He Never Asked, "Would You Be My Girlfriend?" | In Love or Not
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- čas přidán 25. 08. 2024
- Johanna and Brent may or may not still be together. Hear the story of their relationship and decide... do you think they are still in love?
Tell us what your vote is in the comments! Why did you make that choice? Was it body language or a look in their eyes? Or was it something they said and the way they spoke to each other? What clues do they give off?
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i could tell they were not together anymore coz the guy couldn't look at her while she was talking. Avoiding eye contact the whole time. But am glad they still friends
Denis G Ndung'u She still has that love and kindness in her eyes. He's very far away, cold and actually enjoying the fact that they are friends.
I don't know why, but I feel like she's too good for him.
Denis G Ndung'u STOP SPOILING
Ji Jj he's not being cold it's just how guys are wired. He can't look at her because he still has feelings for her and he knows he can't hv her. So looks away because it hurts to be constantly reminded of what he can't have.
Will the turtle Boss sorry mate. I assumed you were gonna watch before reading the comments.
how did you comment three weeks ago didn't this video come out today?
he's not wrong about the toilet thing
Finally!!! Someone who gets it!! Right???!
fishface I know what you mean faithful viewer of the "doctor OZ show" and they showed how when you flush how tiny particles spread all over the bath room on your... after watching that show my toothbrush is Not kept in the bathroom!
Yes! Most imprtantly, keep the toilet closed, so nothung can fall in,
Only open when is use, for me a personal preference, but it doesn't tick me off
YASSS!!
I like his priorities
her eyes full of love. his eyes are so far away.. already far far away..
#hearbreaking
Gladish Avila Ahh he is a traveller
i noticed that too!
Wow, they both have such beautiful energy.
I was distracted by her beauty and kind energy the whole time to even consider whether or not they are in love. But it seems that they're in an open relationship or patching up the relationship
Eunice G. I agree. I think maybe later they will find each other again. I was not going to watch some silly video called Ate they in love? But wow both had such great energy. I was most taken my hers. But yeah both seem very open and loving. Friends make the mates. My sister in law just past at 61 ftom pancreatic cancer and my brother her husband his more than heartbroken...She was truly his best friend and visa versa. Peace!!
no
because you can feel their separation through their communication and they dont share a love language
They would make gorgeous babies together.
this was the biggest shock of my life wtf
umm aly IKR
yeah I'm in shock too
umm aly why?
They never said they weren't in love any more so who knows maybe with time they could get back together
Not really
She is so beautiful!!
ugh...enough with that. How do you know that she didnt do something that ruined the relationship, at least for him? How can you automatically assume from a video that one person you dont even know is too beautiful for someone else you also dont know? please dont tell me "because I got that from the video..."
Karen Goode ppl like you make the world a bad place
She looks Colombian, those girls are the devil.
She is!
When I saw her pat him on the leg.... I knew
Shannon Davison same
Emily Kiewiet You can see she still loves him. Her mannerisms. Her body language, particularly her sense of anxiety and her desire to be complimentary towards him and mostly agreeable. She cares very much about him still. Something about him is holding back; I wouldn't say he's completely over her, but he's much more along than she is. He needs something big to happen to make him choose where he is because he's straddling the fence but leaning away.
+dbstewart86 you told exactly what I thought.
chavella minerva Yeah it feels pretty easy to see. It's almost as if she's waiting for him to ask if she would like a cup of coffee and to talk, and she's bursting at the chance to say yes. Situation is reversed, he looks like he would say he'll think about it or he'll call her. There's something that happened between them that he isn't quite over yet, at least for him. Something that was a borderline deal breaker for him, but he cared enough about her that he didn't cut ties. That toilet bowl lid story was illustrative of that, something she took as a non-issue that really bothers him.
dbstewart86 omg I was thinking about the toilet lid! He seems so disturbed about that you can see by his face. My friend knew a friend of hers that got divorced over a toothpaste!!! Well my friend said her friend didnt really told her that that was the main issue but she said the way her friend pictured the situation, it seemed it was. She said her friends ex husband always pulled out the toothpaste from anywhere he wanted as she ALWAYS WANTED it to be pulled out from the VERY BOTTOM. my friend kept saying it's not about it exactly that caused the divorce but its more to the fact that her friends ex husband didnt care enough to LISTEN TO HER. so she clearly had an over-heating turmoil past patience (maybe over other things also but the annoyance of the toothpaste led to many things when they got an argument). When I read two comments above I was imagining my friends friend. I just couldn't explain carefully and precisely like you did.
they referred to everything in past tense....got this right.
Pam Watkins weird... they were talking in present tense...
I guessed right. It was their body language, the typical awkwardness that comes from having been really close and now searching a new way to act around one another.
