How To Know if a Girl Likes You - The Truth
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- čas přidán 19. 06. 2016
- How do you know if a girl likes you? Guys get stuck on this and draw some strange conclusions
Don't give up and go MGTOW guys, in this video I'll show you what signals to look for so you know if she likes you or not.
In this video I'll share the truth about how you can tell if a woman likes you using online dating as an example.
Follow these tips, and leave a comment below, I want to know what you think. - Auta a dopravní prostředky
Effort.... If she won't make any effort via texting,phone, or seeing you, just walk away... Especially, if she's attractive and knows it, in my experience they're lazy as fuck... These girls have so many men after them, you're just another dude... Have a life guys, do your own thing and don't sacrifice all your time and energy on a girl... If you can text, text, but don't make it the #1 priority in your life..You will come off needy, and she will dismiss you if she senses you being needy... If you're working out and she texts, don't text until your done... Basically, be yourself and when you have time, invite her into your life... Just my two cents, thanks for the video...
Excellent advice. Live your life and pursue your dreams. No one - female or otherwise - is interested in a man with no life and no dreams.
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Never make a woman your purpose !
That's a super advice dude .. well said!
These type of women who think they are the prettiest thing..are dismissed by me quik..let them be someone else's vain headache..There many beautiful women with good personalities out there..
I really don't think it's that complicated. If you find yourself having doubts that a girl is into you, it pretty much means she's not that into you. Girls who like you make it pretty obvious, believe it or not.
Jason K. I went a date recently with a girl and the date did not go very well I could tell that she wasn't really into me but yet she keeps texting me every now and then and I'm pretty sure she's keeping me in her back pocket just in case whatever else she has going on doesn't work out. I know she's not that interested so if it comes down to it I'm just going to pump and dump. These videos of definitely helped me figure out what women really want and it's really sad when you find out what they really want from a man
Chris Kelly84 pump and dump. Lmao. Classic
@@chriskelly509 forget about her man, it's happened the same to me, she became a chat buddy, don't ever respond her again.
In light of new knowledge I say, you only respond her if she writes you something substantial like "I miss you" or "I wanna hang out", no answer if she goes "hey" or "what's up?", not even calls if you don't know what she wants to call you about, if she's interested she'll leave a message.
@@acrididi We are not all the same. Some women, as well as men need a bit more time to relax if they like you and take you seriously. In that case they will try spend most of the time by chating a lot to get you know and become more confident. Due to that It can happend to misunderastand them for a chat buddy and to lose interest in them while they are just need a little bit more time in comparing to others.
#1 tell. Mixed signals. If you don’t where you stand or how she feels about you, she’s Not into you. Move on. Girls that like you make it easy on you.
Girls that like you make it easy for you. Not necessarily. IME most women love to play games. They'll be all over you one second and then play hard to get to "make you work for it".
For eg: in all my years (59) it usually takes me 3 times to get a woman to go out with me. If she doesn't after the third? I move on. One woman told me it was because I had a reputation, false one, but a rep none the less (at a large corp I worked at). SO I used to hang out at this local pub. There were two sister who were also regulars, one 5 years younger and one 12 years younger. So I seemed to hit it off with the older one, she even took me home for an hour to show me what she learned about acupuncture. Anyhow, asked her out, no thanks. A couple of weeks later, asked her out again when a band we both liked was coming, no thanks. A month later, asked her again, "no thanks". FF a week, the younger one and I were shooting pool and she says "you should ask my sister out, she really likes you"....huh? Yea, she told me like 2 weeks ago. I said "I've asked her out THREE freaking times"!!
You should ask her out again, she'll say yes, I guarantee it.
Sorry, no, 3 strikes you're out. No way no how, if you are playing hard to get, you aren't getting got, by me anyways.
Muskoka Mike......Dude, you just proved my point. Lol. That’s mixed signals. She wasn’t playing hard to get, she was toying with you. She keeps turning you down & then has her sister tell you to ask again.
@@donotresuscitatechannel7257 that's a possibility yes. They love the ego boost of being able to turn down a guy. Well, many are finding out that guys have had enough and they aren't getting asked out anymore.
The net is loaded with stories by women complaining that men aren't asking them out or hitting on them anymore.
Many only make it easy for you once you've already made a move. Most will play their cards close to their chest until then
Unless if they've been indoctrinated about playing hard to get.. 🤔
Run away from a girl that don't make questions. Super true.
Why?
because she is not interested
@@mightywings314 💯💯💯💯💯
100%
Yes- if she does not ask about your life- move on 👌🏻
When a girl likes you you’ll feel it. You’ll feel a boost of self esteem because she’s receptive to your actions. It’s almost a gut feeling at times.
Yes 100%
Truth Missiles 😜
Exactly!! I felt that
Nope. I've had girls come onto me, and I didn't realize it until years later. The ones I thought liked me didn't the ones I didn't think felt anything did. My receptors were always broken.
Even the ones that likes you is not a burning desire,if a woman truly burns for you,it can't be hidden, believe this and know peace
When a women has her legs behind her head, she really likes you.
Gotta hit dem yoga classes then
When you wanna like but it's at 69 likes....
Maybe, you can't be 100% sure though.
yourfast07
.......For that moment anyway..ha
Don't be so sure.
When it comes to women, us men need to have an abundance mindset.
What does that mean?
@@quak823 There's plenty of fish in the ocean? No need to be thirsty since there are always gonna be women.
That's what I interpret anyway :P
@@quak823 it means that you shouldn't take it too seriously
YES! True with women and pretty much everything else in life.
Abundance vs. Scarcity.
A starving child just needs to have an abundance mindset
A woman who spends her time and money on you is definitely interested in you.
and if you wait around for a woman like that, you'll die alone
True. When my painfully cheap friends spends money on a man, I know she's got it bad.
