, they're not pro life at all really, they're pro-birth. There are enough homeless and unwanted children in the world, so why add to it? Besides even if it's not legal, women will find another way to get rid of the baby which could end up hurting them.
@@xorose641 exactly they don't give a fuck about the baby
And why not give it up for adoption?
that's also a good option
YO SOY HUMBER that is not a good option. There are already millions of unwanted children in the foster care system so why add to that. Why force someone to continue with a pregnancy and have them ruin their body to push a baby out that they don’t want and quite often no one else will want either. Why force a woman that has been raped to push out her rapists child just so a pro-lifer can feel better about themselves. Why force another child to push out a baby. I’m not pro-abortion, I’m pro-choice and forcing someone to push out a baby they don’t want is taking away the choice.
"It's better not being a mum at all then being a bad one"
Underrated af line.
@Sylvester Steel millions of children are in adoption centres because someone decided they wanted to put their children they planned there . Abortion is a right and should be allowed for all women. Some women get raoed and the result is trauma and an unwanted child. You dont have to agree with it but allow women to have access to abortion.
i feel like the child should have a say in that- i would still want to live, even if i had a bad mom- doesnt that discredit millions of people? i think all life is important (:
@@zoebluer2099how could a sperm and ova fusion say something. Unless its mature and hve developed brain then its the problem but before it u should always have the right to stop it from coming .the baby isn't at all conscious before getting brain so it would not feel pain.
@@timepassscript that doesnt mean it is still not a human. being born into poverty does not make humans less important than us (: everyone deserves the chance of life and i will always fight for that
@@timepassscript also- some babies are left to starve to death. some babies are sunctioned by a vacuum, and some babies are taken apart- while alive. there are actually videos of babies trying to get away from the pliers that take them apart. sorry to be so gruesome, but its true, and its heartbreaking.
I don't know if everyone agrees with me. But this is like the saddest scene of Sex Ed. I cried lol, because I've felt the emptiness of hospital rooms and the feeling of doing something that you feel like you should and shouldn't do. Also, their reactions are realistic af.
I cried too. I'm a dude and still not sure how can I find a way to relate to this scene lol
I didn't that much since I'm against abortion
@@user-jp3yq8my4i Stick your head out of your ass!
@@user-jp3yq8my4i You can't kill something that never was alive.
@@user-jp3yq8my4i Like I said, you can't kill something that ain't alive. Also, hopefully you're adopting kids and are pure vegan, if you care so much about a fetus.
And the fact that the song of the Smiths is playing is even more sad
what is the title of the song?
@@belsdacumos asleep
@@adrianamarques656 thank you so much!
I used to listen to that song when i had really bad deppression
@@adrianamarques656 thank you i'm better now
y’all remember how this happened and then it was not spoken of for the rest of the season
Well frankly i think they didn’t mention it because few people know of what happened, only Otis and Maeve do and Otis is a good guy and he could obviously tell that Maeve doesn’t want to bring it up. They did this storyline very well with how she feels and how realistic it is
That was the best part. To not stretch it further and to end it then and there. Like maeve says 'its been a shitty day'. Thats about it. Its just that particular day and its time to get back
why it should be spoked?
Not in season 2 either
So... like real life?
What's everyone's opinion on the comment at 3:03 ? I think it was a really shitty thing to say but I haven't seen other people talking about it really?
I agree that was kinda sly.
Disrespectfull and rude are two words that describe that comment perfectly
What did she say?
@@sheeshman2319 she said (the nurse): "maybe it'll be chocolate the next time you're here"
Laura Plata Oh so she mean that she will probably be back. Damn, yeah that is mad disrespectful...
"maybe there will be a chocolate one, next time your here." i found that insanely rude (3:03)
Sure, 1 in 3 will come back.
She murdered her baby and that comment bothered you
That was hella rude yeah. Everytime I heard this line coming from the nurse I'm like "go to hell".
As a nursing student, it’s so hard to see nurses portrayed like that. Not saying there aren’t crabby, bitter, rude nurses... I just think so many more would have tried to go out of their way to help instead.
