WHAT NO ONE TELLS YOU ABOUT SHOPPING

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  • čas přidán 24. 03. 2019
  • Happy Monday babes... I have completely changed the way I view shopping and sticking to a vision for my wardrobe has improved my entire life! Who knew clothing was causing me so much stress before I started this journey?! If you can relate, comment below your biggest clothing struggle and I will be reading your feedback to help create helpful new content :)
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  • @Noor-pp5qq
    @Noor-pp5qq Před 5 lety +12371

    There should be an " Essentials" section at CZcams.. where we can watch useful, short and straight to the point videos..just like yours

    • @ccstars7423
      @ccstars7423 Před 5 lety +150

      Noor •• Theres already a channel for that: AlexendrasGirlyTalk

    • @mishkaparashar3170
      @mishkaparashar3170 Před 5 lety +9

      Yes please

    • @hannah-th2ss
      @hannah-th2ss Před 5 lety +14

      YES because i only know alexandra

    • @AmalAmal
      @AmalAmal Před 5 lety +2

      what part of this is straight to the point

    • @Rain-bo3gl
      @Rain-bo3gl Před 5 lety +27

      Noor •• there’s a channel that is just based on fashion and she actually made a video about essentials you need in your closet. Her CZcams channel is Best dressed.

  • @tiffmccarty
    @tiffmccarty Před 5 lety +17298

    i deadass would believe anything this woman told me

    • @safala
      @safala Před 5 lety +660

      tiffany
      Same here. Even after watching just three videos, I have blind faith on her. Honestly, she could tell me to wear neon orange top and neon yellow bottom and I would wear that.

    • @Pizzaninja9
      @Pizzaninja9 Před 5 lety +58

      I feel the same way 😂

    • @angeln7332
      @angeln7332 Před 5 lety +92

      She could tell me to be anti vax and I would do it

    • @cloutkis5162
      @cloutkis5162 Před 5 lety +101

      Crystal Jewel too far

    • @lunesanglante
      @lunesanglante Před 5 lety +25

      I was your "1k" like, I feel so bless haha! ^^'

  • @AO-ec2wr
    @AO-ec2wr Před 5 lety +4159

    Alexandra is like the older sister I never had

    • @happysaa33
      @happysaa33 Před 4 lety +13

      Ok is like our older sister 😉 I don't have sisters too.

    • @AO-ec2wr
      @AO-ec2wr Před 4 lety +10

      Happy Saa lol I actually have 2 sisters but they are WAY younger than me😫 I also have also have a bother (who I am older by than a year ) but I won’t get into that

    • @dreamcaster3706
      @dreamcaster3706 Před 4 lety +2

      Sammmme I wish I had a sister along with my brothers

    • @roxanna3779
      @roxanna3779 Před 4 lety +3

      Absolutely. And she's younger than me.

    • @marleypickett6211
      @marleypickett6211 Před 4 lety +1

      Alexa Okeke I am literally the exact same

  • @sachikaazumisaguisa7358
    @sachikaazumisaguisa7358 Před 5 lety +6267

    Your handwriting could be a font 😳

    • @sydneyfreedom2611
      @sydneyfreedom2611 Před 5 lety +37

      Sachika Azumi ikr i was thinking that too

    • @mialyprivate
      @mialyprivate Před 5 lety +45

      Alexandras Font

    • @pixie1416
      @pixie1416 Před 5 lety +8

      It reminds me of Annie Use Your Telescope font

    • @ghgdjjx5929
      @ghgdjjx5929 Před 4 lety +17

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      Alexandra
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    • @beverycarefuljohn586
      @beverycarefuljohn586 Před 4 lety +15

      This is the best way to complimant someones handwriting

  • @jazzyscott
    @jazzyscott Před 5 lety +4698

    She should start a basics clothing line where you get GOOD quality basic essential items for an affordable price that comes in a variety a sizes. I feel like many basic items are really overpriced or if they’re affordable they’re cheap

    • @coffeesticks_03
      @coffeesticks_03 Před 5 lety +199

      She doesn't care for affordable prices. She encourages people to spend for the quality they want.

    • @mariamyousef8269
      @mariamyousef8269 Před 5 lety +112

      Affordable usually means not ethically made, so nah

    • @ev6564
      @ev6564 Před 5 lety +40

      ​@@mariamyousef8269 I Love Myself doesn't seem to want cheap clothes (like fast fashion) but just affordable+still good quality clothes. Based on her comment, it appears she's looking for mid-priced clothing. Srry if I came across as rude; I just wanted to add some clarity to her comment.

    • @mariamyousef8269
      @mariamyousef8269 Před 5 lety +11

      @@ev6564 nooo it's okay!!!now that I'm rereading the comments I feel like I'm the one who came off as the rude one.

    • @azaleacardel7664
      @azaleacardel7664 Před 5 lety +11

      If you have Uniqlo in your area they make good quality staples at very reasonable price. My whole wardrobe is Uniqlo now

  • @Mel-xl9fz
    @Mel-xl9fz Před 5 lety +4209

    We need that capsule wardrobe video asap

  • @bee123buzz
    @bee123buzz Před 5 lety +13322

    your voice sounds like your smiling while your talking... if that makes sense........