I totally agree with the guy's preference for the toilet seat haha, it's so true! There's a damn lid for a reason :P
Gless Fuentebella It wasn’t a concern of mine, but thanks to this video... now it’s one of my many pet peeves XD
im shook i really thought they were in love
When they sat down at the beginning of the video i said : they are not in love. The woman was smiling but she was smiling and looking away, like an "we are going to talk about something awkward now" smile.
Hm, I just watched all of the episodes back to back and I find it very interesting how they are edited. The couples who are in love are never shown displaying any type of physical affection before the question. I feel like the editor definitely tried to cut parts that would've made it seem too obvious, but then in turn is that almost changing what their relationship is to us? I'm not trying to look too far into this I just think that if you had a non-edited conversation with these couples it'd be a lot easier to determine. Just an interesting thought.
aflyingspacerocket yeah like her touching his leg was cut short too
this was easy. usually when the girl seems more excited in a relationship, theyre not likely in love
she's too good for him
love is not enough to keep the relationship, it's always with love honesty and respect..
Too competitive. Both need to be right, that led to their demise. I haven't watched the end yet, but No they aren't still together.
3/4 correct. I wanted them to be together, but I could see the truth
A lot of people are like these nowdays and don't want to admit being wrong.
He's afraid of commitment, he's closed off except for the part when they say they're friends now. Then he relaxes. Poor girl, but she'll find the right one.
thats sad. I watched the video and I was hoping really badly that they'd still be together
She loves him, he's holding back for some reason. Body language and mannerisms give it away.
dbstewart86 i got the opposite vibe, like when they were talking about how they met, the guy had this ultra melancholic eyes and smile and avoided lookin at her in the eye as if it hurt him to remember
they should be together...
i love soul pancake for how they continuously melt my heart❤
I'M SO SAD
I knew something was wrong by the way his legs were facing away from her
My heart
Nwajoku I'm starting to think he changed his profile pic just for that comment.
Niggward you callin me a liar dirty dan?
Kweeb McDonohough No, sir.
I agree with him about the toilet lid
Haha maybe we should have included a poll about that... toilet lid up or down?
SoulPancake It has already been found in a study to be true that germs basically fly everywhere if you flush with the lid up. So there's truth to what the guy is saying. It's not just a preference or opinion.
there was so much restraint like there was a boundary they where trying not to cross. I think there might be some residual love there.
They are both so beautiful. His dimples are 😍
you're sick in the head
ACXIAO666 wtf?
Mah Hart, Mah Sol
They look so happy and comfortable with each other. I guess they still have the same feelings, when she said, 'it always comes out eventually'. Those words were so deep!
5:02 When you're friendzoned after being in a relationship..
the first few seconds, when he sat down, and his eye darted up, it seemed that he was thinking about whats to come, and you can feel the disconnect.
i knew once they had their legs crossed. if there is attraction, crossed legs often direct towards the person, and if they're away, they're not attracted. she was clearly in love and he was already gone. and when she uncrossed her legs at the end i think my heart broke. BODY LANGUAGE YALL
I knew they were not in love. They were disconnected; didn't touch, no eye contact, they didn't speak to each other but about each other.
Artists should never date each other! I repeat"ARTISTS SHOULD NEVER DATE ANOTHER ARTIST"!!!! It never works out. :/
That's mostly true but sometimes there are those unique relationships...
My parents are both artists...and they've been married for 20 years :)))
Just not true. I personally know numerous examples of successful artist relationships.
Rita Wilson and Tom Hanks are both artists and have been married for 20 years
Communication is the most important thing in a relationship
the energy is amazing, its a shame they are not together
i do not know why..but this one made me feel sad...love is not enough to work things out
He didn't acknowledge or confirm that she was his girlfriend when asked by a friend she did..Red flag! He's just not that into u you instead R into him . When a man's intrested in u and loves you he will shout it from the roof tops and will let anyone know you are his prize possession. You have to pay attention to the signs ladies!
there's suppressed ego that needs to be let go. but the lady is so much more honest about herself in the way she looks at him and analyzing her own self. i like her ability to do that.
The way they both sit next to each other shows that she feels more comfortable with him than he does with her.
I got this one wrong... they were sitting so close to each other and speaking so nicely about each other... well, you can't get them all.
I could tell straight away from the awkwardness in their body language at the beginning. Then they referred to things in the past tense. Good that their friends, and I hope is not a friendship born out of guilt, desperation or pity on either side.
the way their bodies talked when going to sit said it.
his eyes showed exactly what he was feeling..
When she cut the balloons, creative free spirits :)
My partner and I have had a relationship full of trials and tribulations. It would be quite interesting to do this experiment to see if people think we're still together or not!
he didn't look at her in the start when she was talking.. and then when she patted him on the leg, very big tells. Was right with this one.
The body language in the beginning as they sat down gave it away
I've guessed each one right omfg.