@@marafranklin6205 I understand what you feel. My parents are both doctors. I'm glad to know that you want to be a better nurse that that one portrayed. And that good nurses also exists.
I wish all girls and women in the world could have access to safe abortion.
No
I wish that too
Oliver gay
Me too
abortion is like murder though.
5:01 oml that’s the lil boy from the “the boy in the striped pajamas” movie. he’s so grown now wth
samantha n’drihin whatta hell?! Thats him?!
Aila DiCaprio yes ma’ma 😭
I knew that was him
oh! that’s where he’s from! thanks, i couldn’t pin em. xD
samantha n’drihin You’re not a doctor you peel potatoes
I'm literally a failed abortion and still support Abortion. There's no excuse for hating on people for doing what they want to their bodies.
i support abortion too. No kid, specially Disabled, deserves a life full of Ableist abuse.
*sobs*
ayyyyy
why? they killed an innocent human
@@leah.5739 girl,,, 🤡
Fernanda Herrera what?
The most meaningful part of this scene was to show that not only teenage girls have abortions, there are also many women for their own reasons, some of who are mothers that also have abortions. This show normalised something which is highly stigmatized and hidden even in western open-minded culture.
1 in 3 will have an abortion again.
Nobody’s talking about how the child’s father was Jackson’s ….
@@aj8124 I don’t get it? But that is weird to think Jackson could’ve been a father lol
Oh yeah normalize murder
Yeah they Normalised murder, how amazing! Cheers to that😩!
This show handled this beautifully. Nothing pretty about it, but nothing shameful or gratuitous about it either. I would never personally get an abortion, but that's the thing about being pro-choice. You're not obligated to go out and get an abortion or even say that abortions are super great awesome experiences. It's that you support that they are the tough but right decision for some people, and that's enough of a reason to keep them available for those people. You never know someone's story, the reason behind why they do what they do, and it's a shameful thing to ever frame abortion as an "easy answer."
exactly. everyone thinks pro choice means pro abortion but it means you want women to have the ability to CHOOSE for themselves
@@madelynkellyy there do seem to be people who are actually pro abortion. Pro choice (first trimester) is kind of a middle ground.
@@chesterdonnelly1212 nope it should be done any time
@@tajkiachoudhury6932 no not when the baby is viable. That is then infanticide.
“Nothing pretty about it, but nothing shameful” That’s a very truthful way of looking at things, I like it. Many women, either pro-choice or life. tend to forget that.
it's mind boggling how majority of films and series treat abortion as if it doesn't even exist. I'm glad that this series not only covers it, but also represents it so better.
Yes
Yeah it’s something that really bothers me. Network shows in particular treat it as a non-option.
@@TheAwesome45 I agree.
It didnt show the innocent baby being killed
@@mildass6173 no innocent baby existed to be shown. it was barely a foetus at that point. I have seen it first hand and it just looks a big blob of blood, that's it.
The fact they used "asleep" is just
Right?!?!
I cried bc of this song
@@user-jp3yq8my4i Are you planning to scold everyone in the comment section? I don't know what it says about you.
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Abortion is an important medical procedure that needs to be accessed by everyone everywhere. It’s a medical right.
As a woman I strongly believe that abortion should be illegal.
@@donnadouglas8498 that’s too bad
Yess! Murder is an important medical procedure. That needs to be accessed by everyone. Lol
@@nyambsdeborah8954 You are 100 percent right and people have been brainwashed.That murder is a right and is needed.
@@donnadouglas8498 anyone with a slight inkling about basic medicine should understand that it is not murder as that needs to be a sentient being but I’m not going to argue with an old woman. Chances are someone you know has had one and you should carry on with your OWN life. Next!