    • @sweetautophobiaxx6265
      @sweetautophobiaxx6265 Před 5 lety +175

      Katy Wilkey yeahhh i felt the same wayy

    • @faeiyahh
      @faeiyahh Před 5 lety +353

      you can definitely hear she does smile while talking, it's amazing :)

    • @imeneraa7467
      @imeneraa7467 Před 5 lety +134

      The reason why i enjoy her videos

    • @kayanrreskov8403
      @kayanrreskov8403 Před 5 lety +21

      Just made you to 1k

    • @larawabsie
      @larawabsie Před 5 lety +39

      I know right...? I just love the sound of her voice. ❣️

  • @julanshrestha697
    @julanshrestha697 Před 5 lety +3423

    I have never heard anyone youtuber say the viewers to dislike the video if they dont like it ..that itself is a respect🙇

  • @unapologeticbooty
    @unapologeticbooty Před 5 lety +947

    I love this woman. She deserves more subscribers. Literally a life changer. She helps with insecurities, makes you feel confident in your skin. I remember being so insecure about being hairy for a female but every since I started watching her videos, I learn not to care anymore. Thank you! ❤️

  • @didowicky9008
    @didowicky9008 Před 5 lety +2684

    "People have different lifestyles" sooo true. I would totally only wear dollskill clothes, but where? I only go to uni and coffee shops, no place for such an extavagance

    • @il.ka297
      @il.ka297 Před 5 lety +270

      Saaaaame gurl. I just bought a super cute white flattery top that shows a lot of cleavage and makes my boobs look hella nice but where the fuck am I gonna wear it???

    • @annevallance5968
      @annevallance5968 Před 5 lety +332

      I used to say that but now I'm just extra af and wear those clothes when ever, where ever because they make me feel confident 😁😊 but to each their own, do whatever makes you feel comfortable

    • @LaidyMary99
      @LaidyMary99 Před 5 lety +78

      @@annevallance5968 same! I am really into the Lazy Oaf brand and look, and i just go all colourful and bright everywhere and make myself and others happy or at least amused.

    • @annevallance5968
      @annevallance5968 Před 5 lety +11

      @@LaidyMary99 YESS SAME

    • @sunset3250
      @sunset3250 Před 4 lety +25

      I have over 90 pieces in my dollskill wishlist but I refuse to buy until I have somewhere to where it too

  • @ijeBeauty
    @ijeBeauty Před 4 lety +503

    Alexandra: "Using somebody else as a barometer for what looks good on you is never a good idea"
    Me: *Instantly hits thumbs up*

  • @kristen6342
    @kristen6342 Před 4 lety +740

    how could this goddess ever be bullied??

    • @bruh-mb1rd
      @bruh-mb1rd Před 4 lety +81

      Kids are petty

    • @fuchsia02
      @fuchsia02 Před 4 lety +36

      FakeAndGay I'm a kid and can confirm that this is true

    • @brittanydalton3419
      @brittanydalton3419 Před 4 lety +10

      Fu Fu Bomyu how old are you? I'm almost 15 and its like that alot in highschool.

    • @katrinaisoffline
      @katrinaisoffline Před 4 lety +40

      People can never win. Kids will make fun of people for being too boring and go on to make fun of someone having some fun. Kids are weird.

    • @clairewillow6475
      @clairewillow6475 Před 4 lety +5

      Ya conforming is not fun

  • @ohitsnotme9056
    @ohitsnotme9056 Před 5 lety +7120

    What no one tells you about shopping: it’s hella addictive

    • @az-jr6xe
      @az-jr6xe Před 5 lety +24

      Yes 😭

    • @kiaranaicker7270
      @kiaranaicker7270 Před 5 lety +139

      Not when you're broke

    • @at5286
      @at5286 Před 5 lety +12

      ed yes and that whole bull about if you love it, get it. No.

    • @mishkaparashar3170
      @mishkaparashar3170 Před 5 lety +39

      Yess even when you know that you're broke af

    • @youvebeenpoisoned5018
      @youvebeenpoisoned5018 Před 5 lety +11

      Right?? But it makes me feel horrible because I look bad in a lot of it...

  • @totogirl0
    @totogirl0 Před 5 lety +2585

    PLEASE start a clothing brand!! I love your style and am obsessed with your videos...you really know what you’re talking about!!

  • @idabjernemose
    @idabjernemose Před 4 lety +292

    Just a Quick fyi about clothes fitting perfectly! I have a friend whos a model and she was working with h&m and i was her +1 to the shoot. And literally all the girls (and guys) had clips in the back of their clothes to make it tighter. Which means the clothes dont even fit the models perfectly.

  • @KmChx_MX
    @KmChx_MX Před 3 lety +95

    Pro Tip: as a a “professional” shopper 😂 NEVER shop when you’re tired or stressed... 12-3am shopping has left me so confused, potentially broke, and cancelling orders 🤣🤣🤣

  • @igurospit
    @igurospit Před 5 lety +2503

    I love the way she talk or I don’t know but something is about her voice or the way she speaks but it’s really beautiful.