Um no.... this is false. I had a girl flat out buy me dinner and she told me she was into someone else. NO NO NO NO ABSULUTELY TF NOT this is not true AT ALL!
@@bigmike9486 atleast you got a free meal 🤣
Eww
Maybe if she wants a sissyfied , loser,beta ..
a woman grabbing the bill and insist on paying??? Does this happen anywhere on this planet?
It's happened plenty of times to me, be a high value man, and women that want to demonstrate high interest will do it.
SOUNDS LIKE SOVIET RUSSIA
jhgjhgj hgjhgdj it does......surprisingly.
jhgjhgj hgjhgdj Happens in Germany quite often. Usually you split the bill. But if you have a woman in front of you that has a really high paying job (or at least higher than average) they like to insist on paying.
This does not prevent you from buying casual snacks for her if you like - they won't notice it though (usually they have less fixation on money).
First date with my lady this happened. EiC has the long and short of it.
Just remember this, Don't Take women too serious because at the end of the day they're just children.
Travis Gray wtf 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Says the guy holding money up in his profile picture!😂😂
Travis Gray with breast...
They are not
They're not children stop giving them excuses
I am a woman and I love your videos. Everyone is afraid of the truth but you tell it straight. Being in a long term relationship, these help me fix any flaws I have. Thank you for your honesty.
Yatlor is my cousin name. Do you like pee?
I bet you don't have any flaws. I on the other hand have at least 100 flaws lol.
It's always good to work on oneself, but most of the time this guy is a broken vessel complaining about other broken vessels and is completely off the mark. So I don't think he has the right solutions for any stable or happy relationship, not anymore than Andrew Tate - a pimp who sell women, beat and exploit women. Andrew Tate seem to be one of Rich's role models... I have never met a single woman who finds Andrew Tate attractive or appealing, which explains why he has to purchase his women and only attract hookers. In fact, women find him completely grotesque and despise him. You have to have a lot of self-hatred to listen to men like that if you're a woman. And you must hate women a lot if you're a man and fall for the bullsht Tate and the likes spew. They've never had a successful relationship and can never have one either.
Also a good sign if your wallet is big. She WILL be receptive.
Doesn't hurt does it ;)
all are baby
Kitty BooBoo you sound like a bitter lonely cat woman...
Kitty BooBoo men get happier with age whilst women get miserable
flyer boy and the fun part is, men dont even need to abuse women, they ll leech men for their money anyways :O)
Too much work. Not enough reward. Not worth it.
Its not worth it. To many options for them to pick from. Since they have so many options the likelihood of them choosing you is low and the possibility of them moving from one man to the next or having more than one is high
@@brandonwombacher1615 Totally true...
Boo fucking hoo
Been there done that not worth it. Pornhub serves me well🤷🏿♂️
I don’t want to approach a woman because I don’t want to be seen as a sexual predator, unless it’s something important like work related. But that’s not going to hold me , I’ll just get a happy ending from my local massage parlor 😉🤤
This topic will never end, until the end of our Universe.
1) have a lot of money
2) own a home
3) drive an expensive car
4) be in shape
That’s all you gotta do.
@Zack Snyder Thanks Zack, and thats my fear right now... Its hard to tell with some of them acting soo original untill you find out they with you for the bag. And for some of us, its hard to hide that we got our shits together. Am not the party dude, No insta, No tiktok, I dont flaunt, but i like to live good. Am just at a point where am thinking of going to utah to find a mormon church girl cus I want a family and ladies out here are just f*kd up.
Poor dudes get laid all the time
5) brain
But you can't buy it bro? Lol
@Zack S 😭😭😭
you dont have to have any of things to get a women lol
"Attractive woman, the woman that you are interested in, are getting lot of attention from guys. They are getting a lot of messages. They are spoiled for choice" It is so true.
Places like tinder are a desaster for finding loyal woman because the minute they are bored with you, it's off to their list of a thousand other guys on tinder!
tinder is where beggars become choosers. theres nothing worse than an overweight single mom who doesnt have a job acting like shes hot shit and telling men not to "waste her time".
jonathan bacon god this is so not true. I guess this finding someone is impossible. Makes me want to cry .
Not only Tinder, other social media too
I,'ve had a couple of 'matches' on a dating app and after a compliment or 'hi', they just didn't respond.
But after a week of silence I wanted to test something; see how fast she will respond after an insult for not responding. You guessed it, three minutes after that message, she responded angry.
I thanked her for proving how shallow women are with online dating. She blocked me 1 minute later....
Guys, just stop with online dating, for most of us - like me - it doesn't work.
@@rvh1702 Found this out years ago, one married woman, (I didn't know!) she was keen, too keen, I rang her a second time and hubby answered, it hit the fan, I was lucky, I don't do that anyway, another one, calls her self one name but in reality has another name, another one ordered what she wanted at the restaurant and then ran off as I paid saying "I will see you some other time" yeah right, she was just a user.........Bless......
Trust a girl's actions more than her words. If she won't invest/put effort into you, she's likely not interested.
This is so interesting as women are taught the same information. I watch a lot of 'high value' feminine content and I have always been told that men like to pursue and women are to be receptive if they like the man but not take action. I have found in the past when I liked a guy and pursued him or paid for a meal here and there that I would be seen as 'needy' or too 'masculine' and the guy would run a mile. So now, even if I like a guy, I don't do anything because I worry I would ruin the masculune/feminine dynamic. I would love to hear what you guys think about this as I am genuinely interested 🤔😊 so should us ladies leave it up to the men and if not, how much interest do we show without compromising our own feminine value?
