How Lebanese Parents Raise Their Kids!

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  • The wonders of growing up as a Lebanese kid! Enjoy!
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Komentáře • 801

  • @elgriego331
    @elgriego331 Před 6 lety +1258

    I just sent this to my Lebanese mom and her slipper came thru the window! She lives 15 miles away.

  • @UraharaRyusuke
    @UraharaRyusuke Před 6 lety +868

    When your lebanese parents call you "mama" or "baba", even tho THEY are the parents..... i actually do this with my son 🙈"mama ta3al la hon"

    • @SaMa-jc7kw
      @SaMa-jc7kw Před 6 lety +11

      You Probably Don't Know Me But I'm Awesome 😂😂👍

    • @onlybrad8434
      @onlybrad8434 Před 6 lety +72

      and somehow every older man is your paternal uncle

    • @minoriruba1828
      @minoriruba1828 Před 6 lety +13

      OMG!!! Bengali parents do the same!!! They call us amma,ma,ammu,mamoni(mom) and baba, abbu,abba,abba(dad)!!!!!!

    • @AmelDousary1
      @AmelDousary1 Před 6 lety +15

      You Probably Don't Know Me But I'm Awesome I do it. All Arabs do it. I call my son mama. Lol. My British husband didn't get it at first.

    • @Yoshi-fj8qh
      @Yoshi-fj8qh Před 5 lety +2

      You Probably Don't Know Me But I'm Awesome omg yes. He calls me sister too

  • @Jess-ne6fw
    @Jess-ne6fw Před 6 lety +816

    You forgot the part when you do something wrong and your dad goes "yl3an abouk" and you mom tells you "yl3an hal marba" 😂

    • @Hm-cm-24
      @Hm-cm-24 Před 6 lety +14

      what does it mean buddy?

    • @Jess-ne6fw
      @Jess-ne6fw Před 6 lety +76

      indu hari when lebanese parents get mad at their kids they will curse... themselves 😂 "Yl3an abouk" as in the father is telling his own children "curse your father" and the mother would tell her children " yl3an hal marba" as in curse the ones that raised you like this ( herself and husband )

    • @tonyrahme96
      @tonyrahme96 Před 6 lety +61

      Sad Becky also don’t forget when the mother says: “ya eben/bent el sharmouta”

    • @nadirovaaj5427
      @nadirovaaj5427 Před 6 lety +9

      Sad Becky 😂😆

    • @namiquekhan7660
      @namiquekhan7660 Před 6 lety +9

      Tony Rahme what is the meaning of sharmouta?

  • @pippogriffthegreat7003
    @pippogriffthegreat7003 Před 5 lety +129

    I’m so glad I love looking at different cultures. They make the world so beautiful when you realize that flip flops are a universal tool of child traumatizing 😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @minaminaccia6356
      @minaminaccia6356 Před 5 lety +1

      🤣🤣🤣

    • @minaminaccia6356
      @minaminaccia6356 Před 5 lety

      @Hamid Hussein
      بابوج او حفايه

    • @theverge8210
      @theverge8210 Před 4 lety

      🤣

    • @nisrinekasmi286
      @nisrinekasmi286 Před 3 lety +3

      Oh yes ! I thought those tools are used just in Morocco but it seems they use them in Lebanon , Brazil and India and many other countries 😁

    • @twentyroses
      @twentyroses Před 10 měsíci +1

      In Austria 🇦🇹 it was the belt, a broom, a wooden stick or the fist. Even teachers were allowed to do that.
      Thankfully not in my generation anymore, but 1 or 2 generations back then. Today physical punishing a kid is illegal in austria & in many other european countrys too. If teachers or parents beat a child, they would instantly loose their job and if someone call the child- & youthauthority, the family gets from then on regular visits from familyworker, could send mandatory to antiviolence-therapy, or in the worst case if nothing else helped: take the child/juvenile out of the family.
      That happened to a friend of mine. She feels better now and the authority finance her even therapy for working through traumatas (In her case violence was not the only thing her parents did to her...), and so on.
      In austria children have rights and are highly protected by law.
      I'm glad about that. 👍