    • @at5286
      @at5286 Před 5 lety +38

      -- かけす its her feminine energy. Shes in tune with her true self.

    • @Elizabeth-gn6gz
      @Elizabeth-gn6gz Před 5 lety +22

      It’s so calming

    • @morghanely9284
      @morghanely9284 Před 5 lety +19

      She is so confident it’s making me more confident lol

    • @annurg533
      @annurg533 Před 5 lety +11

      She is so proffesional about everything.

    • @midget7141
      @midget7141 Před 4 lety +9

      It's because it sounds like she's smiling :D

  • @nancyrose9097
    @nancyrose9097 Před 5 lety +3939

    why am I watching this Video😂 I‘m broker than broke🙄😂

  • @MiaMichelucci000
    @MiaMichelucci000 Před 4 lety +82

    I really appreciate the fact that you don’t play annoying music at the beginning of your videos and how you have a very honest and real vibe about you. So happy to have found your channel. I feel like I am actually learning something 👌🏻😊🙏🏻 thanks girl 😘

    • @what-oy7rx
      @what-oy7rx Před 3 lety +1

      And no hella long intro. That's the best part. Or one of the best.

    • @seeexy
      @seeexy Před 2 lety +1

      yeah 👍👍

  • @jet3296
    @jet3296 Před 4 lety +903

    Me who owns 2 pairs of identical black jeans and like 40 band t-shirts: ah yes don't buy weird patterns or colours

    • @yeseniarad
      @yeseniarad Před 4 lety +14

      I feel you lol! I'm trying to switch up my wardrobe more

    • @achild2092
      @achild2092 Před 4 lety +21

      DUDE IM TRYING TO GET THERE.i love the simplicity of it and it matches my personality and favorite bands

  • @sophiebest8558
    @sophiebest8558 Před 5 lety +787

    I get so anxious when shopping that I never buy anything.

    • @normallyshy
      @normallyshy Před 5 lety +13

      Literally same, thought I was the only one

    • @liamarie5926
      @liamarie5926 Před 5 lety

      SAME

    • @ottiliakarhumaa9267
      @ottiliakarhumaa9267 Před 5 lety

      Same

    • @sarar2263
      @sarar2263 Před 5 lety +5

      i can totally relate to this but there's that one time that i went shopping and said to myself no matter how dumb people may think of it if i love it and it makes me feel good i am gonna buy it i know there's tons of pieces out there but whenever you enter a store just try to concentrate and keep in mind the pieces that you need and let me tell you almost every piece i bought didn't fit me well at the beginning but simple alterations can really flip it over,and before you get too attached to some out of the budget pieces keep in mind your budget and torture yourself by entering designer stores , and remember that one day that dumb thing you wore and they made fun of may be the next fashion trend ?

    • @jacquelinebucovy9983
      @jacquelinebucovy9983 Před 5 lety

      Samee

  • @daniellewalters2561
    @daniellewalters2561 Před 5 lety +505

    I’m so impressed every time I watch your fashion videos. It takes my outfits to the next level

    • @RacheliRozenman
      @RacheliRozenman Před 5 lety +2

      tottaly! and every selfcare/make up video makes me to ACTUALLY try and put more effort in myself
      i know alreday a lot of this fashion tips and tricks but a friendly reminder is always great😍

  • @rimaaouadi9092
    @rimaaouadi9092 Před 3 lety +29

    Last week i got all the clothes out of my closet and looked at them ! I haven't wore half of them in like 3 years but i'm still keeping them, that's what caused me the weird feeling of not having things to wear despite owning a lot of pieces ! I organized everything and only kept the pieces that i could imagine me wearing them in the next years ! I then asked my cousins whether they wanted some of the pieces i didn't like but were new and pretty and OH MY GOD they were so happy and they found things they really liked and thought were amazing ! For the old things that weren't really pretty but were warm and nice i cleaned them and gave them to families i knew were in need to clothes for winter and everything ! I felt very happy about what i have ! Now i can easily think of what i need to buy even before going to shopping ! I have a picture in my mind about what i need in my closet and what i can wear for 6 hours at school !
    I started thinking of the type of person i want to look for myself ! I like looking innocent and cute the most ! Even though the trends nowadays is more on the casual sporty side i just don't like the way i look because it makes me act a certain way that i don't appreciate ! I like my skirts, dresses or my hoodies and comfy jeans ! I also stopped shipping by internet because everything looks good on the models and because it's not cash i usually spend a lot more than what i'm supposed to ! I like going out, touching the clothes, looking at them, trying them and making sure those are what i want ! If something is cheap that doesn't make it prettier ! Yeah maybe that shirt is like so cheap but i can still save those dollars because i'm not wearing it any time soon

  • @dianelipson5420
    @dianelipson5420 Před 2 lety +5

    I am an old lady who’s seen it all fashion wise. One grandad was a textile manufacturer and the other was a tailor. I have never before come across such a treasure trove of good advice. You are BRILLIANT. Bravo!