@@nicolapn4617 that is curious, I have to wonder why a guy would act like that. If you seem too eager it can come across badly, but pretending to be stoic or uninterested, imo, sends mixed signals and doesn't help you. It's a mix cause then you'll probably just get guys who are more serious about you, but to the point where they don't take no for an answer. Nowadays, I think guys are a lot shyer and more worried about not being accused of sexual misbehavior, and so need a bit more prompting or assurance that yes, it's ok for guys to approach and chat with you, you won't bite, you're thankful for the opportunity even if the answer is no, etc. Nowadays I kind of just don't care as much. I'll initiate and send a message or two, and if the girl hasn't realized by this time that they need to try, spend time and actually get to know me, then its not worth pursuing, imo.
For me, I can pursue a gal and if I'm interested (as friends or as more) I'll invite her to events or try to chat with her via text or the like. If it looks like she is unresponsive, or doesn't try to also uphold the conversation or takes too long to respond, I take that as a sign she has no interest. Or if she refuses too often or just seems like she's making excuses. I expect the man to initiate and to out in the initial effort and invites, but how she responds will tell me if I should continue. Most girls don't seem to prioritize relationships and prioritize their own interests and schedules over getting to spend some decent amount of time to hang out or know me, which is a turn off. If you can't even become a good friend to me or the person asking you out, then imo you can forget the possibility of taking it to the next level aka dating
of course you do have to look out for guys who are players and only say what you want to hear, but actually aren't interested in committing to you. But if a guy isn't putting any effort in, then he prob isn't interested, or is too shy, or hasn't noticed you
while guys tend to fall in love first and should initiate, if he hasn't noticed you, imo it's the girl's job to hint strongly or just tell him know you've interest. Whomever feels that they like the other person first, should roughly speaking be the initiator
ppl joke all the times about guys being dense and missing girls signals, I'd say this is mostly true. Guys and girls can't read minds, so imo it's better just to tell ppl upfront, though I acknowledge doing so/taking initiative/ speaking directly is more a masculine trait. But in my life experience, quietly hoping for something to happen doesn't work out well and has just wanted years of potential where we could have been trying to see if we could become good friends or something more.
though I too am curious about what other people's opinions are.
Nearly all girls don't invest their boyfriend today.or husband
if you have money she likes you
Only later in life.
Oh yes, cash over rides the pussy
No, she likes your money.
The more you have the more she likes you!
Like the women who harp on the 65 year old codger with the 25 year old super model: she's only interested in his money!
Yeah? what's wrong with that? he's banging a 25 year old super model lol.....He only likes here because she's a super model! Works for both.....
Good point about the telepone by the way.
If a woman is not interested in you, she's just not interested. There's very little, or nothing you can do to change that.
Stop wasting your time and move on.
Especially the ones in the 30s who show no interest in you.
There are five classes which attract girls, in order of importance to them:
1. tall length and proportional body width = *all* girls are instinctually attracted.
2. nice face and hair
3. age
4. smell
5. character
6. money, lots of money, which overrides the other five
open mind Not really, you will only attract the type that's attracted to your money, but not to you. And, if you are ugly, they will do anything to prevent having sex with you.
They will use you and your money to get anything she desires, and gets her sex from capable males orbiting her in her social life.
Beautiful women get attention all day, every day, so only the first 5 classes apply.
***** And so do women, they want quality men. Me? I enjoy an abundance of quality women.
Financial stability is a huge factor. Women want security. Someone who is confident and financially secure can get women all day long.
Strange Days Yea... but when you got a job, financial stability isn't much of a problem.
"The warrior who acts out of honour cannot fail. His duty is honour itself. Even his death - if it is honourable - is a reward and can be no failure, for it has come through duty. Seek honour as you act, therefore, and you will know no fear."
Cobradriver99 self (“you”) no longer exists after death
ilyaamex Jesus Christ gives life, your conscious is not limited to the body it pertains to, many will live a Godless life and believe themselves to be their own God but Jesus Christ is the way to eternal life
Certainly though, The Bible describes it as being asleep.
@@fame6442 So Jesus Christ caused me being short and balding. When I meet that asshole, Ima kick him in the nutsack.
Deal.
I think that's what the Japanese said to the kamikaze pilots.
GET OFF the dating apps guys. No spending months on the dating app will not give you a success. Even a good looking dude will not get a single date in some of these apps.
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Yep! just attention whores and scammers. The attractive ones anyway.
Not true. My friends use them and hook up with multiple chicks every month. They don't keep most of them around very long but they get results with apps
I,'ve had a couple of 'matches' on a dating app and after a compliment or 'hi', they just didn't respond.
But after a week of silence I wanted to test something; see how fast she will respond after an insult for not responding. You guessed it, three minutes after that message, she responded angry.
I thanked her for proving how shallow women are with online dating. She blocked me 1 minute later....
Guys, just stop with online dating, for most of us - like me - it doesn't work.
Not true man. I get hundreds of matches and a decent date success rate. I think too many guys try way too hard. Just be casual, have some smiling pictures and keep your options open.
How to tell if she's interested: a) you're rich b)you're tall c)you're handsome d) you're some combination of the three.
Aaron Landis truth. These will apply to most cases.
Aaron Landis, two out of three ain't bad.
Aaron Landis this one girl I don’t talk to anymore called me handsome on a pic of me wearing a tuxedo but she would never let me take her out lol I guess she was just being nice
Nope looks and material gain isnt everything especially if your values are different lol faith inclined women all desire dies down after seeing the potential guy has no interest in the same beliefs.
@@theundisputed4761 probably wanted you to intiate it
You are right. Being an entrepreneur myself I just want to add that ALL the great women I met (and most of them still are good friends) are NOT on social media dating sites but in real life such as business partners etc...