1:12 Maeve is usually so feisty but here we can see she has to hand over control to others. She looks so insecure and makes you want to take her in your arms and cuddle her lovingly..... :-))
Otis the real MVP
this scene is so realistic, when you doing an abortion you know something doesn’t feels right but this choice is for the best, and it very sad to doing that, and i also think maeve doing the right not telling jackson, in maeve perspective jackson is in the right path, his future probably bright and she doesn’t want to destroy that by telling him she was pregnant.. and also why whenever the smiths playing i always cry lmao
I find it awesome that he or whoever that boy was waited for her like usually a guy wouldn't do or be there for a women
None of this pro-life vs pro-choice stuff would've happened if teens didn't have sex in highschool. Do it when you're married!
@@timtam3730 You can still have unwanted pregnancy when you're married...not everybody wants to have children.
@@stephkaluza I said sex, not unwanted pregnancy because when you're married you're more financially stable and can afford things like birth control. Plus you'd also be more mature and can think things through properly, unlike teens who are always living in the now without thinking of repercussions and are alway getting controlled by their emotions.
@@timtam3730 no birth control is 100% effective. So, no matter what your martial status, age or financial situation is, anybody can find themselves with an unwanted pregnancy.
Why she look more like Margot Robbie than Margot Robbie herself-
Especially from the side as well
That doesn’t make sense.
To all those people who think abortion should be illegal
It's not your choice to make whether someone should have a child or not
If they're ready for it then they can have it.
And it's better to abort than giving a tough life to your child. No one wants their children to suffer.
Would you rather have a tough life or no life at all?
@@JDG-hq8gy as much I want none. I'd go with tough. But that doesn't mean you bring a child into this world even though you don't want to.
Not every parent will be affectionate to their child after giving birth in case of an unplanned pregnancy. They'll either grow up in an abusive (mentally or physically) or they'll left to live on their own or given up for adoption.
A fetus is an unborn baby inside mothers body who is alive, and we shall not kill that kid just because the woment wants to, not her body, not her choice.
Szymon Gawłowski instead it should ruin the mother’s life and starve? The whole point it the mother can’t provide for it
Szymon Gawłowski try putting yourself in her situation
Or any person who doesn’t want a child
Imagine being a 16 year old with an unplanned pregnancy
Would you really go through with it
Bearing a child will risk her life and the baby’s
She’s not ready for it
And no
It is her body. Her choice
Maybe you will want to be a parent at the age of 16
But not everyone is
That child is better dead than to let it live a life where they know they’re unwanted
I just remember crying through mine at the age of 15. My 23 year old boyfriend was embarrassed and just kept telling me to stop crying. I cried all the way home. It hurt, I didn't want to do it, and I was so lonely. I still think of my baby
It's OK sweetie, you did nothing wrong 💐 I hope you feel better now.
@@Booksandstrawberries well, she did. Otherwise she would not have felt this way.
@Sadie Mezzo ik I reread that 3x because I hoped that I was missing something. Tf????
Nasty older men taking away the one thing that is the most precious to you
And then say it's ridiculous to cry about perhaps the most important thing you'll ever lose
They are so truly disgusting. I understand your pain lets just thank God we didn't give then disgusting fathers
@Sadie Mezzo yes, looking back I can see everything wrong with that age gap. Unfortunately, many adults in my life supported the relationship because he had a good job. It made things very confusing
I can't believe that Sex Ed managed to pull this off
i can only wish we have this kind of safe abortion in our country too :(
same in my country :( I'm from Mexico.
Shouldn't be a thing
@@soupo5520 should be why don't you adopt 6 plus children
@@tajkiachoudhury6932 abortion is wrong lol
@@soupo5520
Cool. Go out and adopt kids then bud.
You think those fetus should develop into humans and be born you fucking raise them. Nah that would require putting your money where your mouth is.
Abortion is an incredibly tough decision. And it’s intensely personal. No one but the woman whose pregnant should have any fucking say in it.
I like how Netflix is opening to abortion because it gives mothers another choice. It's their body, and they're the one carrying the baby so let them decide
asmr maskoo EXACTLY TY
απρόσωπη omg I keep seeing you comment on videos about abortion. This is something you can’t control and if you have a problem just IGNORE it
απρόσωπη why did you delete your comment 😂 are you that scared
asmr maskoo TY🥰🤍
απρόσωπη CAN YOU STOP COMMENTING THE SAME THING BRO
THIS scene changed my perspective on abortion. I was against it until I watched this and put myself in her shoes. And I understood her decision completely.