  • @leila4509
    @leila4509 Před 5 lety +343

    I love how structured and informative this video is, it literally feels like a class I could take notes on(and probably will) - in a good way!

    • @chrissywiese8173
      @chrissywiese8173 Před 5 lety +2

      I literally wrote down that exercise and the thoughts on body positivity in my journal. Honestly Alexandra has the best channel; it makes me feel happier and more informed about who I am and how to take more care of my body, clothing and mind. She really deserves everything for being such an influential person in the most wholesome way

  • @daffodil6654
    @daffodil6654 Před 5 lety +406

    A capsule wardrobe video would be so helpful!!~ 🙏🏾💕💕💕

  • @blossomnessstudios4446
    @blossomnessstudios4446 Před 2 lety +6

    When I first watched this video nearly 3 years ago I had no idea the impact it would have on me. I've recently been able to start shopping for myself more, and your videos completely shaped the way I think and shop.
    I've found that impulse purchases don't bring me even a fraction of the joy that I get from a highly-researched staple piece.
    I've also been learning how to alter my own clothes, and it's helped me feel so much more confident.
    I've found that keeping a note file on my phone with my current 'To Buy' list has been so beneficial for me. I write down a piece or accessory that I want, and then take mental notes of every time I try to build outfits or think up ways to style other pieces and think to myself "Hmm, I wish I had a white pleated skirt to go with all my pretty tops" or "I wish I had a grey hoodie to put under this flannel"
    If I am in a position where I would HAVE to buy it that day, I think about every way I could style it currently, and how difficult it would be to alter.
    Since first watching your videos I've found my own style to be a lot less 'Classic & Elegant" and darker/alternative/grungy or brighter/flowery/cottagecore. Overall it's a lot more 'Girlish' I'd say. It makes sense, I'm probably doing my whole 'emo teen phase' in my own way, BUT somehow everything you teach still applies to any aesthetic or style.
    Your videos are truly life-changing.
    (Edit: 8 months later and I was totally right, my grunge/alt phase lasted all of 4 months, if that. I'm going back to what I've always loved, Romantic Academia.)

  • @igotosleepat9pm86
    @igotosleepat9pm86 Před 3 lety +21

    Her channel is so underated. How come CZcams hasn't recommended this to me sooner?

  • @roses4roz
    @roses4roz Před 5 lety +938

    You: don’t just buy it bc it looks good on someone else
    Me: hmmm solid advice makes sense
    You: **looks amazing in something**
    Me:......WHERE CAN I GET THAT?????

    • @Melissa.Garrett
      @Melissa.Garrett Před 5 lety +5

      Lea K It’s actually a good way to style yourself if she’s the same sort of body type as you. I learned how to dress a long time ago by studying celebrities with the same body type as me, and copied the sort of shapes they wore. Now I can just look at something and know straight away if it will suit me. 😘

    • @amber-dn5jk
      @amber-dn5jk Před 5 lety

      lol

  • @redfruitylexia
    @redfruitylexia Před 5 lety +669

    Can you do a video about alterations?! I know nothing about it other than someone is essentially a seamstress and they fix your clothes.
    Like what are similar options? Procing? How to tell if they're good? All those kinds of things 😭

    • @anushanayak5994
      @anushanayak5994 Před 5 lety +32

      Check out Justine Leconte on CZcams. She is quite fashion designer and has amazing fashion videos. She also has a helpful video on how to recognise good quality clothes.

  • @jenniferrodriguez8858
    @jenniferrodriguez8858 Před 4 lety +45

    You really help me. I’m realizing these truths in my 40’s!!!

  • @Lzthjt
    @Lzthjt Před 4 lety +5

    I love how the video is open to interpretation for everyone. You don’t have to buy new clothes and you can always do something as simple as match your metals, as she’s stated previously. It’s just about styling yourself as you and having the confidence in those clothes

  • @m_ayyraa
    @m_ayyraa Před 5 lety +672

    I recently fell for the crop top/sweaters trend. I bought a bunch of pieces, now I'm pregnant and regretting it lmao 😭

    • @iman6615
      @iman6615 Před 5 lety +101

      You won't be pregnant forever so don't worry

    • @preensescarlos800
      @preensescarlos800 Před 5 lety +87

      Reading your comment made me think about Winnie the Pooh. Lol.

    • @raemiller6035
      @raemiller6035 Před 5 lety +6

      Same! Get some money back on Poshmark! Lol

    • @BEss-ei3bm
      @BEss-ei3bm Před 5 lety +31

      Hey at least you wont stretch out the middle of the shirt lol

    • @feliciaroyers1646
      @feliciaroyers1646 Před 5 lety +17

      You can still rock a crop top when ur pregnant!

  • @ramyap6410
    @ramyap6410 Před 5 lety +1707

    Could you please make a video about how to hide the tummy in clothings?