Spot on my friend.
If she tosses your salad, she might like you.
she does that...it's pure blind love,she's a keeper
If the women consistently sucks you off and swallows without requiring the same from you then she is a bona fide keeper.
Term of art: "Boner fide"
Maybe she's just trying to get her post work out protein?
well yes, if you a shit ton of ice cream everyday you'll get sick of it. once a week, it's pretty delicious.
Not sure I agree about the signal it sends when a woman snatches up the check after dinner. It might mean they're interested, and they want you to owe them the next dinner. But it might also mean that they're not interested and they want to pick up the check so that they're not beholden to you, because being beholden to you would mean they would feel obligated to respond to your communications and perhaps spend more time with you - which they don't want to do. If you've ever done sales, as I have, it's a bad sign when the prospect (which is what a woman is, in the context of dating) insists on paying. Same principle applies here.
Since when do women care about owing men favors? It's not like they ever pay a guy back for anything.
I've met all sorts of women over the years that are all too eager to accept help when they need it, but afterwards, it's like "yeah, but what have you done for me lately."
It's not like, I'm expecting sex or anything for helping a woman out. Consequently, I don't help women at all if I can help it. It's wasted energy that I could be using for myself and people that are capable of caring about me.
On a side note, women of class do not accept favors from single men. Or at very least, give the guy a break and at least find out if he's looking for somebody. It's lacking in class to waste a guys energy when you know you're not interested in him.
Chris L
Some women care about owing favors. I once had a woman take me out to a nice lunch after I had pretty much done a big chunk of work in our project, the day the project was over. She was slightly on edge while in traffic (not one bit while talking with me though, but her particular actions were a slight "crazy" sign to me), but I later noticed there were signs her life was just hectic as hell at that point, and I fear I've lost a unicorn if that lunch wasn't just a friendly favor. Perhaps it was just a "I don't want to owe you" situation though. lol
This is exactly what I was going to say. It’s way more likely She’s grabbing the check because she doesn’t want to feel obligated
Women don't care about that lmao
I can vouch for this. A woman I went on a few dates with wanted to pay the bill one time and everything kind of fizzled out after that date which I wasnt entirely opposed to. It doesn’t always mean they’re disinterested but it can be a red flag at times
I don't deal with online dating. I honestly prefer face to face interaction. With online dating I feel your pictures are your number one weapon or kryptonite, and if you aren't photogenic or don't have access to a great camera, then it sucks for you. Now, when it comes to face to face interaction, then they get more then just a picture. This is just my experience. I know there are dudes out there who kill it with online dating and more props to you.
Yup, i tried it with no luck, in person i look good but photo i look horrible!!
Yep, met a girl via tinder, she looked like a crackhead, met her in person, she was cute...just didnt know how to take pics, or wasnt photogenic.
Yeah I've had a lot more luck at social hobbies like dancing. It's much easier to build intimacy when a woman is standing right in front of you. I also prefer phone calls, never text a girl I'm interested in.
Exactly! This why I only go for gym girls and pick em up at the gym. Best place ever! No physical cat fishing bullshit
Also the best girls out there are the ones you meet in real life. You can use the "tools" that are given to you (texting, social networks etc.) to facilitate communication, I do not favour the use of dating apps (I've never used them), those are the wrong places If you're looking for women with certain qualities. There are plenty of women out there, good looking, with good values that you can meet in your everyday life, going out, mutual friends, when you go see your favourite sports team etc.etc.etc.
Your prospects are way better.
Last girl asked zero questions about me, even 4 weeks in to dating.
She did however, always want to pay for dates.
We work together, and I know she makes less.
She accused me of being controlling, but I think she was talking to herself.
She had 10+ dos and don'ts, but my only rule was don't text other guys on date night. She refused.
So she's single again.
4th date? Lol my bro
Magic trick to get responses:
1. Tell them they have a goofy haircut
2 tell them they look like their breath stinks
They will respond
Rip Patrice o Neal
Sanjay Venugopal haha it’s funny how when you compliment them they ignore your comment, but once you insult them, then they write a paragraph lmao
😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂
Or block you right away. Depends on the girl i guess.
I would do backhanded compliments not just straight up insults
99.9% of the time women will never tell you she likes you gotta figure that out
And at the 0,01% of the time when the yactually say they like u they don't mean it
Bryan Charles
But adults.. Women that grow up... Do. That's why you must never play her game... Force her to play your game or go awol..
Fuuuuuk them. How about that? Work on your purpose, they will come themselves and you will know which one right or wrong
By the time you figure it out shes already accounted for by some Chad or Tyrone!
Bryan Charles Or it’s because she likes you as a friend too and doesn’t want the possibility of losing that?
I agree with pretty much everything except the ending. It's been my experience that when you go out with a new woman, if she insists on paying the bill, it's a sign of DISinterest, simply because she doesn't want to see you again and doesn't want to feel indebited to you.
LDS Entertainment you’re a smart man
I completely agree. When I went on a first date long ago with a guy that didn't make a good impression on that date and I decided there will be no second date, I insisted I payed so he doesn't get to feel like I owe him one.
Yup, bang on bro. The switched on chicks do this. I agree with this fully.
Yes
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Handsome, fit, 30 year old with 6 figure income in sexless LTR currently lifting the veil so to speak! ...TY for all the work you do for us men! No longer seeking validation from girlfriend but truly finding value in myself and seeing the effect it has on others. Know your worth gentlemen! TY much brother the work you do is so important! And beyond appreciated!
I love how you explain everything,straight to the point and no sugar coating it.Also your vids aren't ridiculously long which is good for someone like myself with a short attention span.
