Don't Let Her Leave Islam
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- Support revert sisters in difficulty: www.solaceuk.or...
This is an artistic expression of one case study. Not all reverts' experiences are like this. SOLACE was established to help those who do face difficulties post shahaadah.
Since 2011 we have received 1000+ applications for support from revert sisters in London, UK cities nationwide and from countries all over the world such as Chile, USA, Canada, New Zealand, India, France, Germany, Sweden, Nigeria and the list sadly goes on.
The Support Scheme needs to expand to other areas nationally and internationally.
The Support Scheme provides support to revert sisters experiencing the following problems:
Abandonment by non-Muslim relatives upon entering Islam
Isolation and loneliness
Homelessness due to reversion
Emotional and physical abuse
Marital problems
Difficulties making changes such as wearing hijab, informing non-Muslim relatives of reversion
Doubts in faith and thoughts of leaving Islam
www.solaceuk.org
I am a revert to Islam lost all my family I believe deeply that Allah the all mighty has a reason for everything and a greater plan than no human can understand. We as humans have the right to question as we are merely humans but put your faith in Allah and he will always do what's best for you. A fine example I cried for 7years for my mother and Allah I feel wasn't answering my duas after 7years my mum has taken me bk and also allows my daughters to be Muslims. I believe if my mum came around any sooner it would have a massive negative affect on my kids and also my deen. Be strong my sisters n brothers as only Allah knows what is best for you and never burdens your heart and soul with too much only he knows how strong you are and makes that shine
sana ahmed Sorry Sister I am glad you are strong.
Amazing video, we hug reverts then never give them time or help.Then we expect them to be like Sahaba overnight when we don't behave like Sahaba ourselves. We give them all the rulings they MUST follow no matter what!! Why do we do this when our Prophet was so helpful and lenient towards reverts
One of the biggest problems is attitudes like some of those I have read in these comments. It is so easy to judge from the outside looking in. La hawla wa la quwatta illa billah. My respect to Solace. I share the organization's FB posts and will now also share the video and website as well, insha'Allah. #aSurvivor
My family tells me that I most come back and believe in father, son and holy spirit, God knows my heart and I pray for God to guide me, and have mercy on me.
Soraya Vargas Please email info@solaceuk.org, or call 07985641080, we would like to offer you support but need some more details from you.
I am revert too Alhamdulilah if any revert sister struggling emotionally e mail me plz
Ghori babi Ji give your email plz
That was painful to watch. I am sorry to all those revert sisters who have had to go through this. May Allah SWT make it easy for you all, and may He make the rest of us step up and help when you need it.
This is so true and breaks my heart to see even though I've reverted to islam my family is terrified that something like this may happen to me. I hope it never does or to any sister but I'm glad there are resources that sisters can reach out to. Jazak Allah Khair .
bless this people for helping them Mashallah
This video sends out a strong message, I hope we can all put our religon before our culture and realise we're are family. Our similarities lay within our beliefs. Ya Allah please provide the Ummah with strength and unity.
subhanallah this was such a powerful vid, and unfortunately this happens alot. Alhamdulillah for organizations such as solace and nourDV. We all really need to support these organisations, I personally know some sisters who have suffered like this and Alhamdulillah solace and NourDV has helped them.
This video is remarkable! Mash'Allah, may Allah reward the efforts of this organization.
This is all a test but it hurts how people are not helping in shaa allah i will donate and sisters dont be down you will find a way ... Easier said than done but yakeen is somethin which will always prevail...
Unhappily, I can relate to this.
Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) said:
“The most perfect in faith amongst believers is he who is best in manners and kindest to his wife.” (Abu Dawud)
this made me sooooo sad. keep in mind im prior military i have served in combat. i have worked in the jail as well as a law enforcement officer on the street. and this really made me sad to think that muslimah's are dealing with that. when a person becomes muslim there should be a support system as well as education.
Islam taught us how to love each other..... Muslims supporting each other in all difficult times and she will not be abandoned as this video
She will not feels alone,cuz ALLAH will always by here side and she will need no one but him
when you become a Muslim u will not feel lonely just feel comfort , happiness and inner peace
My family are not happy but there still there for me.
