CONVO | An honest realisation that I've also changed - Langa Mbonambi |ThatHusbandPodcast

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  • čas přidán 26. 03. 2024
  • [S1] EPISODE 3: WILL THE REAL HUSBANDS PLEASE STAND UP
    From the exhilarating rush of love to the sobering reality checks, let's delve into the complexities of marriage with raw honesty. No sugar-coating, no filters - just the unadulterated truth about what it takes to build and sustain a meaningful marriage.
    Join Langa Mbonambi and me as we reflect on the struggles of communication, the rollercoaster of emotions, and the profound growth that comes with facing the brutal realities of being a present husband. Whether you're a newlywed, a seasoned spouse, or someone contemplating the journey of marriage, this video offers a genuine glimpse into the realities that await.
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Komentáře • 28

  • @The_Dream_Space
    @The_Dream_Space  Před 2 měsíci

    Hey you! Thanks so much for watching this video. If you enjoy our content and would like to support this platform please feel free to buy us a coffee ☺️ buymeacoffee.com/thedreamspace
    Also, If you have an event of any kind Blaque Nubon is available as an excellent MC and Speaker. Get in touch here booking@blaquenubon.com

  • @116ntobeko
    @116ntobeko Před 3 měsíci +13

    Man, this has been an amazing sobering conversation. As husband we will be forever learning and growing.

    • @The_Dream_Space
      @The_Dream_Space  Před 2 měsíci

      Bro it never stops and that's part of the beauty of the whole thing!!!

  • @KaraboMasemola6408
    @KaraboMasemola6408 Před 2 měsíci +6

    This podcast is doing fantastic work! It would be even more impactful to feature husbands alongside their wives. Showcasing successful marriages, particularly with young husbands under 50, could be incredibly inspiring for young South Africans. Many societal issues stem from a lack of strong marriages and two-parent households. Highlighting positive Christian marriages could resonate with a large audience and provide valuable guidance.

    • @The_Dream_Space
      @The_Dream_Space  Před 2 měsíci +3

      Very true!! We will definitely at some point get wives in and couples in general to enter the space cause hearing from both sides is so valuable. For now we really wanna focus on giving men and husbands or husbands to be the platform because it seems to often be in untapped area but will definitely head in that direction as well 🙏🏾

  • @lillymillion
    @lillymillion Před 3 měsíci +8

    23:00 This realisation about having to be more present for the older kids and the tension you guys faced in having to navigate that genuinely and truly rocked me... Thank you Langa for being so generous in this conversation 💛

    • @The_Dream_Space
      @The_Dream_Space  Před 2 měsíci

      Yeah that was such a sobering thing... And it's such a great thing to witness the growth of a father along with his kids in real time... ❤

  • @mabotsechoshane
    @mabotsechoshane Před 3 měsíci +8

    Love how the Mbonambi’s do family ❤

    • @The_Dream_Space
      @The_Dream_Space  Před 2 měsíci

      AMEN!!! ITS SUCH A DOPE THING TO BEHOLD... We are forever thankful that they share themselves with us...

  • @thatol.podile5672
    @thatol.podile5672 Před 2 měsíci +2

    Powerful Episode
    Standout pieces;
    Kids change everything, we have two, and we really struggled with our first one who was born just before covid. When the second one came I think we were better prepared, the transition and all aspects thereof was a bit smoother.
    Being kind to my wife. We are in our 6th year of marriage and there are still numerous instances where i fail to be kind and patient. She calls me out on it when it happens, but my goal is to get to a point where my kindness to her is beyond measure and boundless.
    Being in a circle of married friends really helps. Having people you can share your struggles with who can also hold you accountable and be honest with you is a precious gift.
    Date nights and time away from the kids just to be together keeps the flame burning.
    We all change and evolve as the years go by. Trying to navigate that as a married couple can prove to be very challenging.

  • @KaraboMasemola6408
    @KaraboMasemola6408 Před 2 měsíci +4

    I wonder why channels like One Gospel not adopt shows like this without taking them away from youtube and also open for us to be members and contribute for enjoying such amazing quality content.

    • @The_Dream_Space
      @The_Dream_Space  Před 2 měsíci +3

      We definitely will evolve to the space to reach more people in TV land. But we are still ever grateful for the power of the internet to reach people that need this. Thanks so much for watching fam 🙏🏾

  • @yolisalisanqari
    @yolisalisanqari Před 2 měsíci +4

    ❤❤Another wholesome episode, looking forward for part 2. From Langa and his journey with wife Unathi and 5 kids I'm taking home the work that he puts in as a husband and what Unathi puts in. Marriage needs work guys , I hear how Langa shares that they set date nights every week just him and his wife❤. I'm reminded of the episode where Blaque shares how he and Lilly intentionally make time for dates as a couple. At times we tend to ignore our marriages and focus on our growing the kids❤
    Thank you guys for this ❤

    • @The_Dream_Space
      @The_Dream_Space  Před 2 měsíci

      Ehhhhh yeah it's easy to just cruise and wake up 20 years later with an unhealthy marriage... You'll get it right sometime and you'll fail other times, the trick is to always be committed to getting up because you are committed to your spouse...

  • @missmpho.
    @missmpho. Před 3 měsíci +4

    So happy you have this guy on

    • @The_Dream_Space
      @The_Dream_Space  Před 3 měsíci +2

      We are so grateful he came on, make sure you don’t miss part two coming up next week 🙏🏾 -Blaque

  • @LindoMchunu
    @LindoMchunu Před 4 dny

    Mannnnn 💙💙💙💙

  • @Mamaofthree792
    @Mamaofthree792 Před měsícem

    As a mum and a wife completely in support of the family unit and marriage, this is beautiful.

  • @LungeloTjatji
    @LungeloTjatji Před měsícem

    This was filled with such wisdom and authenticity. The jokes 😂😂😂, thank you. ❤

  • @zandilesokhela1578
    @zandilesokhela1578 Před 2 měsíci

    This brings so much relief and hope... with so much marital toxicity we learn about through social media

    • @The_Dream_Space
      @The_Dream_Space  Před 2 měsíci +1

      Absolutely! people seem to eat up so much negativity online and think that’s the whole story. thanks so much for watching 🙏🏾

  • @yasminekazadi1656
    @yasminekazadi1656 Před 2 měsíci

    Thank you for this!

  • @tiisetsomaloma
    @tiisetsomaloma Před 17 dny

    Awesome podcast

  • @fifs4sa
    @fifs4sa Před 2 měsíci

    Such wisdom can only be from God. Thank you Lord🥺🥺🥺