Until what point you support killing a human being inside the womb ?
@@user-jp3yq8my4i I believe it's in the 10th week that the bunch of cells in your uterus become developed enough to be considered "life", so I think before that point. People obviously shouldn't remove 5-month pregnancies because the baby is already too developed. Before 10 weeks it's just a lot of undefined cells.
@@user-jp3yq8my4i It's not killing a human being. It's not a human being until about 2 months and a half in. If it's not conscious, it's not alive. It's closer to a tumor than a baby at that point. So "killing a human" doesn't apply.
A human embryo/fetus is always a human being and abortion is killing that human being. All the bullshit you wrote show the infinite stupidity and ignorance of proabortions.
@@user-jp3yq8my4i You're the very, very ignorant one here. It's not a human until later in the pregnancy, but how can thousands of doctors and experienced professionals compare to you, right? Such idiots they are, dedicating decades to study, because you're the genius. Lmao. But you do you. I'm not forcing you to have an abortion, just don't get in the way of people who do. It's their bodies, and I bet all the money in the world that you don't give a shit about babies after they're born. You only care about "human beings" when they're a bunch of mediocre cells that don't even account for a living thing. When they're born and abandoned, killed, or put into adoption just to spend a lifetime of injustice and usually resorting to crime you don't raise a goddamn finger to help. Instead, you lock your car doors when they beg you for money in the streets. So please, stop with the bullshit.
0:30 every other girls laugh vs my laugh
r/imnotlikeothergirls
JustAMaddie crap I was gonna do that
When I first started watching this series by the title I was just expecting some typical quirky teen comedy, but I heard so much about it and thought I’d give it a watch, I’ve only just finished getting through the first season and all I can say is that it’s honesty one of the best series’ I’ve ever watched, it tackles real serious issues in today’s society with sex and relationships etc but also the heavy issue with abortions
Huge props to all cast and crew cause everything they do is just perfect
Here you know what will fix everything? Nonmarital sex should be illegal.
@@eliasziad7864 We're not in the middle ages there buddy, grow up
@@dorkywhovian1018 There's nothing good about sex. It's just a few minutes of pleasure followed by days or even years of regret.
@@timtam3730 that sounds more like a personal and unhealthy relationship with sex
@@andreaf8404 Well that's exactly how most abortions happem. People just don't take sex seriously enough to bother practicing it safely. I'm not against sex just the culture we built up around it that celebrates irresponsibility.
Remember a scene in season 2 when the girls were trying to find something they had in common and one of them said “There must be something we all like! Chocolate?” And Maeve said No. And then here at 3:25 she says she doesn’t like it so the lady gets the mousse! Cute little link. X
Becca Ruth I noticed that too!
I understand why she said she didn't like chocolate so she could give her the mousse but I don't understand why she continued to insist she didn't like it even though when her brother makes her pancakes she says she wants chocolate chips on them. Thought that was a little weird. It was probably so the girls could find some actual common ground that was deeper than chocolate but the incontinuity annoyed me lmao
Never experienced this, but they portrayed it feeling so safe, i wish every woman who chooses to go through abortion has an experience like this
That relief in Maeve's eyes when she saw otis and said "you waited"😍😍😍
4:55 Nothing can top that scene. One of the most romantic scenes I've ever seen, and they're not even kissing. That's real chemistry...
btw this is my favourite episode from the series.
The thing that makes me shudder is the fact that pro-birth people only see women as incubators with no right to bodily autonomy
The short haired woman is someone I wish I had in my life
Me too
It's all the little scenes that are so emotional and beautiful, like the way Sarah supported the others before the abortion.