Miss British Jamacian Scott Masha'Allah you're really blessed
A A Yes I am lucky alhamduillh. My family very supportive of me.
Assalamu alaikum
Myself Muhamedali Shihab
Not a revert,
Still improving my knowledge of Islam
Currently live in 🇬🇧
shihabak9@gmail.com
Subhan allah. It's very sad but i know it happens.
Al hamdullilah my faith was different and i have a good life, but i know those moments when you really needed somebody and there's no one there.
To every sister that is in the position like in this short film never ever forget you are not alone allah is watching and he will reward you for everything you have been through if it's not in this life it will be in the next just have sabr and al be fine.
Very touching.!
Mashallah! This is so true...may Allah protect us all.
Mashaallah may Allah bless you all with jannah al firdaus and help you raise awareness to the whole world
This was extremely sad.
:( sometimes this happens. And it's these ignorant men that dare call themselves a Muslim. My father never did anything wrong to my mother but she left him because she fell into adultery. Subahanallah please sisters stay in Islam.
WOW what a husband, many women convert to Islam and get stuck in horrible situations like this where Muslim guys treat them bad, he ruined her life. Istagfirallah.
yes very true and the help and support and actions of the muslims to help her to help this ease to move on and and remove the stress she went through
My sister went through a tough scenario like this and we were all living in a different country at the time, she had no one to help her and my brother had to leave his job to rturn to uk to help her back onto her feet, great project!
Allah tests those he loves indeed.
With every hardship comes ease
Heartbreaking.
Love from Leicester, would love to be a part of SOLACE inshaAllah. May Allah bless you all for your efforts, make them reach fruition, and give all revert sisters steadfastness. Ameen!
Sadly this is the story for many Muslim reverts but believe also Muslim women born into Muslim households .. May Allah reward to for making this video Ameen
Please also post on your channel more support groups both virtual and in person for sisters, that is also needed!
May peace and blessings be upon you all ❤
This is a great video and women all over the world have very similar problems ,even in well to do families, the way to get over the issues is to get closer to God by praying and reciting the Quran daily specially Sura Yaseen.
I am in contact with many women in similar situation and help them in many ways . This is a great cause.
Auduobillah, this breaks my heart. No doubt we need to better our characters and learn how to be better to one another and show support to our families and fellow brothers and sisters. May Allah grant us good characters and success and happiness in this life and the next and may Allah grant us a prosperous Ramadan and continue to bless us throughout our lives ameen.
I' m reverted Islam 2015 Its days i tried decepção i Will leave Islam,no have force for pray,me from Brasil ☝️🙏🇧🇷😢
Assalamu alaykum, sister. I hope you're well. I'm very sad to read this. How are you doing now?
Keep up the hard work
It is good that Solace exists - but it is not good that people who say they believe in Allah are so heartless to each other - it should be obvious that you take in a hurting person and look after them.... you shouldn't need to make a video like this. Why are there so many abused Islamic wives in the first place? why is there so much abandonment, and domestic violence?
That's very great video. Every muslim man should know that he treat women that prophet PBUH ask us to treat them the best. and prophet who said the best of you the best who treat woman best. deal as a man and be gentle with woman. learn from prophet PBUH how he treated his wife. wish all Muslim men got this point
wish Muslim woman don't lose trust on Allah. bless you sisters
Such a powerful video
this is true because if you intend to do something bad in Islam and end up not doing it Allah will not cast any sin upon you, but if you intended to do something good and end up not doing it Allah will give you the blessings.
May Allah help our brothers and sisters and may Allah protect them. Meen
Amazing video!!! When Muslim migrated to from Mecca to Medina, the local Muslims, if they had two wives, they divorced one to let the new guests from Mecca be married and happy. If the host had two room house, he divided it into two separate houses with one room each, only to host that newly arrived brother. Similar sisterhood should exist amongst Muslim sisters. Islam is world's largest Brotherhood and Sisterhood. Let's embrace these ladies as our own daughters, sisters and mothers in Islam.
Love from Denmark, wish solace all the best inshallah
Why we dont have any solance in Czech Republic? :'( I so much know this feeling :(
America needs it too! As a convert, I can relate to this video a lot. I remember watching this video before I lost my family and became homeless and I felt that this could easily happen to me. Then I went through it but alhamdulillah I'm still alive.