I HAVE THE SAME PET PEEVE ABOUT THE TOILET SEAT BEING DOWN. I am glad I'm not alone. xD
Love is not just an emotion but conceding, understanding your partner's likes and dislikes and making behavioural adjustments. There's no perfect partner. I bet you, in the next 5 or 10 years they'd still be searching!
Emotionally non connective but symbiotic- that was enough to tell that they will only be friends with each other but NOTHING more than that 😭😭😖😭😓😭
Beautiful story, I hope that if one day me and my boyfriend fall apart we will be able to come back together stronger as friends. Love it!!!
When you argue about the toilet seat is definitely over.. 🤣🤣
She's so beautiful her hair is EVERYTHING.....
I know it when she said "It always comes out eventually",... the word "eventually" can say that the relationship already ends. However, I still have the feeling that they are still together. However, feeling is not always true in this situation.
when they are flirty they are never together. when they are distant, they are together... "tricky"..
12 seconds in I knew they weren't together...and he's right about the toilet seat lid.:))
mainly from him. his body language having his legs crossed away from her and the way he smiled when they were talking about happier times.
I guessed correctly because it mirrored my only serious relationship. That instant, easy connection, but the inability to have those hard conversations. Even when that conversation is just "So where are we at?" At least they knew to let go sooner than I did.
The pat on the leg gave it away
I guessed correctly because of her body language towards him, when she rubbed his leg it was very cold and passive, there's no intimacy there anymore
Adore them both. Amazing energy.
They were talking in past tense the entire time so it clicked that they weren't together anymore
the pat on the leg was a dead giveaway
I think the body language gave it away. They just seemed distant from each other - him more so than her.
Whoa I'm surprised by their answer o_o
I'm guessing not because they look happy and but they aren't looking at each other.
I knew and I am so happy that they are such great friends. It's beautiful to watch ❤️
She could be Desi Perkins' sister!
I am him 100% omg lmao. The toilet seat thing kills me.
Her energy is really prevalent. His comes across, too, but maybe more subtle than hers, which is more overt, but not overpowering.
They both seem like wise, mature, considerate people. I'm a bit surprised to find out that they weren't better communicators in their relationship. However, I really respect their frankness. Maybe they were both too nervous, and the feelings were just so strong that in hindsight they realized they didn't communicate well. Perhaps at the time they thought they were doing well, or maybe they were just too unsure throughout the whole thing. Love makes us all batshit crazy! :-)
That toilet seat thing is a pet peeve of mine too lol
I guessed it correctly within 16 secs, just the way they sat next to each other.
If it was my partner , he would just fall on the sofa without making sure that I had enough room to sit.And thats how I guessed correctly.
Passionate people have a tendency to tell people what to do/think because, well, they're passionate. Just remember, don't tell your partner what to do/think, ask for or offer to help instead. 👍
Ha, I knew it! Wanna know how? Two things: One, when they first sat down they gave each other a bit too much space. Two, there was a moment when the guy was remembering something that happened to them and he visibly started to choke up like it really hurt him to think about it. That being said, I think that eventually they may get back together and stay together.
you could see it pained him. He was getting teary at 2 or three moments. I wouldn't be surprised if they talked and got back together later. I don't see this as the end of them romantically.
I totally agree with him in regards to the toilet seat😂 I hate when the toilet seat is left up. For the same reasons as he pointed out👍
so confused, don't think their story is over
I ALWAYS GET THEM WRONG. I was so sure I would be right this time. aw man
I don't think I've guessed right on one of these vids yet - no wonder I'm single lol
This is the dream...to have fluid conversations without having to explain yourself
I can't stand the toilet lid being left up. Put down my toilet lid! I agree with him.
He’s so cute. He looks Finnish or something. Or maybe mixed white/asian? He just has that kind of vibe - the eyes.
Funny he mentioned "The Good, The Bad, and The Ugly"... he kinda favors Lee Van Cleef.
She's so pretty💗💗 at first I was like hmm? He looked awkward through the whole video. She seemed so happy and comfortable around him and he just seemed so far away.
I'm heartbroken 😭.. they look amazing together..😭
i knew they werent the first minute cuz she said "it was so cute" then it kinda hit her and she said "dammit no it was not"
I knew from the start when they both sat down and he didn't put his arm around her lol
At first I was like no they aren't together but at the end when they were laughing the way they look at each other idk if they are fully over it.
got wrong twice. however, i agree with him about closing toilet's lid. you are there and just close the lid already!
Both seems to have that vibe we call charming & free!
Omg I also close the toilet lid every time I use the bathroom and this eventually made everyone have this habit in my family and my cousin thinks it's annoying whenever I go over her house 😅😅 Bc it's always closed when ever she comes over 😂
I knew that, their body language said that.
I really thought it was love the way they talked about how they met and so on awww
He reminds me a bit of Timothy Dalton