    • @fatimaghulam8677
      @fatimaghulam8677 Před 5 lety +24

      yes pleaseee

    • @anenigma5310
      @anenigma5310 Před 5 lety +22

      Tag me when she does this,
      Plzzzzzz

    • @asmay8275
      @asmay8275 Před 5 lety +103

      Yeah... We all have a little tummy no matter what, we are normal people, we need that

    • @michellepablico5203
      @michellepablico5203 Před 5 lety +20

      Use spanx!

    • @melaniecubells1236
      @melaniecubells1236 Před 5 lety +28

      shape wear and spandex are amazing ! waist trains/ corsets also help shape your body ',:)

  • @deepinderkaur2131
    @deepinderkaur2131 Před 5 lety +49

    5:20 I fitted my jeans myself when I was 13 and I’m still in love with them. I did it by hand and even though it was hard the result was amazing. I totally agree with u

    • @kailyndonnelly06
      @kailyndonnelly06 Před 4 lety +1

      @Deepinder K. Dhillon how did you do this? can you please give me some tips or instructions?

    • @deepinderkaur2131
      @deepinderkaur2131 Před 4 lety +14

      @@kailyndonnelly06 of course!! So what u do is mark how tight u want ur jeans on both sides. So let's say u want to tighten them by an inch, so on both sides u would mark half an inch in. But if your jeans are stretchy I reccomend doing a little more because it loosens throughout the day.
      After marking the ½ inch in, make a long line that starts from the mark and ends at the side of the jeans. Try to make the line kinda long cuz if you dont it might create a corner on the outside of the pants. So for example it should look like this:
      ______|

    • @kailyndonnelly06
      @kailyndonnelly06 Před 4 lety +2

      @@deepinderkaur2131 Thank you so much! Yes I totally get it and will definitely be attempting it with all of my extra time. Hope you are doing well! :)

    • @deepinderkaur2131
      @deepinderkaur2131 Před 4 lety +1

      @@kailyndonnelly06 no problem!! And thank you so much, you too!

  • @biancarivera9342
    @biancarivera9342 Před 5 lety +20

    I've been wanting to change my wardrobe for a while. Because I'm 21 now and I want to be respected and taken more serious. I'm more inclined in dressing in a emo/grunge/ gothic style, which I love, but lately I haven't been feeling sastified with this style. When I was 14-18 I used to feel happy and confident, but when I started college, slowly I've been feeling less confident. So I decided that I want to change my wardrobe, yet not losing my essence. Because what made me realize is that is not wrong to dress this way, what was bothering me was that I felt that I was dressing in a childish way; by wearing grafic teas, shirts with cartoons and etc. And its not bad....but it dosent resonate with me anymore, I just want a more monochrome wardrobe, mostly dark colors because it's how I like it and dress in a edgy way but not looking extravagant. So I'm in process in becoming a more confident and secure version of myself which i hope I can achieve.

  • @genesisbeepath223
    @genesisbeepath223 Před 5 lety +631

    Make a clothing line hunny I'm sure u will be iconic with all the knowledge u have and if u ever decide too we all support u❤

    • @LL-ip5mm
      @LL-ip5mm Před 5 lety +4

      Genesis Beepath yasss

  • @xolovejocee
    @xolovejocee Před 5 lety +697

    She really was just flexing her manicure hard 😂

    • @anastasgiselle
      @anastasgiselle Před 5 lety +2

      jocelyn borca she has gorgeous nails

    • @xolovejocee
      @xolovejocee Před 5 lety +1

      Anastasia Rose I agree I’m jealous 😂

  • @sana5762
    @sana5762 Před 4 lety +85

    Your dark thick long gorgeous hair is the best thing I've seen in a while!!!😍👌♥️

    • @what-oy7rx
      @what-oy7rx Před 3 lety

      Yh ikr. It's amazing. My hair is just Al long as hers but when you let it loose for a while it just loses volume.

  • @LashOutLast
    @LashOutLast Před 3 lety +5

    You make me feel so much better about my empty closet.. I typically leave stores in tears with nothing.. I’m about to go empty the closet some more so I can add better things (now that I know how to find them!) it’s so liberating!

  • @theodoramccabe1833
    @theodoramccabe1833 Před 5 lety +11

    This girl is so positive and inspiring. I’ve watched her for a while and I’ve cleaned up my life in so many ways. Crazy how much a person you don’t know can impact your life.

  • @strawberrycheesecake4695
    @strawberrycheesecake4695 Před 5 lety +231

    Could you do a hair routine??
    It always looks so pretty!!

    • @tszl6069
      @tszl6069 Před 5 lety +16

      She has one titled "how to blowdry thick hair" which explains how to get this look!

    • @strawberrycheesecake4695
      @strawberrycheesecake4695 Před 5 lety +3

      Tenzin Nyidon thanks a lot!!

    • @waliyam3415
      @waliyam3415 Před 5 lety +1

      She’s got another video on how she grew her hair back after pregnancy, it’s an amazing hair mask 😍

  • @AWOL222
    @AWOL222 Před 2 lety +6

    I started picking out plain clothes, no design, it helps a lot. And I don’t pick out much coloured clothes, just grey, white, black and Beige, it’s really simple to pick out an outfit now. I think how the piece of clothing was made itself can make your outfit look great. (Pants are a different story on the colour though)

  • @renitas.7973
    @renitas.7973 Před 4 lety +16

    Shopping and getting dressed became easy for me when I started wearing a lot of dresses in classic shapes and prints....