  • @cutebubbles2007
    @cutebubbles2007 Před 6 lety +473

    I guess lebanese parents and latin parents have a lot in common hahaha

    • @julieagui01
      @julieagui01 Před 6 lety +18

      cutebubbles2007 so true 😂 just like Latino parents

    • @-Faris-
      @-Faris- Před 6 lety +11

      La chancla... more like “al mesheye” for the lebanese

    • @mohammadkabbani8786
      @mohammadkabbani8786 Před 6 lety +13

      Trust me you have no idea😂

    • @AmelDousary1
      @AmelDousary1 Před 6 lety +17

      cutebubbles2007 I think somehow when Arabs conquered Spain and then the Spanish went to South America the Genes made it to the people there. I'm guessing. Lol

    • @farisfaris1900
      @farisfaris1900 Před 6 lety +7

      because Latin are heavily influenced by Spain and every nice and sophisticated in Spanish culture was the influence of our Arabian culture

  • @iman1922
    @iman1922 Před 6 lety +178

    Don't forget the cruel nicknames: wli, habla, ja7shi 😭

  • @austinmeyerfilms
    @austinmeyerfilms Před 6 lety +548

    My lebanese girlfriend is your biggest fan.. it has me worried :)

  • @ruby87verde
    @ruby87verde Před 5 lety +26

    Lmao I'm from Puerto Rico and i was raised exactly like this but I would never tell them to "eat shit" I would've been fed my own teeth😂😂😂 tomorrow is my birthday and the first one without my father who passed away on June. I'm grateful for having him as my father, I miss him every day.

  • @defenderoffreespeechpronra336

    😂😂 I love the part where 3 "beat your ass" choices are given, with "choose" as a statement.

  • @BillAllanWorld
    @BillAllanWorld Před 6 lety +169

    This was literally a flashback of my entire life!! I love your Leb videos, Mark. I share them with all of my brothers and cousins. Keep on making these!

  • @letseatgrandpa2905
    @letseatgrandpa2905 Před 6 lety +80

    I can't stop laughing 😂 this is so true

  • @chocolateicecream3430
    @chocolateicecream3430 Před 6 lety +66

    From 0:30 to 0:40 that’s Russian mothers right there. When I’m done eating and she asks do you want more and I say no. Then she’s like “ whaaaat you didn’t like it?!” After that, you can choose your own path. 1: to say no and then get slapped or 2: say yes but I’m full and still get more food put on your plate. #GrowingupRussian. All jokes aside, keep up the good work Mark!

    • @Baldovixxx
      @Baldovixxx Před 5 lety +4

      You know what weapons russian moms use to raise their children??
      S-400 jk😂

    • @84Terminator
      @84Terminator Před 5 lety +5

      Russians are less “ Westernized “ and somehow have Eastern flavor. That’s why many things are common with Middle East.

  • @fantaxsea6791
    @fantaxsea6791 Před 6 lety +17

    You forgot about that part when, returning late and your father waiting for you while you sneaking out 😂😂

  • @wasimsmeirat8288
    @wasimsmeirat8288 Před 6 lety +24

    I am jordanian but this is still the exact same thing for me😂😂😂

    • @spinazola4518
      @spinazola4518 Před 5 lety +11

      All the arabic countries are like this 🤣

    • @firasharb1454
      @firasharb1454 Před 3 lety

      Well .... yea . It’s an Arab thing .