Cat
It's better not being a mother too young than being an awful mother too young
The way the topic was exposed was so beautiful, thank you for this scene 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻
“We think there will be a chocolate one next time you’re here” that was such a cold and disrespectful line
This show is so awesome! It's very funny and smart but it shows us so much more what people are afraid to talk about. It shows us so many different perspectives and how it is possible to respect everyone's boundaries and story. So beautiful
This is like one of the things that easily makes me cry, both the beginning and after when the woman starts crying.
This scene feels so real and so raw. Also the song choice is really good.
oh lord, I was about to get an abortion but had a miscarriage a day before. it was so painful mentally, emotionally and physically.
I’m so sorry about your miscarriage ❤️ best of wishes to you and I’m wishing you the best
@@Young4eva121 thank you :)
This clip randomly showed up in my feed and since then I’ve binged the whole show twice
I’m glad Netflix finally got it right
Cory Mackenzie-Gray 13rw right ?
I love this representation of abortion so much, she is grateful that she had the choice and she’s satisfied by doing it but that doesn’t mean the process isn’t hard
Exactly!
I imagine the procedure has changed in the 25 years since I had one. I’ve read a lot of comments about how realistic it was and I’m watching this thinking, no it isn’t. But then I remembered how long ago mine was. Married mom of 2 little ones, birth control failure. I cried the entire time. From the moment I walked in the clinic til way after I left. There was no I.v. There definitely was no anesthesia. I was awake the whole time. Incredibly painful. I remember every bit of it. I am pro choice and I don’t regret it. I knew that we could not handle 3 children under 5.
You are so so strong for that. I can't imagine how difficult that must have been. You made the best choice for everyone.
@@Stella-ke7xb thank you for saying that.
You are strong always remember that. You are NOT a murderer.
@@kaylakuhl9340 thank you.
@@kaylakuhl9340 She murdered her baby because it was an inconvenience.
i’m so glad to not see any (or at least not many) negative comments on this. it’s really nice
watching this after roe v. wade was overturned is so fucking hard. imagine another timeline, where maeve couldn't get that abortion. imagine what her life would look like. oh my fucking god...
yeah imagine if her baby was not actually dead and got to experience life ikr
@@anthonia7930 It's not a baby it's an embryo. It's all about choice, it's your choice not to have one but I still want that choice. It is such a complex issue. I would not want to bring a baby into a financially unstable home that isn't mature enough or set up to give that baby the best possible life. If I was a teenager in this situation then I would make the same decision as Maeve. I think she is so brave and strong to do something so scary. You may not support her or others in this situation, but at least allow people to make a personal choice that is best for them and the potential baby. It my body and my personal choice.
Have some compassion for others and be proud that they are brave, braver than you and me.
Thank god it was overturned
it's neither brave nor a better choice to kill a baby rather than raise him/her in the x circumstances. You can believe whatever
@@anthonia7930 it’s all about choice. Allowing others the freedom to make the choice that is best for them. It is a choice no one wants to make but we all should have the option at least.
Thanks for making me cry again i appreciate it 😑😭
More than a year after seing this scene for the first time, I just watched S1 and S2 again, but this "You waited" quote is still very touching and so well played 😧
I know I am commenting really late but it is my cousin on the right in this scene 00:32 or around that time. I am so proud of her
Omg she's great
I love that this was light hearted show but they still managed to pull off these hard,controversial sad scenes perfectly as well
I have 3 beautiful children. I love my life, NOW. It took a couple of decades to get to an ok place in life and I'm confident in saying that I wish I was aborted. All the years of being abused, being passed from home to home in the care system, the crippling depression, self esteem issues, anxiety and disorders I have because I was born in a family that were ill equipped to raise a child just isn't worth it. A fetus doesn't know it's being aborted, but I knew everything that happened to me as a child.
This is incredibly powerful…and I know the world is better for you being in it.
This scene is one of most powerful & sincere scenes ever in any series.
You waited.. My heart melts on that scene.
After watching all 4 seasons, I realized that Maeve and older woman’s conversation here was showing the core of Maeve and her mother’s relationship.