I met a gorgeous gal 10 years younger than me on line. We clicked instantly and she suggested we meet up the next day. Had a nice date,,,went out a second time the very next day. On day 3 she deleted her profile,,,,that impressed me. I did the same. We have been very happy since. Neither of us were ever married or have kids...
Give us new insight after one year
You are in the matrix Brother -
She may have only hidden her profile....
Lucky u
I hadn't gone this far back in videos in the year since I found this channel. Glad I finally did. The video makes great points. Words of wisdom here!
If she blows you she might have a crush on you, she might...
About paying the bill.. I've had conversations with multiple women who said they prefer to pay half of the bill on the first date, so the guy doesn't have any expectations, but after the first date the guy can pay.
I have had this conversation, because my college friends and I always joked that if a woman pays half the bill, it means she isn't interested and is not planning to meet you again, and so pays half so you don't feel ripped off.
I don't pay on the first date. I rather go dutch. It's half her investment too. Maybe the third or fourth one I would. That for me is an immediate gold digger test. It works for me.
YeshaYahu works like a charm. U weed out the bad ones super fast
All the girls I slept with on the first date paid 100% on the first date. Find women with active interest, man.
YeshaYahu good women don't hang out with losers and thus don't pay
An awful lot of women merely use "dating" as a means to feed themselves for free and get other free stuff. If she's obsessed with going out to eat with you and doesn't pay anything, drop her like a bad habit.
YeshaYahu I mean it might work for you but as a woman (23 years old) I expect to be payed for especially on the first date. If you wouldn’t pay for first date I wouldn’t go on second date with you. It’s called being a gentleman and that’s what guys should learn these days, how to be a gentleman. I notice this stuff and love this if I a guy opens the door for me or give me his coat when I’m cold. But that’s usually comes from family if your dad treated your mum or partner well you’ll too.
I figure if she is interested she'll come to me. Otherwise, I don't go out of my way to make small talk. You're alright man.
Most women don't have that kind of nerve, buddy. It's your job.
you probably don't want one of those parasites if they can't even initiate conversation
Well, I do like cats.
Javier Vargas
Yes they do. But only if you have game.. They must feel safe. They must know that you will treat them well.
Javier Vargas
Women with like that are a liability... Enjoy... You have been warned.
Real homie here, telling the truth like this
That is true. Every girl I’ve dated willing to drive a further distance to the date has gone further with the relationship than just a date or two. Good stuff.
I like your matter of fact tips, that definitely assist in the real world. There are so many guys out there who have no clue what their doing even when on a date.
Love the color of that upholstery on the interior there. My favorite!
For everything including females: Wherever interest is, effort is made.
“If women like you” = “women want everything from you”
No shit Ace. Works the same for men. Scary this has upvotes as if its some kind of wisdom.
"youre on of many others"
SVETOGOR Brifault's law
Yeah I just hope it's my fat ten inch, guess what, I want something too I sure hope she 'wants something from me'.
Bo McGillacutty Who says that I am not gonna get some pussy by force. Not everyone is a beta like you are.
Been stalking your vids lol I wish all men listen to you ! Great advices 😊
I love these kind of dating/relationship videos you're doing Rich. Please do more!! Good insights and advice.
Ok, any special requests?
Things like where to meet quality women (online and offline), how to demonstrate your value to a woman without being a bad boy or needy, or grooming tips or fashion tips on what to wear to attract women.
Shit that's a lot dude, I'll break it down into a few vids on each topic
haha, I mean like one of those topics, probably where to meet quality women, and what to say those women when youre online or offline, how to come off as a man of value.
To be a man of value you have to value yourself and your time. If you are chasing women and spending your money on them, you've lost. The best way to show them you value yourself is to say no to them. Throw out the first "no" and see how they react.
Value yourself and they will have to value you or be gone.
The only test really is if you give her your number & she never calls. Means she doesn't give af.
Tina Marie very very true Tina !
Tina Marie never give a woman your number. get hers.
true
Because in part: if whe was really interested in you, SHE would be asking for YOURS. Also: women prefer men in the active role. They get nothing from them being that.
Then she will complain you ghosted her after 2 weeks
I just assume all women don't like me and carry on with my life as such.
True
Don't be bothered by worrying about if she likes me or not
Or what signs to look out for
I find all these videos helpful. You bring a real world applicable wisdom from experience. Alot of other youtubers are empty rhetoric. Even if men differ in conservative or liberal mindsets, dating is what is actually out there not an ideal of what you want women to be. So, your sharing is much appreciated in both helping inform people to avoid certain situations and what to look for positively. Very balanced perspective
Man, all this romance stuff is so confusing and a waste of my time. I just ignore every girl that I see. Well, except close female friends. Problem solved. Haha. She ain't gettin' none of dis.
Timbuck2 even the female friends will eventually extract resources out of you
@@retrogamer82 in the friendzone ....
@@retrogamer82 eventually everyone will
But yeah this romance stuff is unbelievably irritating
So much you have look out for and be mindful of
This is why I don't want to grow up
I'd rather keep my PC and console life intact more than go out, get dressed and try to talk to girls who won't even receptive at all plus the overall deterioration of people who can't hold a simple intelligent conversation that doesn't have to do with what they posted or whom they are involved with just bugs me out
@@wayneericksen5374 a precariously difficult place to be in
In keeping with the advice of the video, my rule of thumb is "people don't spend their time in ways they don't want to." Also, "maybe" means "no" when scheduling a date. Took me years to learn that. Thanks for the video! Cheers.