Solace an d NZF(national zakat foundation) r a blessing from Allah so any 1 in these situation pls turn 2 thm thy wil do thr ut most best 2 help & if no any 1 pls help thm 2 gt in touch with thm.
i almost cried....
Mashallah saw this on facebook today, great work.
However along with many great verses theres a great verse for this topic i know and it goes 'And We will surely test you with something of fear and hunger and a loss of wealth and lives and fruits, but give good tidings to the patient'
may Allah help the sister's and brothers that are been tested in this way. for those who ask why Allah is not helping her , Allah hasn't abandoned her and He is not the one oppressing her and therefore with the Trust in Him indeed the help is near. from personal experience.
Great video, great message, share with your friends
Ramadan mubarak to all.
Mashallah great video may Allah reward you!
Mashallah great job jazak Salam.
Everyone like this video, and join the facebook and twitter, great message
Thanks so much , may allah reward your efforts
I wholeheartedly agree Masha'Allah!!!
Allah tests his strongest believers. May Allah guide them.
Wow amazing, I didn't know something like this existing.
This story isn't just the story of a revert, or a muslim woman, or a christian woman. Its the story of WOMEN every where....
We may not have this life, but Insha'Allah the after life is OURS.
يؤجل الله امنياتنا ولاينساها ولاينساها ولاينساها
Allah pospones our wishes but NEVER Forgets them, NEVER Forgets them, NEVER forgets them...
Thank you solace, love you solace
This video made me think!! ShubhanAllah.. We should all look into this kind of charity.. Guys its Ramadan, every good deeds multiplys. So why we r waiting for????
If you would like to volunteer for Solace please click on the link solaceuk.org/index.php/volunteer
May you be granted peace
I've been checking the solace website the whole.
new muslim care through mercy mission offers similar help in north america
Well obviously. But many of these incidents occur around the world, so it would be grateful to empathize for them
Mashallah, well said brother.
@mohammed bak by ur name im assuming you were born muslim...so this is what happens when women revert...we loose everything sometimes...we loose our mothers our fathers, our sisters our brothers even our friends...so when u are in a situation such as the one shown...we have no one to turn to...not even the community...
I will promote this on my facebook mashallah
My advice to reverts...please learn Islam and focus on it first before getting into marriage. Choose your spouse by getting advice from sheikh. Don't just marry anyone called 'Muslim'
You right!!!
(Do the people think that they will be left to say, "We believe" and they will not be tried?But We have certainly tried those before them, and Allah will surely make evident those who are truthful, and He will surely make evident the liars.) Quran; 29:2-3
we each have our own struggles, tests, hardships we have to face and overcome. life isnt a game or just a stroll in the park, this is a test for us. just like in a maths exam u wouldnt say why dont the examiner help the student taking the test. even though we dont see or know how god is helping and guding us
Great job
So when we decide to follow the path chosen for us by Allah (JS) we need to remind ourselves that this will bring massive challenges that we need to face. Someone reverting in the West or in the east will face social challenges, financial challenges and many more. That is why when someone reverts in the spur of the moment, they often lack the courage to follow it through. That is why in Islam all decisions which have a direct impact on faith have to be carefully analyzed and understood.