Love this series on how it tackles real life issues and it feels so real
As a woman living in post-Roe v Wade America, where every other story on the news now is a woman dying due to being denied an abortion when she had a known medical complication, or children being raped and their lives and futures being destroyed because they couldn't get an abortion, this made me sob. I had to pause it and leave to recover.
I can't believe it's 2023 and women still are not allowed sanctity of their bodies. The other day I read a story on the news about a woman's cancer returning mid-pregnancy and she was denied cancer-treatment because she was pregnant and then also denied an abortion. She was able to flee to another country to get an abortion but her state was really going to let her simply die to cancer in the hopes she MIGHT live long enough to give birth. She's now being sued for fleeing to get a life-saving abortion. It's utterly sickening.
Not your body
Leftist brain rot.
"Post roe V Wade" as if it's an apocalypse 😂
Abortion is legal, and nothing is stopping you from getting one but go ahead and desperately hold onto your missing context fringe cases to use as proof that women do not have choices in this day in age. You're a handmaiden, how sad for you
Who's here after they made abortion illegal in United States? I'm crying
i was rewatching it and i cried seeing this scene.
love from croatia💔
I think all Mothers are pro-life, even if it's denied or deep down. Abortions or not. Maeve's combination of regret and circumstances plays both sides perfectly.
@@timanderson6005 you said that so perfectly
@@timanderson6005 not all, some of them have abortions too, besides being pro choice also means you allow others to have that choice even if you wouldn't do it
@@aaa5126 it's difficult to express such a complex thought properly so forgive me if I mispoke, but I totally agree. Pro choice does not exclude.
this was my favorite episode because the part when maeve said "you waited" and otis said "of course" It made me so happy and this episode is just the best for me.
Otis getting her a sandwhich and flowers is so funny lol
Beautiful acting and great storyline. Brilliantly chosen soundtrack
I'm so ready for season 2
I like how maeve has an external shell that is her protective layer but inside she is actually quite soft
This was SO DAMN powerful. It felt real and I wish the writers revisited this topic with a conversation between Maeve and her mum or even Maeve & Jackson.
Yeah same I always wanted to see how Jackson would have felt and reacted to it
people that don’t support abortion probably hate maeve because of this
Not exactly, I dont like abortions, I woldnt do it, but I dont think that you can jugde somebody for doing it you dont know her live, and if my best friend had an abortion I would support her even if I dont aprove her decision
I'm extremely pro-life and am against abortion in nearly every single case, but no, I don't hate her for this. Nor would I hate anyone who has had an abortion. I hate the act of abortion and the killing of innocent life, but I don't hate the women that have felt like they had no other options and I'm incredibly sorry for any women that has felt they needed to go through with an abortion. Things like this make me only want to try harder to help women and offer them more support and encourage them to keep the baby :)
@@amyj3692 if you don't like abortion don't get one, someone else's pregnancy/health is none of your business. stop sticking your nose in.
@@amyj3692 so you would encourage an 11 year old to keep her rap1st's baby? when she'd likely die in childbirth? doesn't sound very pro-life to me.
isobel equestrian I don’t know about your country but in my country we have rules to allow abortions on people who’ve been raped and got pregnant. They could end it because the cause for that wasn’t consensual. I’m pro life too and I don’t hate Maeve’s character, I think she’s very amazing, even this scene got me to tears. But I still think you should take responsibility for something that you did, sex. When you have sex you should be aware of what it could create, a baby. Even if you’re wearing contraception and it fails, you should still take responsibility for it. Maybe they weren’t alive or their heart hasn’t beat yet, but you’re still ending someone’s chance to live. Sure, it’s the mother’s body, but someone already has their human rights ever since they were in their mother’s womb. And one of every human’s basic right is to be able to live.