I am 3 weeks into being drugged, then abandoned by my wife of 34 years. Spent most of the marriage saving, investing, and building a sizable nestegg so we could retire and do what ever we wanted. She is younger and just retired 9 months ago at 55 years old.Hear is what she thought of the money, after leaving me passed out, she went on a mission to pull out cash from every bank and credit union and brokerage she could. It has been three weeks of psychotic actions and borderline apathy in communications. I might of put up a better fight to see if 34 years had given her any hesitations, but I do not recognize her, and I already am thinking the money she took is money well spent. Red pill went down slow, but was still welcome. A woman without a man is like a ship wrecked on the sand.
William Dickey dude write a freaking book.
Wow...what an evil bitch.
Wow......ok note to self: put everything in a trust before I ever get married if I ever even go that far.
Wow, that’s crazy man. Congratulations on being free! No amount of money is worth your freedom
Fucken hell. But dude it’s just money you can easily make it back!
The one where they have to put an effort to drive somewhere to meet you always went over my head lol, this video has great advice 🖒
Dude that was actually some pretty damn good advice....I stumbled across one of your videos by accident and I've started checking out others, have to say you've added a few jewels to my crown over the past few days...thanks
You are welcome
Women Aren't Attracted To Men.
Women are not actually attracted to men. There is a vague idea of what a man is physically, and some are better than others aesthetically speaking, but the purely physical appearance of a man is almost inconsequential unless he is horribly ugly or outrageously attractive.
Women are attracted to status, money, how much a man smiles and laughs, how many friends and resources a man has, how full a man's life is--how many "cool," "exciting" and prestigious things he is doing or connected to.
They are interested in how other people view him--how many people want to be around him, how other people interact with him and whether their interactions convey that he is special and amazing. They want him to be extremely outgoing and aggressive, they want him to demonstrate his status over other people by dominating them in various non-violent ways.
A woman's attraction to a man is a function of her jealousy at the thought of another woman having that man. She doesn't care who he actually is or EXACTLY what he looks like physically, she only cares about the VALUE of the life he has constructed around himself.
A woman basically is a greedy materialistic prostitute. Although that sounds vulgar, it's true. She trades her physical self to buy into the success a man has created for himself.
As a man, I fall in love with how a woman is physically. I fall in love with simple parts of a woman. Like the way her hair falls around her face, the line of her neck, her shoulders. They way her ears might peek from her hair. Her eyelashes. The size and shape of her hands, her fingernails. The way she walks, the way she looks when she is tired or annoyed, the sound she makes when she sneezes, coughs, or cries. The way she sits in a chair. The way she breathes while experiencing different emotions. The way her lips move. A million little things.
Sure, a huge part of my attraction is mental, but the powerful seed of love that builds within me and crystallizes is based greatly on visual things that set off torrents of emotion and need.
It seems to me that women almost cannot think for themselves. Their estimates of worth are based on other peoples' estimates of worth. They don't really find an object beautiful on their own. The object becomes beautiful when other people let her know that it is beautiful.
I'm completely unable to reconcile the differences between men and women. It seems like success with women is equal to spending half of your life working to create a giant illusion, something vastly tiring and annoying, while sacrificing your own true self and your own interests. We construct our lives around nest-building. We're like male birds building nests and showing them off to attract mates. It's pathetic. Everything we do is to get women. It is a fucking shit deal.
Someone needs to invent a drug which has no hormonal imbalance side-effects but is able to erase a man's sex drive and attraction to women. It would increase productivity rates to incredible heights.
That was profound man.
Thanks for sharing.
@@williamjconde Thanks William....... you are welcome to "Copy & Paste" if you so desire.
I fell for a women, a pretty one, pursue her for six to seven months. Text her and she never text back. When we do meet, she talks and do ask personal questions. Recently I sum up my courage and ask her to block my phone if she Is not interested. She did not do it. But still I am 100% sure. Would appreciate feedbacks.
@@quay007 Walk.
kelvin Lim simple, don’t pursue women for 6 months. It’s over, ur in the friend zone since day one. U should have stopped texting her the first time she didn’t reply. I’m sorry to say but she simply not interested dude.
Ur nothing more than free attention to her. She knows u want her, and she will use u as much she can. She has no respect for u, no attraction. And there is nothing u can do about it.
The only thing u can do now is save urself, just walk away. Not for the sake of the relationship, but for the sake of u. U must rebuild urself, ur self esteem. Think about how many good, pretty girls ur ignoring, just bc u focus on a woman that doesn’t want u. And now, these girls don’t want u too, bc u have no self respect. No woman wants a man like that.
U need to walk away and save urself. That’s it. If u do, u will find amazing women again. If ur lucky, this woman will maybe change her mind, MAYBE. But if u don’t, you will get NOTHING. Not this girl, not another, no one. I hope u choose wisely.
I still have a weakness for women with BIG BREASTS!
Paul Robin as long as they aren't hanging on a total fatty!
@@landonic81 White women all end up morbidly obese. Give them time...and they all become fat bags.
@@the_gilded_age_phoenix8717 Fuck you! White women are the best - no argument even needed.
@@the_gilded_age_phoenix8717 Happens to black women too. It is only like 2lb/a kilo a year but from 35yr to 55yr is a 40lb/20kg weight gain. Just have to keep that 2lb from stacking on each year....how difficult is that?