  • @juancarlosdesoto2652
    @juancarlosdesoto2652 Před 4 lety +8

    Me and my family are Mexican, I feel like we share so many gestures and traditions with the Lebanese people. The "chancla" or "slipper" part was on point! Lol

    • @AMoi-Meme-gs7pb
      @AMoi-Meme-gs7pb Před 9 měsíci

      There are a lot of Lebanese in Mexico and Latin America

  • @dewhashish
    @dewhashish Před 6 lety +61

    oh god, flashbacks to the belt

    • @mh_nad2110
      @mh_nad2110 Před 6 lety +2

      dewhashish plz don't remind me

    • @oussama5597
      @oussama5597 Před 5 lety

      Whe worst thing the belt

    • @nerd6140
      @nerd6140 Před 5 lety

      Oh god dont even remind me

    • @socktale614
      @socktale614 Před 5 lety

      Oooof the memories XD

    • @kejwiethe1592
      @kejwiethe1592 Před 4 lety

      My father when he try to hit me with belt his pants fall

  • @HaHa-xs2gd
    @HaHa-xs2gd Před 6 lety +8

    Omg sooo relatable. I showed this too my dad and he started saying "eh shou he" when the kid said koll khara

  • @The_Monteiro
    @The_Monteiro Před 6 lety +159

    I was raised in a more African American up bringing and we to had multiple choice "weapons" for punishment. Lol

    • @zeyadelhussein7104
      @zeyadelhussein7104 Před 5 lety +10

      Sadly there is no right answer 😂😂

    • @dashMskyler
      @dashMskyler Před 4 lety +1

      As an Eastern-European for example, I was given no choice...ever, lol

    • @tanyakasim3988
      @tanyakasim3988 Před 3 lety

      For me and my sisters growing up, if we complained that we were bored, our mother would find something for us to do and if we complained that life wasn't fair, we got, "I can ask your father to drop you off at a refugee camp."

  • @RamenNDLS
    @RamenNDLS Před 4 lety +7

    My dad was talking until “kol khara” appeared 😂

  • @rubis_abn
    @rubis_abn Před 6 lety +26

    here's the thing the Lebanese parents are all of these at once

  • @aradi96
    @aradi96 Před 6 lety +17

    I remember back when I was in elementary school, kids would explain how their parents used to beat them up, some would show me their new scars while the talk about how the last beating went down. They all used to share their stories. They used to make fun of me because my parents never beat me up at all...
    I'm so glad my parents weren't that type to be honest 😅

    • @sarakrause4287
      @sarakrause4287 Před 6 lety +9

      Husain Ali
      Yeah you should be. These kids were abused.

  • @ML-tx8dt
    @ML-tx8dt Před 5 lety +5

    all arab parents do this
    once my mom told me this
    "you know why i treat u this way
    BECAUSE WHEN U GROW UP YOU BE A STRONG LADY"

    • @hmmtheyesguy
      @hmmtheyesguy Před 4 lety

      Nope not some rich parents in kuwait.

  • @karimsleiman6972
    @karimsleiman6972 Před 6 lety +23

    The ending tho😂😂

  • @jone4586
    @jone4586 Před 4 lety +24

    0:16 the biggest mistake of his life...

  • @kdhanimesan
    @kdhanimesan Před 5 lety +5

    In turkey we also have the "slippers of doom". This tool, if propperly used, becomes a precise and deadly weapon, which hits it's targets even around the corner and never misses.
    Greetings from germany!

  • @IUSB99
    @IUSB99 Před 3 lety +2

    I lived in Greece when I was a teenager and this brings back so many memories of how people communicated versus my protected sheltered white Anglo-Saxon Protestant upbringing otherwise.
    Especially when Greeks would argue in English with a thick Greek accent almost indistinguishable from some of your videos.
    Also, the hand gestures and general attitude work very well when arguing or negotiating with Anglo ppl.
    Nothing throws them off-balance quicker than an unexpected flick of the wrist or "look".

  • @joanfreyre
    @joanfreyre Před 6 lety +2

    Hilariously familiar. I have heard all of this in my friends' houses, but mysteriously, my Syrian American mother did her best to keep us American, so I had to learn it in other people's homes, and I am thankful. It is part of our souls.

  • @ozzitor8
    @ozzitor8 Před 6 lety +68

    Latino households are exactly the same. It's uncanny, really.