This scene was done so well
Love the slower version of ‘asleep’ at the end, sort of signifies the emotions, reflection & healings after 😌
This was so heartwarming im glad otis accompanied her and supported her helpung her get tru it
My mom almost had an abortion when she was pregnant with me. I wasn't mad or sad when she told me this. I understood that both my parents were not emotionally able to take care of a kid. My dad left and started a new family, who he also wasn't the greatest father too. My mom did her best, and i love her for that, but she did emotionally abuse me when i was in high school because she was going through a hard time mentally. Now, i have mental issues because of the abuse and genetics. I was in forster care for a short time, and i would not wish that on anyone. People who are saying just put them up for adoption dont realize who bad the system is and the abuse you go through. And i lot of kids dont get adopted. i know a lot of them are homeless, are on drugs , or have ended their lives because they dont feel like they belong anywhere. Of course, there are people who have been adopted into wonderful families and live a great life, but sadly that doesn't happen as much as we all hope.
OTIS’S LIL “Hi” GETS ME EVERYTIME HES SO CUTE
This storyline was so great. I loved it.
However
it was not great what Sarah did. Maeve handed over her chocolate mousse and I was waiting for Sarah to give Maeve the vanilla and she didn't. That is not good etiquette. 😠
Lol calm down 😂
Wtf😂😂😂
Same!!! I thought they were going to trade the desserts, but no!!! She ate all of them !!!
@@alexandraseminario Well according to Miss Sarah, vanilla isn't even a flavor. She probably just left it there for the staff to clean up.
This is the episode that really hooked me into this show
Is it season 1 or 2.. Which episode is this..??
I have read a few (luckily they were a few, I was going to be mad if the comment section was full of negative comments against Maeve and Sarah) comments saying that Maeve did this because it is the easy thing to do, the comfortable thing, rather than having the baby; and some other comments blaming Sarah for being a bad mother. And honestly, the only thing that crosses my mind is, have you actually watched the show? Because what I got from this scene(s) was not Sarah and Maeve exactly having a blast after aborting. They were exhausted, really fucking sad (idk how to put that feeling into words), the show did a great job portraying what you might feel after aborting, and from my point of view, they were not "comfortable and easy" .
So, if you are here saying that, and you haven't watched the show, go watch it and then come back. And if you have watched it and you are saying that, then maybe learn to have some empathy.
Doesn't mater. Sex means possible pregnancy. Get your tubes tied or dont spread your legs. It really is that simple. Take some freaking responsibility.
@@AnHeC shut the fuck up
@@AnHeC Get your own abortion instead of having an opinion about others'. Or don't have one - nobody cares. And please stop spreading your own damn legs.
They've captured this scene so beautifully ! I love it ...
I REALLY Need To Pay For My Netflix.
This makes me think of a story I read once. An 11 year old girl was brutally raped and got pregnant, but because her family disagreed on abortion she was forced to have the child. She ended up killing herself 10 months later. It was really heartbreaking to read
I am so upset now. That poor girl should have had the abortion
They imprisoned her for life in that rape moment,, she decided to leave life.
Maeve: You waited
Otis: Of course
This is wholesome❤
the "you waited" ALWAYS gets me!
desperately in need of season 2!!!
"Maybe they'll be a chocolate one next time you're here."
Who tf says that to someone?!
Ikr it's so rude like-
I’m assuming she had seen her there getting an abortion previously.
A bitch.
@@chesterdonnelly1212 it's still a really rude thing to say lol
@@aicul3658 well if she keep getting abortions she should expect people to be rude to her
AND THAT'S WHY MOTIS IS MEANT TO BE I'M LITERALLY CRYING
Watching this while desperately waiting for my period...
Mine came and i'm just glad about it.
weird flex but ok.
@@mariia099 you do know all forms of contraception have a failure percentage? Meaning even if you use protection it could still fail one way or the other, so is not as simple as that.
I am praying mines won't start so I can finally be a mommy after 7 months of trying to get pregnant. Wanting to be a mommy since forever and now 23 hoping to be finally pregnant 🤣 I don't use protection only condoms nor inject hormones into my body like birth control.
@@mariia099 not sure why you're assuming about whether or not someone's using protection... and then getting mad about that assumption... seems a bit unnecessary.
His "hi!" is the most adorable thing
0:41 the way that scene is recorded is so overwhelming for me