Big breast with skinny body.. that's my weaknesses
Rich, as always...ever grateful for your videos. You're going to want to kick my ass when I relay this, but...here goes. Reader's Digest version. Met a woman (A single Mom. Yes, I know...) on a dating site recently. At the time of my reaching out to her, my job had me overseas. Our texts were pretty frequent and given what you stated in this video - receptive would be what I would say she was. Quickly made a date for after my return home, setting a venue that I found out she was also going to recommend. Date went fine - let her talk for most of our time together. Ended nicely. Exchanged e-mail addresses. Then thanked for the evening in one e-mail shortly afterward. Exchanged numbers. Got her address...even dropped by and spent a short time together with her. Receiving an e-mail stating visit was fun and nice. Thanking me. A little over a week later 2nd date floundered a bit - she was ill (anxiety attack) and we worked around that. Reaching out to me 3 hours prior to cancel. Hey, shit happens sometimes. She pointed out that she was seeking help for this illness and pointed out that it was really having her test her patience levels. I showed empathy with understanding and this was very appreciated by her. Another get together was planned and carried out. Then came the...'all I can offer you is friendship at this point in time [My Name]. Too easy. Yeah, whatever was my thinking. In keeping this short I'll just say that a short while later...another..."all I can offer you is friendship at this point in time [My Name]. Stating that she didn't wish to give me a sense of false hope...Wouldn't mind if I were to continue on with my searching and dating other women on this site, etc. (Also, throw in there another reference to patience.) So, somewhere she had gone from being receptive to non-receptive I thought. (She even baked cookies for me, LoL what was up with that LoL.) I figure that given our discussions she must only been separated from her ex for probably just less than a year. (And that they were together for approx. 15 years. Given her oldest child's age.) I took ALL of this 'friend zone stuff' as she just wasn't into me...and ended it in an e-mail and left. I felt really bad, initially. However, seeing some of your videos...I see that I may have dodged a possible bullet here. I'm slowly getting past this...yet know that I WILL. What might your impressions be, here?
Good video. I recently went no contact on one that was throwing bad signs. She showed no interest, never asked questions and started to come up with reasons as to why she couldn’t talk without making any effort to talk later. It hit me that I was putting in way to much effort in everything and that’s when I knew it was time to walk.
I never Chase I accept there advances based on what I like.
Men have to be strong when dealing with the other sex cause they don't play fair!!!😎
Haha straight up I don’t hit them up on social media’s or seem thirsty an at bars I kinda just chill until one comes up to me
Abundance vs. Scarcity. I only get in a bad place when I think there are few, or no other women, out there that I could be interested in.
When I remember that there are thousands, yes thousands, of them - I’m in a good place again.😊
Yes, completely agree with the question stuff. I mentioned that too in my vid. Biggest one is that a woman makes time for you if she likes you, she touches you if shes into you and yes she asks questions. Not that complicated :)
Hey I just want to say thanks for this. I used the advice that you said about having them ask you questions and I have been having more success with women in general. I love this channel honest to god truth. Keep it up man!
Everything he said here is spot on accurate. I had a cute woman that asked questions and planned a date and paid for it all after I took care of the first date. She also drove the distance. In the end, I just let her go because I'm honestly done playing step dad for the third time and I'm sick of pets. Besides that, she was honestly a great person but as they say, "the older you get, the less impressed you are about things". In my case, I've been there before. Screwed over one too many times and once you learn how to be alone and making your own money and stuff, the less you want a woman to come in and mess it all up.
when you have over 100k in the bank...she likes you
You need a lot more than that.
@@brianmcg321 not in Arkansas
I never let on how much money I have.
I'm in complete agreement with you in reference to the passive and receptive types. I would also like to add to the category passive aggressive because there are women out there who wait for any opportunity for the man to slip up in during conversation or actions. Good video confirming what I've always suspected and debated with others.
Great video ! Thanks for posting sir!
how to know if anyone likes you: they talk to you, then you hang out, etc.
amen
Spot on.
wow what a change from back 5 years ago. Huge progress, more confident, better posture, etc.... congrats!!!!
He’s saying all the things I intuitively knew but was told I was wrong. Great feeling to know I WAS right. People ask “are you or have you been married?”
I say “no, and I’ve never been divorced and lost have of everything I worked for”
Can you list the cars you’re driving in the description box?
After watching this video I now believe no girl has ever liked me.
Great video. This guy gives very good advice that's down to earth and makes a lot of sense.
You are right on Target with this Sir Outstanding
Even better why don't you focus to better yourself?
True but if you're a straight man then you want to engage in nude relations with a woman you're attracted to every once in a while lol. There's plenty of other videos that person to bettering yourself
Everything here is perfect. Except the person who is asking the questions is the one in control.
Ask a ton of questions. Don't give lengthy response to her questions.
It makes you look mysterious. Women love that.
Always be in control of the conversation.
I'm loving the wisdom thanks!
wow.....i want to thank you brother... you definitely opened my eyes...especially in the online world.... i appreciate the video..
Thx
There's 4 types of women; reciprocators, rejectors, erotic hypocrites - passive manipulators, and manipulative time wasters. Check out a book called "Mode One" by Alan Roger Curry.
I own all of Currie's books. They are spot on. Like he says you have to show women what you want from them up front. Some will be receptive, most won't. But the Recipricators will and those are the best when it comes to sex. Wear a condom.
Hello!! I am a girl, when i meet my boyfriend i realised he didnt have a car ( i meet him online), he was renting a place with three people more, BUT because i really liked him because i was really interested i didnt care about picking him up, with his seven years old because yes he is a father, i gave him presents stuff i know he needs because he was going through difficult times. If a girl really likes u she will let u know u wont need to be chasing too much she will meet u halfway.
Liz I'd also advise you to be really careful here. This guys seems to be in a very unstable situation. How can he even date you in any authentic way? He has to get his shit together, his own place, job, transport AND A BABYSITTER...before dating. My concern is odds are he may accept money from you and take advantage of you.
Be careful Liz.
@@JD-fx1np Yeah, but it's fine if it were the other way around. Western guys bitch about the way Western women are, but they created them and their nutty entitlement mindset.