    • @ameersbeih6777
      @ameersbeih6777 Před 5 lety +8

      As an Arab-Mexican, I experience both, lmao

    • @elichu2237
      @elichu2237 Před 5 lety +3

      So truuue my mother is Russian and she do the same 😂😂

    • @elichu2237
      @elichu2237 Před 5 lety

      @Sara S ??

    • @cruyffssoul2397
      @cruyffssoul2397 Před 4 lety

      Ameer Sbeih Feel bad for you there lol

  • @Moycep
    @Moycep Před 6 lety +30

    Hahaha I'm dead!
    I'm Somali n my parents its like dat
    Keep it up dg!#DG
    قصبا عنك بتاكل😋😋
    From Australia

    • @alita7785
      @alita7785 Před 5 lety

      Alexx x
      غصباً عنك *

    • @MohammedZadjali
      @MohammedZadjali Před 5 lety

      Yeah as funny as it may sound it's actually not funny! This is why alotta Arabs are obese.

    • @andreia5113
      @andreia5113 Před 5 lety

      im aussie too

  • @wahibhabet
    @wahibhabet Před 6 lety +9

    Love all your videos!

  • @RaffaelloLorenzusSayde
    @RaffaelloLorenzusSayde Před 2 lety +3

    I am Lebanese and can relate very much lol 🤣🤣🤣 it's in our genes 🇱🇧 although I never continued my education in secondary school (boring, too complicated and stressful, etc.) I still like to study certain subjects while working in retail for the time being. Btw you forgot the empty ice tray that we leave in or out of the freezer and our Lebanese parents get very mad when we don't fill it up and put back in freezer. Also, when we leave the fridge open for too long our Lebanese parents get angry too.

  • @missolivia3901
    @missolivia3901 Před 4 lety

    Thank you❤❤

  • @user-hp5rc4it4l
    @user-hp5rc4it4l Před 5 lety +3

    I'm syrian and I love the labanese accent
    and this vedio true 100%😂

  • @jomseng9674
    @jomseng9674 Před 4 lety

    Love short video like this

  • @danielmasters5484
    @danielmasters5484 Před 6 lety +1

    I have been living in the Arab World for the past 34 years and although I don’t live in Lebanon, the Lebanese are part of the landscape in the country I live. Your videos are great and are giving me some insight into the world of the mysterious (to me) Lebanese. So entertaining!

  • @glorymrad6070
    @glorymrad6070 Před 5 lety

    Dude your voice is just lovely 😀

  • @yosantsegai1965
    @yosantsegai1965 Před 3 lety

    Can relate to some of these

  • @sarah_turkish
    @sarah_turkish Před 5 lety

    The best and my favourite video of mark hachem

  • @syn586
    @syn586 Před 4 lety

    This channel is awesome. You deserve way more subs Mark !

  • @aylili4549
    @aylili4549 Před 6 lety +4

    Love the videos man😂😂😍

  • @chamirambahi1653
    @chamirambahi1653 Před 6 lety +8

    When your dad says "Yenhal aboek" and you say but you're my dad ... dead 😭

  • @oreoseviemsp2096
    @oreoseviemsp2096 Před 5 lety

    So true habibi xx

  • @g-lobe883
    @g-lobe883 Před 4 lety

    more pls i love it so mutch i the begining of the video i started crying

  • @yoricknicholls
    @yoricknicholls Před 5 lety +3

    HAHA when you pulled up those weapons: My childhood to a T. And I deserved every single swing.
    Chez les Francais, c'est la meme chose.