  • @stephs6403
    @stephs6403 Před 5 lety +228

    Back in middle school in 6 grade I would get fun off wearing pants that are super high! Lol now I see everyone wearing them lol

  • @smriti8204
    @smriti8204 Před 5 lety +107

    other than the great video can we just appreciate how good her handwriting is😍😍

  • @itscooltobeyou
    @itscooltobeyou Před 5 lety +13

    I finally learned this recently, like really thinking about the value of an item, and whether or not I'll actually wear it. I've saved myself so many clothes I'd buy and never where. But recently got a breast reduction and now have to relearn what suits me

  • @ashleyroa5570
    @ashleyroa5570 Před 4 lety +1

    I absolutely love how she is open and honest and shes straight up REALLL!! Ill be usin' all these tips and info no cap!!!!

  • @DaysofJaz
    @DaysofJaz Před 5 lety +64

    I Just stumbled on your channel and am OBSESSED with your short videos PACKED with great, simple, easy to follow content. YOU are amazing! 🤩

  • @melzzie2603
    @melzzie2603 Před 5 lety +247

    This probably isn’t her fault but
    I love how this video is about finding your own style and not just buying stuff that you see other people wearing
    Yet...
    The ad I got underneath this video was 21 buttons 🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @sheilabirling8596
      @sheilabirling8596 Před 5 lety +1

      No, it is just for people who actually find the clothes good looking. Like maybe I personally like jeans that she was wearing; therefore, it would be useful for me if she would put the links down there.

  • @shannonw504
    @shannonw504 Před 5 lety +2

    I love your commitment to getting it right - no quick fixes to fashion mistakes ☺️

  • @Solgatsquad
    @Solgatsquad Před 5 lety +8

    We NEED a capsule wardrobe video, PLEASE!?!?! 🙏 LOVE these videos SO much, they are EXTREMELY helpful!

  • @jennifermarie5328
    @jennifermarie5328 Před 5 lety +82

    I loved this so much! It would be amazing if you could make a video about dressing for your undertones...like what colors and tones look best on warm and cool skin undertones🙏

    • @mizo3856
      @mizo3856 Před 5 lety +1

      Such a good idea , she could include hair colours as well.

  • @toshinotakiyami8808
    @toshinotakiyami8808 Před 5 lety +82

    I shop and i just shop for my personality, i pick what I like and i think to myself “is this outfit me?” somthing that shows who I am . Great Video!! :3

  • @bluntbhunny2439
    @bluntbhunny2439 Před 4 lety

    Cannot stop watching her videos she’s such an old soul and so wise. Her positivity rubs off on me and she is very genuine it’s awesome to find a CZcamsr who wants to help and give such awesome advice i completely adore her

  • @kaitlynohara6080
    @kaitlynohara6080 Před 5 lety +2

    This is how fashion should be, confident, unique to yourself, and tailored to your needs. Thank you for the insightful video! Loved it!

  • @explore_365
    @explore_365 Před 5 lety +877

    *who else wishes they had an unlimited budget for clothes? 😍*
    Ps: I’m so close to my goal of 7k 😭 I really appreciate any feedback 🥰

    • @ao-ok8rp
      @ao-ok8rp Před 5 lety

      imaginethatgirls meee

    • @isabellaradley6789
      @isabellaradley6789 Před 5 lety

      imaginethatgirls everyone

    • @hel.v5739
      @hel.v5739 Před 5 lety

      I have a dream to get this card that gets me ANYTHING for free at a mall for a certain period of time😂

    • @abrishland5092
      @abrishland5092 Před 5 lety

      I subbed ❤️

    • @susanholl5994
      @susanholl5994 Před 5 lety +14

      You missed the point! She's telling you NOT to keep buying. Find a few high quality pieces ( maybe even from your own closet that are worth the money to alter) that work with your lifestyle, wardrobe you have already, and body and stop buying cute but useless stuff.

  • @missyg9778
    @missyg9778 Před 5 lety +33

    I really like your videos these days. I liked them before but I like them a lot better now. I've noticed from the begining you always spoke about the science behind any topic you were covering and that made the video really interesting to me. I love your videos. They're different from what I usually see in my feed yet they're soo helpful. Before I saw your jeans video I used to hate buying jeans cause I couldn't find any that flattered my shape. I've baught many jeans that I use very often since I fallowed your advice. ❤ Thank you for that. I can't wait to see other videos that you come up with.

