Can an INFP Date an INFP?
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- čas přidán 11. 04. 2020
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INFP with an INFP boyfriend here. We haven’t been dating too long. We started out seeing each other casually, but then a few months in realized that our chemistry/emotional connection was just so intense we wanted to be together. We were spending entire weekends together just enjoying each other’s company. The feeling “seen” thing is absolutely true. I’ve never felt so seen and loved and admired and understood before. Don’t know where this relationship will take us, but I’m just happy to have experienced it.
As an infp myself Ive been dating my infp boyfriend for over a year now and its amazing :3
REALLY , both of u are INFP
Omg u guys inner world must be so mystifying and magical
Mee too!!
I'm an INFP woman married to another INFP woman. It's been very hard at times but it's above all SO worth it and beautiful
I’m INFP Woman, I can’t stop thinking to purpose my INFP crush, can I jus marry her and be with her till we grey but we will dye our hair pink, purple and blue so we think we will never old together
I loved this, it all really rang true to me. I was thinking about how, when I was young, I found very conflicted with other INFPs, and as I got older, I’d feel very strange if I was shown any love by them. It was uncomfortable because I didn’t know how to respond to it - it felt like, in order to receive it, it was like being naked and exposed in a way? I think as I’ve gotten older I’ve slowly realised the great benefit of the INFP relationships, how it inspires me to be more ‘myself’...and the wonderful feeling of safety and loyalty that the INFP-INFP relationship can bring with it (I think anyway).
I picture a lot of nightime conversations on the sofa, a lot of netflix, a lot of walks in nature, a lot of genuine understanding and kindness. Not a lot of pushing each other towards confronting your fears though, not a lot of valuing goals and material progress in life in general but rather creating a bubble of comfort that is just too comfortable to want to get out of even if sometimes in life you have to. Amazing for long lasting friendships. For romance or raising children having a family etc I dont know...Same strengths and weaknesses leaves an unbalanced relation in the long term. Great for friendship, for romance...maybe, if one works hard for growth and dares to develop the weaker functions.
Sweets, glitters and love in our little comfy bubble.
The picture i have when it comes to describe my relationship with my boyfriend. We are both INFPs, and when i heard about the competeting love my ears twitched a bit. This is only my experience, i don't say it has to be like that for everyone.
Sweet words and love expression more and more shown, and yes sometimes it can feel like a dream, isn't forced at all. We don't want to show we love the other more than he/she (in his case) does. It's just being true to ourselves and our feelings more and more, without feeling ashamed. I'm curious to know how other INFP-INFP live with that feeling of infinite love ♥ (it sounds like a fairy tale it's not always like that)
The roleplay part ! We are lucky, because we can switch really easily and complete each other with what we need. Too well, i have to say. It's so conforting, comfy, this feeling to be home, that we are dependent to each other. Always thinking about the other, worrying, searching ways to make him/her happier, it's not a choice, not for us. This is the only negative part of our unhealthy relationship. But the worse, ian tell you it's the best too, because we don't mind being this "always too much", and it's getting better by itself with time ♥ ♥ ♥
You don't have to fix everything going wrong in your realtionship, love needs time, just like INFPs ♥
Infp and absolutely not interested in dating any type. I want to live my own simple life without any outside interface
lol then why did you watch this video? Secret desires :0
@@antanowrites because I am interested in collecting information regardless of whether I want that or not. I like information. Also have you heard of recommended videos ? Happens sometimes bro
@@deadmanwalking1930 hahaha I meant it as more of a joke. I also like information just for the sake of information, I feel you bro
I feel the same I feel that I don't want to date anyone but I do like learning about myself
Two intimate partners must not become vulnerable to mutual faults. Both being of healthy mindsets is another criticality. As infp, I really would love to fall with another self loving infp.
"Let someone else love you without feeling like you manipulated them into it" UUUUUUUUMMMMMMM SIIIIIR!!!!! That was uncalled for and very loud and I feel so called out right now sheeesh
To find someone who understands the horrific beautiful cyclical sacrifice. To know that shared breath is silent poetry.
To break, in gratitude, waterfall tears at loss, knowing… what once was held, now taken, gives one the power to look into the abyss and see how endlessly deep their love can be.
How noble it is to take up the price, to love with knowledge of pain, to know the world with a bravery and truth. this soul I seek to know deeply.
Woow damn that sounded awesome *-*
We are 2 INFPs who just got together, and your analysis is really amazing! It's a very intense and loving start to all this, I'm hoping tho we don't chill out to oblivion!! We got to have some focus in this life, but it's easy to fall into the big lovey hole together, it's so cosy there!!! Thanks so much xxx
The imposter syndrome described me really well when I’ve been in relationships, especially close ones with very empathetic people (especially extraverts). I never stopped to think about it, but it’s so true! And I’ve also struggled with feeling ingenuine and questioning if I deserve love / kindness, almost ocd about it! I don’t always feel that way, but for sure at times it’s a struggle. Thanks for sharing this, I’ll have to keep your advice in mind whenever I get stuck in one of those ruts again 😀 I’m going to listen again!
i do think you idealise the crap out of us INFPs a lot of the time Mr Thor 😆
Wow. This is so insghtful. Thank you. I really enjoyed the part about allowing yourself to be loved and accepting that genuine connection and the give and take of the INFP wanting to give but seeing the need to receive from the other INFP feeling the same way. Electric!