  • @8geoking184
    @8geoking184 Před 6 lety +1

    the last one is soo true

  • @lionsmsp2781
    @lionsmsp2781 Před 4 lety

    Love this video♥️

  • @kerim0o0
    @kerim0o0 Před 6 lety

    ABSOLUTE GEM OF A VIDEO

  • @giosaad6915
    @giosaad6915 Před 4 lety +1

    I live in Lebanon and my parents are actually great

    • @VASUNTHARAI
      @VASUNTHARAI Před 4 lety

      Gio Saad Good for you! I don’t even live there but this is literally how my mom is😭

  • @MsKK909
    @MsKK909 Před 3 lety

    🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I’m enjoying your channel so much! I grew up in a small Southern town that, believe it or not, had a big Lebanese Christian community .....and the kids all spoke with very strong Southern drawls...i think you’d find it amusing. I learned to love Middle Eastern food when I was playing with them when we were little kids. We’d run in for a snack and when at their houses, my favorite was cold kibbeh from the fridge with mustard on it! LOL!! Their church would have a big fund raiser every year. They’d hire some great, well known band and sell tickets and food... we called it, “The Kibbeh Stomp” and people would come from miles around to attend because the bands were so good. They had to keep getting their bigger and bigger venues because the yearly “Stomp” would get more and more famous and popular. You were totally uncool and a total loser if you missed the kibbeh stomp! My playmates grandmothers spoke mostly Arabic and would force feed me that delicious food.....l loved it!

  • @karinm2
    @karinm2 Před 6 lety +1

    so great

  • @nightcrawler2126
    @nightcrawler2126 Před 6 lety +9

    Lived those😭😭 im Lebanese btw

  • @sarahkontar7231
    @sarahkontar7231 Před 6 lety

    This is so relatable especially the wait till I get home 😭

  • @elphamagnom6701
    @elphamagnom6701 Před 4 lety

    والله ضحكتني من كل قلبي - أنت فنان مبدع

  • @QAWoods
    @QAWoods Před 5 lety

    You killed me at the end, I died from laughter.

  • @dragonflairjr2393
    @dragonflairjr2393 Před 5 lety

    When I watch your videos I feel like I’m at home with my parents 🇱🇧🇱🇧🇱🇧🇱🇧

  • @aspendreams8688
    @aspendreams8688 Před 4 lety

    Funny. I can totally relate to that. Lol

  • @madjidamokrane664
    @madjidamokrane664 Před 4 lety

    Top Habibi !

  • @ellazantout2005
    @ellazantout2005 Před 5 lety

    These were so accurate I swear

  • @momsmasher69
    @momsmasher69 Před rokem +1

    My mom is the rainshower of affection

  • @shannonsemaan
    @shannonsemaan Před 6 lety +1

    This is so true

  • @michaelduku3041
    @michaelduku3041 Před 4 lety

    Im Canadian and i lived in Lebanon for 7 years so i understand everything you said

  • @docholliday1993
    @docholliday1993 Před 6 lety

    As always Mark, your videos are 100% correct. Aafak!

  • @hamoudi4958
    @hamoudi4958 Před 6 lety +1

    i can so relate 😂😂😂😂

  • @jamesinameti6184
    @jamesinameti6184 Před rokem

    Hahahahahahahaha. So they are so passionate!

  • @asimaqureshi9766
    @asimaqureshi9766 Před 4 lety

    This was very funny good job:)

  • @maryk446
    @maryk446 Před 5 lety +1

    I'm Italian-American but just found out through ancestry DNA testing that I'm 4% Lebanese. So glad I found this channel. Believe it or not, I have an Italian relative that looks almost exactly like Mark Hachem!

  • @sarahme4427
    @sarahme4427 Před 5 lety +1

    Hiiii from Algeria!❤️ We live exactly the same thing with our parents 😔

  • @jeremyhashem7147
    @jeremyhashem7147 Před 6 lety

    this is my childhood summed in in a minute. lol dying over here

  • @vines4801
    @vines4801 Před 5 lety

    I think this is accurate of my dad. Yep. Exactly.

  • @msrose2289
    @msrose2289 Před 6 lety

    Best channel ever

  • @PurplePrincesss
    @PurplePrincesss Před 4 lety

    Wow the woman in the family never missed with the slippers when they aimed. Even when you are running away that shit would turn and still hit you. The where professional.

  • @han-wx2sn
    @han-wx2sn Před 5 lety +2

    the best part is when your parents regret ever having you when you make them mad. " Lek yel3an el se3a ille jebtik fiya 3a hal dinye" . top notch insult.