    • @lottiej742
      @lottiej742 Před 5 lety +2

      yes! my exact thoughts!! i love these videos

  • @shwetathakur94
    @shwetathakur94 Před 3 lety +3

    I already commented on her another video about how real she is and how much she resonates with what i think while shopping. Girl you are making others to feel comfortable in their bodies and to not to go after the silly trends but rather to have clothes that looks good on them and enhance their personalities. ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @Emilia-hz8fe
    @Emilia-hz8fe Před 5 lety +1

    YOUR AMAZING! I cleaned out 50% of my wardrobe and I now think about what i buy. Thank you so much. Because of you i have a real style now you’re friends must be so lucky to go shopping with you! Keep going with what you’re doing 😊

  • @jajeem3189
    @jajeem3189 Před 5 lety +159

    Would like a Crop Tops 101, my body shape is sorta weird for them and i would like to wear them without looking like a pear.
    Just a suggestion! Lots of Love💗💗💗

    • @bluexwings
      @bluexwings Před 5 lety +13

      I'd suggest something that is attention-grabbing or creates the illusion of volume on top, with sleek or monotone pieces on the bottom. That will allow you to shift focus and give the impression of a more balanced (aka hourglass) shape.

    • @lerbi8636
      @lerbi8636 Před 5 lety +3

      @@bluexwings thats good !!

    • @jajeem3189
      @jajeem3189 Před 5 lety +2

      bluexwings ah thank you!!

    • @isabellahu4606
      @isabellahu4606 Před 5 lety +2

      Bruh girls would literally die to have that shape

    • @ririg794
      @ririg794 Před 5 lety

      Have you ever tried wearing like a ruffled crop top? Cuz that makes your top more voluptuous and would probably balance with your bottom more

  • @deborahclem4901
    @deborahclem4901 Před 5 lety +81

    Can we have a conversation about the pink nails? Loving them.

  • @sharonfauber2118
    @sharonfauber2118 Před 5 lety +6

    I was addicted to shopping. I am better now. Thank you for helping me💜🤗

  • @lynns4122
    @lynns4122 Před 4 lety

    I love how together, calm, and no frills her videos.

  • @ZahSoZen
    @ZahSoZen Před 5 lety +24

    Yes, yes and a thousand times yes for the capsule wardrobe video!! I love you Alex 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗

  • @CeeFerrell
    @CeeFerrell Před 5 lety +51

    ooof! I am a like a moth to a flame when I see that "Sale" sign. - I am working hard to avoid them just because I find myself purchasing items that don't necessarily "align" with my style. Great video!!! xo

  • @bethneumann87
    @bethneumann87 Před 4 lety +3

    "Buying anything that gets your heart racing..." SO true!! I used to do that constantly--now I try to, if I'm shopping online, leaving things in My cart for 24 hrs, then coming back to it when I'm feeling less impulsive. I also go through my other items in my wardrobe too, and if the item doesn't go with multiple things, I typically leave it. Your thoughts on dressing for who you are is gold! When I was a little younger, shopping gave me anxiety because I was always trying to keep up with celebrities or trends. So glad I have realized and embraced that fashion is all about expressing who I am and what I love, not someone else. Also, i used to work at VS too! This is a great video! Subscribed! ❤

  • @Mrs.WhiteLady
    @Mrs.WhiteLady Před 5 lety

    I appreciate that you speak intelligently about wardrobe, fashion etc. I've skipped over other CZcamsrs who are boring, talk too high pitched and have zero helpful info. Your tips on tailoring clothing, not buying things that require a whole new outfit or flashy items are super helpful! Thank you!

  • @meggiesmith7245
    @meggiesmith7245 Před 5 lety +9

    I love your new style of video. It’s obvious how much effort you put in and how much you genuinely want to help and advise people with fashion ❤️

  • @gilana2644
    @gilana2644 Před 5 lety +70

    I watched the ad fully through to support this icon. LOL ly Alexandra

  • @jenniferlopez901
    @jenniferlopez901 Před 3 lety +3

    I would love to see a capsule wardrobe video. I recently realized how much I compromised on my clothing when I saw that sale tag. This meant shopping in fast fashion stores and buying clothes that wouldn't last long. I'm on a budget but I'm currently trying to build a capsule wardrobe: I have a list of the clothings I need such basic t-shirt, white-button down shirt, etc. Thanks to you I learned to recognize my color pallet in clothing, now I just need to learn to recognize quality clothing so it lasts long.

  • @pinupwaallify
    @pinupwaallify Před 5 lety +7

    Alex channel is for every girl because i've always hated 'girly' videos and here i am,
    it is so useful

  • @tyramoo6777
    @tyramoo6777 Před 5 lety +105

    Normally I’m not into channels like this, but you are very helpful and entertaining

    • @celestialbliss5101
      @celestialbliss5101 Před 5 lety

      She's soooo smart

    • @DrDoof-kv7pf
      @DrDoof-kv7pf Před 5 lety +3

      Same! I think it’s cause she doesn’t up play it or make it seem ‘girly’ in a bad way. She tells it like it is, not how she likes it.

  • @AudreyCoyne
    @AudreyCoyne Před 5 lety +10

    Such great tips! Wardrobe and style cultivation are so under utilized and really make a world of difference 🙌🏻❤️

  • @Marina-qj1oy
    @Marina-qj1oy Před 5 lety +5

    I FLIPPING LOVE you oh my gosh 😭 Your are literally exactly what I've needed to help my whole appearance confusion situation thinggg haha

  • @consciouslypure2176
    @consciouslypure2176 Před 4 lety +1

    You’re such a lovely person to listen to! 😊 and I love the way you do your videos, it makes it so much more interesting and keeps me listening to the entire video... well done!