For those who embraced Islam and are facing different problems or going through hard time, shall bear patience for that could be a mere period of testing. Your faith might be tested by hardships i.e. mocked and humiliated on wearing hijab, turning of family and friends against you or being completely abandoned, not or delay in finding a good true momin as a life partner etc. Know that those before you were tested harder than you. There are many examples but here I would like to mention one.. Sumayya(May Allah be please with her) was the first martyred muslimah. She and her whole family was tortured till death.. The Ammar Family, by the pagans of Makkah(Mecca), but she never gave up on her faith.(Hadhrat Ammaar (Radhiyallaho anho) and his parents were subjected to the severest afflictions. They were tormented on the scorching sands of Mecca. The Prophet (Sallallaho alaihe wasallam) while passing by them would enjoin patience giving them glad tidings about paradise. Ammaar's father Yasir (Radhiyallaho anho) died after prolonged sufferings at the hands of persecutors, and his mother Sumayya (Radhiyallaho anha) was killed by Abu Jahl, . She had refused to renounce Islam in the face of terrible torture in her old age. The blessed lady was the first to meet martyrdom in the cause of Islam. The first mosque in Islam was built by Ammaar (Radhiyal-laho anho) (from fazael-e-aamaal). The story of the wife of a pharaoh is even mentioned in the Gracious Quran. One last thing.. Don't give up on your faith no matter what happens, after all this life would end one day.. soon or later. Be patient and wait for there is only death between you and the promises.. here is a link to an Islamic book "Fazael-e-aamal", hope it would help you to understand Islam better by knowing about the life of our prophet(peace be upon him) and his companions and also virtues of the Holy Quran, zikr and salaat(prayers). fazaileamaal.com/
Yes the video is great, I agree this title is a mistake for that reason.
doesn't mean muslims should abandon their own. if anything, the one thing that made the muslim community strong in times of trial is the divine help in the forms of helping each other in times of need and willingness to sacrifice luxury and comfort to help.
Trust in Allah is trust in the ummah and muslims shouldn't betray that trust.
That was really sad ;(
Wow lots of viewers so far good work keep it up
I can fully understand that and i did not pass judgement on her just said it how it was in regards to the statement she made. Even i use to feel allah swt wasnt helping me when i gave up something bad i was doing so i could do right but was, and kind of still am in a position i dont like being in but god will never leave a believer only a disbeliever can leave god
Who does not have a choice? This is the UK not Saudi Arabia.
as a brother left homeless and betrayed by a Mauritian wife from Hounslow who was violent, I need to point out the other side to this, I tried to make the marriage work, and in the end was subject to false abuse allegations, subjected to sexual abuse interrogation , had everything taken from me and my children denied their father who I don't know are dead or alive.
(1) A.L.M. (2) Do men think that they will be left alone on saying, "We believe", and that they will not be tested? (3) We did test those before them, and Allah will certainly know those who are true from those who are false. (urat Al-Ankabut vers 1 to 3)
when bad stuff happens to muslims,they lose trust in allah, she was stuck no money no home no family no support confused etc, let allah be her judge as you have to be in her position and experience what she is going through. only allah knows what is going on in her heart and mind etc. it does happen people feel and believe that allah as deserted them when the basics of life are taken away no job no money and no where to live, what life must be like to have these important needs taken away
Without understanding and without proper comprehension, faith is weak and prone to misunderstanding. There are some fundamental rules in Islam like Inamal Mominoona Ikhwa (All Muslims are brothers) or Amr Bil Maroof Wa Nahi Anil Munkar. These sound great. But reality in today's Islamic world is that it is fractured and do not depend on someone coming to hold your hand.
The fundamental difference between Muslims and non-Muslims is that when we take Shahadah, we are fully aware of the obligations, rights and challenges. That is why a Muslim does not become a Muslim just because he was born into a Muslim family. We become Muslims only when we reach a certain age where we are aware of the consequences of our decisions.
amin ya rabbal alamin
may not be easy for them but they have to put there trust in Allah this goes for every musl
I've been sick around 11 years assumed as football players, eleven years
mashallah tabarakallah
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I have sympathy for one who does not.
Any way i could help the organisation out volunteer? Just want to help sisters in any way may allah swt helpus all
There based in UK, I think u can donate if u don't live there
Make yourself resourceful, make yourself independent. Free yourself from the shackles of materialism. Try to cultivate a habit of giving and not expecting in return. Allah (JS) will reimburse you multiple times over in this world and in afterlife. Most important of all, try to get closer to Allah (JS) because He is the Best helper. May Allah show us the right path, path of those who were rewarded by Him. May Allah shake the burden of All Muslims across the world. (Aameen)
Powerful
but she did say 'i dont even know if i believed it in the first place' which was not a good look to her faith in god
Ya Allah :(
I hope this isn't so common that they had to make a video about it....where I'm from she'd never be abandoned.
Reverts embrace islam
I want to marry a revert
can i ask why
Adam is for the right reasons to improve your Deen and your future wife.
Greeeeeeeeeeeeaaat work