    • @bilalhamurabi3362
      @bilalhamurabi3362 Před 4 lety

      omg I heard that so often. or yil3an abuuk which my father used to say essentially cursing himself. 😂

  • @lolamarie8179
    @lolamarie8179 Před 6 lety

    Number 1,2,3 and 4 👌 especially number 4, you sound exactly like my mum, Aunty, uncles...whole of my family 😂

  • @wahyunikamaru7303
    @wahyunikamaru7303 Před 5 lety

    😂😂😂😂😂 love this video.. greetings from indonesia

  • @adrianmferrando
    @adrianmferrando Před 3 lety +1

    I am half-lebanese and I am proud to say that this is an accurate representation of the lebanese part of my fam.

  • @jasmin9692
    @jasmin9692 Před 5 lety

    Story of my childhood. So true 😂😂

  • @phoenixonfire101
    @phoenixonfire101 Před 5 lety +2

    I died laughing😂😂 love this vid💗❤

    • @kl898687
      @kl898687 Před 4 lety +1

      Middle East and Asian culture have similarities..different from western way of living

  • @Ayah100
    @Ayah100 Před 6 lety +1

    this is the funniest thing everrrrrrrrrr!!!!!

  • @PotionsMaster007
    @PotionsMaster007 Před 4 lety

    Emta hat7l 3ani - naki 😂😂 that’s gold

  • @assemmoughrabi919
    @assemmoughrabi919 Před 6 lety

    2llah la ywaf2k

  • @sarahturkie6958
    @sarahturkie6958 Před 6 lety +1

    So true

  • @lh_sa_ab2401
    @lh_sa_ab2401 Před 5 lety

    I can't believe how true this is😂

  • @sarahwasson864
    @sarahwasson864 Před 4 lety

    👌👏😂😂😂I literally am dieing of laughter 🤣

  • @konstantinosd.9427
    @konstantinosd.9427 Před 5 lety

    i am greek and anything u show is the same for us too.. always laugh with your videos remind me of my upbringing

  • @tonyjervis1060
    @tonyjervis1060 Před 6 lety

    So true so so true

  • @insaffadlkhalil6812
    @insaffadlkhalil6812 Před 4 lety

    Your lebanese acent is great

  • @chastry100
    @chastry100 Před 6 lety

    Oh the expectations !!

  • @rimixd3968
    @rimixd3968 Před 2 lety

    Jaja, TRUE!!

  • @syro4030
    @syro4030 Před 4 lety

    This is so relatable. I understand this so damn much. I am lucky my parents didn't come in on me watching this video. Damn.

  • @elenasavva1
    @elenasavva1 Před 6 lety

    I'm from Cyprus and this is a brief description of my life

  • @hexalynn9434
    @hexalynn9434 Před 6 lety

    The accuracy xD

  • @MOmo-ne6lx
    @MOmo-ne6lx Před 5 lety

    Can't stop laughing😂😂I lived in Lebanon for many years

  • @lonlylove4823
    @lonlylove4823 Před 6 lety

    كتير حلو مارك موفق

  • @suhad4610
    @suhad4610 Před rokem

    So parenting is a universal way of doing it 😂😂😂

  • @HUSSEINRR
    @HUSSEINRR Před 6 lety +5

    Hey, Mark. Why not make one or more about traditional lebanese dishes?

  • @Yharielsama
    @Yharielsama Před 3 lety

    WALLAH I RELATE TO ALL THIS

  • @zeinabbazzi8822
    @zeinabbazzi8822 Před 5 lety

    Wallah this is so freaken true..😅😅

  • @roses.9181
    @roses.9181 Před 6 lety

    Hahaha this is the best!

  • @arabicstar528
    @arabicstar528 Před 3 lety

    hhhhh nailed it!

  • @itsme1616
    @itsme1616 Před 5 lety

    This is so hilarious because it is so true!
    XD