  • @xo-jr3lq
    @xo-jr3lq Před 5 lety +44

    soooo happy to get a notification that you uploaded a new video
    Much love from germany

  • @lajoy1584
    @lajoy1584 Před 5 lety +168

    Love you and love your videos! So informative and elegantly done!

  • @lizageorge8923
    @lizageorge8923 Před 5 lety +259

    How can you find a good white tee?? Everywhere I look, white shirts a high key see through

    • @carlinejeanpierre2385
      @carlinejeanpierre2385 Před 5 lety +25

      Bestdressed made a video on closet essentials from high prices to low

    • @papanash2326
      @papanash2326 Před 4 lety +29

      nude bras are good too !

    • @MollyHousel
      @MollyHousel Před 4 lety

      ASOS

    • @stridery
      @stridery Před 4 lety +4

      FlatMattress it does actually. Try it out :)! I wear a deep red bra under my white shirts and its close to invisible.

    • @leemusic132
      @leemusic132 Před 3 lety +4

      Shop from men's

  • @missjasminenicole5968
    @missjasminenicole5968 Před 4 lety +1

    No clickbait. This video was the most helpful fashion video I think I’ve ever seen. I don’t even shop a lot but my shopping life will honestly be changed forever. Especially the color theory and texture tips. More content like this please 😊😁💗

  • @pkk2619
    @pkk2619 Před 5 lety +7

    I appreciate the amount of thought, explanation and research you have put into this video Alexandra! Keep up the amazing work 👍🏽

  • @beccaboo1477
    @beccaboo1477 Před 5 lety +50

    Please do a video on how to pick out the right dress for your body type! (Like a prom dress)

  • @mirnagutierrez8757
    @mirnagutierrez8757 Před 3 lety +1

    i have been binge watching her videos and honestly im just so thankful because of her tips ive been doing great

  • @pancakyn
    @pancakyn Před 5 lety +5

    This is the only channel that i can't dare to skip 10 seconds❤️🤘

  • @hanapekar614
    @hanapekar614 Před 5 lety +4

    Thank you so much for posting these videos! I usred to wear the same thing everyday and now i even get compliments, I just started watching you and my closet is already upgrading

  • @daniellewalters2561
    @daniellewalters2561 Před 5 lety +17

    She always slays her fashion game and I love it

  • @abcdef-dn6ms
    @abcdef-dn6ms Před 5 lety

    I watch this right before everytime i go shopping..... it literally helps

  • @laurahamdi9697
    @laurahamdi9697 Před 4 lety +3

    I've had one pants altered for me. I've never felt so good in pants as I did when wearing those. You are so right!!

  • @clarebear3217
    @clarebear3217 Před 5 lety +12

    your literally so beautiful and intelligent on fashion. it’s like having a older sister for me online thank you 😊.

  • @mandaabby7233
    @mandaabby7233 Před 5 lety +78

    your videos are always put together so well💕 I love you

  • @Aspenfawn
    @Aspenfawn Před 2 lety +1

    Your channel really inspires me, legit I wear the same few tshirts every week.

  • @hfis459
    @hfis459 Před 5 lety +5

    i keep getting recommended your videos and i’m not really one to watch guru type youtubers but i enjoy your content and you don’t have an annoying voice, subscribed ✅

  • @kemi1uk1
    @kemi1uk1 Před 5 lety +23

    So true it does take self exploration to identify what is good for you..love that necklace on you, so nice...Great tips beautiful. Subbed

  • @psithurism_6836
    @psithurism_6836 Před 5 lety +95

    Can you please make a video about mom jeans? That would be soo amazing, cause you give the best advice ever honestly ❤️

  • @elysekenney612
    @elysekenney612 Před 4 lety +2

    Your voice is therapeutic I love your videos.. they’re not about “hey try this trend” you have actually helpful content in order to look and feel nicer

  • @elizagalbraith529
    @elizagalbraith529 Před 5 lety

    This is life changing... seriously I've been trying to find my style for so long, and I think this is really going to help. Thanks!

  • @learningasigo-tr8kg
    @learningasigo-tr8kg Před 5 lety +3

    I love your videos, always so specific and to the point, love you❤️❤️❤️

  • @R.S.546
    @R.S.546 Před 5 lety +238

    I feel like if you’ve been a Andreaschoice follower you graduated middle school and went to Alexandrasgirlytalk pre college course for lifestyle.

  • @patriciaqueen6848
    @patriciaqueen6848 Před 5 lety +5

    Thank you so much for this. Mind blown. Please keep posting your amazing content!

  • @lindacurtis2358
    @lindacurtis2358 Před 2 lety

    I know this video was 2 yrs. ago but holds the truth in how I am influenced by others! I just love how relatable you are to me! I found you last week and love how you are such an individual who is also beautiful inside and out! You certainly inspire me in the best way!