Ur buying ur way
@@the_gilded_age_phoenix8717 just bc I'm warning here doesn't mean I give single moms a pass. Don't know why you would assume that. But there are single moms who have their shit together ie job, own money, a LOT more than this guy. That's all
@@JD-fx1np From my experience....single moms are usually bad decision makers that have serious financial problems. In general, women are usually in worse financial positions than men. They generally work lower skilled "hobby" jobs, have numerous health expenses, spend money like crazy on frivolous things and have less work ethic. If they do have higher positions, they spend more, try to work less and then retire rather quickly.
You're right on about this topic!
great advice ...love your channel
I had a girl who wanted to settle the bill and she never really spoke to me afterwards
Perhaps she didn't want to feel like she owes something to you and just seal the deal.
Yea they just look at it sometimes as "50 bucks to get you out of my life".
Or you can pay for the debt and she still ghosts you. It’s a volatile game out there
Messages, numbers, texts, questions, pictures, more questions.... then grab a drink? If you've written a book before you've even met her, she's not that interested. If she wants to meet at a restaurant of her choosing, she's interested in a free meal not in you. If she wants to meet for coffee, say no! Too much time to say something stupid. If there's a bill to fight over, you've screwed up, don't spend money on strange women, you'll go broke.
Finally, MGTOW isn't some woman hating club, it's about not letting women dominate your life, your free time and your money..
"Finally, MGTOW isn't some woman hating club, it's about not letting women dominate your life, your free time and your money.."
Which for a fair swath of that segment is the icing on the cake of disdain for women (which to some degree is justified).
So what is your idea for a first date? If she suggests grabbing a meal, she just wants a free meal. If she suggests having a coffee, she will talk too much... I wonder what has worked in your life so far. Inviting yourself over to her home so she can cook for you?
Ludmila Marešová Lol That's actually not the worst idea.
I thought that's what MGTOW was at first, too, but it really is saturated with women-hating men. That's why I don't consider myself MGTOW anymore (even though I would fall into the category). I don't hate women, and a lot of the MGTOW community couldn't handle that...
Nalo yep. MGTOW has become the male version of the feminazis. In fact, it would be fun to have a big social, a dance or something, and the only people invited are feminazis and MGTOW’s. The rest of us normal people can watch it on PPV.
This is completely accurate, minus the giving the number out excuse part. I need to establish a real conversation longer then a few texts back and forth before I feel there’s a reason to go any further. If I can’t keep a real conversation where both parties are conversing back and forth for at least a few hours I absolutely refuse to give my number out any sooner.
Mariana Grant That's reasonable
Solid advice, bro. Thanks a lot
A woman grabbing the bill means YOU ARE ONLY FRIENDS
Dude you're spot on... no BS kind of dude. You kind of slap us all awake. Just subscribed. Your channel is EPIC! 38 yrs old out here in Los Angeles. Your videos reaffirm what I already know but sometimes you forget about it. You're like the big bro telling us "wake the fuck up". Lol. Thanks bro. Keep em coming! Great stuff
Great video bro. Really great and helpful. Greetings from Cyprus
This is all accurate. Especially waiting to send spicy pics over text etc. It can be a big turn off because it becomes that much harder for us to tell what someone’s motives are
most guys are like dogs swarming around a rotten festering piece of meat ,,
and the females will be with almost all of them in the long run
Your so romantic :-)
How could you word this out even better more
@@nightharvester6567 that picture scares me and looks like you consume. Lol. so what exactly do you harvest
@@damian-795 oh that's just me venting online in a poetic way :))
If a high-value woman is interested in you, there will be no doubt of that; she will communicate her interest without going overboard. She will then wait for you to communicate your interest. If you don't contact her again, she'll assume you're not interested, and move on without drama or recrimination. There is no scarcity of interested men.
If a woman grabs the check and pays all or part of it, it means she is NOT interested in seeing you again. She doesn't want to be indebted to you, so she will offer to pay half. She doesn't want to have accepted your hospitality. High-value women value their time and yours highly, and the cost of the date is the least of her worries. She would be appalled to have you think that she was there for a free coffee, a free meal, or a free anything. She is being polite by paying her share.
Never take advice about women from a women.
And wanting to share the Bill is a sign of a generous women. But it is also a shit test. Dont accept to split the Bill untill you have had atleast 3-4 dates, but only if she really really wants to.
Angela Langlotz This is a good point Angela, I was dating this fucking beautiful hot ass girl who is fending off guys and she said the same thing about being indebted if not interested. Makes sense. She’s classy, wears Prada and Louie V, business owner and a drop dead natural beauty. I had no qualms paying and I hit it raw on the first date 😂😂😂😂
All true.
Just discovered your videos. Love them!! Wish more men were listening. Have you done a video describing what works and what doesn't on these swipe dating apps....some of the profiles are not helping these guys. Lol.
Right on bro I been watching your channel for a couple months now and I think you have fantastic advice and feedback. I've been on the dating market for a couple years now and experienced tons of trial and error. I have become a bit of a dating site guru, only thing though is i land majority low hanging fruit that is fine for getting laid and passing time with sometimes ha, no real winners yet unfortunately. That has a lot to do with still improving upon myself first on the sexual marketplace value factors. Otherwise you nailed it big-time on everything that you said on this video man. After swallowing the red pill, my dating life has been unlike anything I've known since becoming single again and or before. Thanks for the great insight rich.
Soo true singles need to get off the texting chat and interact with the real person!!!
Do you have somewhere to go or do you just go around in circles? Genuinely curious
Driving around, without a specific destination, is quite relaxing.
When you have a race car you drive it just for the sake of driving it. That's the fun part of owning a race car. It's not for transportation. It's for racing around and having fun, no matter where you end up.
No coffee. No comedians.
I wanna know how he never hits traffic I'm jealous
Thank you for another vid. 😎👍