This is soo beautiful, your so sincere and multi-dimensional when you expressed this. Keep stirring people's true nature so they can appreciate themselves and others more. - from my INFP 6th sense self.
can i ask u ?
I think it can work. My bff was an infp and my brother is too. We understand each other perfectly, which for me personally, outways the negatives of our friendships such as the fact that we argue due to each having strong opinions for example. But the degree of understanding makes it worth it 🌸
Waoow, this was really insightful. I can really see a lot of this in myself. Thanks, Erik ^-^
thank you. I need this. to understand and being understood.
Finally my question. .. that has been running in my mind for past year...
I’m an infp in a relationship with an enfp and I am constantly disappointed that my views can’t be reality. And it makes me really sad sometimes but it’s okay.
Julie Bee idk really. He kinda finds a way around how I feel by justifying his actions with logic. It makes me feel like I’m in the wrong kinda. I probably am.
@@ledzia6622 If I get right what you want to say, I had this with an istp. "Logic prevails". Basic difference, one of those that led to the break-up maybe. I just want to say to you, in a relationship there should always be a try to understand and be understood. In my opinion, you should address that to him the sooner you get the chance. Just, do not treat yourself as if you're in the wrong for how you FEEL. We can be wrong about a bunch of things, but not about the way we feel. I hope that either it's not that big an issue for you or that it will be worked out the sooner for the better. Take care!!
@@spoopygemini That's so funny, because I have actually heard of that same thing about it, while that exact attitude can make you feel like you're talking to a wall and not getting your feelings across at all, which is what you expect in any relationship, and that, in fact, is what makes you the saddest in the end, and not the subject you may have worried about in the beginning - at least that was for me 😁
Julie Bee probably
im an infp and i fall in love with an infp person i think the relantionship will become true cuz there is not such thing as impossible
I have an infp cousin sister. We both love each other very much. She is very much like me although she is six years older than me, we don't really feel the age gap. We both share love for art and we both are curious about the world. Nowdays we don't see each other often. We see each other once a year. As she is busy in university and I am in high school. But whenever we do, we dedicate our time to each other,talk a lot, connect with each other and we both cry when it's time for us to part again. I feel most comfortable with her. I think so I would love to date an infp because I will able to form strong bond with them
5:30 so true, but that can happen with anyone else also...
I hate more or less everyone regardless of labels. The only irl reaction I had with another claimed infp was toxic and therefore brought out my flaws. I think almost anyone personality could work with each other theoretically but idk.
Sorry to hear that
No is the answer to this. My sister is an infp and we get on, but if we spend too much time together it escalated into huge arguments
No impossible. If an INFP dates an INFP our world will stop to exist. It's just not possible! ;)
Why?
@@joepronhaar5682 I'm not sure. I made this comment 4 months ago and forgot what I reacted on. I problably meant in it in a sarcastic manner?
@@PowerRedBullTypology haha, alright 👍
I met another INFP via CZcams, so virtually, and the same day I found my soulmate...
@@kathrinnikitin Oh here she is btw, that's my soulmate! Look everybody go subscribe to her channel
@@kathrinnikitin Oh yeah I knew you loved being the center of attention!! See how talented she is, she draws pictures so good and speaks Russian, German, English and Spanish fluently, and she is a bartender! Look at her!
Yahh,all the issues are surface level. Trust the process and understand you deserve them.
16:40 ya I'll take that advice
Infp and infp in a relationship try to out do each other and that is a very good thing. Its just plain fun
I've only listen to 8 minutes and 10 seconds of the video so far but if your me everything has been very difficult lately and it isn't even really related to the virus for one reason or the other all relationships in my life have been strained or the ones that still exist and I have some hope right now watching your movie that there actually may be something out there for me I Google everything I could think of I try so many different things and I truly feel as if nobody understands me that I'm really speaking a different language and that's if I'm even being hurt I'm using voice dictation right now my mind goes so fast that I can't type fast enough and I have so much to say I've never really found my people or as they say My Tribe I'm a gay 37 year old girl live in Orange County and have had many struggles but so has everyone anyways if there are any infps that want to connect and talk to me or just say hi I'm on Facebook I want Instagram hit me up shoot me a message whatever I would love to talk or just listen I'm going to keep watching the rest of the video and all probably comment again hope everybody is doing well and that your family and loved ones are safe and healthy Happy Easter 2020
15:09 my inner feeling
Romeo and Juliet🤔
Is this the reason why the infp person i admire dnt want to be interested in me anymore.. 😕 Im infp too but i think we still have a lot of differences bcoz i grw up with diff culture and environment to him. Im not a toxic person in my personality type. And i remember before he told me that he see in me that im a balance type of person.
He is the 1st infp I've known.
Im really happy and feel excited when there is someone that seem like me esp. on approach how we view things/situation, im really amazed, thinking finally someone can understand me and knowing that he is not judgemental person.
Or maybe im MIA bcoz of times that being shy 😁
both of u are INFP?
@@sali_bkh8501 yes 😊
@@hoorayorbits6252 really ? ? But I can't understand why all people say no
this is what I'm afraid of.
11:00 ur eyes r scary 🤐😨
It's because he is very deep in his mind probably, I've noticed that I get that same look whenever I'm really focus on something or way deep in my mind